00:14:33.840Ooh, señorita, thank you, thank you, tell the music producers out there, you know, I've had some people say, Pearl, I want to produce you an album, and I say, I don't know why you would, but if you want to, you can strip those and put them on Spotify, I don't, I don't really care.
00:14:55.800um otherwise it's just i've had people ask i know it's shocking but let me
00:15:02.560someone said wow that was beautiful it really was wasn't it thank you
00:15:10.100thank you very much you know you know it's crazy there's men there's men that have like 20 views
00:15:18.580on youtube videos and they're like expert pianists and all this stuff
00:15:23.200and i got people watching me writing like songs about tacos you know what i mean it's like
00:40:18.960oh there's this fat woman running for office in california and her interview is going viral
00:40:30.540we gotta get these women back home we gotta voters we'll need in order to win um who voted
00:40:38.660for trump how would i need them in order to win well unless you think you're gonna get
00:40:44.30060 of the vote you think you'll get 60 for all everybody who did not vote for trump will vote
00:40:49.880for you that's what you're in a general election yes if it is me versus a republican i think that
00:40:56.000i will win the people who did not vote for trump what if it's you versus another democrat i don't
00:40:59.920intend that to be the case. So how do you not intend that to be the case? Do you, are you going
00:41:05.340to ask them not to run? No, no, I'm saying I'm going to build the support. I have the support
00:41:09.340already in terms of name recognition. And so I'm going to do the very best I can to make sure that
00:41:13.560we get through this primary in a really strong position. But let me be clear with you. I
00:41:17.320represented Orange County. I represented a purple area. I have stood on my own two feet and won
00:41:22.240Republican votes before. That's not something every candidate in this race can say. If you're
00:41:26.660from a deep blue area, if you're from L.A. or you're from Oakland, you don't have an
00:41:31.100experience. You just said you don't need those Trump voters. Well, you asked me if I needed
00:41:34.180them to win. You don't think you need them to win. I feel like this is unnecessarily
00:41:37.340argumentative. What is your question? The question is the same thing I ask everybody.
00:41:42.360This is unnecessarily. Only a woman would come into politics and say this is unnecessarily
00:41:50.220argumentative why are you here politics that's what that's what politics is known for arguing
00:41:59.820I mean this is being called the empowering voters to stop Trump's power grab every other
00:42:06.460candidate has answered this question this is not and I said I support it so and the question is
00:42:12.180what do you say to the 40% of voters who voted for Trump oh I'm happy to say that it's the do
00:42:17.400you need them to win part that i don't understand i'm happy to answer the question as you haven't
00:42:21.560written and i'll answer it and we've also asked the other candidates do you think you need any
00:42:25.240of those 40 percent of california voters to win and you're saying no you don't no i'm saying i'm
00:42:29.880going to try to win every vote i can and what i'm saying to you is that well to those voters okay so
00:42:36.200so you i don't want to keep doing this i'm going to call it thank you you're not going to do the
00:42:42.840interview with us nope not like this i'm not not with seven follow-ups to every single question you
00:42:46.600ask every other candidate has a this was like that was not a tough interview I've
00:42:51.880done I've seen in tough interviews that is not a tough interview I don't care I
00:42:58.180don't care I want to have a pleasant positive conversation which you asked me
00:43:02.360about every issue on this list and if every question you're gonna make up a
00:43:06.220follow-up question then we're never gonna get there and we're just gonna
00:43:10.360circle around. I am an investigative reporter. I have never had to do this before. Ever. You've never had to have a conversation with a reporter. Okay but every other candidate has done this. What part of I'm me I'm running for governor because I'm a leader so I am going to make. So you're not going to answer questions from reporters. Okay why don't we go through. I will continue to ask follow up questions because that's my job as a journalist but I will go through and ask these and if you don't want to answer you don't want to answer. So nearly every
00:43:40.360yeah oh my gosh okay oh god help us um oh i thought this was pretty funny
00:43:50.760i played this guy by him and ghosting him and then all my friends
00:43:56.600and ghosted him he really thought he had a chance with us i don't really know what the plan was but
00:44:02.020he won whatever game you're playing he's probably an inspiration in his hometown i played this guy
00:44:08.440she played this guy by ghosting him and then having all her friends ghost him
00:44:17.140this is 2025 okay so thank you guys for tuning in to another episode of pearl daily
00:44:28.060um today we are going to talk about some of the trends that i really have seen in in society
00:44:35.120and I've kind of said this I've stated this over and over again that women are going to trade
00:44:41.780their family's privacy to build their brand now a lot of times when I point this out
00:44:47.240conservative commentators will come at me and they'll say Pearl you just are criticizing women
