Pearl - October 22, 2026


Men Are Getting CHEATED ON, LIED TO, and DRAINED

Mentioned
Caleb Hammer Tim Goey Fushigi Sarah
“Marriage Used to Be a PRIVILEGE… Now Everyone Thinks It's a RIGHT” @JustPearlyThings “BETA MALES Are the BIGGEST SIMPS… And They're RUINING Everything” @NickJFuentes @JustPearlyThings

Episode Stats


Length

12 minutes

Words per minute

188.08

Word count

2,297

Sentence count

64

Harmful content

Misogyny

12

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Toxicity

17

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Hate speech

30

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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 you have stolen from your disabled mother that you've used as a crutch you use therapy talk and 0.91
00:00:04.140 manipulate him on staying you're not perfect not even close yeah but the way you treat this man 0.64
00:00:09.340 working and the reasons you want him to leave his job for are and you won't let him talk
00:00:13.480 all you can hear is the insecurity are you listening to the fact that he mows the owner
00:00:22.700 of the company's lawn he's paid extra for it no he doesn't he told me he did i don't i get paid to
00:00:29.120 do it no you've gotten paid one time to do a wedding that we did together either way
00:00:35.220 guess what i like people that go above and beyond because it will pay off at some point
00:00:41.460 to go to your house and fix up your home that's not what i'm asking for specifically but i want
00:00:46.800 people to go above and beyond then they're going to go above and beyond my employer asked me to go
00:00:50.300 in the owner's wife do her company that's not your job see it went back to the wife you see
00:00:57.360 does she think it's her place you know i did that it went back to the woman this is how is that his
00:01:02.640 job yeah and i also made a boundary after that first time to where i would not do it say something 0.82
00:01:07.840 because i was just doing what i was told by my employer i told you i would you just nazi you're 0.97
00:01:14.720 crazy you're just doing what you're told i'm not gonna go kill nobody you're told me to go somebody 0.97
00:01:20.720 i'm not gonna go somebody i'm just doing what oh she will no i will not that's why i talked to him 0.98
00:01:26.880 when i flirted with another man two weeks later what do you mean two weeks later you started
00:01:32.880 flirting with him and told me two weeks later jim yeah you have a gym no you're gonna have a
00:01:37.840 comeback so i'm gonna get you a gym for two bucks um we're not getting divorced well that's not your
00:01:45.840 choice do you have any coping you're gonna do therapy or not and then he can sue you and then
00:01:51.360 maybe i'll pay for it because we're not getting you don't have any pets together right we made a
00:01:56.720 promise to god we saw that one earlier that's so funny donald's it's 18 to 21 dollars an hour
00:02:02.000 starting wage there i'm not gonna apply for mcdonald's because we just found out about two
00:02:07.120 weeks ago the kid's not mine so why should i oh my god i shouldn't laugh at that we've been together
00:02:14.320 eight years eight years the kid's five how'd you find out five years later i bought a paternity
00:02:20.080 test and ended up taking it and she didn't tell me that she had cheated on me so why would i step up
00:02:25.520 Now, if it's not my kid, if it's not my kid or anything, I should be away, shouldn't I?
00:02:30.740 I genuinely am only there because I love her, and I feel bad walking out.
00:02:35.340 No, white men, you are not beating the simp allegations, man.
00:02:39.120 Out of the kid's life, I've been the only person he knows as a father for five years. 0.96
00:02:43.920 White men, I need you to do the wrong thing. I need you guys to do the wrong thing. 0.99
00:02:47.680 Did you tell the other guy?
00:02:48.860 No.
00:02:49.560 Can we call him in the post-show?
00:02:50.680 Yeah, we can try. I haven't talked to him in years.
00:02:53.120 Get a little Maury up in here.
00:02:54.280 drop a client because oh my gosh okay the next one husband blames pregnant wife for not working
00:03:01.400 enough i was pregnant i've had to drop a client because i was pregnant that's not what you said
00:03:06.900 when you first got pregnant so i had to drop one of my clients because of it i did work i worked
00:03:12.080 up until the week prior my c-section no one's saying you have don't have to you you you could
00:03:17.540 have worked until one month before but if you would have maintained those two clients throughout
00:03:20.520 the pregnancy we wouldn't be in the situation right man i kind of like him yeah he's again
