Pearl - September 11, 2024Men INVEST in ACTIONS! Not WORDS! ｜ Pearl Daily
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In this episode, I talk about the abortion debate, feminism, and why women are shapeshifters. I also talk about why women should be allowed to choose whether or not to have children. If you like what you hear, please HIT SUBSCRIBE and leave a review on Apple Podcasts!
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Brett Cooper recently had a tweet and her tweet was an abortion argument. So she said,
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consent to sex is not consent to pregnancy. It's one of the most common responses to saying that
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women should just keep their legs closed. And it's also one of the most laughable. Yes,
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humans can have sex with the express goal of procreating and also not, but the intention
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does not change the possible outcome of pregnancy. Pretending like it does because you have the
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option to kill your baby is just a way to rationalize not taking personal responsibility.
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Your statement means nothing. So this I completely agree with. I think in 2024, there is zero excuse
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to have an unplanned pregnancy. You can track your cycle. There's plan B. There's a million
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forms of birth control. There's only like three or four days in a month where you statistically
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are likely to get pregnant. So from my point of view, if you have an unplanned pregnancy,
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You are being irresponsible. Now, as you guys know, I personally am pro-life. I don't believe
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in abortion. If I was making the rules, it would not be legal. However, I'm also realistic. I don't
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see this as anything that will change in my lifetime. I think, you know, the majority of
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voters are female and women will never give up that power. So when I see people protesting this
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stuff, while I empathize with them because I think it's wrong, I do believe that the arguments are a
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waste of time. I've watched these abortion debates since when I was 12, 13 years old, and every year
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there's more abortions. It is unlikely that the voting bloc will give up power. Abortion is
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reproductive freedom, and never in history has a group gotten power and said, you know what,
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let me just give it back. Here you go. So she responded again to this tweet and she said,
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people like to pretend that sex is some kind of recreational sport with no consequences. But no
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matter how much you lie to yourself, that is simply not objectively true. Now, Rolo Tomasi,
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he said, did you lose your virginity to your husband, Brett? Now, this is a really common
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question in this space. There's conservative women and what they do is they virtue signal.
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And they'll do this in a bunch of different ways.
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One way they do this is they say not all women are like that.
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Another way that they do this is they wear flower dresses.
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They try to signal that they are different and they are traditional.
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But when it boils down to it, most women in 2024 that are attractive did not lose their
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You can say you're traditional, you can put on a dress, you can signal that you're different
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to the group, but men want to know, are you putting your money where your mouth is? Okay,
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so then he says, did you lose your virginity to your wife? Nope, but I'm not the one making a
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living off late game virtue signaling about sport effing late either. So this is a common grievance
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and I don't think it's unfair. Women are shapeshifters. Women have the ability to
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completely change into a different person based on their environment. Now, I don't personally
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view this as a bad thing. This is how women survive, and it's a part of femininity.
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When a woman meets a man that she's falling in love with, I've seen women switch their religions
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for a man. I've seen women change the way they dress. I've seen women change their habits. I've
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seen women date personal trainers and get in shape. I've seen women that are Christian date
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Muslims and switch that for him. In some regard, men want the women to shape shift a little bit
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to cater to his life. They might learn his recipes. They might study what he likes and become
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complimentary to his life. But the issue is when women are signaling to Christian men,
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oftentimes they will shapeshift. So I want to talk about first, what is the red pill?
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So basically all the men came together online and they said, you know what? We want to figure
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women out. Let's talk about our personal experiences. So one experience that many men
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had, and this transcends countries, is that when women want to get married, usually around the age
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of 27, they magically become religious. And this isn't necessarily because the woman wants to,
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but because she has to. Her biology is kicking in and says, you need a kid. You're running out of
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time. Some women it's earlier, some it's later, and they magically find religion. Oftentimes the
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women themselves believe it. So they personally believe they have found God, but the issue is
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once they get the child, a lot of them switch up. This isn't all, not all, but it's so common
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that thousands of men from across the world that did not know each other figured this out.
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This is why when an ex-corn star comes out, Nala, everyone was crucifying me for saying,
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hey, this isn't real. She just wants to get married and have a platform. Everyone crucified
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me and said that I was wrong for saying that, but it's bigger than me. It's not even based on me.