00:44:52.820whenever I see you know Brett Cooper post her kid and her family on on Instagram they'll say Pearl
00:44:59.600you're just hateful. You're just jealous. Whenever I see Riley Gaines posting her kid's birth or her
00:45:06.480family pictures on the internet, they'll say, Pearl, you're hateful. You're jealous. And when
00:45:10.740I come at this, it's really not meant to be hateful. I'm not even suggesting that in all cases
00:45:16.920it's wrong of mothers to do this. But I have noticed a trend of women using our personal
00:45:24.480lives in order to build our online brand. There was a time where men knew that the private moments
00:45:31.920in their home were just for them. You know, and I think there's something special about the moments
00:45:37.780you have with somebody when nobody's watching. You know, because I think anybody with a mother
00:45:44.840knows how performative mothers tend to be. And you know when you're forced to do something so the
00:45:51.240world would see you, right? Where, you know, you have to go to the events, you have to wear these
00:45:56.520stupid clothes, pose for pictures. I mean, you all know this torturous process that, you know,
00:46:02.440you're posted on the mother's social media. You have to brag about the whole town. Thank you to
00:46:08.220the new member. I set the tone. We really appreciate you. But there's something special
00:47:19.060And my dad, it was so funny because he would have been such a good head coach
00:47:24.520because he was so smart, like he's the smartest person I've ever met.
00:47:28.580But he would have to be the assistant because he just did not.
00:47:31.920Oh, another member, Byron, thank you for signing up.
00:47:35.900But he just, he did not have the time to be a head coach, you know,
00:47:40.520because sometimes he'd have to miss games.
00:47:41.920he'd always be the assistant coach and it would just he would be on the on the sidelines like
00:47:46.620going crazy because he was smarter than the head coach always what do you just have to watch the
00:47:53.380him make like dumber decisions right but I just remember like some of my favorite childhood
00:47:58.600memories or my dad like banging his clipboard saying like go go go and we're like in fifth
00:48:03.800grade running down with the basketball and the reason I love it so much is because you know I
00:48:10.660this wasn't posted anywhere. This wasn't used. My dad had nothing to gain from coaching my
00:48:16.960basketball. I mean, what does he get out of coaching fifth grade women's basketball? Do
00:48:23.900you know what I mean? It's funny. My dad didn't even play basketball, but he's so smart. He
00:48:28.320figured out the game. It actually was a pretty good coach. And to this day, if you ask my father,
00:48:33.660he um he still um is so proud of these like trophies like it's so it's so funny he'll still
00:48:43.840brag about like these game winning he can tell you the score but there's something about that
00:48:48.960right there's something about those special moments that are just for like you guys where
00:48:54.040you know they got nothing out of it have you ever had somebody do something nice for you
00:48:58.980And later, you find out they got something out of it or they were using it for something.
00:49:06.740And I guess it's not that it makes the thing they did any less nice.
00:49:12.060But, you know, it's kind of like those YouTubers that live stream the nice things they do.
00:49:19.360Now, on one hand, you could say, who are you to say that at all?
00:49:24.840They're doing a nice, you know, they're feeding the homeless.
00:49:26.760They're doing this, that, and the other.
00:49:28.120but there's still just something a weird taste left in your mouth when something seems performative
00:49:34.840I think that's what you get with a lot of women in general because we are so
00:49:39.420you know we had to rely on having a good reputation in order to survive so it's very
00:49:44.440very difficult for us to let go of the reputation it's very free I didn't really have a choice
00:49:50.560because I got I got thrust into this no I did have a choice I made this choice but
00:49:55.080But, you know, I'll say when you become a public figure, it forces you to not care faster.
00:50:02.060But it's very freeing when you don't, I'll tell you that.
00:50:08.180Now, but there's something about when men, or sorry, there's something about when someone does something nice and they gain something out of it.
01:04:44.560But we identified that the social media thing might not be in alignment.
01:04:52.140Me being public with my life, which is a challenge of what I do here and what I love to do and create, isn't isn't really something that everyone is comfortable with.
01:05:04.560so um we both agreed to just think about it because I was like if I'm being honest like
01:05:12.580there are some things that I like to experience first and then share with you guys so I give it
01:05:16.580a little bit of time but there are just some things that you're here please make sure it's
01:05:20.740clear before exiting there are just some things that um I feel comfortable with myself just
01:05:28.000sharing right away and when you add another person into that it can get complicated um but
01:05:34.240don't want to have to send every piece of content to my potential partner to get approval you know
01:05:40.400what i'm saying so um he was super respectful and we both were just like like now this is a med