Pearl - Men REFUSE to Provide for Entitled Feminists

00:00:00.000 is crumbling because of it a fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage you've

00:00:05.600 kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing this men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes

00:00:10.400 too far the other way you need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become

00:00:15.360 men marriage is a bond and it's a sacred bond it's a machine designed to extract resources from you

00:00:21.360 now many of the red pill have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married

00:00:24.720 It's Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.

00:00:30.020 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.

00:00:33.700 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.

00:00:36.560 Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.

00:00:41.740 Gee, what could go wrong there?

00:00:43.820 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.

00:00:47.480 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.

00:00:50.360 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.

00:00:52.980 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

00:00:57.900 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.

00:01:01.240 You need no evidence.

00:01:02.360 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for.

00:01:06.060 And you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.

00:01:09.400 I interviewed them on the other side.

00:01:11.940 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

00:01:14.220 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

00:01:16.380 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:01:18.720 Before you know it, you're homeless.

00:01:20.140 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.

00:01:21.900 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.

00:01:24.480 Wives are taught to leave their husbands, and then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:01:28.780 Family is the foundation of society.

00:01:30.500 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.

00:01:33.680 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.

00:01:38.000 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.

00:01:39.960 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.

00:01:41.780 We tell them to put off family into marriage.

00:01:43.540 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.

00:01:46.300 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.

00:01:50.440 Oh, freeze your eggs. Have an abortion. What? You're evil. I don't think there's anything else

00:01:54.760 in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail. Like if you have the mentality of this

00:01:59.500 is going to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail

00:02:03.940 anyway. It's self-sabotage. That's the thing. Like women are so willing to leave marriages

00:02:07.940 because they're not happy. This is not about happiness. The most important thing is the

00:02:12.480 children. And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings,

00:02:17.640 leave when I feel like it instead of doing what's best for the kids this myth that we live in an age

00:02:23.940 of male privilege where's my male privilege they think well men have all the rights they have all

00:02:27.740 the power and privilege patriarchal system that we have why doesn't our society care about men's

00:02:32.680 rights I have no friends no wife and no social life men are alone in this situation men are

00:02:38.760 homeless men are thinking about eating guns I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they

00:02:44.180 didn't do anything wrong. How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die

00:02:49.740 to defend the country? The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure. Women

00:02:55.280 are helplessly dependent upon men. The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose to

00:03:00.780 alcohol, three times higher among men than among women. Culture is telling men you are no good.

00:03:06.500 You got to get your act together. I think men have failed themselves. What kind of a man are you?

00:03:10.200 What kind of a woman are you going to attract if men are in trouble so are women everybody knows this is a huge problem

00:03:16.800 But nobody wants to admit it every single woman at the table said they wanted a man

00:03:21.120 500k 500k 300k 200k am I crazy everything is really set up against you to fail as a man

00:03:26.360 If men make less than women women don't want to marry them. So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?

00:03:34.080 women

00:03:36.080 want to be an independent woman anymore. I don't want to be a strong independent woman. I'm over

00:03:40.700 it. When is it going to be my turn? Where are we meeting the men that don't stop? I can't keep

00:03:44.960 having these same conversations. The only simp here is you, Pearl. You simp for men. No, I think

00:03:49.160 you simp for women. She's a provocateur. She says stupid stuff, but Pearl is right about this. It's

00:03:53.920 already happening. It's just not out in the open yet. Now it's just hookup culture is going to be

00:03:57.960 our fairy tale ending because men don't want a wife and women can't find a husband. The future,

00:04:02.580 if everybody follows your path is there is no future. We go into population decline and our

00:04:08.040 economy goes into decline. Civilization will crumble. The American story does not end well.

00:04:14.460 This is an existential crisis failing young men. What up guys? Welcome to another episode of Pearl

00:04:26.500 daily here in the audacity network that was our trailer for our documentary um because i want to

00:04:33.160 put this out in my viewpoints um the ladies are not overly happy with me and really the past year

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00:04:56.480 just been like crazy stuff that's happened but one of them was that I got demonetized and

00:05:03.900 basically I had to close my entire business and build it back up from the ground up I recently

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00:05:40.780 internet's a weird place but at some point we're going to do events with that and as I interview

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00:06:01.100 and it basically you're buying into the network and that i'm going to interview smart intelligent

00:06:06.460 men forever and i'm going to put them on the on the platform so okay so today i actually had an

00:06:14.940 email i wanted to start the show with um not an email sorry a video i wanted to start with the

00:06:21.120 show um as a pre-show that was requested if you guys ever do have requests for interviews or not

00:06:27.660 interviews reactions it makes my job easier so feel free to send them so we're starting the show

00:06:32.920 um somebody asked me and i i have not seen this yet to react to charlie kirk destroying an anti-woman

00:06:39.960 man bashing marriage so as you guys know i consider although i do like a lot of charlie

00:06:46.900 kirk's stuff i do consider him a super simp and um i do think he's very dishonest on the topic of

00:06:54.140 marriage unfortunately i wish he wasn't but although i do like a lot of his conservative

00:06:58.560 ideas um i very much do respect his work he is a super simp so today we're gonna react to what he

00:07:06.300 said hedge you are sitting on a ticking time bomb markets are all oh my gosh i will not we are not

00:07:13.080 you're not giving me we are skipping that okay thank you so here's my question i i fundamentally

00:07:21.700 disagree with you in regards to having a family and uh getting married in this day and age and

00:07:28.060 i'll tell you why 70 of the divorce rates happen because of women okay that's a fact before we get

00:07:34.960 angry let's talk about the facts that you can google this too and on top of that and on top of

00:07:41.440 that 85 hey hey hey 85 of the men or i should say people in jail grow up in fatherless homes so

00:07:51.760 there's a direct correlation between those two things so my my charlie is going to get got so

00:07:58.960 bad i don't wish it on him but he married like an influencer pageant queen we've seen this film

00:08:07.520 before right thinking is that we don't need to necessarily have more families unless we have a

00:08:14.000 complete change to the system now what do you think about kirk is such a super simp that made

00:08:21.840 perfect sense we need to change the system in order for us to have a nice conversation about

00:08:27.120 you know having a family because the state incentivizes single motherhood in this country

00:08:32.640 yeah and here's the thing i'm sure miss arizona yeah sold his his wife or whatever sold purity

00:08:39.160 to him and that's what women have a tendency to do and they do a very good job of it i'm sure

00:08:43.020 she did a very believable story but look the woman flew all over the world and got married at like 31

00:08:49.740 when she met charlie um she only really could pull that off because she was really hot

00:08:55.500 uh but i just want to be realistic here um

00:09:01.460 she was not like this pure trad wife okay and you're looking at me with that face but tell me

00:09:11.460 why i'm trying to understand what you're saying what is your contention that we shouldn't get

00:09:16.800 married and have kids we shouldn't currently because of this particular issue right now

00:09:21.540 What the issue is build that out further for me.

00:09:24.260 OK, OK, let me explain outside of the fact that, you know, the anti-woman thing that you said.

00:09:28.420 Oh, it's not necessarily anti-woman. It's a fact. You can Google it.

00:09:31.440 Oh, my gosh.

00:09:35.080 I can't believe he sent. Oh, my gosh. I would cook him.

00:09:40.760 How do I get to go to one of these debates?

00:09:47.320 Oh, my gosh. But still, what are the. Oh, should I look at the comments?

00:09:51.540 oh and look at the divorce rates in this country i'm just saying that if we're going to have more

00:09:57.940 families we need some protections a place for men because right now the legal system actively

00:10:03.320 destroys the man in court all right is that false or is that true i mean yeah of course it's true

00:10:08.780 that the state encourages divorce but yeah how about you find a woman that you want to spend

00:10:14.000 the rest of your life years i was married for 10 years and then you should take responsibility for

00:10:19.840 own actions like why is that my problem another thing is that you're saying oh my god this is

00:10:25.920 such a bad look for charlie holy i didn't know he was this much of a i knew he was a simp but this

00:10:34.480 is crazy you're gonna put that how dare screw you charlie oh my gosh you're asking me if i should

00:10:42.880 find a woman but hold on you're going up in front of people time out to say marriage is bad because

00:10:47.120 I had a bad experience. No, no, no, but it's true statistically. We can look at the data. Is it wrong

00:10:52.400 to say that, hey, 70% of divorces are initiated by women when the data says that? Can I ask you

00:10:56.640 a provocative question? Facts don't care about your feelings, right? Can I ask you a provocative

00:10:59.040 question? Yes, of course. Did you do anything that led to your divorce? Absolutely. Okay, so it wasn't

00:11:04.320 all the woman's fault. No, no, no, but I'm saying, no, but here's the thing. 70% of the divorces are

00:11:10.140 initiated by them, and yes, this is an anecdotal situation. See, I reject the premise. I reject

00:11:15.280 the premise i think that we as men must lead women might initiate it but we as men yeah but

00:11:19.760 you can't lead somebody that won't follow and charlie's got to know this he runs a big company

00:11:26.720 you can you can have employees and you can try attempt to lead them but if they don't follow you

00:11:36.640 i mean that's when you got to let people go you know and don't take the directive

00:11:40.400 to have peace in the home i reject the premise hold on hold on time out let me finish i reject

00:11:46.560 the premise guy cooked anyone know his if anyone knows his ads put it in the chat i'll dm him tell

00:11:54.320 i'll send him the zoom link if he wants to come on yes women might initiate the divorce proceeding

00:11:59.120 but we are the one as men that ignore the subterranean threat and the brush fire that

00:12:04.240 is growing we're the ones that should take the family back to church that go seek counseling

00:12:08.320 if necessary. And it's not good enough just to say like, hey, you know, oh, it's women that

00:12:14.120 initiate it. It's men who don't. I'll say it. Act, I think, confidently and strong enough in

00:12:22.100 most cases to actually make sure that marriage is a safe haven to have children in a wholly

00:12:26.880 protected place. And I think that makes sense. And let me say this. Okay, let's find some common

00:12:30.820 ground. So we know that the system is flawed, right? So here's the thing that's flawed about

00:12:35.520 it when the federal government incentivizes the state at the state level for child support

00:12:40.560 enforcement programs and we have a system where the state makes a bunch of money off of this

00:12:46.960 it's pretty parasitic because there's no such thing as a 50 50 custody in Wyoming even if you

00:12:52.640 get along with the parents so when the state is actively involved with family matters and women

00:12:59.920 are getting paid off from this and this is not false we have a toxic system that probably needs

00:13:06.000 to be revised do you not disagree with that because well i think we should revise i do think

00:13:10.960 i do believe in more men's rights in custody i think that's fine but like let's take a step back

00:13:15.920 though and i think it's very important is that that men are oh i just know he's gonna super simp

00:13:22.480 i just know it objectively better when they are married and they don't stay as grown infant boys

00:13:28.960 watching porn and playing video games all day long. And I don't disagree with that. Good. So we

00:13:33.220 agree. I disagree with that. Charlie, the number one OnlyFans consumer is white married Christian

00:13:42.720 men. Actually, a lot of OnlyFans and sex workers will tell you this. A lot of the people that are

00:13:53.380 seeing sex workers aren't the single guys. It's the married ones. I agree. Here's my argument.

00:13:58.960 despite here's my despite the problems of the legal system of which your argument has some

00:14:04.440 merit yeah we still should get married because it is the right thing to do despite the technical

00:14:10.220 problems despite the difficulties in fact it's up us for up men us men to find a woman that we love

00:14:16.860 and to protect that marriage and hope that it never goes in the direction of divorce

00:14:20.760 and and just 30 how did that work for crowder same thing though that's 30 percent well again

00:14:28.200 I don't, again, so, well, no, no, about half marriages continue.

00:14:32.800 It's not 30%.

00:14:33.700 No, because if 70, no, hold on a second.

00:14:35.820 Because look at this.

00:14:37.200 Why do we have such a society that is so hyper-focused on we need to have a bunch of children and get married,

00:14:43.340 but we have this system in place, and I'm talking about the federal government,

00:14:47.200 that incentivizes single parenthood.

00:14:49.300 And we can look at most of these inmates in jail come from fatherless homes.

00:14:53.680 Maybe we should get rid of the state involved in personal family matters.

00:14:57.440 So you're conflating. You know why the fatherless homes you're talking about?

00:15:00.860 Yes.

00:15:01.220 Are people that never got married in the first place most of the time.

00:15:03.420 Yes, that's true.

00:15:04.580 They're men that impregnate women and flee the women that they were with.

00:15:07.940 But understand this, that every generation has had troubles.

00:15:11.840 Our duty as men is to overcome obstacles, not whine about them and not complain about them.

00:15:17.660 So, yes, there is a problem here, but I would reject the premise.

00:15:21.860 Every man here.

00:15:22.820 But who are you to tell grown men what to do?

00:15:27.440 You're not their boss. Who are you to tell them that should not every young man should say, I'm

00:15:33.060 not going to be a boy and I'm going to go do the hard thing and get married and have children. And

00:15:37.420 I would just push back against some of your narrative where you're telling like, well,

00:15:40.220 man, it might not be good. It might not be this. Yes. Life has lots of things that could throw at

00:15:44.160 you, but marriage is a holy. Yeah, but you don't, it's not holy, Charlie, your marriage wasn't holy.

