Pearl - October 10, 2025
Modern Women Are Livestreaming The Birth of Their Children | Pearl Daily
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about Taylor Swift's new album, Beyonc s new music video, and how the world is changing. We also talk about some drama between Taylor Swift and Lady Gaga, and a new song about labor contractions.
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But back in the old days, it was behind the scenes.
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But now we're witnessing it all on live stream What a world that we're living in I don't
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understand it I know maybe it's a little bit off brand
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So today, you already know where we're going with this.
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So what the fuck, I guess I'm out of luck.
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I was born in 2025, I know, put on a show, get on the radio, tell me what everybody knows.
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One, two, three, I guess it's meant to be, ABC, you and I, someone said I'm doing a good
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job, I guess I'm better than your heartthrob, somebody said I'm doing a good job.
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The ick factor on live streaming birth is still there
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So if you put a word in the chat, I will write a song off the top of my head.
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Otherwise, I'll just do stuff for the topic today.
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Well, I would really, to have an album, I would need the attention span to finish some of these songs.
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because what you guys get on live stream is really as far as i go with it obtuse
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i can do it a little better on the guitar because i think i'm further along
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okay so if i was gonna write a song about obtuse what i would do
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is i would probably try to make it maybe a love song
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oh boy you're being kind of obtuse what the hell I need some moose get some moose boy you're being
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a little obtuse I am not the am I the girl you're gonna choose kind of turn up the light
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okay wait hold on we can do something you said you said turn up the light you said
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turn up the light I think we're gonna fight because the chat always thinks that they're right
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you don't know how to put on you don't know how to put on a show
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i know that my god is gonna keep fighting and i know that kingdom comes maybe that he is the one
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oh my god is gonna keep fighting and i'm gonna keep writing
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now you want women hitting the wall okay to the window to the wall
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to the window, to the window, to the wall. Women are gonna keep hitting the wall, their
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looks are gonna fall. When you hit the wall, we'll try to stall with Botox and plastic
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surgery, but we all know the wall is undefeated. Let me see what else. Hold on, hold on. Now
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we're getting a lot of requests. We got, you want a song about labor contractions? Okay.
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all right you guys are testing me today labor to contractions all right labor contractions
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All right, let me see what else we got. I've already got a trot. Let's start drama between
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Pearlie and Taylor Swift, a taco stand. Um, all right, let's hear it.
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For the trad girls, the baking bread is very on brand A couple cups of flour, water, yeast,
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you got a man But I'm trying to turn the tide, I'm trying
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to do something right. We gotta change the brand. Let's go over to the taco stand. You
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You can get some steak and tequila You don't need to get a taco, maybe a burrito
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I know that I like a lot of mos... Mosquito?
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I need some steak and tequila please help me see Senorita oh and tortillas you got it Jessica
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do you guys like the piano or the guitar better I think I'm a little faster on the guitar but
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for women we do something that's kind of funny
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but she is not going with a broke i'm not i'm not i'm not doing that one
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There's no way they're going to the taco stand with us.
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Like, she, she used to love me with the taco stand.
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Because sometimes viewership drops when I do it
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more taco stand songs all right if you're saying encore i get you know if you guys are begging
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if you guys are back you know i mean i don't want to it's just uh well i guess one more
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I guess Chipotle doesn't count as Mexican food
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You gotta go buy tacos from some hood dude
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Otherwise these hoes start acting brand new
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Now the chat's saying Chipotle doesn't count
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There's something a little bit about the meat you get on the street.
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You can get chicken, steak, or something else, but hot sauce or mild.
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I should ask all the Mexicans wives, you can get lettuce and tomato too.
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Oh, okay. App update. App update is issuing a complaint.
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He's saying this, it doesn't rhyme. Well, what are you a saint?
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I'm going to need to hear the songs you can write with the chat,
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Ooh, señorita, thank you, thank you, tell the music producers out there, you know, I've had some people say, Pearl, I want to produce you an album, and I say, I don't know why you would, but if you want to, you can strip those and put them on Spotify, I don't, I don't really care.
