Pearl - I Realized The Entire World Was Pandering to Me ｜ Divorce Doc is Here!

00:00:00.160 What up guys, welcome to my coffee talks. Today I have a black coffee with half and half and sugar-free syrup. I also have a giant water.

00:00:10.280 So a couple things. I realize there's a lot of new viewers that don't know my backstory.

00:00:16.700 So for those of you that don't know, I was playing semi-pro volleyball in London when I started one of the biggest YouTube shows in the United States in 2023.

00:00:26.900 So it was a live show where I debated women like six or seven days a week at one point,

00:00:33.420 literally people running in and out of our apartment at the time.

00:00:37.580 It was crazy.

00:00:38.680 And this channel got huge.

00:00:40.920 It got a billion views.

00:00:41.940 I went on all these shows.

00:00:42.940 I became the female Andrew Tate.

00:00:44.440 I would say like objectively, that was, you know, the peak of my career.

00:00:48.360 And then I got demonetized.

00:00:50.460 And when I got demonetized, I really should have had a plan in place.

00:00:56.680 but I did not. And I lost pretty much everything, you know, for two years, I basically had no

00:01:03.080 income. And this was really unfortunate because my whole goal of the show was I wanted to make

00:01:08.980 a documentary on divorce. So when I first got into media, I had very traditional right-wing

00:01:14.960 conservative views. I was raised in a, maybe not traditional, but a Catholic area, right?

00:01:20.580 and I really didn't understand why men didn't want to get married and so I started kind of

00:01:29.340 looking into it and interviewing men that were victims of divorce rape which is essentially

00:01:34.000 when a woman fleeces a man for everything he has puts him on absurd amounts of child support

00:01:40.420 takes his children and the more I listen to like the men's stories in this the more I realized like

00:01:47.000 a lot of the stories I heard growing up just were not true and interviewing these men um gave me a

00:01:54.080 completely different perspective on my childhood like for example there was somebody in our town

00:01:59.860 that his reputation was an alcoholic um who drank a lot right and I realized that he drank a lot

00:02:11.440 because his wife stole his kids you know and it was just like a lot of little things like that

00:02:15.820 where um at the time you kind of believe the woman because you think who would lie um about a man

00:02:22.120 being abusive or a man being a bum or a man you know being xyz and then you get older and you're

00:02:27.260 like oh she her right like that woman was lying um and it also doing this divorce documentary i

00:02:35.600 realized how much more difficult um the world really is for men so um i i sort of realized my

00:02:44.580 whole life was a lie. Um, so I grew up, um, I had two married parents and I, for those of you that

00:02:53.120 have watched me for a while, I adore my father, um, my dad. He told me I got to stop talking about

00:02:57.740 him on this show because he doesn't like the attention, but he's really cool. Just a small

00:03:03.040 part of the story. Um, and one of my favorite memories of my dad growing up, I'm like, dad,

00:03:10.400 how am i how am i supposed to not include this in the story you've made my life i'm like you are the

00:03:15.460 most impactful person on my life up to a certain day anyways um my dad always taught me to work

00:03:22.760 hard and he would you know there was a time where i was like crying because i couldn't figure out

00:03:27.420 how to do math or some bullshit women cry right and um my dad told me when i was young he said 0.77

00:03:34.700 you work hard uh hannah my first name's hannah for those of you that don't know um he said you're a 1.00

00:03:39.720 hard worker you work really hard and um I promise you I would take an employee because he owned a

00:03:46.080 big software company that works hard I'm over a talented employee and every day and in my life

00:03:52.320 um this really panned out for me like this kind of stuck in the middle of my head or in my head

00:03:57.260 and I've always been kind of odd like I've always been kind of weird so I never um I would say had

00:04:02.540 a traditional like social life because I was always kind of more interested in whatever I was

00:04:06.680 doing you know um there's pros and cons to that I can go into that in a different video but

00:04:11.860 um so I was really into athletics so when everyone else did one sport I did two sports

00:04:19.600 and I anyone that played with me back then could attest that I worked incredibly hard

00:04:25.320 and um for a woman and so I started on the bottom team of my club I worked my way up to the top team

00:04:32.800 I was on the third team and I worked my way up by my senior year to the first.

00:04:37.600 I'm not going to go into all the areas of my life that this applied, but just in a lot

00:04:41.760 of places, I started off not so great and I ended up pretty good.

00:04:48.160 And that was just the experience of my life.

00:04:49.960 And it was the same thing with my YouTube channel, right?

00:04:53.000 I had no subscribers.