00:03:26.820 women being pregnant is not comedian women used to um women used to work on farms you can what
00:03:36.100 is she a hairdresser man all right we'll send you right now wait we don't have time for that though 0.75
00:03:41.780 oh yeah why don't we if he goes and gets tested she's going all around no you should go because
00:03:47.100 if you test negative for everything she got it from someone else can we send him to baylor scott
00:03:50.740 and white and pay for an std panel let's get the data and we'll put it at the end of the post show 0.95
00:03:54.780 are you willing to do what are you doing because that'll answer once i thought black guys would 0.50
00:03:58.680 only do that for all if you were the cheater or she was we'll send you right now wait we don't
00:04:02.300 have time for that though oh yeah why don't we have time no i'm being honest you guys drove here 0.91
00:04:06.560 honest she works i have to be at work tomorrow tomorrow it's fucking 1 p.m look at 3 p.m dude 0.86
00:04:13.500 dude it's three hours north do you know how long it takes to drive back it took us three hours to 0.98
00:04:17.640 get here we have a toddler okay five hours still five hours five o'clock in the morning 0.70
00:04:22.240 i'm sorry it is what no no shut up women gaslight everything to avoid the reality is it is 1 p.m
00:04:30.500 it will take him 30 minutes at urgent care 30 minutes that will not make or break your day 0.57
00:04:34.920 okay there we go so it's decided but i don't want to be late it's 30 minutes 30 minutes 30 minutes
00:04:43.340 30 we're gonna send it to the nearest urgent care and pay for it didn't i already say okay
00:04:47.660 but i'm just saying i don't want to be late that's it that's it that's all i care about
00:04:50.600 is being late to work she can stay here with the kid and he goes right in the green room
00:04:54.100 that's fine yes totally good boom decided agreed yes boom we're paying for urgent care done
00:04:59.680 and we'll put it right here i wasn't yeah okay yes they didn't have anything besides
00:05:08.380 chlamydia negative whoa okay negative chlamydia
00:05:13.580 i'm sarah that's a women women cheat and then blame it on the guy here we go i'm 28 years old
00:05:20.660 i'm james i'm 28 i'm from glenwood arkansas glenwood as well by any chance yes okay good 0.79
00:05:26.500 because you just kind of said you no we both are well thanks for coming on guys thanks for coming
00:05:32.180 down to austin i really appreciate it sir you're the one right in front of me so let's start with
00:05:35.960 what do you do for living in glenwood i work in hot springs but i work at subway it's a 45 minute
00:05:43.480 drive do you work well what is hot springs i i thought you were working at a place that was
00:05:50.120 a hot springs springs is the town oh okay i didn't need to know that but that's fine you work at a
00:05:55.480 subway an artist a sandwich artist they say yes man man that is one of the most these are they're
00:06:04.440 shot yeah she can learn to make me she makes his comments all the time oh you're a big commenter
00:06:12.280 i see it okay very good yeah okay sure what do you do there i do a little bit of everything what's
00:06:19.800 your job my job is service i turn around and i will make sandwiches you're a sandwich artist
00:06:26.440 perfect what do you make a lot of times it's the like the 12 inch foot long or it's or i just
00:06:34.440 Or I just make drinks.
00:06:36.140 What are you laughing about? 1.00
00:06:37.580 Oh, I'm just making a blonde joke. 0.89
00:06:39.480 He makes his blonde jokes all the time. 0.93
00:06:41.600 Is that what he makes? 0.93
00:06:42.760 You actually don't understand what I asked.
00:06:45.900 No, she don't.
00:06:47.360 No, what do you think I asked?
00:06:48.440 No, what? 1.00
00:06:49.140 You're asking what she makes an hour.
00:06:50.720 Okay.
00:06:51.480 An hour is $11 an hour. 0.98
00:06:54.180 Sick. 0.88
00:06:54.660 How many hours a week do you work? 0.80
00:06:57.780 Hi, I'm Tim Goey, and this is Fushigi.
00:07:00.620 That just depends.
00:07:01.760 Okay, tell me typical.
00:07:03.100 Cool. I'll handle this. Thank you. I will work sometimes. It'll be my full shift where I work
00:07:11.580 like 11 to 7 or something. Okay. How often does your paycheck hit? Is it weekly? Is it bi-weekly?
00:07:17.620 Is it monthly? Bi-weekly. Perfect. What is the average amount that hits your account?
00:07:22.820 Sometimes. Average. Average. I would say probably about $2, $2.50. Every other week you make $200.
00:07:33.100 no no no that's a question she not understand yes no and no no every other week i'm no oh hold on
