Pearl - Modern Women Are BUYING Homes They CAN'T AFFORD! ｜ Pearl Reacts

00:00:00.000 the modern woman life cycle is something i created here on pearl daily to show how modern women end 1.00

00:00:05.600 up alone with their cats i'm not going to go over it here but make sure to check out my previous

00:00:11.600 episodes where i cover the whole thing part of the modern woman life cycle is modern women get a bs

00:00:17.920 degree that is not going to make them any money and then get into the workforce and become a

00:00:24.560 professional this lifestyle includes buying cars they can't afford buying pets they can't afford

00:00:30.400 and now buying houses they can't afford modern women feel entitled to owning property just like 1.00

00:00:39.920 getting college degrees modern women buy houses in an effort to show the world that they don't need 1.00

00:00:46.400 a man women in their 20s are signing up for the commitment of 30 years and hundreds of thousands

00:00:53.200 of dollars on a single income coming from a job that is volatile in an unstable market

00:00:59.840 let's take a look at why more women are buying homes than single men new at seven skipping the

00:01:06.400 spouse and buying the house that is what a number of american women appears to be doing so again women 1.00

00:01:11.680 want men that are homeowners so we become the men we want to marry so now we're buying houses because we

00:01:17.840 want men with houses it's like they are buying up homes at more than twice the rate of single men

00:01:24.720 abc 7's roston matey spent the day looking into the trend and what it means for southwest florida

00:01:29.520 he's live from night from naples hey ross you're absolutely right krista single women all across 1.00

00:01:34.800 the country are buying up houses far more often than single men but is that the case here in southwest

00:01:40.400 florida it turns out it all depends on where you buy

00:01:43.120 single women i should say are buying houses twice as much as single men mike lombardo has sold real

00:01:50.640 estate for nearly three decades including in cape coral he says he definitely sees more women than

00:01:56.400 men interested in buying a home and he says there are several reasons why there's really no reason you 0.97

00:02:02.000 guys should pay rent as a man just find an old lady to have sex with you know i mean like i mean you 1.00

00:02:07.760 could go you guys you guys will you'll have sex with the old fat women for free like somebody's i 1.00

00:02:13.920 know one of you is doing it so you might as well get like some housing out of it just keep going older 1.00

00:02:17.840 and uglier until you find a woman with a house that's what i say one would be wealth building um 1.00

00:02:23.120 obviously you know owning your own home is correlated with building wealth uh another was

00:02:27.920 that sometimes uh single women have more responsibilities than single men 17 of homebuyers last year were

00:02:34.960 single women compared to seven percent single men and the gap between the sexes is growing according

00:02:40.880 to the national association of realtors valerie b has been a realtor in naples for 15 years she says

00:02:47.280 her clientele doesn't reflect the national numbers in my 15 years i've sold just a handful of properties

00:02:54.160 to single women that's because she sells almost entirely to retired couples people come here who 0.97

00:03:00.720 are purchasing a second family home both brokers agree though women are more built to buy than men 0.95

00:03:08.080 i think women are seeing the benefits of it and not really the downside of it and from the men i've

00:03:12.960 talked to a lot of them see the downside of it and just like you know hey i i don't want commitment

00:03:20.240 now national statistics show women struggle to make less money than they do make less money than men

00:03:26.160 they struggle to save money uh more so than their male counterparts and they struggle with saving

00:03:30.960 money but despite all that that's not stopping women from buying housing reporting live in naples

00:03:35.680 ross dimattei abc7 of course it's not like he's like they're making less and buying more obviously

00:03:42.080 that's what we do i just want a woman to prove me wrong please more in this store tonight the rate of 1.00

00:03:47.040 home buying by singles isn't the only place a gender gap is apparent in the real estate market 0.98

00:03:52.000 a report out last spring showed homes sold by single women fetch less than those sold by single

00:03:57.840 men here in southwest florida single women get an average 13 less for their homes than men selling

