Pearl - September 28, 2025


Men Have Given Up On Trying to Protect Modern Women


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Length

18 minutes

Words per Minute

160.68774

Word Count

2,919

Sentence Count

242

Misogynist Sentences

42

Hate Speech Sentences

22


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On this episode of Thick & Thin we discuss why men are walking away from standing up for women and why it s time for men to get on board the fight for women. We also discuss the fact that men can t protect women from themselves.

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00:00:00.000 Yeah, Ada, I mean, but here's the problem.
00:00:02.060 Men can't protect women from ourselves.
00:00:04.680 So we're going to cover a few things on the show tonight.
00:00:07.400 Before we get into the main topic, thank you guys for tuning in.
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00:00:15.260 That's theaudacitynetwork.com.
00:00:17.000 We're also in the App Store.
00:00:18.800 The reason being is I can have more free speech the more sign-ups we get on the App Store.
00:00:26.980 So it would be helpful the more people that sign up.
00:00:30.860 On your end, you do get access to all of my old content.
00:00:36.420 And do you know what?
00:00:39.100 I'm thinking about releasing.
00:00:40.820 I don't know if I want to do it.
00:00:42.680 But I was looking at, I have recordings of all of the meetings I had with YouTube when I got demonetized.
00:00:50.920 And I was re-listening to them the other day.
00:00:53.280 And I was getting so pissed because I was just, I was on the call with these women, right?
00:00:58.080 And these women are just gaslighting.
00:00:59.720 Like, I remember saying, ladies, ladies, if I can prove this generalization with a fact, can I say it?
00:01:09.980 And they're like, no, that's hate speech.
00:01:12.040 And I'm like, yeah, let me just kill myself.
00:01:13.840 And I, oh, my gosh, I was getting so mad.
00:01:17.660 I'm thinking about it, but I don't know.
00:01:20.340 I don't want to get, I'm thinking about it.
00:01:24.640 Okay, so the first topic we're going to go into is men are walking away from standing up for women.
00:01:30.860 So our entire life, you know, men are sold this virtue, that there is virtue in standing up for women.
00:01:38.520 Like, if a woman's getting beat up on the train, you got, you know, here's, you know, if a woman's getting beat up on the train,
00:01:47.540 that you got to be the guy to save the day.
00:01:49.340 If a woman's getting beat up by her boyfriend, then you got to get in the middle and save the day.
00:01:52.940 And I think this is sold, and it kind of takes advantage of men's innate protector instinct.
00:01:59.460 You know, men, just on a deep biological level, they hate seeing women fail.
00:02:04.980 I mean, why do you think they gave us all of these rights?
00:02:07.480 Because they hate seeing us upset, and women know that.
00:02:11.180 Women know, we have a tendency to know just how much men want to solve our problems for us.
00:02:18.440 They hate seeing us struggle.
00:02:20.700 So I would say this, in a way, propaganda is the wrong message to send to men.
00:02:29.620 And the reason I would say that is not because it's not a heroic thing to do.
00:02:33.720 It's always heroic to, you know, stand up for somebody that's weaker than you.
00:02:37.960 But in this society, I would argue that, in a way, women are stronger than men in terms of what power we have.
00:02:44.720 And the challenge is, you know, women said, we want to be our own person.
00:02:48.400 I want to vote away from you.
00:02:49.900 I want to make my own money.
00:02:50.900 And the men said, fine.
00:02:53.120 And now women are getting, you know, attacked on trains.
00:02:58.160 We're getting robbed.
00:02:59.760 There's even videos of women literally getting punched in the face for no reason.
00:03:03.440 And the women are saying, men, help us.
00:03:08.440 Men, protect us.
00:03:10.100 And there's a woman named Ada Luish.
00:03:13.540 Luish?
00:03:14.200 Let me get this.
00:03:17.140 Okay, wait.
00:03:17.520 Hold on.
00:03:17.840 I've got to pull it up.
00:03:19.700 She's basically a right-wing e-girl, and she's like the Spanish girl who sells purity while dressing like a whore.
00:03:26.200 It's just your typical right-wing e-girl, you know, the classic one.
00:03:30.740 And what happened was she is now tweeting that men need to protect women from all of the migrants that women are voting to allow into Europe.
00:03:42.240 And so what happens is women keep voting for these policies and doing these things that make us completely unsafe.
00:03:49.760 You know, the men will say, do you really want to go out at night and to all these bars where people are drinking?
00:03:54.560 And the women are like, yes, we're dying to be whores.
