Pearl - May 09, 2026Jeremy Boreing is nominated for Simp of the Year
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What is a simp? A slang term for a man who exhibits excessive affection, attention, or deference towards another person, often in a desperate, unreciprocated attempt to win their affection or sexual favors. The term suggests a submissive, desperate attitude, often viewing the person as simping or lowing their self-respect to please a crush.
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what is up my people hold on hold on i started the show and i realized i forgot to do something
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i forgot to put on my second camera so it's like hold up you know what i mean
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what's going on my guys it's a chill stream today so i want to lower the expectations they
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got to be low they got to be super low hold on one second one second
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i have returned oh my gosh what is up with this camera
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all right well i've given up no musical intro no musical intro i know i know i know
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someone said i fell off it's like well you were never on
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so i fell off but it's like at least i was on at one point
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yeah like how dare you it's like you're saying you fell off well why don't you try like get a
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billion views on your youtube channel you know what i mean it's like did i fall off kind of but
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okay so today uh anyways we're gonna that's neither here nor there today we're talking about
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simps now i personally think that simping is a disease um and i don't know if there's a cure
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i really don't know if there's a cure for this disease okay so
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a simp a slang term for somebody usually a man who exhibits excessive affection attention
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or deference towards another person often in a desperate unreciprocated attempt to win their
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affection or sexual favors the term suggests a submissive desperate attitude often viewing the
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person as simping or lowing their self-respect to please a crush so today we're talking about a guy
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who has a disease of simping now this is um let me see where we're supposed to start this is
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Jeremy Boring. He is the CEO of the Daily Wire. And let's see, one hour, 14. And he is basically
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trying to help Lauren Southern repair her reputation. So Lauren Southern is by all
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accounts a loser, right? She's a single mother. She's alienated her kid from the father, right?
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um she banged like half the manosphere and instead of just taking an L and you know um
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taking that L to her reputation she has decided to gaslight all of us as if she did not do those
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things so today we are going to watch this give me one second one hour one hour 14 minute marks
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we're starting. I'm going to go a little bit further back. Okay. Okay. Make selfie videos
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for the internet and take a shower every day. That's none. And their husbands are the CEO of
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JetBlue. That's right. This has never existed. There is no trad because there is no tradition
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on which this is based. It's just a kind of LARPing like the Christian influencers now are
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doing. The Christ is King set is doing a kind of LARPing knowing that all the people who believe
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that Christ is King will take their side at first and it'll take them a long time to realize that,
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oh, you're not making a statement of affirmation about the primacy of Christ.
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You're raising a tribal flag knowing that people were rallied to you who don't know.
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Like, all of that is, as you say in your wonderful video, all of it's performance art.
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And none of it is aimed at making the world better.
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The trad movement that failed you isn't the failure of traditional marriage.
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Like, men like this, you guys are the problem.
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because even your language just alleviates she failed she's a loser right and we can't all be
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winners in life I'm kind of a loser too my channel is meant for losers um so like I'm not here to
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judge the losers you know some of us we just can't win we just lose lose lose but we have to
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objectively say that we are losers you know but we're fucking with the losers here but yeah she's
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objectively a loser um and she used to be like the hot girl and she could have married a bajillionaire
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with her looks and she just fumbled so hard like i was never that hot so my downfall can't be that
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bad if you're not if the high if you're never that attractive like you didn't lose that much
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so i can't imagine the ego hit it would take to be like a super hot girl and to just be like pew
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you know what I mean? That's it's the failure of a artificially constructed and artificially
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promulgated mask. Um, and of course it failed you. It isn't real. It could never have supported
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you in your marriage because it doesn't, it doesn't exist in the real world. It exists.
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It exists on Instagram. That's the only place it is. Uh, but there is something real. And the real
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thing is the thing that we're supposed to, you know, if we're in public life, the thing
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Wait, Doug MPA, he told me to start at 1 15, but there's a destiny part.
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I don't, maybe I need to go earlier in this, uh, he said, he really told me 1 15.