00:15:50.680 Your wife wasn't a virgin. So this cosplay, like it's getting old. People aren't buying this stuff

00:15:57.200 anymore people are getting tired of it like it's not when you use your marriage as part of your

00:16:03.440 brand which charlie kirk does constantly and you're bringing your wife on that's not traditional

00:16:08.000 when your wife's got an open instagram that's not traditional so it's like they what they want to do

00:16:13.900 is they want to make money off of the grift and they really they're sending men to slaughter

00:16:19.560 because men are nine times more likely to commit suicide after a divorce so i mean as far as i'm

00:16:26.040 concerned what he's saying it's scum of the earth you know um holy institution that we should aim

00:16:34.600 for and the fact that marriage is slipping in the west is one of the great damaging indicators as to

00:16:40.260 why our country is falling apart you know what's interesting today um my old neighbor came back

00:16:45.320 here and this kid moved to florida um and he's like back with his grandpa for the summer or

00:16:53.020 something and they were telling me that um the demograph or um there's like no kids

00:16:59.720 so the the kid is so lonely and like bored because there's no kids around it's all like

00:17:05.640 old people where they live it's like damn what a world okay um the next thing that i'm going to show

00:17:15.780 hold up. Let me, yeah, here we go. Is modern women are really taking L's on dating apps

00:17:26.660 and then we'll get to the main event. Okay. But I, I just, I saw this on TikTok and I thought it

00:17:32.240 was so funny. So as you guys know, women are sharing a smaller and smaller percentage of men

00:17:37.180 every year. And, um, now women are not only taking L's, but they're putting their L's online.

00:17:45.780 And now we get the awesome. So, and as you guys know, when women take an L with a guy,

00:17:50.540 they can't just take the L and move on. What they tend to have to do is take the L and ruin

00:17:54.520 his reputation. So we're going to react to a woman who, um, basically got played really bad

00:18:00.580 by this, um, Chad in Texas. Hi. Um, if you know this man, or, you know, somebody who maybe knows

00:18:09.000 this man, or you live in Charlotte, North Carolina and North Carolina in general, or even South

00:18:13.040 Carolina, please listen. His name is Alex. I've been seeing him since January, not entirely

00:18:20.180 exclusive this entire point, but to a point we were exclusive. And then on Saturday, he asked

00:18:25.140 me to be his girlfriend. On Sunday, I found out I'm not the only girlfriend. Enter girlfriend one

00:18:29.940 and two. I'm actually girlfriend three. Crazy. One of which he's been dating for nine months and the

00:18:35.560 other one he's been dating for over a year and is very involved with her and her two kids as a

00:18:40.680 family unit to say I was shocked was not it doesn't even cover it for lack of better words

00:18:47.600 um the lies were thorough um the manipulation so thorough I like to think of myself as someone

00:18:56.320 who's really intuitive and I was picking up on things but every response he had pretty much

00:19:00.840 squashed any fears I had um there are seven to ten other women that he's potentially talking to

00:19:08.620 in dating just from some research that we've all done as you know we confronted him um and i do

00:19:17.260 believe there's potentially other girlfriends that have yet to know about what he's doing

00:19:21.640 um he does do this in cycles this is not the first time um that i'm aware of where and he

00:19:27.340 has admitted to me that he does this in cycles and that he knows it's going to blow up in his face

00:19:32.540 yet he does it anyway because he can't be happy with just one person he doesn't like this about

00:19:37.400 himself. At least there's that nobody likes it. Nobody wants to be in this situation. Um,

00:19:44.480 I share all this because I know there's more out there. I've been reached out to from women from

00:19:48.980 Wilmington and Asheville since, and for your mental health, your wellbeing and all the things

00:19:55.140 I can't not expose this man for what he's done to me and other women. Um, he was building lives

00:20:00.820 with other women far more than, you know, what we accomplished in our five months of dating. So

00:20:06.400 for me this is about making it so he can never continue doing this again i am he'll get to do

00:20:12.340 it again women will continue to sign up yeah actions to have him banned from the dating apps

00:20:18.300 that we matched on i really don't want to make this easy for him um it's insane because women

00:20:26.200 can get a bunch of money from men and brag about it but they don't get banned on dating apps but

00:20:32.480 Women will take a player off of a dating app at all.

00:20:37.160 And out of respect for the other women, if you know of them, please respect their privacy and don't expose them.

00:20:43.020 Please don't. Please don't also reach out to his family or him.

00:20:46.680 The goal of this is to not send hate his way, but rather make it so he can't do this again to any other woman.

00:20:52.840 If you know somebody in Charlotte or you know somebody in South Carolina or he sounds familiar again, his name is Alex.

00:20:59.260 Run. That's all I can really say.

00:21:02.480 The work trips he tells you he's on are not work trips.

00:21:07.160 He's with these other women and they're amazing.

00:21:10.040 They're so strong.

00:21:10.880 And I have a lot of admiration for them both,

00:21:13.240 but it's not the circumstances we should have met in.

00:21:16.320 And he took advantage of every single one of us

00:21:18.720 and played us like fiddles.

00:21:20.980 There are more of you.

00:21:22.480 So if you need proof of any sort,

00:21:24.900 if this video finds you, please reach out.

00:21:27.420 I'm sorry that I have to be the one to tell you,

00:21:30.020 but i don't want him to do this anymore so thanks for listening

00:21:40.740 i just thought it was funny to be honest i thought that was hilarious women we're just

00:21:45.380 broadcasting our l's on the internet as we do all right so for the main event today

00:21:54.340 All right, guys. Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily. I've said on my channel before that in 2025, men have no incentive to get married. Despite modern day feminism and all this female empowerment BS, women still expect men to protect and provide.

00:22:15.140 I'll go further today and say that men have no incentive to strive for success and climb

00:22:21.680 to the top of the job market.

00:22:23.980 Men used to go into the job market at 16 and work and put themselves in the best position

00:22:30.040 for a wife and children.

00:22:32.060 More women are choosing to be single instead of being a wife and having children, leaving

00:22:36.580 men without the primary motivator of success that men had in the past.

00:22:42.200 More and more men are checking out of the workforce.

00:22:43.980 In fact, so many men have checked out that it's gaining national attention.

00:22:48.180 In the 1960s, the male employment rate was 98%, and today the male employment rate is 90%, and everyone is losing their minds.

00:22:57.640 On Jeopardy!, a contestant was introduced as a stay-at-home son.

00:23:01.600 He's 27 years old and is in between jobs living with his parents.

00:23:06.360 okay jeopardy champion brendan leah talks to talks oh my gosh let me try again jeopardy champion

00:23:19.040 brendan leah talks intense prep for the show and what's next brendan leah went viral when he listed

00:23:24.880 his occupation as stay-at-home son now the three-day jeopardy champion opened up about his

00:23:30.020 studying habits for the game show and what was next for him after winning the average yearly

00:23:34.800 salary for most people in three episodes. He asked host Ken Jennings to introduce him

00:23:40.320 at the beginning of each episode as a recent grad and stay-at-home son.

00:23:44.320 I figured even if I lost at my first game, at least I could make people laugh,

00:23:48.700 he told the Wall Street Journal just days after his run ended. It sounds better than being

00:23:53.880 unemployed. It's tough times right now, so let's try and get some laughter out there.

00:23:58.840 Leah, who has a master's degree in political science, went home with a total of $59,000

00:24:03.880 in three episodes. He was defeated by Jim Carpenter, a retired music professor from Charlotte,

00:24:09.560 Vermont, on Friday, May 23rd. The 27-year-old still lives with his parents and currently has

00:24:15.500 no job after finishing school, but says that law school is in its future. I don't know what's

00:24:20.480 going to happen with all this Jeopardy stuff and newfound publicity. If something better comes

00:24:24.840 along, I'm not opposed to shelving the law school for a bit. But in the long run, government work

00:24:29.320 or politics. I wrote my master's thesis on the House of Representatives, and I really want to

00:24:34.860 work on the Hill. Working as a Senate staffer would be my dream job, basically, he told the

00:24:39.360 outlet. My career doesn't really define me, and it should just be a thing where I'm okay with

00:24:44.460 what I do as long as I make enough to pay the bills. Since he doesn't have a job and claimed

00:24:48.740 that he has all the time in the world, Liam's studying prep leading up to the episode is pretty

00:24:54.720 intense he shared that he practiced with a fake buzzer as he stood in his living room in a suit

00:24:59.440 watching jeopardy episodes five times five episodes per day i was doing cardio every day

00:25:04.900 on getting on a stationary bike and watching an episode of jeopardy to get my heart rate up

00:25:09.340 this helped him stimulate the nerves of being on the game show no matter how much you prepare

00:25:14.080 walking onto the stage and having all the lights and the cameras and jet jennings and an audience

00:25:20.500 There's no way to recreate that.

00:25:23.720 Okay.

00:25:27.120 Let's see.

00:25:28.580 All right.

00:25:29.060 So now the TradCon women are freaking out.

00:25:32.380 So women have been freeloaders for all of eternity.

00:25:35.620 You know, not all.

00:25:36.860 Remember, there are exceptions.

00:25:37.700 But when it comes to having useless jobs, living off of the government, taking benefits,

00:25:44.440 going to get a degree that makes no money, and accumulating a bunch of student debt we

00:25:50.320 don't pay back. Women have been freeloaders for all of eternity, gold digging men. But now that

00:25:55.360 like 10% of men are freeloaders, women don't know what to do. I also wonder if it's because a

00:26:01.200 percentage of men are like Ubering and doing stuff like that, where they wouldn't typically

00:26:05.940 be like registered as employed. Okay. So of course, some of our favorite trad cons had something to

00:26:14.840 say about it. Here's Laura Ingram and closet feminist, Tommy Lauren, tearing down men because

00:26:21.800 of this new supposed trend. All right. Let me turn the sound on. Here we go. Yeah, they're freaking

00:26:37.200 out. I don't know who does. They have too much money to have this bat of Botox. You got to get

00:26:42.560 Whatever Ivanka's doing.

00:26:43.780 Action, Tommy Lahren, OutKick host.

00:26:45.680 Tommy, now, we called them—on my old radio show, we did the whole thing on momonies,

00:26:50.400 right?

00:26:50.600 The Italian word is for the momonies, or they stay at home, and the moms like the sons staying

00:26:54.820 at home longer.

00:26:55.760 But the phrase is becoming popular of these stay-at-home sons because an unemployed Jeopardy

00:27:02.180 contestant says he was just trying to make people laugh.

00:27:05.000 But is this an actual problem in our society?

00:27:10.180 It's a major problem.

00:27:11.380 And, you know, Speaker Johnson has been talking about those maybe deadbeat folks that are

00:27:16.000 on Medicaid, and maybe some of those folks are the stay-at-home sons.

00:27:19.420 We don't know.

00:27:20.280 But I'll tell you this.

00:27:21.400 Leave it to Gen Z to rebrand laziness and social awkward—

00:27:25.460 And here—it's kind of rich that she's saying Gen Z is lazy.

00:27:32.280 We're commentators, Tommy.

00:27:35.760 And this is the thing.

00:27:36.860 the women, they get success early. Like she was a Fox news host at like 21. And we think we're

00:27:43.100 given it because of, um, how intelligent we are hardworking. It's really just being hot. Right.

00:27:50.560 And Tommy's not even that hot. She's like a six. Um, yeah. As something cutesy, like a stay at

00:27:58.500 home son. She also said social awkward. I'm sorry to cut it twice, but I think conservative women

00:28:06.800 are actually more socially awkward, because they just nag men. And she doesn't even realize how

00:28:12.260 naggy this sounds. And they did much the same thing with quiet quitting, where you can go to

00:28:17.840 work and do less. And if you call it quiet quitting, it's somehow better. But Laura,

00:28:22.400 I got to tell you, this is also a big problem when it comes to, I think, declining birth rates,

00:28:26.640 people not getting married and having children. That's a big problem. They blame it on women.

00:28:30.840 Well, look at what young women have to choose from.

00:28:36.900 The pickings are slim.

00:28:38.680 Yes, we might have a feminism problem in America, but it's the feminization of men.

00:28:43.740 There are a lot of young women out there that want to get married.

00:28:46.360 They want to have kids.

00:28:47.440 They want to have stable.

00:28:48.520 Yeah, but they want to do it with like Chad instead of an average guy.

00:28:53.700 And you proved the point, Tommy, because you married an MLB ex like baseball player.

00:28:59.360 she'll probably cheat at Fox. Families, but there are a lot of young men out there

00:29:04.760 who want to live in mama's basement and order DoorDash. And therein lies a big part of the

00:29:09.800 problem. Well, and also with the rise of AI and AI dating, as they call it, which is sick,

00:29:18.660 it's going to be even easier and perhaps more attractive for these types of individuals

00:29:24.460 to remain behind closed doors. And what does that do to families and young women and dating?

00:29:33.640 I also blame the social conditioning of the COVID era, the dumbest era in modern American

00:29:39.540 history, because a lot of people, especially these young people, they grew up like this,

00:29:43.540 thinking that it was safer at home, thinking that outside was dangerous. Interacting with people

00:29:48.000 was scary. So now you've got people that want to literally stay inside and play video games and

00:29:52.480 have A.I. girlfriends. And that's why we have declining birth rates and a lot of other problems.

00:29:57.760 No, we have declining birth rates because women don't want to be mothers.

00:30:02.500 They don't. If they if we wanted to, we would. Society, it's time to go out, get a job,

00:30:07.580 breathe the fresh air, meet people in real life. Let's just get back to basics.

