Pearl - October 21, 2026


“Men Reveal Their Wives COMPLETELY CHANGED After Having Kids” @DailyPersuasion @JustPearlyThings

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2 minutes

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453

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5

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00:00:00.000 you know why would they assume just because she had your first like she had your kid first what 0.85
00:00:04.700 i mean didn't a woman have your kid first and like how many men have had their woman have their kid
00:00:10.460 first and she wasn't loyal to any of you so why would you assume loyalty at all you know what i'm
00:00:14.600 saying like yeah we don't we don't yeah we don't like loyalty is unenforceable now yeah so why
00:00:19.160 would you even assume just because she had your kid first she's not going to be loyal anyway she
00:00:23.700 wasn't loyal to the first guy so like he's not there so yeah i think a lot a lot of the reasons
00:00:29.240 that men resist answering the single mother question in the affirmative is the same set of
00:00:35.380 reasons that marriage in the current year is a risk across the board. And this is why I point
00:00:41.760 out that some of the concerns like, you know, okay, so you marry this beautiful, naive, doe-eyed
00:00:47.840 virgin bride, and then she has a kid, and it's completely different personality. You know, I have
00:00:53.940 that dad chat, Pearl, right? I ask them, like, when did your wife completely change? Now,
00:00:59.120 some of them i got real big trouble for i'll have to tell you about this privately i got in really
00:01:03.780 big trouble for sharing one of your posts where you said something like girlfriend rather than
00:01:08.640 wives changed my mind i got so much trouble for that i'll tell you about that later but that's
00:01:12.760 obviously true because of the peter principle right the peter principle is you're promoted to
00:01:17.020 your maximum incompetence or rather your maximum competent where you become incompetent that's
00:01:22.520 it that's another thing but throughout when i asked him in the dad chat i guess i got several
00:01:26.000 doesn't answer so it's a it's it's a sample size of something the most common was was was not after
00:01:31.560 we got married it was after the first kid personality it was 180 she went from exuberant
00:01:38.340 joyful enthusiastic in bed to frigid and asexual and ballooned and did all these sorts of things
00:01:45.820 and lost interest in her own hobbies and i thought well maybe she's not attracted to me anymore 0.82
00:01:50.180 but then she just got bitter with her friends and and and family and she cut off her sister cut off
00:01:55.600 contact with her sister you know these sorts of like transformations after having after having a
00:02:00.280 child when it's a woman who's already been through that you what you see is what you get what you see 0.58
00:02:06.480 is what you get so it's like a single mother has a carfax report 0.74