Pearl - September 09, 2024


LADIES! High Value Men CHEAT! | Pearl Daily


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In this episode of Pearl Daily, I talk about cheating and how to deal with it. I also talk about the lessons I learned from interviewing over 1,000 women and how it changed my perspective on cheating and why you should be doing the same.

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00:00:00.000 Thank you.
00:00:30.000 Good afternoon, ladies and gentlemen, and welcome
00:00:57.360 to another episode of Pearl Daily. So before we get started on today's topic, which is about
00:01:05.420 cheating, we're going to get into it. I have a couple announcements. The first is if you want
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00:01:24.120 tomorrow and we actually decided to switch it to after the show. So we're going to do our normal
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00:02:14.100 email at just pearly things at gmail.com um and also you know the show is looking for sponsors
00:02:22.680 So if you're interested in sponsoring an episode, let me know.
00:02:27.060 You can also email me just pearlythings at gmail.com.
00:02:30.340 I even had an idea of maybe selling a spot on this bookshelf.
00:02:34.580 I don't know if we'll do it or not, but you know, just an idea I had.
00:02:38.580 Okay.
00:02:39.760 So today's episode is really going to stay on the theme of lessons I learned in interviewing
00:02:48.080 a thousand women.
00:02:50.380 So as you guys know, I was a normal woman living in Milwaukee selling copiers.
00:02:55.380 I stumbled into PUA content, red pill content, men's rights content, and it really changed my perspective on the world.
00:03:05.940 And I ended up going to England to play semi-pro volleyball. 0.86
00:03:09.060 YouTube was just a side thing that I did.
00:03:11.120 And while I was in England, I did a show talking about a lot of these topics to my friends on the volleyball team or I would meet in London.
00:03:22.480 I didn't know a single person and I ended up interviewing a thousand people and interviewing a thousand people completely changed my perspective.
00:03:31.300 So I wrote a article about my experience in this.
00:03:37.560 So I'm going to have to read it off of my laptop.
00:03:40.280 I wish we had a teleprompter. We don't yet, but sign up to the website. We might be able to get
00:03:45.760 one. But before we do, I want to show the content that was popular at the time. So at the time I
00:03:52.880 started my channel, this was when Fresh and Fit was blowing up. Kevin Samuels was huge.
00:03:59.800 Andrew Tate was blowing up. And the topic of cheating came up a lot. And there was a Kevin
00:04:07.380 samuel's stream and i remember i remember watching this with my boyfriend at the time
00:04:13.700 and it was called high value men cheat and i was like no don't listen to that
00:04:20.660 um anyways so i'm gonna show you guys the stream and i also remember this was one of the first
00:04:26.980 episodes i saw of him and i'm gonna get into that when i read the article but
00:04:31.620 to start i want to show you guys the videos so can i pull it up
00:04:37.380 Okay, good.
00:04:42.140 The sound?
00:04:43.120 Is the sound off?
00:04:45.380 Oh, one, it's on 2x.
00:04:46.660 Okay.
00:04:47.760 I can't hear it.
00:04:56.200 Let me pull up the chat on my phone so I can see it.
00:05:00.460 Okay.
00:05:01.940 Okay, guys, just one second.
00:05:03.580 We're going to fix the sound on the video.
00:05:05.260 again we just moved into the new studio so bear with us you know working through some of these
00:05:09.980 tech issues um but needless to say when i heard this high value men cheat stuff i was very triggered
00:05:18.780 i and a lot of you know the reaction channels hit pieces on me showed my early content when i first
00:05:28.700 you know, stumbled upon the cheating content. And I changed my point of view on this issue.
00:05:36.700 And I will tell you why I'm going to read it later. But first, I want to show the video.
