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00:00:00.000 Brett Cooper recently had a tweet and her tweet was an abortion argument. So she said,

00:00:06.320 consent to sex is not consent to pregnancy. It's one of the most common responses to saying that

00:00:13.020 women should just keep their legs closed. And it's also one of the most laughable. Yes, 1.00

00:00:17.780 humans can have sex with the express goal of procreating and also not, but the intention

00:00:23.100 does not change the possible outcome of pregnancy. Pretending like it does because you have the

00:00:28.360 option to kill your baby is just a way to rationalize not taking personal responsibility. 0.71

00:00:33.660 Your statement means nothing. So this I completely agree with. I think in 2024, there is zero excuse 0.99

00:00:40.320 to have an unplanned pregnancy. You can track your cycle. There's plan B. There's a million

00:00:45.420 forms of birth control. There's only like three or four days in a month where you statistically

00:00:51.320 are likely to get pregnant. So from my point of view, if you have an unplanned pregnancy,

00:00:57.580 You are being irresponsible. Now, as you guys know, I personally am pro-life. I don't believe

00:01:03.780 in abortion. If I was making the rules, it would not be legal. However, I'm also realistic. I don't

00:01:11.820 see this as anything that will change in my lifetime. I think, you know, the majority of

00:01:17.500 voters are female and women will never give up that power. So when I see people protesting this

00:01:24.280 stuff, while I empathize with them because I think it's wrong, I do believe that the arguments are a

00:01:30.800 waste of time. I've watched these abortion debates since when I was 12, 13 years old, and every year

00:01:37.460 there's more abortions. It is unlikely that the voting bloc will give up power. Abortion is 0.74

00:01:46.660 reproductive freedom, and never in history has a group gotten power and said, you know what,

00:01:52.740 let me just give it back. Here you go. So she responded again to this tweet and she said,

00:01:59.580 people like to pretend that sex is some kind of recreational sport with no consequences. But no

00:02:05.300 matter how much you lie to yourself, that is simply not objectively true. Now, Rolo Tomasi,

00:02:11.100 he said, did you lose your virginity to your husband, Brett? Now, this is a really common

00:02:16.040 question in this space. There's conservative women and what they do is they virtue signal. 1.00

00:02:20.640 So they say, I am pure.

00:02:23.180 And they'll do this in a bunch of different ways.

00:02:25.700 One way they do this is they say not all women are like that.

00:02:29.220 Another way that they do this is they wear flower dresses.

00:02:32.040 They get in their kitchen.

00:02:33.640 They try to signal that they are different and they are traditional.

00:02:38.060 But when it boils down to it, most women in 2024 that are attractive did not lose their 0.92

00:02:45.260 virginities to their husband.

00:02:47.000 So what is important to men?

00:02:49.060 Actions or words.

00:02:50.640 You can say you're traditional, you can put on a dress, you can signal that you're different

00:02:54.720 to the group, but men want to know, are you putting your money where your mouth is? Okay,

00:02:59.960 so then he says, did you lose your virginity to your wife? Nope, but I'm not the one making a 0.72

00:03:05.600 living off late game virtue signaling about sport effing late either. So this is a common grievance

00:03:14.360 and I don't think it's unfair. Women are shapeshifters. Women have the ability to 1.00

00:03:21.420 completely change into a different person based on their environment. Now, I don't personally

00:03:27.220 view this as a bad thing. This is how women survive, and it's a part of femininity. 1.00

00:03:33.720 When a woman meets a man that she's falling in love with, I've seen women switch their religions 1.00

00:03:39.040 for a man. I've seen women change the way they dress. I've seen women change their habits. I've 0.99

00:03:45.320 seen women date personal trainers and get in shape. I've seen women that are Christian date

00:03:50.500 Muslims and switch that for him. In some regard, men want the women to shape shift a little bit 0.98

00:03:58.020 to cater to his life. They might learn his recipes. They might study what he likes and become

00:04:03.820 complimentary to his life. But the issue is when women are signaling to Christian men, 0.52

00:04:11.020 oftentimes they will shapeshift. So I want to talk about first, what is the red pill?

