Pearl - Life is Not Fair For Men (Call-in Show)

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00:00:00.500 what that's really loud what up guys welcome to another episode of the else better welcome to

00:00:27.940 another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network. Today we're going to talk

00:00:33.600 about life is really it's not fair for men. And men, they have a tendency to find this

00:00:41.900 out when they're fairly young. You know, they see their sisters get away with things in

00:00:45.640 the house that they can't get away with. They see girls get away with things in public school

00:00:50.980 that almost, that they could never get away with because almost 80% of school teachers are women.

00:00:59.280 They're told they're not fast enough, tall enough, or handsome enough. And it's really, it's part of

00:01:04.000 the journey of being a man. You know, that's why it makes me laugh when feminists say they want

00:01:09.640 things to be equal. Because when has life ever been equal? Life is never going to be fair for men.

00:01:17.140 So feminists are literally advocating for life to be as unfair for women as it is to men.

00:01:23.800 That's why you see so many women that are unhappy in 2025.

00:01:27.420 Women are finding out that being a man and living up to these expectations just isn't fun, you know, despite what feminism tells them.

00:01:35.700 So why am I talking about this?

00:01:37.420 I'm talking about this because one of the most unfair things about being a man is having to endure unfair treatment.

00:01:44.960 Men are expected to just take abuse, take horrible treatment, and take disadvantageous

00:01:52.860 deals in order for women in society to thrive.

00:01:56.860 It's why people get so tripped up when I ask the question, what's in it for men?

00:02:01.360 And their default is what's in it for society, right?

00:02:04.720 That's their default.

00:02:06.420 How many men have you seen whose girlfriends physically and emotionally abuse them?

00:02:11.660 The expectation is for men to endure for the sake of everybody else, and it's really not fair, and it's not right.

00:02:19.340 So here's a woman getting, so now we're going to watch women be treated like men.

00:02:29.220 So we're going to, here's a woman destroying a car for cheating and getting arrested for it.

00:02:41.660 she said for what bitch what do you think guys make sure you like the video a like is free

00:03:01.360 yeah and so that's why you always see women have these altercations with the

00:03:29.780 police and they're so used to just um doing whatever they want that when a man you know

00:03:37.620 makes treats them equally they they really can't take it five seconds step out they're

00:03:42.980 trying to make this easy for you so either you step out the house or we go in there you're not

00:03:47.020 coming in look no you can't come in okay okay i can go

00:03:51.860 you can't come in they proceed to come in

00:03:58.360 that's so funny what do you mean all right um woman arrested for beating a man on live stream

00:04:14.780 we're gonna keep going

00:04:18.040 and we're gonna do a call-in show and i want you guys to tell your story about when you've

00:04:25.720 been treated unfairly as a man we'd see what happens when a woman is caught beating her

00:04:30.520 fiance not only on video but in front of thousands of people on a live stream

00:04:35.700 oh my gosh was a former writer for the howard stern show and had been pursuing an alternate

00:04:45.140 streaming career on youtube however thank you for the super chat channel id you're the best

00:04:51.720 what a guy thank you so much this would be short-lived when she decided to live stream

00:04:57.060 her crimes on april 8th 2024 six months of texts of uh your nudes and you know different sentences

00:05:03.940 that he said i'm sorry about this don't talk don't fucking talk uh yes sir we're really sorry

00:05:09.920 about this and sending him your way today uh so don't worry um but yeah so yeah he's coming don't

00:05:18.700 Are you coming home?

00:05:21.500 Uh, a lucid.

00:05:22.400 She sounds like I almost broke my nose.

00:05:24.400 No, no, you're fine, you're fine.

00:05:27.540 Sarah, hang up.

00:05:28.920 These idiots, she posted your

00:05:30.500 number in her cancer discord.

00:05:33.520 And I would just be polite.

00:05:34.360 Real lucid?

00:05:35.200 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:05:36.060 So, so, so, bar-ram, bar-ram, how do you...

00:05:38.960 Oh, my gosh.

00:05:41.640 People out that you know, I don't know.

00:05:43.000 So, I'm gonna text you your nudes that he sent me

00:05:45.060 and what he wrote about you.

00:05:46.520 He said you're a dumb Mexican,

00:05:47.740 that uh he doesn't even like just just how he said that i'm a streamer that he doesn't like

00:05:52.100 so you guys are like wow interesting okay sarah sarah yeah sure uh yeah touch me and i can deck

00:06:01.780 your dumb ass bitch i'll take you that's the face of a guy who's done he's done

00:06:08.520 he's like please leave

00:06:11.080 the man you see in the passenger seat is barham a streamer under the name of z scoro who had not

00:06:19.060 only been making content with eliza but was also involved in a complex relationship with her

00:06:23.820 whether they were lovers associates or something else completely we would only find out much much

00:06:29.300 later on additionally prior to this assault eliza had gotten her hands on barham's phone

00:06:34.540 and discovered that he had been...

00:06:35.860 See, what if men beat us when we cheated?

00:06:39.720 And we cheat more than the men.

00:06:41.480 We truly do.

00:06:42.820 I mean, we're the biggest 3-0 foes.

00:06:46.800 And men can't beat us up

00:06:48.720 every time we do behavior they don't like.

00:06:53.600 Society might be a little better if they could.

00:06:57.560 But, you know, that's illegal.

00:06:59.820 So don't do that.

00:07:00.800 But now the women think they just get a get-out-of-jail-free card for cheating.

00:07:09.000 Been involved with other women, texting and flirting with them, resulting in Eliza's outrage.

00:07:14.860 However, it was about to get far, far worse.

00:07:19.440 Yeah.

00:07:20.940 All right, men should never hit women, apparently.

00:07:24.860 That's what this is saying.

00:07:27.140 Should men be able to defend themselves from women?

00:07:30.800 in women's sports men are pretending that they're women and they're they're participating in women's

00:07:41.200 sport you're aware of that right and they just have a swimming match or something happen where

00:07:46.740 the guy said that he's a woman and he's competing in the women's sport and he's beating them out

00:07:53.920 Should men participate in women's sport?

00:07:58.100 Should men participate?

00:07:58.920 What's a women's sport?

00:08:00.180 Swimming, basketball.

00:08:02.580 How is basketball a women's sport?

00:08:04.440 You have women that play basketball.

00:08:06.720 Yeah.

00:08:07.220 It is all women.

00:08:08.560 Yeah.

00:08:09.180 It's a women's sport, women's sport.

00:08:10.620 Should men play with women in their sport?

00:08:16.340 If they want to, I guess.

00:08:18.660 I don't know.

00:08:20.200 Do you know that men are playing and swimming and they're pretending?

00:08:25.320 They're pretending?

00:08:26.680 You know that there are men who are pretending to be women, right?

00:08:29.720 I mean, transgenders?

00:08:30.900 Right.

00:08:31.380 Yeah.

00:08:32.120 You know that they're pretending to be women, right?

00:08:33.880 The transgender men.

00:08:35.140 Should the transgender men be allowed to participate, compete against women in their sport as a woman?

00:08:44.140 uh i don't think that's up to me to judge no not judge just observation observation

00:08:52.860 i mean why not if they oh my women like this that are just not athletic at all

00:08:59.040 not even the slightest women like me who played sports for over two decades now i have to deal

00:09:07.700 with what they're fighting for truly if you'll that they are someone in the chat says girls in

00:09:14.520 high school put sand in my hair after gym ended and i felt there was nothing i could do i just

00:09:18.680 brushed the sand off and walked away but she thought it was so funny i never reported it

00:09:23.580 and get on the website guys if you have something you want to put up there look women more power to

00:09:33.040 them yeah and so uh in the women's sport the guy beating them out right and there's one woman that

00:09:40.540 would normally be she's losing against a man she's mad about it should she be angry about that

00:09:45.940 i don't know if i'm competitive i might be a little mad but

00:09:50.300 yeah really yeah should women be allowed to play men's sports uh see that that i feel like it's a

00:09:58.820 little like a little blurry there because men can be a little more rough so I would hate for a woman

00:10:06.480 to get hurt and along the way that's more proof that women are not even to men uh-huh no I'm just

00:10:15.080 looking he goes uh now like right because men should never hit a woman why not

00:10:24.020 that's just up what why should a man hit a woman to protect himself

00:10:35.080 oh man this isn't this is a lot what do you mean i just disagree with your viewpoints why

00:10:42.760 That you think a man should hit a woman?

00:10:44.940 Should a woman hit a...

00:10:46.000 Yes, I do.

00:10:46.960 I don't think violence is the answer to anything.

00:10:48.840 No, in protection, he's self-defense.

00:10:52.220 Let's say a woman hit...

00:10:53.060 He shouldn't just go around hindering this for no reason.

00:10:55.540 Yeah.

00:10:55.920 But let's say that...

00:10:56.900 Should women hit men?

00:10:57.980 No.

00:10:58.580 Right.

00:10:59.080 So if a woman should hit a man,

00:11:01.140 shouldn't he smack her back?

00:11:02.240 No.

00:11:03.180 Yes.

00:11:03.620 No.

00:11:05.600 I'm going to say no,

00:11:06.760 only because that'll get you put in jail, fellas.

00:11:10.340 In the current system, I wouldn't.

00:11:12.220 why not because she's a girl well she doesn't know that uh but i just think that's unfair

00:11:18.700 so if a woman smack a man what should he do he probably deserved it to be honest what

00:11:29.900 women man yeah you want to play this game let's go it doesn't she deserve to be smacked back no

00:11:35.820 she's a girl girl guys should not hit girls but girls should hit guys i never said that no but if

00:11:41.100 If they do, the guy shouldn't smack her back.

00:11:43.560 No.

00:11:43.960 Why not?

00:11:44.760 Because guys shouldn't hit girls.

00:11:46.320 Why?

00:11:47.200 Because it's just, that's just unfair.

00:11:50.980 Well, how?

00:11:52.140 Because girls are tender and beautiful creatures that should not be hit.

00:11:58.240 But don't they know that before they hit the man that they can't handle it?

00:12:02.740 I don't know.

00:12:04.300 Uh-huh.

00:12:04.920 I have no idea.

00:12:05.720 So if she smacked him one time, for example, and he smacked her back, wouldn't it send a loud message, you can't be treated me this way?

00:12:12.780 It's just stop.

00:12:15.260 I don't think the guy should ever hit the girl.

00:12:17.840 Really?

00:12:18.380 Yeah.

00:12:18.760 Not even to protect himself against it?

00:12:20.760 No.

00:12:21.140 What does he protect?

00:12:22.020 What if she's got like a knife?

00:12:23.660 Can he do it then?

00:12:24.920 No?

00:12:25.660 Dang.

00:12:27.560 He's a human being just as she is.

00:12:30.020 Right.

00:12:30.340 And no one should treat each other that way.

00:12:32.920 Yeah.

00:12:33.300 Violence is never the answer.

00:12:34.560 Right.

00:12:35.180 That's what I think.

00:12:36.040 Have you ever smacked a guy?

00:12:38.780 Yes.

00:12:41.380 That's the look of someone who's beat the shit out of her ex-boyfriend.

00:12:44.800 Have I?

00:12:45.780 Oh, yeah, I can tell.

00:12:47.000 I don't think so.

00:12:47.660 No, you have.

00:12:48.920 I'm not a violent person.

00:12:50.080 I will cuss a bitch out, though.

00:12:53.820 I will curse a bitch out, but no, I don't smack you.

00:12:59.740 Yeah.