00:03:57.960 And the men are like, are you sure you might get the herp derp?
00:04:00.600 You might get ghosted, all this bad stuff.
00:04:04.020 And we say, no, we want to do it.
00:04:06.960 And I do think on some level people do have the right to their hell.
00:04:11.320 If you want to live in hell on earth, I think that's your right as a person.
00:04:15.320 You know, I had a cousin, and I'm actually going to talk about him later this stream,
00:04:20.360 but I was really close with this cousin growing up, and he lived with us for a while.
00:04:25.480 But he had an addiction problem.
00:04:28.000 And it was really tough, like, watching him because he just really could not.
00:04:33.540 And it's eventually what he passed away of was his addiction to a certain drug, I'll say.
00:04:41.080 But at some point, you know, we tried to help him, and you have to kind of lay up your hands
00:04:48.900 and say, you have the right to your own hell.
00:04:52.120 And what happens is most women vote liberal.
00:04:54.720 It's not like I understand we have the right-wing e-girls, but it's always right-wing e-girl
00:04:58.740 until we're not, right?
00:05:03.900 Until we switch up when our beauty starts to fade out or whatever.
00:05:07.300 But regardless, I don't think men are required to protect us anymore
00:05:14.760 because we keep voting to be unsafe.
00:05:19.760 We keep making—we don't care about our safety.
00:05:22.300 If women cared about our safety, we wouldn't be solo traveling.
00:05:25.860 We wouldn't be living alone.
00:05:29.320 We wouldn't be moving to cities where there's more crime.
00:05:32.760 You know, our actions do not scream safety.
00:05:35.680 And the other part of this that I was going to talk about is
00:05:39.440 men have even invented something for us to protect ourselves.
00:05:46.600 We can carry.
00:05:47.440 Concealed carry is—I mean, I understand it depends on the state,
00:05:50.600 but nothing's stopping you from moving to a state where that's allowed
00:05:53.200 or a place where you can do it and protecting yourself.
00:05:57.240 So on some level, in my opinion, the answer to feminism is giving women the freedom they asked for.
00:06:02.340 Women asked to be equal, treat them equal.
00:06:04.680 And I don't really see it going back until the majority of men have this mindset.
00:06:11.380 Again, that's why they want to stop—that's why they want to stop this kind of content.
00:06:17.600 It's because the more men get a hold of this information—you know, men are not like women, right,
00:06:23.520 or even liberal men.
00:06:24.640 They're not going to really riot.
00:06:26.020 They're not going to tear down the streets.
00:06:30.580 Men's version of, you know, rioting or fighting back is just ignoring it, walking away.
00:06:37.160 And that's really what's happening in this migrant situation.
00:06:41.180 Women have begged and pleaded for men to—I'm going to find this lady's name.
00:06:47.740 I thought I had it in the stock.
00:06:48.880 They have begged for men, you know, to let in the immigrants.
00:06:53.400 And the men said, fine, go ahead.
00:06:55.460 You have the voting power.
00:06:57.580 And now the women are complaining.
00:06:59.280 And I just—I don't think it's—I don't think it's fair when women are living the life of celebrities,
00:07:07.480 oftentimes at the expense of men.
00:07:09.320 I can't find—I swore I had this in the dock, but I forgot it.
00:07:18.700 It's all right.
00:07:20.040 But my whole—oh, here it is.
00:07:24.660 Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:07:26.720 Oh, wait, no, that's her response.
00:07:28.180 That's her response.
00:07:31.400 Oh, now she wants to come to America.
00:07:33.380 Of course she does.
00:07:34.120 It's like women vote left in Europe, and then they're like, oh, you know how ironic it is
00:07:41.640 for a woman saying she wants to leave Europe to come to America while fighting against immigration.
00:07:47.860 It's like women don't have any idea.
00:07:51.680 Okay, so—oh, here it is.
00:07:54.740 Here it is.
00:07:55.480 I think I speak in the name of all European women when I say we no longer feel safe in our streets.
00:08:01.120 It's time to protect us.
00:08:02.720 Yeah, Ada, I mean, but here's the problem.
00:08:05.240 Men can't protect women from ourselves.
00:08:08.120 You know, they can't stop us from texting and driving.
00:08:10.340 They can't stop us from being whores.
00:08:12.020 They can't stop—like, you know, even with all the crime that's happening,
00:08:18.860 men—women are not—you're not likely to be the victim of a violent crime.
00:08:23.440 Even statistically, your odds of that happening are still more likely it won't happen that happened.
00:08:29.280 But women, it's like we find every way to make it more likely it'll happen.
00:08:34.340 We get on Tinder.
00:08:35.200 We're alone with men.