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um otherwise it's just i've had people ask i know it's shocking but let me
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someone said wow that was beautiful it really was wasn't it thank you
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thank you very much you know you know it's crazy there's men there's men that have like 20 views
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on youtube videos and they're like expert pianists and all this stuff
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and i got people watching me writing like songs about tacos you know what i mean it's like
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we're going to start with some um stories we got going on in the news more a little more all right
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Did we? Oh, we moved this. I was trying to go back to the old spot. I didn't realize.
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All right, so we're going to react to a few things I saw on TikTok before we get to the main topic, or not TikTok, Twitter.
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So we're talking about how this guy said women weren't allowed to have credit cards until 50 years ago because of sexism.
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um as a sarcastic comment to this to this video of a woman talking about her student loan debt
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i recently posted about the fact i'm 26 years old and i'm in 95 487 dollars and 73 cents worth
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of debt and i want to talk about it up until 24 hours ago i did not know that was actually the
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total of all of my debt credit cards and student loans that number also does not include my auto
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loan and if we are adding in my auto loan the total number is 110,938.83 since totaling up all
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of my debt I don't think I've actually gotten one good breath of oxygen in the last 24 hours I feel
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like there is a elephant sitting on my chest and I don't think I can sit still because all I can
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now imagine she probably went to some out of state private school when she could have just
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went to community college. But the out-of-state Big Ten school has what? The ability to party and
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bang hot guys. Sorry. I've heard the men at Big Ten schools are very attractive. I don't know. I
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never went to a Big Ten school. But you have to understand that's what women are communicating
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subtly. You have to understand this. Women don't like average men so much that they are willing
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to take on this much debt instead of be with you. That's how, that's the next time you want to like
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step in for a woman on a train. Solve women in your life's problems for free. Just remember
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that women aren't communicating. I would rather have $95,000 worth of debt than be with you.
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When women come around, you know, when the girl that puts you in the friend zone says, hey,
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I'm back just remember she was communicating I would rather have I would rather have slavery
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level debt than be with your sorry ass remember remember that
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so keep repeating is $95,487.73 all of this debt was racked up through decisions I made between
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the ages of 18 and 26. My first associate's degree I got from a community college and I didn't have
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to pay for it because of the Pell Grant, but I decided to go to a university and got my bachelor's
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degree, which is where I really started to rack up the debt. There it is. There it is. I told you.
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I told you. I said like when, I wonder what school she went to. Then in the last two years, I decided
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to finish a nursing degree at a community college in the last two years, but that's where I started
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to rack up even more debt. What really sucks is realizing that the majority of these student loans
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is not from tuition. It's actually from living expenses and living way above my means. My debt
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comprises of two credit cards, five federal student loans, and five private Sally Mae loans. I can
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handle the federal student loans, but when I tell you Sally Mae is bending me over and not in a way
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I like, it's actually insane. Sally Mae is genuinely evil and they prey on young students. And the
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reason why they take advantage of young students is because they know if you're reaching out to a
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private loan like that, you genuinely need it. Out of the five Sally Mae loans I have, one of the
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interest rates that is the highest is 16.28 percent. The lowest interest rate I have with
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Sally Mae is 9.88 percent. Now my federal student loans are between four and six percent which I
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think is manageable. Although I had parents who would tell me what I should or shouldn't do I
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never had anybody really sit me down and fully teach me financial literacy. Translation the
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internet is free and I was too lazy to learn. Look I in my life have taken some very shitty deals
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okay i have had to learn the hard way many times in my life but every time i've taken an l i like
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to think i eat it with the chin like i i like to think i just eat it do you know what i mean where
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i'm just like oh that was stupid you know i'm not i'm not going to sit here and pretend i haven't
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done stupid things i absolutely have i am no better i am no better than really a lot of women
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out there. But what I don't like doing is when I make a mistake or I mess up in life,
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I really, I just, I really think I take L's like in an art form. I really think I have the ability
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to just eat an L. Now I don't want to get into it, but I signed a contract a few years ago,
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back before I was, I was famous. And I'll just say this was a very, I spent, this cost me a lot
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of money this was a very stupid contract that i i basically uh took and it it cost me probably
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over a hundred grand this and not i did not make enough money for it to make sense um but
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when it goes wrong i always i just always think to myself that i was an idiot do you know what i
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mean like that's always my I like sometimes in life there's people that learn the easy way and
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the hard way that times you learn the hard way you know like when a guy spends a bunch of money
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on a ring for a girl and then she like keeps it forever that's him learning the hard way you ever
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told a guy not to simp but men when they take that L they realize how stupid they were I mean
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a lot of times men they don't the consequence kind of like when they get a consequence
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um they're like oh well isn't it my own actions but she's gonna say oh I just didn't understand
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well if you didn't understand it's your own fault and I've been in that situation and that was
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my out it was my own fault it was my own fault it was very stupid
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um so I just don't like it when it's got to be always someone else's but it's kind of like when
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these porn stars do porn why can't you guys just say I did porn because I enjoyed having sex on
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camera. I love the thrill of the gang bangs. You know, I love, I love throwing it. Why,
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why can't it be that? Why does it always have to be that I was, I was lost and broken and coerced?