00:13:00.420 yeah um pearl should interview tungan samoan and philasian women same with women built born in

00:13:09.380 the philippines korea and china they will smack their men on the regular and the men just take

00:13:14.680 the hit do you know what oh my gosh you know what i lived when i was in london so i lived in a very

00:13:22.400 muslim area but for whatever reason the building i lived in was very like asian chinese and there

00:13:28.760 was this Asian couple across the street or across my apartment complex and yeah I I do think that

00:13:36.740 she beat him or something because they would yell a lot and they would be so quiet in public so you

00:13:41.880 would never but I would come out sometimes and I would just hear yelling all right man finds out

00:13:48.500 that his 11 year old son is not his and guys we're gonna put the link in the chat now before this last

00:13:55.260 video i i need you guys to help me make this show my my question is gonna be um what is the worst

00:14:04.180 thing you're expected to put up with as a man and when did you learn that you were supposed to put

00:14:09.600 what did you learn that you were supposed to put up with when young so in a bit i have like a couple

00:14:15.260 videos left but we'll go through them quick what's up is why you've been lying to me for 11 years

00:14:20.740 telling me that dj's my real son why you been lying to me what i've been lying about i got

00:14:27.780 dna says done a dna saying what saying that he's not my son let me see this dna test you don't need

00:14:35.040 to see it i saw it how dna test is gonna say how you gonna be lying to me for 11 years why would

00:14:40.540 you do that to me well where's the lie the lie is you you are the lie you where's the lie

00:14:48.660 Isn't that crazy?

00:14:49.760 I don't know if this is real.

00:14:51.080 Let me look at the comments.

00:14:52.860 This is so crazy that...

00:14:56.360 Then brag to her.

00:14:58.640 Okay.

00:14:59.880 You would hope it's staged.

00:15:01.480 For 11 years, having me believe that my son that I've been raising for 11 years is not really my son.

00:15:07.840 Like, how could you do that to me?

00:15:10.140 Like, what can you say for yourself right now?

00:15:13.000 What made you going to be an A-test?

00:15:14.780 Because I went through your phone.

00:15:16.760 And why?

00:15:17.220 Talking about me, laughing and bragging, telling your friends that I have no idea that he's really not my son.

00:15:23.700 So I want to get a DNA test done.

00:15:25.700 Like, you think I'm stupid or something?

00:15:29.420 Like, how could you do this to me?

00:15:32.540 You know what?

00:15:33.720 What?

00:15:34.320 You care more about me going through your phone than you lying to me about my son not being mine?

00:15:40.740 Are you kidding me right now?

00:15:42.640 Are you kidding me right now?

00:15:44.260 you care more about being humiliated

00:15:46.120 and me finding out that

00:15:47.740 our son is not really my son

00:15:50.080 and that he has a different father.

00:15:52.800 I sure have because I thought

00:15:54.260 he was my son. Because you've been lying

00:15:56.260 to me this whole time.

00:15:58.960 What are you talking about?

00:16:00.460 Does it matter? It does matter.

00:16:02.600 Are you crazy?

00:16:04.240 What do you mean that absolutely matters?

00:16:06.020 You don't see anything wrong with what you did?

00:16:08.480 You don't see anything wrong with what you did?

00:16:10.260 You've been lying to me.

00:16:12.080 You've been lying to me for 11

00:16:14.180 Of course I love him, but I can't, but you guys can't stay, you can't stay here anymore.

00:16:18.560 Where are we going to go?

00:16:19.400 I don't know.

00:16:20.060 Oh my gosh.

00:16:22.200 Yeah, she's got to get out.

00:16:23.180 It's not my problem.

00:16:24.120 It's not my problem.

00:16:25.100 It's not my problem.

00:16:26.420 It's not my problem.

00:16:27.340 It's not my problem.

00:16:28.240 You can't stay here.

00:16:29.300 You can't stay here.

00:16:30.080 You can't stay here.

00:16:30.980 I don't know.

00:16:31.660 It's not my problem.

00:16:32.580 I did my job.

00:16:33.680 I did my job.

00:16:34.940 I did my job.

00:16:35.600 Yeah, you guys got to stop arguing with women.

00:16:37.560 Just show them.

00:16:39.020 That's the biggest waste to, I saw this guy arguing in a clip the other day and I messaged

00:16:43.880 him i'm like look you're too smart to be arguing with women we're not logical creatures are really

00:16:51.820 good people in general not all so you know if you find out she's a terrible person he's trying to

00:16:59.900 rationalize why are you would he's saying why are you so awful do you think she's going to be

00:17:05.560 introspective and say do you know what i am an awful person yeah let me just fix my life no

00:17:11.460 She's going to double down.

00:17:41.460 You lied to me. You lied to me. You lied to me. You lied to me for 11 years. For 11 years straight. You lied to me.

00:17:49.860 Help me believe that he's my son. No, you gotta go. You gotta go. You gotta get up out of here. You gotta get up out of here. No, I can't.

00:17:57.300 And here's the thing. He's never going to be the same. When women attack a man like that, they're never the same as a person.

00:18:05.460 I can't look at you. I can't look at you. No. Y'all gotta go.

00:18:09.180 Oh, Tom Likas is still alive.

00:18:11.080 Someone told me he died.

00:18:13.040 Yeah, if you wanted to come on.

00:18:15.280 Sorry, Tom.

00:18:16.060 I didn't mean to spread that.

00:18:18.880 No, before I do something crazy, I'm going to regret.

00:18:22.960 Yes, yes.

00:18:24.480 Yeah, you guys should never say that to a woman.

00:18:26.640 Before I do something crazy, the woman is going to get worse.

00:18:32.840 She wants you to be crazy.

00:18:34.220 That's what she wants.

00:18:34.940 You lied.

00:18:39.180 yeah brutal man all right next we got woman asked why it's okay for girls to hit boys

00:18:47.420 oh i am looking rough this morning but anyway i want to talk about what is this fascination

00:18:55.760 with these kids and fighting like i just don't get it especially now with the girls the girls

00:19:02.900 attacking boys girls that attack boys that hit boys um and if you're like me i'm i raise my boys

00:19:11.040 to keep their hands off girls first of all i don't want them fighting oh no i can't ever say

00:19:16.160 none of my kids have never fought especially with my daughter she don't fight she ain't finna fight

00:19:22.320 you yeah she's gonna be one of those that's gonna call 9-1-1 okay she's 12 she's already know

00:19:28.660 anybody got time to fight okay and her twin brother he's not a fighter he'll you know he'll

00:19:33.000 stick up for himself but he's not a fighter um my other two boys if you take it there they gonna go

00:19:40.500 there but they are not the type of kids that's gonna come and just you know put them up touch

00:19:45.720 you whatever whatnot but these girls these days do not care they will put their hands on a boy

00:19:53.540 in a minute and i'm not understanding where is this coming from why are you allowing and teaching

00:20:01.620 your girls it's okay to put their hands on people especially boys now i'm teaching my boys to keep

00:20:09.620 their hands to themselves don't hit no girl like i don't want i don't want my boys to be hitting on

00:20:13.940 girls um for the most part they have never ever and never will witness a man putting his hands on

00:20:21.300 mean they have never witnessed a father putting his hands on a woman you know so uh they don't

00:20:27.840 know they haven't been in situations where they didn't see women getting beat up so i know that

00:20:35.160 that doesn't uh mean that they can't you know end up being you know domestic having domestic

00:20:43.140 situations or whatever you know everybody is a different person but hopefully from the experiences

00:20:48.740 that they have in life and things that they have seen they have taken away that that's one thing

00:20:54.400 you do not do so i'm not understanding if you go through life and you're used to a guy putting his

00:21:01.660 hands on you or different things like that why would you teach your daughters or make it okay

00:21:08.080 not even say teach but make it okay for them to think it's okay for them to put their hand on boys

00:21:12.560 like i i don't get this whole thing with these girls hitting boys um i didn't see situation

00:21:20.140 where girls come and they hit the boys and boys you know push them off of them and be pushing

00:21:24.180 them off of them and the boys get kicked out of school because a girl that can't put her hands on

00:21:28.080 them or a girl will sit there and she'll verbally attack a boy say everything under the sun and if

00:21:32.940 the boys say a little a little anything smart to the girl he'll get kicked out of school and it's

00:21:38.700 like, um, it's crazy because our boys have feelings too. You know, our boys don't want

00:21:49.160 to be physically attacked. Our boys don't want to be, uh, verbally attacked. So why,

00:21:54.720 why do you think it's okay for your girls to attack our boys? Like, I don't, I don't

00:22:01.140 understand it like if yeah so this poor mother you can't stop these young women they're giving

00:22:11.260 everything in life so now there's a man who's paying child support for a kid that's not even

00:22:17.700 his a man's worst nightmare a tulsa man is ordered to pay child support for a baby that's not his

00:22:23.720 thomas tells us he wants to get oklahoma's law changed in hopes of helping other men in the

00:22:28.400 same situation. News on 6 crime reporter Lori Fulbright explains how the law works.

00:22:34.300 When Thomas' high school girlfriend got pregnant, he married her and then five months later she

00:22:38.560 gave birth to a baby boy and he believed he had a son. But as often happens with young marriages,

00:22:43.960 theirs fell apart and the boy was about three years old when Thomas decided to get a paternity

00:22:48.660 test. It comes back to 0%. That was in my office. I saw that. Can you imagine three years of that

00:22:56.880 responsibility it was another man's kid bit of i should have expected it but i didn't and it hit

00:23:03.460 me and i was next to my co-worker at that time and i was telling i was just shocked by how someone

00:23:09.100 could do this to someone a judge ordered thomas to take another dna test he did same result so at

00:23:14.740 first the judge ruled thomas crypto says from one of your female i have a woman that watches i didn't

00:23:21.060 think you guys could take it thanks for the great content was off the hook financially but then

00:23:26.960 reverse that decision because Oklahoma law says men must question paternity within two years of

00:23:32.700 the child's birth Thomas says he has no reason to question it before he did but because he missed

00:23:38.660 that deadline the judge ordered him to pay around $500 a month in child support plus nearly $15,000

00:23:45.140 dollars in back support plus interest. Oh my gosh, 15 grand in back support. That's not his. I wish

00:23:52.220 I was telling a lie. I wish this wasn't the truth, but it is. That's what makes it so crazy. And

00:23:57.480 everyone I talk to about this, they can't believe where the courts is coming from. Thomas wants

00:24:03.760 lawmakers to change the law. He believes DNA matters regardless of when a man learns he's not

00:24:09.480 the father of a child, especially if that man was lied to. But even if the law changes, it'll be too

00:24:14.160 late for Thomas. It's done. I mean, it's already done. That's the law. So basically, once a child. What an evil woman, evil woman. Okay. Next. Another man has to pay child support for a kid, a kid that is not his. Now to attend News Channel 3 getting to the bottom of a burning question. One Memphis man has been trying to answer for years. Why is Shelby County Juvenile Court forcing him to pay for a child that is not biologically

00:24:44.140 is can you imagine the frustration every month watching your paycheck go for a mistake you

00:24:50.680 didn't even make i don't want to call kids mistakes but with some of the women that you

00:24:56.560 guys get pregnant i can't say it was planned right i mean these all these corn stars are

00:25:06.040 getting pregnant if you plan that i i don't know how you would think that was a good decision but

00:25:10.800 I just cannot imagine because, and I think I'm going to react to my video I put up on my channel

00:25:17.940 the other day, talking about how I understand that men fear women. There are women that have

00:25:24.240 cost me millions of dollars. And if I ever met them in person, I just pray to God I never do

00:25:30.880 because I would want to kill. And I can't imagine how you guys feel about your ex-wives

00:25:38.200 that are making your lives hell.

00:25:40.740 But at least you know that that woman gave you a child.

00:25:43.740 You can at least counter-rationalize it, right?

00:25:45.720 But, money, 500 bucks every single month for 18 years, I would kill somebody.

00:25:57.360 What's even more unusual, he says the judges at juvenile court

00:26:00.760 have an idea of who the real father is.

00:26:03.500 Yet they're still demanding he pay up.

00:26:05.580 Now he's turning to on-your-side investigators,

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00:26:11.900 OFF THE CATCH PHRASE, YOU ARE

00:26:13.900 NOT THE FATHER.