00:05:42.940 Because we have to have a real serious subject. Real serious subject. And what is that? One,
00:05:51.260 high value men cheat
00:05:59.420 they cheat they cheat simply that
00:06:13.260 you can't make this up you can't make it up high value men cheat they cheat they cheat they cheat
00:06:21.260 why well when you're in the top 10 of all mankind from a value standpoint and again understand
00:06:32.920 from a money from a length of money standpoint from being acknowledged by other men that you
00:06:38.040 are of value by having a network of high value men and other people by being visible and having
00:06:44.860 a network of high value men and being useful to others in the group ladies understand what about
00:06:51.060 you makes you think that a man that's that valuable that 90 of the females on the planet
00:07:00.320 would love to sniff his beard what makes you think he's going to go out and slay the minotaur
00:07:09.460 and fight cerberus you are a human how are you
00:07:14.300 what do you think he's gonna get out and fight cerberus and do all these things to come home
00:07:19.360 Would just be loyal to you
00:07:22.320 Oh, oh, oh, oh
00:07:24.760 Let's go ahead and dispense with this
00:07:27.360 Miss me with God
00:07:30.720 I was raised in the Bible Belt
00:07:33.940 And I was baptized in five
00:07:35.580 I'm going to have an entire broadcast
00:07:39.340 On the disingenuous nature 1.00
00:07:42.340 In which how so much of Christianity
00:07:44.660 Is marketed today
00:07:47.680 But just go back to Solomon. How many wives did he have? What did David do with Bathsheba?
00:07:53.500 Understand something, ladies, men with power, men of value.
00:07:59.900 So oftentimes when this is said, and it's tough not to because, you know, we're raised in a
00:08:06.680 Christian country. Most people are brought up with some sort of religion. Morality is always
00:08:12.640 applied to it. Oh, well, it shouldn't be like that. It's wrong. It's, it shouldn't, it shouldn't,
00:08:20.020 it shouldn't. But we don't live in make a wish. This isn't, you know, a world where you can just
00:08:27.580 wish for things to be true. There's a reason that presidents, politicians are always getting caught
00:08:36.540 in affairs there's a reason a-list hollywood actors don't really have a reputation for staying
00:08:44.980 faithful okay so i'll keep going a little bit cheat because they should
00:08:50.100 yes they should and see a lot of you ladies aren't gonna like what i have to say but i don't really 1.00
00:08:58.420 give a french toast doggone because when you are in the top 10 of men and almost 100 of women want
00:09:07.740 you just like pringles you can't just eat one or ladies or whatever why and i want to guys i have
00:09:16.960 a friend that he's in this percentage of men women approach him i don't think the average person
00:09:26.240 understands the experience these are guys in the top five percent of looks five ten percent of
00:09:31.720 looks ten percent of money charm maybe they have a little fame this I mean this guy he told me a
00:09:40.060 story how his he hired some guy to be his contractor for something and this guy's wife
00:09:48.020 the contractor's wife found his facebook and sent him nudes this is the life these guys live
00:09:56.320 the men that he is talking about is it that so many women today okay so that that content was
00:10:05.000 going viral so i'm just giving you guys a point of view this was another one women women don't 1.00
00:10:12.420 respect men with no hoes bro look look up girl look a girl in the eyes and you fuck her tell 1.00
00:10:16.940 gonna cheat on her she loves it bro man they they don't respect a man they don't respect a man with 1.00
00:10:21.900 no ho she goes out of it she was like yeah i ain't gonna lie you don't got no hoes i don't want that 1.00
00:10:26.460 anyway you know no hoes no me no no woman i remember watching this i remember watching this 1.00
00:10:33.980 three four years ago and i was triggered i thought no not all women are like that no no no come on 0.97
00:10:40.220 that's not true hey no hoes no me no woman wants the man that no other woman wants so that is 0.99
00:10:46.860 true so women try this idea of well i want a man that i know all the women want but then he doesn't 1.00
00:10:51.180 want them back and that ain't real right so the guys that ain't real so what i'm saying is what
00:10:55.740 will smith did is he put himself in the position where he had no power and he got abused and my
00:10:59.580 point is this when i said that the idea of being with one woman forever is going to be torturous
00:11:03.340 i'm not even talking about the fact that i don't get sexual variety i'm talking about the fact that
00:11:06.780 i cannot see myself five years down the line being in a position of power within my own life and
00:11:11.500 household i want a position of power if someone breaks bro if i'm walking down the street with 0.97
00:11:16.380 my chick and someone pulls a weapon and i have to fucking deal with him and i end up getting a 1.00
