Pearl - October 22, 2026


Modern Woman Gets FURIOUS When Pearl Calls Her LAZY

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00:00:00.000 I absolutely think you can have a traditional marriage in 2026 because you and your partner define the terms of what what a traditional marriage is.
00:00:08.300 So just because statistics show one thing is not to negate everything else that's going on.
00:00:15.160 And it's 200, I think, 300 and maybe 40 million people in the world.
00:00:18.860 And you can't tell me that out of the 340 million people in this world, there are no traditional marriages.
00:00:24.200 It just doesn't make sense.
00:00:25.800 okay um the argument they're going to use is there's somebody on the planet that has a
00:00:32.440 traditional marriage plenty of people yeah that's kind of exhausting where i just think when we use
00:00:38.240 generalities that's exhausting so okay um the other thing is i thought it was kind of ironic
00:00:45.300 how she said you can have a traditional marriage and then used the word partner which implies
00:00:51.940 equality so she like contradicted her husband same difference it's not the same difference
00:00:56.980 i mean it's actually it's completely different but um in your eyes but i think that if it would
00:01:02.980 literally be in god's eyes no i mean you can refer to your husband as a partner or your husband or
00:01:09.460 you know whatever you feel comfortable with it still doesn't negate the fact that you know
00:01:13.860 there are traditional you you and your husband or partner determine what a traditional marriage
00:01:19.300 why don't you tell me what you think a traditional marriage is a traditional marriage is whatever the
00:01:22.900 two people the whatever the two parties involved in the marriage deem it to be it doesn't have to
00:01:27.140 be um what they consider traditional marriage in the 50s and the 60s this is 2026 so traditional
00:01:34.980 marriage in 2026 can be defined as whatever you know that particular marriage wants it to be
00:01:40.900 defined as so it's not always you know you you were talking about how um you know they were you
00:01:48.660 know like in the church and these different types of people that um you know that they can't do
00:01:55.220 certain things and and the woman is you know eventually gonna find somebody else or married
00:02:00.180 to look for somebody else or whatever that's not that's not accurate that may be accurate some of
00:02:04.740 the time but definitely not 100 of the time women care about status so again they men care about
00:02:11.620 competence so they care about like doing something and getting good at something um and women want to
00:02:17.700 do nothing and still be called the thing so she wants to you know i just asked her what is 1.00
00:02:23.140 traditional there's zero requirements it can be whatever you want and you still get the good 0.52
00:02:29.060 person points of being a traditional woman this is hell on earth i am in i am in hell and she seems 0.97
00:02:35.940 good-natured i'd like to say like she's far less combative than a lot of women so i would put her 0.83
00:02:40.660 in the top half of like of women in terms of like she's not yelling she's not screaming even the 0.99
00:02:46.580 the fact that i've made it this far like she listened to the mob that's that's above average 0.95
00:02:50.300 in women and still this is what we deal with go ahead yeah i just think that belief systems play
00:02:58.840 a factor in traditional marriage i also think that just because what the world is showing us
00:03:05.800 or the worldly things doesn't really they're two separate things right so you know traditional
00:03:11.220 marriage to me is not what was going on in the 40s and 50s. Times have changed. People have
00:03:17.200 changed. But what I'm saying is, you know, in 2026, there are traditional marriages. I'm in one
00:03:26.440 as a matter of fact. And so I think I'm speaking from not only just what's going on, but actually
00:03:33.180 I'm actually living it every single day. And traditional marriage absolutely is still, you
00:03:38.120 know here. It still exists in 2026. To give you a pointed question, because I think we might be
00:03:42.480 doing a little bit of the loop-de-loop here. So if you say a traditional marriage isn't the 1950s
00:03:48.920 marriage, okay, that's a claim. You can say you can have a traditional marriage now, okay, that's
00:03:53.840 a claim. I think one of the things that would help is a clean static definition that would work in
00:03:58.840 1950 or now or whatever, some fixed definition of a tradition, if you have one. I mean, I just
00:04:05.900 like what does it matter if the partnership is going to be modern like can i use her first word
00:04:12.600 partnership can i have a different way well your husband i have a different way i want to
00:04:16.820 to me i use them interchangeably your marriage up can i ask you a few questions about it yeah you
00:04:21.280 can because you brought it up as a point i don't like going personal but if people use their
00:04:25.240 marriage i like to ask questions okay okay how long have you guys been married we've been married
00:04:30.180 a little over a year one year okay so a little over how old are you uh you know give or take
00:04:38.740 give or take in between you can just 40 to 50 all right 40 to 50 years old married for a year
00:04:46.180 were you married before other kids i was married before okay so divorced yep this isn't traditional
00:04:53.060 at all i mean i think it is i mean just do you do you obey him in all things absolutely i mean
00:05:00.020 whatever he says goes i mean if if it's here's the thing man if it's if it's reasonable and
00:05:08.360 it's something that is for the betterment of the marriage then absolutely i mean if he tells me to
00:05:15.220 go jump off a building that's not reasonable so i wouldn't do that you know so decide if it's
00:05:20.340 reasonable we both do collectively so yeah no we both do i mean it's not it's not it's not me we
00:05:27.180 both have a say so we both decide and you know we we do what we feel is traditional for us my
00:05:36.980 definition of traditional may not be your definition of traditional it may not be other
00:05:40.360 people are you in a church am i what in a church do i have a yeah i remember you tend every week
00:05:46.800 yeah yeah so it's a status thing you gotta say it for this oh no i'm not saying it for the status
00:05:51.780 that's just the way i feel and that's just the experience that i'm living but there would need
00:05:55.700 be like requirements but it's what do you mean requirements like what explain i've i've explained
00:06:01.700 so many times today i like i i have been explaining for three hours the requirements
00:06:07.620 okay well just okay well give me two virginity okay that getting married young okay yeah
00:06:15.220 that's not i mean you can't equate uh being a virgin and getting married young to tradition
00:06:20.820 I mean, this is 2026. I mean, nobody is, I mean, the likelihood that you'll be a version before you get married in 2026 is probably slim to none. So you really can't compare that.