00:04:03.600 similar homes yeah because the men probably took care of it right and the answers are right like in

00:04:12.560 front of us all right there's been a lot of talk about the gender gap in tech but it turns out when

00:04:18.080 it comes to home ownership there's also a gender gap especially if you're single but in this case

00:04:24.320 women have a big lead over men and our business and tech reporter scott budman hit the streets to find

00:04:29.360 out why yeah it's a pretty wide margin to single women are more likely than single men to own homes 1.00

00:04:36.000 here and across most of the country so we went and asked single people and real estate agents

00:04:42.240 how did that happen vienna chambers knows the old school conventional wisdom when it comes to

00:04:47.920 home ownership i mean most times you think oh i mean the stereotype is that men will buy houses for

00:04:53.040 themselves and their family and that's their job and their role and she's not having it my goal since

00:04:57.600 i was very little is i want my first house to be purely bought by me you don't need a man i don't

00:05:01.920 need a man i don't need help i want it to be bought by me yeah i know women that buy houses and do you know 1.00

00:05:07.440 who takes care of the houses not them again this is all just status it's like i want to look cool

00:05:15.040 i want to brag that i have a house i want to post on facebook that i have a house so i'm going to

00:05:19.040 get a house and make it my dad's problem and my brother's problem and whoever other people's problem 0.73

00:05:25.520 a lot of single women feel the same way in fact according to the u.s census bureau more single women

00:05:32.080 in san jose own homes than single men they also own more homes in san francisco in fact the south bay

00:05:39.840 men just walk away they're like you guys want the houses you get the houses

00:05:45.360 they're just like please stop nagging you want the corporate america you can have corporate america

00:05:51.360 you guys want the military you can have the military i mean they just keep they're like no

00:05:56.560 thank you the largest margin of single women ownership nationwide and even though women still earn

00:06:02.720 less on average than men i wanted safety i wanted good neighbors i wanted close good schools um for

00:06:11.280 someday but you know not not now they want to be yeah because really you need two incomes um the

00:06:18.960 owners one thing that i believe as a woman i can say we all have in mind is the house the place to

00:06:26.480 regroup the the anchor this is what it is yeah we're so cut single women own 2.64 million more homes 1.00

00:06:40.320 than single men in the u.s let me let me finish this article so let me say that one more time single

00:06:46.640 woman on 2.64 million more homes than single men in the u.s okay on an average woman earns around 0.89

00:06:56.320 83 cents for every dollar they earn okay compared to men in the u.s single woman own a total of 10.76 0.99

00:07:04.480 million homes whereas single men own 8.12 million there's a difference of 2.64 and the gap is growing

00:07:11.120 in 48 out of 50 states single women were found to own more homes the two exceptions were north 0.97

00:07:16.400 and south dakota which only three people lived there and then louisiana alabama and south carolina had 0.83

00:07:22.080 the greatest share of single women homeowners louisiana alabama and south carolina on average across 0.99

00:07:29.680 the three states single women owned 15 percent of all owner occupied houses whereas single men owned 0.97

00:07:37.440 11 percent although men earn more than women on average that is not always true for younger generation

00:07:44.320 according to new pew research uh center younger women women younger than 30 earn more than men in

00:07:53.120 cities including new york dc and la yeah because women under 30 are getting all these 0.97

00:08:01.600 high-paying jobs doing nothing you know let me read that last sentence to you again

00:08:06.800 of course and that's why i'm really not with this i'm not the stay-at-home wife type that's going to

00:08:14.560 say all women should be stay-at-home mothers because you have to understand guys i'm one of 10 kids my

00:08:19.840 my mom's mom had 13 or um 9 and 13 on my dad's side or even like two i don't really see the problem

00:08:28.960 with a woman having a part-time job you know like my my grandma um was a farmer like her 1.00

00:08:36.560 husband was a farmer and they had to work on the phone how many hours a day do you think