00:11:20.120 fucking manslaughter charge for example i don't want her fucking what she can jump on a new dick 1.00
00:11:23.860 and i'm gonna sell no i need i need to have a position of power and control and i need to know 1.00
00:11:28.100 she's loyal to me for life that's what i want that's what i enjoy i want to walk in the house 1.00
00:11:31.560 and say dinner bitch where is it not in a horrible way in a i love you so much i call you bitch 1.00
00:11:37.820 where the fuck's my food i enjoy that position of power you're not gonna have that if you ain't got 1.00
00:11:42.320 hoes hey okay so this is another one and then yeah this is when tate came on my show i'll 0.99
00:11:53.220 circle back so i'm gonna read you what i wrote about how my opinion changed on this okay 0.82
00:12:00.640 so there are many people who have made hit pieces on me at this point pretty much every liberal
00:12:08.700 streamer on the planet and liberal woman on TikTok. There are a million TikToks psychoanalyzing me as 0.88
00:12:15.020 to why I think how I do. It is an interesting feeling being so controversial because in real
00:12:21.500 life I'm pretty easygoing. Most people are surprised by my work and most people wouldn't
00:12:26.520 have even known I was that conservative. But today I'm going to tell you why I have the opinions I do
00:12:33.000 because these reaction channels don't. One of the first lessons I learned getting into media is that
00:12:39.840 being honest leaves you hated and lying is much easier. That is why we have a demonetized channel
00:12:45.220 and I have to tell you to support my work at theaudacitynetwork.com. I have not watched a hit
00:12:50.380 piece of myself in a long time, but I'm aware of their criticism. One stance I am criticized for
00:12:56.460 fairly often is my stance on cheating. I've said things like women love to get cheated on or high 0.96
00:13:02.080 value men sheet. When I first entered the online space, I definitely did not have this opinion. 0.98
00:13:07.860 I thought it was detestable actually. One of the first Kevin Samuels videos actually triggered me
00:13:13.780 on the same thing. I was just a normal woman living my life doing reaction YouTube videos
00:13:19.660 as a side project while I worked a sales job. I used to react to rap music when one day someone
00:13:25.060 sent me a Kevin Samuels video titled high value men sheet to react to. Kevin Samuels had a call
00:13:31.420 show where women would call in and ask him relationship questions. I remember a woman
00:13:36.940 called into the Kevin Samuels show saying that she had ended her marriage because her husband
00:13:42.000 cheated. Kevin Samuels told her that it was her who messed up. I could not believe it. He was the
00:13:49.460 one who cheated. Why was Kevin Samuels saying that she messed up? I am fairly certain I called
00:13:55.540 Kevin Samuels a douchebag at the time. How could he say that she messed up when he cheated? I 0.74
00:14:00.960 bought this tooth and nail. I did not think it was true. I even went on Fresh and Fit and argued
00:14:07.160 with Myron that he was wrong about it. High value men don't have the right to cheat. What on earth
00:14:12.540 is he talking about? But why did I think he was wrong? I have to think back to, I think I have to
00:14:19.320 give a little bit of my background first. I'm one of 10 children from the suburbs of Chicago and my
00:14:24.300 dad was a businessman who would have fit Kevin Samuel's description of a high value. My dad is
00:14:29.620 the best person I know and there's no one I give higher praise to. He's the type of person I wish
00:14:35.220 I was a better person just by being around. He always thinks of others before himself. He never
00:14:40.640 drank, never smoked, and has been married 30 years. He even built me this studio. So when Kevin Samuel
00:14:47.920 said high value men cheat, I thought of my father and like a woman I took it personal even if it
00:14:54.400 wasn't about me, and I was convinced he was wrong. But the real world catches up with you fast.
00:15:00.980 Exceptions don't make the rule. I moved on from my sales job and decided to pursue a professional
00:15:06.880 volleyball career in London. I still had my small YouTube channel on the side, and I thought Red Pill
00:15:12.380 content was so interesting. And frankly, I thought I sought to prove some of the ideas wrong, that I
00:15:19.820 decided to host a panel show with my teammates. I would recruit women from my team to come on my
00:15:25.740 show after practice and give their thoughts on marriage and relationships. The show grew to be
00:15:30.600 one of the biggest shows in the United States at the time. I interviewed a thousand men and women
00:15:35.420 about culture and relationships. The interesting thing about doing a show like that is you not
00:15:40.500 only see what people say on the show, but you also get to know people personally and see what they do
00:15:45.560 behind the scenes. Again, when I started, I did not think that high-value men automatically cheated.
00:15:51.580 But unfortunately, during these interviews, the real world hit me harder than I wanted to believe.