00:26:15.900 BUT THE REALITY IN MEMPHIS IS

00:26:17.900 JUST BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT THE

00:26:19.900 DADDY DOESN'T MEAN SHELBY

00:26:21.900 COUNTY JUVENILE COURT WON'T

00:26:23.900 MAKE YOU PAY.

00:26:25.900 I WAS DOWN THERE IN

00:26:27.900 HANDCUFFS AND CHAINS.

00:26:29.900 OVER THE YEARS EDWARD

00:26:31.900 BOWDERY HAD HIS DRIVER'S

00:26:33.900 LICENSE STRIPPED AND ONCE EVEN

00:26:35.900 FOUND HIMSELF IN HANDCUFFS

00:26:36.900 THAT'S NOT HIS.

00:26:37.900 I WOULD HATE TO SEE SOMEONE

00:26:38.900 ELSE GO THROUGH THE SAME THING.

00:26:40.900 I'VE BEEN GOING THROUGH THIS.

00:26:41.900 I MEAN, HEADACHES.

00:26:43.900 THIS MOUND OF PAPERWORK SHOWS

00:26:45.900 A JUVENILE COURT JUDGE ORDERED

00:26:47.900 HIM TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT EVEN

00:26:49.900 BEFORE THE BIRTH.

00:26:50.900 I DIDN'T DO A VOLUNTARY

00:26:52.900 ACKNOWLEDGEMENT.

00:26:53.900 I DIDN'T SIGN THE BIRTH

00:26:55.900 CERTIFICATE.

00:26:56.900 ALL I KNEW IS WE LEGITIMATED THE

00:26:59.900 CHILD IN YOUR NAME.

00:27:00.900 BOWDERY ASKED SEVERAL JUDGES

00:27:01.900 DURING SEVERAL HEARINGS FOR A

00:27:03.900 DNA TEST, BUT NO JUDGE ORDERED

00:27:05.900 ordered one i said how did i even get put on child support and i never said this was my child

00:27:11.600 and they said again this is not what we're here for in 2009 he took the job because they all get

00:27:18.980 everyone gets paid off of the man's money so if the actual dad doesn't have money yeah they're

00:27:23.940 not gonna they're not gonna go through a lot of trouble if your name's on the birth certificate

00:27:29.240 To get a DNA test and found the son he'd supported for years was not biologically his.

00:27:36.340 He took the documentation to court.

00:27:38.480 The judge wouldn't accept it, but ordered a new DNA test done that showed the same results.

00:27:44.660 Probability of paternity, 0%.

00:27:47.500 They never did do what they were originally supposed to do,

00:27:51.260 which was give me the opportunity to take a DNA test.

00:27:54.500 I was just a voice not being heard, so I guess I needed a choir.

00:27:59.240 Juvenile Court Magistrate Nancy Kessler agreed in October to allow Bowdery to disestablish paternity,

00:28:06.100 but only after he says she admonished him for taking it this far.

00:28:11.040 The judge stated that, well, I find it very distasteful that you're bastardizing a child.

00:28:20.240 The judge stopped the child support going forward, but Bowdery still has to pay $460 a month to the mother in back pay.

00:28:28.260 He doesn't believe he should have to pay anything.

00:28:30.940 In fact, he believes someone owes him money, the $30,000 he's already paid.

00:28:37.140 Administrators at juvenile court denied our request for an interview on this case,

00:28:41.620 saying it's not appropriate to comment about rulings.

00:28:45.520 What are the chances of him getting its money back?

00:28:47.540 It is very unusual and very infrequent.

00:28:51.660 Family lawyer Miles Mason says in a similar case,

00:28:55.020 THE TENNESSEE SUPREME COURT RULED A MAN IN MIDDLE TENNESSEE COULD SUE HIS EX-WIFE FOR FRAUD.

00:29:00.760 HE GOT A $100,000 JUDGMENT.

00:29:03.480 THERE WAS A VERY LARGE JUDGMENT AWARDED AGAINST THE MOTHER,

00:29:07.400 BUT I DOUBT IT WOULD BE LIKELY THAT THEY WOULD BE ABLE TO COLLECT IN MOST CASES.

00:29:12.740 THIS BILL IS SIMPLE, THAT A PERSON WHO HAS PROVEN NOT TO BE THE BIOLOGICAL FATHER.

00:29:18.900 STATE REPRESENTATIVE J.A. HARDAWAY SAYS HE'S HEARD FROM A NUMBER OF FATHERS IN HIS DISTRICT

00:29:23.760 who were like Bowdery. He introduced a bill, letting them file civil lawsuits against the

00:29:29.600 biological fathers, but it never made it out of committee. To a degree, justice needs to be

00:29:34.800 served. I think it needs to be a totally different, a new law or something. The question many people

00:29:42.720 might ask, why is Bowdery still paying back pay to the child's mother? Well, we're told by law,

00:29:48.640 the new judge he's dealing with can't undo another judge's ruling for the on your side

00:29:57.120 yeah um i wanted to show you guys a video it got a lot of traction on my channel i think i

00:30:03.680 got to do more coffee talks because i haven't done them i was walking the other day

00:30:08.240 and i just sometimes i have these thoughts um and this was an example of how life really isn't fair

00:30:19.420 for men of someone i know in my hometown so i don't know if you guys can hear me it's kind of

00:30:25.260 windy it's like nice sunset out here so i'm back home right now and i'm kind of like by my hometown

00:30:35.460 out. And there's this childhood friend that we have out here that, um, he had like a false

00:30:47.400 accusation issue with a woman who basically said that, you know, he raped her and it was

00:30:54.920 like completely baseless. She never went to the cops, whatever. Um, and he ended up kind

00:31:02.900 of getting off like scotch free. I mean, in terms of he kept his job and didn't get taken to court

00:31:11.520 or the police or anything, but she did a lot of damage like to his reputation. I mean, she had a

00:31:18.240 bunch of posts on Facebook. She called his job, like all this stuff. And I was thinking about

00:31:26.180 this guy. Um, I was talking to his mom the other day and he's never going to be the same after

00:31:34.280 that. He's never going to date the same. Um, you know, he, he's like scared of women and I never

00:31:43.800 understood why men like don't fight more. You know what I mean? Like, you know, these women, um,

00:31:50.220 these women like do these evil things and it's just very difficult because that girl goes on

00:31:57.460 to live a normal life to just watch like them get away with it. Do you know what I mean? Like

00:32:03.720 she can just go on and he's has to be damaged forever. Um,

00:32:10.340 and so when I got into like the red pill space and like media and I started talking about like

00:32:18.000 men's issues. Um, this frustrated me, right? So I, you know, like calling out women and you like,

00:32:28.760 um, you feel like you're sticking it to them, whatever. But then the women, um, started treating

00:32:36.320 me like they treat a man. Whenever you embarrass them or they feel like they're wrong, um,

00:32:44.940 or they feel like you're wrong they go to like no ends to ruin your life and like I've been called

00:32:53.760 um a pedophile um not true completely baseless

00:33:01.100 I've um been dragged to court I've had been threatened with lawsuits um

00:33:11.020 I've you know had my name slandered like if you google me there's all this stuff and

00:33:20.580 I'm grateful to like get to do my job and stuff but I see why men kind of just let women

00:33:27.940 win in a way because it's way easier to just pay the woman off and give her the million dollars or

00:33:36.620 Or, you know, like when you see those cases where the woman's obviously doing a false accusation, but it's like easier to just give them the money to get them to go away.

00:33:49.540 Like, it's easier to lie to the woman than deal with her scorn.

00:33:57.340 And, you know, people will make fun of guys and say, so what? So you're afraid of women?

00:34:01.460 and to be honest after going through like the last few years and seeing how women treated me

00:34:08.240 and I'm sure they treat you guys I know they treat you guys worse I'd say yeah most men

00:34:16.400 I hope you guys can hear me it's kind of windy but most men they do fear women and it's completely

00:34:23.880 warranted because women can have so much power. Like we're just drunk on power. We have the

00:34:32.480 police on our side. Um, we have like you, you can have a woman dragging you to court

00:34:42.540 and you have to spend a hundred thousand dollars just to prove you didn't do something. Um,

00:34:50.340 Um, so I, I really think after going through this and I don't want to make it seem, you

00:35:01.280 know, like I had one scorned woman cost me millions of dollars, one scorned woman, millions

00:35:12.840 of dollars that if i just um gave her her way if i just said fine you win would have saved me

00:35:22.940 millions of dollars and i think that's what men go through it's easier to just tell the woman that

00:35:27.680 you win you're right then to lose millions of dollars lose your reputation um have secrets of

00:35:37.440 yours blasted and used against you and um yeah i think that's why men fear women i hope you guys

00:35:46.020 can hear me it's getting kind of windy um but thanks for watching thanks for supporting me

00:35:51.820 all over all the years yeah so i really explained it there where a lot of times it's just easier to

00:35:58.560 give women their way because my god they just make your life a living hell if you don't um

00:36:05.500 But let's let's see who's on the line. So we're going to do a call in show and I have a question for you guys. What is the worst thing? So we went through women can make your life hell and they get away with it. You know, men paying for kids that aren't theirs and men having to accept women attacking them. What do you think is the worst thing you're expected to put up with as a man?

00:36:27.160 and what did you learn you were supposed to put up with when you were young so when's the first

00:36:33.840 time you realize that you're treated differently as a man and that you just have to put up with

00:36:37.620 something i'm guessing we got doug mpa on the line of course we do what's up doug mpa hey bro

00:36:44.880 how's it going good how are you i'm good so what are your thoughts on the topic what is the worst

00:36:52.080 thing you're expected to put up with as a man first off guys don't get married don't do it

00:36:57.880 because that was what i learned there's a lot of small things when you're a single guy

00:37:04.000 but in marriage you find out what you're supposed to put up with and one of the biggest things is

00:37:11.000 a couple things one your money is the house money and then her money is her money

00:37:18.280 so you have to pay for everything and then give her the freedom

00:37:22.520 to be able to spend her money how she chooses

00:37:25.900 to spend it and if you try to say anything against it

00:37:30.420 you're a real man wouldn't this and I'm supposed to be

00:37:34.540 your wife and I'm independent because women expect to be independent

00:37:38.400 in a relationship and independent in a marriage

00:37:41.000 so that's number one

00:37:46.280 Number two, I meet a lot of guys who are married, but once again, their wife still wants to be independent.

00:37:55.440 So the guy is making, because 70% of households, the man is the breadwinner.

00:38:00.700 His wife will work part-time or have some multi-level marketing business, and he's supposed to make her feel empowered,

00:38:08.900 make her believe that she doesn't need him when he's paying all the bills, and that she's still strong and independent.

00:38:15.780 So she has a multi-level marketing Amway thing, and he has to buy into the delusion, buy into her delusion that she's somehow contributing to the household.

00:38:27.700 It's garbage.

00:38:29.200 Absolute garbage.

00:38:32.100 And what about when you were young?

00:38:35.200 When I was young?

00:38:35.920 Yeah, what was the first thing you noticed when you were young?

