Pearl - Jeremy Boreing is nominated for Simp of the Year

00:00:00.000 what is up my people hold on hold on i started the show and i realized i forgot to do something

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00:00:13.040 i forgot to put on my second camera so it's like hold up you know what i mean

00:00:26.860 all right well

00:00:33.000 what's going on my guys it's a chill stream today so i want to lower the expectations they

00:00:45.600 got to be low they got to be super low hold on one second one second

00:00:52.900 Thank you.

00:01:22.900 i have returned oh my gosh what is up with this camera

00:01:30.400 all right well i've given up no musical intro no musical intro i know i know i know

00:01:48.780 i know

00:01:51.400 someone said i fell off it's like well you were never on

00:01:58.220 so i fell off but it's like at least i was on at one point

00:02:02.900 yeah like how dare you it's like you're saying you fell off well why don't you try like get a

00:02:10.380 billion views on your youtube channel you know what i mean it's like did i fall off kind of but

00:02:17.200 okay so today uh anyways we're gonna that's neither here nor there today we're talking about

00:02:25.340 simps now i personally think that simping is a disease um and i don't know if there's a cure

00:02:32.840 i really don't know if there's a cure for this disease okay so

00:02:39.180 a simp a slang term for somebody usually a man who exhibits excessive affection attention

00:02:48.740 or deference towards another person often in a desperate unreciprocated attempt to win their

00:02:55.800 affection or sexual favors the term suggests a submissive desperate attitude often viewing the

00:03:02.980 person as simping or lowing their self-respect to please a crush so today we're talking about a guy

00:03:17.340 who has a disease of simping now this is um let me see where we're supposed to start this is

00:03:24.300 Jeremy Boring. He is the CEO of the Daily Wire. And let's see, one hour, 14. And he is basically

00:03:38.260 trying to help Lauren Southern repair her reputation. So Lauren Southern is by all

00:03:43.240 accounts a loser, right? She's a single mother. She's alienated her kid from the father, right? 1.00

00:03:54.300 um she banged like half the manosphere and instead of just taking an L and you know um 1.00

00:04:04.860 taking that L to her reputation she has decided to gaslight all of us as if she did not do those 0.58

00:04:12.060 things so today we are going to watch this give me one second one hour one hour 14 minute marks

00:04:22.860 we're starting. I'm going to go a little bit further back. Okay. Okay. Make selfie videos

00:04:49.960 for the internet and take a shower every day. That's none. And their husbands are the CEO of

00:04:55.340 JetBlue. That's right. This has never existed. There is no trad because there is no tradition

00:05:00.760 on which this is based. It's just a kind of LARPing like the Christian influencers now are 1.00

00:05:06.720 doing. The Christ is King set is doing a kind of LARPing knowing that all the people who believe 0.92

00:05:11.560 that Christ is King will take their side at first and it'll take them a long time to realize that,

00:05:16.360 oh, you're not making a statement of affirmation about the primacy of Christ.

00:05:21.700 You're raising a tribal flag knowing that people were rallied to you who don't know.

00:05:25.800 Like, all of that is, as you say in your wonderful video, all of it's performance art.

00:05:31.760 And none of it is aimed at making the world better.

00:05:34.620 The trad movement that failed you isn't the failure of traditional marriage.

00:05:38.940 That's how he said that failed you. 0.52

00:05:40.720 Like, men like this, you guys are the problem. 0.99

00:05:43.060 because even your language just alleviates she failed she's a loser right and we can't all be 0.99

00:05:49.580 winners in life I'm kind of a loser too my channel is meant for losers um so like I'm not here to 0.83

00:05:56.380 judge the losers you know some of us we just can't win we just lose lose lose but we have to 0.97

00:06:04.120 objectively say that we are losers you know but we're fucking with the losers here but yeah she's 0.99

00:06:10.320 objectively a loser um and she used to be like the hot girl and she could have married a bajillionaire 0.99

00:06:16.740 with her looks and she just fumbled so hard like i was never that hot so my downfall can't be that 0.98

00:06:22.940 bad if you're not if the high if you're never that attractive like you didn't lose that much

00:06:29.980 so i can't imagine the ego hit it would take to be like a super hot girl and to just be like pew

00:06:36.120 you know what I mean? That's it's the failure of a artificially constructed and artificially

00:06:45.980 promulgated mask. Um, and of course it failed you. It isn't real. It could never have supported

00:06:53.820 you in your marriage because it doesn't, it doesn't exist in the real world. It exists.

00:06:58.120 It exists on Instagram. That's the only place it is. Uh, but there is something real. And the real

00:07:03.860 thing is the thing that we're supposed to, you know, if we're in public life, the thing

00:07:07.960 that we should be trying.

00:07:09.660 Wait, Doug MPA, he told me to start at 1 15, but there's a destiny part.

00:07:17.440 Oh my God.

00:07:18.440 I don't, maybe I need to go earlier in this, uh, he said, he really told me 1 15.

00:07:26.300 Uh, oh, I read it wrong.

00:07:29.280 no he said one hour 14 okay I'm a little confused I'm gonna just do the part where she talks about

00:07:37.780 destiny all right he's lying about almost every aspect of that film and there are a lot of people

00:07:44.140 who have done breakdowns of it but I believe Peterson had interviewed him and promoted it

00:07:48.320 based on trust based on believing that he was a good person as well without looking into the

00:07:53.000 he said you are hotter than my ex Pearl

00:07:56.480 i mean i don't know if he should be bragging about that i mean again i'm mid so like your

00:08:04.160 ex is another mid or she a sub mid i mean it's not i'm cute but let's not

00:08:11.180 you know real details because he doesn't have time because he has to put out a lot of content

00:08:20.440 because he he you have to operate on some level of trust with other influencers or you will be

00:08:26.320 sitting in your room, reading court cases all day long

00:08:28.820 and never able to keep up with the algorithm.

