Pearl - Is Men Walking Away From Aggressive People Smart or Weak？

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00:00:28.700 Give them a kiss, kiss each other.

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00:01:19.800 well i'm trying to get a drink sir for a door to ash okay well i'm trying to wait

00:01:23.240 for my order doesn't mean i'll keep walking in front of me i understand it but i'm just

00:01:26.840 wanting to ask a question don't get aggressive about it you're gonna punch in the face

00:01:35.560 i might you know what oh so just because there's a camera here you're not gonna do it

00:01:40.120 dude just get the out of my face dude i'm just trying to do my job right now

00:01:46.360 go ahead go ahead dude i got good insurance come on huh i got good insurance let's go

00:01:51.240 Yeah, but all I'm trying to do is just do my job

00:01:56.320 Won't do it. You turn your fucking camera off little boy. Oh, you won. Oh, you won my camera. No turn you a little girl

00:02:02.180 I know turn your little boy camera. Oh turn your little boy camera. Oh, no

00:02:08.560 Take your helmet off. Oh, let's go. What's your fucking? You want to get my face?

00:02:14.740 All I'm trying to do is my dad to fuck out of my face right now

00:02:21.240 Chill out, man. This is a public place.

00:02:23.280 This is a public place, man.

00:02:24.660 You saw that, right?

00:02:26.300 He was here before you.

00:02:27.780 Yes, he was. He was over there back in his bag.

00:02:30.480 He got door dashed in his bag.

00:02:32.080 Yeah.

00:02:32.600 I can't stand here for a minute.

00:02:33.980 Don't just expect nobody like that.

00:02:35.320 Don't do that.

00:02:37.540 You a grown-ass man, man.

00:02:39.020 This is a little kid.

00:02:39.820 You can see his eyes up under there.

00:02:41.520 Just chill out, man.

00:02:43.180 Chill out. You don't do stuff like that in public, man.

00:02:45.480 I'll try and do this as good, man.

00:02:46.520 You don't do the people that you with.

00:02:51.240 what is wait wait wait all right what is up guys welcome to another episode of pearl daily

00:03:06.160 here on the audacity network so i first want to say thank you guys for tuning in

00:03:12.020 um really i couldn't do what i do without you um i thank you guys for the support

00:03:21.020 and tuning in. So today, I really started to think about aggression and just what it means

00:03:33.360 to be aggressive. All right, so the definition of aggression is hostile or violent behavior

00:03:41.800 or attitudes towards one another, readiness to attack or confront. And what really got me

00:03:49.740 thinking about this topic is thinking about white christian men and really the overall attack on

00:03:57.040 white christian men i would say the last 50 years i mean white christian men they've been shamed

00:04:02.700 white christian men um they've been told they're not good enough they've been told they're the root

00:04:08.000 of all evil they've been told that they're privileged that the only reason they have

00:04:12.260 accomplished whatever they have accomplished in life is because of being a white christian male

00:04:18.160 and this really got me thinking about the death of charlie kirk um and just how depraved people

00:04:28.120 have been over his death i mean um this is a father a husband that got shot and publicly

00:04:36.400 executed in front of the entire world i mean our most depraved evil criminals do not get public

00:04:44.140 executions. And this guy, who is a white Christian male, who didn't even swear, he like barely swore.

00:04:51.140 I've never, I don't think I've ever heard him swear in all this content.

00:04:55.740 And that's really the state of the world. And it got me thinking, not just about, you know,

00:05:04.000 the leftists and the evil people that are celebrating his death, but about aggression

00:05:09.600 in general. And sometimes I think that the reason that white Christian males don't,

00:05:17.580 they almost take the most heat is because they freak out the least and will fight back the

00:05:23.840 least, probably because they're busy working. But let's even take it with women. Now I've spoken

00:05:29.700 on the show about how women, we have a tendency, and I think I should do a disclaimer actually

00:05:36.220 before i keep going because i don't want to stay monetized on youtube all right the disclaimer um

00:05:42.620 this is not all white men this is not all men this is not all women we speak in generalities

00:05:47.020 on this channel but we do know exceptions exist exceptions do exist these are serious topics and

00:05:51.980 if you've seen something different you're welcome to share your experience this show is based on my

00:05:55.500 personal experience and there is comedic elements involved so not everything is 100 serious i gotta

00:06:02.300 do that now. So I just, you know, I kind of had to go back to, it almost seems like the reason

00:06:13.600 that white Christian males get so much heat is because, you know, just from what I know about

00:06:19.960 conservative white Christian men, I grew up around a lot of them. The stereotypical conservative

00:06:26.940 white christian men man does not fight and he certainly does not fight back now what do i mean

00:06:33.500 by that you know again i grew up going to catholic school um i would say most of my life my before

00:06:40.300 eighth grade high school and even in college most of the people i knew were some sort of christian

00:06:46.220 conservative um and right-leaning i would say it was more i remember we had a a vote in middle

00:06:52.540 school for if Obama should be the president and Mitt Romney won. Not that it matters, but like,

00:06:59.100 because you're in middle school, but you get the sentiment. Most of the kids were voting for their

00:07:02.960 parents. So it really got me thinking about the plight of the white Christian male. Now I remember

00:07:17.040 when I got into college or maybe it was post-college and I got into a conversation with

00:07:21.820 somebody. And I said that I personally, I have never seen a fight. I've never seen it in my life.

00:07:28.980 I have never seen two people like go at it. And I, you know, I talked to somebody that was from,

00:07:36.180 I would say maybe a less Christian background, a more urban, I guess you could say. And this

00:07:43.000 person could not believe that I'd never seen a fight in my life. And I just said, that's not

00:07:47.420 really normal. In most white conservative Christian communities, that's just not how

00:07:52.140 we do things. We don't throw fit. I mean, I literally, in my middle school, high school

00:07:57.980 experience, I cannot think of one. I'm not saying it didn't happen. I'm just saying if it did,

00:08:05.960 I was not there. I wasn't. And what I would say is more of the norm for white conservative

00:08:15.340 Christian men is to walk away. And if somebody's getting aggressive, really,

00:08:21.360 you could argue that it's, maybe they have no choice. I don't know.

00:08:28.880 But it makes me question, is the reason that, you know, they become the punching bag because

00:08:36.400 they're too busy or don't have the time to fight? And I'll watch these, these,

00:08:41.760 and I took it to the streets today, but it just seems like this is not going to upload. So I don't

00:08:50.020 know. Maybe we'll play it later. Cause I thought it'd be fun to go on the streets, get the

00:08:54.540 interview. That's why I'm a little late. So I'm on the streets, I get the interviews and then I come

00:08:58.060 back. Charlie was basically crucified. It's totally true. Unless it's life

00:09:11.740 threatening, imminent threat. It's different. And look, I as a woman, I cannot understand the

00:09:18.700 threat of violence. I will personally never understand it. So I want to be clear. There

00:09:24.060 are times when I do this show and I really don't come in with an agenda. There are times where I

00:09:28.480 say like, women shouldn't vote. I can't say that anymore. Where there are times where I say women

00:09:36.520 You know, there are times when I mean what I say,

00:09:41.240 but there's also times when I don't understand the aggression of the man.

00:09:45.020 So I'll go through, read the men who want to be left alone.

00:09:49.740 Can it be read in an article or is this longer?

00:09:53.080 I mean, it depends how long will it take.

00:09:55.680 The men who want to be left alone, quote, I'll do quote, let's see.

00:10:01.100 the most terrifying force of death comes from the men who wanted to be left alone they try so very

00:10:11.760 hard to mind their own business and provide for themselves and those that they love they resist

00:10:16.660 every impulse to fight back knowing the forced and permanent change of life that will come from

00:10:22.820 it they know that the moment they fight back their lives as they have lived them are over

00:10:30.320 The moment men who wanted to be left alone are forced to fight back, it's a form of suicide.

00:10:34.540 They're literally killing off who they used to be, which is why when forced to take a violence,

00:10:38.540 these men who wanted to be left alone fight an unholy vengeance against those who murdered their former lives.

00:10:45.240 They fight with raw hate and a drive that cannot be fathomed by those who are a merely play, acting, politics, and terror.

00:10:52.880 True terror will arrive at these people's door, and they will cry and beg for mercy.

00:10:56.300 and it will fall upon deaf ears of the men who wanted to be left alone and you know i see this

00:11:02.000 and i hate to say this but i see this with the men who end up you know killing their whole families

00:11:07.600 now i'd like to say i disavow any violence it is completely wrong no man should shoot up anything

00:11:13.000 or anybody but it's almost like these men they just wanted to stay married and have a happy

00:11:18.120 family and then their woman just starts stealing their kids stealing their money and they realize

00:11:23.500 the next 20 years, and at some times, it's the last 20 years of their life. I mean, a guy who's

00:11:29.000 40, if he starts getting robbed at 40, and now he's got 20 years of alimony and child support.

00:11:37.000 I mean, he's going to be 60. I mean, he's almost dead by the time he gets off of it.

00:11:44.400 And then they just crash out. They're like, I just wanted to be left alone.

00:11:48.420 Now, I'd like to play devil's advocate here.

00:11:50.740 There are times that I have seen where really, you know, being left alone, you know, being men walking away has not benefited them.

00:12:08.440 I'm just going to send these links out because I want people to call in.

00:12:12.160 and i've seen this you know not necessarily for me but you personally because we didn't really

00:12:21.060 have you know this direct of bullying maybe in in my school but there was people i know that did

00:12:29.000 deal with bullies um and i think i saw a female bully on social media recently where this woman

00:12:33.900 was just bullying this guy mercilessly. And one day, one day, this kid just snapped. He just

00:12:42.980 snapped. And he beat the fuck out of this girl. He did. I saw that story. It was pretty funny.

00:12:49.360 And after then, she left him alone. And so at times, it seems like there is some value in

00:12:56.940 fighting back and getting angry back and beating up the bully. But at other times,

00:13:02.740 that gets you thrown in jail, killed. And, you know, I'm really not saying one way or the other.

00:13:13.260 I'm sending these links out to the people.

00:13:23.680 But I'm really asking the question, and it seems like when I do street interviews,

00:13:29.680 there's really a mix of opinions. Some people seem to think it's weak to walk away

00:13:35.060 and that the bullies, they'll just never end. And in this case, I kind of wonder,

00:13:42.840 it seems like the people, and I think this is a frustration of conservative white Christians,

00:13:48.060 and I would even say black Christians too, you know, I would just say, you know, Christians in

00:13:52.580 general, it can feel like at times the only person that gets catered to or gets their way

00:13:59.980 are the ones that are the most insane. You know, when I was in England,

00:14:05.720 I had to play with, there was tournaments that we had trans people at. And it wasn't because they

00:14:12.220 were these quiet, meek people. It was because they crashed out and complained until they were

00:14:20.140 in our tournaments. And now, now I'm playing against dudes. Yeah. Doug MPA there, you know,

00:14:25.520 there was a time in England where, um, I can't believe you didn't, didn't invite me for this

00:14:31.780 one. Oh, okay. I am now. I am now. You know what? I'm sorry. It was a long day. I gotta be honest.

00:14:44.320 I'll send it. I'll send it. You know, it's sometimes I just send these out, you know,

00:14:49.600 So after my monologue, I just sent you the link.

00:14:54.200 So where was I going with this?

00:14:59.700 So there are times where if you don't fight the bully back, they just keep on going.

00:15:09.500 Oh, I'll talk about the whale attack.

00:15:11.940 So I was attacked in England by a large, majestic creature.

00:15:16.040 So even though I was pretty chubby at one point, I wasn't that obese, to be fair, but I was pretty chubby.

00:15:23.260 I still had to go after the women fatter than me, as women do.

00:15:26.960 I mean, that's how we do it.

00:15:29.860 But the difference was, if you told me I was chubby, I would have agreed.

00:15:33.600 But these fat women, it's like they just gaslight you to eternity and say they're not fat.

00:15:39.480 Do you know what I mean?

00:15:40.740 He has to pay his bar tab.

00:15:42.220 All right.

00:15:42.720 It's all right.

00:15:43.180 It's no rush.

00:15:44.060 It's no rush.

00:15:44.680 I'm really not in a rush.

00:15:46.040 So, when I was in England, I'm doing these street interviews, and I'm doing interviews on the street, and I went out there with two of my male, I guess, co-workers, colleagues, whatever, other YouTubers, they were holding the camera. It's better when you don't have to pay a cameraman. My new favorite movie, Pearl vs. the Orca.

00:16:05.160 and so

00:16:07.880 what happened was

00:16:10.060 this woman I'm interviewing her

00:16:12.540 and we're talking about men walking home alone at night

00:16:14.680 and I interview her and I'm like

00:16:16.140 sorry she says I can't walk

00:16:18.740 home alone at night as a woman

00:16:20.180 and I'm thinking what are we doing right now

00:16:22.080 like

00:16:22.800 I'm like it's night bitch

00:16:26.040 this is the night

00:16:28.440 we are walking alone

00:16:30.040 at night chubby is not attractive

00:16:32.380 I know and I would have agreed at the time

00:16:35.160 i would have agreed i was never uh i wasn't i was overweight i wasn't obese

00:16:41.400 well i'd have to look at the bmi short period but yeah um regardless you get away with you

00:16:48.600 get away with murder when you're young do you know what i mean when you're 22 you can be fat

00:16:57.720 the men they say they won't forgive you but we're not we're not talking about i'll tell

00:17:02.440 tell you what we're not talking about what they say it's like men when they say oh I don't like

00:17:08.480 I don't like I would never simp for a whore and then you see them simp for we don't talk about

00:17:14.660 what men say so many guys fold so fast this is the internet men will say what they want you know

00:17:20.840 what I mean but they fold a lot of them fold I would say more fold than don't fold and please

00:17:26.580 do not call in today to tell me, oh, Pearl, I wouldn't be the one who folds. Okay. Do

00:17:33.160 you know what I mean? Sorry. But anyways, at 22, you can get away with murder. You

00:17:38.200 can know nothing. You can be kind of fat and it's just, anyway, so this, but this was

00:17:46.680 a legitimate fat chick. Okay. We're not going back and forth about who is fatter, Pearl

00:17:50.660 or the whale. The whale was fatter. Okay. It wasn't even close. This was a fat woman.

00:17:55.960 this was obese this was a beluga whale okay and so what happened was

00:18:01.040 i'm doing this interview and i'm saying i think you could walk home alone at night

00:18:06.640 home alone at night lady and she's like i'll have you you slag i didn't know what a slag meant i

00:18:12.160 didn't i was in england i was new but i knew i was being insulted and she starts like growling

00:18:17.680 at me and i'm like oh my god and then this woman she knocks the mic out of my hand

00:18:23.640 and she's trying to fight me now my guy friend was there so he pulled her off and i'm like where

00:18:30.440 were you this whole time she was growling at me i brought you for one reason i don't do charity

00:18:38.640 collabs do you know i don't do these for free this was so you can save me from the whales

00:18:46.240 but in that moment i had to make a choice right i had to make a choice if i was going to fight

00:18:51.160 this woman who did, she did go first, but I thought this is my head. And I think a lot of

00:18:55.700 men go through this too. They think I have too much to lose. And I did at that point. I'm like,

00:19:02.260 this woman is some drunken, like some drunken nurse out on Tuesday or whatever it was. I

00:19:10.340 get to do this fun job that I love and I don't want to get sued.

00:19:17.380 I don't want to get sued

00:19:20.680 I'm not too dainty to fight

00:19:25.060 do you like see I have a gun show

00:19:27.000 do you know what I'm like for a woman

00:19:28.620 I could have won

00:19:30.540 it's like most women guys

00:19:32.780 I would win in a fight

00:19:34.140 I'm not even trying to

00:19:36.320 I'm not even trying to

00:19:37.700 but I'm six foot

00:19:39.240 I played basketball

00:19:40.580 I was an athlete

00:19:42.040 I mean especially if we

00:19:45.700 I'm not saying like

00:19:47.000 I would win the first punch. But if I could get my hands on, there is no way in hell that like

00:19:52.920 for a woman, a man, I'm done. I'm cooked. I'm done.

00:20:03.760 But do you know what? There's been moments like this in my career too.

00:20:09.660 There are times when I am verbally assaulted. No, no. Verbal abuse. It's like woman, really?

00:20:17.000 But there are times when verbally women have come at me and they just start insulting me.

00:20:27.520 You know, the other day I was in a Twitter space and I'm going back and forth.

00:20:32.180 I was going back and forth with this Muslim guy.

00:20:35.740 And, you know, I started talking about a white issue and he had to make it about a Muslim issue.

00:20:40.480 because I was talking about I was talking about Charlie Kirk dying is really an attack on the

00:20:46.680 white Christian male and this Muslim guy comes in and is like what about Gaza and I'm like this is

00:20:51.860 not the same can we just have five minutes and then he's like he starts insulting me right

00:21:04.020 he's like you're so dumb you're a woman i mean it's the typical you know stereotypical not all

00:21:11.600 not all youtube um but it's the stereotypical i mean the and i am a sexist not all just kidding

00:21:19.100 that's comedy youtube that's comedy i don't mean it haha um but i'm like this is getting ridiculous

00:21:27.260 list. You know what I mean? All I'm saying is the white men, they never get a march. They never get

00:21:34.900 a march for the white male issues. BLM, they get a march. The Muslims, they get a march.

00:21:40.280 The white men, it's like nothing. Although I did see something in England and at times it feels

00:21:46.840 like I have to stoop to their level to get these people to shut the fuck up. Do you know what I

00:21:51.780 I mean, and in this moment, again, I walked away.

00:21:53.940 My tendency personally, and I would say conservative,

00:21:57.460 I'm not that religious, but I would say I still am a Catholic.

00:22:01.720 I do, I would say our nature is to walk away.

00:22:06.360 But it seems like at times it's like these people won't leave you alone.

00:22:12.760 I got bullies relentlessly.

00:22:14.880 And one time I actually stood up for myself.

00:22:16.980 I actually came up on top.

00:22:18.680 I snapped and did a fair bit of damage.

00:22:20.780 I was left alone after that. Now, look, I do not and I cannot speak for violence when it comes to

00:22:31.240 men. I can't. I cannot. I do not understand violence the way that men do. But, you know,

00:22:38.600 when I was doing these street interviews today and I asked people about fighting and I asked

00:22:44.920 people, I don't think the thing, I think I'll load it later if it works, but it's okay. I didn't

00:22:51.460 want to wait the show any longer. But the two answers I got when asking if there's a fight,

00:22:59.340 do you fight back or walk away? And I said, okay, if I'm a crazy woman, I'm coming up to you.

00:23:05.300 Are you going to walk away? Are you going to fight me? And the majority, I would say nine

00:23:09.100 out of 10 said, I'm going to walk away. And the one out of 10, there's one guy who said, no,

00:23:15.060 I'm fucking fighting. And there's a part of me that kind of respected the guy. And maybe it's

00:23:21.040 the woman in me. Like we love criminals and all that bullshit. You kind of respect the guy

00:23:28.460 who says, no, like you're not going to disrespect me. I'm going to fight. And you can play the

00:23:37.160 devil's advocate that they won't leave you alone. But at the same time, I've also lived in a pretty,

00:23:42.400 I would say, lower, I'll just say not a Christian area. That's the word I'll use on this stream.

00:23:54.180 Part of you respected him, part of you figured he was lying.

00:24:00.480 I'll say not a Christian area. And it blew my mind the amount of fights that I would see

00:24:06.380 over disrespect. I'm like, Oh my God, you guys think everything's disrespectful and they would

00:24:13.760 be throwing hands over stuff. And I think, I do think white people, white Christians have a

00:24:19.900 tendency to, to give people the benefit of the doubt. Like, you know, a woman will get gang

00:24:25.920 banged on camera and the white guys will be like, she didn't mean it. She, she like got baptized.

00:24:30.720 I'll take her now. I mean, that's just typical. And they'll gaslight you. They'll say that's not

00:24:39.180 typical. And I'm like, oh, no. You guys can't gaslight me today. Oh, no. I can't be gaslit.