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no he said one hour 14 okay I'm a little confused I'm gonna just do the part where she talks about
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destiny all right he's lying about almost every aspect of that film and there are a lot of people
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who have done breakdowns of it but I believe Peterson had interviewed him and promoted it
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based on trust based on believing that he was a good person as well without looking into the
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i mean i don't know if he should be bragging about that i mean again i'm mid so like your
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ex is another mid or she a sub mid i mean it's not i'm cute but let's not
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you know real details because he doesn't have time because he has to put out a lot of content
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because he he you have to operate on some level of trust with other influencers or you will be
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sitting in your room, reading court cases all day long
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to look into the details of everything going on there
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And most people don't. They don't have time to look into the court cases.
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I haven't spent any time looking into it, as you say. And there is a symbiosis. I'll readily admit that there's a symbiosis. I might quibble on some of the details about when did Tucker start moving. I think that the Andrew Tate interview was a huge red flag that Tucker was on a different path than the past people.
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and this is i hate elitists they think they're better than everybody like you have the moral
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authority to tell people what path we should be who the are you who the are you this is why people
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hate these guys because they sit in their ivory towers they think they're smarter than everyone
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and better than everyone pearl is a three to five max out of six i agree i would give myself a three
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probably a two i think that's a little too generous it's a little too generous yeah you
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you got to go down. I thought he was on there to four. Nevertheless, I'll grant the premise.
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Look at Joe Rogan. He just interviewed Andrew Wilson, who I mentioned. Do you know Andrew
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Wilson? I don't know Andrew. I mean, I know who Andrew Wilson is. Yeah, he does the whatever
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podcast a lot. You know, he presents himself as kind of this Christian nationalist character and
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is always, women, why you bring nothing to the table, but you're, you know, insert bad word.
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he's very pharisaical in his behavior and he's being hosted on some of the largest most mainstream
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platforms in the world and i'm not saying don't host people but there's not like the idea that
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this environment exists on its own that i existed in that's more kind of radical and crazy i very
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much work in symbiosis well okay fair enough dennis prager wouldn't invite uh andrew tate on
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a show though just as an example sure i don't think because you guys think you're better than
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everyone else go yourself that's how i feel it's like you guys act like you're better than everyone
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else and you know people are getting sick of this elitism on the right people are getting sick of
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you know these arrogant pricks acting like they're better than the average working man
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and jordan peterson would invite andrew tate on a show or there would at least come a moment where
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it would know like it's incredible how simpy they are you would invite andrew tate oh i wouldn't
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invite andrew tate but lauren southern who banged half of conservative media is allowed to go on
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longer be the case that jordan peterson would invite andrew tate on the show like
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by the time andrew tate is a known quantity and i'm i'm not trying to pick on you no no please
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but i i love a harsh real conversation be real with me you've just been on a path that and and
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this is one of the things that um is both makes you very interesting uh as a public figure is
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that you've gone through the fire and now you're open to criticize, even be self-critical
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But there's a danger to it too, which I want to get to, which is the sort of Taylor Swift
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Like, is this the, you know, you went through your transgressive era and then you went through
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But I also believe I have a penchant for chaos and I have an attraction to chaotic, disorganized-
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is a part of me that is a part of that sphere. And I, you know, whenever you see these articles
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that come out, I don't agree with the headline. Like I created the manosphere and I, now it
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destroyed me. I don't think I was destroyed by the manosphere, but is there an aspect of me
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that helped create the very Frankensteins that? No, it's just incredible. You didn't create
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anything one the manosphere is a feminist term that was created um by feminists because they
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wanted the manosphere to be like a boogeyman right so they wanted to say the manosphere is toxic and
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then they could label anyone as a part of the manosphere they don't like two um no you didn't
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do anything you were a hot girl you were a hot girl doing political content
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i mean look you aren't that important just like i'm not that important neither of us are that
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important um but everyone treats us like we're important because she was hot i was mid i'm still
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mid um yeah hurt me 100 absolutely um i i think i had a personality that was addicted to
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transgressiveness that was addicted to the the lifestyle in those spheres even if i didn't
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know it at the time um but yeah even even to this day there's an aspect of me where i have to be
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very conscious of the fact that uh i i don't make the best decisions like if i were your older
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brother i would say don't like don't date destiny like that would just be a that would just be a