00:08:31.020 So the reason that this environment existed

00:08:33.100 that I found very damaging

00:08:34.760 and that I was a part of as well,

00:08:36.740 exists in symbiosis with the healthier aspects

00:08:39.660 that promoted it and don't have time

00:08:41.880 to look into the details of everything going on there

00:08:44.040 and the scams and the lies

00:08:45.800 and the fake court cases, you know?

00:08:48.640 Well, I'll admit that I don't know,

00:08:50.080 you know, the allegations about Robinson.

00:08:54.640 I don't know. I haven't.

00:08:55.580 And most people don't. They don't have time to look into the court cases.

00:08:58.260 I haven't spent any time looking into it, as you say. And there is a symbiosis. I'll readily admit that there's a symbiosis. I might quibble on some of the details about when did Tucker start moving. I think that the Andrew Tate interview was a huge red flag that Tucker was on a different path than the past people.

00:09:19.300 and this is i hate elitists they think they're better than everybody like you have the moral

00:09:24.740 authority to tell people what path we should be who the are you who the are you this is why people

00:09:30.980 hate these guys because they sit in their ivory towers they think they're smarter than everyone

00:09:36.020 and better than everyone pearl is a three to five max out of six i agree i would give myself a three

00:09:41.300 probably a two i think that's a little too generous it's a little too generous yeah you

00:09:46.020 you got to go down. I thought he was on there to four. Nevertheless, I'll grant the premise.

00:09:51.300 Look at Joe Rogan. He just interviewed Andrew Wilson, who I mentioned. Do you know Andrew

00:09:56.180 Wilson? I don't know Andrew. I mean, I know who Andrew Wilson is. Yeah, he does the whatever

00:09:59.280 podcast a lot. You know, he presents himself as kind of this Christian nationalist character and

00:10:04.080 is always, women, why you bring nothing to the table, but you're, you know, insert bad word. 0.54

00:10:11.040 he's very pharisaical in his behavior and he's being hosted on some of the largest most mainstream

00:10:16.720 platforms in the world and i'm not saying don't host people but there's not like the idea that

00:10:22.300 this environment exists on its own that i existed in that's more kind of radical and crazy i very

00:10:28.560 much work in symbiosis well okay fair enough dennis prager wouldn't invite uh andrew tate on

00:10:35.020 a show though just as an example sure i don't think because you guys think you're better than

00:10:39.520 everyone else go yourself that's how i feel it's like you guys act like you're better than everyone

00:10:46.720 else and you know people are getting sick of this elitism on the right people are getting sick of 0.89

00:10:53.520 you know these arrogant pricks acting like they're better than the average working man

00:10:58.560 and jordan peterson would invite andrew tate on a show or there would at least come a moment where 0.90

00:11:11.220 it would know like it's incredible how simpy they are you would invite andrew tate oh i wouldn't 0.90

00:11:17.000 invite andrew tate but lauren southern who banged half of conservative media is allowed to go on

00:11:22.480 longer be the case that jordan peterson would invite andrew tate on the show like

00:11:31.040 by the time andrew tate is a known quantity and i'm i'm not trying to pick on you no no please

00:11:37.580 but i i love a harsh real conversation be real with me you've just been on a path that and and

00:11:44.440 this is one of the things that um is both makes you very interesting uh as a public figure is

00:11:51.320 that you've gone through the fire and now you're open to criticize, even be self-critical

00:11:58.640 of that world, your time in that world.

00:12:02.800 That's a very interesting thing.

00:12:03.940 But there's a danger to it too, which I want to get to, which is the sort of Taylor Swift

00:12:08.820 era's version of public life.

00:12:10.780 Like, is this the, you know, you went through your transgressive era and then you went through 0.85

00:12:16.040 your trad wife era.

00:12:17.660 Are you now in your redemption era? 0.95

00:12:20.520 Oh, no.

00:12:21.320 Okay.

00:12:22.320 Wait, wait, let me, you know what?

00:12:24.220 This is fair.

00:12:25.220 I believe there's a-

00:12:27.220 All right.

00:12:28.220 We were just talking too much about this girl.

00:12:31.640 This is the symbiast-

00:12:32.640 Symbiosis.

00:12:33.640 But I also believe I have a penchant for chaos and I have an attraction to chaotic, disorganized- 1.00

00:12:40.220 Yeah, because you're a woman.

00:12:42.780 We all have an attraction to chaos. 1.00

00:12:45.700 Exciting lifestyles as well.

00:12:48.100 is a part of me that is a part of that sphere. And I, you know, whenever you see these articles

00:12:55.920 that come out, I don't agree with the headline. Like I created the manosphere and I, now it

00:12:59.920 destroyed me. I don't think I was destroyed by the manosphere, but is there an aspect of me

00:13:03.160 that helped create the very Frankensteins that? No, it's just incredible. You didn't create

00:13:10.400 anything one the manosphere is a feminist term that was created um by feminists because they 1.00

00:13:20.320 wanted the manosphere to be like a boogeyman right so they wanted to say the manosphere is toxic and 1.00

00:13:25.120 then they could label anyone as a part of the manosphere they don't like two um no you didn't

00:13:30.080 do anything you were a hot girl you were a hot girl doing political content

00:13:40.880 i mean look you aren't that important just like i'm not that important neither of us are that

00:13:45.760 important um but everyone treats us like we're important because she was hot i was mid i'm still

00:13:53.040 mid um yeah hurt me 100 absolutely um i i think i had a personality that was addicted to

00:14:03.600 transgressiveness that was addicted to the the lifestyle in those spheres even if i didn't

00:14:09.040 know it at the time um but yeah even even to this day there's an aspect of me where i have to be

00:14:14.560 very conscious of the fact that uh i i don't make the best decisions like if i were your older

00:14:22.080 brother i would say don't like don't date destiny like that would just be a that would just be a

00:14:29.040 piece of advice that i'd probably throw on the table you know like probably bruh

00:14:40.240 believe this doesn't go well

00:14:44.160 um you know it's funny you say that because that was actually probably i want to give her props if