00:04:17.720 So basically all the men came together online and they said, you know what? We want to figure

00:04:24.020 women out. Let's talk about our personal experiences. So one experience that many men

00:04:30.620 had, and this transcends countries, is that when women want to get married, usually around the age 1.00

00:04:36.140 of 27, they magically become religious. And this isn't necessarily because the woman wants to,

00:04:42.900 but because she has to. Her biology is kicking in and says, you need a kid. You're running out of 0.81

00:04:48.160 time. Some women it's earlier, some it's later, and they magically find religion. Oftentimes the 1.00

00:04:54.860 women themselves believe it. So they personally believe they have found God, but the issue is

00:05:01.260 once they get the child, a lot of them switch up. This isn't all, not all, but it's so common

00:05:08.280 that thousands of men from across the world that did not know each other figured this out.

00:05:15.180 This is why when an ex-corn star comes out, Nala, everyone was crucifying me for saying,

00:05:23.000 hey, this isn't real. She just wants to get married and have a platform. Everyone crucified 1.00

00:05:30.160 me and said that I was wrong for saying that, but it's bigger than me. It's not even based on me.

00:05:38.480 It's based on the experience of thousands of men. So the purpose of the red pill is to increase

00:05:44.300 men's sexual power and options. What does that mean? That means if a guy says, you know what, 0.93

00:05:50.520 I want to get married and start a family. He can go to certain channels and say,

00:05:55.060 these are the tools to do it. If a guy wants to have multiple girlfriends, they can get together

00:06:01.420 and say, this is how you do it. And the issue you get is the moralists come in. So oftentimes,

00:06:07.660 these are the Christians, these are, and they say that is wrong, but there's no, you aren't going to

00:06:13.560 stop the men that want to have multiple wives, multiple girlfriends, date around. It's never

00:06:19.100 going to stop. You can't change that. So saying that's wrong does nothing. And some men go to the

00:06:25.200 red pill and they want to fix their relationship with their wife. Some men want to figure out how

00:06:29.800 to get laid. Some men, they all just, and all they do is they come together and they say,

00:06:34.760 these are the experiences I've had and they develop patterns. So how do men increase their

00:06:40.000 sexual power? One way is to figure out the strategies that women use to sell purity when 1.00

00:06:46.480 they're not pure and be able to detect them. So again, so when that woman comes to church at 27 0.99

00:06:55.120 and said she found God, the men know that it's a bit of BS. And maybe if a woman was more genuine, 0.80

00:07:02.860 it would happen when she was younger and didn't go on 10 yachts the year before. So that's one

00:07:09.120 way they do it. And the issue Brett is going to have here is men care more about actions than

00:07:14.760 words. And women have lost the benefit of the doubt. Men used to give women the benefit of the 0.97

00:07:22.220 doubt, but this is how men view it. A woman turn, let's say 18, and she has the option to date

00:07:32.380 basketball players, athletes, maybe just the best looking guy in her hometown,

00:07:37.180 if she's attractive. Men will assume that something has happened. Even women that say

00:07:44.600 they're virgins, they still have strategies where they're not as innocent as they're projecting. 1.00

00:07:51.160 So women that are virgins on their wedding day, but did everything else with three different guys, 0.93

00:07:56.160 that's not uncommon. Women that are virgins on their wedding days, but had been in the club the 1.00

00:08:02.920 year before making out with a bunch of different guys. So again, it's the women signaling, I am 0.90

00:08:08.580 pure, but the actions don't completely match up and they figure out some sort of workaround.

00:08:15.320 Again, this isn't me saying this. This is thousands of men across the world saying,

00:08:20.900 hey, I married a woman who said she was a virgin and she did things with half the town. Or hey,

00:08:29.860 I married a woman who said she was a virgin. She wasn't even a virgin. 1.00

00:08:34.940 So what does that leave men to conclude? Assume women are promiscuous. That is the baseline 0.99

00:08:42.680 assumption. Because at this age, at this day and age, there's nothing stopping women. You can 0.95

00:08:49.000 download a dating app and hook up with the best looking guys in your city, in your hometown. You

00:08:54.140 You can download Instagram and high level men can message you and you can be on a yacht

00:08:59.380 on Saturday.