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piece of advice that i'd probably throw on the table you know like probably bruh
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um you know it's funny you say that because that was actually probably i want to give her props if
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that hair is real i'm very jealous of her hair one of the healthier relationships i had in the
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political space yeah that's not bro you banged everybody like i just how can you guys say that
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oh my gosh where do i rate myself with lauren uh i told you i'm a three she's like a seven i would
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say but she's a single mom so that makes her six so
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at least in this i don't know maybe in other angles i wouldn't say that
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yeah that's not a recommendation you know when like what i mean you could just build your brand
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unlike politics not yeah i'm an ape go you guys that that's a simp no offense but it's just like
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i'm not that high i would say to that is the i would and i said this earlier i would rather
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be at least certainly after i had been in this sphere that i felt was so dishonest with the
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public about who they were including myself it was very refreshing to be at a table with someone who
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who was like, yes, I am polyamorous, yes, I do drugs, yes, I, you know, I partake in all of
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this, quote unquote, degenerate behavior, than to be at a table with a bunch of people doing the
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exact same thing, but pretending publicly to be saints, you know, because at least I can't
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deconstruct the world that I was a part of without honesty. So I couldn't deconstruct it with the
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people because everyone was lying to themselves. At least I have a lot more respect for
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people who can sit there and say, this is who I am, even if the public hate it. Yeah, this is why
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I'm gay. I'm a bisexual, polyamorous guy. That's it. I'll get on all the time by the internet for
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it. But that's just who I am, rather than people who are exactly the same conduct themselves the
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same way. But it's actually more dangerous to be friends with people in the right wing media who
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have all of these proclivities, but don't tell them publicly, because as soon as you find out
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about it, you're now a threat. And they have to kind of destroy you and destroy your life. Whereas
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if people have their cards on the table and they say, this is who I am, it's a lot safer to have
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a friendship with them. And you can just talk honestly about your failures. And that's what I,
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that's what I needed at that time in my life. I needed someone I could talk honestly about my
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failures and the struggles I was having. I didn't believe in the trad life or marriage anymore after
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my husband left. You know, um, I see all the rumors online, Lauren cheated on her husband
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with destiny. That didn't. Yeah. Okay. Why did he leave again? I'm just tired of this narrative
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that, you know, and the world does not do us a service by telling us we're always the victims,
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right? I can think of a situation where I did not get, I did not get what I wanted out of a
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relationship, right? And when I was young, you know, it's like, oh, he used you this, blah,
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blah, blah, blah, blah. But when you really like go back and think about things, you're just like,
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oh no I did x y and z I look I'm not telling you guys all my business but you guys you guys get the
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idea it's like you can't just look and say you were some innocent victim in this and oh the only
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thing I did wrong was I picked wrong it's like okay you were perfect in this what did you do that was
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wrong so happen um i didn't even meet him until after my marriage had ended but i we sat and i
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remember being completely just how how can i believe in the ideals of conservatism without
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inherently believing that my life is a failure like i'm a single mother now how can i how can
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not hate myself and still believe in the tried life because no just say you're a loser that's
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it just say i'm a loser now don't cope don't try to make us think you're not a loser don't pretend
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you're important you're just a loser it's all right i'm a loser too all losers i failed at it
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and the idea that maybe i needed to deconstruct some of that was profoundly healing in some ways
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for me but i definitely um like i i certainly concluded that i couldn't be polyamorous that
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that was not the lifestyle that i could pursue but sitting there and doing drugs with destiny
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and talking about how my marriage had fallen apart was profoundly more and you ever think
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about like who's watching this lady's kid who's watching the child why are you doing drugs with
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destiny instead of watching your kid honest than sitting with a bunch of people who are cheating
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on their wives and telling the internet you need to be trad and christ is king that was a lot better
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of a place for me to be not healthy place to be um i do need structure but i feel more comfortable
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with people who can honestly talk about their failures you know on this idea of people who are
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cheating on their wives and telling the internet you know you need to be proud and christ is king
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there are two interesting pieces of that i think one of them is uh i think that for the public man
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it's it's better to say virtuous things than to do virtuous things whereas for the private man
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it's better to do virtuous things than to say virtuous things neither is good i'm not suggesting
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But it seems obvious to me that if your husband says,
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If your pastor says, be faithful, but then cheats,
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This is why the conservatives, it's like men fall.