00:06:32.780 I can, because everybody starts, yes, everybody starts that way.
00:06:36.400 I mean, you may start that way, but that's not common. 1.00
00:06:40.580 I know, but women are just so lazy. It's like, okay, you know what? If I said there's a very little probability you're going to marry a billionaire or be a billionaire. 1.00
00:06:48.600 like that's the way women talk about waiting till marriage like you could absolutely do it if you 0.70
00:06:54.380 wanted to it actually wouldn't be difficult that others people that do it all the time i knew them 0.98
00:06:58.860 um now but women don't want to because that would require doing something doing something 1.00
00:07:04.720 difficult right which is not having sex with all the men out of your league that are interested in
00:07:09.660 you so i'm that's hard say the super chats are possibly going to help us with some catalyst for
00:07:14.900 some maybe new material here a little bit uh question from lace 4916 so do we bring back
00:07:21.700 dowries or other things associated till the 19th century to make marriage truly traditional again
00:07:28.660 or just keep talking about how it doesn't exist um no because you can't like how do i put it i
00:07:36.340 guess that's one strategy you can come in and like get a woman that makes money and that does
00:07:41.300 alleviate your risk at least legally at least legally that's what in a way that's kind of what
00:07:45.060 taylor swift travis kelsey did people were always asking like why isn't he dating a hot girl 10 years
00:07:49.700 younger it's because now he can buy a sports team if he wants yeah yeah so good men are they're like
00:07:55.620 i'm not getting loyalty i'm not getting youth i'm not i'm not getting i might as well get some money
00:08:01.380 and that's a strategy some guys are i don't i'm not here to tell what men at large are gonna do
00:08:06.100 because you as a man know where you're at on the chessboard i mean i know a guy in london i mean
00:08:11.620 he did kind of do that like he would go after lawyer chicks he was like an in-shape guy and
00:08:16.020 he would he would just go to canary wharf and you know find some finance and lawyer baddies in their
00:08:21.700 early 30s he's like i'm gonna get a kid off of one of them man i'm gonna be the so some guys do that
00:08:27.380 like there's different strategies but it's gonna be different for every guy you know some guys
00:08:31.460 can't they're not hot enough to do what what woman is gonna pay for them no none so it's um
00:08:38.820 as a collective i believe um that the only solution to feminism is more feminism so i believe
00:08:45.300 that men uh they're expected to do the right thing even when women are doing the wrong thing and i
00:08:50.820 think i look at pump and dump women because you know that'll humble them into getting married
00:08:54.980 that's number one you know there's no there's no one more humble than a woman that's had her time
00:08:58.900 wasted by chad so a lot of chads you guys are really helping the birth rate out there
00:09:03.780 two putting women on alimony and child support if you guys get like 20 of women on alimony and
00:09:08.260 child support they'll complain so much the whole thing will be abolished um you know if a woman 1.00
00:09:13.540 takes your kids let her have them stop wasting this money or go get a surrogate right you can 0.69
00:09:18.740 go to guatemala or wherever the hell go get a surrogate these are all options right for you 1.00
00:09:23.620 right or what i said earlier um about getting a high earning woman and then you know tempting
00:09:28.740 her with a man that's way you know better looking because it's kind of a win-win if you get a high 0.86
00:09:32.820 earning woman right and you tempt her with a better guy because you know if she cheats well 1.00
00:09:37.780 she probably would have did that anyway but if she doesn't now you know you got a wife maybe you can
00:09:43.060 maybe you can go to work king and maybe you can you can swap it you know so there's a lot of ways 1.00
00:09:47.620 women are lazy women are lazy number one in obesity um the fact that she doesn't think she's 1.00
00:09:53.060 overweight is incredible to me because she's so obviously overweight and women in this country 1.00
00:10:00.020 are just lied to by the body positivity movement and other women and told they don't need to lose
00:10:04.660 weight and they absolutely need to lose weight it's just it is what it is i've been overweight
00:10:08.580 i'm not even judging it but there's little choices you make every day to make you overweight so then 0.86
00:10:13.620 they're lazy because in the workforce women could get an accounting degree and be employed for life 1.00
00:10:18.740 right um there's so many women that are terrible with money they all need accountants so you would 1.00