00:38:37.980 well remember guys in fifth and sixth grade the girls start hitting puberty first

00:38:45.020 and so a lot of girls are taller than the boys i don't know if you guys remember that time like

00:38:49.960 i think it's around sixth grade and girls get real physical when they get taller than you

00:38:54.700 and bigger than you so in sixth grade girls would be trying to fight the boys because we haven't hit

00:39:00.860 puberty yet so i remember this one girl her first name was aaron and she took that you if they like

00:39:11.480 you she'll hit you thing to the extreme because she got tall and i remember she's always bothered

00:39:20.400 me in in uh and chased me around the um the playground until one day i just i was like why

00:39:27.160 am i running i turned around like you know stood up for myself and then you know a little push and

00:39:34.060 stuff and all of a sudden she's just like what are you guys doing over here it's like she constantly

00:39:38.740 chases me around the playground she's like freaking she must have been like she's definitely

00:39:46.880 bigger than i was but then the minute a guy stands up for himself all of a sudden oh you can't do

00:39:52.740 that so that was so she she started it and then you like did you hit her back or what happened

00:39:59.300 it was a push and a shove oh like you shoved her back and then the teacher yelled at you

00:40:04.420 yeah but that was in sixth grade i think it was

00:40:07.460 so but yeah guys we're just supposed to eat it especially when it comes

00:40:14.140 to women society does not care they just don't and like um like pearl was saying

00:40:22.180 to Andrew Wilson why do men have to sacrifice so much and endure so much for society and women

00:40:29.000 when society and men society women just don't care why yeah I know that's like the default

00:40:35.900 for trad cons well what's in it for men well but society you know yeah and guys look man this is

00:40:43.960 2025 a woman um vandalizes your car or does something to you press charges and don't be

00:40:51.660 afraid to defend yourself guys equal rights means equal lefts do you see the woman that

00:40:57.880 was vandalizing the car after he cheated why do women think it's okay to commit crimes

00:41:04.640 over cheating like i understand cheating is an outlet you could be mad about it but

00:41:10.280 i mean that doesn't give you the right to vandalize or to trespass or even worse a woman

00:41:18.960 will sabotage their husband or significant other because they got mad um this guy that was on the

00:41:25.080 seahawks he got um he went to the ravens he got a 17 million dollar one year deal with the ravens

00:41:32.860 him and his wife got in a fight and his brother was in the nfl too so he him his wife they got

00:41:38.400 in a fight and he went to his brother's house his brother was holding a party so of course on

00:41:43.100 snapchat and social media he was posting videos of him and his brother uh at the party at his

00:41:49.900 brother's house with women all over the place so one of his friends one of his wife's friends

00:41:55.960 saw that and showed the wife that the wife got her you know her her pistol with three of her

00:42:02.800 friends she got to the house was waving the gun around the pistol with a couple of the hookers

00:42:09.780 there and when the police came uh he had gotten the pistol away from his wife but she had picked

00:42:16.900 up a knife it was chasing him around his car in the driveway right so the police walk up and

00:42:23.480 they're literally running back and forth around the cars so they arrest her and because it's a

00:42:29.160 domestic you know incident he ended up losing his 17 million dollar contract with the baltimore

00:42:35.080 ravens no yeah oh my i can't believe she brought a gun what is wrong with these women and was it

00:42:43.960 worth it no was 17 oh yeah and that's oh but that's why that's why the guys have to placate

00:42:51.960 to the women too you know what i mean like it would have been it would have been easier for

00:42:56.360 him to say oh you're right let me just leave this party you know like it would have saved even though

00:43:01.080 um he shouldn't have to do that that's how women end up getting their way because then

00:43:05.960 it's like you don't want to you just lost 17 million dollars for what yeah and of course

00:43:11.480 his statement was pretty correct he's like yeah you know me and my wife need to take some privacy

00:43:17.560 so please respect our privacy and you know i want to get my family back she ruined it for you dude

00:43:22.700 there is nothing that he could have done and she doesn't work so was that worth 17 million dollars

00:43:28.600 i don't think so yeah especially athletes they gotta wait till their career is over

00:43:32.980 to get married oh god there's too many sharks in there is there any guys on the line or no

00:43:40.400 yeah so i'll let in okay cool zach

00:43:43.220 what's going on zach

00:43:47.260 you hear me

00:43:51.640 Oh, he's still connecting.

00:43:54.720 Zach, are you there?

00:43:56.880 It says we're connecting to audio.

00:44:01.360 Zach, how's it going?

00:44:03.340 It's going.

00:44:04.400 How about you?

00:44:05.280 Good.

00:44:05.780 Where are you calling out of?

00:44:07.500 South Carolina.

00:44:08.480 Hold up.

00:44:08.860 Sorry, I'll get.

00:44:09.560 Oh, nice.

00:44:14.480 So what is the worst thing you're expected to put up with as a man?

00:44:18.580 well more or less what i would have put up with not anymore um the nagging

00:44:26.500 um the expectation of always having to please things of that kind of nature which can go very

00:44:35.480 far really depending on the woman they'll push you super far is there an example that's coming

00:44:44.720 to your head of a time that happened to you that you had to put up with for me it was usually just

00:44:50.540 a period of consistently having someone like expect me to always have to appeal to them give

00:44:57.440 them validation you know always be talking to them and giving them uh like i love you baby and you

00:45:05.100 know trying to always be kind of stuck on their ass you know whether it be spending time with them

00:45:11.520 or whatnot uh way more than you need to like it wasn't really all that serious i did not need to

00:45:17.920 spend all my time with a girl like that it just was not worth it especially she ended up cheating

00:45:23.160 on me so it's like what the fuck yeah she cheated that's how it goes but you didn't you didn't uh

00:45:29.220 key your car or nothing when you found out no no uh we were actually long distance as well so

00:45:34.440 oh yeah so when did you um what did you learn when you were young that you were supposed to

00:45:41.220 put up with like do you have your first like memory descriptively what i saw was my mom was

00:45:47.880 uh objectively an evil bitch um okay i gave her the perfect traditional life and she spit in his

00:45:55.580 face with it um she only wanted to pursue her interest and basically suck all his uh income

00:46:04.460 like a vampire and he still kept was able to provide he made good for himself you know we

00:46:09.820 could have been middle class you know for quite a long time and maybe even on a little further

00:46:14.700 because he was very very good with money and he had to sell property he had to sell this he had

00:46:21.100 to sell that all because of her incessant buying just ridiculously what did she spend her money on

00:46:27.980 that was that's a good question where did it go it definitely went all in cigarettes but i mean

00:46:34.460 that's the that's the real shocking part is i never saw where it went i mean it was it wasn't

00:46:42.540 clothes trips like clothes trip plastic surgery you don't know that's the thing is it there was

00:46:49.260 no nothing that i could observe that could tell you where the the money went you know some of

00:46:54.140 it was into pyramid schemes okay fair enough that was a little bit to see but other parts it's like

00:46:59.820 it just evaporated right i mean she somehow uh got materials that she could toss away

00:47:07.740 and just keep on spinning keep on spinning keep on spinning it was really really ridiculous

00:47:15.100 got it was there anything at school that you observed between like the men and the women

00:47:19.580 in the classrooms at a young age i kind of kept to myself for the most part um

00:47:26.940 um, I did notice, uh, the difference in kind of how, uh, women, uh, or girls could get away with

00:47:33.980 a little bit more than the guys could, but not too much. I mean, uh, my school was fairly tame

00:47:38.340 and I grew up in the nineties. So it's like, it wasn't like everything just was batshit crazy

00:47:43.580 like today. So, I mean, and again, I'm in South Carolina, so I don't think it's like a completely

00:47:48.860 ridiculous place. Got it. Okay. Well, thank you for calling in Doug MPA. You got any other

00:47:54.140 questions for him yeah i would say um the modern women playbook is they want to meet an ambitious

00:48:02.700 productive highly skilled or highly educated man and then get him to set his ambition and desires

00:48:10.140 aside to help her achieve her selfish goals and dreams and that sounds exactly like what your

00:48:16.780 mother did because i always say when men win everyone wins and when when when women win they

00:48:23.020 went for themselves uh can i speak on one thing uh pearl sure so i think i have some uh descriptive

00:48:31.260 truths and a prescription for the average man perhaps so descriptively if men just understand

00:48:39.660 some of us are always going to be sacrificed so if we just all choose to stonewall these

00:48:44.300 what are they going to do about it men don't need sex from women we can do handball if we got to

00:48:50.620 so it's like if you start understanding where your actual value is then it's like what are

00:48:57.260 they going to do about they have decayed and it's like there's always younger women coming up and

00:49:02.140 eventually you stonewall long enough they're going to get in line i mean we have more power

00:49:08.540 i mean what can they do about it you know and as far as like acting out you know like just don't

00:49:14.540 put up with it you don't have to you know peace is better than fake happiness because you're always

00:49:21.580 trying to please someone and then they give it back to you like this doesn't need to be that

00:49:25.500 kind of transaction like if i've got to be the protector the leader and the provider then shut

00:49:31.740 the up and i won't put up with less so i think if every man starts taking that kind of stand

00:49:38.700 they have to fall into mind eventually some of us will be sacrificed that's okay we can still be

00:49:43.980 be happy on our own that's the that's the thing that's beautiful about life you don't need a bitch

00:49:48.520 yeah that's true thanks for calling thanks for calling in zach appreciate it call in any time

00:49:55.620 all right all right who we got next all right uh scott rose letting you in

00:50:04.140 scott are you there what's going on scott

00:50:12.360 scott i like the hat oh well thank you very much let me see am i muted

00:50:22.920 no you're good no i can hear you oh beautiful i'm clicking buttons because i've never called

00:50:29.460 in before sure where are you calling out of at the moment i'm in birmingham alabama

00:50:35.860 but i actually live in missouri i'm on the road for work and uh man watch out uh in birmingham

00:50:44.900 man birmingham is dangerous dude you ain't lying i'm in like a super ghetto i'm a traveling welder

00:50:53.180 so it's like a small company that i work for we get put up in super ghetto hotels full of

00:50:59.260 construction workers all the construction workers go home on the weekend and it's just

00:51:04.020 full of prostitutes it's crazy seriously birmingham you better carry bro man you don't

00:51:12.680 gotta worry about me doug let's just put it like that on the subject um so what is the worst thing

00:51:20.280 you're expected to put up with as a man at least you don't have women at work right that's good

00:51:26.980 we definitely don't have women at work but there are some of the uh hispanics that have

00:51:35.060 actually cracked the code and they like hire their wife to work with them as well so they bring their

00:51:41.860 their wives to work and then the wives are super hustlers they have like a honda minivan full of

00:51:49.780 like tacos and stuff like that in the back so they sell uh tamales out of the trunk yeah

00:51:57.780 absolutely that's what i'm talking about that's it right there i love these women bro like i wish

00:52:03.220 they were at home taking care of their kids and everything but like they show up every day and

00:52:07.460 they make a hot meal for me for lunch do you ever ask you ever ask them if they got a little sister

00:52:14.980 for you you know i love mexican girls no you ever yeah you just gotta look at that smile

00:52:21.300 yeah you gotta you gotta i'm originally from san diego california so like i might as well be

00:52:28.120 like 20 mexican you gotta just go to the the next time one of their wives is at work just

00:52:34.800 ask him to bring their little sister next time you're like i think you need extra hands here

00:52:41.800 but i'm telling you i'm not scared the tacos the taco and tamalo the tacos and tamale ladies are

00:52:51.580 like pillars of the community man i'm telling you you ain't lying i've been married two times

00:52:57.600 and divorced both times my most recent divorce i was trying to convince my half japanese half

00:53:04.720 jewish wife to come on the road with me and be a taco truck lady i was like you don't understand

00:53:11.600 you can make 10 grand a month just coming to the job site and making like burritos for people for

00:53:17.840 like an hour and a half like it's the easiest money i should probably quit what i'm doing and

00:53:22.620 do that yeah except for i'm probably not cute enough but it is what it is so what's the worst

00:53:29.120 thing that you're expected to put up with as a man in your experience dude that is such a tough

00:53:36.340 question i don't i i'm i'm super black pilled but i don't know if i'm actually gone so dark

00:53:43.340 to the point where i can actually like sit here and be like the worst thing i'm expected to put

00:53:50.320 up with is x y or z but i can tell you that probably in that upper echelon of things you

00:53:59.440 could name would be paying child support to a woman that decided of her own free will to just

00:54:08.820 up and fucking bail on you excuse my i don't mean i dropped way too many f-bombs i'm sorry