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no you didn't fall to temptation you raw dogged that hot young latina that was eyeing you down
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while your white wife was being a bitch or vice versa right your latina wife got fat and the you
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know the little blonde girl in church was giving you googly eyes you didn't fall i mean like there's
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so many decisions you have to make in order to have sex with someone it was a choice right
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you should drive over there you got to get naked you got like you know you gotta you gotta thrust
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a bunch of time like there's so much it's not just falling like you did not just fall it's just
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incredible but that's still better than a pastor who says cheat like a pastor who says a perfectly
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christian thing to do is to cheat it okay so there's courage in talking about your sins publicly
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there's some sins guys i've done i don't really want to talk about publicly you know what i mean
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and because i'm not as courageous but there's something about a guy who just doesn't give an f
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like it does take a level of courage for tate to be like yes i cheated on all the women i'm with
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that I don't think is necessarily wrong in public life.
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That said, there's a difference between failing
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and that that is now something different we're not talking about i have a lot of grace for
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people who make mistakes on account of all the mistakes that i make um you know it's easy to
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pick on you for uh hanging out with milo i hired candace so like you know nobody's batting a
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thousand here or anything but uh but i think that the movement as a whole conservatism as a whole
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particularly today, particularly since it moved online, is so graceless.
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I think that a fundamental flaw in even the message of conservatism,
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not only how we actually behave, but almost the message itself,
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And that's important, especially because the left has been tearing down ideals for our entire life.
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Like they've been trying to deconstruct the ideals themselves.
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And so we've gotten so used to upholding the ideals
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all you have to do to be successful in America,
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because you're giving people actual important tools
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The problem is most people fall short of one, two, or three of those at some point.
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And conservatism does a very bad job of saying now what?
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I would say that it's a, it is probably an indictment of the conservative movement that
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you spent so much time in it and knew it so intimately that when you-
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Like there's no, you know, there's no scolding her for the disloyalty of getting to know
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all these people and then spreading their secrets you know what i mean it's like guys entered your
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own period of distress you look to someone who is openly polyamorous and openly um openly used
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drugs or whatever i'm not trying to just pick on destiny he is what he is but that you thought that
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that that was a more honest way to deal with what you perceived as your own failures in the face of
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your own separation. Why are we doing a therapy set? No man would be allowed to talk about
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himself this much. Okay, let's go to, let's go to the trad life talking about, we're going
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to skip to make selfie videos for the internet and take a shower every day. That's none.
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And their husbands are the CEO of JetBlue. That's right. This has never existed. There
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is no trad because there is no tradition on which this is based. It's a, it's just a kind
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of LARPing like the Christian influencers now are doing a, the Christus King set is
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doing a kind of larping knowing that all the people who believe that christ is king will take
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their side at first and it'll take them a long time to realize that oh you you're not making a
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statement of affirmation about the primacy of christ you're raising a tribal flag knowing that
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people will rally to you who don't know like all of that is as you say in your wonderful video
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all of its performance art and none of it is aimed at making the world better the trad movement that
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failed you isn't the failure of it's that failed you not that you're a failure i would just say
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lauren you're a loser you're a loser um you tried to be a traditional wife and you failed because
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you're probably on you're so insufferable that your husband left you and that's an l you just
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got to eat it you know what i mean try to be more less unbearable next time additional marriage
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It's the failure of a artificially constructed and artificially promulgated mask.