00:10:22.980 be employed uh and we could go into stem and we choose not to and then even um even if women do 1.00
00:10:28.660 get the degrees like if they become lawyers or doctors uh they tend to quit i could pull it up 0.84
00:10:34.420 on here but women quit within five to fifteen years of getting the job where men do it for life 1.00
00:10:40.020 on top of that even the jobs we pick i always know if a woman is going into a job like if a bunch of 1.00
00:10:46.260 women are entering an industry almost always they've made the standards easier because women 1.00
00:10:50.500 just can't we refuse to do it we refuse to do manual labor we refuse to do pretty much anything 1.00
00:10:56.980 then we look at screen time the average screen time is like 10 hours a day so women are spending
00:11:01.300 10 hours a day on their phones um even you know i disagree with conservatives they all think that 0.81
00:11:05.940 women have these mental health issues i actually don't think they do i think women are too lazy 0.75
00:11:10.740 like it's easier for them to just take a pill and like take prozac or whatever it is than to work 1.00
00:11:16.340 out eat healthy and leave their house women are too lazy to go meet their friends like women have 0.94
00:11:22.580 parasocial relationships with chat gpt women are women are too lazy to go hook up with a guy like 0.88
00:11:29.940 women are too lazy to go be a like now women have dildos and now and now we have dating 0.88
00:11:36.500 apps men can come to women's door where are these women at women are women it's so easy for women 0.99
00:11:41.620 women are too lazy to fall in love right we would rather and women say this we go online and say i 1.00
00:11:47.380 would rather be home with my cat and my dog and watch netflix than go have go get out of my 0.99
00:11:54.340 thousands of matches pick one and talk to him like it's just it's so difficult being a woman
00:12:00.740 right because i just have to i'm on the team of of laziness of like not wanting to do anything
00:12:09.220 ever on top of that if you want to if you want to know what industries are going to be rich guys in
00:12:13.540 the next like 10 years ai is going to wipe out all these jobs but you want to be employed for life 0.96
00:12:18.820 just look at the things women are too lazy to do i i know a guy making a bunch of money off of a 0.87
00:12:24.100 poop cleaning service for dogs women are too lazy to pick up dog poop and i see it i walk around my 1.00
00:12:31.220 neighborhood there's dog poop freaking everywhere there's places it's like doggy you can make you 1.00
00:12:36.420 can get rich picking up women's dog poop they're too lazy to watch their kids right women could 1.00
00:12:42.020 um they could watch their own kids uh remind you my grandma had nine children being a stay-at-home 1.00
00:12:47.220 mom used to be a full-time job because you had a bunch of kids women have one maybe two kids and 1.00
00:12:50.820 still need daycare and a nanny uh women are too lazy to help their husbands right they could get 1.00
00:12:57.140 better with money and not spend all the family's money we're too lazy to shut up right i know i 1.00
00:13:02.100 rock hypocritical coming from me i know but we're too lazy uh to you know not have an argument not
00:13:08.500 give our opinion opinion at home it's just like it's just it's just i every year i get more upset 0.97
00:13:16.980 i just how lazy we can be like you're too lazy to admit you're fat it's just the thing about it is
00:13:24.260 you're grouping everybody into one bucket um i i'm not lazy i've been in my career for 25 plus years
00:13:31.700 i mean it doesn't matter what it is but what i'm saying is no it's not anything no it's not it's
00:13:37.220 not useless it actually saves lives but what i'm saying is i i mean it really it doesn't matter
00:13:43.540 i mean so you can you know what is it then what do i do you already know what do i do i already
00:13:48.820 know that it's useless because you won't say it no i'm not saying it because i'm trying to figure
00:13:53.140 out what you were if you were because if you were something difficult like um i don't know
00:13:58.820 a high-paying doctor or a high-end attorney you would tell everybody because that's how we are
00:14:04.580 we are we love being popular and high status men will downplay their accomplishments where women
00:14:09.940 will oversell them so i guarantee it's a it's not a career it's probably a job and it's probably a
00:14:15.140 desk job because if it's not a desk job or what is it it's not a dish job you know it's not a
00:14:22.100 desk job you know law enforcement is my job but the thing about it is enforcement yeah but it's
00:14:27.700 not so it's not a desk job it's not a desk job well i'm retired and i'm an entrepreneur now but
00:14:32.260 i was but the thing about it though well i let you talk so let me talk i'm not fat i'm not overweight