00:08:36.820 I mean, you know, the men, when they see something crazy on the news, they're like, all right,
00:08:41.500 I'm not taking public transport.
00:08:43.620 I'm going to stay out.
00:08:45.460 I'm going to stay in.
00:08:46.500 And here, Rachel has a reply to this.
00:08:49.780 She says, you cannot demand equality and demand the privilege of protection.
00:08:55.120 You have to pick one.
00:08:56.260 I pick protection since equality is just an illusion, which still requires men using force
00:09:01.120 to uphold my notion of women's rights.
00:09:04.060 Yeah, and okay, then you go to the women and say, hand over abortion.
00:09:08.200 And the women are like, no!
00:09:11.180 And we're like, hand over abortion.
00:09:14.640 You want our—the men come in and they say, you want our protection.
00:09:18.240 You are no longer 100% in control of who's born.
00:09:22.600 Can women ever give up control of anything ever?
00:09:27.380 I mean, guys, I, you know, I'd like to say I think I'm more self-aware than a lot of women,
00:09:32.880 and even I struggle with it.
00:09:34.000 It's like in our nature.
00:09:35.040 We're not supposed to have this much power.
00:09:36.860 It's not meant—this was not supposed to be given to us, but we begged for it.
00:09:41.880 We asked.
00:09:42.480 We nagged men.
00:09:44.140 And do you know what I think the worst part is?
00:09:46.280 It's not like men, I think, are scared of women at mass.
00:09:49.580 I mean, to some extent, they are.
00:09:51.300 I just think they want the nagging to stop.
00:09:54.300 They just want—that's the power of men just give women what they want to make them go away,
00:10:00.520 and it creates monsters.
00:10:01.600 Okay, so the other thing I wanted to talk about—let's see.
00:10:10.640 Oh, I wanted to give an update on my thoughts on women's sports.
00:10:14.180 So we have apparently Jupura—Jarupa Valley High School girls volleyball team is still struggling to find opponents
00:10:23.120 after Patriot High became the eighth school to refuse a matchup because of the trans player.
00:10:27.140 Okay, so I actually think that we should have more men in women's sports.
00:10:35.300 I think we should actually have more trans people, not less.
00:10:38.440 And the reason being is not because I think it's fair.
00:10:41.420 I think it's extremely unfair.
00:10:43.140 But again, I have a personal story with this.
00:10:45.220 When I was in England, I played volleyball overseas.
00:10:47.820 Sports was a huge part of my life.
00:10:49.740 But still to this day, I'm just an athlete at heart.
00:10:53.200 I love playing sports.
00:10:55.060 And I played volleyball, basketball.
00:10:57.160 And there was a tournament I did where there was trans people in the tournament.
00:11:01.320 And I went around, and I'm like, hey, can we not?
00:11:08.200 Can we not?
00:11:09.540 Do you know what I mean?
00:11:10.560 And the majority of women at that tournament, do you know what they said?
00:11:14.360 They were telling me to shut up.
00:11:16.620 They said, stop making a scene.
00:11:19.740 They were in our locker rooms.
00:11:21.520 I saw them.
00:11:24.880 And that's, I mean, these are the terrorists we're dealing with.
00:11:28.540 I'm not talking about the trans people.
00:11:30.000 I'm talking about female athletes.
00:11:34.320 That at this point, you know, I did make some good friends in sports.
00:11:38.640 And I know it's not 100% because there were women that had a problem with it.
00:11:42.960 But hey, you guys, and this is kind of what I think the solution is,
00:11:48.080 is you guys fought to have the trans people in the sports compete.
00:11:53.300 Have fun, ladies.
00:11:54.800 And the men just got to say, good luck.
00:11:58.300 Yep, good luck.
00:11:59.360 You voted for this.
00:12:00.740 Same thing with the immigration.
00:12:02.220 I mean, if you see some guy pickpocketing a woman,
00:12:06.920 I mean, odds are he'll hit on her later and she'll be in love.
00:12:09.720 It's like, and then you'll be the bad guy for calling it out.
00:12:13.160 Do you know what I mean?
00:12:13.760 I mean, it's like those guys that get in between a girl getting beat up by her boyfriend.
00:12:19.320 And he's thinking, oh, I'm going to step in and save her.
00:12:22.860 And then he gets killed and the woman goes and sleeps with her boyfriend again.
00:12:26.740 It's like, what was that for?
00:12:28.600 And I think that's really the equivalent of what's going on in society today.
00:12:32.440 I just, okay, my last point is, all right.
00:12:40.200 So there is this couple, I can't even believe I'm covering this,
00:12:44.180 but I think it's an important lesson for the women watching to understand.
00:12:50.220 So there was a couple that was dating, and it was Sam Frank and Neon.
00:12:56.100 And this was a streamer and this OF model.
