Pearl - October 09, 2026


“Man Explains Why EVERY Relationship Is Transactional” @JustPearlyThings

Mentioned
Brian
Female Misandry Is Completely NORMALIZED Online

Episode Stats


Length

2 minutes

Words per minute

187.03

Word count

496

Sentence count

40

Harmful content

Misogyny

5

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Toxicity

3

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Hate speech

5

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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 So my two questions are, why do you want to generalize an entire group of people in women, number one? 0.95
00:00:05.720 And number two, why should we listen to somebody like you who had a failed marriage? 0.99
00:00:09.660 You failed at it.
00:00:10.840 Why should we listen to people like you?
00:00:13.300 Some of the most successful people have been successful because they failed.
00:00:18.520 They learned, and they were able to take those failures into their new endeavors, their new business, their new relationships.
00:00:26.020 And they were successful.
00:00:27.880 So they learned.
00:00:29.380 And just because you failed doesn't mean you didn't gather information.
00:00:32.600 So what I did was gather information.
00:00:34.940 I didn't tell men to get married based on my personal relationship.
00:00:38.380 I told them on the aspects of what happens after that, how it becomes business and transactional.
00:00:44.540 In your experience.
00:00:45.440 No, no, no.
00:00:45.700 Let him finish.
00:00:46.500 In general, what happens.
00:00:47.460 He always interrupts this dude.
00:00:49.540 It becomes transactional on all levels.
00:00:52.860 Now, this is what people misinterpret because when you make an assumptions, you know what they say.
00:00:57.880 You made a lot of generalizations as assumptions of me.
00:01:00.240 And you don't?
00:01:01.340 I've never made any generalizations about you at all.
00:01:04.020 About women.
00:01:04.360 I'm going to say this. 1.00
00:01:04.940 I don't at all.
00:01:06.240 What?
00:01:06.880 Be mindful.
00:01:07.560 Let him finish his thought.
00:01:08.180 I want you to.
00:01:09.240 Look at your tweets.
00:01:10.200 You make generalizations about all women.
00:01:11.980 What are you talking about?
00:01:13.060 Hold on, Brian.
00:01:13.540 Let him finish his thought.
00:01:14.640 You're okay.
00:01:14.800 It'll be all right.
00:01:15.320 Listen, I think something's transactional.
00:01:17.420 It doesn't just imply money, okay?
00:01:20.420 And this is where people have a problem with what I'm saying.
00:01:23.560 everything you do requires some sort of energy input and output so most of the time if a person 1.00
00:01:30.920 doesn't want to be used by a whore which whores are valuable I have no problems with whores 1.00
00:01:35.060 all right they're valuable to the ecosystem just as good women are all right but what happens is 1.00
00:01:41.140 people assume that I'm talking about money only but I have a thing that I tell people protect 0.59
00:01:47.000 your meat your money energy attention and time and one thing I want to hone in to what you said
00:01:52.360 just maybe if you might be enlightened i don't know if your ego can handle this you said you
00:01:59.420 don't want women to use you for your money you want to spend time with women if you say spend
00:02:07.840 that implies transaction so now you've taken money in the absence of money and you say spend 0.78
00:02:14.460 time time most of the time most people trade time for money in the absence that they don't have
00:02:21.000 money so they go get a job i don't have money what do they trade time that's a transaction
00:02:27.320 and people who don't want to be used for money most likely are going to over leverage time
00:02:32.800 that replies that implies that that is a transaction now you might disagree with that and that's fine