00:14:39.060 i've been in this career arena for over 25 plus years i have a bachelor's degree i have a master's
00:14:45.460 degree i work hard every day for what i do and what i have so for you to make the claim that 0.53
00:14:50.580 women are lazy that's just retarded to me it's just that's just like totally it just makes no 0.99
00:14:56.100 sense i mean well i mean but i'm just saying i don't know you got to hate women or something to 1.00
00:15:01.300 say that because for you to say something like that that's ridiculous nobody cares about degrees 0.82
00:15:06.740 I mean, but it doesn't matter whether you care or not. My point is I'm not lazy because lazy people don't go to school and get degrees. Lazy people don't work for 25 plus years. No, they don't. I disagree. I just, I just disagree. If you're lazy, lazy to me is on food stamps or section eight and you know that you can work and there's nothing wrong with you and you choose not to, or you're laying in the bed every day, chilling, not doing anything, not being a productive citizen in society, but yet and still you want, you know, the perks and you want, you know,
00:15:36.720 people to i don't know benefit you in some way so laziness my definition of laziness is totally
00:15:41.920 different from yours and i just think that the the points that you were laying out for a female or 0.92
00:15:46.880 woman being lazy is it's ridiculous just because there are people that are retarded it doesn't mean 0.90
00:15:51.120 that you're hard working no i i am hard working well yeah absolutely i'm not saying i need you to 1.00
00:15:59.200 okay you got to go i'm gonna go so bachelor's degrees and master's women we really care about
00:16:04.720 accomplishment and we care about we care about the title so we love titles we love awards we
00:16:12.800 love and it's very it's very manipulative it's how society kind of manipulates us into milking
00:16:18.880 like they get more money out of us because they they we love hearing good job and you're awesome
00:16:25.280 you're special here's some certificate telling you that you're smart and so when you hear this
00:16:31.760 and you hear oh i have a bachelor's degree and a master's degree it doesn't no one cares like
00:16:37.760 nobody can't be lazy to do it though yes you can no you can't okay this is gaslighting and it's
00:16:43.520 for eternal this is why i'm in hell on earth this is hell on earth so they're gonna gaslight you
00:16:48.560 no hard work is like you know doing an infrastructure you know there's men that 0.71
00:16:52.560 die every week um on crab fishing boats the militant fight like i don't know doing a dirty
00:16:57.680 and dangerous job is that and okay we come on i mean i'm just saying like you know don't make me
00:17:05.000 do you want you want i'm just saying i'm just saying you know y'all you know you want us to
00:17:09.460 take an oath and and lay down our life for a complete stranger but yet and still you have
00:17:13.920 no respect you know what i'm saying for the police and i i just i i just i'm not lazy i don't know
00:17:19.620 what category of women you talk to to be defined as that but i'm definitely not lazy all right 0.94
00:17:26.220 are from it look at um by by you being fat you are lazy i'm not fat so you are fat that's your
00:17:32.460 opinion yeah i mean we're all entitled to one it's like an everybody has one so i mean i get it i 0.86
00:17:37.900 appreciate it i appreciate it but yeah so i am the first woman that's going to be honest with you
00:17:43.180 ever everybody's going to lie to you everybody's going to lie to you 24 7 for the rest of your life
00:17:49.340 i don't think and just know because you gaslight and because you actually are calmer than most 0.72
00:17:55.180 women which i do appreciate um but because you gaslight for eternity there's no incentive for
00:18:01.020 anybody in your life to be honest with you ever oh no and so it's so it's never gonna happen 0.98
00:18:05.980 that's your opinion i can tell because you seriously don't believe you're overweight
00:18:11.180 is incredible because i was smaller than you right and i was embarrassed about my weight and
00:18:16.780 i was smaller than you so i can't even imagine i just that's neither here nor there i mean weight
00:18:20.940 Weight is all about your diet and what you're doing.
00:18:24.140 It has nothing to do with if you're lazy or not.
00:18:26.120 And I don't, I'm not fat.
00:18:27.660 I mean, when I look, when I think about fat, I think about people that are three and four
00:18:31.980 and 500 pounds.
00:18:33.100 That's fat to me.
00:18:34.080 Like what you're talking about, just because, uh, you know, you have a healthy weight on
00:18:38.980 you doesn't mean that you're fat.
00:18:40.200 Like I can say that you're fat, you know what I mean?
00:18:42.400 But that doesn't necessarily mean that you're fat. 0.77
00:18:44.120 So, well, I mean, I mean.