Pearl - May 16, 2026Is Karma Real？ ｜ Bad Decisions Catch Up To People
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In this episode, I talk about karma and how it can catch up to you at some point in your life. Do you think karma is real? What are the consequences of cheating, lying, etc.?
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What up guys, welcome to my coffee talks. Today I have a Fairlife protein shake because I'm trying
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to get 150 grams of protein. These things are actually really good, so if anyone cares. I've
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done a lot of protein drinks. These are the best ones, like by far. Anyways, I usually do them at
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the end of the day if I'm just like a little short, like 20 grams. It's like cool. All right,
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so today i want to talk about if i think karma is real because i kind of go back and forth with it
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right because i have seen people do like messed up things right like in particular when you're a
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woman um for example i know a woman that cheated on her boyfriend a ton when we were in school
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and they're still together to this day right they're still together still kicking it and you
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think well she cheated a bunch and there's no consequence um another example i think of is
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larry uh some big bodybuilder right um there was some woman that was beautiful and was his wife and
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he gave her a bunch of money all this stuff and then decided now to divorce him and start an only
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fans and like on paper um like why be good when you treat bad women like that like what is what
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is the incentive here right it's frustrating and I think in life um that's kind of a lot of it it's
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like watching people that do like really lazy get promoted and etc etc and there's two schools of
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thought I'm kind of playing with and I'm really curious because a lot of you guys are older than
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me and have more life experience so I'm curious your thoughts and if you've seen the same it seems
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like um people can fool people for like a two-year period maybe up to three or four if they're really
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good but it seems like when people have bad habits they at some point will catch up to them like for
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example I talk a lot about my food addiction and I've had a food addiction for as long as I can
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remember like I remember eating cookies when I was like 13 or 14 um and I just couldn't like I just
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was always really bad I always had a really big hunger but I was never that fat because I played
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sports so I would burn like a bajillion calories a day so I never addressed the problem and I would
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just kick it down the road and actually I think part of me rejoining sports in my mid-20s like
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competitive sports was because I just couldn't overcome this food addiction I was getting fat
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again I'm like I can't get fat I'll just join another I'll spend another two years of my life
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And I've spent so much time in the gym and it wasn't until recently, um, where I just
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Spending a million hours like in the gym a day is too exhausting.
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I need to fix this problem and I need to like do it right.
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I need to get my protein or I need to just solve this problem.
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Um, I think for me, this is just, you know, everyone's got stuff they're weak to.
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i think it's partially why i'm so into sports it's because i just gluttony or whatever that
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sin is is something that calls me you know what i mean it's something that
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so now someone could look at me when i was younger um i was i don't know i think i was
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like 155 pounds um 150 pounds six feet in high school and i was really thin because i played
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all these sports and they could look at me and say it's not fair she just eats whatever she wants
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and it looked like then I was getting away with it but now it's a decade later and it's still an
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issue for me right um and I think that's just lying in general at some point for the most part
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it does catch up to people like if a man's not honest with his wife and he's constantly simping
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at some point the pain of his wife like berating him all the time is going to get to him and he's
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either going to crash out or he's just going to be tortured by her forever. Um, now the one
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exception, and I'm curious in my life, I really haven't seen players like publicly, um, really
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have consequences that bad. Um, maybe like Weinstein, but I see it more with men that
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use their money to get women charming men I see less consequences for however even with that
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exception I think that's like the female brain whenever we hear a statement we just think of
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the exception so women right so but it still seems like even that at some point is going to catch up
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to them. Like, I don't really think you can cheat on your wife forever. Um, and especially now that
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phones are everywhere without like one of the girls crashing out or it kind of coming back to
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bite you in the butt. You know what I mean? Uh, your wife might forgive you, but I think the amount
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of emotional turmoil, um, she could put you through may be a consequence, but I don't know.