00:14:51.760 that hair is real i'm very jealous of her hair one of the healthier relationships i had in the

00:14:58.800 political space yeah that's not bro you banged everybody like i just how can you guys say that

00:15:07.120 oh my gosh where do i rate myself with lauren uh i told you i'm a three she's like a seven i would

00:15:17.440 say but she's a single mom so that makes her six so 0.84

00:15:25.360 at least in this i don't know maybe in other angles i wouldn't say that

00:15:30.160 yeah that's not a recommendation you know when like what i mean you could just build your brand

00:15:41.680 unlike politics not yeah i'm an ape go you guys that that's a simp no offense but it's just like

00:15:51.600 i'm not that high i would say to that is the i would and i said this earlier i would rather

00:15:58.480 be at least certainly after i had been in this sphere that i felt was so dishonest with the

00:16:03.280 public about who they were including myself it was very refreshing to be at a table with someone who

00:16:08.880 who was like, yes, I am polyamorous, yes, I do drugs, yes, I, you know, I partake in all of

00:16:16.860 this, quote unquote, degenerate behavior, than to be at a table with a bunch of people doing the

00:16:21.160 exact same thing, but pretending publicly to be saints, you know, because at least I can't

00:16:27.440 deconstruct the world that I was a part of without honesty. So I couldn't deconstruct it with the

00:16:33.880 people because everyone was lying to themselves. At least I have a lot more respect for

00:16:38.720 people who can sit there and say, this is who I am, even if the public hate it. Yeah, this is why

00:16:44.060 I'm gay. I'm a bisexual, polyamorous guy. That's it. I'll get on all the time by the internet for

00:16:50.260 it. But that's just who I am, rather than people who are exactly the same conduct themselves the

00:16:54.600 same way. But it's actually more dangerous to be friends with people in the right wing media who

00:16:59.500 have all of these proclivities, but don't tell them publicly, because as soon as you find out

00:17:04.020 about it, you're now a threat. And they have to kind of destroy you and destroy your life. Whereas

00:17:08.380 if people have their cards on the table and they say, this is who I am, it's a lot safer to have

00:17:12.300 a friendship with them. And you can just talk honestly about your failures. And that's what I,

00:17:16.020 that's what I needed at that time in my life. I needed someone I could talk honestly about my

00:17:20.120 failures and the struggles I was having. I didn't believe in the trad life or marriage anymore after

00:17:24.000 my husband left. You know, um, I see all the rumors online, Lauren cheated on her husband 1.00

00:17:28.360 with destiny. That didn't. Yeah. Okay. Why did he leave again? I'm just tired of this narrative 0.91

00:17:36.680 that, you know, and the world does not do us a service by telling us we're always the victims,

00:17:43.380 right? I can think of a situation where I did not get, I did not get what I wanted out of a

00:17:51.920 relationship, right? And when I was young, you know, it's like, oh, he used you this, blah,

00:17:58.960 blah, blah, blah, blah. But when you really like go back and think about things, you're just like,

00:18:04.920 oh no I did x y and z I look I'm not telling you guys all my business but you guys you guys get the

00:18:11.280 idea it's like you can't just look and say you were some innocent victim in this and oh the only

00:18:16.660 thing I did wrong was I picked wrong it's like okay you were perfect in this what did you do that was

00:18:23.240 wrong so happen um i didn't even meet him until after my marriage had ended but i we sat and i

00:18:38.760 remember being completely just how how can i believe in the ideals of conservatism without

00:18:46.060 inherently believing that my life is a failure like i'm a single mother now how can i how can 0.83

00:18:51.720 not hate myself and still believe in the tried life because no just say you're a loser that's 0.85

00:18:56.360 it just say i'm a loser now don't cope don't try to make us think you're not a loser don't pretend 0.99

00:19:03.080 you're important you're just a loser it's all right i'm a loser too all losers i failed at it 0.96

00:19:11.800 and the idea that maybe i needed to deconstruct some of that was profoundly healing in some ways 0.94

00:19:18.600 for me but i definitely um like i i certainly concluded that i couldn't be polyamorous that

00:19:25.240 that was not the lifestyle that i could pursue but sitting there and doing drugs with destiny

00:19:30.680 and talking about how my marriage had fallen apart was profoundly more and you ever think

00:19:35.320 about like who's watching this lady's kid who's watching the child why are you doing drugs with

00:19:44.040 destiny instead of watching your kid honest than sitting with a bunch of people who are cheating

00:19:50.300 on their wives and telling the internet you need to be trad and christ is king that was a lot better

00:19:56.380 of a place for me to be not healthy place to be um i do need structure but i feel more comfortable

00:20:02.320 with people who can honestly talk about their failures you know on this idea of people who are

00:20:08.940 cheating on their wives and telling the internet you know you need to be proud and christ is king

00:20:13.500 there are two interesting pieces of that i think one of them is uh i think that for the public man

00:20:20.320 it's it's better to say virtuous things than to do virtuous things whereas for the private man

00:20:29.500 it's better to do virtuous things than to say virtuous things neither is good i'm not suggesting

00:20:34.680 that a public man living a hypocritical life

00:20:38.220 is itself virtuous.

00:20:39.960 It's certainly not.

00:20:41.560 But it seems obvious to me that if your husband says,

00:20:45.360 I'll be faithful and then cheats,

00:20:48.360 what he says has no value.

00:20:51.200 If your pastor says, be faithful, but then cheats,

00:20:55.100 well, men fail, men fall to temptation.

00:20:59.680 Why do we, I hate that.