00:54:14.060 that's all right i don't know the rules on youtube and everything yeah that's okay you

00:54:19.460 could say fuck here it's all right so wait so so it's paying so how much um child support are you

00:54:29.620 on a month like how much you okay so my first marriage i'm in a very unique situation my first

00:54:37.060 marriage was like 25 years ago and so i paid between like 750 to 1200 a month in child for a

00:54:48.600 very long time on that for one kid yeah oh yeah you know it's it's a sliding scale based on your

00:54:58.420 income so if you make a lot of money you pay a lot of money yeah uh and so for a long time i was

00:55:04.360 making a lot of money i was in i had a sales career that was very lucrative for a number of

00:55:08.840 years before i got into more of some blue collar type of stuff like what i do now you went from

00:55:13.140 sales to blue collar yeah but i'm going back to sales i just renewed my real estate and life

00:55:19.620 insurance license i'm going back into financial planning but there was i got burned out on it

00:55:24.320 okay so i i was like you know i i burned out on doing sales and i got into doing like mechanic

00:55:32.180 work and welding and whatnot and i did that for about the last like eight years and now

00:55:36.940 i'm burned out on that because you don't make any money and uh it's hard work but it was cool

00:55:44.320 though i think it's good for men to know how to do manly shit if you're just a salesman your

00:55:50.340 whole life you may miss out on being able to learn how to like fix cars and weld shit

00:55:57.140 i didn't have anybody teaching me that when i was growing up but i had

00:56:02.060 salespeople in my family but now that i have some experience doing the blue collar thing i'm going

00:56:07.740 back into sales anyway all that to say i don't pay that kind of child support now and my daughter

00:56:13.920 from the first marriage is like 24 years old so that's over and done with the second wife

00:56:20.860 now i have a one and a half year old baby girl i after i got divorced the first time i was like

00:56:26.900 i'm never doing that again i was like completely wait you have a one and a half year old right now

00:56:33.620 yeah so i did 22 23 years single and then i fucking crashed and burned son

00:56:42.140 was it a much younger woman she was pretty hot she was she's pretty hot wasn't she

00:56:50.620 she was she's beautiful and she's also rich and so i was like well if this one

00:56:57.720 marries me and then bails she's probably not gonna fucking bury me financially

00:57:03.620 you're muted no i'm i was waiting for you to finish and did she i'm waiting for the

00:57:12.880 what yeah she so she bailed on me but she didn't take the i mean she took the baby and bailed on

00:57:19.620 and everything and moved back to california where she's from but she didn't hit me with like child

00:57:24.420 support and alimony or any of that she's because like her family is so they're so paid that it

00:57:33.000 would be like embarrassing for them to try to yeah a guy like me you know if if that makes any sense

00:57:42.660 yeah i mean you said she's half jewish they got a ton of money so yeah yeah that was you were

00:57:48.780 smart the second time around smarter it was definitely an upgrade but and the marriage

00:57:54.180 lasted about twice as long which is like a year and a half how long were you with her total

00:58:01.200 uh like two and a half years i was with her for like a year before how much younger than you was

00:58:07.460 she only a couple years okay i thought it was a thing where you know a lot of us older guys

00:58:14.520 We get so enthusiastic with the younger women, especially in the bedroom, that we slip up and get one pregnant.

00:58:23.240 I didn't even have sex with her before we got married.

00:58:27.220 Oh, wow.

00:58:28.180 I grew up in a super, super hardcore Christian family.

00:58:32.300 My dad was a preacher for a long time.

00:58:35.580 My grandfather before him is a preacher and all that kind of thing.

00:58:40.240 So the reason I called in was to back up a bunch of stuff that these other guys

00:58:48.240 were saying, but this actually answers the first,

00:58:52.700 the other part of the question you were asking about, like, when you grow up,

00:58:58.680 where, where do you start to learn? Like girls are going to be a preferential

00:59:02.800 treatment and you're supposed to kind of like sacrifice yourself and,

00:59:08.200 and all that kind of thing.

00:59:10.240 And, like, I went to a Christian private school in Northern California, and my dad and my family was, like, involved in the church organization, you know, working for them.

00:59:23.340 And, man, they were super hardcore about teaching us when we were little boys that, like, we were super bad because we were boys, and the girls were super good because they were girls.

00:59:36.740 This was a church in California, right?

00:59:39.320 Yeah, there's a church in New York.

00:59:40.340 There it is, right there.

00:59:41.620 That's all you got to know.

00:59:42.880 Yeah, and then the school that was, like, associated with the church

00:59:46.940 was a private school where you pay all this extra money to go to this private school.

00:59:50.800 And then they were just, like, really hammer it home that, like,

00:59:56.620 the little boys were really, like, raised up to be, like, sacrificial lambs.

01:00:03.200 Like, we were going to be joining the army and going off to war and getting shot.

01:00:08.900 And we were going to be, like, laying down our lives for these little girls that we were growing up with.

01:00:15.640 And that was, like, made out to be a super honorable thing that you were supposed to, like, aspire to.

01:00:21.460 And, like, if you were going to be Christ-like, there was going to be a time in your life where you're called to, like, lay down your life for one of these, you know, church girls or whatever.

01:00:35.600 and uh i mean there's layers to it obviously but dude they sold us that shit like the most

01:00:48.700 black pilling kind of part of like you grow up and you get some experience with these girls and

01:00:57.740 so you're like oh shit that's not how this is gonna work yeah originally you're you're taught

01:01:03.900 in these institutions they teach these people to teach you that if you treat these women

01:01:11.920 with like honor and respect there's going to be a reciprocation there there's a reciprocal

01:01:19.020 environment here where they're going to honor you and respect you and so the more you put in

01:01:24.740 the more you'll get in return and uh so when you find out that that isn't going to be the case the

01:01:33.980 vast majority of the time and obviously there's some you know diamond in the rough type of girls

01:01:41.380 that will really value that but it's a very small amount it's like very very small i gotta ask so

01:01:51.220 how old were you when you said you waited till marriage for your second wife yeah how old were

01:01:57.180 you i'm 45 oh my gosh you did that for a 40 a 40 year old woman yeah what what like i just need

01:02:06.560 to know what was your thought process between that and that being a good idea i had oh i had

01:02:12.240 you wait for the first wife too no no first wife was like a stripper oh your first wife was a

01:02:18.600 stripper yeah well she wasn't a stripper when i met her and then married her we worked together

01:02:23.940 at i was like a you don't discriminate you go stripper church girl you're down

01:02:29.320 i'm all up in there yeah now though now you're going for the mexican women

01:02:33.960 i love the mexican girls i love mexican girls i love asian girls i i had i had completely taken

01:02:41.860 white girls off of the menu for like 15 years but they're back on let me tell you what alabama

01:02:48.460 they had some dime piece blonde girls in these churches in alabama so but let's go back to the

01:02:58.180 waiting for the way you don't have you don't have to convince me i know they're the south has nice

01:03:04.320 blondes so what made like what made you want to do that you didn't like obviously she wasn't a virgin

01:03:11.180 right no and i mean i'm not either obviously you know but like yeah i was i'm i still have a very

01:03:21.520 strong software program installed in my brain that's like this the programming from the church

01:03:30.480 yeah and so hoping i was like i was like denying all of my red pill and black pill experience and

01:03:40.200 really just like hoping that if i were to treat this woman in the way that i've been told i should

01:03:51.880 which is like don't bang these chicks before you marry them marry them first and then

01:03:58.120 have children like produce a family with all this sex you're gonna have you know

01:04:05.260 and uh so i was really on that how old was she she was what 40 she was like yeah how'd you guys

01:04:14.160 get it she was so when did she have one well no so at the time let's see this was two years ago

01:04:21.840 three years ago 38 yeah she's like 39 40 and i'm like 42 okay so she's only two or three years she

01:04:28.920 beat the buzzer huh dude she was throwing the hail mary wait so did you guys do did you guys

01:04:38.460 we had like a perfectly healthy baby and we had the baby at home we didn't even have really

01:04:43.480 yeah did you do did you do ivf or no hell no natural wow yeah no she'd never been pregnant

01:04:52.480 before and i have super sperm like

01:04:55.760 i have been known hey ladies in the chat 40 year old women

01:05:03.440 all you ladies in the chat holler at me

01:05:13.720 he's got super sperm you know that's funny um but yeah so the baby was perfectly healthy we

01:05:23.360 were very fortunate in that respect we prayed about it every day and everything and so i really

01:05:28.460 felt like that was a huge blessing and i still to this day even though everything went completely

01:05:32.700 south like i still feel like god has blessed me in such a way that i'm able to produce children

01:05:42.120 and continue the bloodline of my family even though I am unable to convince a woman not to

01:05:49.200 divorce me well you you and every guy right I mean that's that's like saying I mean what what

01:06:00.020 guy has convinced women not to divorce him or be nice to him and stay married you know it's like

01:06:06.700 you know pearl when you're right you're right yeah i gotta give it to you uh doug mpa you got

01:06:14.600 any other questions for him is he still there wait wait hold on one second i'm sorry what was that

01:06:25.080 oh i just asked if you had any other questions for him no i don't i put the link to the audacity

01:06:31.680 chat in in the youtube chat because i don't know why people that's what i was doing i'm sorry but

01:06:36.160 I don't know why people can't see it, but it's there.

01:06:38.720 So, so click on that link.

01:06:40.060 If you're a member of Pearl's website, it should take you there so you can get into the chat.

01:06:43.400 But yeah, all the, I don't have any questions, man.

01:06:46.920 Just, you know, have fun with that one and a half year old man.

01:06:50.440 Holy crap.

01:06:51.920 Yeah.

01:06:52.300 Call.

01:06:53.360 I just got, I got to work out some visitation and stuff like that.

01:06:56.440 I'm in Alabama and they're in California.

01:06:58.460 So it's one of those where she took the baby and moved a thousand miles away.

01:07:02.080 It's like, what do you do with that shit?

01:07:03.700 Yeah.

01:07:04.340 Wow.

01:07:04.660 anyway pearl love your show i watch all the time keep doing what you're doing doug you give

01:07:09.800 legendary advice keep it up call in any time okay thank you so much um yeah yeah we'll do

01:07:16.520 thanks for having me thanks can we make sure the school link is in the description because i don't

01:07:20.880 see it right now and i was about to plug it so guys just quick plug real quick um we do have a

01:07:28.440 new school community where it's an education based platform. So all of the smart, intelligent

01:07:35.960 people that I know I bring on to that platform and they're going to give education based advice.