00:24:47.580 So I don't even have an answer to this. I really don't. Because I would say more often than not,

00:24:54.720 my inclination, just personally as a person, I don't really like being violent. I don't even

00:25:01.540 really like insulting people. I mean, I know maybe you might think I do because I do call a whale a

00:25:06.720 whale, but a whale's a whale. Do you know what I mean? A whale is a whale. I can't, but when I was

00:25:17.620 in this area in London, I'll say the amount of times people would get riled up over what I

00:25:23.720 perceived to be the smallest things. And maybe it was disrespect, you know. But I do think that's

00:25:31.320 kind of typical, like where I'm from. I mean, my family members, we all kind of poke fun at each

00:25:36.500 other. And sometimes you do want to punch them in the face. No offense if any of you are watching,

00:25:41.360 but it does happen. But I'm never actually going to do it. You know what I mean? And that's kind

00:25:47.760 of, I would say that's not abnormal. So you could argue, maybe it's better than, you know, people

00:25:54.860 are more respectful to each other because they're afraid of getting punched in the face or shot.

00:26:00.600 I don't know if I want to live like that, but if you have a nice car or job, and I will say the

00:26:07.860 one guy that did answer this way today, I cannot, I don't, I didn't know him too well, but I just

00:26:14.560 cannot say he had a lot to lose. Have I ever been in a fight before? Do I look like, and I'll tell

00:26:20.120 you what, I got offered like $40,000, 40K to fight a bitch. I got offered 40 grand to do a boxing

00:26:29.600 fight against some OnlyFans woman. It was from Aiden Ross. And it was like he did some stream

00:26:39.220 and I was offered this. And I'll tell you, I'll tell you what went through my head.

00:26:44.140 And by the way, this is a fight I believed I could have won. I believed that I would have won

00:26:50.700 that fight, in my opinion. I do not think I would have lost. But I just thought about it and I'm

00:26:56.800 like, okay, this is a nobody only fans woman. I have 2 million subscribers. If she wins,

00:27:04.140 she gets famous. If I win, nothing. And if she wins, I mean, this is my moneymaker. I'm not

00:27:10.440 saying like as a streamer, you need your face. And I just thought I have too much to lose.

00:27:16.840 I know I would win. I know I would, but I'm saying, I think, I think my inclination is to

00:27:24.460 walk away because I personally just feel as though if I could throw a punch and I wouldn't

00:27:29.940 get dragged to court, maybe I would. If I could throw a punch and my opponent, you know, I just

00:27:37.600 saw somebody do that boxing thing and this guy thought he was doing the WWE and he flatlined.

00:27:44.260 He almost died. I don't want to be in that situation. My moneymaker is my brain. I'm a

00:27:49.780 woman. Have you learned nothing from these streams? Okay. Well, so that's my question.

00:27:56.840 is men walking away from aggression smart or is it weak now we we have a loaded up panel today

00:28:04.120 i'm going to start with doug mpa and then we'll bring up the rest of the panelists so doug mpa

00:28:10.280 hey is violence ever the answer yes okay

00:28:18.680 first off um you know i i believe we need to bring uh butt weapons back for young children

00:28:25.400 there are times where if your kids are acting up you gotta whoop them so i'm hoping that

00:28:30.020 we bring that back uh some people would call that violence but let me tell you you know i i got

00:28:36.340 whooped love when i was young and i deserved every second of it so i'm hoping that we get to see more

00:28:41.740 more of that um i like the sean connery quote have you seen the sean connery clip where he says

00:28:48.840 sometimes a woman needs a little slop and and the interviewer is like are you saying that

00:28:54.620 mention women he's like if you've explored every other option and she wants to get the last word

00:29:00.620 and you've given her the last word and she still keeps talking you you gotta give her a slap you

00:29:06.220 have you seen that clip so would you slap a woman uh if she were coming at me crazy i i would defend

00:29:15.660 myself let's put it that way i would defend myself but um i would do the restraining stuff first

00:29:22.140 but then if she keeps going

00:29:24.700 I'm sorry man

00:29:26.520 a prop crack pipe

00:29:30.460 pipe

00:29:31.320 yeah

00:29:35.380 but honestly I'm

00:29:38.160 I'm one of those guys where I have too much to lose

00:29:40.460 but there are more and more guys that

00:29:42.520 don't have anything to lose

00:29:44.280 so women that put their hands on men

00:29:46.560 there's more of a likelihood that they're

00:29:48.600 going to run into a guy that's the wrong

00:29:50.520 one and let me tell you i'm one of those guys if i see a man and a woman going at it in public i

00:29:57.000 don't intervene i just don't why you you don't know what happened before i know you'll lose your

00:30:03.400 life and then she'll go bang him after exactly exactly um yeah you know i think that guys you

00:30:11.800 have to defend yourself defend yourself press charges you know you can't just let women hit

00:30:18.520 you guys you can't do it when it comes to aggressiveness between two men i always remember

00:30:26.680 so there's this series called lock up raw where they would interview people in prison and this

00:30:32.440 guy was a software engineer in san jose california had his whole life ahead of him he had a stay-at-home

00:30:37.880 wife and two kids he had it he had it made then he was late to work this this guy cut him off

00:30:45.240 they pulled over he had a knife in his car for some reason and he stabbed this guy and the guy

00:30:49.800 died so now he's spending 15 years in prison for manslaughter all because this guy cut him off and

00:30:56.120 he decided to get out of his car with a knife was it worth it the guy cut you off

00:31:04.040 come on now that's why i had to stop selling my t-shirts you know which ones

00:31:09.000 yeah so i had to ask i was like is this worth it yeah so they interviewed the guy and they said is

00:31:15.800 it worth it he's like no it's not if i could go back to that day and just have never gotten out

00:31:20.040 of my car i wouldn't have done it and now he has to be 15 years and but men are cost benefit

00:31:25.240 calculators and women are not and i believe that most of these men you see walking away

00:31:30.440 they do a cost benefit and they're like it's not worth it but i'm going to say one more time

00:31:34.600 time the way that society has been treating men more and more men are going to have nothing to

00:31:39.400 lose oh that's true and the more they have nothing to lose the more they're going to crash out

00:31:45.080 you got it well we have a subject matter expert on the show welcome to the show

00:31:51.700 law of self-defense i want you to know i still have your old uh stab a hoe t-shirt

00:31:58.040 hey i can't sell them anymore you know what i mean

00:32:03.380 so what you are a subject matter expert in this actually so do you think i had a bad first

00:32:12.940 marriage i know all about it all right so do you think men walking away from aggressive people

00:32:23.820 men or women is smart or weak and is there ever a place for violence go ahead generally it's it's

00:32:31.240 best to not get into fights you don't need to get into but as it was just said men men are good

00:32:37.460 calculators we ought to be good we should be good at calculating the risk benefit of standing up or

00:32:43.300 walking away in the particular case with the baseball that guy should have told that lesbian

00:32:49.440 to go f herself what was the threat from her what risk was he incurring by just telling her to go

00:32:55.280 screw up nothing now if she walked up and put a gun to his head or she walked up with a 300 pound

00:33:01.920 man backing her up that's a different threat calculation but this this short-haired subaru

00:33:07.680 driving lesbian demanding a baseball you know f yourself yep there's there's no risk to that

00:33:14.560 approach instead instead he acted like he taught his son to be a complete he taught his son if a

00:33:22.640 woman comes up and yells at you give her whatever she wants she's taking that ball and uh and throwing

00:33:30.400 it back on the field so so what kind of woman is that boy gonna marry a woman that respects him

00:33:37.200 A woman like your first wife.

00:33:41.640 That was terrible.

00:33:44.480 Now, if she walked up with a gun in her hand and he gave up the baseball, he could explain to his son, listen, it doesn't make any sense to die over a baseball.

00:33:51.840 And she had a gun.

00:33:52.780 I didn't have a gun.

00:33:54.300 So he should have had a gun, of course.

00:33:56.320 But in any case, but in this scenario, what is the downside of telling this broad to go screw?

00:34:04.460 i i think some people on twitter were saying that you just don't know with a crazy woman what they're

00:34:10.700 willing to do so it's better to just get away what do you think about that okay so she maybe

00:34:15.580 she has a nuclear bomb in her i mean come on let's be reasonable of course you never know

00:34:23.500 absolutely what someone could do maybe she's got a tommy gun in her vajayjay she's gonna whip it out

00:34:27.740 and shoot everybody dead but probably not i think it's a safe bet not yeah and honestly all he had

00:34:34.860 to do was just sit there because a lot of these women when did he say no like that a lot of these

00:34:40.860 women when they get bucked like that all you have to do is just tell them once and ignore them yeah

00:34:45.980 all father had to do was just look at it and just not saying what i heard i'm not giving you the

00:34:51.020 ball and then she would have just peed it out and left i heard that the angrier woman is at you the

00:34:55.900 the more she wants to bang you.

00:34:57.260 Have you guys found that to be true?

00:35:01.220 Maybe he could have flipped it.

00:35:02.820 You know what I mean?

00:35:03.540 I've got the scars, Pearl.

00:35:07.680 I've got the ER receipts.

00:35:09.640 Oh my God.

00:35:12.560 All right, Jason, welcome to the show.

00:35:15.680 What are your thoughts on the topic?

00:35:17.320 Is men walking away from aggressive people, smart or weak?

00:35:21.120 Well, since the premise of this whole conversation was about Christian men, right? So for Christian men. So I think part of the problem and part of the misunderstanding of what that looks like is you have to talk to actual Christian men who don't respond to situations or, you know, based on their opinions or their feelings or their ego.

00:35:45.880 So a real Christian man responds to those situations by what scripture actually instructs us to do.

00:35:52.940 That's the way a Christian man responds to these conflicts or violence or whatever.

00:35:59.980 And the scripture is like completely clear, no room for a misunderstanding.

00:36:05.980 The Lord tests the righteous and his soul hates the wicked, but he also hates the one who loves violence.

00:36:13.440 so it steers us away from violence um i think as a man you need to be capable of great violence

00:36:20.600 i think that's your duty to be capable of great violence but knowing when to use it

00:36:27.760 is the discernment that comes because if we just rely on our our feelings and when we're angry or

00:36:34.200 somebody like you said disrespects you then you're going to get into a lot a lot of conflicts but for

00:36:38.760 me, like as a Christian man, there is almost nothing you can do to me to make me get violent

00:36:44.000 unless you threaten my wife or children. Like that's really, honestly, that's it. Or you're

00:36:48.960 threatening bodily harm against me. And I think it's a duty of Christians to, if you're going to

00:36:57.100 proclaim that you are one, that you respond to those situations as such. And the stuff about

00:37:05.420 having to slap a woman and all these other things.

00:37:07.700 I know it makes for great content,

00:37:09.340 but that is antithetical.

00:37:12.420 So like if we're in the context of Christianity

00:37:15.400 and what it means to be a Christian man,

00:37:18.080 you have to live by that and day in and day out and not-

00:37:22.300 Can you not defend yourself?

00:37:24.460 Well, first of all, let's contextualize it, right?

00:37:27.280 We're talking about the baseball event.

00:37:29.200 Is that what we're still talking about?

00:37:30.780 All right, so no one's saying,

00:37:32.420 I don't know anyone's response to you saying-

00:37:34.280 hold on go ahead are you sure that's okay so no yeah so it's like the baseball event or just in

00:37:41.400 general but yeah the baseball that was what made me think of it go ahead well that provides good

00:37:45.700 context right so i don't think anyone responsible is saying in the baseball event he should have

00:37:49.840 punched her in the face and thrown her off the bleachers to her death no i was responding to

00:37:55.160 no i was responding to the the sometimes you have to slap a woman kind of a deal which to me well

00:38:01.360 I guess sometimes you might have to, if she's coming at you with a knife,

00:38:04.540 what are you supposed to do? Nothing? No.

00:38:06.720 So it depends on the circumstances, right? Sure. And that again, again,

00:38:10.180 that would be in the event of immediate bodily harm.

00:38:14.280 Then there are obviously you can defend yourself, but there are very few,

00:38:19.680 like very few situations in which a woman represents outside of a weapon,

00:38:25.200 a immediate bodily harm outside of what if she's punching your son,

00:38:29.660 your eight year old son in the face?

00:38:31.060 Right. Like you're just you're just providing more examples of times.

00:38:34.800 Right. I'm trying to contextualize. Yeah. I'm I'm saying that, yes, you're threatening bodily harm against a child, your children, even bodily harm against you.

00:38:42.920 She has a weapon, this or that. But she's throwing a fit.

00:38:46.740 Maybe even if she slaps you, I still honestly like there are very few situations in which I'm going to interpret that as a direct threat against my life.

00:38:56.640 so i think we're saying the same thing right sometimes it would be appropriate to use physical

00:39:01.000 force against a woman and sometimes it wouldn't sure yeah okay fair enough

00:39:04.960 well i put two um two two clips in the chat one is one in the private chat or in the no no i'm

00:39:14.440 sorry on on the document on the google doc and we can react yeah okay so one one is the sean

00:39:21.160 connery clip go to the instagram one first do the instagram go first okay and then do the sean

00:39:28.140 connery quote okay i want to add jason to the to the panel first all right we got jason cross

00:39:36.540 world famous comedian um i believe he's on tim pool or they react to do him or something

00:39:43.160 welcome jason thanks for calling in oh thanks for having me on it's good to be on y'all wow

00:39:49.020 bunch y'all talking about smacking holes and throwing ladies yeah so are you are you hitting

00:39:55.660 a bitch or what no no no no not even wait wait not even like once do you know what i mean

00:40:04.700 nope nope so i i box right you know recreationally to stay in shape oh so you're punching a

00:40:10.060 no no i'm dodging punches from a because that will frustrate her more you let her swing and

00:40:18.540 you dodged them some of these hoes have quick hands man some of them got quick hands

00:40:24.860 how they shouldn't be getting you man they shouldn't be getting here so let's let me

00:40:30.940 share the screen all right this is sean commie i hate this oh yeah this is a great i remember that

00:40:38.620 one with more men than women years ago you did an interview which may come back to haunt you

00:40:45.340 whatever you know okay you did an interview in which you said it's not the worst thing to slap

00:40:51.340 a woman now and then as i remember you said you don't do it with a clenched fist it's better to

00:40:54.940 do it with an open hand oh yeah remember that yeah yeah right i love that i haven't changed my opinion

00:41:02.220 you haven't no good to slap a woman no i don't think it's good i think it's bad only if she

00:41:08.940 likes it let's go i don't think it's that bad i think that it depends entirely on the

00:41:15.020 circumstances and if it merits it yeah what would merit it well if you have tried everything else

00:41:21.980 and women are pretty good at this they can't leave it alone

00:41:28.620 the last word and you give them the laugh last word but they're not happy with the last one

00:41:33.180 they want to see it there and and get into a really provocative situation then

00:41:43.820 i think it's absolutely right oh my god to give a good slap yeah absolutely

00:41:48.940 what if she gives you a good slap back well then you get into another area i mean then maybe she's

00:41:55.100 going to like it then it becomes something else i don't know but no no seriously i think that

00:42:01.980 it's the last resort he's not going to do it because he wants to do it yeah

00:42:07.900 wait till people see this interview are you going to get male might get some female

00:42:16.460 let's go sean gangster dude by the way 20 minutes after this interview sean connery put a baby in

00:42:22.620 that woman okay wait i have another one uh you have to excuse me i don't know what it is about

00:42:29.180 this computer but it does not zoom in so this is going to be very small we're going to share

00:42:33.260 this one instead okay put you down yeah how

00:42:44.460 what does that mean it means run that's what that means walk what it means walk

00:42:52.060 i'm sorry i'm not gonna say that calmly and i'm gonna give you to the count of three

00:42:57.740 one got me not not got me not please tell me not before i put my hands on you

00:43:05.260 and you don't i promise you don't want to see what i have on my mouth

00:43:17.900 i'm gonna put you in the ground i'm gonna give you three seconds

00:43:20.860 one what if i put myself on the glass that's two what do you want i'm gonna hurt you

00:43:28.860 i'm gonna hurt you i need what you need she needs a little sean connery

00:43:37.420 i think

00:43:37.740 the other girl's like he's cute don't send him away

00:43:58.540 I don't know.

00:44:03.400 She's like, come on, boyfriend.

00:44:05.000 Bye.

00:44:06.120 Bye.

00:44:08.500 And then the hot girl comes up.

00:44:12.520 And like, if you played the rest of her, all the rest of the girls are like, what was that about?

00:44:15.900 He's like, I don't know.

00:44:16.780 I'm just saying.

00:44:17.500 So she expected all the women to come for her, to back her up, and they told her to leave.

00:44:24.120 Now, he's cute.

00:44:25.000 You can tell.

00:44:25.680 He's good looking.

00:44:26.320 That's why.

00:44:26.700 But that's what happens a lot of the times when a woman tries to get

00:44:31.100 brolic and all a man does is laugh.

00:44:34.440 That's when they realize how powerless they are.

00:44:36.860 Just laugh at them.

00:44:38.700 Yeah, you can see it.

00:44:39.540 And that's what the baseball guy should have done.

00:44:43.900 I agree with that.

00:44:45.300 I think I don't shame him maybe as heavily as you guys do,

00:44:48.800 but I do think the right thing probably would have been to do just to hold

00:44:52.980 his ground.

00:44:53.420 That's all you have to do is just hold your ground.

00:44:55.940 he shouldn't have laid a hand on her he just should have said no you're not getting the

00:44:59.980 baseball correct you're just not getting it correct let's play this out though what happens

00:45:04.360 if he tells her no does she keep griping she she might yeah i think that's the point is literally

00:45:10.860 who cares how far a man can go in life is how well he can tune out nagging

00:45:16.640 right i mean pearl already knows this but i had a bad first marriage i had 13 years i had a

00:45:23.860 manslaughter sentence and nagging there's no way you could nag me into doing something i don't want

00:45:28.520 to do do you know what the do you know the only way the best way to not have a nagging wife

00:45:33.900 because it sounds like it's impossible dude dude you have no i you have no idea what you're talking

00:45:41.440 about this i've been married too bro it's impossible i'm glad you've been married but

00:45:45.700 but you haven't heard what i'm about to say go ahead this the only way the only men i've ever

00:45:51.860 met the people who I've gotten advice from and tried to emulate in my own marriage. You can have

00:45:59.020 a relationship with no nagging wife. You can have a relationship where you are respected,

00:46:03.700 where you are loved, where you are built up in public and in private. But again, if we're talking

00:46:10.120 about Christian men, because that's Christian men, if you have a biblical actual, because you

00:46:15.860 you can't say biblical marriage and then not live a biblical marriage because one of those things

00:46:22.580 literally is they do it all the time respect but but that's not biblical marriage that's the point

00:46:27.780 that's the point i'm making you can you can call it biblical marriage but if a woman is not submitting

00:46:32.180 to her husband respecting her husband if the husband is not loving her the same way christ

00:46:36.260 loved the church then it's not a biblical marriage if you do it the right way i promise you you can

00:46:41.700 have a wife okay okay hold up a second so so hold on i want to read the super chat very cool to see

00:46:48.740 two of my faves grow together so you're doing this whole virtue virtue it's not it's not virtue it's

00:46:57.940 not obvious because here's the thing but pearls asked multiple times for for trad cons to sell

00:47:03.380 marriage and they can't do it as i say if if you live by a you know a biblical marriage and you

00:47:08.820 You have a virtuous woman, but Pearl and I have both seen Christian women, biblical marriage women, ruin their husbands in divorce.

00:47:18.360 Because you're talking to the wrong people.

00:47:21.620 Yeah, but my brother in Christ, what you're saying is uncontestably true.

00:47:28.380 If it's a truly biblical marriage, you're not having these problems.

00:47:31.820 But it's a self-fulfilling prophecy, right?

00:47:34.760 If everything's going great, everything's going great.

00:47:37.500 But if the wife decides she doesn't want it to go that way, what's the man supposed to do about it?

00:47:43.060 He's acting.

00:47:44.020 Yep.

00:47:44.300 And what's going to keep her acting that way?

00:47:48.280 Behavior opposite of what you're talking about is rewarded and incentivized in this society.

00:47:54.540 Women can change.

00:47:56.060 Women preserve the right and are encouraged to change their minds about anything at any given time.

00:48:02.160 And men in society have to accommodate it and there's nothing you can do about it.

00:48:05.000 Right, but you're shifting the conversation to the marriage system, right?

00:48:08.760 Which obviously has its flaws and problems.

00:48:14.860 I don't contest that the marriage system is flawed.

00:48:19.140 But to answer your question of how do you keep a wife from being disrespectful or leaving?

00:48:27.380 What keeps her, not how do you keep her.

00:48:29.420 You can't do anything.

00:48:30.800 She has to choose to do it.

00:48:32.240 Correct.