00:21:00.800 This is why the conservatives, it's like men fall. 0.94

00:21:03.120 no you didn't fall to temptation you raw dogged that hot young latina that was eyeing you down 1.00

00:21:11.520 while your white wife was being a bitch or vice versa right your latina wife got fat and the you 1.00

00:21:18.140 know the little blonde girl in church was giving you googly eyes you didn't fall i mean like there's 1.00

00:21:24.860 so many decisions you have to make in order to have sex with someone it was a choice right 0.99

00:21:28.920 you should drive over there you got to get naked you got like you know you gotta you gotta thrust 0.64

00:21:35.780 a bunch of time like there's so much it's not just falling like you did not just fall it's just

00:21:43.720 incredible but that's still better than a pastor who says cheat like a pastor who says a perfectly

00:21:48.380 christian thing to do is to cheat it okay so there's courage in talking about your sins publicly

00:21:56.960 there's some sins guys i've done i don't really want to talk about publicly you know what i mean

00:22:01.280 and because i'm not as courageous but there's something about a guy who just doesn't give an f

00:22:06.000 and um

00:22:13.360 you know um 0.98

00:22:18.400 like it does take a level of courage for tate to be like yes i cheated on all the women i'm with

00:22:23.120 Yes, that's what you're saying.

00:22:25.380 So there's a kind of call to hypocrisy

00:22:29.600 that I don't think is necessarily wrong in public life.

00:22:35.000 That said, there's a difference between failing

00:22:42.520 in the face of temptation

00:22:45.140 and embracing sin while preaching virtue.

00:22:50.980 and that that is now something different we're not talking about i have a lot of grace for

00:22:56.260 people who make mistakes on account of all the mistakes that i make um you know it's easy to

00:23:01.940 pick on you for uh hanging out with milo i hired candace so like you know nobody's batting a

00:23:09.340 thousand here or anything but uh but i think that the movement as a whole conservatism as a whole

00:23:16.020 particularly today, particularly since it moved online, is so graceless.

00:23:24.960 I think that a fundamental flaw in even the message of conservatism,

00:23:30.200 not only how we actually behave, but almost the message itself,

00:23:33.800 is that we uphold ideals.

00:23:37.000 And that's important, especially because the left has been tearing down ideals for our entire life.

00:23:41.380 Like they've been trying to deconstruct the ideals themselves.

00:23:45.480 And so we've gotten so used to upholding the ideals

00:23:47.620 that we almost leave no room for anyone

00:23:49.600 who's fallen short of the ideals

00:23:51.260 to actually participate anymore.

00:23:53.660 You know, when we say things like,

00:23:55.340 all you have to do to be successful in America,

00:23:57.540 study after study demonstrates it,

00:23:59.540 you know, graduate high school,

00:24:01.280 get married before you have children,

00:24:03.060 don't do drugs.

00:24:03.840 Like, you do these three things,

00:24:05.440 you're gonna make it in America.

00:24:07.880 And that's true.

00:24:08.900 And it's important to say that that's true

00:24:10.360 because you're giving people actual important tools

00:24:12.620 with which to govern their lives.

00:24:14.180 The problem is most people fall short of one, two, or three of those at some point.

00:24:19.200 And now what?

00:24:20.420 And conservatism does a very bad job of saying now what?

00:24:23.700 I would say that it's a, it is probably an indictment of the conservative movement that

00:24:30.420 you spent so much time in it and knew it so intimately that when you-

00:24:35.320 Like there's no, you know, there's no scolding her for the disloyalty of getting to know

00:24:42.480 all these people and then spreading their secrets you know what i mean it's like guys entered your

00:24:48.680 own period of distress you look to someone who is openly polyamorous and openly um openly used

00:24:58.900 drugs or whatever i'm not trying to just pick on destiny he is what he is but that you thought that

00:25:04.200 that that was a more honest way to deal with what you perceived as your own failures in the face of

00:25:09.580 your own separation. Why are we doing a therapy set? No man would be allowed to talk about

00:25:14.180 himself this much. Okay, let's go to, let's go to the trad life talking about, we're going

00:25:19.100 to skip to make selfie videos for the internet and take a shower every day. That's none.

00:25:24.620 And their husbands are the CEO of JetBlue. That's right. This has never existed. There

00:25:29.300 is no trad because there is no tradition on which this is based. It's a, it's just a kind

00:25:34.620 of LARPing like the Christian influencers now are doing a, the Christus King set is

00:25:39.020 doing a kind of larping knowing that all the people who believe that christ is king will take

00:25:43.420 their side at first and it'll take them a long time to realize that oh you you're not making a

00:25:48.920 statement of affirmation about the primacy of christ you're raising a tribal flag knowing that

00:25:54.840 people will rally to you who don't know like all of that is as you say in your wonderful video

00:25:59.700 all of its performance art and none of it is aimed at making the world better the trad movement that

00:26:06.600 failed you isn't the failure of it's that failed you not that you're a failure i would just say 1.00

00:26:12.440 lauren you're a loser you're a loser um you tried to be a traditional wife and you failed because 1.00

00:26:22.760 you're probably on you're so insufferable that your husband left you and that's an l you just 1.00

00:26:27.880 got to eat it you know what i mean try to be more less unbearable next time additional marriage

00:26:35.240 It's the failure of a artificially constructed and artificially promulgated mask.

00:26:45.620 And of course it failed you.

00:26:46.620 It isn't real.

00:26:47.620 It could never have supported you in your marriage because it doesn't, it doesn't exist

00:26:51.420 in the real world.

00:26:52.420 It exists.

00:26:53.420 It exists on Instagram.

00:26:54.420 That's the only place it is.

00:26:56.640 But there is something real.