00:04:54.600 And in a year, I, you know, in my head, I worked hard and I had one of the biggest shows

00:04:58.940 in the country, you know?

00:05:00.340 and in my head and it's very difficult to not believe this it was because of my work ethic and

00:05:08.260 I'm just this talented amazing person however it was pointed out to me that I was only famous

00:05:17.160 because I was a woman or and I'd only been in this position because I was a woman

00:05:21.360 and when I first heard this it was offensive I'm not gonna I was offended because in my head I

00:05:27.760 I didn't have management.

00:05:29.040 I didn't work for any of these big companies. 1.00

00:05:31.220 A lot of the stuff that the other girls take for granted,

00:05:34.480 like when Brett Cooper crashed out on the Daily Wire,

00:05:36.740 for those of you that don't know, 0.94

00:05:37.560 another right-wing e-girl worked for the Daily Wire 0.99

00:05:40.100 and got famous that way.

00:05:43.160 I looked at her and I was just thinking,

00:05:45.040 like, I had to learn to edit myself.

00:05:46.500 I had to learn to do X, Y, and Z.

00:05:49.680 Or I had to find people.

00:05:50.980 I had to take the risk of, like, paying people.

00:05:53.560 Sometimes that blew up in my, you know, blah, blah, blah.

00:05:56.200 Who cares, right?

00:05:56.820 but in my head it was all because I worked hard but then I would meet like um for example I use

00:06:04.780 this guy Terrence in the industry he's going to be in the documentary um Terrence is a 30-year

00:06:12.080 veteran I would say he's funnier than me he knows the issues better than me um he helps me prep for

00:06:18.200 debates all the time and he's absolutely a better debate like and I realized um that I'm in this

00:06:27.140 position because I'm a woman right it's not because of my work ethic or whatever it's because

00:06:33.220 to some degree even though I might not be uh like I don't dress naked or post nudes or anything

00:06:40.640 crazy still to some degree um young women draw more attention and that's just the way the world

00:06:48.060 it's not my fault I can't help it but I really am in the position I'm in because I'm a woman

00:06:53.880 and it was the same thing in my athletic career um I was really proud I had a lot of pride in

00:07:00.060 my accomplishments so I was really proud of you know um the like athletic achievements I'd had

00:07:10.380 like we went to state and all this meant like a lot to me and you start to realize like doing

00:07:15.260 this documentary and getting more insight into the life of men made me realize um sorry you guys

00:07:22.080 are probably thinking how what does this have to do with the doc pearl it made me realize that oh

00:07:26.880 wow i am a dei hire and women everywhere are pretty much dei hires because we think our work

00:07:34.160 is equal to men's it made me reevaluate you know my brothers growing up um i went further in my

00:07:41.840 athletic career, meaning I played in college. Even though looking back, my brothers are more

00:07:48.700 athletic than me, both of them. I mean, they're both like my one brother, I forgot what his,

00:07:55.440 he does. He's so funny. I sent him that video of the teacher who won the LA marathon. And I just

00:08:03.100 said, that's like something you would do. And so I'm competing in the world of women. They're 1.00

00:08:08.560 competing in the world of men. And I'm thinking that I'm the athletic one in the family because

00:08:14.200 I made it further in the world of women. And when I was talking about this experience,

00:08:19.820 this actually got me demonetized on YouTube one of the times. The way it works is when,

00:08:24.900 so I ended up making a bunch of money, having a big show, and then having it all taken essentially

00:08:31.800 because they kicked me off of everything, et cetera. This was actually a very good experience

00:08:37.680 for me because, um, it humbled me a lot. So that, that was, you know, um, so anyways,

00:08:49.540 when it made me look back and realize that essentially, um, the world of men is much

00:09:00.260 harder. A lot of my accomplishments were really just cause I'm a woman and I'm kind of in this

00:09:06.660 play pretend world where white men, uh, um, really are running it. I've kind of talked about this

00:09:13.880 before white men are doing every, and you know, you just start to notice how much easier men make

00:09:19.060 your life. You know, they do a lot of things that you don't really like notice. Um,

00:09:24.100 so I'm trying to make this documentary. I get demonetized. I made a mistake of hiring an

00:09:33.780 editor that just didn't have enough experience he was a good editor but he didn't have enough

00:09:38.400 experience in documentaries wasted money there it was a whole thing all of the while I'm like

00:09:45.140 dwindling on the income um and I had to move home I had to fire 100% of my staff but I still had

00:09:54.280 this documentary in the back of my head because I'm just thinking um I really want to put out a