00:48:32.520 so how do you make her choose you don't make her choose bro if a man leads now i have a question

00:48:43.760 how old are you i'm 37 30 all right can can i just can i just say for context i'm 60 so i'm

00:48:50.460 almost twice as old of you i'm in my second marriage my 13 my first marriage was a 13 year

00:48:55.600 house my second marriage is 15 years a biblical marriage i'm passionately married to my second

00:49:01.420 wife so i've done it both ways and i can tell you in both occasions it was not up to me i was the

00:49:08.780 same person my first wife was completely different from my second wife my second wife my current wife

00:49:14.840 my lovely wife emily she chooses tonight not be the she devil but i have no control over that

00:49:22.020 if she chose to be a she devil tomorrow there's nothing i could do about it did you have no

00:49:26.480 control over who you married yeah no no of course i made that choice of course that's on me

00:49:32.080 okay so i couldn't i could not make my first wife a good woman i couldn't do it right so but like

00:49:38.720 so you're skipping like 15 steps the first step is you have to marry a godly woman who is committed

00:49:46.880 to living under biblical marriage and then you how do you know that's her women fake things

00:49:52.960 they can't take for too long though you gotta grow some time how much time how could i was

00:50:00.880 engaged for two years before i got married all right two years i did my due diligence yes yeah

00:50:06.960 but the i don't i always wonder like because you guys are so confident in that like your marriages

00:50:13.920 then not you but just in general the tradcon crowd are always very confident their marriages work out

00:50:19.440 and you have to understand i have the perspective of interviewing men before and after they get

00:50:23.840 divorced and like you're not um you're not even past the age where most people get divorced so

00:50:29.920 like just from my point of view i'm like you don't even know if yours is going to work out

00:50:34.160 we've been together for almost 20 years at this point but for how many years almost 20 at this

00:50:41.440 point so we got married very young that's fine you said you were we've been together we've been

00:50:46.160 married for 11 so um oh that does that doesn't matter that's completely of course of course it

00:50:51.360 matters a decade of knowing each other and and knowing her character well no because here's but

00:50:56.720 here's the dating and marriage are not the same you just have to understand again i've interviewed

00:51:00.800 men from like i i've interviewed people that got divorced from near amish communities like like

00:51:06.240 literally like one step away from amish well why are you interviewing divorced people instead of

00:51:11.600 happily married christian couples to it would be great it would be really cool if i could find more

00:51:16.880 of them but there's just not many reach out to me i'll give you i'll give you i'll give you plenty

00:51:23.520 the cause of divorces right what's the marriage baby marriage

00:51:31.120 but it's well it's usually so like how late 30s to early 40s yeah but it's more

00:51:37.920 i'm out of the storm well no more importantly is whenever she gets what she wants so it's like

00:51:43.280 usually when the youngest kid hits preschool so like in conservative families it's sometimes a

00:51:48.000 little bit uh longer because it's like how old's the youngest kid and did the youngest kid hit

00:51:54.320 preschool yet and is she done did she get as many kids as she wants and are they old enough to take

00:52:00.560 care of themselves that's kind of the question i ask but i mean i literally interviewed someone

00:52:06.400 from michael noles's church and it was one of the worst divorce stories i ever saw like i'm not

00:52:12.640 saying it'll happen for everyone but to act like religion is some sort of barrier i i i wouldn't

00:52:18.800 i wouldn't i'm not saying it's a barrier i'm saying i'm what i am saying is that the only

00:52:24.080 like all these problems that you mentioned which are legitimate problems and the divorce rate is

00:52:29.120 terrible marriage is not a you know it's it's a it's a troubled institution because of the way

00:52:34.480 that we approach it what i am saying is that they're the only model that has proven to work

00:52:43.040 when applied by two willing people you can't to your point a man cannot be the be the loving head

00:52:51.040 of the home by himself and that she chooses not to be his helper and that marriage will work

00:52:56.240 that is correct but if you have two people who enter into marriage with the understanding of of

00:53:02.240 their roles clearly and that's why it's important who you pick who you pick you need it you need

00:53:08.000 enforcement though that's the problem so if you have no way of enforcing and in this society you

00:53:13.280 can't you can be legally charged if you enforce like i mean there's a religious abuse now i swear

00:53:19.040 to god it's a thing and yeah i know it's ridiculous but so that's like saying okay i have a law but

00:53:27.680 you can't be thrown in jail if you break it so it's just yeah so it's just if you choose that's

00:53:33.120 it and again it comes back it comes but it goes back to the woman's choice which means that means

00:53:38.240 she's in control right so the question again becomes because like i think what we're arguing

00:53:43.040 over or what like how i'm being perceived is that i'm saying all christians do this and all all

00:53:48.960 whatever i'm like if a woman leaves her husband for any reason other than the very few there's only

00:53:56.640 a couple reasons that are justifiable in the Bible to divorce your husband.

00:54:00.840 One of them is infidelity. And the other one is, you know, if he dies,

00:54:04.640 basically then she is walking outside of the bounds of marriage or outside of

00:54:12.000 the bounds of biblical marriage. So she's violating that. And of course that

00:54:16.020 happens. And that's not care. Well, that's what I'm saying.

00:54:19.380 So if you marry somebody who does not take marriage as an actual covenant.

00:54:23.440 Oh no. They care at the beginning.

00:54:25.440 well right here in the beginning they trust me i mean a lot of these i've had women convert to

00:54:33.740 very strict religions for a man they've met a man fell in love i've had women move countries for a

00:54:40.640 man i've had women orthodox i i could go through all of the religions i've interviewed and at the

00:54:48.260 time they're very religious until they're not the first the first two years of my bad marriage were

00:54:54.160 awesome yeah three years of mine were great years of it what changes what changes usually it changes

00:55:02.000 their mind yeah or the women i mean it's a lot of buyers regret buyers remorse so she's the best

00:55:08.480 advice i ever got was for women you know how you guys bang a chick and then you realize you don't

00:55:14.240 like her too much that's how women think about marriage yeah that's what happens to women because

00:55:18.800 you guys you know when you're like oh i really like this chick and then you have sex and you're

00:55:22.560 like this this feels like there's no accountability on behalf of the man oh my god don't over talk me

00:55:31.600 okay so control over the woman so so the the problem is women when we have a child that's

00:55:37.120 like post not clarity for us as many kids as we have because we're like oh we got what we wanted

00:55:43.040 and then we have to look at the guy then we have to look at the guy and we're like did i want him

00:55:48.240 oh did i want and sometimes the answer is yeah i did and then other times the other times is i just

00:55:55.680 want the money think about this think about this none of us none of us are are are obama fans but

00:56:05.040 i i always credit hard work the guy made it to the presidency his wife wrote in a book

00:56:10.640 big mike wrote that she hated him for the first 10 years of their marriage after after the no for

00:56:18.400 the first 10 years of their marriage she she wrote in a book national bestseller i hated him for 10

00:56:26.000 years after our first child was born that's women right there and then i'm going to add another

00:56:32.960 layer to it because there are what are called gray divorces way divorce the trend of couples

00:56:37.280 divorcing over 50 has significantly increased with the divorce rate for those over 50 doubling since

00:56:43.840 1990 so in 2019 about 36 of all divorces involved individuals 50 or older yeah i've got a long way

00:56:55.120 to go buddy yeah i just gotta see the re i gotta see your youngest kid hit like 13 ish and then

00:57:03.200 you can come back you know i'm i'm happy i'm happy to do that yeah i mean jay how long have you been

00:57:08.880 married it's no offense to you it's just i've just seen again i've interviewed men even more confident

00:57:15.840 than you that said the same thing that ended up in the worst place unfortunately i just wondered

00:57:22.560 i hope you're passionately married to your wife forever i'm very happily married to my second

00:57:26.880 wife it's fantastic we've been together 15 years married 15 years two kids it's the best life i've

00:57:31.840 ever lived i'm not anti-marriage when it works it just works so rarely and that it's hard to

00:57:37.520 recommend because almost nobody does it correctly so of course it works rarely but he has a point

00:57:43.920 he has a point a lot of people don't choose properly to start with of course it's going

00:57:48.080 to fall apart they don't choose properly they don't live out what we're talking about at all

00:57:53.040 and then you act like this like the idea of biblical marriage failed when nobody was actually

00:57:57.840 doing biblical marriage doesn't exist i mean steven doesn't exist anymore i mean of course

00:58:03.520 it does steven crowder well yeah he's right it doesn't exist you you have to have enforcement

00:58:08.640 it only if it only exists when the woman decides it exists it doesn't exist

00:58:13.600 yeah yeah there's no god in divorce court either yeah it's traditional when she decides it's

00:58:18.800 traditional if she doesn't decide it that means she has the final say which means it's not you

00:58:23.680 that's just the point if if if breaking the covenant with god is not a big deal to her then

00:58:28.720 she wasn't a good wife so it's the wrong one from the right but that's just begging the question

00:58:35.440 she decides whether or not that's true that's fair so that that's so that's an indictment on

00:58:40.320 on the marriage system itself it's an indictment it's also an indictment on on a woman who would

00:58:45.360 do that but then you made a bad choice because she did not actually have a passion yes but in

00:58:51.120 In a biblical marriage, you could make a weak choice, and she could not fuck you in divorce court, right?

00:59:00.240 That's the difference between a biblical marriage and modern-day marriage.

00:59:03.900 These are not the same things.

00:59:05.240 I am 1,000% in favor of biblical marriage, but we don't have that anymore.

00:59:10.620 It's gone because the woman, on her whim, she could have one bad day, go to divorce court, file against you.

00:59:17.620 80 of divorces are filed by women and you are f you're marrying in 2025 you're not marrying a

00:59:24.420 woman in jesus you're marrying a woman and a divorce court that is on her side i'm not

00:59:30.980 and the problem is you know what so i had a trainer in london and to be honest he talked

00:59:35.700 kind of like you he met his he met his high school sweetheart like around the same age he married

00:59:40.660 her he was like a devout muslim guy and literally one day he comes in and he comes in with like

00:59:46.020 scratches on his face and he said his wife like thought he was cheating but he has a twin brother

00:59:52.820 i don't know maybe he lied his way out of it or maybe he was i don't know i don't know this is

00:59:57.460 just a story he told me okay i don't know i also have a twin brother i don't know no but he actually

01:00:03.300 did he actually did have a twin brother so that's what he did he actually did but apparently it's

01:00:08.420 like his twin brother took a woman on a date right and her friend saw the twin brother and

01:00:15.220 thought it was him and then came back to her and said that he was cheating so this woman crashed

01:00:21.200 out called the police on him said that he was abusive all this bullshit and he literally went

01:00:27.620 to jail with his like trad wife of 20 years and I swear he spoke to like the way you're talking

01:00:33.960 right now he spoke to me he said his wife would never and that and I you know it's not that I

01:00:40.100 want i don't want to be blackpilled but i've just had too many guys kind of talk like you and have

01:00:45.920 the same talking points we're just not doing it right and then they come back like five years

01:00:50.700 like stephen crowder you know before he got divorced he sounded just like you you know and

01:00:55.620 now he's the same he said do it right he would go on all the shows and say do it like this

01:01:00.200 marry a virgin wife he went and did it and now you know she did the same thing the abuse or you

01:01:06.260 have i mean how many female divorce court judges were there the second century ad

01:01:12.100 oh yeah that's that's the challenge the worst go ahead even worse there is a social infrastructure

01:01:20.500 in place to encourage women to leave their husbands and go out there and struggle tyrese's

01:01:26.580 ex-wife was on a podcast she went to go shoot a movie she covered up all the ring cameras while

01:01:33.860 he was gone took their newborn child all of her stuff out of the house and has two lawyers trying

01:01:40.100 to get more money out of him right now and she had to go on a podcast and say i i regret if it

01:01:46.340 wasn't for my mama and all my friends uh i would have never divorced him if i could go back but i

01:01:52.740 had all these women in my air saying you don't need him he's a punk he's a whatever that don't

01:01:58.180 account he married a steamer she covered up the rain cams and i gotta be honest what blackpilled

01:02:05.540 me it wasn't even the divorced people because obviously you're getting the worst of the worst

01:02:10.180 it was the people that would come on my show and talk just like you and the same thing or the people

01:02:14.900 in my life that would literally say your exact talking points like and i swear it would be so

01:02:22.260 similar to what you're saying and then the same thing would happen and then that's when i realized

01:02:26.980 it was over if there was an option today where people could pick hey i want a modern 2020 25

01:02:32.820 marriage with family court options and all that stuff on the one hand or i could have a biblical

01:02:37.780 option on the other hand i'd be 100 for biblical marriage i i think i think you're right i think

01:02:42.580 biblical marriage is the foundation of a functioning western civilization i don't think we can survive

01:02:48.180 without it i'm not criticizing biblical marriage at all i'm just i'm just observing that today

01:02:54.020 we do not have that well you again you don't have it unless you have two people who actually

01:03:02.180 believe it and it does you have a woman that believes it that's the point that's the point

01:03:06.500 i'm trying because you guys are talking about divorce court and all these things that i'm not

01:03:09.700 that i don't even disagree with uh but biblical marriage is not biblical marriage if you're

01:03:15.140 married to a woman who is willing to leave on a whim you were never in a biblical marriage

01:03:20.900 every woman has the option to leave on a whim well i gotta i gotta see the youngest kid hit 12.

01:03:27.540 yeah i got i got i got a few years and and i'll yeah be careful out there fellas

01:03:33.700 eight years for me as well yeah so that that's what i'll take it a little more but it's gotta be

01:03:40.820 she's gotta have as many kids as she wants because some women will get the second kid at like 38 or

01:03:46.100 something hey when you got married my friend when you got married did you do the uh the church

01:03:51.300 pre-marriage counseling thing no right no so right so to be honest with you um i have not our entire

01:03:58.100 marriage has not been a biblical marriage structure and okay we went we went i'm not trying to get

01:04:03.620 personal no not at all we've gone through periods where our marriage was not great um because again

01:04:10.180 because we had two people who said they were christians who were not living biblical marriage

01:04:15.540 and not living yeah i get it i get it and when we and when we flip that switch to it and when i say

01:04:24.340 when i think actually to the point point by point two people saying i'm going to do my job and i'm

01:04:29.780 going to do my job then everything changed and that's why i'm passionate about it it's not because

01:04:33.860 i'm like i'm so special or this or that i had to go from a struggling marriage to a thriving marriage

01:04:39.860 by actually living out biblical principles and not just saying we're this is a christian marriage

01:04:45.220 because all right first of all i'll tell you you're ahead of me because i went through the

01:04:49.340 same process but it took me two marriages and a divorce in the middle so uh my i consider my

01:04:55.000 marriage today to be a biblical marriage we're very happy it's a very traditional type of marriage

01:04:59.640 i'm the breadwinner my wife stays home with the kids everything works great it's fantastic

01:05:04.020 it's fantastic i feel like i'm treated like a king by my wife which is the most important thing by

01:05:08.860 the way is respect if you don't have respect right right 100 you're done already 100 in my

01:05:14.260 first marriage i was treated with contempt by my wife of course that that makes it that's what

01:05:19.620 makes it a cancer but i wonder how many guys so we went to the the pre-marriage church thing where

01:05:26.500 they counsel you on all this you know well you know your obligations are this and that and the

01:05:30.780 other thing but you know what they didn't show us they didn't show us a stream of videos of guys

01:05:35.100 getting ruined in divorce because i bet a lot of guys if they went through pre-marriage counseling

01:05:40.240 where they showed you the 50 80 divorce rate and the destruction those guys go through and the

01:05:45.600 the self-ending rate of that fathers being denied access to their children i wonder how many dudes

01:05:51.600 would say you know what dating seems a lot better than this and here's the thing

01:05:59.280 media for women these goofy romance movies and rom-coms and hallmark and where the guy's perfect

01:06:06.000 they always end oh yeah they get together in the kiss and the movie ends it doesn't show

01:06:11.920 anything after that it doesn't show them getting married and having to deal with marriage it always

01:06:16.640 stops right there because that's what women care about the most women don't think about the hard

01:06:21.680 work it takes after they get women want to get married but don't want to be wise a lot of women

01:06:28.240 want to have children but don't want to be mothers now yeah yeah absolutely you know the movie set up

01:06:32.960 unrealistic expectations too i gotta i gotta welcome the the great home math welcome to the

01:06:41.920 oh i wondered i thought i was getting i thought i was getting uh bumps at the end of the line

01:06:49.520 no no never i'm taking notes you guys are you guys are having a conversation about

01:06:55.520 choosing women that don't exist right yeah they exist they exist oh where are they where are they

01:07:03.680 and how do you make them and so this is it's this is all top down this is all like whether

01:07:09.280 a little bigger how do i make him oh yeah we need aaron

01:07:18.000 it's all top down it all like the way that women behave is modulated by or moderated by

01:07:25.120 um the the dominant social paradigm so it's like they have to see women who are behaving well

01:07:32.240 getting lots of like trophies yes they have to see women who are mothers and who are like

01:07:37.760 obedient to their husbands getting celebrated and then they'll get celebrated but instead they see

01:07:41.520 bonnie blue so now you've got like um i don't know what to draw i'll just do xxx for bonnie blue

01:07:48.160 you've got that boobs yeah you've got that maybe put like a line of men yeah yeah i have that in

01:07:55.520 here somewhere i could find that um they have uh there's there's these guys right here on the

01:08:01.120 on zones the dudes in the her past um so yeah if you want there to be marriageable women you have

01:08:09.200 to show marriageable women receiving rewards and we do not do that like this is all systematic you

01:08:15.040 know we're talking about men making choices how many choices can you possibly make like i had to

01:08:20.400 be really really forgiving with uh my choices and they still all turned out all the ones that i like

01:08:26.720 turned out pretty bad in one way or another where were you fishing uh i mean school uh there was one

01:08:34.880 girl that i grew up with there was i mean of course there was the internet there was people i met

01:08:39.440 socially it's the standard so you have a point no i'm not gonna say church but god but but but

01:08:49.360 you can start there you could go ahead sorry god church is the last stop on the train oh god

01:08:58.240 church is the lobster trap of marriages secular society has destroyed women there is zero question

01:09:04.320 about that yeah um but but how do you like what what's the solution here um change the rules

01:09:11.600 other than other but that isn't that doesn't fix the quality of women that are available to men

01:09:17.200 it will it will how because as women abide by the rules yeah as soon as as soon as like aliens land

01:09:24.720 and say everybody is going to speak this alien language now women will be like yeah i have always

01:09:29.680 done it and i always love i didn't before i knew it before you and what's the real change you just

01:09:34.240 make marriage binding without yeah you have to you you have to make marriage the way it used to

01:09:40.160 be where when you get married it's for real like they make vows about good times and bad and then

01:09:44.160 they go well i'm not happy right those are the bad times right you're supposed to vow your way

01:09:48.640 through that so until 1970 if you wanted to get divorced you had to go to court and sue it was

01:09:54.880 civil litigation it was a big deal yeah and everything okay what about a high barrier to

01:10:00.960 entry where if a woman wants to get married she has to give him all of her texts for the last

01:10:05.760 10 years that's exactly what i was doing and and he has to have access to all of her social media

01:10:14.880 but that that used to be the way it worked pearl because the guy knew her her whole life yeah

01:10:19.440 so he knew all this yeah so now you're you're marrying like a crackerjack prize of a woman

01:10:24.240 you don't know what you're going to get in the in the box and and you just have to trust her

01:10:30.240 our friend in the bald hat here i'm sorry sir i don't remember your name right below me in the uh

01:10:34.000 there's jason right jason so you met your your wife very young right that's a huge advantage

01:10:38.960 that's a huge advantage because you know that history of her right but for many of us if we're

01:10:45.440 28 30 years old whatever and we meet a woman we're thinking about marrying we don't know what the f

01:10:50.560 she's been doing for the last 10 years and it's probably not good and even if they're young like

01:10:55.440 i know a girl that's 22 and she just ended in engagement because you didn't want her to post

01:11:00.960 the thirst trap but i'm not jesus i think about this that's paper thin loyalty marriage used to

01:11:10.720 be a combining of families right yeah so you know the you would know the girls she would know you

01:11:16.080 you know your family now you have people marrying into families that absolutely hate them yeah it's

01:11:22.080 like how's that gonna work understand i'm saying like it's not but why do that in the first place

01:11:28.000 that's why it's ending it's important to choose the right person people do it well the pro the

01:11:34.960 problem is we just women we have a tendency to do this bait and switch where once we get what

01:11:40.400 we want we just like become different people yep you know that's i've had that happen the

