Pearl - Meet The Moms Who Hate Work

00:00:00.000 life has never been easier to be a woman ever in history and women will still complain 1.00

00:00:03.920 what up guys welcome to my reaction series today we are reacting to working moms being tired so 0.99

00:00:09.860 women want to be whores and we want to be whores to no expense you know what i mean like we just 0.98

00:00:15.240 love whoring it out and the issue with us being whores is that um we make it everyone else's 0.99

00:00:21.160 problem the kids is problem the ex-husband's problem but we're not really good at thinking 0.89

00:00:25.360 things through. So we whore out and then, you know, we don't realize that whoring is actually 0.96

00:00:30.960 kind of expensive and we can't afford it. So these single mothers are going to talk about how 1.00

00:00:35.600 maybe they shouldn't have whored so hard. Okay. I'm going to make this quick because I have to 0.99

00:00:40.200 go into a meeting. I have three meetings today. I have been in the corporate life for almost half

00:00:44.520 my life. For context, I'm 40 years old. I have two children who are 11 and seven. And I fell for it.

00:00:51.160 I fell for this this thing where you know go to college get your degree um you know if you want

00:00:58.780 I fell for it it's never I made the wrong choice um I knew what I was doing I thought I could do

00:01:04.900 better and I couldn't it's always I fell for a trick I have kids you can do it all you can have

00:01:10.240 a career you can have kids you can just do do everything well I don't I don't want to do 0.99

00:01:15.740 everything I don't I don't want to do that anymore I fell for that shit do not fall for it 1.00

00:01:20.280 do not fall for that shit i want to take my kids to school i want to pick them up from school 0.99

00:01:26.920 i want to be there when they get home i want to chaperone for them volunteer at school 1.00

00:01:34.340 i just want to go to the gym clean my house do laundry go to the grocery store and just be home 0.99

00:01:40.580 so do me a favor do not fall for that shit because it is not worth it it's a it's not as 0.99

00:01:48.760 as she thinks she's probably just inefficient that's my opinion um usually women that complain 1.00

00:01:53.240 and cry on the internet they're just kind of lazy joke you know so or they're crashing out sometimes

00:01:58.360 you have a crash out you know what i mean all right here we go just as exhausted as i look

00:02:04.520 i work full time and i have two kids the jump from one to two was already a lot survived my

00:02:12.440 daughter is 18 months my oldest is seven and you know I thought we were entering like this golden 1.00

00:02:18.820 phase where I was going to be able to sleep well my oldest is now waking up multiple times at night

00:02:23.900 because she's afraid of strangers which is fine you know I want to be there to help her but it's

00:02:29.000 not any less frustrating but it's exhausting like race race race in the morning and then no time to

00:02:36.900 chill and then straight into work and then straight into kids and i feel like so many people

00:02:44.100 make it look so easy and i just it's not i don't know how like am i just weak or yeah you are weak

00:02:51.860 and that's the thing as women we are all weak we're not as good or as strong as men so you should 0.96

00:02:56.580 probably just give you know i'm going to say this to the working moms complaining i don't want to 1.00

00:03:00.100 hear it give custody to the fathers give custody to the dads and let the dads make a hundred percent

00:03:05.700 of the decisions oh you don't want to do that well then i don't want to hear it i don't want

00:03:09.300 to hear a single thing it's just it's everything just a highlight reel of the good times because

00:03:14.100 our house is a show 80 of the time you know someone's screaming someone's crying someone's

00:03:19.460 hitting someone and i just i know it's just our title is skinny fit chick you're not season but

00:03:25.300 it's a hard season and it's just i think social media gives us this false perception of you know

00:03:34.340 what reality really she's for sale okay let's see is there mom of two glow up era what is it her

00:03:40.820 other stuff is like changing your heart posture and becoming a less contentious wife it will 1.00

00:03:45.380 change your entire marriage i have been with my husband for almost 22 years bruh okay poor guy

00:03:53.460 poor husband oh my god the kids are probably like mom's crying on the internet again 0.71

00:03:57.940 i swear no one really talks about how depressing like the loop of a working mom is and what i mean

00:04:06.400 by the loop is it's like you work you come home cook dinner clean serve dinner they're bored

00:04:13.400 they're bored that's like really the problem they're bored eat dinner with your kids try to

00:04:20.100 find time to play bedtime routine but it's like there's not enough hours in the day like by the

00:04:26.260 time i finished cooking dinner we eat dinner together clean up for dinner like we have like 0.99

00:04:31.060 a little bit to play and then my kids are on a schedule so they start losing their shit when 0.98

00:04:36.260 like bedtime like their bedtime routine time looks like coming around they want to take their baths 0.99

00:04:42.420 they want to you know go to bed and read a bedtime story you know like they know their routine their

00:04:48.900 bodies know so they start getting crazy around that time but then i feel like oh my god like i

00:04:54.340 just got home and i'm about to put you guys to sleep already like and i get home at a good time

00:05:00.100 and but still it's just like the time passes by so fast and i get so frustrated because at work

00:05:07.520 you have people telling you like oh like enjoy it like they're only kids once and it's like i know

00:05:12.780 that i know they're only kids once and you try to enjoy this time and it's also like you're also

00:05:16.860 tired from working all day you know and i'm a nurse i'm a unit manager and it's a lot like