00:26:58.380 And the real thing is the thing that we're supposed to, you know, if we're in public

00:27:01.800 life the thing that we should be trying to present to people is reality reality is complex reality

00:27:08.840 is messy reality is filled with failure your life has been filled with enormous accomplishment

00:27:14.880 you've done more than uh are you are you 30 i mean you've done more than most 30 year olds on

00:27:20.740 planet earth and yet your life is also filled with failure you failed yourself you failed your values

00:27:25.020 you failed your your marriage failed but whatever real accomplishment like none of this my 0.95

00:27:30.640 accomplishments not real we gotta like get rid of our egos as women um 0.91

00:27:35.120 like these women think they're better than men they think they're more accomplished you are not 0.97

00:27:44.240 more lauren you're not more accomplished than a plumber you're not more accomplished than an 0.99

00:27:49.200 electrician you're not more accomplished than anybody that works for a living um you talk on

00:27:54.380 internet we got to stop pretending that we're important at all yeah it's just pride for

00:28:03.980 mechanisms that took place i had my own part yeah in everything you played your own part of it but

00:28:09.020 okay that's not enough you got to say what specifically was your part like there's one

00:28:15.180 thing to say oh i had a part to play it's another thing to say i was selfish i was nagging i was

00:28:21.420 bitching i was inconsiderate i was rude and i was controlling and that's why they were like

00:28:28.540 do you see the difference oh i had a part to play no no no no no no like if you're gonna publicly 0.85

00:28:35.340 do an hour video bashing your husband uh what is your part to play in this

00:28:41.340 and that's the thing the simps like him i don't know like what it is if they just don't 0.98

00:28:53.860 have a logical brain like like sometimes i think simps have the mind of women um

00:29:00.540 i'm like 1.00

00:29:04.900 or is he just lying he's either a liar or he has the mind of a woman 0.95

00:29:11.260 I don't know which but that is reality that that is who you are and it's who every I need to start 0.97

00:29:19.140 an etiquette school do you know I had a wife school a while ago but everyone just roast me

00:29:24.100 even though I wasn't even teaching it um oh my god like I just thought it'd be kind of fun to

00:29:30.680 do lessons and like because I didn't know how to cook or anything so I was like oh I could learn 0.88

00:29:33.960 and then everyone's just like you're a modern woman and I'm like I know I know I'm trying to

00:29:39.140 learn you know but anyways you can't win them all uh that would just be too much work i would rather

00:29:47.200 be a partner with an etiquette school i could do content or something but yeah too much but he is

00:29:53.900 and yeah we wear masks and yeah we point cameras at each other and yeah i'm wearing a little makeup

00:29:58.540 right now right like i i understand the job there this is this both is my library of my house and

00:30:05.160 it also isn't the library of my house because if the camera tilts up you're going to see lights

00:30:08.660 hanging from the ceiling. Right. I like showbiz. I think showbiz is important. But the thing that

00:30:13.260 we're supposed to model for people is the thing that's real. And I think that you now in this,

00:30:19.100 in this era, this rebranding, this rebranding, which by the way, you have to be very careful of.

00:30:25.680 Yeah. You have to be very careful. You, I don't know you to know. Is, is this Lauren's

00:30:32.420 redemption era? And will it be followed by your, I hate the Jews era. And then followed by your, 0.99

00:30:38.640 astral projecting visions of Charlie Kirk from beyond the grave era, followed by your you make

00:30:44.720 a hundred million dollars a year era. And yet somehow people think it was still motivated by

00:30:48.460 a desire for truth. That could happen. But I hope not. What I hope is that you use this moment that

00:30:54.840 you find yourself in. And this is what I think Dr. Peterson was trying to tell me in that

00:30:58.120 conversation that we had 16 months ago or so, is that you're uniquely positioned right now

00:31:05.620 to help people see that there's grace in the world

00:31:08.300 and to help people see that you can advocate

00:31:11.360 for things that are true and beautiful and good,

00:31:13.920 even though your own life isn't always true

00:31:15.580 and isn't always beautiful and isn't even always good.

00:31:18.600 Because if God doesn't have the ability

00:31:20.800 to work through broken vessels,

00:31:22.960 then he can't do any work at all.

00:31:24.660 That's the only vessels that we're offering

00:31:25.960 down here on earth, right?

00:31:27.820 No, absolutely.

00:31:28.800 I don't want this to be my redemption era

00:31:30.680 because I don't believe that the cameras

00:31:33.600 or the ark or anything can redeem me you know i think only god can do that right so i i this is

00:31:39.580 why i think my new policy is just like i'm just gonna be completely honest because i can't keep

00:31:43.400 up with the lies and i can't keep up with the audience they might hate me they might like me

00:31:47.440 if i'm just saying what i yeah lauren is just someone that's um a victim of a woman that doesn't

00:31:53.700 have what it takes to be on the internet and she just crashed and burned and um it's just an l

00:32:01.280 you know sometimes in life you got to take L's truly believe in what I've truly seen that's all

00:32:06.960 I can do even if it's my own failure um have you ever have you ever put an image into AI and asked

00:32:14.800 it to like remove something from the background but then the whole image gets like a little distorted

00:32:18.740 anyway and then you like try to fix it and then it deep fries it more and deep fries it more and

00:32:23.380 deep fries it more this is what I kind of feel you know when you talk about the trad life it's funny

00:32:28.140 because I kind of, I was, I created the maze that I got trapped in. I was 19 doing commentary on that

00:32:34.140 and I never lived it. And this is what most commentators are doing. They're posting about

00:32:37.760 things they haven't lived. And then they're taking that and they're deep. I actually agree with that.

00:32:42.660 Prying it more and deep frying it more, deep frying it more until it's unrecognizable from

00:32:46.560 the real world. And then I went and I followed that path and it led me to destruction. So how

00:32:51.440 do we, I think, like you said, it's the question of how do we live in show business, acknowledging

00:32:57.340 its show business while reflecting something that's real with people who generally are not

00:33:03.420 living in reality. I like that. I like that little rant, though. It was very inspiring.

00:33:10.300 Hope-inducing. I'm good for one hope-inducing rant per episode. That's what I aspire to.

00:33:14.040 No, I appreciate that. It meant a lot. Who's doing it right out there?

00:33:20.180 Who's doing it right out there? Oh, boy. I hate this question. I hate this question because people...

00:33:26.180 I just, I've never seen a woman so not talented.

00:33:30.860 Always tell me they're like, you're so negative, Lauren.

00:33:33.040 You say everyone's faking and lying and then who are we supposed to, what?

00:33:36.220 My dad always says this to me.

00:33:37.720 He's like, you, he always does the, God uses broken people. 0.99

00:33:41.140 And I think that's true. 0.63

00:33:42.140 I think God does use broken people.