01:11:45.680 some of the best advice i've ever gotten was was those who don't have to won't and once women get

01:11:51.520 married they don't have to anymore so so they won't uh let me ask a question does it help more

01:11:57.200 if the if the man dates a lot before he gets engaged or gets married so it helps him it helps

01:12:03.760 it helps him know how to pick but then it doesn't change who there is to pick from

01:12:07.440 but i was just gonna say i like i think some of these points are valid but but also in the

01:12:17.440 selection process whether you're young or older we enter marriage uh very cavalierly we don't um

01:12:24.640 have serious discussions we don't get pre-marriage counseling we don't like agree on a set of actual

01:12:30.960 set of values like we we go into marriage like it's like the next step of dating um and and a

01:12:37.600 lot of these problems are avoided by actually having a a covenant set out of of things that

01:12:45.040 are non-negotiables for you that you need to behave like this and this is how the marriage

01:12:49.200 is going to be and then again i'm fine with a marriage system where you can't just divorce

01:12:56.480 because you had a bad day or because of this or that i'd be fine with that kind of reform but i

01:13:01.760 do feel like we're like there's like no accountability in this conversation for uh the man to lead and

01:13:07.680 the man to uh put structures in place to know what he's getting before he actually puts the ring on

01:13:18.720 if we had honest marriage counseling it would look like you know that little pamphlet that

01:13:22.320 comes with the pharmaceuticals you get at the drugstore you unfold it into 38 pages of side

01:13:26.880 effects that's what honest marriage okay russia passed a slap law works wonders female testing

01:13:33.200 is evolution in all species the natural evolutionary response has been removed from that

01:13:38.000 yeah there's a there have been a ton of times in my life that uh just a little bit of you know

01:13:43.040 it's slightly illegal activity could have solved a problem but it's like what like you know you

01:13:49.520 can't you can't like shake shake a woman and say why are you behaving like this like sean connery

01:13:55.520 said oh every once in a while you have to slap her a little you can't say that you can't even

01:13:59.280 say that these days or else people will say oh you're an abuser sometimes silence is better

01:14:04.880 silence works wonders sure i mean sorry god god no yeah i mean like withdrawing the relationship

01:14:11.120 is one thing but there's like i don't know i've had women hit me and been afraid to hit them back

01:14:15.840 i've had women break my stuff i've had i've had you know i didn't always know how to pick

01:14:21.280 the this has not been happening lately but like in my early 20s i've had stuff like that happen

01:14:25.760 and i feel like um being not being afraid to show aggression would have fixed that problem

01:14:35.200 that goes back to my original question is men walking away from people from aggressive people

01:14:40.160 including women smart or weak well home how tall are you how big are you are you a bigger guy

01:14:46.240 i'm a bigger guy i'm i'm i'm getting older so i'm a little tubby around the middle right now but i

01:14:50.820 am uh muscular and five foot eleven and these bitches just come up and hit you well when they've

01:14:56.160 been living with me for a while i'm six too i've had them hit me yeah they it's because they know

01:15:02.620 you won't do anything yep no consequences yeah wow they're literally getting your face what are

01:15:08.740 you going to do what are you going to do i'm sorry go ahead bro that's okay so um home math so what

01:15:13.460 do you think of the original question we got a little off topic so do you think that men walking

01:15:19.280 away from aggressive people this could include smart or weak the reason i thought of this was

01:15:24.640 because of that uh video of the ball and that woman crashing out on the guy where he had the

01:15:30.420 baseball and he just gave it to her oh that oh my god yeah i also thought of it because i feel as

01:15:36.880 though, white Christian males are the least likely to fight back or retaliate. Well, I would say

01:15:44.500 they're the most likely to walk away. And some would argue because they have more to lose.

01:15:49.740 They're busy working. And their reputation. Yeah. Others would argue, yeah, the worst

01:15:57.380 consequences. Others would argue that it's because they're weaker. And I just wanted to see your take.

01:16:02.380 go ahead i think okay so it's a complicated answer but the the most true answer is that they're

01:16:07.900 individually smart and collectively weak so collectively men are just saying okay all right

01:16:12.780 change all the rules like it all comes back to the rules individually we know if i try to make

01:16:18.460 a stand by myself the whole society is going to be you know against me that's like um there's

01:16:26.300 a lot of different pairings of of types of people that you can you know like a transsexual or gay

01:16:32.060 or whatever wherever you are on the victimization hierarchy if you're if you're higher than someone

01:16:37.820 else they can mistreat you and you can't do anything back because then they'll say they'll

01:16:42.460 call in all the dogs and they'll say you are oppressing me and then you have it's not just

01:16:47.740 one person versus one person it's one person versus the whole apparatus of law enforcement

01:16:53.260 and society so on an individual basis they are white men are just being smart they're thinking

01:16:59.580 ahead and they're saying there's no way i'm going to win this in the long run like i could win this

01:17:04.060 individually right now but in the long run this is the smart move but collectively they're just

01:17:10.520 not doing anything about it i have a lot of why do you think that is because i was in a twitter

01:17:16.400 space the other day and i was and you know i was i was arguing with this muslim guy and he was

01:17:22.500 because i was saying that white men never get to talk about their issues really and i'm like you

01:17:26.860 know there's black lives matter there's and i'm like even the fact that like it's mostly white

01:17:31.940 people protesting for palestine like they'll protest for palestine before they'll they'll

01:17:37.300 protest for white male issues and i'm like and then he was trying to argue that muslims have

01:17:42.740 it the same in london i'm like we gave you all of london what more do you want right it's got

01:17:47.420 this whole city like but he's he's crashing out on me but uh sorry i'm but my my question is why

01:17:55.740 like why could other groups collectively talk about their issues but white people don't seem

01:18:00.780 to have especially white christians don't seem to have that go ahead yeah it's it's it's just um

01:18:07.020 the it's institution it's institutional power that's why because if uh andrew wilson talks

01:18:13.100 about like i think he calls it force doctrine exactly yep and um we all know like on a really

01:18:20.220 really deep level on a deep subconscious level we know that if we start a conflict with somebody

01:18:25.340 and it and it escalates and escalates and escalates it ends up being physical

01:18:29.820 and so we know subconsciously that if a conflict gets physical the police are coming

01:18:36.860 and we can anticipate their decisions who are the police going to defend it's never the white guy

01:18:43.180 every romance movie is about a woman cheating yeah it's true yeah yeah and they all cry and

01:18:50.860 and the guy always takes her back yeah i know in the notebook both of these like

01:18:57.900 chat these giga chads are like begging for this cheating woman

01:19:03.180 yeah that's the fantasy yeah it's like that's the woman fantasy right she wants to be able

01:19:08.300 to cheat and the guy she cheated on still wants her back i had i had it's crazy because both of

01:19:14.300 of them were like crazy good looking like why are you cheating because it makes them watch

01:19:19.560 yeah i know god that i had a uh early on i think i was like 25 26 i was dating someone who i had

01:19:26.480 known for a long time and she just didn't like me earlier in life and then i sort of transformed

01:19:30.540 myself and um i found out that she was cheating on her boyfriend with me and uh and so then she

01:19:38.040 eventually broke up with him and asked me to be with her and i was like no you're a cheater and

01:19:41.860 was like but i'm worth it that's what she said and i was like no you are absolutely not she

01:19:47.780 barely made it over the line before that all these marginal broads are the worst yeah and then at least

01:19:56.020 if they were really hot you could say all right i'll give you that one i'll give you a chance

01:20:01.620 exactly exactly i gave her i gave her a chance after she wasn't taking care of herself and spent

01:20:06.580 her money poorly and everything and i was like well i like her for some reasons and then it was

01:20:10.900 it became obvious that she would cheat on me the moment that she got the opportunity and i went

01:20:14.820 no this is this like that's not even a small percentage as good as i thought it was and then

01:20:20.340 it crashed out huh was it yeah yeah well she's yeah she got upset she didn't like attack me or

01:20:26.580 anything but she didn't understand it and then i checked with her 12 years later and she still

01:20:30.900 didn't understand it she was cheating on the next guy there you go he was a serial cheater yeah

01:20:38.020 it's like if your next door neighbor has a shitty car that's always breaking down and then he decides

01:20:42.500 to offer it to you for sale it's like you want to buy my shitty car it's like yeah uh no i don't

01:20:46.740 think so they're addicted to the fantasy they want to be worth it okay so i want to know from you

01:20:52.980 guys what is a situation where you would fight back at a situation where you would not fight back

01:20:59.860 where where in your head are you like well i agree i'm not physically fighting a woman unless

01:21:06.340 she's trying to kill me but but that's a different question then will you tell a woman no those are

01:21:10.580 two different things but if it comes to hands-on i'm not fighting her unless she's trying to stab

01:21:15.220 me or shoot me right yeah i think i would have to i think i would have to not be identifiable

01:21:22.740 what about you jason so from a morality it's not a morality issue it's just if

01:21:27.700 if you could be identified practical okay i mean i i don't i don't know how um

01:21:34.740 you justify putting your hands on a woman unless she's going to kill you i you just can't justify

01:21:38.820 it in my head unless you're under threat your family's under threat women are smaller they're

01:21:44.020 not a they're not a threat to you unless i guess you're david hogg or something then maybe maybe

01:21:49.060 it's a threat to you but um i think anything else and i think you're a coward that's just the way i

01:21:54.260 see it yeah and you would say that even if aside from the legal risk right because i'm really

01:22:00.340 speaking of the legal yeah i'm not speaking from a moral position yeah right it could be legal to

01:22:05.700 to slap a woman who's screaming at you and i would still find it morally not you are an exceptional

01:22:11.860 man i i really respect that that's pretty that's pretty strong i think if it were legal i think a

01:22:17.220 lot of guys would be throwing hands yeah let's let me here i got one hold up hold up okay wait

01:22:26.580 let me share my screen then we can decide together equal fight

01:22:35.860 okay here we go this is oh yeah oh god

01:22:45.300 equal left sequel right

01:22:46.500 so i remember this

01:22:50.100 it's actually new year's eve

01:22:52.860 she's hitting him first

01:22:55.820 yeah so i hope that doesn't

01:23:01.820 you know the funny thing about it he hit her on beat too

01:23:05.460 it was right on time with the kick drum

01:23:10.300 how about this oh my god how about the ray rice situation you guys remember ray rice

01:23:16.200 that's the elevator situation right yeah because what happened was real fast they

01:23:22.360 they were together in high school they broke up in college and then right when he graduated high

01:23:26.280 school from the nfl he got together with the story in high school they're physically violent

01:23:30.840 with each other so they had a couple of kids they were on valentine's day she said look i want to

01:23:36.280 spend valentine's day by ourselves he said okay cool but then the ravens were going to have an

01:23:40.680 event in atlantic city so he said we're going to atlantic city instead so she was yelling and

01:23:45.800 screaming at him from balcimore all the way to atlantic city they went to the event he got drunk

01:23:51.560 he was pulling her out of the event he hit and punched him and then she spits in his face and

01:23:58.280 he knocked her out okay we're gonna watch that here we go look at the upper edge of the video

01:24:03.960 those are janae's feet walking into the picture ray is standing by that pillar he leans forward

01:24:10.120 as she walks by janae flicks her left hand at him she then heads to the elevator ray follows

01:24:17.400 notice janae seems to walk into the wall just before entering just before the doors close a

01:24:22.920 woman walks by she does not seem to notice anything out of the ordinary oh she never appears to look

01:24:28.440 into the elevator but from the inside you can see the moment that woman walks by something happens

01:24:34.280 between ray and janae he hits her with his left hand as you can see the doors are still open

01:24:40.760 as the doors close she gathers herself and approaches ray in that moment oh my god

01:24:51.720 he should be ashamed of himself for that one

01:24:55.800 really then he grabs her under the arms and drags her out laying her face down on the ground

01:25:04.280 So first off, she still appears to be unconscious.

01:25:12.560 I wanna see him close the elevator doors on her legs.

01:25:15.800 As he stands over her, the security guard appears.

01:25:18.620 Turned her into a carpet.

01:25:19.780 Ray tries to sit her up.

01:25:24.140 She slumps back to the ground,

01:25:25.840 but appears to be coming out of it a little.

01:25:28.280 The security guard steps in and Ray retreats.

01:25:31.520 The guard holds the door while talking to Ray.

01:25:34.280 Janae is gathering herself together now the guard appears to be speaking with

01:25:39.500 Janae he's talking into his radio she puts her head in her hand after a couple

01:25:45.140 of people walk by Ray approaches Janae and appears to take her shoes Ray then

01:25:50.300 turns to another man off screen and while they are talking others appear

01:25:54.680 including a woman who is comforting Janae I wonder if the security guard asked her

01:26:00.720 what did you do what did you do to make him hit you that's the thing is because she spit first

01:26:06.400 off she was he he had to grab her by the arm and pull her out of the event because he said he

01:26:12.560 barely hit he barely hit her that was a mike tyson that was an event with all the coaches

01:26:20.960 and all the rest of the players and she got way too she's yelling and screaming at him for hours

01:26:26.080 on the way up there gets way too drunk he has to pull it by the arm out of the out of the event

01:26:32.640 she's swinging at him she spits in his face uh it's still assessing men are just expecting to

01:26:40.560 have some supernatural amount of patience everyone has their limit and and one last thing they're

01:26:48.000 still married to this day she's stuck by him the whole time you want to know why because she knew

01:26:53.360 she was wrong she's still with him yeah that was you think that's why she's still with him

01:27:00.240 and not maybe it has to do with the the nfl career and the nfl players they get divorced

01:27:10.800 he got kicked out of the nfl after this after this he's never played again ever he lost everything

01:27:18.140 He's a personal trainer in Philadelphia now, maybe making six figures.

01:27:22.500 His career ended from that moment right there.

01:27:26.760 You think his training has had to slap women around?

01:27:31.940 She must not have a father at home.

01:27:34.080 Dude would have to go after something like that.

01:27:37.440 Wait, what do you mean?

01:27:39.260 I'm sorry that her father, if she had a father at home,

01:27:41.940 he wouldn't let her stay with her.

01:27:43.120 You don't think the father might say, hey, if you spit in your husband's face

01:27:46.980 and he slaps you to the ground maybe you earned it i don't think that was a slap that was a left

01:27:52.820 look that was a yeah yeah that was a point and i think you think her father raised her to spit in

01:27:57.540 her husband's face well of course i i would maybe and that's happening i mean that's a whole other

01:28:02.580 conversation that we haven't had about women guys come on it's a two-way street yeah you can't you

01:28:11.620 spit you spit in your husband yes she has no she has no respect she has no dignity she's godless

01:28:19.460 and that's not within the bounds of a biblical marriage right not at all your husband's

01:28:24.580 i think but neither is hitting your wife so you just prove them

01:28:28.580 eric all right but who broke open the walls first he didn't hit her first he didn't punch

01:28:33.620 her and then she spit on him but well we don't know what was going on before the video that we

01:28:38.020 well so we don't know we do we can only judge by what we know right what we know is out of a party

01:28:42.740 because she was too drunk irate in front of a bunch of people that's what happened after that

01:28:47.540 before the video you guys want to pick and choose what biblical means biblical is not

01:28:53.540 retribution i'm asking you is spitting in your husband's face biblical not even close well i'm

01:28:59.380 asking you you're telling me it's not unacceptable hitting your wife unacceptable and unbiblical

01:29:04.740 So you have two people on biblical marriage, conflict, violence, disrespect.

01:29:11.440 There's a sequence of events, right?

01:29:12.900 Does spit happen first?

01:29:15.360 Sure.

01:29:16.500 It happened first, but it doesn't mean that he gets to-

01:29:19.240 You can't even slap a bitch.

01:29:21.240 You cannot.

01:29:22.440 I'm trying to divide.

01:29:24.540 Go ahead.

01:29:25.760 In this situation, let's say this.

01:29:28.940 Would he have done the same thing if Shaquille O'Neal spit in his face?

01:29:32.140 if the answer is no then it wasn't awful yeah no that's not that's not the right question

01:29:36.660 if a man of his own size and spit in his face what would he have done yeah he would have punched

01:29:42.580 that man in the throat and yeah you gotta you have to do that you have to treat men and women

01:29:46.560 different because they're like a physically different constitution i'm trying to divide

01:29:50.100 types of retaliation into correction and harm

01:29:52.740 where under correction you have shaking slapping grabbing pointing you know just like i won't do

01:30:04.900 that again no joke and then over here there's the ko any weapons no choking i don't i don't think i

01:30:10.340 would choke a woman unless she asked me nicely i don't think i would fair enough no matter i don't

01:30:15.940 think even if she did like the math gets the hose i was about to say how is this working out in in

01:30:24.420 dating what do you mean in general i need you to come back at year 13 you got nothing for me yet

01:30:31.380 i mean i i think i oh no the kid the youngest kid has to be 13 then you can come back with your

01:30:37.700 victory lap i don't want to i've seen men more confident than you go down and we all hope you

01:30:47.940 will by the way i hope you do yeah it is the thing red pill channels they can say guys don't get

01:30:54.740 married don't get married in my lifetime the majority of men at least 50 will get married

01:31:00.820 it's just we want you to know what's coming if it happens i don't want to see you crying

01:31:07.380 crying into the front camera of your phone oh my god she left me she's taking my kids

01:31:11.940 you knew i would take it like a man you make an informed decision that's all we're saying

01:31:17.140 make an informed decision yeah it's like if you know you can just see it coming like i told my

01:31:23.140 brothers i'm like look when your youngest kid hits like preschool i would just expect it might not

01:31:27.940 happen i just expect it you know there ought to be an insurance policy you can buy yeah you know

01:31:35.060 what i mean because she'll start going to get a job and then someone's going to be hotter than

01:31:38.820 you at work or she'll start watching some guy she'll be a trad wife but she'll start watching

01:31:44.420 like ben shapiro and be like why don't you debate like ben you're not even just competing with the

01:31:53.140 men at work you're now competing with the men online and the ones she can contact on instagram

01:31:59.700 yeah you know she doesn't even have to contact them it could just be on on reels and she's like

01:32:10.260 so once you start a business right where where men they get married they can place bets on when

01:32:16.740 their wife's gonna divorce them and and when the wife divorces them if they're close or on the dot

01:32:24.500 they get a payout i want to tell you a story so there is a friend i had a friend in london he's

01:32:29.940 dating this girl and she said something to him that was so disrespectful and i just said to him

01:32:38.500 if you dump her i will give you 500 right now to break up with her and never talk to her again

01:32:46.740 and he took it and now he's getting married to this girl he got a new girlfriend like 30 days

01:32:52.580 later was she better oh god yeah yeah no she was way better she was like thinner night this girl

01:32:58.740 was so you ever see a guy that's just like demasculated constantly yeah i was like please

01:33:04.500 and i was just like please i will give you 500 right now if you just never talk to her again

01:33:13.860 i've never tried paying them yeah i think at that point they the men they do the cost benefit

01:33:20.260 analysis yeah like the money's on the dresser oh

01:33:28.740 andrew how much money would you have needed to divorce your wife from wife one

01:33:34.660 how much money yeah like if someone said that to you in your first marriage when it was really on

01:33:39.540 the rocks i literally gave up every penny i owned i was 40 years old post-divorce and dead broke

01:33:47.620 that's how much that divorce was worth did you have to start over in a studio apartment with

01:33:52.900 an air mattress well it was a two two bedroom apartment thank you very much

01:34:00.020 i had an air mattress and and the women loved it huh yeah

01:34:06.660 we love very long afterwards as a 40 year old i was dating the 25 year old who i married to today

01:34:12.260 yeah there you go we love a post-divorce man where we could just come in and like save you

01:34:18.260 or whatever we don't actually but we will take the credit you know what i mean

01:34:25.300 your life begins after divorce in that in that one bedroom or two bedroom apartment with no

01:34:31.140 furniture with only two or three boxes to your name maybe you kept your car but that's where

01:34:37.140 your life starts guys right there so does it work better if the woman's younger

01:34:43.300 and no because uh do you know what you you get two problems it's yes it does if you can out

01:34:51.940 compete all the men she's comparing you to yeah the challenge you get with the two young is

01:34:57.700 sometimes they feel like they missed out i wish we didn't but that is a yeah like it's like under

01:35:03.380 i think 21 is like one of the highest divorce rates sadly i mean i'll say it worked for me

01:35:10.420 but but i don't recommend it as a plan it's like if i i feel like i i got the last chopper

01:35:16.340 chopper out of vietnam i feel like the lottery is not a retirement plan right so just because

01:35:22.900 someone wins the lottery doesn't mean they know how to do it right yeah okay well math what do

01:35:28.340 you got for me so like are we hitting bitches or no well i mean not as long as it can ruin your life

01:35:35.620 okay this is all this is all theoretical okay it's just you know if if you if it didn't wreck

01:35:41.780 your life you know what would it be okay and not okay to do okay because you know the the question

01:35:47.220 is is men walking away from aggressive people smart or weak it's like if you are you know an

01:35:52.980 average or maybe below average guy and you are with an average or below average woman and you

01:35:57.220 know they have problems and uh it gets to that point and you have to do some light correction

01:36:03.220 uh and and you are going to go to jail for it obviously you don't do it if you're not

01:36:07.940 going to go to jail for it and then you walk away that's weak you know letting people walk all over

01:36:12.260 you um but like what that guy who's that guy who just like turned his wife into a rug what in the

01:36:20.820 elevator oh right right right right right yeah that's like yeah i don't think there's i don't

01:36:27.460 think there's any reason to knock her out ever like she's not a threat to your life she's just

01:36:32.500 being a well i don't know why you date a guy like that yeah i don't know i'm not sure who that is

01:36:40.900 it's i mean you're dating like a you know it's just those guys are kind of like that go ahead

01:36:46.660 dude's a freaking nfl running back yeah freaking 0.01 oh he's nfl people for a living who runs the

01:36:53.140 ball this guy could could literally take people out with his bare hands and you're gonna spit in

01:36:58.100 his face come on man and yes ray rise could beat up shaquille o'neal i guarantee you there is a

01:37:04.900 certain degree of arrogance and entitlement on the part of the woman isn't there i mean come on

01:37:10.100 absolute narcissism she didn't date an accountant you know what i mean she dated the nfl running back

01:37:16.660 i need to uh go get speaking of wives i need to go get to my wife so i'm gonna can i make one

01:37:23.100 closing oh yeah and then you guys can roast me when i when i hop off i thought you were great

01:37:29.060 man i thought i appreciate it so this is all i'm gonna say because i appreciate you guys humoring

01:37:34.160 like the the actual christian conservative opinion because none of the stuff that we're

01:37:38.980 talking about incorporates that at all to be honest so this is what i would say is that it's

01:37:43.900 easy to roast biblical marriage as as a reasonable alternative but at the same time what i'm hearing

01:37:51.340 from everybody involved here is that actual biblical marriage is not at all at top of mind

01:37:57.500 when you're dating who you're looking for um the the standards that you're setting in place

01:38:03.900 you're not even taking that into account and then you're being like look at all these people

01:38:07.760 getting divorced and i can't find a good woman and this or that but you're actually not like

01:38:12.080 you're not playing by the playbook that I'm talking about.