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It could never have supported you in your marriage because it doesn't, it doesn't exist
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And the real thing is the thing that we're supposed to, you know, if we're in public
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life the thing that we should be trying to present to people is reality reality is complex reality
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is messy reality is filled with failure your life has been filled with enormous accomplishment
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you've done more than uh are you are you 30 i mean you've done more than most 30 year olds on
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planet earth and yet your life is also filled with failure you failed yourself you failed your values
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you failed your your marriage failed but whatever real accomplishment like none of this my
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accomplishments not real we gotta like get rid of our egos as women um
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like these women think they're better than men they think they're more accomplished you are not
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more lauren you're not more accomplished than a plumber you're not more accomplished than an
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electrician you're not more accomplished than anybody that works for a living um you talk on
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internet we got to stop pretending that we're important at all yeah it's just pride for
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mechanisms that took place i had my own part yeah in everything you played your own part of it but
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okay that's not enough you got to say what specifically was your part like there's one
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thing to say oh i had a part to play it's another thing to say i was selfish i was nagging i was
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bitching i was inconsiderate i was rude and i was controlling and that's why they were like
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do you see the difference oh i had a part to play no no no no no no like if you're gonna publicly
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do an hour video bashing your husband uh what is your part to play in this
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and that's the thing the simps like him i don't know like what it is if they just don't
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have a logical brain like like sometimes i think simps have the mind of women um
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or is he just lying he's either a liar or he has the mind of a woman
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I don't know which but that is reality that that is who you are and it's who every I need to start
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an etiquette school do you know I had a wife school a while ago but everyone just roast me
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even though I wasn't even teaching it um oh my god like I just thought it'd be kind of fun to
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do lessons and like because I didn't know how to cook or anything so I was like oh I could learn
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and then everyone's just like you're a modern woman and I'm like I know I know I'm trying to
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learn you know but anyways you can't win them all uh that would just be too much work i would rather
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be a partner with an etiquette school i could do content or something but yeah too much but he is
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and yeah we wear masks and yeah we point cameras at each other and yeah i'm wearing a little makeup
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right now right like i i understand the job there this is this both is my library of my house and
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it also isn't the library of my house because if the camera tilts up you're going to see lights
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hanging from the ceiling. Right. I like showbiz. I think showbiz is important. But the thing that
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we're supposed to model for people is the thing that's real. And I think that you now in this,
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in this era, this rebranding, this rebranding, which by the way, you have to be very careful of.
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Yeah. You have to be very careful. You, I don't know you to know. Is, is this Lauren's
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redemption era? And will it be followed by your, I hate the Jews era. And then followed by your,
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astral projecting visions of Charlie Kirk from beyond the grave era, followed by your you make
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a hundred million dollars a year era. And yet somehow people think it was still motivated by
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a desire for truth. That could happen. But I hope not. What I hope is that you use this moment that
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you find yourself in. And this is what I think Dr. Peterson was trying to tell me in that
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conversation that we had 16 months ago or so, is that you're uniquely positioned right now
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to help people see that there's grace in the world
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for things that are true and beautiful and good,
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and isn't always beautiful and isn't even always good.
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or the ark or anything can redeem me you know i think only god can do that right so i i this is
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why i think my new policy is just like i'm just gonna be completely honest because i can't keep
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up with the lies and i can't keep up with the audience they might hate me they might like me
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if i'm just saying what i yeah lauren is just someone that's um a victim of a woman that doesn't
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have what it takes to be on the internet and she just crashed and burned and um it's just an l
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you know sometimes in life you got to take L's truly believe in what I've truly seen that's all
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I can do even if it's my own failure um have you ever have you ever put an image into AI and asked
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it to like remove something from the background but then the whole image gets like a little distorted
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anyway and then you like try to fix it and then it deep fries it more and deep fries it more and
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deep fries it more this is what I kind of feel you know when you talk about the trad life it's funny
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because I kind of, I was, I created the maze that I got trapped in. I was 19 doing commentary on that
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and I never lived it. And this is what most commentators are doing. They're posting about
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things they haven't lived. And then they're taking that and they're deep. I actually agree with that.
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Prying it more and deep frying it more, deep frying it more until it's unrecognizable from
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the real world. And then I went and I followed that path and it led me to destruction. So how
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do we, I think, like you said, it's the question of how do we live in show business, acknowledging
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its show business while reflecting something that's real with people who generally are not
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living in reality. I like that. I like that little rant, though. It was very inspiring.
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Hope-inducing. I'm good for one hope-inducing rant per episode. That's what I aspire to.
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No, I appreciate that. It meant a lot. Who's doing it right out there?
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Who's doing it right out there? Oh, boy. I hate this question. I hate this question because people...
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I just, I've never seen a woman so not talented.
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Always tell me they're like, you're so negative, Lauren.
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You say everyone's faking and lying and then who are we supposed to, what?
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He's like, you, he always does the, God uses broken people.
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And I think we have to look for the pieces where people are trying.
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Because like you said, a human life is not a linear, this is the good guy.
