Pearl - Men Are Superior and That’s OK

00:00:00.160 What up, guys? Welcome to my coffee talks. Today, I don't have coffee or water or anything, but I'm here to talk.

00:00:08.140 So I was thinking about the common debates that feminists use to basically convince us that we're more important than we are as women. 0.99

00:00:18.860 And one of the things that I hear, like, fairly often is that women do more of the household chores than men, right?

00:00:27.340 So the idea is that women do the dishes, women sweep or do, you know, cook, clean. 1.00

00:00:35.240 Women claim that they do that more than men. 0.72

00:00:38.080 And I was thinking about how I've debated people over the years, like I debated destiny

00:00:42.460 and he was someone that would cite those studies.

00:00:45.740 And I was thinking about it more and I'm like, those are like the easiest chores.

00:00:54.740 It's much more difficult to like fix a car, change the oil, manage money, mow the lawn, rake the leaves.

00:01:13.180 And these are just ones off the top of my head.

00:01:16.280 but it just seems like

00:01:21.020 women are kind of over exaggerating our part 1.00

00:01:26.180 in the marriage in relationships I think women think that we do 0.61

00:01:32.060 a lot more than we do because in all honesty

00:01:35.600 like if I go into a female friend or a relative's

00:01:39.960 apartment usually if it's a woman 0.98

00:01:44.340 I think that laundry is done. Laundry, right? There's too much stuff. Like there's stuff

00:01:49.340 everywhere. Usually they have a dog and it's not very well trained. Um, oh my gosh, it's so loud.

00:01:57.580 Do you guys hear that? I don't know. So they have a dog. It's not very well trained.

00:02:04.280 Then on top of that, I mean, their dishes might be done. Their kitchen might be clean,

00:02:08.740 but the way the apartment's just like set up is completely disorganized in general. And I'm not

00:02:13.940 saying I'm better right I'm definitely not um usually women's cars are super dirty um there's 1.00

00:02:19.860 usually stuff everywhere like we buy so much stuff that it's like impossible to be neat almost

00:02:26.940 on top of that I don't know a single woman that budgets I mean even me when I started making a

00:02:32.500 lot of money my brother was the one who was like let me see your bank account and he went through

00:02:38.420 all my bank account stuff and he was just like and I don't make a lot of money anymore but there was

00:02:42.720 like a short period and he was like you've over hired people this this this this this and my

00:02:47.340 little brother he's younger than me less life experience but I don't know this is kind of like

00:02:53.360 a deep level thought I sometimes think that men have like God in them like God put wisdom in men

00:03:00.560 and they're just naturally like better at everything um and as women you become really 0.83

00:03:09.800 intelligent if you listen to what the men say so like god gives men wisdom and that wisdom seems to

00:03:17.360 be passed on to women because whenever i meet a woman that's really competent at something she 1.00

00:03:22.340 was always trained like by a man like a man trained her to be that competent um

00:03:29.120 not me with budgets i'm gonna be honest not me

00:03:33.360 my brother he still helps me with it but you know the point remains the same women always talk about 1.00

00:03:40.820 the stuff they do in relationships and marriage and from what I've gathered it seems to be the

00:03:46.580 dishes it seems to be um the laundry cooking and that's all stuff you have to do for yourself

00:03:54.300 anyway so nowadays we have one maybe two kids so it's not really like that difficult to cook for

00:04:02.920 an extra person like if I make eggs in the morning for myself it's not that difficult to make eggs

00:04:09.840 for three people instead of one you just add a few more eggs you put a few more pieces of bacon

00:04:14.600 in the skillet it's not that difficult um and I thought about it some more and I was like you know

00:04:21.940 I think women we tend to do things in the least efficient way possible so we cook we'll like 1.00

00:04:27.860 catastrophize it and think we have to make these like extravagant meals and the men will just do 0.99

00:04:33.220 what works and what's simple and they get it done a lot faster and have the rest of their day

00:04:37.800 um but women we have a tendency to think that we do it the best way and because we don't 1.00

00:04:44.480 have that humility i'm gonna go get my dog because see this my dog's barking because we

00:04:50.640 don't have that humility um what tends to happen is that like our lives are just a mess and these

00:05:01.140 studies they never count the stuff that men do really well men budget really well they save

00:05:05.360 money really well um men are just really good at problem solving so uh they discipline even

00:05:12.320 my dog is disciplined better by a man like my dog will listen to a man more than me I don't 0.98

00:05:20.860 know if it's the tone of my voice I don't know if it's because I just suck you know like I've 0.97

00:05:26.200 just noticed that like if I have a boyfriend and he you know disciplines the dog um like 0.98

00:05:39.400 she listens to him more than me um so then you get the single mothers that become like overly 1.00

00:05:47.020 stressed because you know the dog's barking they're trying to make an extravagant breakfast

00:05:53.340 instead of just like making the most simple thing that works and has everybody fed

00:05:57.460 um all right i'll eat this way i'm about to take her out guys see and then we get we don't handle 1.00

00:06:07.040 stress as well so we kind of crash out like i've met really um intelligent powerful women 1.00

00:06:12.960 and they still crash out even when

00:06:16.720 even if they're really accomplished under stress if that makes sense i'm trying to think of other

00:06:28.700 stuff that men are really good at fixing cars that's another thing and also if you have boyfriend 0.98

00:06:35.460 a husband or a father what you can do is when people are always trying to rip you off so

00:06:44.260 when you um like go to the mechanic shop or somebody gives you a quote for something

00:06:51.220 almost always they're going to give you a higher quote than if your husband or your boyfriend or

00:06:56.420 your father is just with you and these are the things that are never counted in those studies

00:07:01.620 You know, when you order furniture and you don't know how to put it together, a woman, it'll just sit there for weeks. 1.00

00:07:07.400 A man will fix it like that same day.

00:07:10.760 And so people think I hate women, but, you know, I really don't.

00:07:14.500 It's just I see what our limitations are.

00:07:17.300 And I don't see women inventing things. 1.00

00:07:19.720 I don't see women doing the most difficult jobs. 1.00

00:07:23.020 And even just from a relationship point of view, most men I know cook better than the women they're with.

00:07:28.520 Most men I know are neater than the women they're with.

00:07:30.740 most men I know are better parents than the women they're with most men I know discipline their kids 0.94

00:07:35.360 better than the women they're with um so a lot of times like people come at me and they say who

00:07:40.320 hurt you who hurt you who hurt you and I'm like these opinions didn't come from I mean some women 0.98

00:07:45.620 have hurt me but it didn't come from one woman that had that opinion it's like the behavior of

00:07:52.220 women as a collective I have observed and I just think we have limitations and that's okay 1.00

00:07:58.460 so anyways guys let me know what you think in the comments i'm about to take

00:08:02.220 my dog ellie out say hello oh and i'll see you next time

Pearl - January 23, 2026

Men Are Superior and That’s OK

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