01:38:15.200 So therefore, how could you even disprove

01:38:18.080 that it wouldn't help you in your search

01:38:22.220 to find a good virtuous woman to spend your life with

01:38:25.980 and treat it as a covenant under God

01:38:28.000 and not treat it as,

01:38:29.200 hey, I'm gonna wake up and divorce you

01:38:30.660 and take everything I have.

01:38:31.780 So that's all I would say is that I don't think,

01:38:34.640 until you've done it, if you do it and you're like,

01:38:37.880 hey, you're wrong, I did exactly what you said.

01:38:40.220 i opened the bible with my wife or my who i wanted to be my wife and we went through it and

01:38:45.780 we agreed that these were our roles and this this is you're going to treat me with respect you're

01:38:50.480 not going to talk down on me you're not going to do these things and she was like yes and then she

01:38:54.260 didn't do it then come to me be like you're full of it um but you haven't and so therefore it's

01:39:01.120 hard it's hard to like take this we're talking about hitting women it's like obviously that's

01:39:05.400 not that's not they will go like do that and you're you're probably not it's not a commandment

01:39:10.140 Exactly. Being against violence of all forms outside of self-defense and righteousness and

01:39:20.940 justice, it actually is. I don't think it's even debatable, to be honest. There are certain

01:39:28.600 instances for violence. The Ten Commandments don't say don't use fours. Well, right. It's not

01:39:33.260 the commandments, but the Bible is a lot more than the Ten Commandments. You have to go through the

01:39:36.600 text there's a lot of violence in the bible yes and there's reasons for there are times for violence

01:39:42.640 that it lays out clearly there are times for justice there are times for executions there

01:39:48.020 are times for a lot of stuff hitting your wife because she would you spank a child can i ask

01:39:54.720 you would you spank a child who is misbehaving so i i personally don't spank i'm not opposed to it

01:39:59.660 like i'm not trying to be critical no no i don't i don't spank but i'm not opposed to it um so why

01:40:05.780 wouldn't you a wife isn't that much different than a child why wouldn't you spank a wife let's go

01:40:10.060 i adhere to i in my personal life i adhere to what the bible says that the lord uh the lord's

01:40:20.280 soul hates those who uh love violence and those who impart violence no no but spanking a child

01:40:25.540 isn't loving violence yeah i don't think i don't think uh spanking a child developmentally is

01:40:33.500 helpful if you're if you have good godly strong discipline and strong leadership so i agree so i

01:40:40.680 just i don't adhere to that so i wouldn't speak my child wouldn't speak my wife um you know all

01:40:46.640 right but but so you wouldn't do it but would would it be fair to say that it's possible for

01:40:51.080 someone to be a biblical parent a biblical a biblical parent and and spank their child when

01:40:57.200 it's misbehaving you wouldn't say that's a sin correct and if they're doing it out of love for

01:41:01.620 proper corrective purposes right in the child parent relationship i see very differently than

01:41:07.220 a husband wife relationship which is one flesh you guys have never seen a wife that needs

01:41:11.700 correction like a child of course wives need correction but there is a way there is a way to

01:41:17.460 lead in a godly way and if you are an effective leader of your house and you command respect

01:41:22.980 you do not need to shake your wife you do not need to slap your wife she will respond

01:41:29.540 to your leadership and submit to your leadership isn't leadership shaping your wife

01:41:35.780 shaping you said shaping you shaking shaking no i said shaking sorry sorry because he mentioned

01:41:41.540 that sometimes you gotta if you're an effective leader and she submits to your leadership

01:41:46.020 you will not need to shake your wife to hit her to get to get her to submit to your leadership

01:41:51.300 that's okay if you do you're a bad leader and i think again like no no male accountability here

01:41:57.620 in the conversation in my opinion that if you're a bad leader and she doesn't submit to your

01:42:02.100 leadership honestly that's that's your fault but you need you need to be on the plan i know you

01:42:08.420 got to go but before you go i just want to say i really enjoyed this so this is a lot of fun i

01:42:12.820 appreciate it i don't mind being the odd man out um at all uh i'm a lawyer so i'm i'm argumentative

01:42:18.740 by nature but you guys didn't take it personally and i i thought it was very insightful you guys

01:42:23.460 were respectful and i appreciate it um for sure and i appreciate you pearl for for having me on

01:42:28.180 let me let me yeah do my thing thanks come on any time all right all right thanks oh yeah make sure

01:42:34.980 to pencil me and how old does my son have to be like i'll i'll give you 13 the youngest okay i'm

01:42:41.860 gonna put it on my 50 you're good yeah i'm gonna put it on my calendar all right bye

01:42:48.260 oh my god i sure hope it's on his son who's the next guest

01:42:52.800 women want to be they don't want bad women want to be disciplined then watch you dismantle police

01:43:00.920 in front of her but she lacks the foresight to understand it ends in jail yeah i think that's

01:43:05.220 right home math what do you think yeah that's that's what's that's what's going on subconsciously

01:43:09.860 they just want to see they want to see you be like a big lion that can that can handle anything

01:43:15.060 but they like it's the subconscious mind so she doesn't her subconscious mind doesn't understand

01:43:20.780 that it's asking you to like beat up eight cops and then stay out of jail

01:43:25.380 she doesn't know she's thinking it it's hometh you did a great takedown of that video the chick

01:43:31.160 who had the the sword under the the chin right all women want is they want a man to step up and

01:43:36.700 put that sword tip under their chin and raise them up it's like yeah that's how women subliminal

01:43:41.300 minds their subconscious mind that that's how it works it's just evolutionary biology yeah it

01:43:46.820 doesn't always take the same form i forgot the guy's name who just left but what he was just

01:43:50.260 saying is if you exercise leadership then she'll fall in line that's there's always force behind

01:43:54.900 this force doctrine it's just like andrew said there's always there's implied force so when you

01:43:59.460 and your wife are disagreeing and if you're an appropriate leader and you don't ever have to be

01:44:02.980 physical and you say this is the way it is and she goes okay she gives up what she wants and follows

01:44:08.180 you there's always there's it always comes down to force it always comes down to i better not

01:44:13.860 escalate this because then something worse could happen yeah and and she has to respect you for

01:44:19.540 that so it's like when women when women are doing their testing it's it's like i don't respect you

01:44:25.380 right now i don't cha-cha sissy girls cha-cha sissy girls from nerd poison okay w smash bros

01:44:33.940 uh boss hand home math okay can i ask co-math to address a point he just touched on because

01:44:40.500 i think it's so important it's that women test their men yeah all the time it's actually a

01:44:47.700 survival factor from evolutionary biology lions testing their men to make sure their men are not

01:44:52.980 pussies yep yep even animals do it yep then they don't know they're doing it they just sort of

01:44:58.340 feel cranky and they just go and then you know if you if well you know that's what they sound

01:45:06.020 like and then if you if you do the appropriate thing in in return which you know like a lot

01:45:11.860 of guys will say that it's just sex like rough sex in particular then she goes oh oh well then

01:45:17.860 now i'm satisfied now i feel like you're strong again yeah and guys there are other parts of the

01:45:23.940 world there are other parts of the world where men still correct their wives using good old

01:45:30.500 fashion yeah what's been used for thousands of years in fact a lot of western women they travel

01:45:36.900 and they figure out that men will correct women outside of the west yeah you have whole travel

01:45:42.740 towns and and influencers saying ladies if you're from the united states and you go to

01:45:48.180 singapore or you go to nigeria you get in some guy's face you're gonna have a problem but it's

01:45:53.540 It's a different legal structure.

01:45:55.500 The laws are different.

01:45:57.180 I know a video.

01:45:58.660 Can you pull up the eight ball jacket video

01:46:01.020 where the guy smacks the girl on a plane in New York City?

01:46:04.340 That's a good one.

01:46:05.920 Yep, I got it.

01:46:07.460 All these men slapping women.

01:46:09.380 It's like, that's the good one.

01:46:12.580 I'm going to see the woman's head drop back.

01:46:14.700 It was a special situation.

01:46:16.160 Are we going to do Google Doc?

01:46:18.100 Yeah, I got it right here.

01:46:19.580 With the correction, what happened to finesse, though?

01:46:21.880 does it always have to be physical violence no that's it's a it's a last resort okay oh yeah

01:46:29.060 this one yeah eight ball let me speak internet right here

01:46:34.280 all right look at the size difference that's the crazy part

01:46:43.180 And look at her friends cackling, and this guy's 6'7".

01:46:50.180 That came out in 1990.

01:46:53.180 We can already know this is bad.

01:47:00.180 Get your money up.

01:47:04.180 I'm done.

01:47:06.180 Get your money up.

01:47:08.180 all right

01:47:38.180 Oh

01:48:08.180 It's like, why doesn't anybody ride public transportation?

01:48:21.820 That's why you stay away from New York.

01:48:24.280 New York City is the biggest toilet on the planet.

01:48:26.780 Take the subway.

01:48:27.780 It'll be fine.

01:48:28.840 I don't ever.

01:48:29.660 I'm never going back.

01:48:31.000 I lived there for 20 years, man.

01:48:32.740 It was miserable.

01:48:33.860 I lived there for one year.

01:48:34.960 I think.

01:48:35.740 Yeah.

01:48:35.940 actually the last fight i had was in new york city saving a guy's life

01:48:42.860 who was getting attacked by a homeless guy with a brick was the actual last fight i had

01:48:47.980 wow yeah yeah i don't miss new york that much anymore yeah yeah no thanks it was it was pretty

01:48:58.520 good in the 1990s yeah even the early 2000s was good it went bad quick yeah but yeah so

01:49:05.960 we're talking about women and men and men walking away women have created this problem where they've

01:49:13.320 been pushing equality for so long that a lot of the gen z years and younger boys honestly think

01:49:19.640 that women are equal and they will put hands on them yeah honestly like you you can't have this

01:49:25.800 whole men shouldn't hit women but then women pushing that women are are equal to men you

01:49:32.360 can't do it the men know the women aren't equal they just know that the women have the law behind

01:49:37.160 them no no no no andrew what i'm saying you're not understanding what i'm saying

01:49:42.680 young gen z and younger boys are more likely to hit women because they've been raised that women

01:49:49.160 are equal to them oh is that right is that yes 100 yep uh-huh yep yep i have nephews and they're

01:49:56.840 like man i dare a girl put a hand on me but that's what happened when you raise when you put that

01:50:02.200 thought into into women and women are raised to young girls are raised to think that they're

01:50:07.720 equal so they'll put their hands on men and then boys together at the equal and they'll put their

01:50:12.120 hands back so there you go it's oh maybe the pendulum is swinging back in the right direction

01:50:16.440 pendulum i think the whole clock fell down the stairs like 40 years ago

01:50:22.080 i'm not sure if anything's swinging back um i don't know how we're going to get any of this

01:50:31.920 any of this into law like as long as the laws are this way they're they're kind of i i personally

01:50:37.520 you know i tend towards conspiracy thinking i i think that there are people designing laws

01:50:42.140 deliberately to uh dismantle society so absolutely 100 i can guarantee you as a lawyer

01:50:49.620 who's been around a bit that's exactly there there are whole ngos or whole law groups around

01:50:55.080 who spend they'll spend a decade designing statutes for their own political purposes

01:51:00.020 the moment they get political superiority they pass all those statutes into law yeah why do they

01:51:06.480 do that as a why not that's that's it's actually a very effective strategy a strategy for what

01:51:12.340 though like what are they trying to accomplish they just want to destroy america oh yeah pretty

01:51:16.980 much right they have a vision of america that's non non-viable but it's their vision nonetheless

01:51:23.040 it's like communism it's like socialism it's like all these things that can't work they've never

01:51:27.400 worked we've tried it a hundred times always millions of people die but but they still have

01:51:31.940 the vision i think it's just like they want to make their wives happy and like they're like the

01:51:37.300 wives are in their ear and they're like today it's often it's women doing this now it's women lawyers

01:51:42.420 women judges women legislators it's oh that makes more sense yeah you have to remember once once the

01:51:50.820 19th amendment was passed the majority of the population is women so the majority of the voting

01:51:55.620 population is women so the moment women can vote 51 of the population that's voting is women

01:52:02.740 you've just suddenly become a woman majority electorate and women i think we can all agree

01:52:09.220 they see the world differently they feel differently about things they view things

01:52:12.820 differently they make different decisions and calls than men would make so you end up with a

01:52:18.500 very different society they're a lot more subconscious they have lunar consciousness

01:52:24.340 if you want to get into the spiritual uh the esoteric aspect women have a more of a they're

01:52:30.340 they're the moon and men are the sun and men will just come right out and say this is how things are

01:52:35.300 this is what i want this is what i'm doing and women will just say uh here's an excuse for a

01:52:39.620 feeling i have and then they'll write that into law without ever knowing what they're doing

01:52:44.660 right and and frankly for good reason i mean home math know this but of course from evolutionary

01:52:49.060 biology women have to get along right women can't go out and hunt and kill the enemy they need men

01:52:54.100 to do that women are back in the village raising the kids and if they can't if they're if they're

01:52:58.660 excluded from the female tribe they die their children die so they have to get along with the

01:53:04.180 other women it's much more cooperative i'm not going to get in your face i'm not going to be

01:53:08.500 explicitly hostile men will punch each other in the face for an hour and then be best friends

01:53:14.100 afterwards women don't operate that way no they they you wear the same dress and then you're not

01:53:19.940 friends anymore for the rest of your life right i had that illustrated over here i got the women

01:53:27.220 holding hands i have another reaction on on the document if you can this is what's going on with

01:53:34.420 the young ones out there and it's gonna take me a second to pull it up hey home math i sent you

01:53:41.780 uh a message in the private chat let me take a look at it before you go oh okay cool gotcha

01:53:49.940 oh wait we got another one who wants to see more women getting hit today why not that last one was

01:53:58.400 funny how they all scattered like cockroaches hey in fairness they earned it yeah

01:54:05.000 she's ready for marriage now and you know what's crazy that that adrenaline she's gonna stay with

01:54:30.860 him forever you just fall in love with whoever gives us the most ups and downs you know yeah

01:54:37.420 so like if you get the if you get beat by your boyfriend yeah i mean i think they did a study

01:54:43.600 on that where they said like women who were beat by their boyfriends were more likely to stay

01:54:48.800 yeah they like them more yeah i mean if you get your wife to stay you just gotta hit a bit

01:54:54.960 i would hear stories back in the day where they would say women didn't think you loved them

01:55:00.660 if you didn't hit them yeah that's what a guy probably like back in the 80s i heard something

01:55:06.760 like that early 90s yeah yeah it's it's the dark you know very dark uh underbelly of human

01:55:13.920 psychology that we're ignoring everyone everyone wants to live in the in the smiling happy holding

01:55:18.800 hands world and we just don't and we don't acknowledge that have you guys just the men but

01:55:25.560 Have you never had women who like deliberately acted badly and you just

01:55:30.020 ignored it and let it go?

01:55:31.140 And they'd look at you and they say, aren't you going to fight for me?

01:55:33.980 Yep.

01:55:34.860 Right.

01:55:35.320 I have.

01:55:36.640 A couple.

01:55:38.540 I've always been.

01:55:39.740 They're goading you.

01:55:40.720 They're testing you.

01:55:41.420 This is the testing we turned about earlier.

01:55:43.240 Women are always shit testing their men.

01:55:46.700 They need to.

01:55:47.460 And again, this is evolutionary biology, right?

01:55:49.380 The women live or die depending on the quality of their men.

01:55:52.500 So they're shit testing their men to make sure they have the right one.

01:55:55.560 and they'll test you and they're watching your responses and they don't know they're doing it

01:56:00.200 they don't consciously know they're not they don't wake up and say i'm gonna test my man today

01:56:05.000 they just get a mood and they do it but they know if you fail here's the problem though

01:56:14.520 no here's the problem if you if you react and you react the same way they they do they lose all

01:56:19.800 respect for you yeah because why would they respect you if you respond the way they do

01:56:24.280 that means you're acting like a woman so that's why i would usually choose the silent treatment

01:56:29.320 walk away got the silent treatment right here yep wait wait oh wait let me can you blow that up some

01:56:40.680 ah this is this is one of my firewall this is this is one of my merch uh designs that sells

01:56:46.840 the most this is the this is the the what i use to instruct men to like she's gonna do this like

01:56:53.560 she's gonna say i want you to date me i want you to date me and then you do and she goes

01:56:57.640 go to hell i'll kill you and then you have to just go okay all right are you done and just wait

01:57:03.880 wait for her to tire herself out yep you can't react emotionally because then she'll say you're

01:57:08.680 you're weak it's like sleep training you gotta let them cry themselves to sleep yeah exactly as a man

01:57:14.360 you can't engage in that back and forth stuff you'll you'll lose respect for you instantly it's

01:57:18.760 it's not enough for some of them i dated a girl once who um who you know did this to me and i've

01:57:23.000 always been very good at conflict resolution i'm just very good with my words so she would create

01:57:27.240 a problem and then i would just use some words to like make it a good thing and she would go well

01:57:32.360 that sucks i didn't want it to be good i wanted you to fight with me why won't you why won't you

01:57:36.840 fight and i would just write hmm and i don't know well that's part of there's a lot of women the

01:57:43.960 silent treatment doesn't work well yes they want the argument yep that's why you have to know you're

01:57:49.000 out of your depth and you need to leave her alone pick another one that's why i didn't commit to

01:57:53.720 that one yeah don't get another i had a roommate one time he was dating this older woman he was

01:58:01.960 we were in our 20s and she was in her late 30s and she was a really pretty woman but she had had

01:58:07.000 bad relationships in the past no kidding we were at this bar and she she drank a little too much

01:58:15.240 and started getting kind of rowdy and he he grabbed her by the arm but pulled her outside

01:58:19.960 and there's an alley between the buildings right and she's in the alley like yelling what are you

01:58:26.600 gonna do hit me what are you gonna do hit me what are you gonna do hit me and so he's trying to talk

01:58:31.160 her down and she's yelling and screaming and stuff and people are walking by and i look outside and

01:58:36.920 he's literally in the alley with this girl yelling in his face for her to hit him yeah and so he

01:58:43.160 says you get to go home, and she went

01:58:45.240 home, and he's like, man, I told

01:58:47.360 myself I'd never be the guy

01:58:49.000 who's in the alley

01:58:50.540 fighting with this girl

01:58:53.120 with people walking by, looking at him like

01:58:55.100 he's doing something crazy. Yeah, it's a

01:58:57.220 disgusting feeling. But I was

01:58:59.340 that guy tonight. I was that guy.