00:30:11.960 here we go again conservative women nagging what else would they do with their free time

00:30:23.220 okay we got another one from laura ingram oh is this the same one has been talking about those

00:30:29.440 maybe deadbeat folks it's a major problem and you know we watched this one already okay what

00:30:34.760 do the comments say just while watch your segment on unemployed young men and the narrow-minded

00:30:39.660 shaming of these young men that um that you both spewed for most of the segment the only reason

00:30:47.020 you stopped was to with no self-awareness whatsoever chuckle at democrats for not getting

00:30:52.860 men truth is you're every bit as clueless as the democrats you don't know it these young men you're

00:30:57.800 shaming are also the same demographic that aren't bothering to pursue relationships with women

00:31:03.120 either most are pursuing training or other paths to success in life they are literally broadcasting

00:31:10.160 to you that they are they see no real future for themselves and you turned it into a punchline

00:31:15.280 i understand this gives you a chuckle but i have to wonder if it ever occurred to you just take

00:31:19.920 say 30 seconds to think about inquiring meaningfully into such a serious problem have you

00:31:25.600 ever spent any real time talking to young men about why they're checking out do you even care

00:31:30.000 i think you've already made that answer to the last question obvious if for no other reason you

00:31:35.680 might consider this some of the male vote that put republicans over the top in november came from the

00:31:41.040 guys you're mocking and belittling if you don't care about them as people at least be smart enough

00:31:45.600 to care about their votes both of these women are very obvious feminists that pose as conservative

00:31:51.920 so the fox news crowd will listen to them okay all right i'm gonna keep asking what's in it for men

00:32:00.080 when it comes to marriage when it comes to providing when it comes to success in the job

00:32:03.840 market what's in it for men no one can give me an answer all they want to do is bitch and complain

00:32:10.480 and tell men they're not doing enough as usual the days of men sacrificing for their mental

00:32:16.640 emotional, monetary, and physical health, health while asking for nothing in return.

00:32:23.120 Men used to do that as a duty, but women called that patriarchy. American women and American

00:32:29.260 society are going to have to figure out a way to incentivize men before it's too late.

00:32:33.720 So we're going to put a link in the chat. And the call in today is what do you think about men

00:32:39.040 checking out of the job market? And do you think it's okay for a man in his twenties to live with

00:32:44.240 his parents and did you ever go through a period where you checked out of the job market or were

00:32:49.160 unemployed so we're gonna call we're gonna put the zoom link in the chat

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00:34:14.240 lifetime purchase and you're done doug mpa are you on the line hey can you hear me i can hear you

00:34:21.900 can you hear me yes i can how you doing pearly i'm good how are you i'm fantastic i love this

00:34:29.060 subject what do you think about men checking out of the dating market um modern women are

00:34:37.100 are taking advantage of men like a spoiled kid with their favorite toy and what do you do when

00:34:43.620 that happens you take the toy away from them and that's what men have to do men the women they want

00:34:49.980 to boss up they think that they can do whatever a man can do let them because feminists have

00:34:55.400 rewritten history you hear women talk about the 60s well women had to stay home and men

00:35:00.640 got to go out and work

00:35:02.180 like work is fun

00:35:03.620 honestly

00:35:06.940 they've rewritten history

00:35:08.480 and so

00:35:09.820 man we just have to check out and then

00:35:12.680 when everything

00:35:13.620 I remember when coach Greg Adams he was on

00:35:16.560 Saucecast and his

00:35:18.640 that guy's

00:35:21.280 20 year old

00:35:24.340 Gen Z producer was like

00:35:26.920 Greg Adams you're saying

00:35:28.920 this stuff about women but don't you have a daughter he's like yeah does she know you say

00:35:33.720 all this stuff he's like yeah of course well you know what do you say to her he's like i don't say

00:35:38.680 anything i think his daughter's a teenager he's like look anything i tell her to do she can do

00:35:44.440 the opposite so i told her come to your dad when you got burned enough times and you're ready to

00:35:51.240 actually listen and that's what men need to do women need to burn themselves enough times and

00:35:57.080 say man we're tired of being out here being a man is not fun guys remember the journey of a man

00:36:05.160 you turn 16 you get a job and you're going to work until you're dead a lot of us we're not going to

00:36:12.040 get any tommy sotomayor said most guys don't get any kind of praise until we are in the ground

00:36:18.120 Right. So you turn 16, you get a job, you work until you're dead. And hopefully along the way, you get a highly valued skill, highly valued trade, highly valued education. So you can put yourself in the best position to be able to live the life you want to live or, or support a family. Right. And women, they think they want the journey of a man. They think they want a whole life of, of paying.

00:36:48.120 all the bills and paying for a mortgage and shouldering that responsibility. And more and

00:36:53.300 more women are finding out that it's not fun, especially right around 35. That's when women

00:36:58.680 start looking around and saying, man, am I going to have to pay all these bills for the rest of my

00:37:02.040 life? Remember, women reserve the right to change their minds about anything, guys. A lot of women,

00:37:08.900 they want to smoke until they're 35, 45, and then they want to rush to find a relationship in a man.

00:37:13.840 But anyway, sum it up and saying, I used to tell the guys, I used to mentor, guys, if your parents can facilitate you living at home while you're working a professional career, do it.

00:37:26.560 Live at your parents' house.

00:37:29.800 One of the best ways to avoid wasting money on women is live at your mom's house or your dad's house.

00:37:37.700 Is there ever an age where you don't think it's okay?

00:37:41.960 Say again?

00:37:42.340 do you is there ever an age where you don't think it's okay in a modern society no nope

00:37:48.740 no if you are productive once again if you have a highly valued skill highly valued trade

00:37:56.100 you're stacking money go for it do you know what i know there's someone i know

00:38:04.420 that is he's i know he's he's a very productive guy but he does live at his parents house

00:38:09.860 and i told him to just tell women that it's his house yeah i was like just live because it's not

00:38:17.140 like your job like i was and also i was like yeah just say you know you're you're letting them stay

00:38:25.020 with you you know they're having health issues as his dad does like push-ups in the living room

00:38:29.360 well and also we're one of the only cultures where it's not socially acceptable for multiple

00:38:35.620 generations to live in the same house anyway yeah all of my latino friends my friends from south

00:38:41.700 america all of my asian friends in fact you know i'm from um washington state and a lot of my asian

00:38:48.100 friends they they went off to college they came back moved back in with their parents they got

00:38:54.820 a professional job and then they they spent most of their mid-20s starting their career in dating

00:39:02.260 and then they would find their wife or their husband

00:39:06.500 while they were living at home

00:39:10.020 and the first time they moved out

00:39:13.140 was out of the house that they bought.

00:39:16.340 American culture, black kids,

00:39:19.120 well, black and white,

00:39:20.140 we just kick our kids out

00:39:21.440 and I have no idea why.

00:39:25.140 Did you ever go through a period

00:39:27.020 where you were checked out of the job market

00:39:29.000 or unemployed?

00:39:30.780 No, uh-uh.

00:39:32.260 i didn't think so i was like i don't you know i i do think that you owe it to yourself to be

00:39:39.760 as productive as you can as a man because we still have the masculine burden of performance

00:39:44.140 but i don't blame guys who just don't have you know but i'm also in my mid-40s you know i grew

00:39:51.500 up with the dream of having a family i don't have any children but you know so i was raised that way

00:39:57.220 but i don't see any reason like the modern man has to want to be successful but you know women

00:40:04.260 create a world where a man doesn't have to be so is anyone did anyone call in yeah cool i'm gonna

00:40:13.140 bring in let's make sure to like the video we're at over 2 million subs so thanks for getting us

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00:40:26.580 channel david are you there yeah what's up can you hear me hey david how are you

00:40:33.620 oh what's going on y'all um so what do you think about men checking out of the job market

00:40:41.940 um yeah i mean it doesn't really surprise me um whenever you're playing a game that

00:40:48.660 you can't win or the game that's like rigged against you um as men we tend to like find

00:40:54.780 solutions for this and like being pragmatic about these types of things is kind of what like women

00:41:00.820 don't like you know women really like are intimidated by men that like know their worth

00:41:06.160 so um and do you know anyone um have you ever checked out of the job market or

00:41:13.080 do you know anybody personally that's checked out it's unemployed yeah I mean I haven't had like a

00:41:20.520 real job in like over five years I mean I've long since checked out of like I used to work in like

00:41:26.000 retail environments and it's just like it's just women everywhere like literally go anywhere go to

00:41:32.020 any restaurant go to any fast food place go to any retail environment it's just women everywhere

00:41:36.920 that's all it is it's just women everywhere there's no men and the men that are there are

00:41:41.400 all freaking you already know okay so what um what like what was the career path you wanted to do and

00:41:49.220 was there like a moment that stopped you where you just decided this didn't make sense um i always

00:41:55.540 wanted to be a musician and like there was never really anything that was stopping me from that

00:41:59.980 because like i had to grow up super super quick compared to all my peers like i got kicked out of

00:42:05.120 house at like 17 and like never got to live with my parents beyond that um so i had to grow up

00:42:12.480 pretty fast and like i always wanted to be a musician but i realized pretty quick that like

00:42:16.480 i'm not that great you know so i had to like figure other things out and once i did that it

00:42:22.080 was pretty like it's pretty straightforward like i knew all this stuff all this stuff about the

00:42:26.720 red pill and like all this manosphere stuff that people talk about now i knew about this stuff when

00:42:31.360 I was in like high school like when I was like 15 because like I had an older sister and she wasn't

00:42:37.520 gonna let me get finessed by women you know what I'm saying so like she really put me on to like

00:42:44.160 how things actually are so what do you do now you like uber or like how do you I trade crypto that's

00:42:51.680 that's all I do all I do is trade bitcoin that's all I do okay and so are you listed as unemployed

00:42:57.600 then okay i don't even really know like i i really consider myself like i live outside of the system

00:43:05.440 you know what i mean like people talk about the matrix and all this stuff it's like i really live

00:43:08.960 outside this and i've been doing it for a long time it's just like it's not as glamorous as

00:43:14.080 people might make it seem you know what i mean unless you're doing it on a really big scale

00:43:18.320 and like i'm more focused on like learning guitar and like learning my instruments and like you know

00:43:23.840 being involved in like music and stuff to like really care that much i just want to be able to

00:43:29.300 like not have a nine to five where i'm getting bossed around by women all day because that's

00:43:33.460 what it was like when i was working at retail jobs it was just being bossed around by women

00:43:38.220 who can't it's like i'm over here lifting 80 pound bags of concrete and you're like

00:43:42.760 bitching at me and it's just like yo i'm not getting paid enough for this shit yeah i'll

00:43:48.080 I have a friend that's a middle school math teacher, and he said rarely does he get to spend time actually teaching because any disciplinary problems in the women's classrooms, they call him over.

00:44:05.080 Any kind of tough situation, he gets called out of his classroom to go to different classrooms because he's one of the only men in the school.

00:44:13.460 so they had to put a thing and say look leave this guy alone you have to learn how to fit yeah

00:44:19.320 but what if what if a middle school boy is acting up you know i'm a woman yeah but this is what you

00:44:24.740 ladies ask for yeah they just take advantage of the men they take advantage of men any chance

00:44:30.580 they can get because they know that like they have the leverage and like it's it goes a lot

00:44:35.960 deeper than just like you know work environments like this is a big issue and like it's funny that

00:44:41.100 tommy loren all she has as a solution is like grow up it's the same old thing over and over again it's

00:44:47.060 like oh you guys need to grow up you need to stop being so childish it's like like oh man there's

00:44:52.960 just so much i could say i'm like the pompousness i'm like bitch you don't pour concrete or

00:44:58.640 something you talk like i do too anything like what does she do like yeah i know i'm like let's

00:45:05.860 not pretend that this is like a grueling job that men have to you know no it really it it makes me

00:45:14.840 like physically upset that sometimes like i can't even like i look at clips like that and i just

00:45:19.780 like it makes me so angry i feel like they're doing it on purpose you know i feel like it's

00:45:23.100 a psyop well the worst part about it is you i keep saying it feminists are worse than these

00:45:29.080 these fake Tradcon hoes, because the feminists, the tattoos, green hair, give them away.

00:45:38.600 But the Tradcon fakies, they blend in.

00:45:44.360 And it's not until they open their mouths when they start spewing.

00:45:47.680 You can take the same thing that Tommy Lawrence says about men,

00:45:51.140 and then the same thing as Jabba the Hutt from yesterday,

00:45:55.340 and you can take their words, and it looks like it's coming from the same person.

00:45:59.080 it's sad yeah i mean it's just women at the end of the day you know like we can't really listen

00:46:06.160 to anything they say unless it's pearl obviously wink wink but it's like like i don't understand

00:46:11.760 why like like dudes are still like buying into this shit i know most of them don't like i have

00:46:18.180 faith that most guys are like not really buying into all this stuff but it's like it's just like

00:46:23.640 man what do we do well well men are we see women vote with their feelings men vote with their feet

00:46:31.220 in their wallets men and men are spending less and we're just we're just not getting involved

00:46:35.660 so we already have a solution and apparently like pearl covered yesterday the democrats are

00:46:42.100 going to spend 20 million dollars on how to talk to men yeah good luck with that okay we're going

00:46:50.740 to move on to the next caller, but thank you

00:46:52.580 for calling in, David. Yeah, thanks for calling in.

00:46:55.100 Always a pleasure.

00:46:59.960 Let me put you back

00:47:00.740 in the way you have.

00:47:02.280 We have

00:47:03.660 Andreas, are you there?

00:47:10.560 Oh, hey, yeah. Hey, Andreas.