00:09:00.540 That is the conclusion many men come to.

00:09:03.640 So when she is putting stuff out, signaling I am pure, most men will not believe it.

00:09:12.700 And the conclusion a lot of men come to is the women, and again, this is thousands of

00:09:17.100 experiences, the women that tend to work harder to signal that they are pure are the least 1.00

00:09:23.440 pure once because it's almost like they're making up for something that they're not here's another

00:09:30.600 one she said as an adult you are free to have sex however no one is free to have sex without

00:09:35.820 potential consequences it shouldn't be hard for people to understand my mother repeatedly told

00:09:42.040 me not to sleep with somebody that i wouldn't be willing to have a child with right then

00:09:45.660 it's common sense this protected me from a lot of heartbreak as it turns out there is only one man

00:09:51.800 that fits the requirement. So here she's signaling. I'm just going to tell you, I have no idea what

00:09:57.540 this woman has done. I don't care, but I want you to understand how many men see it. So this is

00:10:03.700 signaling, I am pure. I am pure. I am different, right? Then the men ask, did you go to a college?

00:10:11.580 She went to a big school. Were you, oh, she was in a sorority. Okay. Then the men ask, okay,

00:10:17.040 was she on dating apps and so in this clip she's saying she was on i think it was tinder and by

00:10:24.160 the way i'd like to i want to preface i don't know i don't care what she did but i just want

00:10:28.880 i think women should understand how men view it because a lot of times when you see these tweets

00:10:35.520 you think these guys are nuts and i did too when i first got into the space i just thought why are

00:10:40.480 the why is this old man tweeting this stuff this is weird but here first dating experience ever 0.78

00:10:47.040 was online. And I think that's the case for the majority of my generation, which in my opinion

00:10:50.880 is why we're so confused and so warped when it comes to dating, because we literally don't know

00:10:54.700 how to date. Like my first dating experiences of like talking to guys, we're over Instagram DMs,

00:11:00.640 we're on Tinder, we're on Hinge. Okay. So this is, this is how a guy's going to think, okay,

00:11:05.480 this woman is signaling I am pure, but she went to a party school in a sorority and was on Tinder. 1.00

00:11:11.440 that's how men will see it and that's why you're gonna have tweets like this saying did you lose

00:11:19.800 your virginity to your husband and the question you have to ask too with the virgins is okay 0.99

00:11:24.500 so you're a virgin so you haven't done anything else nothing no I don't want to get too detailed

00:11:30.400 you know but nothing and usually when you ask that question women hesitate okay I'll show you 1.00

00:11:37.640 an example. Because a common complaint that I got when I was interviewing women that somehow I was

00:11:43.800 only selecting city girls. It didn't matter how much I went into the country and I would find the 0.96

00:11:49.540 same patterns of behavior in the country and the city. It didn't really matter. Small towns, big

00:11:56.160 towns. Women, again, remember in order for women to survive, they had to sell purity. This is 1.00

00:12:04.760 survival so i was on this show and there's three women i'm on the show with and they're all

00:12:10.760 signaling i am pure i am traditional i am pure and i had to ask the question because

00:12:17.240 what i try to live in is reality i try to live in what is real what is not real

00:12:23.320 and if the women are signaling i am pure i am different i am special i have to put their money 1.00

00:12:29.880 where their mouths are right it looks like let's not play pretend three percent of people are

00:12:34.200 waiting till they're married that's not really common and of the three percent of people that

00:12:38.920 are waiting till they're married what percent are not overweight or obese unattractive disabled 1.00

00:12:44.920 small percentage okay i mean was anyone here virgin on their wedding night anyone no and i'm

00:12:51.880 on this show right and the three trad women one has partial nudes on the internet the other had 1.00