01:59:01.300 I said, yes, you were.

01:59:04.580 And if some

01:59:05.360 random dude had walked by and hit her,

01:59:07.340 she would have left with that dude.

01:59:08.680 i know a woman who purposely started drama to get my cousin to react i asked her why she did that

01:59:19.340 she said to make sure he wasn't a punk yeah story some of them know some of them know what they're

01:59:24.500 doing the animal kingdom when the male can't check the weaker female in a day is the day he

01:59:30.460 can't keep her and the kids safe nature doesn't have stepchildren oh for sure yeah yeah

01:59:37.640 i realized that um some women deserve to get hit when i um dated somebody who after me that

01:59:48.200 got a dv charge and i was like that's kind of weird he never hit me he was like fine with me

01:59:54.280 yeah yeah like some girls just bring it out of them like some girls just want it i was just

01:59:59.560 chilling but as a man you gotta control that you gotta control that anger as a man

02:00:04.840 take that anger turning into words yeah everyone has their limits though bro like

02:00:09.960 you can't tell me that men are especially in our community like the men show supernatural levels

02:00:16.840 of restraint with our sisters our mothers our girlfriends our baby mamas dude come on

02:00:22.840 no one is more patient than us when it comes to women yeah we have to use our words because we'll

02:00:29.800 go to prison if we don't use our words yes that's a different question then would society be better

02:00:35.160 off if a woman could go off the rails and her man could slap her once across the face and

02:00:40.200 that would straighten her out would that be a better society yes i agree i wish i could slap

02:00:45.880 a from time i think you can i don't think anyone's gonna call you you would not go to prison for it

02:00:52.280 i'm not talking about beating a woman or abusing yeah for myself i said yeah i just wouldn't do it

02:00:57.960 i just had to pay somebody to go to court for a lawsuit because of words said yeah like i want

02:01:04.280 to go the physical round now right yeah i want to pay for it that's my problem we live in a

02:01:10.520 we live in a very weak society that wants safety it just wants everything to be nice and safe

02:01:15.800 i feel like if you i'm gonna win this it's okay i'm gonna win this case too it's like such an easy

02:01:21.480 shut and dry like but can you share i still yeah i mean it was some it basically some guy came on my

02:01:29.720 show and told his divorce story and his ex-wife is a crazy woman who basically said that she's

02:01:37.720 not a public figure and she was doxxed even though she was a public figure and wrote a book about her

02:01:44.040 divorce yeah like i'm not even kidding did speeches went on talk shows and this guy to be

02:01:57.240 honest andrew he kind of reminds me of your archetype like you guys are the same age you

02:02:02.440 guys are both happy-go-lucky guys so she has this monster on the public and he comes on my show and

02:02:09.040 he's just like smiling like he's a successful guy too you know it's just you guys kind of remind me

02:02:17.600 of each other and now i'm paying to go to court and he's paying to go to court and we're gonna

02:02:22.300 win i don't think we're gonna lose but it depends who you get doesn't it yeah but it's just such

02:02:29.640 it's such a bullshit case even the fact that i'm getting dry i'm like i didn't even say anything i

02:02:36.120 just interviewed the man yeah well they use the process as the punishment right so the risk of

02:02:41.880 losing can be very low but it's never zero and the cost of fighting is definitely never zero right

02:02:48.280 you're experiencing that now yeah i'm like is this gonna pay for my lawyer for

02:02:56.200 even if you win you lose yeah that's the thing about about prenups so you could just get a

02:03:02.680 prenup and you notice how much a woman can even just challenging a prenup she knows that she's

02:03:09.560 not going to be able to break it but she can take you to court it'll cost you money for her oh i

02:03:14.760 didn't know what is was when i said i didn't know what understand meant when i said i understood what

02:03:20.520 i was signing just that alone all right so here's the lowdown on prenups it's possible to make a

02:03:26.360 prenup that is genuinely ironclad it's possible to do it okay it's impossible to break except

02:03:34.160 a prenup can never protect you from child support the children if you have children with her the

02:03:41.340 children have rights that are independent of any prenup you signed with the mother

02:03:45.540 so when the moment you have children that all of that is outside the prenup and if you want a

02:03:51.440 prenup to be ironclad you need a very good lawyer doing it for you you can't have some mediocre

02:03:57.540 lawyer doing it he has to know exactly what he's doing and what's going to survive so it's

02:04:02.480 theoretically possible but the moment you have a child with that woman it opens the door to all

02:04:07.720 kinds of monetary compensation because the child has interest independent of the prenup but it

02:04:13.320 is monetary compensation that's not including alimony right there's child support the the

02:04:19.220 Prenup can cover alimony, right?

02:04:21.060 So you can define and restrict the alimony.

02:04:24.120 Okay.

02:04:25.020 But you have to remember, the judge in divorce court is often a woman.

02:04:28.580 And if she knows that you've managed to cut off alimony, she may make up for it with child support.

02:04:34.800 You understand?

02:04:35.600 So you end up paying the same amount?

02:04:37.820 Whoa.

02:04:39.620 Yeah.

02:04:40.100 It doesn't make any sense.

02:04:41.300 Remember, you're not divorcing a woman.

02:04:43.500 You're divorcing a woman and a legal system.

02:04:47.360 Yeah.

02:04:47.540 and yet some men still think it's worth it to get the nagging to stop yeah you mean the divorce

02:04:54.300 i i can tell you from my experience when i decided to get divorced i was 40 years old

02:04:59.880 i had two kids 13 year marriage when i decided to get divorced i made the decision the only

02:05:05.060 thing that mattered to me was having joint custody of my kids and i went to my then wife and i said

02:05:10.460 listen we have a house we have these assets we have this property i will give you everything

02:05:16.260 everything without a fight as long as we have joint custody of the kids as long as we don't

02:05:20.220 fight about that and she took that deal so i left that marriage 40 years old dead broke dead broke

02:05:27.440 but i had joint custody of my kids and i always figured i could make more money which of course

02:05:32.560 is what i ended up doing and i didn't lose time with my children but it cost me financially

02:05:39.180 everything now i don't know how old you guys are but imagine you work your whole lives to 40 years

02:05:45.460 old and i had a pretty successful life till 40. and then at 40 you press a button and all the

02:05:50.900 money goes to zero yeah i thought about it so did she ever try to um like bring you back to court

02:06:00.520 when your income went up in the future like no because i i i was very careful about crafting

02:06:05.320 the divorce agreement so there's ways to write the divorce agreement where that door is left open

02:06:10.220 and there's ways to craft a divorce agreement where that door is solidly shut and i made sure

02:06:14.880 it was solidly shut that's smart that's what happened with an nba player who paid his 1.7

02:06:22.000 million dollars in child support all the way up front and and now uh his ex is mad that she'll

02:06:28.500 never be able to get another cent out of him because he just signed some new contract yeah

02:06:33.000 yep what are you making there homer what do you got for me i see something you're cooking

02:06:38.380 this was i mean i'm just illustrating what we're talking about this one was from a little while

02:06:42.300 back where those people running away from the fight on the train there were it's just like

02:06:47.960 thinking about the future you know higher iq and being able to project what's going to happen

02:06:53.860 makes you make your decisions based on what's going to happen years from now what's my life

02:06:58.220 going to be like years from now that's what i think every time i i've gotten in a few situations

02:07:03.320 where i was about to get in a fight or i did get in a fight once and i had to think about

02:07:08.160 how's this going to affect my life in the long run there are people who cannot do that and they

02:07:13.140 just respond immediately and so this is why like putting women in charge and giving them power

02:07:18.500 selects for people who have lower iq and cannot think about the future because they just act out

02:07:24.800 and women are like that was hot you know someone asked me because i said i think the iq tests are

02:07:30.260 lying because they say that women have like similar iq to men or like men are both on

02:07:37.180 opposite ends and women aggregate in the middle and someone's like well how can you tell that

02:07:41.980 they're lying and i'm like i have eyes well yeah here's the thing though they they the the chart

02:07:49.320 that you're talking about where it's like let me get let me get a pink welcome it's like it's like

02:07:54.120 two normal curves two bell curves but the male is spread wider yeah the male is spread wider let me

02:08:00.120 get the pink so like this is an exaggeration it's not really like this but women are concentrated

02:08:04.800 towards the middle and men have more idiots and more geniuses in the middle and the these tests

02:08:12.040 you're talking about they have the same average but that's because they're controlling for height

02:08:16.960 so the taller you are the bigger your body is the bigger your brain is bigger brain more iq and men

02:08:21.820 are taller so men do have a slightly higher average when you don't control for height

02:08:26.040 well i still the other thing to keep in mind too is i just don't even believe that you know i just

02:08:35.420 think i think like i've just noticed everything in life with they always like shield us from

02:08:41.260 failing so why would i just be different you know what i mean yeah yeah there's some of that for

02:08:46.900 sure that's just what i think like i i was just in chicago and i was interviewing all these women

02:08:51.160 with marketing jobs and i'm like this is baby yeah we couldn't even do sales so they made

02:08:58.740 marketing for us oh no we have boobs we couldn't do sales and then they said you don't have boobs

02:09:06.520 that's fine you could buy them for like 8k we're like no what's a mark can we just run facebook

02:09:11.640 ads can you make that for us guys um what's your take on jay rello um slapping a working girl in

02:09:19.440 kenya for not leaving um can you uh find the clip is there a clip on it yeah i'm trying to

02:09:26.980 right now okay go ahead a working girl means like a like a working girl right like a prostitute right

02:09:32.400 yeah that's what i thought yeah i've been trying to look at this worker i can't find anything

02:09:37.840 one thing that struck me increasingly in recent years is you know the average iq is basically

02:09:43.100 defined at 100 right they just find the average they label that 100 and most of us in our

02:09:48.940 community if the people we normally deal with probably have iqs of like 120 130 maybe 140 yeah

02:09:55.260 but that means on the opposite side of that 100 there's a there's an 80 and a 70 and a 60. i mean

02:10:01.260 there are a lot of people out there who are really not much smarter than a cattle dog yeah and and

02:10:07.260 yet we we're socially conditioned to interact with them as if for politeness purposes as if they're

02:10:14.460 capable of thinking three chess moves ahead but they're not i mean this is the andrew wilson

02:10:19.340 question right how would you feel today if you didn't have breakfast this morning yeah the

02:10:22.220 breakfast question they're literally incapable of envisioning even that and and yet we pretend

02:10:28.460 these people are capable about making societally important decisions i know you're like you're

02:10:33.340 like ladies it's lizzo fat and they're like no she's a 10. yeah like we're just as smart as men

02:10:40.380 And I'm like, are we?

02:10:41.920 Yeah, really?

02:10:44.660 No, it's not true.

02:10:45.820 The level of IQ that you need to do impressive jobs, like doctor, lawyer, engineer, you find like four times as many men who are capable of that.

02:10:54.460 So when you're out in the world looking around at people who are, you know, impressive in intelligence, it's going to be just a lot more men than women.

02:11:00.600 And everyone else blends into the background, you know, because they just say the same dumb stuff.

02:11:04.800 I will tell you as a lawyer, I don't think much of most other lawyers.

02:11:08.520 I think most lawyers are not very good.

02:11:11.020 But of the lawyers I know who are good, and some of them are women, but I would agree, it's about a five-to-one ratio of lawyers who I consider top shelf who are men versus women.

02:11:22.180 It's not that women can't do that, but it's a small fraction of the percentage of men who are doing it.

02:11:28.100 yep guru iq test we need segregation of inner monologue from the non the npc is real and they

02:11:35.000 make they're making decisions without having a thought process i love hearing about people who

02:11:40.120 don't have an inner voice they literally don't have thoughts andrew yeah oh my gosh that's so

02:11:46.640 nice that's what i thought and i've heard stories about that where like uh people will say that

02:11:53.320 they don't have they don't they don't exist when other people are not around it's like how do you

02:11:58.080 how do you have how do you even have thoughts when you're by yourself and it's like what do

02:12:01.240 you mean well like you know when no there's no one around to tell you something how do you what

02:12:05.220 do you react to that's like all the things i'm thinking about right and they don't have that

02:12:09.600 that's the norm and yeah it's common it's not the norm for our community but it's a norm for

02:12:15.400 humanity what you're saying about women and lawyers in 2024 56.2 percent of law students

02:12:23.080 are women i know but they're not good lawyers how scary is that doug is this the um is it the

02:12:31.320 instagram one is that it none of it oh i didn't know if you put the video i didn't okay that's

02:12:37.640 a whole different one i wanted you to watch but i can't find this j rello guy that's all right

02:12:42.760 i was if you had it it's cool 90 of lawyers on that instagram one though i want you to show it

02:12:49.480 of the top 10 who are not bad it's about a five to one ratio men to women what makes a good lawyer

02:12:56.200 actually uh go to the facebook one first and then do the instagram one i'm sorry go ahead

02:13:02.440 it's mostly iq it's mostly problem solving ability but but we live in a world where we've we've

02:13:08.760 created a thousand law schools and we tell everyone they can be a lawyer and so we funnel

02:13:13.480 all these people through law school they get a degree maybe they even pass the bar exam and so

02:13:18.040 So they're out there practicing law, but they don't actually have the critical thinking ability necessary to be a good lawyer.

02:13:25.540 Now, in fairness, most law problems are not super complicated.

02:13:29.660 Most law problems, you can have a subpar lawyer and he'll do fine.

02:13:34.120 But if it's something that's important to you, if it's your divorce or it's your retirement or it's your if it's something that's important to you, you don't want one of those fucking mediocre lawyers.

02:13:45.080 Trust me. Yeah.

02:13:46.100 and also one more thing to say we're in what i call the great experiment where women feminists

02:13:52.760 have rewritten history and have had so they've romanticized work and they made women think that

02:13:59.500 men always work in these air-conditioned offices yeah and stuff like that so women want to try on

02:14:05.900 jobs they want to try on stem they want to try on medicine they want to try on law and they want to

02:14:13.700 it on for a couple years and if they don't like it they want to try something else yeah they think

02:14:18.260 it's a fashion item exactly exactly oh by the way i would point out too that that that small group

02:14:24.580 of women i would consider top tier lawyers they're not women that men marry oh right right they are

02:14:31.380 men they are men who just happen to be biologically women but yeah they are not women who highly

02:14:37.140 successful men marry as their wives they're the ones that do you know they're super aggressive

02:14:44.100 i mean they're tough who wants to marry that they gotta go for like the personal trainers

02:14:49.140 that are broke and just need money mostly they do that for like two years they get divorced and it's

02:14:55.380 they just stay single well it's for fun yeah okay wait hold on and but ended in a

02:15:02.180 it started as a footy finals celebration but ended in a sickening confrontation

02:15:08.900 a brisbane lions fan waved his scarf in the face of a passing woman who lashed out his response

02:15:15.460 sent her flying disgusting i think it's vile what the watch it gets better

02:15:25.060 it's like a okay reaction to have it's disgusting to see and just like went to like push her away

02:15:30.980 to just be like leave me alone why are their faces fun how fat are these women the confrontation

02:15:36.900 happened on september 21 after brisbane beat geelong in the prelim final there was a lot of

02:15:42.340 them so that was just really intimidating polly an english tourist had been out celebrating her

02:15:47.700 time here in melbourne with a friend instead she was left in hospital with a broken jaw days before

02:15:53.940 it was really scary because um like obviously this isn't my country i had stitches going from

02:16:02.620 like the left side of my cheek all the way like round to like here after a cross-border man hunts

02:16:09.400 for the brisbane lions fan late today he handed himself into police he'll now give his side of

02:16:15.440 the story before investigators decide on what happens next cassie's over you have got to be

02:16:22.020 kidding me yeah she punched him she she turned around and punched him and stood right in front

02:16:27.900 of him that's women now right there and you're supposed to just sit there and take it and i'm

02:16:33.840 telling you now more than ever she wasn't exactly wearing a nun's habit women are gonna run into

02:16:40.400 the wrong one man andrew in a situation like that can he claim self-defense i don't think so so

02:16:47.720 let's go based off american law because i i understand but uh self-defense is defending

02:16:52.680 yourself against an attack that's about to happen to you right if if i were to punch you and then i

02:16:58.600 stopped and you hit me back that would just be retribution on your part that wouldn't be self

02:17:02.760 defense okay does that make sense yes it would only be self-defense for you if you had a reason

02:17:08.040 to believe i was about to follow up the first punch with a second punch but if i punched you

02:17:12.040 and just said haha just joking and you punched me in the face which you would definitely want to do

02:17:16.920 right if you punched me in the face after i did that that wouldn't be self-defense that would be

02:17:21.000 just not legally that would just be retribution but then couldn't you also sue her for hitting

02:17:25.880 you first yes of course yeah that's a battery that's a crime yeah okay but then she could so

02:17:31.960 now in that case but the prosecutor is going to be a woman so yeah well is there is there some

02:17:37.160 doctrine about equal force like he can only hit her as hard as she hit him or something well he

02:17:42.520 he can only use proportional force but he can only use the force necessary to stop her but if she hits

02:17:48.520 and stops yeah what is he stopping after that right nothing right just embarrassing she's not

02:17:55.860 trying to come at him again if she hits him and then comes at him again well he can stop that

02:18:00.860 again with the force necessary to stop her but i didn't see that right she hits him she stands

02:18:08.700 there and he slaps her down that's that's a hard sell for self-defense yeah yeah it shouldn't be

02:18:15.820 this hard to describe it's like you know if there's something coming at you then you know

02:18:20.380 you put it down if there's a man attacking you you could knock him out there's a woman attacking you

02:18:25.020 you know probably shouldn't knock her out like that one guy in the elevator you can shove her

02:18:30.620 back you can strike her you can block her you can do what's reasonably necessary to avoid getting

02:18:35.580 struck by her yeah but when it's over it's over like that guy who your your privilege to use

02:18:41.420 force ends the instant you're no longer being subject to a physical threat okay when can i hit

02:18:47.420 a bit when can you you ask me professionally am i on retainer now girl yes so when like you know

02:18:56.380 where how far does my female privilege go like what do i get when you are in reasonable fear

02:19:01.660 of eminent unlawful harm from that bitch you can hit her okay so if she gets in my face and is

02:19:08.060 growling at me can i hit her yeah maybe that's enough right the trouble is here's the catch

02:19:13.260 when it comes to self-defense it's not you deciding whether what you did was lawful

02:19:18.780 right it's other people who are not there who are not associated with the event so it's the police

02:19:25.020 the prosecutor the judge the jury none of them were there when this happened right you're not

02:19:30.700 attacked when a cop is standing next to you the prosecutor obviously isn't there the judge is not

02:19:35.820 there the jury's not there all these people are hearing a story about what happened and they might

02:19:41.820 find that you know the prosecutor might tell a compelling story about how what you did was not

02:19:45.500 self-defense and then you end up convicted every case i work on i have to tell the client listen

02:19:51.820 it's really helpful if we can cut a deal because if i have to put you in front of a jury you can

02:19:56.460 be the most innocent client i've ever represented there's a 20 chance you go to prison that's just

02:20:01.820 a noise in the system yeah well it doesn't happen to me often i've only thought about it twice in

02:20:09.820 my life i did walk away you gotta keep one of those antifa hoods in your pocket you can slip

02:20:16.300 it on real quick you know what because it's like it's just always like these women have nothing

02:20:22.300 to lose so yeah like what i'm gonna get in trouble because you've decided that you want to ruin my

02:20:28.620 life not today dale yeah those are the main people who want to fight yeah yeah the people with the

02:20:36.620 least to lose are the most likely to attack you too which is unfair like if you built yourself

02:20:42.220 a nice life you got to just kind of hide away from people who might act ratchet yeah so what i tell

02:20:49.100 people is every time you get hands-on in a fight, you just incurred two risks you had not occurred

02:20:55.540 a moment before. One is you could literally die in the fight, right? That other person could turn

02:21:00.320 out to be a lunatic. They could have a knife. They could have a gun. They could have friends

02:21:03.180 who show up. They could beat you to death in the street. That's possible. And I don't care how good

02:21:07.580 you are with a gun or a knife or fighting. It might not be your day. You could lose the physical

02:21:11.880 fight. You could die. The other risk you're running is you could end up going to prison

02:21:16.720 for the rest of your life. You could end up having to kill that person, and someone decides that

02:21:20.720 wasn't lawful, and now you're going to prison for the rest of your life. So what I tell people is

02:21:25.140 before you get into that fight, just think to yourself, what are you willing to go to prison

02:21:30.800 for? There are good reasons to go to prison, right? I'd rather be alive in prison than dead

02:21:35.800 in the street. I'd rather be in prison than my wife killed or my children killed. But after that,

02:21:41.540 I begin to run out of things I'm willing to go to prison for.