00:47:12.480 How are you?

00:47:14.520 Hey, Pearlie. How are you? I'm good.

00:47:16.740 So what do you think about men checking

00:47:18.520 out of the job market?

00:47:20.740 oh i got no problems with it uh i think if they can find a way to make a living

00:47:27.080 and survive by whatever it means go for it of course as long as it's not you know i would say

00:47:36.960 obviously like illegal you know what i mean but other than that yeah i mean you know there used

00:47:45.240 to be remember back well you probably don't remember pearl you're a little young but back

00:47:51.300 in the day they used to have beach bums in california and stuff and i went to college with

00:47:56.180 one and you know he's just like the chillest guy i've ever seen and i'm like you know i was all

00:48:02.860 hard pressed and trying real hard in college and you know to become a musician kind of like a

00:48:09.980 the other dude that just talked and and i did become a musician but uh yeah that's a that's

00:48:17.380 a really hard life he thinks he thinks carrying cement was hard being a musician is probably

00:48:24.660 harder because i i did i did the equivalent of both and uh you know not having money and i mean

00:48:33.520 it was fun for a while right but uh you know always being broke and always getting rug pulled

00:48:39.560 by the government you know you get a you get a speeding ticket and and you're screwed for the

00:48:45.240 month right so so what so let's say you have a young guy who's 20 years old and maybe he can

00:48:54.920 he completed community college but then he's like um i don't know i want to do should i keep going

00:49:03.480 to college should i should i do should i get like a blue collar job what would you tell a 20 year

00:49:09.460 old guy to do in this current market when it comes to what he should do with his life oh i

00:49:16.300 man just don't go don't go into debt for college especially absolutely don't do that try to find

00:49:25.100 some kind of trade or something that you like doing and just grind on it you know that's what

00:49:31.300 i would do even if you have to uh you know get a side job or something like that that's kind of

00:49:37.160 what i ended up doing except i i went to college first but we're in a different time now and

00:49:45.160 there's no way i would i would ever tell any man to go into debt for college especially now or even

00:49:51.720 to pay for it if they work if they're having to work for it yeah don't do it did you ever have a

00:49:57.620 period where you were unemployed and you checked out oh yeah a couple of times uh around 2008

00:50:06.200 and what unsurprisingly what what caused it was it just the circumstances or was it a choice

00:50:13.140 and why uh well i was i wasn't really unemployed i was more like underemployed i was still working

00:50:24.200 for myself doing gigs and stuff as a musician but you know when when they do the you know economy

00:50:32.360 road pools i mean it happened to me three times already so that's what i was like you know luckily

00:50:38.840 during the covid one how old are you developed a trade how old are you i'm 47. yeah so you

00:50:47.720 You know, we're contemporaries.

00:50:49.920 I'm in my mid-40s, too, and our generation has seen more economic upturn and downturn than any other generation.

00:50:57.420 Yeah, it's been ridiculous.

00:51:00.440 But, yeah, hey, what was that other question?

00:51:05.080 Like, living with the parents?

00:51:06.900 Yeah, do you think it's okay for a man to live with his parents in his 20s?

00:51:12.180 So, absolutely.

00:51:13.940 In fact, I think that's what they should do if they can because, in fact, a friend of mine who's a millennial, he did that and was able to work and just save money.

00:51:27.600 He didn't go to college, and he ended up getting married, and then, you know, they're doing good, man.

00:51:34.380 They got a house together, and they're one of the very few, you know, that are doing good.

00:51:41.160 i've got a couple of friends that have been married for a long time uh but you know uh

00:51:47.440 i wasn't near as lucky uh so you know uh yeah and part of it was my fault too for being a brokey

00:51:56.420 you know being a musician all those years you know do you regret nobody wanted to marry the

00:52:01.600 broke guy did you do you regret like being a musician when you were younger are you happy you

00:52:06.920 it uh yeah i'm i'm i don't regret it uh i just kind of regret that let me put it this way i wish

00:52:19.420 i would have taken a different path of being a musician than i did in other words um i put my

00:52:30.200 all my eggs in that basket because we hadn't gone through what we went through you know since

00:52:37.480 9 11. 9 11 is when i i got out of college right that like literally that that was uh

00:52:46.040 that was right after the semester i got out of college so everything started going crazy and

00:52:53.560 you know i tried to make it work out and i don't regret it at all because you know it's like an

00:52:59.640 itch you get a scratch if if if at least you know if you have the talent yeah yeah and i had the

00:53:06.120 talent and i still do and i'm still trying to get back into it uh here little by little now that i

00:53:12.600 got money but you know uh still it's it's still not an easy road and it's definitely it's pretty

00:53:20.120 much impossible to make it big you know nowadays and you got to pay them bills that too but you

00:53:27.880 you know, you know, I mean, we're, we're looking at all the ditty situation, right? Yeah. I knew

00:53:33.420 that a long time ago. I was like, oh no, I'm not selling out for anything like that. You know,

00:53:39.440 um, to thrive says, Hey, David, your story is similar, is the same as mine. Let's connect.

00:53:45.080 What's your IG bro? Cool. All right. Andres. Well, thanks for calling in, man. You call

00:53:53.760 anytime okay yeah call it anytime thank you bye bye bye okay next up we have our brother from

00:54:04.400 the outback no no he's from new zealand i'm sorry oh yeah fight sport talk what's up buddy

00:54:13.040 hey i'm doing good guys thanks for having me again hey thanks for calling in what do you think about

00:54:18.080 men being unemployed well i don't think it's surprising because well it's it's definitely

00:54:26.060 not something i i would support um if guys are just crashing out of the job market because

00:54:31.800 they feel because they don't like how it is i mean obviously none of us like how it is

00:54:36.880 uh with the trends that you you guys always talk about um but again it's not surprising i mean i

00:54:43.720 feel this is the if i was to compare it to anything would be the me too movement when i mean i'd love

00:54:50.120 to use different wording pearl but you said it for me earlier that that we girls complained that

00:54:58.460 men uh working over women or being over women in the workforce was patriarchy but now that women

00:55:04.840 have more control they don't like how it's going and the reality is well this is what you asked for

00:55:09.980 and this is yeah this is very this is exactly what's going on so it's not surprising um as far

00:55:18.400 as have have I ever done it no I've been working consistently since I was 14 there may there was a

00:55:24.600 few months break but nothing serious but I definitely had moments where I wanted to leave

00:55:30.100 and since it's relevant I'll just um mention two examples excuse me um one I was I was just doing

00:55:38.740 odd jobs while I was at university and the female managers were just very bossy for the sake of it

00:55:45.480 and I just it didn't even take anything special for me to tell that they were doing it because

00:55:50.500 they liked having power over over young men and kind of like how we would complain if men were

00:55:58.100 doing it saying look this is this guy's being being rude for no reason I would say well can

00:56:04.940 you tell this woman to stop being a bitch for no reason and people didn't like many the upper

00:56:09.720 managers didn't like that there was a time because i was in sort of the red pill rage phase where i

00:56:15.100 just started calling them feminists and i was i was disciplined for that so i had times when i

00:56:20.060 wanted to leave but you know you got to make money sorry the another reason this is this has been

00:56:25.820 very personal to me because i just couldn't talk to anybody about it even my friends mainly because

00:56:32.020 this was at the height of the me too movement female um lecturers at university were being just

00:56:37.840 sorry i've just had lunch uh absolutely terrible i mean if if male lecturers were bad they were

00:56:45.420 just bad at their job point blank but we had females who weren't just bad at they didn't

00:56:49.480 know what they were talking about they would go off on feminist diatribes during lectures and

00:56:54.500 as somebody who was paying for my own education i absolutely hated this so i so i would put

00:57:00.500 complaints in and nobody responded to it you even had i mean just one sorry last example on this

00:57:06.700 there was one who went on to a rant about alex jones somebody who i am not a fan of

00:57:11.980 because he's a bit too conspiratized for me but nonetheless it was completely irrelevant to what

00:57:17.940 was being discussed and this was all from a pro-liberal sorry political standpoint and it

00:57:25.300 was just it was awful i mean paying for this kind of stuff it was just it was unbearable so i can

00:57:31.280 under so i say all of this to say i don't think men should just throw in the towel i mean if you

00:57:36.820 can make money on by yourself which i'm trying to do right now perfect but i can understand why

00:57:41.800 they're doing it because the market is just very anti-male and as you pointed out pearl more and

00:57:47.360 more conservatives ignore this i mean tommy laran's just one of them candace owens i used to

00:57:52.460 i have been a big fan of hers for years but her her insistence on talking about stuff that is not

00:57:58.080 necessary i.e emmanuel macron's wife is like can you talk about stuff that's relevant and she

00:58:04.760 doesn't so it's a it's all frustrating yeah um doug mpa you have any other questions for him

00:58:13.580 yeah um this is this is this is off topic but yo what do you think about macy barber man

00:58:20.360 well actually um i i mean that's actually a very good example i can link it to the conversation i

00:58:27.760 mean typical typical because i mean speaking again about real life examples in the workforce

00:58:35.060 i i got to the point where i stopped talking about this on twitter because

00:58:39.460 it just i mean all of the vast majority of the ma media is woke like the mainstream media and

00:58:45.600 if you point out look bringing women into the ufc was bad enough but giving them high high profile

00:58:52.320 main events when they don't deserve it is worse lowers the standard dramatically they all hate

00:58:57.000 you for it and this is just a classic example because i mean missed weight because of a certain

00:59:01.560 operation i.e chest and then and then couldn't even make it to the fight and suddenly uh crash

00:59:09.240 out of hospitals yeah yeah i'm gonna catch pearl up so what happened was there was a ufc fight

00:59:14.240 on saturday pearl and these two flyweights with these two women at 125 were gonna fight

00:59:20.480 and this chrome macy barber got a boob job and she's been having health problems ever since

00:59:28.520 and she had to pull out at the she had to pull out of the fight she's about to walk out to the

00:59:34.080 cage and she had to pull out of the fight wait what's her name macy what macy barber n-a-y-c-e-e

00:59:42.600 barber b-a-r-b-e-r barber yeah sorry

00:59:49.100 huh yes um what ghetto yes macy barber got a boot job and

00:59:56.020 sorry i'm just i'm like what ghetto doctor did you go to and she gonna like yeah google it real

01:00:04.040 fast but macy barber and you can see before and after and um there's another fighter

01:00:10.620 Kat Zingano, where she had

01:00:13.100 problems for years, health problems

01:00:15.300 for years, and when she took her

01:00:16.640 breast implants out, all of her health problems

01:00:19.380 went away. So she fought a lot

01:00:21.260 of her career with health problems

01:00:23.120 for her boob implants.

01:00:25.180 Isn't that crazy? Not at all.

01:00:27.740 She can make more money on her

01:00:29.180 OnlyFans, you know what I mean?

01:00:31.760 That she'll make as a fighter.

01:00:33.680 If anything, it's pragmatic.

01:00:35.400 She should drop the OnlyFans now.

01:00:38.300 I know.

01:00:38.740 stop fighting yeah you know what i mean like just be a little sick but make millions of dollars

01:00:44.640 instead of getting hit in the face basically for free and if i could just sorry guys if i could

01:00:51.120 just uh throw one thing in there since since you brought this up doug i mean that's it's very common

01:00:56.680 um and again pearl you mentioned it's the only fans thing because only fans is the way to go

01:01:02.000 for women these days but that's i mean the worst thing for me was when girls girls missed weight

01:01:08.880 uh repeatedly and it was for go figure periods um and and this was it this would get excused so

01:01:16.560 that i mean we all we all hated it we all despised it but um and one of the reasons why

01:01:23.360 why people like me have supported data white over the years is because he he never bought into those

01:01:28.640 excuses uh because it's it's not so but this is just another example of standards being lowered

01:01:34.480 when you bring women into into a sport where again they don't belong so yeah but thanks for having me

01:01:42.160 guys and yeah we'll be in touch in the future all the best thanks for calling everyone

01:01:50.240 next up we have jc jackson one second

01:01:55.360 connecting audio guys make sure to like the stream subscribe if you haven't already we're

01:02:02.100 on the road to three million and jc jackson are you there yeah can you hear me hey jc how are you

01:02:10.400 i've been good so what do you think about men checking out of the job market

01:02:15.940 um well you need some type of income um but i think as long as you can have something that

01:02:23.920 you enjoy and it's not as much as of a job as more of as a passion that you happen to get paid for

01:02:29.840 that's kind of how i've treated not for myself i was the responsible guy that got a job and like

01:02:35.680 you know support younger siblings and my children but for my younger brother i was like hey

01:02:40.720 you know do what you want i'll always support you if you need a fallback

01:02:46.480 so do you think it's okay for a guy in his 20s to live with his parents

01:02:50.000 oh yeah yeah yeah um i've been talking to my uh my wife right now i want to build a family

01:02:57.760 compound and i want our kids to like you know live with us like you know it's not exactly in

01:03:04.240 our house forever but like hey if we can build them the the house next door or the the mini home

01:03:09.520 next door when you know so like i want to bring the the clan uh back together not really like

01:03:17.440 We've gone to individual families now in the U.S., and, like, everybody, like, when they're 18 to 25, everybody leaves.

01:03:24.800 But used to, people lived, like, oh, you live one or two doors down from your parents because they helped you with the house.

01:03:31.120 They helped you with the lawn.

01:03:32.180 They helped you with the kids.

01:03:33.360 It literally, like, people used to live together as clans.