00:15:57.240 There was a man who came on my show fairly often with typical conservative talking points.
00:16:02.700 Degeneracy is bad, blah, blah, blah. He would tell me that high-value men should not cheat. It was
00:16:07.880 wrong. The usual talking points, and I agreed. Wow, this guy is great. The thing that I saw
00:16:13.680 that other people did not see on screen was that I would get information about who was dating who
00:16:19.640 behind the scenes. As you know, people talk. And when you come to find out that most of these guys
00:16:25.260 that say that are all cap, cap, cap. Occasionally, there's one that has religious convictions, but
00:16:30.740 usually the men that happen to have religious convictions are not attractive enough to get
00:16:35.260 women. To be fair, this is most men. Women have delusionally high standards, but it just is what
00:16:41.180 it is. The conservative men that were saying this, talking points, I find out are dating multiple 0.95
00:16:47.800 women on the show. He's talking about how cheating is wrong but doing the exact same thing. He would
00:16:53.340 probably say that none of it was serious but I see this as a workaround. These guys usually casually
00:16:58.640 date multiple women as a workaround so they can still view themselves as moral. I will casually
00:17:04.080 sleep with multiple women and then shame the men who do it in relationships. I do not want to
00:17:08.960 confuse you guys at all. I am not saying that what he was doing was wrong. I am not saying he
00:17:15.100 was wrong for that. What I am saying is that everything is cap. The lack of information does
00:17:20.760 not show the full story. This was a turning point for me. Myron, Andrew Tate, and the other red pill
00:17:26.240 content creators were the ones being honest and they were crucified for it where the men who lie 0.55
00:17:32.140 were celebrated. Myron was the one telling the truth. From my experience doing the show, who is
00:17:37.840 loyal. Number one, the men who do not have the social skills to attract women. These are men
00:17:43.620 that are maybe good looking, but don't know how to flirt or build attraction with women.
00:17:48.540 Two, the men who are not aware how many hot young women they could attract. These are men that
00:17:54.240 married young, maybe worked a lot, but never experienced the degenerate lifestyle. Usually,
00:17:59.320 these men have been in long-term relationships their whole life or are over a certain age.
00:18:04.240 Three, the men who have to be and have no other choice.
00:18:07.760 Generally, the men on these shows talking about how men cheating or dogs do not have
00:18:11.880 the social skills to cheat and it's obvious.
00:18:14.860 How does a man come to have multiple women?
00:18:17.500 Ladies, I want to explain something that most men did not start off this way.
00:18:22.180 Let me demonstrate this story with an example from a friend of mine.
00:18:25.440 I have a male friend who I've known for a couple of years. 0.99
00:18:28.280 Since I have known him, he has always been a one-woman man. 0.97
00:18:31.980 Long-term relationships.
00:18:33.220 However, recently he started dating multiple women at the same time.
00:18:37.820 Nothing serious, but casual.
00:18:39.860 He says this is the best treatment he's ever received. 0.96
00:18:43.680 Women treat him better when they are sharing him versus when he is giving one his full 0.92
00:18:48.480 attention. 0.81
00:18:49.740 In this situation, what incentive does my friend have to be faithful? 0.71
00:18:55.060 The second issue we have is that in order for men to keep a woman in 2024, he has to
00:19:00.300 learn how to talk to her, where to meet women.
00:19:02.260 and do a million things in order to be attractive to us. We have no idea the level of work that men 0.88
00:19:10.300 go through in order to become attractive and give us the butterflies. He has to go through all of
00:19:16.560 this trouble in order to be able to attract women. The issue you get is men that have acquired the
00:19:22.160 skill of attracting women, which are the men that give you butterflies, are generally not going to
00:19:27.340 stay faithful over long periods of time. Sure, they may do it for a couple years, but at some
00:19:33.000 point they're going to crack. By the way, ladies, unless you're a virgin on your wedding day, you 0.97
00:19:37.840 also cracked, so this is not a moral statement, but a probability. If he goes through the trouble
00:19:45.260 of learning those social skills, generally they are incredibly difficult to tie down. 0.78
00:19:50.900 So pick your poison, ladies, a man who does not give you butterflies or a man who does not cheat. 1.00
00:19:56.580 Most women can't get both. 0.96
00:19:59.020 Now, when women hear this, I tend to get three responses.
00:20:02.460 One, I don't like cheaters.