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I think all of us have points in our life where if we're honest with ourself, we've
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And you have to look for the people who are and will be again and will be again.
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That's why I don't want it to be my redemption arc in two years.
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You can find out I'm doing espionage for China or something.
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But I think whenever you see people making admissions against their own interest, you
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That's like one of the few times, you know, someone's telling the truth.
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like their audience are canceling them hardcore. They've lost money. They've lost a contract.
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They've lost something to say something true. I mean, that is the quintessential message of
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Christ. Like we, to heal the world, he had to sacrifice himself. And that's what, because
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everyone is always making selfish decisions, ourselves included. It's like to repair that
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damage, we have to make unselfish decisions in which we are going to be treated unfairly,
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in which we are going to have to make a sacrifice to do some healing. So whenever people are making
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admissions against interest i would really look at that and focus on that when is someone because
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there's no incentive to say i'm wrong on the internet there's no incentive all you get is
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you get eaten by sharks because they smell blood in the water whatever the left or right if they
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hate you and then your own side say well you've betrayed us you've betrayed us you're not saying
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you're not walking the line right so whenever someone is kind of getting happens women are
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conservative when they feel like it and when it benefits them so when it benefited her she was
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conservative that's why i say there's no such thing as a traditional or conservative woman in
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2026 because as soon as it no longer benefited her now she's um a more centrist leftist eaten by
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everyone i'd go and take a look at what they're saying and really listen you know what are your
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politics like today that's the tough part coming back into talking again is i'm more interested in
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and critiquing the way that the political world works because I am so uncertain.
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I'm more uncertain today than I've ever been about my political positions because I always
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find reality in contradiction to what I believe.
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One funny experience I had is I play a lot of community volleyball now.
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It's been really good for me to connect the reality again.
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This woman tells us to touch grass and it's like the most online people ever tell us to
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touch grass it's like you touch grass you know what i mean and um one of the girls said let's do
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a boys versus girls game and i still have this like tick where i spent so much time in media that
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i'm like yeah as if boys versus girls like as if that's gonna work like we're gonna get wrecked and
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this girl looks at me like i'm crazy she's like what why not and then i think she's just like a
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suw or something and she's being woke and i'm like obviously because we have a different biology
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we're going to get wrecked. But then the next round of volleyball, we go around and I kind of
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watch the girls and the boys play. And I realized like the girls could totally beat the boys in this
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round just because the guys are constantly swinging into the net. They hit too hard.
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They hit out. The girls are really focused. They're tipping well. They're getting the right
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positions. And I'm like, oh my gosh, she's not looking at me like I'm crazy because she's some
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left-wing political radical. She's looking at me like I'm crazy because I am. I am the one imposing
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culture war gobbledygook nonsense onto a community volleyball game that is not an
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that's true like people do get weird when they're online too much
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but it's just incredible it's just incredible how out of touch we can be and still have a platform
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like it's just crazy how delusional we can be and still have a platform no man could be this
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delusional and still have a job like it just would not happen pick match of olympic players
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these are just average people. And the girls in this situation could beat the boys. But because
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I'm taking this culture war, you know, box and placing it onto everyday life, I look like an
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insane person because I'm not just assessing the situation for what it is. And real life situations
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do not fall into culture war boxes. They don't. And you will look unhinged if you try to make them.