01:03:36.100 And it's just, I'm trying to get my family back to doing that because I can't, I mean, I don't feel like driving a few hours just to see somebody.

01:03:44.440 And did you ever go through a period where you checked out of the job market or you were unemployed?

01:03:50.500 So, no, but that was different circumstances.

01:03:54.600 I know I told this story one time, but I had a kid when I was still in high school

01:03:58.320 and went still into the military straight out of high school to provide for that.

01:04:03.360 But if I didn't have either one of my kids, I wouldn't work the way I worked.

01:04:09.200 like and do you know anybody like any guys that are checked out of the job market and do you

01:04:16.240 happen to know their reasoning um my younger brother checked out of like the serious job market

01:04:23.200 um and he he went through a couple bad breakups with some girls and he just he was so frustrated

01:04:28.880 with feeling feeling like he was getting nowhere in life and he he's young he was like 24 and um

01:04:38.560 but he went into the military i and i told him i said don't take it don't take a don't take the

01:04:43.120 job or the mos unless you like it's something you enjoyed but he finally got his recruiter to agree

01:04:47.360 to something he likes and now he enjoys his life he's over in japan and i told him i said look just

01:04:52.080 never don't do the job if you don't like it never never i i've already had kids so my brother's like

01:04:59.360 says he's never having kids so he never feels like he has to provide for anyone except himself

01:05:03.520 and you said he's 24 yeah well he's 25 now but yeah he's he was 24 when we had this conversation

01:05:12.560 okay doug mpa you got any other questions for him you know um you know you credit over here for

01:05:21.120 for being that rock for your family and your siblings man dude don't ever think that that um

01:05:26.880 that the people around you don't know what you've done what you do what you've done in the past what

01:05:32.640 what you're doing in the present and what you're going to do in the future, okay?

01:05:35.760 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:05:36.560 It's hard, though, because, like, you know, a lot of people don't see it.

01:05:41.500 Children and, you know, sometimes the women in your family do not see it.

01:05:46.200 My father and my grandfather, like, you know, say they're very proud of me

01:05:49.880 because of the sacrifice I'd give.

01:05:51.040 But my mother, like, I've told horror stories of my mother before.

01:05:55.620 It goes right over their head.

01:05:58.420 Yeah, that's women.

01:06:00.360 All right, buddy.

01:06:01.320 Thank you, buddy.

01:06:01.760 Thanks for calling in.

01:06:03.960 Call in any time.

01:06:05.680 Yep, no problem.

01:06:08.300 All right.

01:06:09.800 Next we have...

01:06:14.240 Jay's coming in.

01:06:17.260 Joining.

01:06:20.980 Oh, it's taking a little bit.

01:06:24.640 Jay, are you there?

01:06:28.060 Jay, connecting audio.

01:06:30.260 Hey, how are you doing?

01:06:30.860 hey Jay how's it going okay well guys good to see you guys again what are your

01:06:41.720 thoughts on men checking out of the job market well you could argue that I

01:06:48.380 checked out a job market myself okay about two years ago now the reason for

01:06:54.960 that was I came to the end of a contract rather abruptly. I was one of quite a large

01:07:04.800 pool of software engineers that were pulled out of their contract suddenly here in New

01:07:12.440 South Wales, Australia. And so I was faced with a decision. At that time, the promise

01:07:20.560 of AI automations and AI agents was in the horizon.

01:07:27.500 And so I thought to myself, well, look,

01:07:32.200 you can spend the next, what, a year, maybe two years

01:07:37.220 that you've got as a software engineer

01:07:39.280 only to get to that point and find that the industry has changed

01:07:46.920 and then, quite frankly, there are no jobs left,

01:07:49.160 or you can use that time to skill up in AI, design some good applications

01:07:58.060 and do the work to put the stuff out there and become your own boss

01:08:01.800 and subsequently maybe even create opportunities for other people.

01:08:06.100 So I decided to create opportunities for other people

01:08:09.700 and set up my own business, if you like.

01:08:13.220 So I'm literally weeks away now from launching not one, not two, but three apps.

01:08:17.200 and so on your like taxes or are you listed as unemployed like would you be in that stat

01:08:24.740 technically even though you're doing all this oh i am definitely listed as unemployed in actual

01:08:30.820 fact okay there is um there is a program here in in new south wales that i've actually just

01:08:37.480 signed up for which is entrepreneurs who are currently unemployed so there is definitely that

01:08:44.860 okay but but i think that's this notion that um men are sort of checking out um

01:08:54.460 because they're lazy or they're hopeless no we're very very pragmatic we see the writing on the wall

01:09:00.780 um and there's also this thing of well what's the point certainly in my case anyway what was the

01:09:07.900 point of me being in a career for which um not only was i going to face a severe drop in income

01:09:15.980 but i may actually find myself with with no income because the job market has changed dramatically

01:09:23.020 i'm 58 years of age two years from now um well am i going to be competing with you know the

01:09:31.900 you know guys in their early 20s no so i made what i felt was to be a tactical decision to

01:09:40.060 spend the last two years upskilling you know um really sort of positioning myself

01:09:48.060 for what i feel is you know a better future and did you move home like with family or are you

01:09:54.540 still on your own? So I sort of moved closer to my sons. I'm divorced. Okay. I moved closer to

01:10:03.380 my sons. So you had to, you know, you know, move into like more affordable accommodation,

01:10:12.460 if you like. So there were certainly sacrifices to be made. Also realizing the fact that quite

01:10:19.740 frankly, as far as the opposite sex were concerned, you know, the modern woman today, she's not

01:10:26.440 looking to support a guy who's got, you know, ideas about the future. You know, they need to

01:10:33.100 see someone who's made and has the full package now. So there was a real sense and this feeling

01:10:40.800 that look in terms of um you know what's out there what my prospects are for for money for

01:10:49.780 for the opposite sex for for jobs in the future make the sacrifice now come out of the market

01:10:57.500 and then position yourself so that you're much stronger and i i see a lot of men certainly my

01:11:04.880 vicinity or also thinking exactly the same or i see men now who have got jobs and they're seriously

01:11:13.280 concerned about the next six months because they think ai is going to take their job

01:11:20.880 it's it's not so much they think that ai is going to take their job it's just that corporations

01:11:24.800 are making the obvious um decision to reduce the fat in favor of ai automations that can

01:11:33.840 100x output than what have you else i mean it and this is what i saw two years ago i'm not

01:11:39.600 gonna lie guys you can imagine my you know certain members of my family two years ago thought i was

01:11:44.560 nuts they they thought i was the guy who you know the media and the internet would like to portray

01:11:51.680 or you you're stepping out job market because you're lazy you're just checking out whatever

01:11:57.360 no no i can see the writing on the wall and as a man you've got to make decisions you've got

01:12:02.720 to make sacrifices for the bit for for what you feel is a better future okay i agree okay great

01:12:10.640 well it makes sense doug mpa you got any other questions for him no man you know i wish you well

01:12:16.400 and you know i'm hoping that you you find a good income and remember uh and just avoiding this nine

01:12:24.320 to five grind will help you live longer man thank you so much guys absolutely i've got i've got a

01:12:31.440 better um my health and that lot has improved dramatically i will say i would imagine great

01:12:37.440 everybody calling anytime okay will do thanks guys okay we're gonna bring up

01:12:47.280 i'm gonna let him cut the line because we haven't heard from

01:12:51.600 our good friend in a while dustin yo what's up may oh you know another day another dollar

01:13:01.440 how are you dustin i am so good how are you pearl i'm good what do you think about

01:13:10.220 men checking out of the job market i know you got something to say

01:13:13.780 dude hang on oakley men have to check out because like this is why we have ai because women were

01:13:24.120 bitching so we were like let's put them in the workforce and then they couldn't do a good job

01:13:29.260 so guys were like now we'll build robots and then the robots just got better at everything and now

01:13:35.660 men are like you know what fine women can win they can just have it all they can have their

01:13:40.700 little robot take our money and that's where we're at some men can check out um so you think it's

01:13:48.380 okay for a guy to live with his parents oh for sure like if his standards are low like if he

01:13:56.060 doesn't care about life and he's checked out for sure go like i think the key to success for men

01:14:02.540 is probably living with your parents as long as possible so you can save your money because most

01:14:09.260 women that you're going to sleep with when you're living with your parents you're not going to end

01:14:13.260 up with so you should be and then when you get out you have a lot of money and then you know you get

01:14:20.940 getting tangled with the chick that was just a little bit better looking than the last one.

01:14:26.380 Well, and you could just lie and say it's your house.

01:14:30.200 Oh, or that.

01:14:31.220 I would do that when my parents would be away on their boat.

01:14:34.480 And I'd be like, yeah, I own this.

01:14:36.160 All it's mine.

01:14:39.320 Why did I?

01:14:40.600 Yeah.

01:14:41.480 Okay.

01:14:41.980 Did you ever go through a period where you were checked out of the job market or unemployed?

01:14:46.380 And what led you to that, if so?

01:14:48.920 No.

01:14:50.100 Not you.

01:14:50.460 I never, guys, like, I could never be checked out because I put all my value in how many women I was sleeping with.

01:14:58.580 So, like, I can't, I can't not work.

01:15:01.080 Oh, and you would pick them up at work, too.

01:15:06.140 Yeah, dude, yes, yes, it's the best.

01:15:09.260 You have to.

01:15:11.800 Oh, that's so funny.

01:15:15.640 The girl I'm talking to now, I'm at work.

01:15:17.960 Oh, yeah?

01:15:18.600 and i wish i never i wish i never went out with her to be honest but yeah why what's what's going

01:15:24.940 on what's she doing she just won't shut up like she texted me all day about life like i'm doing

01:15:31.720 this i'm doing that and i'm like don't like don't you work and then and then she sent me her std

01:15:37.400 results like she doesn't have anything thank goodness but she was going into like graphic

01:15:41.840 detail how they got the specimen and i was like dude like i was like i'm like you just need to

01:15:47.340 send me the result i don't care how the burger's made jesus and uh yeah but this like i you know

01:15:55.880 man i i want to feel bad for you dustin but you live in portland bro like yeah everything you

01:16:02.380 tell me i i already know what's gonna happen to you man but he's got he's got a he's got a son

01:16:09.340 right oh i have a oh yeah she has a boy and like i i don't know because doug said he dates single

01:16:17.200 women so i was curious have you ever met women who like despise their kids oh yeah no oh that's

01:16:23.600 like most women i don't date single mothers bro no i thought you dated one yeah i did one

01:16:30.600 but last time was like five years ago but i can't dude like no i i stay away from it

01:16:37.320 and like i'm definitely definitely it'll be my last one maybe but the way she talks to her son

01:16:44.960 in front of me i'm like dude i feel so bad for this kid i uh she tries to tell my daughter we

01:16:51.560 we hung out twice she tried to tell my daughter what to do i was like hey like if my daughter

01:16:56.560 wants to go jump off this this slide and break her leg i'm gonna let her do it because she's

01:17:01.320 gotta learn like you know yeah but i don't know just it's insane well thanks for calling in dust

01:17:09.580 and doug mpa you got anything else for him nah man drop kick this broad change your number man

01:17:16.640 watch out this is the crazy portland ones will get you get it yeah he'll end up are we dating

01:17:22.500 the same guy portland i hope so anyways thanks so much bye all right buddy always good talking

01:17:32.660 to you have a good one i just feel like i feel like he would end up on that page

01:17:38.980 yeah that's funny all right we're gonna have rodolfo

01:17:44.260 rodolph are you there yes hey rodolpho how's it going it's going well how are you i'm good

01:17:55.300 so what do you think about men checking out of the job market i think it's uh wait uh can you

01:18:02.380 hear me pretty well because i can hear you oh great great great um i think it's pretty predictable

01:18:08.500 the way like the last caller was talking about um the woman couldn't do the job like they tried

01:18:15.920 to introduce women to the workforce but they couldn't do it well so then they replaced men

01:18:20.060 with robots because they're easier to command and they don't bitch about you know their problems

01:18:24.440 um but like i was explaining to my girlfriend it's all layered isn't it that uh the industrial

01:18:32.120 age brought in machines and then slowly but surely men humans were being replaced by machines and

01:18:39.340 that's what's happening in relationships it's just that girls are taking advantage of it more than

01:18:44.180 men are um yeah because like you know i don't i know i know you're on youtube so i don't want to

01:18:50.880 get too graphic but uh you know the toys that women can use for themselves uh they can get a

01:18:58.240 relationship out of that because it doesn't talk back and they can get their own money they can get

01:19:03.160 their own house they can get they have dogs and cats yeah they can treat like their kids they

01:19:09.440 they can have a say in uh in the relationship they want because they can just boss all these

01:19:14.700 things around like if you look at girls uh what they get they get pit bulls that are domesticated

01:19:20.640 to the to the bone because they want to change the beast into something they can

01:19:25.800 fuddle with and that's just what their nature is they look at a line and they're like i want to

01:19:30.120 take the teeth out and the clogs out and keep it as a pet but man we see the pitbull rottweiler

01:19:36.600 thing a lot with b-dubs have you seen that one um pitbull on i think he he's on instagram

01:19:45.680 where this black woman like literally treats him like like it's her kid like just a spoiled child

01:19:53.500 it's insane i mean you could just go in austin and see that and it's crazy you know but um but

01:20:02.860 to what i was saying is that everything's just replacing man because it's just easier and you

01:20:08.700 know i don't want to say it's it's our fault as men it's it's our responsibility for sure

01:20:15.340 we should speak out more about this but um i was listening to uh patrice o'neill and i always

01:20:21.740 mentioned this guy, uh, back on the, uh, Opie and Anthony show in 2005, 2010, he was talking about

01:20:27.900 how we all killed context. And this was back in 2005. Yeah. That's something that the conservatives

01:20:35.100 are missing nowadays. Like, cause Charlie Kirk is half right, that men should stand up, but he's not

01:20:42.460 being completely honest. And we all know that because he doesn't have the balls, unfortunately,

01:20:47.260 to tell the truth about women and share how much uh uh how much uh how much they have to blame as

01:20:55.820 well um and that's the real frustrating part is like yeah charlie charlie we get it we're supposed

01:21:01.020 to work and all that but why am i supposed to what's the point if i can just get fired from

01:21:06.060 my job the next day and i can get divorced by my wife and she can go on tick tock and blame me as

01:21:11.580 as a racist, as a rapist, as a this in 20 seconds.