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you know i don't know um and it's the same thing with the wolf of wall street like um the wolf of
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wall street guy it might look like he had no consequence when he was like making all that
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money and he was like on the cover of you know the magazines or whatever um until at some point
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he was caught same thing with sarah stock it may seem like no consequence when she's engaged right
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cheating on her fiance with her boss and then you know she's humiliated on the internet in front of
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everyone so i don't know if this makes sense and i think this is just a higher level i think that
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no one can really hurt you and if you allow someone to hurt you it says more about you than
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them because it means you're taking their struggle with the sin personal right um when a lot of times
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it's just something like they're going through and what i've noticed is when you're really on
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someone's um team right like i saw this interview of a woman whose husband ex-husband cheated on her
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and the interviewer was saying like oh well your ex-husband he cheated how could you be with him
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shorter and she just said so what he's a good guy yeah it was devastating but so what it's
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someone's on your team when they're less judgmental it's like they accept you with your
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flaws like i have a relative that i love dearly and i know he's a little bit wild like he's just
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always been a wild he's always been a wild child you know and i know he can be a dick but i know
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he means like i know him i love him i love him to death uh and i'm sure there's negative traits
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he'd say about me but there's nothing he could really do that i would take personal like if he's
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ever an ass i just never take it personal because i know that's how he is and he means what like i
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know it i just and i'm on his team that makes sense are we following are we following each other
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you know anyways um and I think when there's been times in my life where I have been really hurt
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usually I wanted there was just a part of me that wanted to be a victim for whatever reason
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I wanted to be a victim and I wanted to take somebody's behavior personal an example I'm
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thinking of is I had an ex-friend um I've actually had multiple ex-friends try to air me out online
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and it's a really like invasion of privacy when someone that knew you so well starts like making
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video you know I've had this happen so many times right where you know people that I thought were my
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friends start making videos and it's just how could I not for me my mistake was taking that
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personal because you know one of the people that did that is like on SSRIs fat you know
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they're just not going in a great place in life another friend like kissed guy you know so there
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were times where people's decisions I took like personally when it had nothing to do with me
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and in situations where I've been the villain um
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you know i don't think i ever thought about the other person like it was me
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being selfish and thinking about what i wanted like it had nothing
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to do with them and i don't know i think there's gotta be and i'm i'm not a bible person i don't
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know, but it seems like, I wonder if there's some biblical like passage that's against
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painting yourself as a victim because it's so easy to, it's, it's, you know, it's really
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easy to I think your mind naturally just wants to say poor me and I don't know I listen to Jesse
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Lee Peterson sometimes he says that's like demons in you I don't know if it's demons
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I don't like blaming it on a demon you know maybe I'm the demon you know but it's like
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Like if you take something someone does to you personal, it's almost like you are just as bad
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as them because you want to be a victim when their stuff has nothing to do with you.
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It might be painful, but it's their problem. Like if someone's trying to rip you off,
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that's their problem not yours um my friends were disloyal towards me that's really their problem
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it's not it's got nothing to do with me um when you're younger especially as a young woman
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so many times you hear about like women that have talked behind your back and you're you know your
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initial answer is oh poor me poor me but come on let's be real it's not like we've ever not
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talked behind someone's back I think everyone's done that at some point so
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it's easy to judge them but I think it's easier like
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it's easy to judge them but really you're just as evil if you're honest with yourself and
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their sin or whatever has nothing to do with you um nobody's out to get you
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their sin has to do with it's the same thing with like family court right the woman is destroying
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you but it has nothing to do with you it's her I mean you might have simped right you might have
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I mean that that may have happened but even if you simped right her animosity and hatred towards
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you like it's not personal women hate everything we hate our kids we hate ourselves we hate each
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other we hate you like it's just it's not it's nothing to do with you um and jesus you know
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i'm not that religious but i think the point of like jesus dying on the cross and i i believe he
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said something along the lines of father forgive them the whole point is that he forgave them
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because he knew they're killing me and it has nothing to do with me i mean he's jesus christ
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himself and that's the point of jesus christ himself couldn't get loyalty from people why
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would you expect it? I think that, I think that should be the point of the Bible. Like the whole
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Bible is Jesus Christ himself could not get loyalty from people. You're not going to get it.
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So anyways, second coffee talk in the day of the day. Sometimes I'm on a roll. So I do two of these.
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I love you guys. Thanks for watching. I'll see you next time.