00:08:41.840 they were working on the farm now i know the differences is it's outside of the home versus

00:08:46.880 inside of the home i totally get that but we have laptops youtube video you know there's video edit

00:08:57.200 there's so many jobs building websites freelance you know according to pew research center women 1.00

00:09:03.360 younger than 30 earn more than men women younger than 30 earn more than men in new york washington dc and

00:09:11.760 la what do you think about this these stats so nobody's gonna be honest everybody knows they're

00:09:19.440 just giving us jobs for being hot oh the first stats like surprised me a little bit but then i kind of

00:09:25.200 clicked for me where um remember the video we did on uh single moms versus dads that had kids yeah so the

00:09:32.400 far majority go with the mom right and at that point who needs a house if you have kids to provide 1.00

00:09:37.440 for versus no kids so if you kind of young women aren't having kids correlate or if you add the 1.00

00:09:44.800 single mothers with kids that are taking care of them in the custody versus a single dad that's taking 1.00

00:09:50.240 care of it in custody then the crossover there i can see how those numbers make sense but then but then

00:09:56.400 okay so if your argument's gonna be divorce i just pulled up the top states 10 states with the highest rates

00:10:01.280 of divorces new mexico's number one west virginia but what if you never got married what do you mean

00:10:07.440 what if you never in terms of the kids out of wedlock or kids you never get married where a couple

00:10:12.560 splits up they've never had a legal marriage it's so simple i mean it's like these guys are so much

00:10:17.520 smarter than me they really are i mean they're way more accomplished than me in every way how do i see

00:10:23.040 this and you don't that's what i don't get are they just filtering because it's so simple it's so simple

00:10:29.280 women are buying homes they can't afford and women are getting jobs for doing nothing there you go 1.00

00:10:35.440 there you go divorced you're just we're just parting ways uh so his house goes to her no he he never had

00:10:43.120 a house she need she has need for a house yes because she has the kids yeah but she's taking care of a 1.00

00:10:47.840 kid and and i'm not saying yes then probably he's having to make some less women aren't having kids 0.95

00:10:53.360 because they don't like kids it's so simple like women aren't having kids because we don't like 1.00

00:10:59.360 kids that much otherwise we'd be dying to have kids otherwise it wouldn't be like claw like please

00:11:06.960 have a kid you know money to be able to buy a house but you'd also need a house in that situation

00:11:12.160 more so than i understand you need a house yes there's a difference between needing a house and

00:11:16.880 and affording the house absolutely affording yes but who's like again that was where i was looking

00:11:22.480 at it but the more interesting thing is what about the pay inequality what about that whole argument

00:11:26.880 yeah i mean in three major cities this is news uh under 30 women are being paid more than men 0.94

00:11:33.120 that's that's sexist is that also can you pull up that article by the way just zoom in a little bit

00:11:37.440 is that maybe because uh women under 30 more of them are going to school and getting a higher education 1.00

00:11:42.240 and especially if you're in one of those three states they're very for equality in terms of pay

00:11:46.400 and equal opportunity then you have younger people who are higher educated by the way i want to

00:11:51.520 continue to read this article i'm actually curious right now okay so we talked about north dakota and

00:11:54.480 south dakota okay great in florida maryland and delaware the difference in home ownership between

00:11:59.040 single men and women was the greatest across the three single women on average owned around 4.5

00:12:06.480 more homes than men we're talking florida maryland and delaware there is no correlation between

00:12:11.680 those three states it's interesting women are paid less than men on average and earn 83.1 percent 0.91

00:12:17.440 of what men earn according to u.s department of labor the figure compares the median wage of all

00:12:22.960 full-time male and female workers in a country using data from 2020 and is the most comprehensive

00:12:28.720 analysis of the gender wage gap to date according to the data from national association of realtors in

00:12:33.520 2022 19 of buyers for single women whereas just nine percent were single men in 2015 single