00:07:41.280 okay when you get paid which is every other week right the paycheck that hits your account is two
00:07:48.040 hundred dollars yes can you put her outside of the room real quick and just close the door
00:07:52.080 and okay you get out there sarah i need to know right now 100 in every legal and medical way
00:08:01.140 possible is she mentally because how i approach this conversation is different whether or not she
00:08:08.360 is a special needs individual is she a special needs individual does she have not to my knowledge
00:08:13.860 i just know she's okay what the is happening right now dude we are a couple minutes into
00:08:19.040 this conversation she cannot answer uh how much she makes and they only let her okay but they only 0.99
00:08:26.220 let her make two two hundred dollars every other week she hadn't gotten her first check yet what 0.91
00:08:30.220 How the f*** would she know? 1.00
00:08:31.420 Why didn't she tell me that? 0.99
00:08:32.860 So she's not mentally handicapped? 0.88
00:08:35.140 Man.
00:08:35.920 Well, no. 1.00
00:08:37.860 So I can bully her then?
00:08:39.780 If you want. 0.97
00:08:40.840 Because she's not mentally handicapped. 0.92
00:08:42.200 You're confirming. 0.80
00:08:42.960 Yeah.
00:08:43.740 Just don't go too hard on her.
00:08:46.060 Oh, I'm going to let you go hard on her, okay, buddy?
00:08:49.540 And I will just do my thing. 1.00
00:08:51.560 Okay, yeah, let's bring her in.
00:08:53.240 I guess she's a normal, fully cognizant person.
00:08:57.400 Oh, Sarah, welcome back.
00:08:59.240 my beautiful sarah i just wanted to you know get some clarity from our friend here um okay
00:09:05.900 okay very good very good how long have you been working at subway sarah oh it's not long
00:09:13.460 i just started the job and how long have you been working at subway sarah i'd say maybe
00:09:18.740 man you think you're gonna be making yeah man that girl's slow all right let's see uh
00:09:27.640 i really appreciate all of your help kindly yourself oh man fly river no no no don't worry
00:09:37.260 about her that's the best thing that could have ever happened we're not getting divorced
00:09:40.300 well that's not your choice you have any coping you're gonna do therapy i'm gonna do 200 or not
00:09:46.360 and then he can sue you and then maybe i'll pay for it because we're not getting you don't have
00:09:52.020 any pets together right we made a promise to god yeah and to ourselves can you take it
00:09:57.240 what do you have very i'm a great caretaker do you want it or are you gonna leave it with her
00:10:01.400 i'll leave it with her okay you're not leaving me we said wait wait oh my god he's pushing him to get
00:10:08.520 a divorce he's just asking questions no matter what oh man white guys he's just asking like this
00:10:15.320 is the hell on earth i thought before we walked in here man he is going to leave you and he is going 1.00
00:10:23.480 to live a good life without your crazy ass listen i've done your budget buddy i will read out the 0.99
00:10:29.800 categories because for you it's fine and unfortunately you're gonna need to like make 0.99
00:10:33.880 a little more money soon uh moving out or we can cut your rent man oh man okay i guess this is why
00:10:39.960 they got divorced job that's more important than our marriage it's not it's how i provide for our 0.99
00:10:46.120 marriage why don't you even look for better opportunities you're capped there marry your
00:10:51.400 your job how the does that even make sense yeah white guys you gotta start this is what i mean 1.00
00:10:56.560 white guys you gotta do the wrong thing divorce these bitches i don't know but it's not married 1.00
00:11:00.120 to me why don't you look there marry your job how the does that even make sense i don't know 1.00
00:11:06.860 but it's not married to me why don't you look into other things at all in general to build your
00:11:14.020 future his job again marriage is like making the man the slave is above all else he uses it as a
00:11:22.180 way to escape who's paying working 60 hours a week to pay the bills i'm not there most of the time
00:11:28.180 a lot of my time goes to not be there most of the time i also choose to be there to make the money
00:11:33.460 to support the lifestyle at home couple months you get burnt out the job men can't win is the most
00:11:44.020 all right guys let me know what you think in the comments I love Caleb Hammer I want to go on his
00:12:04.180 show someday that'd be so fun um all right guys I love you thank you so much for watching like
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