Pearl - January 09, 2025


Many Women Get Married, But That Doesn't Mean They Are A Wife ｜ Pearl Shorts


Episode Stats

Length

1 minute

Words per Minute

173.84674

Word Count

304

Sentence Count

26

Misogynist Sentences

8

Hate Speech Sentences

4


Summary

Summaries generated with gmurro/bart-large-finetuned-filtered-spotify-podcast-summ .

Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 There is a difference between being married and being a wife. Many women get married, but that 1.00
00:00:06.060 doesn't necessarily mean they're a wife. Femininity at its core is being selfless. It is thinking 1.00
00:00:13.720 about others before yourself. The most feminine woman I met in my year of shows, she comes on the 0.96
00:00:20.540 show and she just starts like baking in my kitchen. And at first you think, what is this woman doing 1.00
00:00:26.080 just baking in my kitchen. But she saw that I was really stressed out because we had a ton of
00:00:31.080 people there. And she just figured that people would be hungry and anticipated it. No one had
00:00:36.760 to tell her. And she made the best dessert. Oh my gosh, these desserts were so good.
00:00:41.480 And I thought to myself, that is a prime example of femininity. She wasn't even married. She was 1.00
00:00:48.920 divorced. She wasn't married. But it taught me that there is a difference between being married
00:00:55.640 and being a wife. Many women get married, but that doesn't necessarily mean they're a wife. 1.00
00:01:02.120 And that's actually something that she said to me. So what is a wife? A wife means being a support
00:01:08.060 system to a man. A wife means thinking of others before yourself. Many women sign up for this role 0.98
00:01:15.440 and are not prepared for what it entails.
00:01:19.540 It means eating his food every day instead of yours.
00:01:23.400 It means living where he wants to live 0.75
00:01:25.540 instead of where you want to live.
00:01:27.560 It means getting married on his timeline, not yours.
00:01:31.240 Remember, the most feminine woman I met
00:01:33.940 out of a thousand women 0.88
00:01:35.120 was a divorced, unmarried woman in a relationship,
00:01:37.860 but she had that aura that makes you feel at home.
00:01:41.300 And that's how I learned there's a difference
00:01:42.960 between being married and being a wife.