02:21:45.580 And if you're not willing to go to prison over it,

02:21:47.940 you probably shouldn't be fighting over it.

02:21:50.200 Yeah.

02:21:50.520 Just stay away from them.

02:21:52.500 That's why I moved out to the woods.

02:21:54.920 Better be judged by 12 than carried by six.

02:22:01.540 Well, I guess I'll stand by my decision of walking away.

02:22:06.840 Yeah.

02:22:07.140 It's usually just the smarter.

02:22:08.500 That's back to the topic.

02:22:09.800 at what point do you guys think that somebody's bullying you too hard and you have to stop it

02:22:14.840 like if you had a son when it matters school like when do you call him to hit back

02:22:20.920 well you know i was just a unpopular opinion i assume that whenever i see something happen

02:22:27.800 at a school especially when when someone brings when it's a boy that brings a weapon to a school

02:22:33.720 and targets like a couple of people it's because he was being bullied and those those people wouldn't

02:22:39.640 leave him alone i think the majority of cases are bullies or bullying that quiet kid won't leave him

02:22:46.120 alone and then he finds his dad's weapon and takes him out so but if you think about it a necessary

02:22:54.520 condition of bullying is that the person being bullied is trapped yeah right because otherwise

02:22:59.720 you just leave that's why bullying happens at school because the state makes you go to the

02:23:04.200 school you have to go to the school every day right so you have to be subject to victimization

02:23:08.760 by the bully every day if you joined a gym and someone there started bullying you you just stopped

02:23:14.340 going so so bullying only happens where you're trapped so it can happen in school it can happen

02:23:20.000 in a job where you're trapped you know you feel you can't leave uh but the best response to

02:23:26.020 bullying for most adults is don't be there i mean you know don't put yourself in that environment

02:23:31.360 yeah well but so what would you tell a son at school so if he was in a situation where he can't

02:23:40.560 leave i don't i gotta be honest i just don't know i mean i'm 60 when i was when i was in school you

02:23:46.220 punched a bully you fought him but of course then you didn't have an expectation the bully would

02:23:51.200 have weapons either right so it was it was just going to be a fistfight there wasn't you weren't

02:23:55.340 going to end up stabbed behind the school and you weren't going to be prosecuted as a criminal for

02:24:00.500 getting into a fight with a bully in school yep because there are situations where the kid finally

02:24:07.380 fights back and then he gets prosecuted yeah yeah so i i never i got i got in lots of fights over

02:24:15.660 bullies when i was a kid in school but i never had to worry about prosecution or dying and that's not

02:24:20.780 the world today it's different uh that's a good point and then with girls see because cyber bully

02:24:27.700 is a thing, right? Because if you see a lot of

02:24:29.760 young girls, they'll feel off themselves

02:24:31.700 because of what happens

02:24:32.740 over social media.

02:24:35.560 You don't really see boys doing that, but

02:24:37.700 you see girls.

02:24:40.140 We're finally starting to recognize

02:24:41.800 how vicious socially

02:24:43.860 that

02:24:44.800 women are to each other, especially in situations

02:24:47.960 like Andrew's saying where they can't leave.

02:24:50.160 Guys are finally starting to realize

02:24:52.040 women always knew how vicious

02:24:53.620 girls were.

02:24:55.060 I said correct.

02:24:57.700 yeah really so what would you say anyone guys what would you say to your son if he's getting

02:25:03.380 what would you say to your son i'd say it's a lesson i learned from boxing if you're fighting

02:25:09.100 a pressure fighter they need you to back up to throw punches so the same with bullies the minute

02:25:15.420 you back up and give them that momentum to punch you're in trouble so i would say after the first

02:25:20.400 time you have to stop it one way or another in a school situation when you're under 18 i would

02:25:26.920 say probably it's probably better for his development to fight back yeah as long as

02:25:33.100 there's no danger like if this is not a person who's going to shoot you yeah after the first

02:25:38.800 time i would say when i was a kid i got i got bullied a couple times and i i initially fought

02:25:45.520 back and i got in like more trouble than the bully and so i you know learned not to do that

02:25:51.440 and uh and sort of held it in and that was a lot it's a lot of pressure you know it's a weird

02:25:58.080 dynamic right so we're all different ages i'm i'm sure i'm by far the oldest person here but

02:26:03.360 uh when i was always a reason kid i was a you know a smart kid a nerd i guess we'd call it in school

02:26:09.840 and when i first encountered bullies and i moved to the us from a foreign country so i didn't speak

02:26:13.760 english very well and when i first encountered bullies i tried to reason with them i'm like

02:26:19.120 well why would you be violent why can't we just come to you know and then they punched me in the

02:26:24.320 face and and i pretty quickly learned well that sucks so i started punching them in the face back

02:26:30.400 and and once i once i learned how to fight the bullying stopped instantly yep but but i i it's

02:26:35.760 almost like i the uh the society and the school and the system gave me the the freedom of operation

02:26:42.080 to do that you know what i mean i didn't have to worry about getting killed or going to prison

02:26:45.760 because i thought you're gone and there's probably male teachers right uh stop it if it's too far

02:26:52.880 where it's all oh they never do i don't remember any male teachers working with no one ever came

02:26:57.040 to my rescue when i was getting a face punched and i'll tell you that much okay never mind

02:27:01.680 yeah they don't they don't do that they're they're scared too the male teachers are like oh i better

02:27:05.360 not do any of this i better not put my hands on it but i can't help wondering if if it wasn't you

02:27:09.680 know societally generally i mean the bullying was terrible as an individual but from a general

02:27:15.120 societal perspective if that wasn't kind of a better system you get bullied a little bit

02:27:19.820 you toughen up you fight back the bullying ends and you end up with a generation of men that have

02:27:26.140 learned how to fight to defend themselves yeah that's as opposed to the no offense but the

02:27:31.760 pussies were turning out by the millions today i'll put i'll put another thing to it so um i got

02:27:38.120 bullied in school and i'm doing better than all the people that bullied me and that spite is quite

02:27:44.680 the motivator let me tell you yeah spite is a motivator guys it'll help you get to where you

02:27:50.860 need to go fast i think that's what's happening with all these woke people i think they were all

02:27:55.680 they all got bullied and they're just trying to get their revenge as adults yeah right so i worked

02:28:03.580 out all my bullying vengeance i worked it out at the age of 13 but if you never do that do you do

02:28:09.880 it at 33 no right so you started forever you started fighting back at 13 ish oh yeah yeah

02:28:16.840 well i didn't start it gotcha i just ended it gotcha yeah this is it comes back to you know

02:28:23.660 we're in a feminized society again it's it's repression of the power urge they tell you

02:28:29.320 expressing any personal power is bad and so then you repress it and deny it because you can't shut

02:28:34.580 that part of your brain off everybody has it so you repress it and you deny it and then you grow

02:28:38.820 up and you do bad stuff to people so you can feel power that's why we have so many hall monitors

02:28:42.420 and by the way i don't want to sound super tough or anything i mean normally the kids that were

02:28:47.480 fighting were greater too older than me so they were much bigger and stronger than me but i never

02:28:51.980 had to worry about dying you know i never had to worry they were going to knock me down and then

02:28:56.340 you know boot my head until i was brain dead or stab me i knew once i if i lost the fight if i

02:29:01.580 got knocked down i got a black guy that was it that was the end of it uh so it's not like i was

02:29:05.740 being a hero but i was willing to fight the people who were a year or two older than me yeah

02:29:12.080 and if in my world if you were willing to do that they didn't want to bother with you anymore

02:29:18.120 let you go yeah but you have to stop it if you let it go too long it'll never end

02:29:22.920 no you'll be a bitch forever yep they knew that too and there were kids who did that by the way

02:29:27.820 they went through the whole fucking school career as little bitches to these guys they were 18 years

02:29:33.220 old in high school and still bitches it was unbelievable yeah wow there's like and now they

02:29:39.460 work at microsoft there's one more facebook clip i sent you that's like classic go to the second

02:29:48.020 the last facebook clip this one's awesome i just put it there is it oh this one is it the one with

02:29:59.720 girl in the blue tank top yes square cat okay yeah watch look at this one

02:30:08.760 i can't think of a better way to spend my saturday night than watching women get beat

02:30:13.800 no no he doesn't even touch this woman but watch watch it's so good watch okay

02:30:23.320 oh good old new york how come all the clips are from

02:30:29.720 that's a guy who knows

02:30:59.720 look at the cops being nice to him and everything stop lying stop lying

02:31:05.200 you walked up drunk you got it on camera you walked up drunk and mushed him you got it on

02:31:11.520 camera stop playing stop playing that is so she did all that and she had the nerve to go to the

02:31:17.580 cop and say he put his hands on me and the guy's like she's lying oh my gosh you know one of the

02:31:22.700 worst ones was when I was doing these interviews and one of them this girl was like oh this guy

02:31:30.980 hit me and I'm like okay or no he he shoved me down the he threw me down the stairs and I'm like

02:31:37.060 okay so what what happened and then she's like well I went over to his house and he told me not

02:31:46.200 to go there and I'm like wait so you were trespassing yeah and then she's like well and

02:31:52.000 was fighting with him in front of his son and he wanted me to leave and i'm like so yeah and so i

02:32:00.000 guess she was at the top of the stairs and she he was trying to push her to leave you know and then

02:32:04.640 she told the cops that he like threw her down the stairs and i'm like women will throw themselves

02:32:10.640 down the stairs and then pretend the guy did it they may even believe the guy did it like in their

02:32:15.520 heads if you put them on a lie detector machine they would yeah it would test like they were

02:32:19.120 telling the truth i i've worked when i did family law i worked plenty of cases where women would

02:32:23.680 deliberately injure themselves they would punch their own arms they would hurt themselves to have

02:32:29.680 bruises when the cops showed up pearl what's the female on pearl's channel we have what's called

02:32:36.560 the female friendly version of the story women they get so used to telling the female friendly

02:32:41.520 of the story what is the female friendly version of the story pearly where she's the victim and

02:32:47.120 the hero at the same time yeah and the same story and all you have to do they're so used to telling

02:32:52.480 you and people are so so you they're so used to people just accepting it that all you have to do

02:32:56.960 is ask a couple of questions and it all falls apart what are the questions yeah um well it's

02:33:04.640 when he's angry or like when she says he did this to me you have to ask them like what led up to it

02:33:11.920 and that's like usually everything like you know if he essayed me while i was naked in his bed and

02:33:16.800 i'm like what right how did you file a police report yeah did you file a police report

02:33:25.760 um the biggest thing is the dv the the abuse what was the specific abuse what did he specifically

02:33:33.760 do that's a bit the more specific emotional what do you mean by emotional abuse

02:33:41.680 yeah by the way when i got divorced the reason i gave up everything to get divorced was because

02:33:48.420 i knew all this i knew all these traps i knew all my vulnerabilities so my whole strategy for

02:33:54.540 my divorce was i think i can if i end up broke i think i can make more money and i'll pay all

02:33:59.920 the money i have now to avoid all those vulnerabilities so she won't make these

02:34:05.720 claims if she knows she's getting all this stuff and it worked it worked yeah i mean it worked i

02:34:13.160 ended up broke yeah how long did it take you to recover i'm still recovering oh really oh i'm 60

02:34:22.040 i'll never stop working hmm really yeah i my situation come on with your channel come on

02:34:29.400 you'll never stop working no no no don't get me wrong i do very well for myself i'm not in poverty

02:34:35.720 Listen, I have a very costly German motorcycle habit.

02:34:38.420 Yeah.

02:34:39.380 I do fine.

02:34:41.260 I do fine.

02:34:42.360 But I'll never make that money back.

02:34:44.060 I had to make it all again.

02:34:45.520 Yeah.

02:34:45.920 No, but that was my question.

02:34:47.380 Did you ever get to where you were before you divorced again?

02:34:50.320 Like, did you do better than?

02:34:51.660 Yeah, I mean, probably it probably took me a decade.

02:34:54.620 Oh, okay.

02:34:55.520 That's a chunk of time.

02:34:57.720 I'm just wondering, like, what a guy.

02:34:58.980 It's like a prison sentence, right?

02:35:00.340 It's like a manslaughter sentence.

02:35:01.460 Yeah.

02:35:03.140 I was just curious what a guy loses at all.

02:35:05.720 how long if he doesn't get on child support does it take to like make it back well so i never had

02:35:11.940 any alimony that's one of the things i bought my way out of and i never had any child support

02:35:16.320 because i bought joint custody of my kids so i avoided all that which was the most important

02:35:21.620 thing for me uh but yeah you go from living like an upper middle level middle class lifestyle with

02:35:27.900 a nice house and nice cars and nice toys to sleeping on an air mattress you have to be able

02:35:33.460 to do that transition and then believe and you know i mean at 40 i was young enough to do it i

02:35:39.860 wouldn't want to do it today but at 40 i was young enough to do it to convince myself that

02:35:44.100 i could be broke at 40 and financially come back from that yeah i mean i gave up everything the

02:35:49.900 retirement everything i had nothing um 36 of divorces are over 50 and 9 are over 60 yikes

02:35:59.840 so i'm still not safe sorry buddy who's getting divorced at 65 what's left women are divorcing

02:36:09.600 their husbands that's what's going on oh my gosh you know i've reacted to some women talking about

02:36:14.160 it on my channel yeah i mean i'm like look i don't mean to be blackpilled but i've just seen

02:36:23.200 the guy that was here earlier i've just seen men

02:36:25.600 more confident than you that actually didn't have the rough patch that you and your wife

02:36:32.960 that you talked about with your wife spoke more confidently and i say it all the time i'm very

02:36:40.240 happily married i'm passionately married to my wife we have a great marriage but i'll be honest

02:36:45.200 if she were to turn around tomorrow and say oh i just had a fit and i decided i don't like you

02:36:50.400 anymore and i want to get divorced i'd be like i mean what the could i do about it nothing yeah

02:36:55.120 not a damn thing yeah once again i said it before i'll say it one last time

02:37:02.160 the majority of men in my lifetime will still get married and because men want to have kids and men

02:37:07.120 accept the fact i was talking to pro about this the other day i've met more women that are willing

02:37:11.680 to adopt alone or be single mothers by choice men don't do that men don't don't pay a surrogate to

02:37:19.680 have a child that they want to adopt what i wouldn't date a single mom what makes you think

02:37:25.120 that i would i would adopt the child alone and if i think that i think that a single mother

02:37:30.960 a mother a woman going into motherhood by herself is the most selfish thing a woman can do and i'm

02:37:35.920 equal with that for a man right so um uh men want a functional marriage okay men want a functional

02:37:45.920 traditional marriage which is basically what i have now so i go out and i work and i make money

02:37:51.760 and that's all i do and i i take motorcycle trips but that's all i do my wife manages the home she

02:37:58.880 takes care of the kids she does all that kind of back office infrastructure stuff my only mission

02:38:05.120 of my family is to make money i'm good at that and my wife makes it possible for me to optimize

02:38:12.640 my life that way. I'm not driving the kids to school. We're not splitting child raising. I mean,

02:38:18.560 I'm there for birthdays and Christmases and stuff like that. And I love my children. I adore them.

02:38:22.580 I'm very happy being a father, but my wife does the heavy lifting in the home. And that frees me

02:38:29.460 up to do my mission of making money. And I think most men would like that arrangement. I get to go

02:38:35.420 out and make money. I get to exert my expertise in the world and bring in resources for my family

02:38:41.600 and go home and my wife makes me dinner and i get laid and i have kids it's wonderful but i don't

02:38:48.280 think most men get that in marriage yeah and it's just when they do get married because most men are

02:38:55.000 still going to they just make an informed decision and don't be crying about it later and in in

02:39:01.600 pearl's channel andrew's channel all these rebel channels homeath we're all here for you guys when

02:39:08.080 it all falls apart does your wife does your wife have a single sister with no kids and an 800 plus

02:39:16.220 credit score you asking me yeah yeah you would not want to marry my wife's sister

02:39:25.160 okay so um i would point out too that my my wife's mother my i had to break my wife's

02:39:39.500 programming she was raised by an ultra feminist woman so my wife's mother is ultra feminist ultra

02:39:46.040 like she's in her head she's living in the suffragette era like women are still desperately

02:39:51.480 fighting for their rights against abusive women that's what all of society is and when i first

02:39:57.080 started dating my wife for the first year it was like a deprogramming year yeah yeah so i want to

02:40:06.220 um so next home out do you have any final like um things you want to show us or anything no i mean

02:40:13.320 there was one thing i was drawing from a while back when we were talking about q but i don't

02:40:16.560 think it's relevant anymore there was just some guy who designed a bear uh like throwing your

02:40:21.880 garbage away in a way that bears can't get in but he found that there was too much of an overlap

02:40:25.420 between the smartest bears and the dumbest people so well okay wait i'm sorry that took me a second

02:40:34.800 oh man oh my gosh okay so sounds like an allegory for letting women vote yeah

02:40:44.500 this is such a good panel today so okay so earlier today i went out and got street interviews

02:40:51.620 about um i was asking about charlie kirk and the fighting question so i wanted to show people

02:40:57.720 um the i was going to react to the people i interviewed today you guys are welcome to stay

02:41:03.540 but it is long it's like 15 minutes it's like a 15 minute video so if you guys don't want to

02:41:08.980 stay for that you're welcome to bounce now your final thoughts uh i'm stuck in a hotel room so

02:41:16.300 i'll hang out i'll stay i'm gonna i'm gonna go get dinner but um i'm fading anyway you know me

02:41:22.780 i get tired yeah uh this is this is it's like andrew tate is you know he's right about some

02:41:28.560 things and he's talking about like men particularly white men you know relevant to the topic uh don't

02:41:34.600 know how to keep women in line they don't we're too nice like i i grew up that way i've got this

02:41:40.940 whole this whole just be nice chart where they tell you where is it just be nice just be yourself

02:41:48.760 and then you do that and then they go no one owes you anything and it's like well what did i what

02:41:53.320 was i nice for and most guys just never figure that out and you got to figure that out you got

02:41:59.980 figure out how to project power yeah okay all right thank you homath i appreciate you coming

02:42:06.380 it's a pleasure as always you're the man all right good talking to you all right oh before

02:42:15.500 we move forward um someone put a comment real fast but i want to pearl to react in the chat earlier

02:42:22.460 um the individual channel says pearl did you see nala race response to the charlie kirk's passing

02:42:29.500 She says her and her husband are broken, so she's leading a national fasting and prayer campaign.

02:42:36.160 Three of fours can't quit that attention drip.

02:42:44.940 I'm going to watch the video now.

02:42:48.380 Okay, so these are the interviews I got today in downtown Chicago in West Loop.

02:42:54.980 I know a lot of people said I should be scared about the street interviews.