01:21:15.800 Like, can I not have a guarantee that me as a good dude,

01:21:19.800 I'm gonna get something out of this life

01:21:21.460 from working really hard?

01:21:22.680 And you know, there's no guarantees in life,

01:21:24.200 but that's what's really frustrating

01:21:26.260 to listening to Charlie Kirk and all these other conservatives

01:21:30.760 is that they're missing the context

01:21:33.180 that what we're facing nowadays.

01:21:36.100 And I mean, I'm 35, 34, and it's crazy.

01:21:40.100 Like I work a job and I make pretty good money,

01:21:43.560 but I'm thinking about getting a side job

01:21:45.480 and something on this, a side gig,

01:21:48.480 just to be able to pay what I need to pay.

01:21:51.480 And I remember growing up,

01:21:53.100 I just worked at a gas station and I was doing pretty well.

01:21:56.940 And that's what's missing nowadays is that

01:21:59.300 we just all killed context, we all killed nuance,

01:22:01.740 and it's just so easy to blame men

01:22:03.160 because we'll just walk up from the table and go away, right?

01:22:06.200 But then that just gives more space to women

01:22:07.860 to get around the circle and just complain and bitch and never really do anything and

01:22:12.740 do you know any um men that are checked out of the job market or were you ever checked out and if so

01:22:18.900 um what's the reasoning like what what was their part like was there a situation at work that did

01:22:25.140 it or something like that well i was working at banking for 2015 no 2009 to 2015 and i liked it

01:22:34.980 it was a good job, but what really woke me up was COVID. The fact that the government or whoever,

01:22:41.860 you know, them could just shut it all down with the push of a button and my job was meaningless.

01:22:48.020 And that, that really woke me up into want to do something more in the trades.

01:22:52.900 Um, so for a while, uh, I lost my job. Well, you know, I'm going to be honest. I got fired just

01:22:58.980 because I, I hated going into work every, every single day. So I just started, you know, being

01:23:03.460 late and late and i just i just stopped caring because and this is my own fault right but like

01:23:09.300 you just go on youtube or your phone and you just see these 20 year olds driving around in lambos

01:23:14.820 and these girls making millions of dollars and you know you're trying to be a good guy in your life

01:23:19.140 um you try to do the right thing but you realize you're just being left behind so i was out of the

01:23:25.060 job for like six seven months and it was really uh it was really frustrating because it made me

01:23:30.820 question a lot about myself and what i believe in and whatnot but it it helped me you know find what

01:23:38.720 i really want to do um so it put me on a different path but i don't blame guys for wanting to be

01:23:45.360 checked out nowadays because what option really is there when you have republicans and democrats

01:23:52.780 and whoever shipping jobs all over the world instead of their own country supporting their

01:23:58.340 own people so and then like i don't know about every guy out there but i know for myself i hated

01:24:04.460 banking because it's all electronic there's nothing you can touch you can hold with your hands

01:24:08.760 and i think that's what's missing nowadays is that a lot of guys just want to work with their

01:24:14.020 hands they want to see what they're building they don't want to just get rich because

01:24:17.940 they sold a they sold a paper to the to the news excuse me to the newsletter or you know no i'm

01:24:27.240 not pointing fingers at you pearl or anything but uh they you know social media social marketing and

01:24:32.540 all this digital stuff like i really i really hate the fact that some guy can make millions of

01:24:38.840 dollars just because he did something on google like you didn't do anything for your society you

01:24:43.040 didn't do anything for your town you didn't do anything for your state you're just you're just

01:24:47.540 pushing a button like i don't know i don't like it but you know it makes money got it

01:24:54.040 doug mpa you got anything to ask him i do not thank you for calling him we love

01:24:59.740 we'll call it anytime okay yeah call it anytime y'all keep up the good work thank you

01:25:03.900 um

01:25:06.700 okay how how many people do we have in the waiting room uh one two three four five six people waiting

01:25:17.720 okay we got a full house today good job guys thanks for calling in it makes the shows way

01:25:23.180 better well we got a lot of callers so i appreciate you guys um who do we have next

01:25:29.340 okay i'm gonna have this person say skip the line only because i saw them in the chat and

01:25:36.300 and their name what's the name

01:25:41.820 hold on let me see if he's there okay i'll fight you naked are you there yeah why is that your

01:25:52.380 what's up buddy how's it going hey pretty good yourself so am i on right now yeah you're yeah

01:26:06.280 you are oh sorry i just skipped right out of the waiting room so i wasn't sure yet but

01:26:11.240 for uh um for the crucible they they had to screen people to make sure people weren't coming on to

01:26:18.980 get them tos but um about men checking out of the job market i'm not really sure how accurate the

01:26:27.920 numbers are i mean i'm sure there's a trend but a lot of people especially when times are tough

01:26:34.340 uh they start going cash work like i did that for a while um especially after the 2008 crash

01:26:43.220 like a lot of people couldn't get good full-time employment so they would just go cash work and

01:26:50.700 some guys would actually trade i'll do this work for you you you do that for me um other than that

01:26:57.760 i mean i think it's kind of it looks the same way as the guys who are checking out of dating

01:27:03.540 and checking out of trying to have a family and you know it seems like uh older generations

01:27:13.100 of people have never vacated their positions they're still they're still in the upper management

01:27:19.660 at 70 years old they're still in congress they're still in the ceo positions and

01:27:26.900 i guess you know the majority population is still white and if you're a straight white man

01:27:33.640 you know you already know that you know you're probably not going to get a fair shake in a lot

01:27:38.840 places and they're probably not going to tell you so it wouldn't be surprising if that's right do you

01:27:45.240 um think it's okay for a young man to live with his parents in his 20s

01:27:51.880 well i mean i i it's not ideal i mean there's there's plenty of people who wind up through

01:28:00.840 circumstance um i i do think you if you do find yourself in that position um you better be paying

01:28:09.000 some rent uh you better be the one who's mowing the lawn uh you should be doing things to help

01:28:15.320 out your parents you shouldn't be sitting there like your kid still that's for sure okay but

01:28:22.600 what advice would you give like a 20 a 20 year old young man you know maybe he went to community

01:28:32.860 college and he's thinking hmm should i go on to college should i get a trade should i just check

01:28:39.200 out what advice would you give a 20 year old young man i i would definitely if you can go for trades

01:28:45.860 gopher stuff that's too that's one of the things that was kind of strange about artificial

01:28:52.960 intelligence the way it's going is we all assumed oh the robots are going to replace us guys like

01:28:58.940 me who swing hammers and dig ditches and you know build houses but apparently Peterson said this a

01:29:06.760 lot in his work actually seeing the world is pretty complicated and then linking that to action is

01:29:13.520 also a tough

01:29:15.500 compute. So I think we're probably

01:29:17.660 going to be employed

01:29:19.740 slightly longer than the

01:29:21.540 coders, that's for sure.

01:29:24.400 Did you

01:29:25.660 see the article out right now where

01:29:27.340 that learned to

01:29:29.620 code from

01:29:31.300 2016

01:29:33.180 to 2021? Learn to

01:29:35.620 code, learn to code computer science.

01:29:38.000 Now the market is

01:29:39.620 saturated with computer science people

01:29:41.380 that can't get a job.

01:29:44.160 that's not surprising especially with ai helping out now that's that's the weirdest part it's the

01:29:49.840 exact opposite of what we thought when i was a kid we thought all of the people who knew how to

01:29:54.800 program computers would be job secure and all of us who were doing manual labor of one kind

01:30:00.160 or another even skilled would be replaced by robots went the other way it's very strange but

01:30:05.600 But, yeah, I mean, especially, I mean, if hard backbreaking work is not your thing, any kind of career that requires humanity, you know, for instance, this is probably better for women.

01:30:23.100 But, you know, nursing, it's going to be tough before a robot can fake caring about somebody effectively.

01:30:31.940 um customer service personal things where people want a personal interaction

01:30:37.940 um they can kind of fake it right now with telemarketers but it's not great

01:30:43.140 and so and oh i did have one disagreement with you guys you uh a previous caller said that he

01:30:52.120 thought women can get whatever they want out of uh machinery and that actually looks like it's

01:30:59.460 probably don't go the other way too because guys can get their friendship pretty effectively from

01:31:05.260 other guys as long as they can find people with similar interests um and a robot that's not

01:31:12.820 that as soon as it's not there's no stigma to having some kind of sex robot and maybe you can

01:31:19.420 even take it outside as sort of a i don't know step for wife date or what i don't even know but

01:31:26.460 as soon as there's no stigma to that a guy a lot of guys are going to be fine with that life where

01:31:33.380 they just come home to this you know perfect looking robot but the women won't be because

01:31:39.840 a robot you're always going to know that it is faking you driving it crazy

01:31:46.820 it's faking you making it feel guilty it doesn't actually feel guilty

01:31:52.300 yeah how do you like a woman can't just poke at a robot poke at a robot hoping to get a rise out

01:32:03.280 of it well the thing is it would simulate it but they would know it's simulating it and that would

01:32:08.920 ruin it like they would program the robots to simulate getting mad like a guy would when some

01:32:16.540 woman is needling him for hours but she would always know it's fake yeah

01:32:22.800 yeah who is she gonna fight with i know right exactly do you know any guys that are checked

01:32:31.420 out of the job market like young guys uh no i mean i don't know a lot of young guys the last

01:32:39.120 guy who came out of high school he went into truck driving he's making really good money at that but

01:32:45.160 those days are numbered with uh musk's auto driving semis okay um yeah so yeah i don't know

01:32:54.580 it's um i've got a teenage nephew he's not out of high school yet but i mean he's pretty he's

01:33:01.760 pretty he's going after he's got a part-time job and he's only 16 so um and i i don't i don't know

01:33:11.760 if this breaks down because i've heard people and you can uh tell me if you're done with me if you

01:33:17.360 need to move on to the next call or any time but yeah a lot of people yeah like yeah 45 seconds

01:33:24.160 cool we already have like 12 people in the waiting room all right well i'll just get out of here now

01:33:28.080 i'll talk to you next time okay all right buddy thanks for calling and appreciate it see you

01:33:31.920 okay yeah guys make sure you hit that like button subscribe please we're on our way to

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01:33:45.740 everyone on the audacity network i know it was rocky starting up but i'm seeing a bunch of

01:33:50.540 people over there so thank you for being there joshua walls how you doing oh i'm doing all right

01:33:55.900 how about you hey joshua how are you i'm fine so what do you think of the topic men checking out

01:34:06.300 of the job market well i don't think they should give up but i get it i i lost a job

01:34:15.020 a few weeks ago i was fired my fault um uh that reminds me of a some uh sentiment i felt you know

01:34:28.340 people in the past you know farmers loggers tanners they were they were married so you

01:34:35.400 know what makes a lot of modern women think they were better than the women back then

01:34:39.640 choice opportunity makeup yeah oh yeah makeup surgery filters is a big one i was actually

01:34:55.260 wondering that the other day if like if a guy is like meeting women through a dating app

01:35:00.400 and he just gets enough catfishes does it work does he just lower his standards is he just like

01:35:06.600 whatever i guess this is what it is oh uh i've been catfished plenty and sometimes not but

01:35:15.680 yeah it's a crapshoot either way yeah um do you know any guys that have checked out at all

01:35:24.360 uh then uh not by choice i i have a roommate who's on disability and he wants to get back to work

01:35:35.120 and uh i had to actually let my other roommate borrow my bike so he could get to work

01:35:40.780 so is it just you know a lot of guys that have been like laid off

01:35:45.660 because you said not by choice so or like i'm fired sadly not either i mean i've been laid

01:35:53.260 off before that was a long time ago um i'm 36 and that was back when i was 27

01:36:01.900 um was there like a specific situation you said it was your fault that you got laid off or was it

01:36:14.900 like politics fired i was fired

01:36:17.700 oh sorry i meant

01:36:20.900 i apologize um uh basically what happened is i ended up having to do twice the work because my

01:36:31.780 manager who was a woman uh did the yeah make what you will of that okay uh did some paperwork wrong

01:36:40.420 and instead of getting three boxes of items to go in three different apartments I had like 50

01:36:46.900 to 100 items I had to take to each apartment yeah and I crashed out as the kids like to say these

01:36:56.900 days and the next day i was fine i see okay okay well uh we're gonna move on to the next caller

01:37:08.500 because we got a full call line but thanks for calling in i wish you okay yeah i wish you luck

01:37:13.380 in the job search maybe get a male boss next time i wish you luck thank you yeah okay have a good day

01:37:23.220 you too okay dang that sucks you have to do double the work because the woman made a mistake and you