00:20:04.460 Two, shaming men, calling them bad in some way.
00:20:08.240 Or three, I am not like that and I am different than the other girls. 0.68
00:20:12.180 Many times women will come on the shows and say that they like nice guys and that they
00:20:16.100 do not date cheaters. 0.99
00:20:17.480 I hate to inform you, but generally these women are virtue signaling.
00:20:21.480 I am a good person because I do not date cheaters. 0.62
00:20:24.020 In reality, most women have dated a cheater.
00:20:27.320 Usually, though, when I would ask a couple more questions, I would find out that the
00:20:32.680 same women dumped their boyfriend, though I would find out that the women, the women
00:20:39.120 who said that they did not like cheaters tend to dump their non-cheating boyfriends.
00:20:43.940 The women who stay with their cheating boyfriends until they stop cheating, usually this would
00:20:50.100 be about six months after they catch them cheating. 0.98
00:20:52.280 or three they say things like I knew he was cheating or my female intuition told me he was
00:20:58.540 cheating. Well then I ask the question why were you with him if you don't like cheaters. So what
00:21:04.820 am I supposed to conclude fellas? A good proportion of women love to be cheated on. I would suggest 1.00
00:21:12.200 that it is the majority. Sure there are unicorns and exceptions but they do not make the rule.
00:21:18.420 So what did I know? What did I learn from this experience? The men saying cheating is wrong
00:21:24.740 usually can't get women or are lying or are afraid of their wives. The women that say they do not 0.61
00:21:31.600 date cheaters have stayed with cheaters. Everyone is lying. The men that tell the truth are crucified
00:21:37.260 for it. And maybe both genders just like to be lied to. So that, you know, is that, guys, 0.99
00:21:50.100 let me know in the chat, is that unfair? And the issue is a lot of times when
00:21:59.420 you grow up thinking one thing is true and I'm confronted with another reality
00:22:08.160 what am I supposed to do am I supposed to change my opinion
00:22:13.240 or just believe what I believe regardless of what people are telling me
00:22:17.520 let me I want to play the rest of the Kevin Samuels video because I think
00:22:27.980 it demonstrates
00:22:30.360 it a little bit better than I can.
00:22:35.840 Can we play it?
00:22:39.760 That in a connected world,
00:22:42.520 a man who has
00:22:44.100 separated himself and
00:22:46.100 rose to the top
00:22:47.100 has to be limited
00:22:49.520 to you.
00:22:52.440 This is what
00:22:53.380 Johnny says. High value men don't cheat
00:22:55.800 all the time. They don't want the hassle.
00:22:57.640 and that's true but over a long period of time if they are high value enough we're there to the
00:23:05.960 point women are throwing themselves at them most men won't experience this most men this isn't
00:23:13.160 an option right but there's a reason why the highest status good-looking men don't tend to
00:23:22.440 be faithful i tried to tell you ladies this stuff and and this is what they said the prop this is
00:23:29.320 a common complaint i get right the problem with pearl's podcast is that it's a small percentage
00:23:34.840 of men and women i don't know how i could get a bigger sample size this is this is always a
00:23:40.680 criticism i get i've interviewed in the country i've interviewed in the city i've interviewed
00:23:47.960 um miami la rural illinois london ireland i don't know how i could get a bigger sample size
00:23:59.320 to the point people are happy um yeah so let me let me keep going i've been i've been trying to
00:24:05.960 tell women this stuff for the better part of the year and whatever i got i've been run up one side
00:24:11.960 down the other try to rip my personal life apart tear me apart but see the thing is i've never
00:24:18.120 lied about who i am i've never said that i was perfect i say that i am imperfect i've done stuff
00:24:23.880 i'm human just like anybody else i don't get up here and try to act as if this is better than that
00:24:30.360 i just look at outcomes and what is and oh well you should be different with your tone and this
00:24:36.360 that well where's that getting you ladies like i've said it's getting you more people telling
00:24:42.600 you what you want to hear to get you to buy their books and this is ladies and the reason i i have
00:24:52.200 the reason i try to call this stuff out
00:24:57.240 is once as a woman you can see when you're being pandered to guys you cannot unsee it
00:25:04.760 And I used to think Steve Harvey, I used to love his show.
00:25:10.100 I used to think it was great.