00:33:43.420 And I think we have to look for the pieces where people are trying.

00:33:46.940 Because like you said, a human life is not a linear, this is the good guy.

00:33:50.220 This is the job.

00:33:51.220 Answer the question.

00:33:52.220 Is it your job media?

00:33:54.220 Oh my God.

00:33:55.220 I think all of us have points in our life where if we're honest with ourself, we've

00:33:59.880 been the bad guy in the story.

00:34:02.500 And you have to look for the people who are and will be again and will be again.

00:34:07.540 Absolutely.

00:34:08.540 That's why I don't want it to be my redemption arc in two years.

00:34:11.340 You can find out I'm doing espionage for China or something.

00:34:14.380 I don't know.

00:34:15.380 But I think whenever you see people making admissions against their own interest, you

00:34:21.100 know what I mean?

00:34:22.100 That's like one of the few times, you know, someone's telling the truth.

00:34:24.180 like their audience are canceling them hardcore. They've lost money. They've lost a contract.

00:34:29.100 They've lost something to say something true. I mean, that is the quintessential message of

00:34:33.460 Christ. Like we, to heal the world, he had to sacrifice himself. And that's what, because

00:34:38.740 everyone is always making selfish decisions, ourselves included. It's like to repair that

00:34:42.720 damage, we have to make unselfish decisions in which we are going to be treated unfairly,

00:34:47.020 in which we are going to have to make a sacrifice to do some healing. So whenever people are making

00:34:51.260 admissions against interest i would really look at that and focus on that when is someone because

00:34:56.140 there's no incentive to say i'm wrong on the internet there's no incentive all you get is

00:35:02.220 you get eaten by sharks because they smell blood in the water whatever the left or right if they

00:35:05.660 hate you and then your own side say well you've betrayed us you've betrayed us you're not saying 1.00

00:35:09.740 you're not walking the line right so whenever someone is kind of getting happens women are

00:35:14.140 conservative when they feel like it and when it benefits them so when it benefited her she was 0.98

00:35:18.220 conservative that's why i say there's no such thing as a traditional or conservative woman in

00:35:22.460 2026 because as soon as it no longer benefited her now she's um a more centrist leftist eaten by

00:35:30.700 everyone i'd go and take a look at what they're saying and really listen you know what are your

00:35:35.660 politics like today that's the tough part coming back into talking again is i'm more interested in

00:35:43.100 and critiquing the way that the political world works because I am so uncertain.

00:35:47.700 I'm more uncertain today than I've ever been about my political positions because I always

00:35:51.820 find reality in contradiction to what I believe.

00:35:56.220 One funny experience I had is I play a lot of community volleyball now.

00:35:59.180 It's been really good for me to connect the reality again.

00:36:01.520 Community volleyball in Canada.

00:36:03.080 Community volleyball in Canada.

00:36:04.080 You know what's so crazy?

00:36:05.540 This woman tells us to touch grass and it's like the most online people ever tell us to

00:36:12.700 touch grass it's like you touch grass you know what i mean and um one of the girls said let's do

00:36:20.300 a boys versus girls game and i still have this like tick where i spent so much time in media that

00:36:25.740 i'm like yeah as if boys versus girls like as if that's gonna work like we're gonna get wrecked and

00:36:31.740 this girl looks at me like i'm crazy she's like what why not and then i think she's just like a

00:36:37.580 suw or something and she's being woke and i'm like obviously because we have a different biology

00:36:41.580 we're going to get wrecked. But then the next round of volleyball, we go around and I kind of

00:36:45.960 watch the girls and the boys play. And I realized like the girls could totally beat the boys in this

00:36:49.700 round just because the guys are constantly swinging into the net. They hit too hard.

00:36:52.920 They hit out. The girls are really focused. They're tipping well. They're getting the right 0.99

00:36:55.920 positions. And I'm like, oh my gosh, she's not looking at me like I'm crazy because she's some

00:37:01.420 left-wing political radical. She's looking at me like I'm crazy because I am. I am the one imposing

00:37:06.700 culture war gobbledygook nonsense onto a community volleyball game that is not an

00:37:11.460 that's true like people do get weird when they're online too much

00:37:14.480 but it's just incredible it's just incredible how out of touch we can be and still have a platform

00:37:22.760 like it's just crazy how delusional we can be and still have a platform no man could be this

00:37:29.820 delusional and still have a job like it just would not happen pick match of olympic players

00:37:35.540 these are just average people. And the girls in this situation could beat the boys. But because 1.00

00:37:39.940 I'm taking this culture war, you know, box and placing it onto everyday life, I look like an

00:37:46.780 insane person because I'm not just assessing the situation for what it is. And real life situations

00:37:52.060 do not fall into culture war boxes. They don't. And you will look unhinged if you try to make them.

00:37:58.460 Did you win? Did we win? I can't remember. I can't remember. I know the girls have absolutely

00:38:04.000 beat the boys before in games yes they brutally mocked us culture no okay this is such cap this

00:38:12.000 is cap and i look at here's here's my experience okay which which mogs her experience three years

00:38:19.360 of playing overseas uh i played volleyball since i was 10 i'm 29 19 years of volleyball experience

00:38:26.800 um unathletic guys could be professional women i've played with both i prefer almost pro level

00:38:35.800 athletes playing with rather than athletic guys i don't know what the hell she's talking about

00:38:42.580 um occasionally right maybe if the guys are really really bad but like if they've been

00:38:49.980 playing for a few months you are literally going to lose and if you win uh it's probably because

00:38:55.720 they're being nice and taking it easy on you they're not gonna like play with full force

00:39:00.880 they love us too much they can't do that so my opinion trumps your opinion sorry

00:39:09.180 volleyball mogged war wins again culture war wins every time what do you hope you're remembered for

00:39:18.440 what do i hope i'm remembered for oh my goodness you know you i guess it is a good thing

00:39:25.480 to think about that it is you know women we got to learn to take pauses she should have just been

