Pearl - October 09, 2026


“Modern Dating Is More TRANSACTIONAL Than Women Want to Admit” @JustPearlyThings

Mentioned
Lala
Female Misandry Is Completely NORMALIZED Online

Episode Stats


Length

3 minutes

Words per minute

141.65

Word count

425

Sentence count

22

Harmful content

Misogyny

10

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Toxicity

3

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Hate speech

7

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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Women are in business. Men are in love. That's a very interesting concept. I do agree with the what is it that the dating is transactional. There was something said earlier on the podcast by another lady. She was wearing the pick me. No, wasn't Lala. It wasn't another lady. She said that I don't or maybe you said it was said during your conversation that you don't think dating 0.50
00:00:29.980 should be like everybody should be dating or dating should be first seen okay all right what
00:00:36.920 if if women are in business and men are in love and dating is only for young people then how do
00:00:44.740 we arrive anywhere i guess i'm personally asking what is your definition of dating and why would
00:00:50.740 you say it's only for young people i love that question i appreciate you for bringing that up
00:00:55.560 Um, when dating, no, no, no. When dating first started, it was very taboo. Okay. People typically
00:01:04.020 courted women didn't go out with strange men. They didn't know. Typically this was not something
00:01:09.360 that they would do, but because we became more metropolitan oriented, you know, you have a lot 1.00
00:01:13.860 of movements, if you will, what women started to do was take their independence, take the mate 0.91
00:01:18.780 selection onto themselves, which has been pretty much a failure. All right. But that's neither here 0.97
00:01:22.520 or there what happens is when women took a date with a man and date just means calendar date that's 1.00
00:01:29.840 what the word comes from she's just filling her dates doesn't mean love doesn't mean marriage it 1.00
00:01:34.720 someone has evolved into that of picking your mate but date specifically comes with a woman
00:01:39.720 filling her dates but also it came with the idea that the man was paying with gifts money whatever 0.75
00:01:48.780 And I often have a conversation that says dating has stemmed from prostitution because a lot of people would get busted. 0.80
00:01:55.640 It's true because back in the day, I mean, love has always had power involved in it.
00:02:02.480 Men are the only ones willing to do love with no power. 0.99
00:02:06.520 But back in the day, like women came with a dowry. 0.74
00:02:09.060 Like if anything, the men were paid. 0.76
00:02:10.480 The women weren't.
00:02:11.100 for dating they would get busted for taking a woman out on a date and then taking her to the 1.00
00:02:17.500 hotel for free sex you know who also didn't like that prostitutes because those women were 0.84
00:02:23.420 undercutting the prostitute by eliminating the aspect of direct payment the payment went directly 1.00
00:02:29.200 to the restaurant
00:02:30.040 Thank you.