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Did you win? Did we win? I can't remember. I can't remember. I know the girls have absolutely
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beat the boys before in games yes they brutally mocked us culture no okay this is such cap this
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is cap and i look at here's here's my experience okay which which mogs her experience three years
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of playing overseas uh i played volleyball since i was 10 i'm 29 19 years of volleyball experience
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um unathletic guys could be professional women i've played with both i prefer almost pro level
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athletes playing with rather than athletic guys i don't know what the hell she's talking about
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um occasionally right maybe if the guys are really really bad but like if they've been
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playing for a few months you are literally going to lose and if you win uh it's probably because
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they're being nice and taking it easy on you they're not gonna like play with full force
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they love us too much they can't do that so my opinion trumps your opinion sorry
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volleyball mogged war wins again culture war wins every time what do you hope you're remembered for
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what do i hope i'm remembered for oh my goodness you know you i guess it is a good thing
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to think about that it is you know women we got to learn to take pauses she should have just been
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silent thought a little bit answer what do i hope i'm remembered for i hope i'm remembered for
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i don't even like i don't even like that question i think that's too egotistical of a question
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i mean i don't care if i'm remembered or not remembered you know what i mean you can't
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that's just wanting something out of other people
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good thing to think about that but i don't know that the best people in history are ever
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remembered by the masses you know i like to think more about how i'll be remembered by my are you
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are you trying to say that you are one of the best people in history you bang destiny
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you bang destiny like oh my god it's just this is so incredibly out of touch
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oh my god oh my god like that was the worst implication
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now look i'm not trying to be judgmental you know a lot of women aren't you know i think if
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there was a list of every guy like women have banged like out there i think you know all of
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us to be hiding we would go into like we would go underground you know what i mean um but it's like
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what have you done for humanity at this point um i guess you were part of a movement which
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you disagree with now and you banged a gay guy that's an l i mean honestly you could have i think
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that you know banging an ugly dude like a gay guy like that's just a different because your
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point you might have aids at this point you might for real have aids so um
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yeah i mean i just that insinuation was insulting um you haven't had a career that contributed much
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to society you're a single mom so you're going to destroy your kid's life you might have aids so we
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Son, how I'll be remembered by the people in my life that I love and I knew day to day.
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I think that after I've seen the botched jobs the internet will do on people's reputations,
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I'm much less concerned about my public perception and wherever I end up in the history books,
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probably a footnote somewhere on the culture wars of 2010.
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That's less important to me than my son remembering me as a good mom.
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my friends remembering me as someone who loved it look you can't be a good mother without a father
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sorry i don't care um there's just too much especially about you have a son look
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we are all chaotic all of us all women it doesn't matter who you are and there's a level of routine
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and order men will bring that young men crave right young men like they need that
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my um a friend of mine teaches young men and he loves mentoring them and he'll talk about how
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how much they miss having like a father figure and how it just um
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and how overbearing all the mothers are so yeah your son your son is cooked
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you should just give him to the dad in all honesty like you obviously want to whore out
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because you said you were okay so you said i'm just getting this timeline straight you got
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divorced according to you and then you did drugs and bang destiny um and apparently you took your
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kid with so can we just keep it a buck you were banging destiny and doing drugs and someone else
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was watching your kids does that sound like a stellar mother i mean can we just can we just
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keep it real like that has to at least be a c that has to at least be it's like this is by your
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own admission that cannot be a high ranking all right so your son's cooked um you're just cooked
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and it's okay um maybe you'll figure it out probably not um this lack of humility coming
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back and this gaslighting indicates to me that you are going to be um in a walking l forever
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but i mean obviously you want to whore out a bit so i think you should just give your kid to the
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dad and be the whore you are right women a lot of women are happier as whores a lot of women prefer
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whoredom to being with a guy and you that's obviously you right and i'm not judging you
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there's a need there's a lot of sexless men out there there's a need for whores so give the kid
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to the dad and then um go a whore out uh maybe not destiny next time we can shoot a little higher
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lauren uh we can shoot like slightly higher than that so you know you know yeah just good to the
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people around me and i'm not always but i hope to become better i i strive for that you said at the
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beginning of the conversation that you don't know if you would call yourself a christian now
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and understanding everything that you've mentioned here, understanding that online
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Christianity is largely performative, understanding that you never really know
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what's going on with someone with their own, um, with their own walk, with their own spirituality,
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with their relationship with God, uh, understanding that politics has become incredibly tribal,
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and that people are picking sides and taking sides.
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I'd be curious what's between you right now and Christ.
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Like what, what prevents you from embracing, you know, the, the grace that's been offered.
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Now the conservative men are going to try to get the whores in church so she can give
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Why would you, now we got to get her in church.
