Pearl - April 28, 2026I Realized The Entire World Was Pandering to Me ｜ Divorce Doc is Here!
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Summary
In this episode, I talk about how I got my start in the entertainment industry, how I went from being a semi-pro volleyball player in the UK to starting one of the biggest YouTube shows in the U.S. in the early 2000s, and how I became the female Andrew Tate.
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What up guys, welcome to my coffee talks. Today I have a black coffee with half and half and sugar-free syrup. I also have a giant water.
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So a couple things. I realize there's a lot of new viewers that don't know my backstory.
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So for those of you that don't know, I was playing semi-pro volleyball in London when I started one of the biggest YouTube shows in the United States in 2023.
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So it was a live show where I debated women like six or seven days a week at one point,
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literally people running in and out of our apartment at the time.
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I would say like objectively, that was, you know, the peak of my career.
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And when I got demonetized, I really should have had a plan in place.
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but I did not. And I lost pretty much everything, you know, for two years, I basically had no
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income. And this was really unfortunate because my whole goal of the show was I wanted to make
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a documentary on divorce. So when I first got into media, I had very traditional right-wing
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conservative views. I was raised in a, maybe not traditional, but a Catholic area, right?
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and I really didn't understand why men didn't want to get married and so I started kind of
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looking into it and interviewing men that were victims of divorce rape which is essentially
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when a woman fleeces a man for everything he has puts him on absurd amounts of child support
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takes his children and the more I listen to like the men's stories in this the more I realized like
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a lot of the stories I heard growing up just were not true and interviewing these men um gave me a
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completely different perspective on my childhood like for example there was somebody in our town
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that his reputation was an alcoholic um who drank a lot right and I realized that he drank a lot
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because his wife stole his kids you know and it was just like a lot of little things like that
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where um at the time you kind of believe the woman because you think who would lie um about a man
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being abusive or a man being a bum or a man you know being xyz and then you get older and you're
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like oh she her right like that woman was lying um and it also doing this divorce documentary i
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realized how much more difficult um the world really is for men so um i i sort of realized my
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whole life was a lie. Um, so I grew up, um, I had two married parents and I, for those of you that
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have watched me for a while, I adore my father, um, my dad. He told me I got to stop talking about
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him on this show because he doesn't like the attention, but he's really cool. Just a small
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part of the story. Um, and one of my favorite memories of my dad growing up, I'm like, dad,
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how am i how am i supposed to not include this in the story you've made my life i'm like you are the
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most impactful person on my life up to a certain day anyways um my dad always taught me to work
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hard and he would you know there was a time where i was like crying because i couldn't figure out
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how to do math or some bullshit women cry right and um my dad told me when i was young he said
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you work hard uh hannah my first name's hannah for those of you that don't know um he said you're a
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hard worker you work really hard and um I promise you I would take an employee because he owned a
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big software company that works hard I'm over a talented employee and every day and in my life
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um this really panned out for me like this kind of stuck in the middle of my head or in my head
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and I've always been kind of odd like I've always been kind of weird so I never um I would say had
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a traditional like social life because I was always kind of more interested in whatever I was
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doing you know um there's pros and cons to that I can go into that in a different video but
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um so I was really into athletics so when everyone else did one sport I did two sports
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and I anyone that played with me back then could attest that I worked incredibly hard
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and um for a woman and so I started on the bottom team of my club I worked my way up to the top team
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I was on the third team and I worked my way up by my senior year to the first.
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I'm not going to go into all the areas of my life that this applied, but just in a lot
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of places, I started off not so great and I ended up pretty good.
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And it was the same thing with my YouTube channel, right?
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And in a year, I, you know, in my head, I worked hard and I had one of the biggest shows
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and in my head and it's very difficult to not believe this it was because of my work ethic and
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I'm just this talented amazing person however it was pointed out to me that I was only famous
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because I was a woman or and I'd only been in this position because I was a woman
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and when I first heard this it was offensive I'm not gonna I was offended because in my head I
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I didn't work for any of these big companies.
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A lot of the stuff that the other girls take for granted,
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like when Brett Cooper crashed out on the Daily Wire,
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another right-wing e-girl worked for the Daily Wire
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I had to take the risk of, like, paying people.
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Sometimes that blew up in my, you know, blah, blah, blah.