01:07:41.260 One of these days, I think I'm going to get my dad on there. But for now, we had a PI give advice on

01:07:47.800 how to catch women cheating, how to use the child support system against the women that are using

01:07:55.580 it against you. So if you want to get ahead, go there. Um, and, but yeah, it's a one-time

01:08:01.060 purchase. It's a lifetime entry fee. You get to interact with all the other smart, intelligent

01:08:06.180 people on there. And the cool thing is I'm going to bring on more famous people because we're going

01:08:11.580 to get bigger and better every year. And so it's going to be more famous, more intelligent,

01:08:16.880 and I'm going to just get more well connected as I continue my career. So, um, if you join it now,

01:08:24.600 i was really you're really going to get it out as a steal so it's going to be the first link

01:08:27.880 in the description and um let's take the next caller so that's my my little plug okay we have

01:08:40.120 marvin

01:08:43.080 marvin's coming in and then esteban marvin what's going on hello how are you doing i'm good how are

01:08:53.080 you uh great i just wanted to say i really feel sorry for the fact you went through some major

01:09:01.000 major problems over the last few years with these um liberal women that try to you know dash your

01:09:06.800 character and all that stuff i don't appreciate those kind of women just like the single moms

01:09:11.880 that you know put men on child support and vice versa yeah it is what it is it's part of the job

01:09:17.420 um but tell me so what is the worst thing that you are expected to put up with as a man

01:09:23.420 um that's a very good question um i know i won't put up with it in generally

01:09:31.780 especially if she doesn't um tell me what she uh you know was planning to do and to uh

01:09:38.540 especially if she puts someone like anyone in general in child support i'll be like what is

01:09:44.580 it's about you know why didn't you tell me ahead of time you know that we're not going to be you

01:09:48.520 know uh you know a very functional couple you know i want to put up with it i know a lot of

01:09:54.580 men today um that would not put up with it um that's a that's a like a yes or no circumstance

01:10:02.080 at this point in today's world it's complicated with child support case by case right and um

01:10:11.140 sorry go ahead i didn't want to mention i do have a book that i got a couple years ago in

01:10:17.560 jeffrey levy's office in chicago he's a father advocate attorney and um he fights for father's

01:10:24.920 rights all the time nationwide and there is another gentleman in los angeles name is

01:10:30.420 lionel tj tillman he fought for his child support case a number of years ago and got it dismissed

01:10:37.180 and he represented himself without an attorney no law legal background and his channel on youtube

01:10:44.600 is called um child support is fraud.com cool yeah guys check that website out um so when when you

01:10:54.560 were young did you ever notice that the men and the women were treated differently in school um

01:10:59.980 Was there a first experience that you remember when that happened?

01:11:06.120 Oh, yes. Plenty of experiences.

01:11:09.280 I know when I was about 14, 13 or 14, around that age, in the San Francisco Bay area,

01:11:17.720 I went to school out in Pacifica near the ocean, just about 10 miles off of San Francisco area.

01:11:24.180 The women and the guys were treated differently in school.

01:11:27.980 um it was just based on propaganda and property popularity so if you didn't if you were like a

01:11:35.340 brokey then they just you know treat you like a brokey if you had money or nice cars they're just

01:11:40.920 um you know they're always a higher target i guess nice dog mpa you got any other questions for him

01:11:48.760 i do not but it's good to hear you marvin i see you in the chat all the time man thank you for

01:11:55.140 calling in call in anytime okay yeah thanks so much for calling in it's nice i love um actually

01:12:00.140 meeting the people that are in the chat so it's great to have you go ahead most definitely uh what

01:12:05.120 did you um what do you think about what i just said about the resources with the child support

01:12:10.860 because i know child support is very um yeah i think yeah i think that's great i was thinking

01:12:16.880 um i might check it out after the show see if they want to come on for an interview they seem

01:12:21.020 interesting and i want to mention one more thing before i go on the a hundred thousand dollar

01:12:27.360 i call it a hundred thousand dollar bounty that you have to prove that you didn't do anything

01:12:31.720 wrong as a man um that's because that's a propaganda going on but you don't have to

01:12:37.040 spend a hundred thousand dollars just to prove that you're innocent you just gotta you know

01:12:41.920 sign for a fee waiver they call fee waiver even um the gentleman who wrote the child support is

01:12:47.080 fraud.com website uh said the same thing you don't even have to pay your fees you just apply

01:12:52.300 for a fee waiver and any judge denies you um your rights to do that as a as a man or a woman

01:12:58.720 then they're correct they're uh committing um perjury against you that does against the law

01:13:05.740 by federal law okay i didn't know that okay wow that's perjury and and fraud and all that all

01:13:12.860 all the charges is up in in the law it's all over than you know the websites sure i know every

01:13:18.320 jurisdiction is different but the laws are the same so if you have an out-of-state case it

01:13:23.440 doesn't matter if they don't follow the law regardless of jurisdiction they're in violation

01:13:28.040 you can sue them for millions of dollars sure thank you so much marvin thanks for calling in

01:13:33.640 okay call in any time thank you pearl you take care um clue studio sent a super thank you clue

01:13:41.240 studio it's a shout out to pearl shout out to you clue studio um we have esteban coming in

01:13:51.460 esteban are you there hey what's going on man how you guys doing good how are you where are you

01:13:57.640 calling out sorry go ahead i'm calling out of east tennessee i called a couple of weeks ago

01:14:02.320 uh if you recall um and i wanted to say um remember i i actually used to work for child

01:14:10.100 support enforcement i did it twice yeah i remember you okay yeah and so and so i wanted to uh

01:14:19.060 offer um i'm not going to use the term expertise but offer my knowledge in any way i can pearl

01:14:27.860 okay uh to your website to whatever organization whatever you got going on for free for nothing um

01:14:36.100 And, you know, like I said, because when I called in the first time, I said it then and I'll say it now, I regret being good at that job because while I don't know for sure, I'd say I probably destroyed some lives.

01:15:00.580 and that's a regret that i'll take um until my last breath sure and i wouldn't know i truly

01:15:09.780 didn't know and so whatever i can do for free i i don't want anything i don't even want any

01:15:19.860 attention just whatever i can yeah we um i'll have doug mpa reach out to you but yeah we'd love that

01:15:29.640 If you have any ways for guys to lower their child, we had an officer in California who

01:15:37.260 came up, who is, we haven't put out the interview, but yeah, I mean, if you have more information

01:15:43.960 about what they can do in Tennessee, yeah, definitely.

01:15:49.240 You asked a very good question.

01:15:51.060 What's the worst thing that we as men are expected to put up with from women?

01:15:55.220 and this is going to sound like i'm going off on a rabbit trail and and all of that but if the last

01:16:02.360 five years has taught us anything there is no such thing as conspiracy theories because it's not a

01:16:09.700 theory they're facts and they're getting more and more brazen and not hiding it anymore but to answer

01:16:15.940 your question um the worst thing that we as men are expected to put up with and it's the worst

01:16:28.900 thing that can happen to any human being because of where it leads it's like a snowball and that

01:16:36.260 is pearl be excuse me being invisible and and you've mentioned this many many many times pearl

01:16:47.220 and and uh you know i thank you for it you're one of the few people and i mean very few when i say

01:16:56.540 few i mean one hand few that brings up the fact that it is men who build who have built who are

01:17:09.340 building and will build uh civilizations and societies and we maintain them and that gets

01:17:19.180 overlooked it gets overlooked and so all of these women out here you know Miss Independent

01:17:29.480 I don't need no man you literally need a man for your literal survival there was a show I want to

01:17:40.260 say maybe it was on sci-fi i can't remember but it was kind of like a 12 monkeys but all of the men

01:17:51.060 it's called why the last man yeah caught the disease and only one man was left and of course

01:17:57.380 it had to be a beta cuck and all these women were running around and some were in the military with

01:18:03.860 machine guns and and they were running and i'm just like that that's the exact opposite see if

01:18:11.140 men were to disappear or not even disappear if we were to truly go like mad max or post-apocalyptic

01:18:17.780 or something like that these women out here think they're going to be like katniss everdeen what

01:18:22.740 they're really going to be is like that that little uh vietnamese hooker standing on the

01:18:27.620 corner from an old school movie called full metal jacket talking about me so horny

01:18:33.860 That's really what's going to happen. And so, again, it's it's just being treated as if we're invisible.

01:18:43.720 And so I think that's very, very dangerous, because once you make someone invisible like they're not there.

01:18:50.160 um when you do notice them when you have to notice them you automatically think less of

01:19:02.340 them and think that you can just walk all over them and by the way to me this is not by design

01:19:06.780 by the way pearl it's not by design i think it's deliberate by elites um other men actually elite

01:19:16.720 men, call it the 1% of the 1%, the Illuminati, whatever name you want to use, go ahead. But

01:19:22.080 they certainly have used, go ahead, I'm sorry. So how young did you like learn this? Like the

01:19:32.820 like that men are more invisible than women? Was there like a instance at school with your friends?

01:19:39.240 like when did you first notice it well it's not so well okay you know like i said i i grew up with

01:19:53.020 my dad and so you know like i said he was in the military so me and my brother we got you know we

01:20:00.140 didn't grow up in the hood of the ghetto but we we you know when my dad transitioned to civilian

01:20:10.340 life as we were teenage boys and even you know here and there when we would go visit relatives

01:20:16.320 or go on trips or whatever it's it's you know you can make fun of dudes you could always make

01:20:25.720 fun of little fat boys you couldn't make fun of little fat girls it was just off limits and here

01:20:32.280 we are back to uh body shaming it's okay to body shame men but not women and so i always knew that

01:20:39.620 there was something not wrong or something not right i should say from from a very young age

01:20:46.660 but as it got more and more as i got older i'm just like hold up hold up because they got more

01:20:56.400 blatant honestly i i think and i can only speak for myself but it wouldn't shock me if other men

01:21:03.040 felt this way either but i think as they got more open and blatant with their disdain or

01:21:11.300 or treating us as if we're invisible i think that's what took men to wake up because like

01:21:16.480 the previous not the last caller but the caller before the last caller the guy in alabama i mean

01:21:21.520 you know he was programmed now he'll say it's his church and all of that stuff

01:21:27.900 um i just think he probably went to a bad church but it's society as a whole that does it

01:21:34.500 mm-hmm and so and and it's been pervasive we we teach boys from a young age on how to treat girls

01:21:44.080 but we don't ever train girls on how to treat boys have you ever noticed that yeah and again

01:21:51.740 we we we we it's just like a it's just like a light bulb light bulb continues to go on and on

01:21:59.140 and on and on and on because it's not because you don't know it's because you've been trained

01:22:04.180 not to look for it and so that's that's like i said to answer your question i just think

01:22:11.960 uh invisibility man just to make us feel like we are not um that we're here but we're not here

01:22:21.380 it's kind of like you know we're we're basically like the wind you know we're out there you can

01:22:29.020 hear us moving you can hear us blowing you don't care which way we're going but you only care about

01:22:35.160 us when when it knocks your your house down or something like that right then then you know what

01:22:40.200 i mean and so or or when everything's going good you don't care but then things are going yeah all

01:22:46.780 of a sudden yeah yeah and that's and that's that's the most i think that's the worst and the most

01:22:53.140 dangerous uh or the worst thing that we are expected to put up when i'm not saying that you

01:22:59.460 know we walk by a woman should get down on her knees and bow or anything like that that's not

01:23:03.140 what i'm saying but um again how they've made a lot of men and and on top of that to um add insult

01:23:13.380 to injury, I mean, where do you think the term or name incel came from? I mean, if incels exist,

01:23:27.620 it's because you, like I said, you treated them as if they were invisible. And now that you have

01:23:36.320 no choice but to acknowledge that they're there, then you want to denigrate them. So again,

01:23:42.100 it's like the wind and so yeah i agree well i mean well if you we're gonna go we have a couple

01:23:51.100 for callers if you um if you want to reach out and the story or your contributions um yes yes

01:23:58.660 email at doug at the audacity network.com doug at the audacity network.com yep send an email there

01:24:09.140 and then we can connect okay roger that will do brother pearl thank you again pearl i keep saying

01:24:16.280 uh next to the gospel what you and a few others are doing i mean it's second only to the gospel

01:24:22.760 it's second only to the gospel man because this is and i and i get why people call you a pick me

01:24:28.320 i said it the last time i called i'll say it again um they're they're just mad because

01:24:35.660 that you are

01:24:38.760 what they are trying

01:24:40.880 to fight against

01:24:41.860 so just keep doing your thing

01:24:44.380 thanks for calling in

01:24:45.840 alright god bless you

01:24:48.400 okay and then we are gonna

01:24:49.940 then we're gonna let in

01:24:53.300 Tony's gonna be

01:24:55.520 the last caller

01:24:56.660 what's going on Tony

01:25:01.800 it's connecting to audio

01:25:07.800 we got a super chat this is how my 10 year old boy was treated by his coach sided with my ex

01:25:16.860 in our high school conflict separation threatened to bench him i raised this and they kicked him

01:25:23.160 off the team thoughts link in the reply wow it's terrible women use a lot to um

01:25:31.440 they use the whole community to turn against the guy what's going on tony how are you

01:25:37.200 well first of all i'd like to say thanks for having me on your show i am truly honored to

01:25:43.120 meet you and be on your show and i'd like to say that your show gives inspiration to a lot of guys

01:25:51.920 because when you're in the dark of night because you've been through one hell of a divorce or

01:25:56.200 whatever the case may be in days gone by you were kind of on your own except with buddies

01:26:01.520 but your show a collection of millions of people and their thoughts uh is uh a guidestone if you

01:26:11.280 will so there's always something that you can get away and take from it so thanks for having me on

01:26:16.480 thanks for calling in where are you calling out of uh it looks like uh wait let me guess

01:26:22.000 you look like a midwesterner you are absolutely correct yeah uh michigan specifically i was

01:26:30.520 gonna say wisconsin that was gonna be my guess i'm close wisconsin that's the homeland where

01:26:36.100 i'm from originally so i can i can hear it in the air you know we say i know so wisconsin

01:26:43.660 awesome so um um what is the worst thing you're expected to put up with as a man

01:26:51.560 Oh, my. I think that unlimited forbearance would be the answer to that. Men are fighters. Men are designed to go out there and get things done. But in this circumstance, it's unlimited forbearance.