00:39:31.160 silent thought a little bit answer what do i hope i'm remembered for i hope i'm remembered for

00:39:49.000 i don't even like i don't even like that question i think that's too egotistical of a question

00:39:53.400 i mean i don't care if i'm remembered or not remembered you know what i mean you can't

00:40:01.400 that's just wanting something out of other people

00:40:04.600 i'm in my zen era

00:40:09.100 good thing to think about that but i don't know that the best people in history are ever

00:40:18.700 remembered by the masses you know i like to think more about how i'll be remembered by my are you

00:40:23.940 are you trying to say that you are one of the best people in history you bang destiny

00:40:29.040 you bang destiny like oh my god it's just this is so incredibly out of touch

00:40:38.060 oh my god oh my god like that was the worst implication

00:40:48.740 now look i'm not trying to be judgmental you know a lot of women aren't you know i think if

00:40:56.960 there was a list of every guy like women have banged like out there i think you know all of

00:41:05.000 us to be hiding we would go into like we would go underground you know what i mean um but it's like

00:41:13.160 what have you done for humanity at this point um i guess you were part of a movement which 0.93

00:41:21.300 you disagree with now and you banged a gay guy that's an l i mean honestly you could have i think 0.99

00:41:32.180 that you know banging an ugly dude like a gay guy like that's just a different because your 0.99

00:41:38.300 point you might have aids at this point you might for real have aids so um 0.99

00:41:44.360 yeah i mean i just that insinuation was insulting um you haven't had a career that contributed much

00:41:54.300 to society you're a single mom so you're going to destroy your kid's life you might have aids so we

00:42:00.400 You don't know how long you'll be here. 1.00

00:42:02.620 This is just an L.

00:42:03.620 Son, how I'll be remembered by the people in my life that I love and I knew day to day.

00:42:08.980 I think that after I've seen the botched jobs the internet will do on people's reputations,

00:42:15.360 I'm much less concerned about my public perception and wherever I end up in the history books,

00:42:21.600 probably a footnote somewhere on the culture wars of 2010.

00:42:25.440 That's less important to me than my son remembering me as a good mom.

00:42:29.640 my friends remembering me as someone who loved it look you can't be a good mother without a father

00:42:34.480 sorry i don't care um there's just too much especially about you have a son look

00:42:41.360 we are all chaotic all of us all women it doesn't matter who you are and there's a level of routine

00:42:51.520 and order men will bring that young men crave right young men like they need that

00:42:57.820 my um a friend of mine teaches young men and he loves mentoring them and he'll talk about how

00:43:04.480 how much they miss having like a father figure and how it just um 0.92

00:43:10.300 and how overbearing all the mothers are so yeah your son your son is cooked 0.99

00:43:17.620 you should just give him to the dad in all honesty like you obviously want to whore out 0.93

00:43:22.640 because you said you were okay so you said i'm just getting this timeline straight you got 0.94

00:43:28.020 divorced according to you and then you did drugs and bang destiny um and apparently you took your 0.99

00:43:33.480 kid with so can we just keep it a buck you were banging destiny and doing drugs and someone else 1.00

00:43:40.140 was watching your kids does that sound like a stellar mother i mean can we just can we just 0.99

00:43:45.620 keep it real like that has to at least be a c that has to at least be it's like this is by your

00:43:54.100 own admission that cannot be a high ranking all right so your son's cooked um you're just cooked

00:44:02.720 and it's okay um maybe you'll figure it out probably not um this lack of humility coming

00:44:09.780 back and this gaslighting indicates to me that you are going to be um in a walking l forever

00:44:17.700 but i mean obviously you want to whore out a bit so i think you should just give your kid to the 1.00

00:44:22.100 dad and be the whore you are right women a lot of women are happier as whores a lot of women prefer 1.00

00:44:28.900 whoredom to being with a guy and you that's obviously you right and i'm not judging you 1.00

00:44:33.540 there's a need there's a lot of sexless men out there there's a need for whores so give the kid 1.00

00:44:38.500 to the dad and then um go a whore out uh maybe not destiny next time we can shoot a little higher 1.00

00:44:45.540 lauren uh we can shoot like slightly higher than that so you know you know yeah just good to the 0.98

00:44:53.620 people around me and i'm not always but i hope to become better i i strive for that you said at the

00:45:02.340 beginning of the conversation that you don't know if you would call yourself a christian now

00:45:07.700 and understanding everything that you've mentioned here, understanding that online

00:45:14.180 Christianity is largely performative, understanding that you never really know

00:45:18.180 what's going on with someone with their own, um, with their own walk, with their own spirituality,

00:45:24.340 with their relationship with God, uh, understanding that politics has become incredibly tribal,

00:45:29.780 and that people are picking sides and taking sides.

00:45:35.060 You know, I think you referenced in your video

00:45:37.640 a photo of you, you know, a decade ago

00:45:41.180 wearing a Dave's fault hoodie or something.

00:45:43.960 And so, yeah, I understand all of that.

00:45:50.440 At the same time,

00:45:52.640 I'd be curious what's between you right now and Christ.

00:45:56.520 Like what, what prevents you from embracing, you know, the, the grace that's been offered.

00:46:04.780 Oh my gosh.

00:46:06.420 This, do you see this? 1.00

00:46:07.920 Now the conservative men are going to try to get the whores in church so she can give 1.00

00:46:13.380 herpes to all the young men in church. 1.00

00:46:15.880 It's just like a never ending cycle.

00:46:19.340 It's a, it's a never ending cycle.

00:46:21.920 Why would you do that? 0.92

00:46:23.840 Why would you, now we got to get her in church.