01:37:30.500 got fired that's what usually happens aj what's up buddy what's going on guys hey how's it going

01:37:39.860 yeah uh did you guys see uh laura ingram and uh tommy laran talk talking the other day tommy

01:37:48.020 laran's going on about men and how yeah yeah we reacted to that at the beginning of the show

01:37:53.700 yeah yeah so you know laura ingram's like 62 and adopted three kids yeah i knew that and then tommy

01:38:02.100 laran has no kids and these are the chicks that are trying to like talk about men and why men

01:38:07.140 have checked out it's like like those that's the reason right right right there like these boomer

01:38:13.300 chicks then these these these tommy laryn's are the reason why because i think men have checked

01:38:18.180 out honestly you know you know how many guys i've talked to sorry they should have had me on that

01:38:25.380 panel i think my answer would be like if imagine if i was there i would have said well guys um i

01:38:31.780 think you guys are proving here why they checked out because the nagging wives like you you guys

01:38:37.780 yeah i would have broke um oh my god god sorry on looney tunes where the big hook tries tries to

01:38:44.340 grab him off the stage you see pearl trying to dog the big hook as they're trying to drag her

01:38:48.820 off the stage because he's telling the truth no but like i know guys that have been like getting

01:38:56.100 ready for a date and then they'll get in the car and start driving to the date and just say screw

01:39:02.420 it and just turn around and go go home and drink a beer and play playstation you know like guys

01:39:08.020 aren't dating and guys aren't trying to work and pay for these homularins and these you know it's

01:39:14.900 just not happening anymore and no one can like articulate a reason why guys should do so yeah

01:39:21.940 the sad part about it is the the female employment rate is at 74 and no one cares because guys

01:39:29.460 remember one and four women don't don't work and they stay at home but now that the unemployment

01:39:36.420 that the employment rate for men is 90 it was losing their minds 90 of men work and we also

01:39:42.580 don't they're like oh my god we also have no idea how many men um are doing under the table stuff

01:39:49.940 or like technically unemployed so it may it may even be less than that yeah yeah i think so yeah

01:39:57.540 just to answer the question though guys aren't you know gen z like young millennial dudes they're

01:40:04.440 sitting there working at dairy queen you know and they're looking at the at the chicks slanging uh

01:40:10.220 you know uh peanut buster parfaits making the same and saying why am i going to give this chick my

01:40:16.480 paycheck to go on a date with her for why why and there's no answer other than tomu laren shaming

01:40:24.680 these men right when she was talking talking about being career and strong and independent but then

01:40:30.360 using the whole peter panning thing you know um uh if there's something he doesn't want to react to

01:40:38.520 uh tom likus had had had this chick on his show kay hybowitz and she wrote like peter peter pan

01:40:45.800 and the prom promised land it was about one yeah peter panning and how men just aren't growing up

01:40:51.000 this is 20 years ago i'll send you the link but it's like a good hour long where she actually

01:40:57.320 gets on tom like like as a show and he cooks her and then callers cook up cook her too but she's

01:41:03.080 like talking about how women are are strong and independent but at the same time need to be able

01:41:09.800 to find men that'll take them on it's like that's a nonsensical status statement it makes no sense

01:41:17.160 so anyways that's all i just wanted to say if anyone wants to see some some hilarious some

01:41:24.520 hilarity look at put twitter and like look at all the posts of that tommy larry and laura ingham

01:41:30.840 thing and just read the comments thanks for calling in okay calling anytime bye bye guys

01:41:39.080 okay next we have we tried to get him on last show we'll see it if it come on this time

01:41:46.360 uh daquan you're up next

01:41:52.280 daquan are you there calling in okay calling anytime bye bye guys youtube's in the background

01:42:00.120 gotta turn the youtube off that show we'll see if i come on this time uh daquan you're up next

01:42:09.800 can you hear me you have youtube on you got to turn the youtube off

01:42:17.560 oh can you hear me now yep yeah we can hear you

01:42:22.440 hey how y'all doing good how are you i'm doing good just working i'm not one of them

01:42:31.400 that gave up on the mark i ain't got no damn choice so uh what do you think of the topic

01:42:37.640 though do you know guys that have made that choice i mean i don't know nobody with a sugar mama you

01:42:46.920 know yeah but living at home not really pursuing i mean like a real like a real career checking

01:42:54.760 out at the job mark have you seen that at all getting laid off i mean

01:43:00.040 i don't think by choice or whatever like that because i mean probably people get laid off you

01:43:10.560 know that happens all the time depending on your job nowadays or whatever like that but

01:43:14.700 i don't really know nobody that could say they could check out of the job market

01:43:19.400 we not know only fans model we got to work for me yeah um so do you think it's okay for a man

01:43:27.240 in his 20s to be living with his parents nowadays yeah because it should be illegal for a dude to

01:43:33.720 get married before 30. okay uh doug mp yeah you got any questions for him uh so let's say you had

01:43:45.020 like a little brother who turned 20 and maybe went to community college or something like that

01:43:51.980 and wanted advice on what he should do with his life?

01:43:57.060 Should he go to college?

01:43:58.820 Should he stay at home with his parents?

01:44:01.160 Should he go into a trade?

01:44:02.720 What advice would you give him about the trade market?

01:44:06.380 What I would say to anybody is, I mean, if going to college ain't for you,

01:44:10.540 if you ain't already in 11th grade knowing what school you're going to go to,

01:44:15.740 you probably should just, I mean, especially dudes,

01:44:18.900 I would tell them to do a trade.

01:44:20.200 And if you want to do the military, I would say when you go to the military, like basically like the other dude was kind of saying earlier, but you got to like what you do, but it has to be something that could transfer.

01:44:31.120 Like if you go to the military, you should go there for, you know, like plumbing mechanic that way, you know, that way when you get out, you already got the experience of the military.

01:44:41.740 You know what I mean?

01:44:42.640 I tell most dudes that, you know.

01:44:46.360 Good advice.

01:44:48.060 Yeah.

01:44:48.240 there's nobody

01:44:48.920 student loans like me

01:44:51.120 you know what I mean

01:44:51.780 got it

01:44:53.700 hey Pearl you're my favorite person on the internet

01:44:56.580 period

01:44:57.400 thank you that's really nice of you to say

01:45:00.500 my girl get mad

01:45:02.580 she be like yo why you watching her

01:45:04.320 tell her to call in

01:45:07.920 well we have to do that tomorrow

01:45:11.580 I'm gonna let her know I got through the day

01:45:13.080 or whatever you know what I'm saying

01:45:14.400 but I'm calling from New Jersey

01:45:16.180 okay um somebody said 50 cent i mean yeah that's my home i fucks with them but

01:45:21.360 keep doing what you're doing stuff like that i'm sure i'm doing comedy too i'm um

01:45:26.020 i'm you know i have moved back from oklahoma back to new jersey and i'm gonna be doing um

01:45:31.740 you know stand up stand up you know cool all right well well man thanks for calling in calling

01:45:38.200 anytime and tell your girlfriend to call in tomorrow i'll talk to her if you have any um

01:45:43.680 If you have any complaints that I should address with her, we can do that.

01:45:48.860 You can send me your complaints and we'll, we'll talk about.

01:45:56.540 All right, buddy. Good talking to you.

01:45:59.700 Okay.

01:46:00.240 That would be hilarious if we did a show, if you guys have enough of you guys would,

01:46:05.160 it would be pretty funny. I would totally do it.

01:46:08.600 But you guys would have to source me the women.

01:46:11.120 if you told me like the parts of your marriage that your wife or your girlfriends are doing

01:46:18.180 wrong i could bring them on the stream and talk about how we can improve

01:46:22.760 put her on a performance plan that would be so funny

01:46:27.500 okay next up we have let's

01:46:32.800 let's with lisa

01:46:36.060 hey um thanks for adding me on uh so long time casual viewer of the show i did not expect to be

01:46:49.180 added on cool that's me well thanks for calling what do you think of the topic

01:46:56.060 uh so i think it's more sociological than it is uh male female dynamics um so i think

01:47:05.580 every human being at their core wants to have a meaningful market society um you want to do

01:47:12.220 something apologies i have a head coach if i um my voice sounds off that's why um but pretty much

01:47:18.780 most people they want to do something mean for their life they want to achieve as much wealth

01:47:25.340 as reasonably possible without uh too much uh extravagant effort or duty on their behalf

01:47:33.340 um so like when people are it's not a matter of getting lazy but it's a matter of slowly

01:47:42.700 getting up um realizing that the life or the uh goal that one initially hoped for it just

01:47:52.700 isn't realistically realizable um so the stories i'm hearing is not really like um if someone just

01:48:00.060 stops searching for say software engineering job it's more they get out of college to apply for

01:48:05.820 100 jobs a month and then second month um and then after that it slows down to say

01:48:11.660 five jobs a month and then they're working some casual retail job but there's they still have

01:48:17.180 hope that at some point the life that they originally envisioned would come around

01:48:24.380 okay so you see a lot of guys that just get frustrated applying for jobs and so that slowly

01:48:30.060 sorry i had a nice cube um it goes down over time and then they're like working retail and

01:48:36.720 they're just starting to like lose hope sort of uh me personally though um most of my friends are

01:48:46.520 in uh industry so like realistically i have maybe two three people that i've heard of in this

01:48:55.020 scenario and their siblings of, uh, individuals I know, um, everyone I know is, uh, either,

01:49:01.560 uh, banker or software engineer, uh, or some kind of, uh, clinician.

01:49:06.800 Okay. Um, thank you, roulette wheel for the super chat guys. Keep super chatting. I appreciate it.

01:49:14.560 Um, it's going towards the divorce documentary. So I do a pre we, we do want to get to like, um,

01:49:20.880 i think i could finish it if we got like 50 to 100 around there

01:49:26.600 anyways so i appreciate the supers um doug mpa you got any other questions for him

01:49:33.620 i do not thanks for calling in okay call in any time thanks uh one last comment i think you might

01:49:41.600 find this interesting but okay my ex-girlfriend um so she uh graduated from her master's uh and

01:49:48.980 then realized that this isn't what she wanted to do um and then didn't really have a plan and then

01:49:53.620 got a second master's uh mba um and now she's been applying around for uh a year uh she i asked her

01:50:05.360 recently like what her plan is in life and she doesn't seem to have a kind of any real coherent

01:50:13.280 plan like she's been applying around and failing and then she says like what she wants to do in

01:50:18.280 long run is be uh ceo and what my understanding of that is like oh a business or serious business

01:50:27.240 as owner but not operator and she can continuously travel

01:50:33.720 sounds like a woman right there man good luck how much student loan debt does she have

01:50:39.960 uh none her parents paid for it oh you oh man so so so how much did that cost her her parents

01:50:48.280 hundred thousand at least probably uh it's multiple different masters so yeah so problem

01:50:55.400 uh are you serious yeah this is accurate you see five hundred thousand dollars total

01:51:02.840 yeah undergrad plus multiple masters bro come on man oh my god and this is this is your

01:51:09.320 girlfriend or your ex-girlfriend my ex okay good because here's the thing with modern women in the

01:51:18.280 you if i wanted to open a restaurant right i get a job when i was 18 in a restaurant probably as a

01:51:25.320 bus boy or like as a host or something then i would work my way up to a server and then i become

01:51:31.640 assistant manager and then learn how to cook so i i work in a restaurant for maybe 10 years

01:51:36.200 then i would open up my own restaurant right so i'd be 28 30 before i opened my own restaurant

01:51:41.720 women think that they could just graduate college or go on tick tock and just start a business yeah

01:51:48.280 Like, but do what? Like you have no skills, like none. Like, so you, you actually just think that she's going to be a CEO how? Of what? Good luck. Why? No letter. Encourage her, really. It'll be funny.

01:52:01.820 or or the new grift in the the dc area the in major cities in new york dc chicago are women

01:52:11.280 wanting to be consultants so they get like an nba or they get a industrial organizational

01:52:19.360 psychology degree and they want to become a consultant but it's like you're going to get

01:52:25.680 out of college and can sell the company on what are you serious so yeah they are serious and they

01:52:33.900 mean it so go go date younger and hotter okay all right buddy i was here talking to you have a good

01:52:42.020 one call in any time okay next up we have did you see this girl that like had a panic attack

01:52:51.960 and like jumped from her harness did you see this yeah the can you show it or do you have it because

01:52:59.200 i saw the i saw the story but i didn't see the video let me replug in sorry i sometimes after

01:53:05.560 i unplug my laptop but i'll replug it in yeah i'm like i just don't get it i'm like okay this

01:53:12.020 they're like she wasn't suicidal i'm like this looks i'm not saying it was a suicide attempt

01:53:17.920 but if i had to sorry thank you if i had to get like okay let me let me show this screen so

01:53:28.160 okay

01:53:32.420 what on earth she's apparently having a panic attack that's her

01:53:41.320 and then she's getting out of her harness yeah she's parasailing so she's like

01:53:52.060 40 feet up in the air or something like that

01:53:56.620 yep for look how far up she is look at that why would she

01:54:05.840 and let me guess she can't swim right well i think she just died from

01:54:14.320 from falling 40 feet you know i mean

01:54:20.480 if that really happened the operator must be reprimanded what

01:54:35.840 Oh, someone said

01:54:36.940 it's not anxiety. It was an influencer trying

01:54:38.860 to make a viral video, and she

01:54:40.720 ended up dead. That would make way more

01:54:43.000 sense. Okay, it says

01:54:44.240 when parasailing, you can typically

01:54:46.720 be anywhere from 200 to

01:54:48.780 800 feet above the water.