00:25:12.380 But once you see how much they pander and they're lying to you, 0.99
00:25:17.400 because everything revolves around the female dollar. 1.00
00:25:22.500 Women make 80% of consumer buying decisions. 1.00
00:25:26.440 Everybody's paycheck, everybody. 1.00
00:25:28.480 I don't even care.
00:25:29.300 I don't care what industry you're in. 1.00
00:25:31.020 everybody's paycheck revolves around women's money. So people will lie in order to get your 1.00
00:25:41.140 money. There's a couple common lies that I see. Number one, lying to us saying that we will be
00:25:50.680 young and attractive forever. Saying that we deserve better men than we do. And three,
00:25:59.140 saying that you can have it all those three lies have made people bajillions
00:26:04.980 of dollars people have built dating shows empires off of that but the people
00:26:11.680 being honest are demonetized kicked off of TV channels struck and down because
00:26:21.740 every everybody makes money when they lie their courses and keep the tithe and
00:26:27.760 offerings coming don't disrespect the player i don't here's the problem i don't know why you
00:26:36.480 ladies believe as though if you want a high value man ladies you're going to have to praise him
00:26:45.760 publicly respect and accept public respect accept invest sacrifice and aesthetically support 0.97
00:26:55.440 You're going to have to, in that A, you're going to have to accept that you ain't going to be the only one.
00:27:01.460 You may be the number one, but at best, you're number three.
00:27:07.800 He's first, his purpose is second, and you're third. 0.98
00:27:13.000 Let's get into it, ladies.
00:27:14.240 Let's get into it because now the scales have been removed from some of your eyes to where you understand that there are no perfect men.
00:27:23.540 And the higher up a man goes, the more options he has.
00:27:29.120 And it is natural and human to want to exercise those options.
00:27:34.440 I said it.
00:27:37.160 Men who sit around talking about they walk this moral path are lying to you.
00:27:48.400 Guys, I am telling you, I promise.
00:27:51.900 I promised
00:27:53.600 I promised to God
00:27:56.300 they are lying
00:27:57.420 they are lying
00:27:58.680 guys I have heard them
00:28:01.560 they will say it on shows
00:28:02.960 they will do this whole speech
00:28:04.780 and after I can see them
00:28:07.580 oh we were just saying that
00:28:09.580 I'm not saying it doesn't exist
00:28:13.920 I'm not saying there aren't
00:28:15.740 high value men
00:28:16.840 or men in the top 10%
00:28:18.980 that don't cheat
00:28:21.900 What I am saying is that generally, their social skills are so bad that they can't, or they're lying. Occasionally, you get a religious one, but I've even seen the religious ones crack over time. Forever is a long time. Forever. I mean, what, we're going to live to be 80?
00:28:47.540 did you guys know that the number one place STDs spread is nursing homes?
00:28:53.520 You're going to be fighting off women until you're in the nursing home.
00:28:58.060 You know, so again, I'm not saying it doesn't exist. 1.00
00:29:04.100 But what I am saying is that it's the exception.
00:29:08.280 It's not the rule.
00:29:09.240 More often than not
00:29:11.440 There are men 0.97
00:29:13.260 Who choose
00:29:16.380 To abstain
00:29:18.880 From 1.00
00:29:19.980 Relations with other women 0.98
00:29:22.200 But understand it is a choice 1.00
00:29:24.220 But it is crazy 1.00
00:29:27.140 For modern women 1.00
00:29:28.500 To think those men should 1.00
00:29:30.180 Have to do it
00:29:31.480 If you have to have a man
00:29:34.980 That's loyal to you 1.00
00:29:36.140 Get an average man 0.98
00:29:37.740 Or actually get a below average man
00:29:39.820 But if you want the tippy tippy top
00:29:42.780 The best of the best
00:29:43.800 Be prepared to share
00:29:45.540 My question is this 1.00
00:29:48.020 Why did women of the past 1.00
00:29:49.780 Openly accept this 1.00
00:29:51.520 Why do women of the past 1.00
00:29:54.040 Openly accept this 1.00
00:29:55.300 Because they understood
00:29:58.280 That I would rather live
00:30:00.440 In a stone
00:30:01.900 Fortress with plenty of meat
00:30:04.600 And vegetables
00:30:06.580 And protection
00:30:07.460 Than live on the plains
00:30:09.120 With that other guy
00:30:10.360 Let me ask some of the questions
00:30:12.360 A lot of folks in the chat room
00:30:13.780 A lot of people upset
00:30:14.720 I know some of y'all are mad
00:30:18.680 You know
00:30:19.460 The delusion is broken
00:30:22.220 The delusion is broken
00:30:23.700 But I'm asking some of you ladies 1.00
00:30:25.920 Some of you ladies are dragging 1.00
00:30:28.240 Your bloody carcass over here 1.00
00:30:30.080 Because at least 0.99
00:30:31.600 But I'm wondering 1.00
00:30:33.080 Some of you ladies are new 1.00
00:30:35.520 If you're new to my channel
00:30:38.540 If you've come from another platform
00:30:41.160 If you're new to my channel
00:30:43.160 As a woman 1.00
00:30:44.360 Put a one in the chat room 1.00
00:30:45.640 Because I want to welcome you
00:30:47.460 Say hello, how are you?