01:27:07.080 You have to absolutely eat it for the sake of your kids, for the sake of your family, for the sake of your reputation, because it's a very delicate dance that what men have to deal with in dealing with these affairs.

01:27:23.500 As you found out, people are ready to see you at the drop of a hat or smear your name or reputation.

01:27:28.840 And unfortunately, anything that you do can put you in a situation or circumstance when you're under the microscope where you can lose your friends, your family, your freedom, your finances, and your future, just because somebody's upset with you or something went wrong.

01:27:53.740 so i think that's what men really face and it's an alien battleground we're not taught to be

01:28:01.060 uh to have unlimited patience and nor is it something that we as individuals expect to

01:28:07.440 happen and so that's where again your website and uh your podcasts those uh does yeoman's work

01:28:15.340 for people who are involved in something new and definitely dangerous what how long

01:28:23.720 ago was your divorce it was a long time ago it was uh 12 years ago and it was as ugly as it gets

01:28:30.840 and so um i take 100 responsibility for what happened because of course i'm the man i'm the

01:28:37.380 husband i'm the father and all that so i take full responsibility for what happened yeah if the

01:28:42.740 marriage breaks up and um because of you it's your fault if the marriage breaks up because of her

01:28:48.820 it's your fault correct that's that's exactly it you got it how many kids were in it oh three kids

01:28:58.320 and they've turned out beautifully so it worked out in the end but the issue was in doubt for

01:29:04.240 longest time yeah so have your have your kids noticed a difference between like the way men

01:29:10.960 and women are treated because i'm guessing you have some boys some girls very much so very much

01:29:17.080 So the, um, I had no, I thought I was in a good marriage.

01:29:21.160 I came home one day and oops, apparently not.

01:29:24.580 And so it went from, uh, not to get into the details of it, but, um, they, they kind of

01:29:32.900 grew up with it and they've definitely seen it.

01:29:35.080 But as children, um, they're protected somewhat by their innocence.

01:29:40.160 All they know is mommy said this or daddy said that.

01:29:43.460 So you try and minimize the variables and maximize the constants in that circumstance.

01:29:49.180 I was very blessed because at the time I was surrounded by good men who had been through this before.

01:29:56.080 So I got some pretty good guidance, but it was very expensive.

01:30:00.220 It took a long time.

01:30:01.600 And the issue was very much in doubt.

01:30:03.980 And that's terrifying because when you're a young man raising young children, you don't know how it's going to turn out.

01:30:10.300 And so you're very much in a position where you have to hope and pray that things go the way they can and the best way they can.

01:30:19.320 And there are moments when things are not going well.

01:30:23.740 She brought all the firepower she could.

01:30:26.480 And it was finally the judge who looked at her lawyer and brought up a similar case that was going on between two doctors who were fighting over a young child.

01:30:34.900 And that child turned 18 and ended up in prison.

01:30:37.640 and these lawyers don't they don't make money unless they promulgate fighting and I believe

01:30:44.720 it was your show a long time ago I saw that had a silver bullet program I think it was which was a

01:30:50.300 recipe for how they escalate fighting and that really resonated here because it sounded like

01:30:56.380 our story so how did your kids notice the difference between like how the way men are

01:31:03.800 treated and women are treated you said they've really noticed it there were a lot of interesting

01:31:09.260 examples with that um the mom was surrounded by all the neighborhood women who understood that

01:31:15.500 i was some terrible beast and all the harpies i call them all the harpies absolutely and of course

01:31:23.640 so they grew up in a home with all the toys and the trinkets and the pets and the friendly faces

01:31:30.820 who felt sorry for, I mean, that whole mess.

01:31:35.420 Whereas over here, they saw dad going to work,

01:31:38.260 putting the food on the table,

01:31:40.060 going to the grocery store at two in the morning

01:31:41.960 to make sure there was a successful lunch for school.

01:31:46.340 And the dichotomy between the households,

01:31:52.360 I think was where they saw it.

01:31:54.420 And later on, when they were called into court,

01:31:56.660 they saw that whole mess unfold.

01:31:59.060 so they saw a difference what the differences they saw where I can't detail because it's for

01:32:06.100 them to it's for them to to tell um and what about when you were young did you notice a difference

01:32:14.360 between the way men and women were treated it doesn't always have to be relationship could be

01:32:18.580 school work like when oh absolutely as a child of the 1980s I can uh affirm what one of your

01:32:24.960 previous callers had said you know we were brought up with it you're going to be the man of the

01:32:29.000 family you're going to be the sole breadwinner you're going to be the one who's going to raise

01:32:34.580 the family and take them where they need to go you're the one who will carry the family name

01:32:38.680 so it was the 1980s and yes there was the portents of the great war with another nation so you better

01:32:44.580 be ready for that too and you better have a good job etc etc so the expectations on men very

01:32:51.640 different um and of course that has changed over time so i can't speak to kids growing up nowadays

01:32:59.080 but there was an expectation to be a pillar of your community and carry on especially in wisconsin

01:33:05.720 it's cold there you don't have your act together you freeze to death yeah that's true um

01:33:12.260 did you notice it in school at all oh absolutely there were certain expectations whether it was

01:33:20.980 gym class or physics or whatever we were doing at the time then out of school there were expectations

01:33:27.360 as well and of course you know eat the pain carry on do whatever you have to do and so there was

01:33:35.560 definitely two different worlds growing up between men and women so to echo something else that what

01:33:43.600 uh the previous caller had spoken of um along the way uh there was a change a briefing that

01:33:53.460 i got which i would like to relay which uh i think is important um to the nature of your show if i

01:34:00.740 if i can permit you don't mind me going into that a little bit yeah good um what had happened

01:34:08.560 was my father was an instructor for USAFI, United States Armed Forces Institute. And a lot of the

01:34:16.500 classes they taught were predicated on the assumption that don't send a soldier, don't

01:34:23.200 send a bullet when you can send a dollar. And so USAFI was an organization which allowed for

01:34:29.080 American policy to be carried on overseas. And he was a learned man and a university professor

01:34:36.420 in economics and just a just a great man but he had said something to me years ago um that

01:34:45.700 affected a change in the united states now a previous caller had spoken of a conspiracy

01:34:52.660 well there was more to it than that um the statement that they carried was that the

01:35:02.020 helm of a ship the wheel that controls the rudder of the ship is a very small thing

01:35:06.420 But it controls the destiny of the ship.

01:35:07.960 Now, the helmsman who runs the wheel of the ship, he gets his orders from the officer of the deck.

01:35:12.540 The officer of the deck gets his orders from the navigator, who's authorized by the captain to issue course and steering orders.

01:35:21.880 And that captain has a ship's master who pays the freight on it.

01:35:26.820 And they report to the admiralty and they report to and so on and so on.

01:35:31.000 So indirect control is a methodology of controlling our society.

01:35:34.880 the united states as a democracy and as a republic has always been founded on the heart and the

01:35:43.380 engine of this country which is the american family and the middle class american family

01:35:50.000 are the people who vote they're the people who pay the bulk of the taxes they're the people who

01:35:55.620 maintain this country and its sovereignty there has been a plan in effect for a long time now

01:36:02.740 particularly since the assassination of John F. Kennedy, to affect a sequential series of systemic

01:36:09.460 attacks on that middle-class American family on all levels, from the education system to the

01:36:18.800 savings to the ability for the father to go to work and work one job and the mom to take care

01:36:25.440 of the kids and to the social responsibilities carried by that family. And so when we look at

01:36:34.820 the typical American middle class family in 1963, prior to the Kennedy assassination, as opposed

01:36:42.060 to now, you can see that there's been quite a considerable change. Our purchasing power began

01:36:50.600 changing in 1971 and today's work week which is in comparison to 1989 for instance the work week

01:37:00.780 i believe is done in three days or less and yet americans are not just working five days they're

01:37:07.040 bringing their work home with them and no longer does that one paycheck keep dad at home so there's

01:37:13.320 a lot of stresses on the family now in conducting actions for usafi if you want to take over a

01:37:20.600 society there are six seven elements of that society typically that you take over what's

01:37:27.180 the most important one the money's one we can't do all seven because we're we're that's right up

01:37:33.220 so do the top one okay the top one the media i believe is the top one and if you own the media

01:37:41.880 you can steer the narrative and so there's been a shift within the family which has resulted in

01:37:48.000 massive changes in the dynamic of the family and the divorce rate so yeah and and i i would say

01:37:56.220 it's all women's fault because women bought this feminism thing hook line and sinker and remember

01:38:03.060 women control the culture of the nation and they they control the social paradigms that the social

01:38:11.000 rules and they teach the children remember men just react to what women to the social rules that

01:38:19.820 men men react to the social rules that women create so yeah well it's been a long-term plan

01:38:29.500 of attack organized by um forces that have been going against this country for a long time

01:38:36.380 yep i agree i agree thanks for calling in okay tony calling anytime tremendous honor thank you

01:38:44.660 thank you for what you do you're a guiding light for a lot of folks so keep up the good work and

01:38:49.860 keep up the fight because it's important to keep that family together there's more at it than we

01:38:54.800 think about so thanks you know i will thanks so much tony take care

01:39:00.820 hey that is everyone cool guys we had so many great callers today

01:39:09.840 unless you you want our uh our friend dustin to call in he's waiting on the line you want

01:39:17.200 oh sure he can come in quick you guys make the show you know i really want to do more call-ins

01:39:25.900 So the more consistent callers we have, the better.

01:39:29.160 Dustin, how are you?

01:39:34.780 I'm so good.

01:39:36.100 How are you?

01:39:37.440 I'm good.

01:39:38.480 Do you know the topic today?

01:39:41.020 Yeah, it's what's the most or the worst thing men endure.

01:39:45.480 Yeah, that you're expected to put up with.

01:39:47.900 What you got for me?

01:39:50.800 Good.

01:39:51.480 Stepmoms.

01:39:55.900 Uh, what's, what's crazy is my, my real mom and my dad split cause my mom was, uh, you

01:40:05.320 know, some might call her a whore, but she, she had been around.

01:40:09.000 Okay.

01:40:09.740 And, um, I love my mom, but she actually kidnapped me and drove off with me.

01:40:17.820 So my dad had to fight a lot for custody.