02:42:58.480 you know it's generally fine guys as long as you're using your phone and not a big camera

02:43:03.920 or having signs and tables and stuff you can kind of just walk around and you're you're okay so don't

02:43:11.240 don't worry but that's where that one leg it got punched in the face by that one guy

02:43:16.880 yeah he punched like two women in the face actually yeah so be careful out there pearly

02:43:21.960 do you go with anyone no what i mean because you have to understand it's a different type

02:43:29.160 of environment like you can't ask i'm not if i'm going by myself i'm not asking the questions in

02:43:36.000 an antagonizing way i'm just i'm just asking people the questions so they can say what they

02:43:40.540 want i'm not going back and forth you got to learn it when you get into it so the news this

02:43:45.260 week is how did you react to the death of charlie kurt oh charlie kurt first it was a little bit

02:43:52.460 shocking for me because i used to watch a lot of their clips but yeah out of nowhere i was

02:44:01.180 having lunch in my house and my room was like hey have you seen the news charlie got shot

02:44:05.980 and first we were like hey but maybe shot maybe he's all right then when they uploaded the video

02:44:12.060 which is not like okay it was a clean shot in the next one it was a lot i think i think we started

02:44:20.380 a fire a long time ago and it's been tough to put it out so now we're it's a lot it's a lot

02:44:25.820 of things happening it's like animals in the forest everyone paddles i think that uh it was

02:44:31.580 totally undeserved and people need to learn and uh to stay in their own lane and to respect other

02:44:37.660 people's opinions these guys were from not chicago they have a very not chicago look yeah

02:44:51.660 they're from wisconsin i was asking but you're from iowa or something you're not from here

02:44:56.780 they had these blog girls too in the background they didn't want to be on

02:45:00.140 camera i'm like where are you from it's not here

02:45:07.660 Do you think that political violence is necessary for change?

02:45:16.240 Not at all. I think political change can happen without any violence.

02:45:20.640 It's awful.

02:45:21.720 It's awful?

02:45:22.660 Yeah, it's horrible. Seeing that video is horrible.

02:45:26.840 What do you think, do you think that violence is necessary for change?

02:45:32.420 No. I was ecstatic. It's a beautiful day in America, honestly.

02:45:36.820 Wow.

02:45:37.660 So he kind of talked about not having empathy, and I believe that is a good way of being as well.

02:45:44.000 Okay.

02:45:44.320 And you think political violence is necessary to?

02:45:47.680 I think that people reap what they sow, and that's just life.

02:45:52.140 Pearl, pause it real fast.

02:45:55.880 This isn't Pearl's views.

02:45:57.900 This is Doug MPA's views.

02:46:00.080 American black women are the sum of the earth.

02:46:02.680 Not all.

02:46:04.240 I'd say maybe 80% of them.

02:46:06.540 I'll say it.

02:46:07.660 look she's got to live with the fact that she has a 50 chance of having herpes and i think that's

02:46:12.780 enough i'm telling you i can't i i've been black in this country for way too long i'll tell you

02:46:17.500 but black men have the worst women to choose from no one has it worse than us i do std fridays i i

02:46:24.300 know the stats all right std friday yeah yeah we do we do um we do sex ed on fridays and yeah black

02:46:34.140 i don't know what it is you guys all got the herp it's like 50 so yeah i was laughing because

02:46:40.140 it's funny because it's true i am not i'm not kidding i know i've seen the cdc studies too

02:46:46.540 it's yeah i know i'll say one last time no one has like the worst women on the planet

02:46:53.420 are black women in america they make the worst mothers no one wants to marry them the weave

02:46:59.900 the tattoos all that stuff guys can i ask our other our other black guest because i have to

02:47:05.580 say my the black friends i have say the same thing and they say exactly what i just heard

02:47:10.700 do you disagree uh no you're a lawyer i i plead the fifth you know what i'll say i'm no one knows

02:47:24.940 my face i'll i'll speak for all of us when i say and i'm not saying all but maybe maybe 80

02:47:33.660 yep yeah i could say some people have experienced that definitely

02:47:44.940 is that something you've dealt with like in chicago here not necessarily here i think

02:47:50.060 I think it depends also on what type of neighborhood you walk by or maybe what type of street you are.

02:47:55.060 Mostly in downtown or around here in West Loop, you can just go with your phone, with your headphones, everything.

02:48:01.060 It's fine.

02:48:02.060 Do you ever think it scares people from speaking up about their beliefs because of the repercussions that might happen?

02:48:09.060 Yeah, I mean, you don't want to get fired with friends, etc.

02:48:14.060 on and like if you start getting so these girls were funny because i totally thought they were

02:48:21.820 going to be liberal i don't know what like just because of the heavy i i just thought i got up

02:48:26.780 with them i'm like in the shirt these look like some liberal white then i talked to them and i'm

02:48:31.580 like oh the shirts and the glasses make made me think that instantly yeah but the the way they're

02:48:37.740 talking it's kind of hard to hear because something drove by and it won't she's getting married she's

02:48:42.940 probably more right leaning in the moment yeah that's good job or whatever yeah that's gonna

02:48:52.620 make you not want to talk about what you're doing um i was very surprised i feel very bad for his

02:49:00.300 family uh nobody deserves to die especially in the way he did what do you think about the people that

02:49:07.740 are celebrating his death um i don't know i really don't think that it's the best thing to

02:49:17.340 celebrate someone's death no matter what they did because at the end of the day everybody's human

02:49:23.900 were you holding a gun pearl no i don't know i i think he was just i think this guy was just young

02:49:32.300 i think because he he was kind of looking at like i think he's never been on camera before or

02:49:36.700 something i don't know what he looks autistic that's what he looks like he looks like every

02:49:44.780 police confession i've ever seen i mean it's possible i don't think so but

02:49:53.980 do you think do you think that people should be fired that celebrated their death um no

02:50:01.180 so this this was another what do you think they're gonna be liberal or

02:50:04.780 considered oh my god look at those definitely liberal liberal all day come on now that's

02:50:09.900 definitely liberal going conversation um did you think it was sad did you think i think

02:50:17.500 any kind of death like that is that yeah i i know that there's controversy and i understand that

02:50:24.940 there are sides and big feelings but it's still human life and i think the the biggest tragedy

02:50:32.220 is just the disregard for human life in general right now on all sides like do you think that

02:50:37.460 there's a lot of discussion online that says political violence is necessary do you guys

02:50:41.560 think it is i you're being really quiet i um i don't really i don't know how to respond yeah

02:50:52.440 again it just just in this country no i mean i just think there's one thing about fighting

02:51:00.540 for social justice but i mean there's again that disregard for human life is um my reaction is that

02:51:05.660 i think they were conservative so sorry god man i know i didn't know shocking i i said she's gonna

02:51:15.420 say it later and i don't know when we'll cut back but i yeah she where she said she was from

02:51:22.620 is really she's fighting for social justice and she's conservative that's

02:51:26.540 would she say she's fighting for social justice yeah she said there is fighting for so there is

02:51:34.360 fighting okay all right fair enough yeah you reap what you sow this guy oh gosh he's got the liberal

02:51:41.960 physiognomy you know the ugly face you know okay so you think he kind of deserved it or why i mean

02:51:49.280 i think that you know if you look at the things he said that he said you know people need to die

02:51:55.020 by gun violence to justify the second amendment and things like that i mean i feel like you know

02:51:59.580 he um met the same violence that he advocated for do you think um violence is necessary for

02:52:09.660 political change no i'm asking do you think it is do i think it is i i would say um sometimes yeah

02:52:17.260 i think so when it's for his side you know maybe like things like civil disobedience and everything

02:52:23.500 that works when you have an audience but in the absence of that like oppressed people like i i

02:52:30.220 don't think they always necessarily need to uh face their annihilation peacefully like i think

02:52:38.140 it would be okay but you know going back to your first question i think one thing that's interesting

02:52:42.460 is that the charlie kirk assassination is getting a lot more attention than the fact that israel

02:52:47.980 assassinated yemen they always like to defer they wanted this and distract i think that should be

02:52:53.020 i know i'm like i always hear him what about israel what about gaza what about this what

02:52:58.460 about the epstein files what all right listen you just shot our little brother through the throat

02:53:04.300 in front of his children i don't give a about your other issue yeah i know but when

02:53:10.460 there's certain environments i just don't go back and forth i just let them talk you gotta let it go

02:53:16.380 Well, I don't have to if I have security.

02:53:21.220 Do you want security down there?

02:53:24.180 I don't want to pay for it.

02:53:25.640 You know how expensive it is.

02:53:27.580 It's actually – I know it's okay because I'm friends with the bouncers there watch my stuff.

02:53:32.900 That's why I go to this one place because there's like three bouncers out there.

02:53:37.380 They all love my content, so I just, you know, go sell.

02:53:40.940 But, yeah, it's like the challenge you get, it's really the attention.

02:53:45.740 like people are going to do stuff if it's not a big scene but the problem is like the only time

02:53:51.320 i've ever been nervous in a street interview is when i had a giant sign and a tripod by myself

02:53:57.040 that said abortion is a cop out that one i was kind of scared but i don't know this and that's

02:54:05.320 the problem like charlie you know we talked about it last time he made it so like you know he drew

02:54:10.900 it was a lot of attention on them a lot more attention that we have a nuclear power that is

02:54:18.900 it's not getting nearly people that control the media you know like i don't care uh yeah who's

02:54:23.860 who's running the show who's trying to at the end of the day you know it's a it's a demonstrated

02:54:29.940 characteristic of liberals that uh when you when we think about morality we tend to think about it

02:54:36.420 in the modern sense of like it's a personal preference it's what i like is moral what i

02:54:40.420 I don't like is immoral. But the truth is morality has a biological anchor. What's moral

02:54:47.100 behavior, moral decision making is what's in the best interest of your genetic line, your family,

02:54:53.620 your community, your tribe, your nation. And what's immoral behavior are things that undermine

02:54:59.500 the long term interest of your family, your community, your tribe, your nation. And the

02:55:04.960 worst immoral behavior you can you could engage in is prioritizing foreigners aliens over your

02:55:11.640 own group over your own tribe that's the ultimate immoral behavior and that's what liberals do

02:55:17.740 they've done studies on this where conservatives their their greatest affinity is for the people

02:55:23.900 closest to them they love most their family their community their tribe their nation and then you

02:55:30.040 they think about foreigners later the liberals they love most people they will never meet in

02:55:36.600 their lives they love the gazans and the haitians and people they'll never actually meet and be

02:55:42.840 obligated to help and the people they hate the most are their themselves and their own gender

02:55:50.040 their family their community their tribe their nation it's it's a complete disconnect it doesn't

02:55:55.960 make any sense i found a clip like literally today that i put on the document it's real quick

02:56:02.920 and it proves angie's point just now it talks about why women are more likely to be liberal

02:56:08.840 because they put other people ahead of themselves in a toxic way like the the last clip

02:56:16.200 it's this academic guy and he breaks down why women are more likely to be liberal it's the last

02:56:25.960 very good liberals because they have the serpentine quality that men see men love that

02:56:32.200 men should love the hell out of them but instead they love the hell in them see the difference

02:56:36.520 they embrace this and encourage the serpentine dictatorship the dictatorship of sympathy

02:56:43.240 you'll find that women as liberals liberals in in politics have the same feminine quality

02:56:52.440 everybody is lovely and there's no fault in everybody and all the people leave is more love

02:56:57.000 and feeling and respect and they'll be all right equal rights and god knows what

02:57:01.560 what's the formula for the solution you know the thing is you have to look that women tend

02:57:06.040 to be supportive to wrong the wrong your children they'll always support the wrong

02:57:09.800 in that you try to correct them as a father you try to correct them that's your job

02:57:14.680 it's because you've got to be correct you've got to be respectable before that respect

02:57:19.000 will take children know the difference like a jimmy carter i would never listen to jimmy carter

02:57:24.520 i just run i'd fight like hell i'd fight him rather than the russians see that's what do you

02:57:30.680 do to me but if it was a ronald reagan asked me to do something i'd see that man's decent

02:57:35.960 and i see he means well and he may not always be right but never mind i love him and i love

02:57:42.200 where he's coming from therefore i'm going to go along with him and see where it leads because you

02:57:46.280 know you can't have a lot of cooks running the show just one at a time and you know everybody

02:57:50.360 can make mistakes but i'm willing to go along with that and children the same way if they have

02:57:55.000 some that quality in the father that beyond see and he's in control of himself and whereby

02:58:02.360 um a woman is also tends to see that quality then she also stands corrected the job of the role of

02:58:09.320 a man is to save himself from a woman to find salvation and save yourself is a bad word because

02:58:16.680 you can't save yourself whatever salvation is that's another subject but to be saved from the

02:58:21.720 love of a woman it's an addiction to a fallen being like drugs are to the addict you see to

02:58:27.240 save himself to find that beyond to identify with the spirit that created him and when a woman sees

02:58:32.760 that a child sees that then the marriage and the family is as good as saved because everyone better

02:58:38.360 but the trouble is women tend to be very obstinate because they have been doing this they've been

02:58:44.120 taught as children you taught them yourself to support your selfishness see you see you've done

02:58:50.040 that yourself so it takes a little while for this respectability to you know to be recognized and

02:58:56.200 to be felt but you must understand that women tend to have that serpentine quality in them

02:59:02.040 and they tend to support everything that's weak and everything that's wrong and to tend to war

02:59:08.440 against whatever you're trying to do they even turn your children against you if they can unconscious

02:59:15.480 women make very good there you go wow where's the lie pearl no i literally found it like three

02:59:23.800 hours ago i was like oh my god but let's see somebody celebrating like in your real life

02:59:32.200 do you think um okay so if you see a fight or somebody challenges you to a fight do you think

02:59:54.920 it's smart to walk away or to engage in the fight no i'm always trying to be on the peaceful side

03:00:00.680 i would try to maybe talk and try not to get to walk away sorry sorry my bad so do you think if um

03:00:11.160 one person like do you think there will be a retaliation like people fight back

03:00:17.800 against what they did with me no i meant um like since charlie kirk got shot do you think there

03:00:25.000 will be a retaliation do you think there'll be more maybe i don't know because i don't know because

03:00:31.080 he was like as i was saying his cleaves it was really fun to see how he dealt with different

03:00:39.640 people but yeah out of nowhere as i was saying to some of my friends nowadays if somebody wants

03:00:45.400 to give a speech or something i think they have to go like have you seen the pope when he goes yeah

03:00:50.920 with a glass ball or something so they will be saving that thing isolation but like per se i

03:00:57.240 don't know hopefully not our grandmother always told me this when you argue with a fool from a

03:01:03.640 distance they can't tell who is who that's my that's a jay-z line future do you think that in

03:01:12.360 the future oh i didn't know that yeah that's from that's from a jay-z song don't argue with a fool

03:01:17.640 because from a distance you can't tell who is who i guess i i believed it when he said it was his

03:01:22.600 grandma now i don't believe that pearl did it black guys dominican all right okay all right

03:01:41.000 i come from the mindset of a lot of people like like gandhi and martin the king i think

03:01:47.080 love and peace would always conquer so that's my answer if someone challenges you to a fight

03:01:53.480 is it smart to walk away or to fight back these guys are walking away they are running why

03:02:02.280 there's no point

03:02:08.360 like there's nothing to prove to people it's better to walk away why to spread more peace around the

03:02:14.520 why um because in today's world it's very destructive and very chaotic

03:02:21.580 it's just easier to spread peace rather than hate

03:02:25.840 it's very funny because my advice is the same if you can safely walk away walk away but i

03:02:32.780 my advice is because i i don't want to go to prison yeah because i think that's the morally

03:02:37.980 right answer i just i don't want to go to prison i'm a guy who carries a gun i've carried a gun

03:02:43.640 my entire adult life if i if i can avoid getting into a fight what consists of my safety i'm going

03:02:49.240 to do that 110 of the time but it's just because i don't want to go to jail yeah i've never

03:02:55.400 understood why incarceration isn't a successful deterrent for some people it is for me i've never

03:03:01.160 been arrested never been in jail no way nope yeah not happening if i came up to you i wouldn't yeah

03:03:08.040 i wouldn't i wouldn't but like if i came up to you like a crazy woman and said let's fight

03:03:12.440 and i started aggressive would you want would you run walk away or would you fight me back

03:03:16.600 i would run away yeah you'd run away no i'd rather not you know like either get arrested or get my

03:03:23.080 kids if there's a fight like if someone challenges you to a fight is it smarter to walk away or if i

03:03:30.600 i mean that's like a kind of ambiguous question right like what's the context in which it happens

03:03:34.520 and everything like uh are you observing a fight or is it if somebody attacks you i'll tell you

03:03:39.240 them i've seen a lot of clips recently of people like um like there is the this is the kind of guy

03:03:45.960 that gets tricked into a gay man's bedroom well it depends upon the context the ceo kind of softball

03:03:52.120 and then the girl came up and starts arguing and he just says here's the softball because okay

03:03:59.400 there was um at a baseball game you know how they catch the balls at like sorry that are like out

03:04:05.320 of balance is that what they do at baseball games yeah okay so they catch the balls that are out of

03:04:09.000 balance right and there was a guy who caught it and this woman was mad he like ducked in front

03:04:13.320 of her and she started screaming at him okay i didn't see this i don't know what this is yeah

03:04:16.920 totally fine but there was a discourse online where one side was saying he was weak because he

03:04:21.720 just said here's the ball go away because she was like a crazy woman and because he was giving the

03:04:25.880 ball to his kid and the woman started screaming at the kid and the other side was saying oh well he

03:04:31.080 should have fought back so it kind of goes back to the question if someone's trying to fight you

03:04:35.480 is it smarter to fight back or just walk away i'd say that depends entirely on the situation

03:04:39.880 like something over a baseball yeah maybe not you know but if it's something like what's at stake

03:04:44.440 yeah like what's at stake but maybe for in the context of um you know what's happening in gaza

03:04:51.800 for instance or you know in a lot of these other countries like sedan in congo which i don't know

03:04:57.560 he brought it back to gaza again isn't he the international one okay so the funny thing is i

03:05:05.560 don't think it was i think it's edited out but there was one woman that looked liberal

03:05:11.640 i think she was a part of a convent guys really she said yeah i'm friends with a lot of like

03:05:17.160 people from the convent that's what she said i because i i told i can't remember i i said

03:05:22.680 something to her and she's like oh yeah i'm from the convent so it's mostly like religious people

03:05:27.000 she so looks like she has a black lives matter placard on her lawn i know those are the best

03:05:33.000 interviews it's like when you think they're gonna say one thing and they say something completely

03:05:37.160 different yeah but yeah that's what i did today just in passing i'll mention that when i was a

03:05:43.640 teenager i lived a few miles from a convent for for bad behaved girls it was awesome

03:05:50.440 yeah um do you think the nuns are throwing it back too

03:05:57.100 not in my experience but the uh the younger gals were

03:06:01.220 okay all right well that's all i got today on the top this is great thank you guys for coming

03:06:08.920 thanks for having me it's a saturday night this is the best panel we've had in a while

03:06:13.320 So I thought you guys would be busy or something.

03:06:20.040 Nope.

03:06:20.640 The fight hasn't started yet.

03:06:22.520 Well, yes, it has.

03:06:23.480 Canelo Crawford.

03:06:24.700 What's the fight?

03:06:26.300 Canelo and Crawford boxing match.

03:06:28.600 Oh, okay.

03:06:30.940 Well, thanks for having me, Pearl.

03:06:32.540 Thanks.

03:06:33.040 Nice meeting you guys.

03:06:34.160 And hopefully we'll do it again sometime soon.

03:06:37.040 Awesome.

03:06:37.680 Thanks for coming.

03:06:38.740 All right.

03:06:39.120 Bye-bye.

03:06:40.760 Thanks for coming.

03:06:41.640 It's your first time here.

03:06:42.920 so call it anytime we're here every night so oh absolutely whatever you're free you know

03:06:49.640 i i put the link in the chat so if you ever see a topic just feel free to hop on i'll put you up

03:06:55.880 all right sounds good see you soon good talking to you buddy

03:07:00.040 take care this is great there has to be a way that you can put the person's name on the

03:07:07.080 on the scene right these so people know their names because right now it's not

03:07:10.120 i wonder if there's a button you can push on stream yard that'll put their name

03:07:14.260 yeah anyway well that's kind of on them they have to they have to write in their name when they come

03:07:23.060 in i didn't know that but yeah uh final thoughts for me is is you know guys you have to defend

03:07:29.760 yourselves you know don't just sit there and let your woman hit beat on you and hit you and stuff

03:07:35.320 and here's the thing you have your phone camera now so whip out your phone and i think you'll be

03:07:40.520 okay if you have to physically defend yourself especially if the woman initiates it and um

03:07:47.480 but if you do have something to lose walk away guys like 90 95 of the time because you don't

03:07:53.320 want to end up in jail over some bs especially if you have a if you're a man of means and status so

03:07:59.880 well I'm falling asleep so I'm getting tired so thanks for watching guys I

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Pearl - September 14, 2025

Is Men Walking Away From Aggressive People Smart or Weak？

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