00:12:39.840 women made up 16 of the buyers where single men made only you need to put me on these shows i'll 0.87

00:12:45.040 break it down i'm like and it's i'll be the i'll be like the least accomplished one on the panel it's

00:12:52.480 happened to me before but i don't know maybe like i'm like am i seeing things that you guys don't see

00:12:59.760 like how do you guys not see this i mean i know someone with six figures in debt and she bought a house

00:13:05.360 she makes a lot of money but she has six figures of debt do you know what i mean like 0.97

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00:14:53.200 99% and the gap between single one that is very weird to look at this so um i think if you if you

00:15:01.120 think about who prepares more for rainy day that mindset i i'm gonna give that victory to women yeah 1.00

00:15:09.840 who thinks more long term by oh my god what a simp

00:15:20.640 who thinks more long term do you know women at all we own 80 percent of the world's debt patrick 1.00

00:15:29.120 80 percent of the world's debt is owned by women and you think we look more long term what do we spend 1.00

00:15:35.120 our money on botox houses we can't afford um high-end gym memberships what do men spend their money on 0.55

00:15:42.560 women 1.00

00:15:45.840 saying let me at least buy a house and you know make some kind of an investment this is a

00:15:53.120 and if they're single pet and they're dating then they're not paying for drinks popcorn at the movies

00:15:57.440 they're not paying for dinners yeah but they're paying for botox fake nails fake hair like the list

00:16:02.960 get plastic surgery i mean of course they got money to buy a house they're not they don't have

00:16:10.240 money to buy it it's like these guys are smarter than me how do they not see this spend you know

00:16:15.520 i mean because those girls it's they're single it's not that they're not dating you feel me rob

00:16:21.200 rob the rob is rob's rob's rob's in love yeah you're married 12 years that's nuts this is uh

00:16:28.400 everybody here spooked a little bit it's interesting stuff for sure yeah are you still spooked roger or

00:16:34.800 is this making you think a little bit i'm not i'm not making a lot of sense out of me too because i'm

00:16:39.840 trying to figure out why why those three specific cities it's very interesting states florida delaware

00:16:44.880 america well but also new york la la washington dc i mean actually you see the government's the biggest

00:16:51.680 employer right that makes sense but i can't figure out why the other two but by the way this is a uh

00:16:59.360 this is a story to okay men typically purchase homes that were 249 000 dollars last year compared to

00:17:04.160 women who purchased homes that were 230 that's not a big difference yeah it's not even 10 it's

00:17:08.080 five percent difference their sacrifices women are generally more uh more likely to make included 1.00

00:17:13.360 cutting out non-essential spending taking in second jobs it's kind of like what you're talking about

00:17:18.880 canceling the women are more likely to cancel vacation plans because they're the only ones that 1.00

00:17:26.560 go on vacation it's like 80 of female travelers are women women cut up but do you know how women cut 1.00

00:17:34.400 out non-essential spending because they label everything that they don't need is essential

00:17:40.160 they leave the gym and membership is essential the botox essential the boob job essential the groceries from

00:17:48.480 whole foods essential so they're like yeah we eliminated his spending that's how women balance 1.00

00:17:56.960 budgets they take out all the he buys video games and then she's like we got to cut that occasion plans 0.94

00:18:03.600 yeah okay there you go very interesting article i'd love to see more stats and data uh on uh i just can't

00:18:10.960 believe that like patrick bett davis david or whatever he has a huge podcast he's like a really successful

00:18:20.160 guy like he i think he's worth like 300 million dollars and that was your take

00:18:30.000 yeah okay well all right guys let me know what you think in the comments maybe i'm wrong i mean he seems

00:18:35.920 to think that women are doing better so let me know in the comments please like the video on your

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Pearl - May 19, 2025

Modern Women Are BUYING Homes They CAN'T AFFORD! ｜ Pearl Reacts

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