00:10:00.860 movie that talks about marriage and just that highlights the horrors I've seen a lot of these

00:10:07.860 men go through um because I went from wondering like why don't men want to get married you know 0.98

00:10:12.420 um we should be getting proposals left and right to saying oh shit um I would never get married if 0.92

00:10:19.540 I was a guy because um I see you know I've kind of seen every horror story um in the book I've 0.99

00:10:30.600 seen men you know marry trad wife virgins that screwed them over um i've seen men marry orthodox 0.63

00:10:37.020 catholics who screw them over um i also had to relook at all the things from when i was younger

00:10:43.940 and kind of you kind of look in hindsight and realize how bad like some of the wives were like 0.83

00:10:51.200 just how many women where i grew up would just humiliate their husbands on facebook you don't

00:10:56.000 really think about it you know um but because it's just so normal right but you just look back

00:11:04.380 and just see like the subtle disrespect how all the jokes like made at their husband's expense 1.00

00:11:09.740 you're like damn these women are are terrible wives awful um and it's partially the husband's 1.00

00:11:17.520 fault right like if you don't correct your wife ever uh you can't be shocked when you know she 1.00

00:11:24.020 becomes a terrorist and you're not willing to leave right can't be shocked that she is an

00:11:29.460 emotional terrorist um but so the concept of this documentary is called what's in it for men

00:11:37.740 um terence pop i don't know what i'm going to call him because he he's been so helpful on this

00:11:43.980 executive producer or something he's working on it too he's going to be a subject and we're going

00:11:49.700 to all um facets of society and just asking what do men get out of marriage and nobody really has

00:11:56.920 an answer um just um i don't have an answer so it's gonna be cool and i think we're gonna be

00:12:06.020 done with it by august the schedule has so right now we're doing like um two weeks to filming so

00:12:11.140 i'm only doing coffee talks and then i really am thinking of putting it out on valentine's day or

00:12:18.700 mother's day just because i think it would be funny um and a lot of people said pearl do you

00:12:24.680 expect the system of marriage to change my answer is no i don't um because it's just too expensive 0.85

00:12:31.660 um the all of society is just built um for women to rule unfortunately my hope is actually for the 0.61

00:12:41.300 kids. What I hope this can do, this film, is that daughters I have seen are the most affected by 1.00

00:12:50.920 women's words. And there's a lot of daughters that have been turned against their father when

00:12:55.640 they're young. My parents were together and even my mom did this to me, right? So I think it's

00:13:02.100 really sad that a lot of daughters don't get the chance to reconnect with their dads. And my hope

00:13:08.640 is actually that this film wakes up the kids

00:13:11.840 to realize their moms are the manipulators.

00:13:14.900 And a lot of times the dads are,

00:13:17.560 I'm not saying they're all saints,

00:13:19.980 but my father is.

00:13:22.100 But while they may be flawed people,

00:13:25.640 they're not these monsters that the mothers see.

00:13:28.420 So that's really my goal with the film.

00:13:30.680 I really wish I could sell you guys a dream

00:13:32.800 and say, I'm gonna take down the whole court system. 0.83

00:13:35.060 I'll try, but I'm just a woman.

00:13:38.640 You know, my hope is that more daughters can wake up and reconnect with their fathers because I think it's I've just met so many women over the years that just have no idea that they're like they've never asked their dad for their side of the story.

00:13:55.860 and I'm really hoping that, um, maybe they'll see this film and they'll change their mind about

00:14:02.720 their dads because, um, there's like nothing, there's nothing like better than a life like

00:14:15.040 where you have a good relationship with your dad. So anyways, all right, guys, um, thank you so much

00:14:20.740 for supporting me the last few years. Um, I'm just so happy that this documentary is finally

00:14:25.900 happening. Um, I've really been trying to do it since 2023, but these things are so expensive.

00:14:32.880 Um, so it, the next two weeks we're doing, um, the father interviews, a few experts,

00:14:41.800 then we might try some undercover stuff. We'll see. We'll see. I don't know if I should say that,

00:14:46.520 but whatever um and yeah i'm thinking valentine's day next year i think and we can run trailers from

00:14:56.840 august until valentine's day or mother's day i don't know if you guys want to wait that long

00:15:01.980 or or you never know christmas day because that's when i released my andrew tate interview

00:15:08.180 um in 2023 so oh maybe christmas i don't know but put it in the comments what you think

00:15:16.020 like the video, subscribe, and I'll see you next time.

Pearl - April 28, 2026

I Realized The Entire World Was Pandering to Me ｜ Divorce Doc is Here!

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