00:12:59.740 And now, in today's society, the OF model is probably like an eight.
00:13:04.880 She was really young at the time when they started dating, plus America's fat.
00:13:09.680 In normal society, she's probably an eight.
00:13:11.440 She's making a ton of money off of OnlyFans.
00:13:13.440 She meets this streamer Neon.
00:13:15.780 They start dating, right?
00:13:17.240 And Neon's like this awkward, dorky streamer.
00:13:20.400 Okay.
00:13:20.520 And in all intents and purposes, I think the perception of the relationship
00:13:25.420 is that she could do better in a way.
00:13:27.080 It's kind of rich, the society we're in, where OnlyFans,
00:13:30.820 where hookers can essentially do better than...
00:13:34.840 It doesn't make sense, but I think maybe that was kind of the public perception
00:13:39.420 because she was much better looking.
00:13:41.600 And as a woman, I just want you to know,
00:13:43.860 if you date a man and he could date you,
00:13:47.520 that means he could date somebody hotter than you.
00:13:50.520 If he has the skills to get you, he will get somebody younger and hotter.
00:13:55.500 It's not if, it's when.
00:13:57.020 And this is something, as a woman, you have to make peace with
00:14:00.240 because you will go crazy if you don't.
00:14:02.620 You will.
00:14:03.380 I mean, this is...
00:14:04.700 It's not if he'll do better.
00:14:07.020 It is when he will do better because we just age every day.
00:14:10.660 We get less valuable and we get uglier, and that's life.
00:14:14.340 Where the men, they just get better looking
00:14:17.360 as long as they don't have some, like, crash out.
00:14:20.520 So now, you know, he's single again.
00:14:24.180 And look at this, this is the woman.
00:14:26.240 Is the screen showing?
00:14:27.460 Yeah, okay.
00:14:28.280 So now he's having this cougar coming up to him.
00:14:31.300 Well, who cares about this, right?
00:14:34.160 But you can see he's getting female attention.
00:14:36.940 Now, like, this young woman is coming up to him.
00:14:39.120 And clout is definitely a drug.
00:14:42.320 So that, while this is a unique situation, right,
00:14:46.960 because of the clout, this does happen in normal life,
00:14:52.500 and you can kind of see it play out.
00:14:53.720 Now you've got these pretty girls giving him more attention.
00:14:57.000 And now his ex gets to watch it on stream.
00:15:01.660 He also has a new girlfriend.
00:15:05.060 And now this is his ex-girlfriend, Sam Frank.
00:15:09.160 But yeah, guys, I'm...
00:15:10.200 She's trying to now make him jealous because she gets to go to all these events,
00:15:14.300 which is crazy, by the way.
00:15:15.580 It's crazy that...
00:15:20.140 Hold on, I should put the audio on.
00:15:21.520 But it's crazy that a hooker is getting invited to UFC events to stream.
00:15:26.740 Like, that's crazy.
00:15:29.980 So next week we are going to be going to Vegas.
00:15:38.640 Okay, let me find the one of her crashing out.
00:15:41.000 But she goes on stream and she crashes out because, I mean, she looks like this.
00:15:48.320 And he basically got a carbon copy clone of her with a slightly better body.
00:15:54.000 And he was younger.
00:15:57.540 She was 18.
00:15:59.400 And she was crashing out on stream and, like, all upset even though she dumped him.
00:16:04.180 That's really what we do.
00:16:05.440 We never appreciate the guy until, let's see, until they can do better.
00:16:12.460 All right, Sam, Frank, neon, new girlfriend.
00:16:17.620 Let's pull this up.
00:16:20.640 For the two women that are watching my show, yes.
00:16:23.460 Don't you just love Boa?
00:16:26.760 Hold on.
00:16:27.380 No, you didn't try this yet, though.
00:16:28.340 Hold on, wait.
00:16:29.600 So this one and then you eat the leaf, too.
00:16:31.360 The leaves...
00:16:32.440 She dumped him, by the way.
00:16:44.200 Yeah, so this girl was more wholesome.
00:16:47.480 I mean, she's still got her boobs out, obviously.
00:16:49.760 But she has a more wholesome demeanor.
00:16:53.980 Sam probably has a slightly better face card, but I'd put her body as better.
00:16:58.140 And this is just life, ladies.
00:16:59.780 I mean, I remember, you know, I don't think I have a single ex that didn't do better after me.
00:17:09.520 It's just part of life, like, they will, because if they can date you, you have officially set the standard for them.
00:17:19.460 So if you're the hottest girl he's ever been with, then the girls that are on your level will now deem him as part of the club.
00:17:26.720 So now he can actually select from the women at your level, it's like, and now she's finding out this sad part of life.
00:17:37.680 It will, you know, as a woman, you probably will have a crash out, especially when you're young.
00:17:44.320 This is not a fun experience.
00:17:46.240 Most women will go through this.
00:17:47.720 Let's get started.