Pearl - April 12, 2025


Just Admit You’re a Bad Mom


Episode Stats


Length

2 minutes

Words per minute

183.61446

Word count

381

Sentence count

7

Harmful content

Misogyny

7

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Toxicity

1

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Hate speech

6

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Summary

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Dorothea Lang paid foster families to look after her kids so she could venture off on a month long photography expedition that sounds like a terrible mother. Do you know what s worse than being a terrible mom? Being a bad mom.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 women's solution is saying things it's never doing things right it's always telling your kids you 1.00
00:00:05.400 love them but not it's never showing them by spending time with them and being pleasant
00:00:10.620 right like that's the harder part being a nice person being pleasant it's easy to say i love you
00:00:16.480 right that's easy um and it's the same thing with men they're like well tell them how you feel well
00:00:21.340 does it matter if what you say if you don't back it up with actions do you know what's so crazy
00:00:26.280 men can hear the word should and agree women it's like we can't handle it like women if you say you 1.00
00:00:34.360 should lose weight to a fat guy he'll say i know but if you say that to a woman like it's it's 1.00
00:00:41.920 world war three dorothea lang paid foster families to look after her children so she could venture 0.99
00:00:48.540 off on a month's long um photography expedition that sounds like a terrible mother do you know 1.00
00:00:55.660 what i mean it's like mcdonald's is hiring and you could do that when the kids are older you know
00:01:00.920 i feel like women whenever they do something at the expense of the children it's because 1.00
00:01:06.020 they want to bang somebody at work or somebody there because like that is the only force that i 0.54
00:01:13.420 see women like doing crazy things that's strong enough right so i bet there's hot guys that she 1.00
00:01:21.180 was photographer, like taking pictures of or something or near her. I don't know. Men can
00:01:26.140 admit like when they're bad at something. So men will say, yeah, I was a bad dad. Like I've actually
00:01:34.940 heard men admit that where they said, you know what? I wasn't the best father, but admitting
00:01:40.440 that as a woman, it's like world war three, you know, we can't all be good at everything. Some
00:01:44.880 things we're just not good at. And you know, like men, I've met men that were say alcoholics, right?
00:01:50.320 and they can admit they just weren't the best dad and they live with it but women they'll write 1.00
00:01:55.820 articles like instead of just saying you know what i'm a bad mom they'll write an article
00:02:01.120 rationalizing the fact that they're not a bad mom that's them