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It's based on the experience of thousands of men. So the purpose of the red pill is to increase
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men's sexual power and options. What does that mean? That means if a guy says, you know what,
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I want to get married and start a family. He can go to certain channels and say,
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these are the tools to do it. If a guy wants to have multiple girlfriends, they can get together
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and say, this is how you do it. And the issue you get is the moralists come in. So oftentimes,
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these are the Christians, these are, and they say that is wrong, but there's no, you aren't going to
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stop the men that want to have multiple wives, multiple girlfriends, date around. It's never
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going to stop. You can't change that. So saying that's wrong does nothing. And some men go to the
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red pill and they want to fix their relationship with their wife. Some men want to figure out how
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to get laid. Some men, they all just, and all they do is they come together and they say,
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these are the experiences I've had and they develop patterns. So how do men increase their
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sexual power? One way is to figure out the strategies that women use to sell purity when
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they're not pure and be able to detect them. So again, so when that woman comes to church at 27
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and said she found God, the men know that it's a bit of BS. And maybe if a woman was more genuine,
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it would happen when she was younger and didn't go on 10 yachts the year before. So that's one
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way they do it. And the issue Brett is going to have here is men care more about actions than
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words. And women have lost the benefit of the doubt. Men used to give women the benefit of the
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doubt, but this is how men view it. A woman turn, let's say 18, and she has the option to date
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basketball players, athletes, maybe just the best looking guy in her hometown,
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if she's attractive. Men will assume that something has happened. Even women that say
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they're virgins, they still have strategies where they're not as innocent as they're projecting.
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So women that are virgins on their wedding day, but did everything else with three different guys,
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that's not uncommon. Women that are virgins on their wedding days, but had been in the club the
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year before making out with a bunch of different guys. So again, it's the women signaling, I am
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pure, but the actions don't completely match up and they figure out some sort of workaround.
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Again, this isn't me saying this. This is thousands of men across the world saying,
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hey, I married a woman who said she was a virgin and she did things with half the town. Or hey,
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I married a woman who said she was a virgin. She wasn't even a virgin.
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So what does that leave men to conclude? Assume women are promiscuous. That is the baseline
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assumption. Because at this age, at this day and age, there's nothing stopping women. You can
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download a dating app and hook up with the best looking guys in your city, in your hometown. You
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You can download Instagram and high level men can message you and you can be on a yacht
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So when she is putting stuff out, signaling I am pure, most men will not believe it.
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And the conclusion a lot of men come to is the women, and again, this is thousands of
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experiences, the women that tend to work harder to signal that they are pure are the least
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pure once because it's almost like they're making up for something that they're not here's another
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one she said as an adult you are free to have sex however no one is free to have sex without
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potential consequences it shouldn't be hard for people to understand my mother repeatedly told
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me not to sleep with somebody that i wouldn't be willing to have a child with right then
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it's common sense this protected me from a lot of heartbreak as it turns out there is only one man
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that fits the requirement. So here she's signaling. I'm just going to tell you, I have no idea what
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this woman has done. I don't care, but I want you to understand how many men see it. So this is
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signaling, I am pure. I am pure. I am different, right? Then the men ask, did you go to a college?
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She went to a big school. Were you, oh, she was in a sorority. Okay. Then the men ask, okay,
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was she on dating apps and so in this clip she's saying she was on i think it was tinder and by
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the way i'd like to i want to preface i don't know i don't care what she did but i just want
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i think women should understand how men view it because a lot of times when you see these tweets
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you think these guys are nuts and i did too when i first got into the space i just thought why are
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the why is this old man tweeting this stuff this is weird but here first dating experience ever
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was online. And I think that's the case for the majority of my generation, which in my opinion
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is why we're so confused and so warped when it comes to dating, because we literally don't know
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how to date. Like my first dating experiences of like talking to guys, we're over Instagram DMs,
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we're on Tinder, we're on Hinge. Okay. So this is, this is how a guy's going to think, okay,
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this woman is signaling I am pure, but she went to a party school in a sorority and was on Tinder.