00:05:23.820 how many families need me during the day how many residents need me during the day like at the end

00:05:28.600 of the day sometimes like at the end of my shift I'm tapped out because like it's exhausting we

00:05:35.960 needed all day like all day and then you you know on the car ride home you're like okay like my

00:05:42.200 babies haven't seen me all day you know pick up my daughter from school like you know they haven't

00:05:47.040 like I know they miss me and it's like I'm trying to enjoy this time because like everyone keeps

00:05:52.040 telling me they're only little ones and i i realized it because i freaking blinked and my

00:05:56.920 six-year-old is going to be seven this year my one-year-old is going to be two yeah women are 1.00

00:06:01.100 just always complaining okay next i need you to complain in a more interesting way ladies 0.82

00:06:06.260 and their moms like i just she's not complaining about being beat it's just oh working is hard

00:06:11.260 well women have always worked so worked nine to five thirty i guarantee your nursing or hr job 1.00

00:06:19.280 is easier than the farming they did back in the day drove home in traffic pulled up in my driveway

00:06:25.360 and i just need like two minutes in my car before i take off work hat and put on mom hat and literally 0.93

00:06:35.140 start a whole second shift for the night don't get me here's the thing men get joy from their

00:06:40.680 children so they're like excited to go home they're like this is great but women don't like 1.00

00:06:44.720 their kids so they view it as a chore wrong i miss my babies all day but man mama's tired 0.97

00:06:50.960 so we just sit enjoy the silence all right let's see who's next case i have only had one day off

00:06:58.380 of work i'm tired mentally physically what is the point of this post i am so awesome i work so hard

00:07:06.100 blah blah blah i'm just i'm burnt out it is 3 30 in the morning crazy men don't like work in oil

00:07:12.720 rig come home to their family and they won't complain at all or like truck you know laborious

00:07:17.740 hard job and women will have like these easy jobs and then complain about being a working mom and i 1.00

00:07:22.960 am getting ready to head off to work at the sheriff's office and if you're new here my name

00:07:26.860 is jamie you're a fat cop oh no i'm a single mom to four and i work four jobs my full time give 0.96

00:07:33.160 your kids to the father you're not a job you can't take care of yourself you need to give the kids to 0.98

00:07:38.400 dad learn to cook learn some nutrition and then maybe go back to the drawing board and then maybe

00:07:44.160 after like two years of fixing yourself you can come back a 911 maybe see them a few days a week

00:07:50.560 also a content creator and my two part-time jobs i waitress being tired is an understatement the

00:07:57.360 way i feel some days i wouldn't wish on my worst enemy some days like i feel like i got so much

00:08:05.440 going on in my head and then some days i just feel blank like i'm just a body and i'm just

00:08:10.960 showing up i'm literally living one day at a time step by step day by day that's how i live my life

00:08:18.080 i'm literally just like just get through this day jamie tell you i need to i get if you can't handle

00:08:23.440 the kids give up to the dad he'll probably do it better and i will do it better the only mom that's

00:08:28.160 actually confused at how her own mom was able to do this how were you able to think mothers um 0.87

00:08:33.440 boomer mothers didn't really like their daughters that much they didn't pass on any knowledge right 1.00

00:08:38.240 and so or spend a lot of time um teaching kids how to do things they gave the kids to the school 0.98

00:08:43.680 system because they were too lazy to do it themselves and now we have retarded children 0.98

00:08:47.360 that are now adults and now you see millennial people um like learning how to do adulting and 0.82

00:08:52.800 it's because the parents didn't teach them anything wake up get yourself dressed get me ready

00:08:57.440 take me to daycare or school go to work work a full shift get off pick me up take me home make

00:09:02.720 make sure I was fed, make sure I was bathed, put me to bed, wake up and do it all over again.

00:09:06.980 For years and years and years, like I'm just not seeing it. And my mom was so serious about going

00:09:11.320 to work. And if I was sick, I had to go to school for at least half a day. Okay. Cause I am not

00:09:15.540 messing up my attendance and she has got to go to work. I was that girl that had perfect

00:09:18.760 attendance every year, every year, but I'm tired. I don't know if I can do this. Like how am I

00:09:22.860 supposed to have the energy to do all of this? Where do I find the patience? Do you find time

00:09:27.280 to clean cook keep the house together time for yourself there is the balance i'm not seeing it

00:09:33.920 i'm not seeing the work-life balance i'm not seeing there is not enough hours in a day to

00:09:38.080 do all this it's not enough hours in a day math is still not math into me i don't know i'm a

00:09:42.560 millennial mom i don't think this is yeah again i mean this is just water is wet the sky is blue

00:09:47.680 women complain about doing minimal work okay life has never been easier to be a woman ever in history 1.00

00:09:53.280 and women will still complain. You can be a mother with the father. You can be by yourself. 0.98

00:09:57.700 You can get a stepdaddy to take care of that kid for you. You can filter out thousands of people

00:10:03.560 on Hinge and Tinder, and it's like you still can't figure it out. We're just the queens of

00:10:08.460 taking L's. So anyways. All right, guys, let me know what you think in the comments. If you could

00:10:12.220 like the video and subscribe to the channel, I would really appreciate it. And I will see you next time.

Pearl - March 18, 2026

Meet The Moms Who Hate Work

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