00:30:49.100 You're welcome
00:30:49.640 Over here
00:30:52.860 I make one promise to you
00:30:55.100 I will be direct
00:30:56.760 I will be direct 1.00
00:31:00.100 And women 0.98
00:31:01.900 When he passed away
00:31:03.140 women danced on his grave they danced but Steve Harvey celebrated by women
00:31:12.220 and we wonder you know women always say not all not all but it's a common phrase
00:31:22.180 that we want men to be honest with us but when men are honest
00:31:28.960 there is so much pushback that they are problem solvers and they figure that it is easier to lie
00:31:40.380 so i want to show you guys i need to find this video
00:31:44.900 yeah so and i just thought of this during the
00:31:52.140 all right so president of the country got caught with a corn star now i know i loved i love trump
00:32:03.560 you guys know i am a big trump fan but i think we gotta be honest i do if i had to bet money
00:32:14.100 i would bet money that he likely slept with stormy daniels
00:32:19.080 now i don't think she should be able to make a book about it i think 0.57
00:32:24.600 girl know your place just you know it is what it is
00:32:28.800 but yeah trump's a cheater right and how does melania respond
00:32:37.600 so this is embarrassing to melania right generally when these guys cheat
00:32:43.780 the agreement is they have to keep it behind closed doors but with social media it's becoming 1.00
00:32:50.640 harder and harder with the media becoming more decentralized and any woman being able to get a 0.51
00:32:58.360 phone and tell the story with women breaking NDAs and having no consequences 0.95
00:33:04.760 um it's becoming more and more difficult to keep this stuff under wraps 0.68
00:33:13.780 so this is embarrassing to melania this is embarrassing it's not a fun time when you have
00:33:21.520 to go be interviewed about how your husband was a with a corn star and how does she react okay
00:33:30.800 what's the most surprising thing about being first lady for you it's the no holds barred
00:33:36.760 interview with melania trump talks about that i really not the first first marriage the interview
00:33:41.860 airing friday on ab oh wait sorry guys i thought this was the one i just thought of this now
00:33:47.220 okay we've got more of our exclusive interview with the first lady melania trump she's now
00:33:52.520 addressing her allegations that her husband had infidelities and she's talking about how
00:33:58.300 she copes with having her marriage in the spot.
00:34:00.440 That's right, Cecilia.
00:34:01.240 They set out for this scene.
00:34:02.720 House, I'm going to begin.
00:34:04.420 House deny the Stormy Daniels.
00:34:06.140 There was no public response from the First Lady.
00:34:09.120 But in the days after, she canceled plans to travel with her husband to the World Economic
00:34:14.320 Forum in Davos, then arrived at the State of the Union address separately.
00:34:19.020 All of this.
00:34:19.960 This interview, to your credit, about the state of the first couple's marriage.
00:34:24.120 You did agree to this interview, to your credit, with no preconditions.