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that's how men will see it and that's why you're gonna have tweets like this saying did you lose
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your virginity to your husband and the question you have to ask too with the virgins is okay
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so you're a virgin so you haven't done anything else nothing no I don't want to get too detailed
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you know but nothing and usually when you ask that question women hesitate okay I'll show you
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an example. Because a common complaint that I got when I was interviewing women that somehow I was
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only selecting city girls. It didn't matter how much I went into the country and I would find the
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same patterns of behavior in the country and the city. It didn't really matter. Small towns, big
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towns. Women, again, remember in order for women to survive, they had to sell purity. This is
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survival so i was on this show and there's three women i'm on the show with and they're all
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signaling i am pure i am traditional i am pure and i had to ask the question because
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what i try to live in is reality i try to live in what is real what is not real
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and if the women are signaling i am pure i am different i am special i have to put their money
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where their mouths are right it looks like let's not play pretend three percent of people are
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waiting till they're married that's not really common and of the three percent of people that
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are waiting till they're married what percent are not overweight or obese unattractive disabled
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small percentage okay i mean was anyone here virgin on their wedding night anyone no and i'm
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on this show right and the three trad women one has partial nudes on the internet the other had
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kids with different guys. And the other, the third woman, and I don't say this as a criticism,
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right? I don't, I'm not special, different. I'm a woman too. So I'm not, I'm not trying to attack
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them. I'm just trying to describe what's going on. The other woman believed that it was her place
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to tell other men how to speak to their wives. That's not traditional. And that's a common thing
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with conservative women. They signal, they say, I am traditional. I am pure. I am different. That's
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their signaling. And by the way, the women that really are that tend to not have to signal it.
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They just are. But most of those women think it's their place to tell men how to talk. They think
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it's their place to tell the top men that it's bad to sleep around. But part of femininity is
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knowing that you cannot control men. And this is something I've had to learn too, right? But that's
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part of femininity is knowing they're out of your control. You cannot control a man. And if you try
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to, that's very masculine. A lot of times women lie to themselves. I'm traditional. I'm pure.
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But the actions, right, which are more important than words, they don't match up. And why is this
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important. So a lot of times the criticism is, why do you care? Why do men in this space care?
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Because what happens is young, naive men that don't know better get very damaged by not knowing
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this information. For example, a young guy goes to church and he meets, let's say, a 26-year-old
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woman, 25. Now, a guy that knows what's going on knows that most women are sexually active
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in high school. That on average balance of probabilities, most women are sexually active
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in high school, but let's say 18. So from the time that woman was 18, she went to college
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and maybe a major city or whatever city she's in. Most women have access to high level men
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from a very young age. So a guy that knows what's going on says, okay, she's 25. There's something
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there that I'm not going to like, but I like her. It's great. But at least that man goes into
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the ordeal or goes into the relationship with the expectation that there's probably something he
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doesn't like. Now, let's take the men that get fooled by this stuff. Let's take the men that
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don't know better, that don't have a lot of experience with women. They go into this interaction
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and they say, wow, I found this pure woman that is different and special. Now let's say he marries
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her and they have three children together. What would it do? How crushed would he be if he sees
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a sex tape that woman made during college? How crushed would he be if he found she hooked up
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with joe whoever it was the guy number two and some men end up committing suicide or harming
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themselves in some way when they find out that their wife did something crazy before they met
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her men mentally are in a much better place if they just assume there is something that he is
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not gonna like because one is being realistic and one is being idealistic three percent of women are
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waiting till they're married. And the other issue you get is then men assume men will waste a bunch
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of time on women that are not actually interested. What they'll do is they will put a woman on a
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pedestal, say she's different, special, whatever, and they will do all this work, take a woman on
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dates, get in full-blown relationships where the woman is not giving the man sex. But the guy that
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knows what's going on knows that if she likes you, she's sleeping with you. If she's not sleeping
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with you she doesn't like you that is more realistic than what the traditional conservatives
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say because the traditional conservatives say go to church and find a good woman and oftentimes it's
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not uncommon and not all i'm sure you guys have a special church somewhere out there that's different
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a lot of times there's predatory women in the church because they're going there because they
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They know there's a bunch of naive men that don't know better.