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but in my head it was all because I worked hard but then I would meet like um for example I use
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this guy Terrence in the industry he's going to be in the documentary um Terrence is a 30-year
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veteran I would say he's funnier than me he knows the issues better than me um he helps me prep for
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debates all the time and he's absolutely a better debate like and I realized um that I'm in this
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position because I'm a woman right it's not because of my work ethic or whatever it's because
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to some degree even though I might not be uh like I don't dress naked or post nudes or anything
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crazy still to some degree um young women draw more attention and that's just the way the world
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it's not my fault I can't help it but I really am in the position I'm in because I'm a woman
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and it was the same thing in my athletic career um I was really proud I had a lot of pride in
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my accomplishments so I was really proud of you know um the like athletic achievements I'd had
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like we went to state and all this meant like a lot to me and you start to realize like doing
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this documentary and getting more insight into the life of men made me realize um sorry you guys
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are probably thinking how what does this have to do with the doc pearl it made me realize that oh
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wow i am a dei hire and women everywhere are pretty much dei hires because we think our work
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is equal to men's it made me reevaluate you know my brothers growing up um i went further in my
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athletic career, meaning I played in college. Even though looking back, my brothers are more
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athletic than me, both of them. I mean, they're both like my one brother, I forgot what his,
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he does. He's so funny. I sent him that video of the teacher who won the LA marathon. And I just
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said, that's like something you would do. And so I'm competing in the world of women. They're
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competing in the world of men. And I'm thinking that I'm the athletic one in the family because
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I made it further in the world of women. And when I was talking about this experience,
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this actually got me demonetized on YouTube one of the times. The way it works is when,
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so I ended up making a bunch of money, having a big show, and then having it all taken essentially
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because they kicked me off of everything, et cetera. This was actually a very good experience
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for me because, um, it humbled me a lot. So that, that was, you know, um, so anyways,
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when it made me look back and realize that essentially, um, the world of men is much
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harder. A lot of my accomplishments were really just cause I'm a woman and I'm kind of in this
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play pretend world where white men, uh, um, really are running it. I've kind of talked about this
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before white men are doing every, and you know, you just start to notice how much easier men make
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your life. You know, they do a lot of things that you don't really like notice. Um,
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so I'm trying to make this documentary. I get demonetized. I made a mistake of hiring an
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editor that just didn't have enough experience he was a good editor but he didn't have enough
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experience in documentaries wasted money there it was a whole thing all of the while I'm like
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dwindling on the income um and I had to move home I had to fire 100% of my staff but I still had
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this documentary in the back of my head because I'm just thinking um I really want to put out a
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movie that talks about marriage and just that highlights the horrors I've seen a lot of these
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men go through um because I went from wondering like why don't men want to get married you know
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um we should be getting proposals left and right to saying oh shit um I would never get married if
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I was a guy because um I see you know I've kind of seen every horror story um in the book I've
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seen men you know marry trad wife virgins that screwed them over um i've seen men marry orthodox
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catholics who screw them over um i also had to relook at all the things from when i was younger
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and kind of you kind of look in hindsight and realize how bad like some of the wives were like
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just how many women where i grew up would just humiliate their husbands on facebook you don't
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really think about it you know um but because it's just so normal right but you just look back
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and just see like the subtle disrespect how all the jokes like made at their husband's expense
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you're like damn these women are are terrible wives awful um and it's partially the husband's
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fault right like if you don't correct your wife ever uh you can't be shocked when you know she
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becomes a terrorist and you're not willing to leave right can't be shocked that she is an
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emotional terrorist um but so the concept of this documentary is called what's in it for men
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um terence pop i don't know what i'm going to call him because he he's been so helpful on this
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executive producer or something he's working on it too he's going to be a subject and we're going
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to all um facets of society and just asking what do men get out of marriage and nobody really has
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an answer um just um i don't have an answer so it's gonna be cool and i think we're gonna be
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done with it by august the schedule has so right now we're doing like um two weeks to filming so
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i'm only doing coffee talks and then i really am thinking of putting it out on valentine's day or
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mother's day just because i think it would be funny um and a lot of people said pearl do you
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expect the system of marriage to change my answer is no i don't um because it's just too expensive
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um the all of society is just built um for women to rule unfortunately my hope is actually for the
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kids. What I hope this can do, this film, is that daughters I have seen are the most affected by
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women's words. And there's a lot of daughters that have been turned against their father when
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they're young. My parents were together and even my mom did this to me, right? So I think it's
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really sad that a lot of daughters don't get the chance to reconnect with their dads. And my hope
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they're not these monsters that the mothers see.
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and say, I'm gonna take down the whole court system.
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You know, my hope is that more daughters can wake up and reconnect with their fathers because I think it's I've just met so many women over the years that just have no idea that they're like they've never asked their dad for their side of the story.
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and I'm really hoping that, um, maybe they'll see this film and they'll change their mind about
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their dads because, um, there's like nothing, there's nothing like better than a life like
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where you have a good relationship with your dad. So anyways, all right, guys, um, thank you so much
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for supporting me the last few years. Um, I'm just so happy that this documentary is finally
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happening. Um, I've really been trying to do it since 2023, but these things are so expensive.
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Um, so it, the next two weeks we're doing, um, the father interviews, a few experts,
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then we might try some undercover stuff. We'll see. We'll see. I don't know if I should say that,
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but whatever um and yeah i'm thinking valentine's day next year i think and we can run trailers from
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august until valentine's day or mother's day i don't know if you guys want to wait that long
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or or you never know christmas day because that's when i released my andrew tate interview
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um in 2023 so oh maybe christmas i don't know but put it in the comments what you think
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like the video, subscribe, and I'll see you next time.