00:34:28.300 knowing that there could be some some tough questions asked and it has been a tough year
00:34:33.980 for you personally you're not the first first lady to have to deal with her husband's alleged
00:34:39.420 infidelities has this put a strain on your marriage it is not concern and focus of mine
00:34:44.620 i'm a mother and a first lady and i have much more important things to think about and to do 0.73
00:34:50.940 and this is what i've noticed of the women that are married to men like that they have a tendency
00:35:00.620 to focus on themselves and how they can be better wives as opposed to focusing on what their husband
00:35:06.180 is doing generally speaking the women that are looking at who their guy is following 0.52
00:35:12.840 who he's liking on instagram all that stuff they have too much time on their hands
00:35:18.440 and they're focused on what he's doing instead of what they're doing right so the women that 1.00
00:35:25.640 are able to stay married and it's not it's not easy right this is not this is why most women 0.53
00:35:31.800 average women tend to get average men most women will never be in this position because they 0.96
00:35:38.580 wouldn't make it there but the women that do make it there they tend to focus on how to be a good
00:35:44.740 wife rather than if he's cheating i know people like to speculate and media like to speculate 1.00
00:35:51.380 about our marriage and circulate the gossip but i understand the gossip sells newspapers
00:35:59.540 magazines getting advertisers and unfortunately we live in this kind of world today have you been
00:36:07.460 been hurt though?
00:36:12.700 Media what is speculating, yeah, it's not always pleasant,
00:36:17.600 of course, but I know what is right and what is wrong
00:36:23.220 and what is true and not true.
00:36:24.860 In the swirl of scandal, Melania Trump stayed silent,
00:36:28.460 but one of her husband's attorneys, Rudy Giuliani,
00:36:31.300 went on television and seemed to speak for her.
00:36:34.340 Can you tell her how does she feel those days
00:36:36.140 with all these Stormy Daniel affairs going on in the background.
00:36:38.800 She believes in her husband. She knows it's untrue.
00:36:41.800 I don't even think there's a slight suspicion that it's true.
00:36:44.200 The next day, this statement from the first lady spokesperson.
00:36:47.680 I don't believe Mrs. Trump has ever discussed her thoughts on anything with Mr. Giuliani.
00:36:53.080 The only time you have commented publicly in your office was when Rudy Giuliani came out
00:36:58.260 and said your thoughts about Stormy Daniel's claims and said she believes in her husband,
00:37:03.280 she knows it's not true. Is that an accurate statement?
00:37:06.760 I never talked to Mr. Giuliani.
00:37:09.240 Why do you think he came out and said that?
00:37:10.980 I don't know. You need to ask him.
00:37:13.260 You mentioned you still have a good marriage. Do you love your husband?
00:37:16.920 Yes, we are fine. Yes. It's what media speculate and it's gossip. It's not always correct stuff.
00:37:26.980 I also asked the first lady if the president apologized to her since they've been in the White House.
00:37:32.100 her answer and much more about this personal and trying time in the White House tonight.
00:37:37.380 It's fascinating to me, Tom, that no one in the press corps, White House press corps,
00:37:40.900 certainly. What's your takeaway? What surprised you most after all of this?
00:37:44.340 You know, I think what surprised me most was how forthcoming she was. I looked at every interview
00:37:48.900 she's ever done going back to the late 90s when she first started dating Donald Trump. I read
00:37:53.180 every transcript I could get just to make sure we were ready for this interview. I wasn't sure how
00:37:57.500 much she was going to share we were all surprised how open she was how much she shared of course
00:38:03.520 she still has a limit but but as you mentioned no questions were off off the table to her credit
00:38:09.040 so you know i always say pick your poison you want to date the top guys
00:38:20.020 expect, expect, if you want to date high value men, expect high value men problems and don't
00:38:29.260 the women that are constantly saying the moralists, right? Oh, that's so wrong. That is so wrong 0.79
00:38:38.420 that the high value men cheat. It is so terrible. It's so wrong. Generally, those women
00:38:45.440 are showing their cards and it shows a lack of femininity because they think that they can 1.00
00:38:52.920 control what the top men do. There is no, who do you think really can control what Donald Trump
00:39:00.020 does? Do you think he cares about what any women nagging on the internet are doing? No. The world 0.97
00:39:07.420 is the way it is. You can't change it. And unfortunately, from my experience of interviewing
00:39:14.720 a thousand people women love being cheated on that's just the way the world is not all but not
00:39:20.640 all not all the majority love to be cheated on the majority will not leave if it happens to them
00:39:28.000 and the majority tend to dump their boyfriends that are loyal don't shoot the messenger thank
00:39:35.920 you guys for tuning in today let me know what you think in the comments and maybe i'm wrong
00:39:41.200 I don't know, put it in the comments, like the video on your way out, subscribe to the channel, and I'll talk to you next time.