01:40:21.120 and i think he was just so scared to be alone so he married it's terrible terrible well maybe

01:40:30.380 she's all right now but she was real mean she's a real pretty woman though and he married her and

01:40:36.580 then that kind of just inflamed the the relationships between my dad me and my real mom

01:40:47.080 and uh it caused just a it was pretty much like 15 years it's just terrible

01:40:52.960 like my stepmom would uh my real mom would call me and my stepmom would pick the phone and hang

01:40:59.780 up and say like i'd be like oh did my mom call and she'd be like no wasn't her and uh she did

01:41:06.720 that so i i thought my mom's like uh i didn't i care about me for a while and my stepmom just uh

01:41:15.000 she just tried to like replace every part of my dad's life that had me in it and um because she

01:41:22.300 didn't she wouldn't like you probably took attention away i thought you meant when you

01:41:25.900 called in at first i thought you meant stepmoms like dating in terms of like oh those two you

01:41:30.800 know i'll tell you i think you're talking about like single mother like that that's what you're

01:41:35.560 talking about oh yeah i mean like right now i'm dealing with one and she she texts me all day

01:41:42.520 about stuff i don't care about she's like i just made breakfast i just did this i just did that and

01:41:46.960 i was like like if think if a guy texted you that like hey just woke up you'd be like what's

01:41:52.880 what's fucking wrong with you you know do i have a job she has a job she just texted me while she's

01:41:59.480 doing it so i it's like it's it's a girl job you know we're getting a lot of supers today um and

01:42:08.760 what did um i'm gonna read it in a second guys but what what about when um you were young did

01:42:13.980 you see any differences like in school i know you did dustin what i just know it um and did

01:42:20.280 you see any differences between like how the men and women were treated in class yeah i'll actually

01:42:26.320 tell you the first time i got detention so i had a crush on this girl named lauren and we were given

01:42:33.520 a ruler and we were told to go measure things around the room and i had a friend named chad

01:42:40.080 chad dunkelberger who had a lisp and uh i said hey chad let's go measure lauren's butt

01:42:47.280 and he thought that was a great idea and it was part of the test so i went and i measured lauren's

01:42:52.160 butt fourth grade and i would uh i had to go explain to my dad later that day why i had

01:42:59.200 detention for measuring a girl's ass i was thinking back then i just got detention but now

01:43:09.440 you know like it would be a whole thing yeah it'd be much more than and so what did a woman

01:43:15.920 do the same thing and not get in trouble or what was no like are you just still salty about the

01:43:21.920 detention or because i also that that year i bought lauren a frog for valentine's day

01:43:28.280 and when i gave it to her she was like i'm sorry justin i'm lactose intolerant so i just never

01:43:34.720 forgot her you know my little heart was crushed oh i'm very sorry to hear that dustin yeah well

01:43:42.160 that um like you know sneaking out of class to go kiss girls back in like middle school maybe

01:43:51.900 like i remember we'd all like hide behind the buses and like you know try to try to get a

01:43:58.640 little freak on and you know nowadays you find that and the teachers are gonna they're gonna

01:44:06.240 snitch on you until you're doing something wrong and then we're talking about does the teachers

01:44:12.540 are gonna be taking their freaking male student behind the buses now have you seen all that

01:44:18.480 craziness oh that was funny i mean none of them are like dimes but you know i'm hey dude i'm down

01:44:26.160 i'm always down dustin's gonna get a job at the at the school he's like hey

01:44:31.120 so dustin picks up he's gonna work in the cafeteria just to be close to the

01:44:37.580 he's like hey hey i'm they'll go for the male student you'll be like hey i'm legal we can

01:44:44.000 let me save you a case so um okay i think you keep talking about like discrepancies or um maybe

01:44:56.040 what things you're jaded about from the school but i'm not hearing the men versus the women

01:45:01.440 i'm just hearing about owls you took as a kid sorry when it comes to men versus women i'll say

01:45:08.800 like when my dad when my mom had kidnapped me and there was like that court case yeah my dad

01:45:15.620 got like 50 50 cuss he actually got sole custody like right away and i will say like the court

01:45:24.140 it took he had to put a lot of effort in and he actually had to show up to the judges

01:45:29.820 like quarters um he didn't even he didn't like go through normal processes he just like he just

01:45:36.640 showed up there he said where's my son and he invented he ended up getting sole custody and

01:45:42.920 nowadays like my uh my ex she just like woke up on the wrong side of the bed and just took the

01:45:53.960 kid and left and for me to get custody like i tried to show up at the judge's place but i actually had

01:46:00.320 the judge say do i need to call the cops he wouldn't hear anything and it took me i had to

01:46:06.280 be very aggressive in filing my motions and there was like no there was no help for me um what

01:46:12.620 actually did help me pearl was an interview you did with a guy named james uh for men's rights

01:46:18.100 and resources and i don't know if you're do you remember that interview you did um i'm not great

01:46:25.020 with names but i i know like stories and faces pretty well so if you if you talk about head

01:46:31.780 he's real crazy from seattle he worked for mckinley irvin for a little bit oh he's he i think i know

01:46:37.440 who you're talking about i think his interview got wiped sadly when we had to clear it probably

01:46:42.380 did because okay i mean i will say dude he's he is crazy but uh like when i when i when i called

01:46:50.180 him i said like he i'll never forget what he said to me is i said you know like she's a good woman

01:46:57.640 but i think she's just like i don't know what i just think she's like she's obviously fucking

01:47:03.600 crazy but he was like she's not a good woman dustin she took your kid and she's withholding

01:47:08.240 your kid from you and that made me really think like like women nowadays are there they are like

01:47:16.520 i do think like a large portion of them are evil because they know that they have they don't need

01:47:22.420 men in their corner because the state's in their corner and back when i was young the state wasn't

01:47:27.940 always like maybe it was seven times out of ten the state's gonna take the mom's side now it's

01:47:34.380 like nine times out of ten there's more there's more female judges every year too oh that's yeah

01:47:40.500 and then the trads want to say i don't the trads want to say it's going to get better i'm like when

01:47:44.900 the mother of your child says why aren't you fighting for your kids harder when they're the

01:47:51.620 person creating the fight for your kids i understand what i'm saying yeah because they'll

01:47:56.980 those evil things that women do they'll say why aren't you fighting for your kids or why didn't

01:48:01.780 you fight harder but there shouldn't be a fight like you're she's creating the fight

01:48:06.920 and then she's shaming you for not fighting and it's costing you time money resources it's insane

01:48:13.100 that's so true you're so right like uh because if you don't fight because a woman's mind is i took

01:48:20.980 the kid if he wants time with them he can he he has the resources to get that time but if you're

01:48:28.560 like i don't have the resources like if i didn't take the time to learn how to file motions and

01:48:34.240 learn the law i would i would have had to sell my house and i would have had a lawyer that just

01:48:39.140 wanted to go to trial and then cost me another 50 grand and i might not even get my kid but um

01:48:46.080 like a lot of guys don't have those resources and women if let's say i didn't have my kid

01:48:51.680 she would be telling my daughter now your dad just didn't care and i'd be like oh it's so sad

01:48:57.640 it really is sad yeah yeah so sad i'm glad the interview helped you though that's always good

01:49:03.500 to hear that you actually oh it helped me so much yeah yeah i thought because i took her lawyer to

01:49:10.220 court and in when i was in the hearing i said uh i said like i said this lawyer took an oath

01:49:19.520 to always tell the truth and if they're caught in a lie they need to admit it to you

01:49:23.560 and i caught a they fought a protective order against me saying that i was stalking her and

01:49:30.040 i showed with gps data and conveniently i had a dui so i had a blow-em-go on my car at the time

01:49:36.500 that said that my car was off so duis don't always fuck you and um i showed that to the judge i said

01:49:45.240 she lied she did an abusive litigation and she immediately went to settlement and i got almost

01:49:50.920 50 50 there now it took me another year to get a full 50 50 but um yeah your your interview saved

01:49:58.300 me a lot bro it really did well thanks that's great to hear uh now and now you you get to see

01:50:04.200 your daughter all the time daughter right yeah do you got 50 50 i mean i hope he stays that way

01:50:09.440 you never know these days oh yeah don't let her see the live stream if she sees you do live in

01:50:13.580 portland yeah so the odds are stacked against you yeah for now well good luck out there

01:50:22.460 dustin thanks for calling in okay yeah thanks i'm gonna read this super chat um

01:50:29.100 um men have to enjoy the suck never get married guys says steve m um channel d great format you're

01:50:37.020 awesome i will check you out on the other platform i use float plane for other podcasts so um with

01:50:42.380 wide people need to diversify i enjoyed the what color palette in my street i filmed that so long

01:50:49.660 ago but i've had it in the queue forever and i was like f it it was for the vlog channel but i was

01:50:55.840 Like, I'll just throw it on there.

01:50:57.140 If they like it, they like it.

01:50:58.520 If not, whatever.

01:51:01.900 So I'm glad someone liked it.

01:51:03.340 I wasn't sure because I'm like, do a bunch of guys care about the callers?

01:51:06.760 I don't know.

01:51:09.400 But Doug MPA, you got any final thoughts today?

01:51:12.920 We had a lot of callers.

01:51:13.920 This is great.

01:51:15.140 Yeah, a lot of good ones, too.

01:51:16.960 Yeah.

01:51:17.780 Thank you for calling in, guys.

01:51:19.060 And thank you for all the people in the YouTube chat.

01:51:22.060 Thank you for people that finally found the Ozdacity chat.

01:51:24.880 i really appreciate that um guys um i say one of the best okay feminism has freed women up

01:51:34.640 for their traditional duties of being barefoot and pregnant but in the kitchen but it's also

01:51:40.440 freed men up from their traditional responsibilities too guys um you don't have to just be a pack mule

01:51:48.420 for society and for a woman anymore now you do owe it to yourself to be as productive as possible

01:51:54.080 but you don't have to do it for a woman and so um you don't have to do anything anymore guys

01:52:01.220 women ruin that so don't just endure you don't have to do that anymore we used to do that was

01:52:10.440 the masculine thing to do is the right thing to do but women call that patriarchy so guys don't

01:52:16.400 just endure for some woman don't endure for society if you choose to that's fine but there's

01:52:22.200 no such thing as as doing the right thing anymore don't let them shame you don't let them insult you

01:52:28.100 don't let them guilt you and all these women have that need to be right yeah just make sure you put

01:52:33.000 yourself guys remember when men win everyone wins and when women win they win for themselves

01:52:38.020 um jason says the worst thing men can endure is warm beer let me see if anything else and by the

01:52:46.620 way guys so right now we have the school group and the website um the school group is it's based

01:52:57.440 it's the learning community and the website um that's where you can if you don't want to super

01:53:03.380 chat every show it's 10 bucks a month 100 bucks a year that's you can sign up you also get to see

01:53:07.700 all my old content on there um eventually when we raise enough money for this documentary um that's

01:53:13.960 where it'll go um but yeah that's that's the difference between the school group and the

01:53:19.460 website doug mpa um do you got any other final thoughts you wanted to put out there any other

01:53:25.680 announcements we got to tell them uh no just make sure to check for any more super chats

01:53:31.240 yeah i think i got them all are they oh give this to doug mpa for all the great work he does

01:53:40.420 you can put this on your invoice for the month, Doug MPA. Thank you, Channel D. I appreciate it,

01:53:45.800 buddy. All right. Well, thanks. Thanks so much for watching, everybody. And thanks for calling in.

01:53:51.540 Really, the more we can get personal stories on the show and people calling in telling me

01:53:56.840 there's no better journalist than what you guys have seen with your own eyes.

01:54:01.560 The way people in the media manipulates you is they want you to not trust what you've seen with

01:54:07.680 your eyes. And what I've found is if there's ever a trend coming, I can predict it oftentimes before

01:54:14.940 the news does because of the firsthand accounts. And it really makes the show better and more

01:54:21.120 interesting because there are some things I don't see, perspectives I don't know, and I really love

01:54:25.860 bringing people on to see what's going on out there. Doug MPA, thank you so much for watching

01:54:32.820 or for coming on thank you so much for watching everybody if you can check out the school group

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01:55:02.820 Thank you.

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