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save these poor innocent young men okay um okay my own vision of my life and the direction I want
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to go and the direction God wants to take me I think you know it's always in a constant battle
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of I yeah the direction she's like if I accept Christ I gotta stop fucking
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she's not doing that i mean with those looks i mean can we just keep it a buck a lot of men are
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gonna risk stds for that let's just let's just keep it about she's conventionally attractive
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this is an attractive woman all right a lot of guys are just yeah they're gonna still do it
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they're gonna do it and um she's not gonna give that up so when she's a little uglier maybe
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i mean she's chopped you know compared to where she was when she was younger because
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um when she was younger that girl was very very attractive um now she's like a you know a step
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a point and a half lower but still that's too much beauty to give to god you know women only
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give beauty to god when they really really have to like there there's she doesn't she banged
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destiny but there's no porn on the internet you know so I mean that that's gonna give her a few
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extra years before she runs I look at scriptures sometimes and I say my desires and my wants don't
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line up with this and what I think might lead to a healthier better life doesn't necessarily line
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up with this and then I pray and I sit with God and I think it's it's the pride and ego
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probably that I struggle with a bit sometimes I think I'm self-aware of it and I fight it
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and I do have moments where I do follow what I truly believe to be right and God but this
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is her young you see look at that full of life just ready to gluck gluck 9000 you know
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So she fell, but you know, she's still decent looking.
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And I also have so many moments where I don't, and I make my own decisions, and I take the
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reins and take myself in disastrous directions, and it's always this back and forth.
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It sounds to me like what you're describing is a Christian.
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You could say that, but I don't want to disappoint anyone.
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I don't want to disappoint people by saying, hey, look at me.
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hey look at my life i am a representative of a good christian and then have them look at my life
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and go i don't want to be a christian look at her yeah you know he came up oh no he's gonna say come
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to church anyway oh my god why are you a gluttony for punishment oh my do these guys just have
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different brains i think like i think these men their brains are like women brains i don't know
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like sometimes i think there's transgender men i know i know that's like you're not supposed to
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say that as conservative but it just seems like they they think like women or they've trained
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themselves to think like women and um only a woman would want someone that did zero work
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in being a christian to enter the church like no work but here's the title dunk your head in water
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In my comments this last week, and it was by a friend online who was reacting to something that I said along the lines of what I said to you earlier about it's better for a public man to advocate virtue than to actually be personally virtuous.
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There's not a distinction in terms of the sinfulness of the two things.
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But in practical efficacy, you'd much rather have a preacher who cheated on his wife than
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And one of the things that they said in response to this was, well, I don't know, the preacher
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who tells the people to cheat, at least we can avoid them.
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Whereas when you find out that your preacher cheated, it can destroy your faith.
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Nothing I'm saying is meant to advocate for the pastor cheating on his wife or to say
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that that isn't destructive, which, of course, it's hugely, hugely destructive.
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but it's always sort of bothered me, this putting our faith in men business.
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One of the pastors who most impacted my own sort of theological view of the gospel,
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late in life, had a massive moral failure and a very public moral failure.
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and i watched some people uh sort of react to the pain and the shock of of that event
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but i didn't feel any pain or shock i i felt sorry sorrow sorry for him sorry for his wife
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sorry even sorry for the humiliation he was enduring you know which like this is one problem
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with public life is, you know, you know this better than most, you know, divorce is very
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prevalent. You went through it in front of people and going through it in front of people
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doesn't make divorce worse. Divorce is just bad. But you got to go through the shame of
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it, the humiliation of it, because it was public. And so I hated that for him. But it
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didn't impact my faith in any way because, or my theology, because my theology sort of
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premised on the idea that God doesn't recommend us, he recommends himself, that great men fail,
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that all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, as we've said before today.
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I'm never surprised to discover that no one is a good example of what it means to be a good
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Christian. And so I only offer that to you as a marketing to get her ass in church so she can
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bang all the young guys somebody's got to do it i mean they i think the church on some level
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understands there's a sexlessness problem and um they just need some whores to at least um give
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them the illusion of putting it obviously like the horrors aren't really gonna put because
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here's the thing about horse they cannot put out to lame ninjas they cannot like once they've had
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a real ninja like if anything an innocent woman is more likely to put out with a lame ninja
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because she does she's never had a real ninja but once once a has had a bunch of
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real ninjas she can't go to lame ninjas without making his life a living hell and not putting out
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you know so anyways um go to church they deserve you lauren um i think that you'll be really happy
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there so anyways that's all i got today i'm gonna see if there's anything on twitter that i need to
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go over uh no i don't think so i think we went over these yesterday that's all i got um thank
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you guys for watching i appreciate you like the video and subscribe and i'll see you next time