00:12:59.160 kids with different guys. And the other, the third woman, and I don't say this as a criticism,

00:13:05.940 right? I don't, I'm not special, different. I'm a woman too. So I'm not, I'm not trying to attack

00:13:12.460 them. I'm just trying to describe what's going on. The other woman believed that it was her place 0.84

00:13:18.240 to tell other men how to speak to their wives. That's not traditional. And that's a common thing

00:13:24.760 with conservative women. They signal, they say, I am traditional. I am pure. I am different. That's

00:13:32.100 their signaling. And by the way, the women that really are that tend to not have to signal it. 1.00

00:13:38.740 They just are. But most of those women think it's their place to tell men how to talk. They think 0.99

00:13:45.400 it's their place to tell the top men that it's bad to sleep around. But part of femininity is 1.00

00:13:51.540 knowing that you cannot control men. And this is something I've had to learn too, right? But that's

00:13:57.600 part of femininity is knowing they're out of your control. You cannot control a man. And if you try 0.99

00:14:05.080 to, that's very masculine. A lot of times women lie to themselves. I'm traditional. I'm pure.

00:14:12.420 But the actions, right, which are more important than words, they don't match up. And why is this

00:14:20.340 important. So a lot of times the criticism is, why do you care? Why do men in this space care?

00:14:28.540 Because what happens is young, naive men that don't know better get very damaged by not knowing

00:14:35.760 this information. For example, a young guy goes to church and he meets, let's say, a 26-year-old

00:14:42.260 woman, 25. Now, a guy that knows what's going on knows that most women are sexually active 0.93

00:14:48.920 in high school. That on average balance of probabilities, most women are sexually active 1.00

00:14:55.120 in high school, but let's say 18. So from the time that woman was 18, she went to college 0.59

00:15:01.460 and maybe a major city or whatever city she's in. Most women have access to high level men 1.00

00:15:08.380 from a very young age. So a guy that knows what's going on says, okay, she's 25. There's something

00:15:15.320 there that I'm not going to like, but I like her. It's great. But at least that man goes into

00:15:22.580 the ordeal or goes into the relationship with the expectation that there's probably something he

00:15:29.420 doesn't like. Now, let's take the men that get fooled by this stuff. Let's take the men that

00:15:35.880 don't know better, that don't have a lot of experience with women. They go into this interaction 1.00

00:15:40.580 and they say, wow, I found this pure woman that is different and special. Now let's say he marries

00:15:48.320 her and they have three children together. What would it do? How crushed would he be if he sees

00:15:54.220 a sex tape that woman made during college? How crushed would he be if he found she hooked up 0.90

00:16:02.080 with joe whoever it was the guy number two and some men end up committing suicide or harming

00:16:12.180 themselves in some way when they find out that their wife did something crazy before they met

00:16:17.140 her men mentally are in a much better place if they just assume there is something that he is

00:16:23.020 not gonna like because one is being realistic and one is being idealistic three percent of women are 1.00

00:16:30.020 waiting till they're married. And the other issue you get is then men assume men will waste a bunch

00:16:36.500 of time on women that are not actually interested. What they'll do is they will put a woman on a 1.00

00:16:42.160 pedestal, say she's different, special, whatever, and they will do all this work, take a woman on 1.00

00:16:47.320 dates, get in full-blown relationships where the woman is not giving the man sex. But the guy that 0.94

00:16:53.680 knows what's going on knows that if she likes you, she's sleeping with you. If she's not sleeping 0.68

00:16:58.820 with you she doesn't like you that is more realistic than what the traditional conservatives

00:17:04.900 say because the traditional conservatives say go to church and find a good woman and oftentimes it's

00:17:11.540 not uncommon and not all i'm sure you guys have a special church somewhere out there that's different

00:17:17.860 a lot of times there's predatory women in the church because they're going there because they 1.00

00:17:23.300 They know there's a bunch of naive men that don't know better.

00:17:27.600 And that's really, really common.

Pearl - September 11, 2024

Men INVEST in ACTIONS! Not WORDS! ｜ Pearl Daily

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