01:54:52.960 Yeah. So she fell

01:54:54.800 a couple of hundred feet.

01:54:59.140 Yikes. The influencer thing

01:55:00.840 would make way more sense.

01:55:03.360 Yeah. She's trying to get

01:55:04.920 viral video and then died what was she what was she trying to do just just show herself

01:55:11.400 unbuckling her thing like what i don't get it i don't i mean they're they're speculating in this

01:55:16.600 hmm but i mean well some problems solve themselves

01:55:23.880 yeah so we're gonna let

01:55:30.040 okay um how many are you there yeah i'm here

01:55:36.240 hello hey how's it going what's up what's up i'm going by an alias tonight

01:55:43.700 all right well what do you think of the topic today

01:55:47.040 oh meaning like the the job market and yeah not this man checking out sir you know yeah i mean i

01:55:55.700 kind of i can kind of see and this is kind of played out on a larger scale this is second

01:56:03.640 time i was calling it with zoom and like just been walking in the house okay um yeah so um

01:56:10.060 the lack of motivation comes from people kind of questioning the reasons why things need to

01:56:19.460 continue the way they were continuing so i can understand people checking out but

01:56:23.640 at the end of the day you got to kind of do what you have to do for you and for your standard of

01:56:28.660 living and let the other things fall into play you know i'm saying so continuing with your

01:56:34.460 professional network joining different organizations you know doing different i mean

01:56:39.880 I was in the middle of making a LinkedIn post right as you guys were connected with me the first time.

01:56:44.340 So I think that's an important pillar to stay busy, keep yourself up mentally, spiritually, you know what I'm saying?

01:56:51.420 Financially, that's a part of that component, that finding the skill, finding something that you can do well and that you can scale.

01:56:56.960 So I'm not trying to sound like somebody that's about to sell a course right now or nothing like that.

01:57:01.140 But, you know, that's that's how I look at it.

01:57:03.380 But I do understand people checking out, you know what I'm saying?

01:57:07.540 i do understand man like hey what's the point when this is the reward at the end of the tunnel for me

01:57:12.760 yeah correct do you think it's okay for a young man in his 20s to live with his parents

01:57:19.420 you know what i don't think there's anything wrong with it as long as he's making steps

01:57:24.620 uh moving forward in life like as long as he has a plan he's putting together i mean

01:57:29.400 i always almost dox myself on this but uh so i joined the military when i was in like my

01:57:37.120 mid-20s with college a little bit um before that and kind of i finished after i got out

01:57:43.440 um so i think that as long as you are you have a plan and you're executing on the plan i don't

01:57:50.960 think it's nothing intrinsically wrong with that especially nowadays i mean back in the day you

01:57:55.520 got a house for like 50 grand and then you sold it for three or four hundred grand those days ain't

01:58:01.520 ain't around no more these interest rates i mean i got mine at like six seven six point seven which

01:58:06.000 is when i hear people say they get their houses homes at like two percent i'm like damn you know

01:58:12.320 you paying rent for your mortgage got it yeah that makes perfect sense um doug mpa you got

01:58:20.400 any other questions for him i do not we we're literally about to wind this thing down so thank

01:58:25.360 you yeah thanks for calling in please call in any time yeah hey pearl so y'all probably

01:58:32.160 I didn't realize who I am about to sound on my voice, but I know you did your half marathon.

01:58:37.780 So I know this is kind of taking you off topic, just like a quick little caveat.

01:58:41.680 Like, what did you do for your training and like nutritionally, what did you do afterwards

01:58:46.640 to kind of build yourself back up?

01:58:49.600 For the marathon, I was pretty slow.

01:58:52.700 I don't know if you want my plan.

01:58:55.100 I just Googled like six months training plan.

01:58:58.420 It's one of the first ones on Google and I followed it.

01:59:01.200 it's like one long run a week, one mid run and like two shorter ones. I think it's basically

01:59:07.740 the schedule. Nutrition, I kind of ate whatever I wanted. But again, I'm not fast. So there's

01:59:15.320 probably better people you can ask.

01:59:17.320 The fact that you got through it is something like me. The most I'll probably

01:59:23.040 done was like eight miles, eight, maybe nine miles.

01:59:25.380 It's not really worth it. You need like, you need like two hours a day to train and

01:59:30.960 two hours like an hour for me anyways an hour a day to be tired i don't know just just for me but

01:59:38.080 and i'm already doing a lot of boxing training yeah you know yeah well thanks for calling in okay

01:59:43.920 yeah no problem talk to y'all thanks all right we're gonna take one last caller guys thanks

01:59:49.840 you gotta bring him on thanks so much for calling in guys even if we didn't get to you today um it

01:59:54.800 really makes the shows a lot easier so i appreciate it this is as doug said the last caller though

02:00:00.960 Yeah, we got to bring him in because he made such a good showing last time on the panel.

02:00:06.900 Sean, what's up, buddy?

02:00:08.900 What's good?

02:00:09.980 What's up, man?

02:00:11.180 Look at this guy styling and profiling.

02:00:14.160 How are you?

02:00:16.520 I'm good.

02:00:17.680 Can't complain.

02:00:18.640 How y'all doing?

02:00:19.440 Can you dump me again today?

02:00:21.460 It was such a great experience last time.

02:00:24.340 Nah.

02:00:25.420 If everybody wants that, then they're going to have to go to the Audacity Network.

02:00:29.380 Yeah.

02:00:30.260 Yeah, yeah.

02:00:30.960 I'll reach out to you after the show from that.

02:00:34.300 I've just been busy, but yeah, I'll send you an email.

02:00:36.020 I don't know where it's dark.

02:00:37.360 What do you think about the topic?

02:00:41.520 Well, I heard it in the back and you guys were talking about men checking out.

02:00:45.040 Is that right?

02:00:45.760 Yeah.

02:00:46.380 Out of the job market.

02:00:47.220 And also, do you think it's okay for a man in his 20s to live at his parents' house?

02:00:53.320 Yeah.

02:00:54.200 So I'll start with the 20.

02:00:56.080 I think if you are a man living at your parents' house at 20, that's completely fine.

02:01:00.000 as long as there's a game plan so if you got a game plan 28 cool long as you have a game plan

02:01:06.060 I you know using the parents house as a you know safe haven as you could say to go ahead and do

02:01:12.300 your game plan it's important but if you don't got a game plan and you're just playing video games

02:01:16.520 taking out the trash for mama and then you just like a son husband that's that's terrible so

02:01:22.640 definitely you need to be at least moving towards some target and then you got your entry date how

02:01:28.800 long you're there and when you're going to get the heck up out of there. And I think that's a

02:01:32.500 good plan. When I was in the military, I always used to come back to the family house and then

02:01:36.600 I'll be there for like, you know, a little bit and then I'm gone. So it's cool. Um, as far as

02:01:43.160 checking out though, I get it. I understand what people perspective of is on that, but I think

02:01:50.480 guys just need to find a new purpose to life. And, uh, you know, I don't know why checking out

02:01:57.060 as an option. You know, you guys need to eat, you need resources, you need a house. Um, life is

02:02:03.120 pretty cool. And so I think you have to just go find value in life, love yourself a little bit,

02:02:09.400 and then, um, you'll be able to move forward and not have to check out. You get what I'm saying?

02:02:15.120 Um, so what would your advice be for a young guy? Like a guy's 25, 20 years old.

02:02:22.340 Yeah. All right. So it depends. Some guys I'll tell join the military,

02:02:26.100 But if they're like, I ain't trying to do that, then there's other routes. Right. I think that you don't have to look at traditional schooling. Definitely take up the trades. Tradesmen get paid very well. And then while you're doing your job, nine to five guys, everybody doesn't have to be an entrepreneur. I became a multimillionaire, not as an entrepreneur, as an investor.

02:02:44.300 I invested in the market for a long time, over a long period.

02:02:48.160 Real estate, stocks, just keep investing and then just keep working your nine to five.

02:02:53.440 It will give you an exit quicker than 30 years, 15 years you could retire.

02:02:59.320 And so I think that there's massive amounts of opportunity.

02:03:02.440 People just keep lying to you guys about it.

02:03:04.780 I just got a guy hooked up on a house.

02:03:06.500 He bought a duplex and he got paid to buy the duplex, $5,000.

02:03:10.880 He got paid $5,000 to buy a duplex.

02:03:15.620 Wow.

02:03:16.560 Could you teach him how to do that maybe on the site?

02:03:20.400 Maybe you could do a course.

02:03:21.180 What's that?

02:03:21.580 I said, maybe you could teach him on the site how to do that.

02:03:24.580 Yeah, I could teach anybody on the site.

02:03:26.260 That's no problem.

02:03:27.320 I used to have courses online on my actual courses when I was on YouTube, but people

02:03:32.340 weren't listening.

02:03:33.000 They were always complaining about the problem.

02:03:35.020 But some people were on my Patreon and I helped them and then I stopped.

02:03:38.840 but I don't have a problem with helping you guys out. It's a great house hack. It's a great way

02:03:44.160 to actually get some economics and some success in your life. And then you live free. I'm telling

02:03:50.160 you, there's nothing to be sad about. There's nothing but opportunities. If you're in Africa

02:03:53.960 and you're calling in, you're kind of effed. But if you're in America, then there's a bunch

02:03:59.200 of options available. I'm telling you, I'm a living proof of it. So definitely don't check

02:04:06.080 out, man. Keep pushing forward. Damn that. I'm in Vietnam right now. So life is great. Can't

02:04:11.900 complain. So what do you think about the guys that you said they need a different purpose to life?

02:04:20.340 What do you mean by that? Well, I think Aaron Clary wrote a book. It's called The Menu,

02:04:26.180 The Menu of Life. And so you're going to have to find a new purpose. Like my purpose was always

02:04:31.720 my mission it's actually never been women so i just have a different perspective about life but

02:04:37.640 if it was like well i do all this work and i don't get a woman at the end of the day well bro you got

02:04:42.440 resources right you could feed yourself you could retire your father you could retire your mother

02:04:48.360 is that not a good purpose right you don't like you can help kids out if you want to you could

02:04:54.200 rebuild your community if you're a real estate investor and you know how to invest you can house

02:04:58.920 people in section eight you could go buy a surrogate these days if you have enough money if

02:05:03.480 you really want to grow you could buy a surrogate you could go to a foreign country where a girl

02:05:08.680 in her needs about 500 bucks to survive right and then have a kid and send her 500 to a thousand a

02:05:14.760 month and then you could be a father in a foreign land in a different country right that actually

02:05:20.600 respects moms and fathers it's not always only respecting moms like other countries see parents

02:05:27.160 as like you know 50 50. so go to those countries have kids there it's not going to be picture

02:05:32.680 perfect but what i'm saying is the menu of life you have the previous men from the past did not

02:05:38.840 have that they only had their community and then that's it you got the whole world as an oyster

02:05:46.040 and then somebody's telling you you don't got options crazy that's nonsense you got options

02:05:52.680 all across the world so just get your money up and then i don't have money to buy lamborghinis

02:05:58.680 i have money to be free yeah money is freedom money is options that's all it is i don't use

02:06:06.120 it to you know i ain't got no fly i got this from the grocery store like bro it's no big brand

02:06:11.880 i don't care about that i use it to be free and have options and you guys can do the same or you

02:06:16.440 can check out it doesn't matter less competition for me i'm not gonna i'm not gonna lose sleep

02:06:21.640 yeah cool cool that was great thanks for calling in doug mpa you got anything else for him

02:06:28.960 no i'll make sure to reach out after after the show i'll send you an email to your email address

02:06:35.300 okay we're getting that that breakup that was the best breakup ever hey hey you know i got you so

02:06:43.440 shout outs to you keep doing what you're doing pearl shout outs to everybody in the chat uh love

02:06:48.080 life keep moving find a new purpose go check out the book the menu and go sign up to the audacity

02:06:53.540 network baby let's get it shout outs to everybody peace thank you i'll be talking to you brother

02:06:59.680 have a good okay that wraps up the calls

02:07:06.480 yeah yeah thanks again guys for i really appreciate everyone calling i know you guys are

02:07:13.560 are busy people with live lives you know um we've had some people sign up for the school group and

02:07:20.440 it's i i can't believe some of the people that watch me like very um high level like i don't

02:07:28.340 want to dox but um it's just kind of crazy i i you know you never you never know who's behind

02:07:35.880 the screen so i know a lot of you are busy with um families careers and that sort of thing so when

02:07:41.520 you guys call into my show i do really appreciate it um it makes the show a lot better doug mpa you

02:07:48.880 got anything guys if you can live at your mom's house do it especially if the if you're going to

02:07:56.020 be forced to not focus on women live at your mom's house seriously or your dad's house or

02:08:03.420 especially if your parents have kept themselves in a position to be able to facilitate you staying

02:08:07.780 at home just stack your money up especially if you live in a major city like dc or new york or

02:08:13.460 something come on now yeah so um don't let women shame you for it either don't do it in london

02:08:20.380 under 30 all everyone lived at their parents pretty much when i was there um all right guys

02:08:26.480 like the video please subscribe to the channel thanks again doug mpa um a pleasure as always

02:08:32.380 and and um leave your thoughts in the comments and i'll see you guys next time bye

Pearl - June 03, 2025

Men REFUSE to Provide for Entitled Feminists ｜ (Call-In Show) Pearl Daily

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