00:46:26.320 save these poor innocent young men okay um okay my own vision of my life and the direction I want

00:46:39.680 to go and the direction God wants to take me I think you know it's always in a constant battle 0.99

00:46:44.600 of I yeah the direction she's like if I accept Christ I gotta stop fucking 0.97

00:46:51.240 she's not doing that i mean with those looks i mean can we just keep it a buck a lot of men are 1.00

00:47:00.100 gonna risk stds for that let's just let's just keep it about she's conventionally attractive 0.89

00:47:04.300 this is an attractive woman all right a lot of guys are just yeah they're gonna still do it 0.82

00:47:09.920 they're gonna do it and um she's not gonna give that up so when she's a little uglier maybe 0.90

00:47:13.980 i mean she's chopped you know compared to where she was when she was younger because

00:47:18.420 um when she was younger that girl was very very attractive um now she's like a you know a step 1.00

00:47:26.420 a point and a half lower but still that's too much beauty to give to god you know women only 1.00

00:47:36.420 give beauty to god when they really really have to like there there's she doesn't she banged 1.00

00:47:43.000 destiny but there's no porn on the internet you know so I mean that that's gonna give her a few

00:47:48.780 extra years before she runs I look at scriptures sometimes and I say my desires and my wants don't

00:47:59.580 line up with this and what I think might lead to a healthier better life doesn't necessarily line

00:48:05.580 up with this and then I pray and I sit with God and I think it's it's the pride and ego

00:48:14.300 probably that I struggle with a bit sometimes I think I'm self-aware of it and I fight it

00:48:21.340 and I do have moments where I do follow what I truly believe to be right and God but this

00:48:26.720 is her young you see look at that full of life just ready to gluck gluck 9000 you know

00:48:33.280 Before death, you know, no.

00:48:37.140 So she fell, but you know, she's still decent looking.

00:48:39.520 And I also have so many moments where I don't, and I make my own decisions, and I take the

00:48:43.780 reins and take myself in disastrous directions, and it's always this back and forth. 0.99

00:48:49.460 It sounds to me like what you're describing is a Christian. 1.00

00:48:54.300 Yeah, I know.

00:48:55.240 You could say that, but I don't want to disappoint anyone.

00:48:58.080 I don't want to disappoint people by saying, hey, look at me.

00:49:02.340 hey look at my life i am a representative of a good christian and then have them look at my life

00:49:07.260 and go i don't want to be a christian look at her yeah you know he came up oh no he's gonna say come

00:49:15.340 to church anyway oh my god why are you a gluttony for punishment oh my do these guys just have

00:49:24.020 different brains i think like i think these men their brains are like women brains i don't know 0.96

00:49:30.780 like sometimes i think there's transgender men i know i know that's like you're not supposed to

00:49:36.780 say that as conservative but it just seems like they they think like women or they've trained 0.95

00:49:42.780 themselves to think like women and um only a woman would want someone that did zero work

00:49:50.540 in being a christian to enter the church like no work but here's the title dunk your head in water 1.00

00:49:58.200 That's a woman thing. 0.98

00:50:01.620 In my comments this last week, and it was by a friend online who was reacting to something that I said along the lines of what I said to you earlier about it's better for a public man to advocate virtue than to actually be personally virtuous.

00:50:20.400 It's not better in the sense of sin.

00:50:23.600 There's not a distinction in terms of the sinfulness of the two things.

00:50:27.260 But in practical efficacy, you'd much rather have a preacher who cheated on his wife than

00:50:32.140 a preacher who told the congregation to cheat.

00:50:34.540 And one of the things that they said in response to this was, well, I don't know, the preacher

00:50:38.320 who tells the people to cheat, at least we can avoid them.

00:50:41.780 Whereas when you find out that your preacher cheated, it can destroy your faith.

00:50:47.920 Nothing I'm saying is meant to advocate for the pastor cheating on his wife or to say

00:50:52.100 that that isn't destructive, which, of course, it's hugely, hugely destructive.

00:50:55.680 but it's always sort of bothered me, this putting our faith in men business.

00:51:03.520 One of the pastors who most impacted my own sort of theological view of the gospel,

00:51:13.040 late in life, had a massive moral failure and a very public moral failure.

00:51:18.960 and i watched some people uh sort of react to the pain and the shock of of that event

00:51:29.820 but i didn't feel any pain or shock i i felt sorry sorrow sorry for him sorry for his wife

00:51:39.380 sorry even sorry for the humiliation he was enduring you know which like this is one problem

00:51:45.080 with public life is, you know, you know this better than most, you know, divorce is very

00:51:50.920 prevalent. You went through it in front of people and going through it in front of people

00:51:55.680 doesn't make divorce worse. Divorce is just bad. But you got to go through the shame of 0.98

00:52:00.280 it, the humiliation of it, because it was public. And so I hated that for him. But it

00:52:06.860 didn't impact my faith in any way because, or my theology, because my theology sort of

00:52:11.600 premised on the idea that God doesn't recommend us, he recommends himself, that great men fail,

00:52:18.040 that all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, as we've said before today.

00:52:23.500 I'm never surprised to discover that no one is a good example of what it means to be a good

00:52:30.040 Christian. And so I only offer that to you as a marketing to get her ass in church so she can 0.98

00:52:37.000 bang all the young guys somebody's got to do it i mean they i think the church on some level 1.00

00:52:42.520 understands there's a sexlessness problem and um they just need some whores to at least um give 0.98

00:52:50.120 them the illusion of putting it obviously like the horrors aren't really gonna put because 0.99

00:52:55.240 here's the thing about horse they cannot put out to lame ninjas they cannot like once they've had

00:53:01.800 a real ninja like if anything an innocent woman is more likely to put out with a lame ninja

00:53:07.880 because she does she's never had a real ninja but once once a has had a bunch of

00:53:14.040 real ninjas she can't go to lame ninjas without making his life a living hell and not putting out

00:53:20.680 you know so anyways um go to church they deserve you lauren um i think that you'll be really happy

00:53:29.640 there so anyways that's all i got today i'm gonna see if there's anything on twitter that i need to

00:53:35.680 go over uh no i don't think so i think we went over these yesterday that's all i got um thank

00:53:46.120 you guys for watching i appreciate you like the video and subscribe and i'll see you next time

Pearl - May 09, 2026

Jeremy Boreing is nominated for Simp of the Year

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