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You know, when you sleep with a guy that doesn't call you back, that's life. Why don't you just
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say, why don't you just say, um, I went for someone out of my league and it didn't work out.
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Why is it always that he was the manipulator? Why can't it just be like I wasn't good enough? And I,
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I out I um I outdid myself you know but it's always got to be somebody else's fault and this
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is just over and over again to the point I just my gender just I wish if we could really develop
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one skill together as women is the ability to take L's better you know um men take L's all the
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time and at times that you're going to do something stupid and it's going to be embarrassing I mean
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The ups and downs of life, people that take no risks
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are generally the ones that have never looked stupid
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And I think in general, I would rather have a life well lived
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where there are ups and downs and you make mistakes
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And it's like the people that have just barely ever left their,
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You know, they never went for the guy or the girl they wanted.
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They never moved to that big city they wanted to live in.
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But we have to understand as women, there are times, you know,
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there are times when you're going to date the guy and it's not going to work out.
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there are times when you're going to go to school and you expect to get a high paying job
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and you don't get it that's part of life now there's mistakes that obviously can be mitigated
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and avoided um like very obviously um but we're not gonna but my my issue with us is why can't
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we just make a mistake and own it why can't you know yeah i got too fat yeah i took too much debt
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I signed up for a degree that didn't make any money
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because I wanted to do something I was passionate about
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Look, and I'm being honest, I'm passionate about this.
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i would rather have a life well lived than a life where you never took a risk in life
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ask the girl out that's out of your league shoot your shot with the guy you like you know what i
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mean it's like go go apply for that job you're not qualified for move to a city where you don't
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know anybody. F it. You know, you got, you have one life to live. You have one life.
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You know, and what I just don't like is if you want to take the risk, accept that sometimes it
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will not work out. You know, you could have, there's housewives, they have 10 kids and they
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get divorced. It didn't work out. That's life. That was a risk. And that's one of my issues
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with feminism, is women want, you know, one thing it talks about if you get married young,
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that takes the risk that he might leave you when you're old. And that's a risk. That could happen.
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That's life. Now, it's not really statistically likely, but if it happens, all you can do is
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control yourself you can't control other people and I just wish as women I really wish we could
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just we could just accept that we made a mistake without blaming anybody else and I think there's
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some psychology we don't want to be seen as bad people so we're just constantly like not wanting
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to be seen as a bad person but again I think the most freedom comes in life when you just don't
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do you think leonardo dicaprio cares if you see him as a good person while he bangs on his yacht
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now i'm not saying that's what you should do right but
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when you spend your life caring about the way others see you
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um you're gonna be able to be manipulated by anybody because you care about their opinion
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you know i don't know i'm pro live life but except except that it might it might come
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and have elves with it it just happens i had anybody sit me down and really explain to me
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the scope of what i was doing and what it would look like in the future when i had to pay for it
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in the moment all of the student loans just felt like fake money because
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they just kept coming and i just kept spending i don't regret any of the experiences i've had
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Because when I signed that bad contract, I'll tell you what,
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But there's no reason to dwell on it because you can't do anything about it now.
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You can only live in the now and make decisions with the information you have now.
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And sometimes I knew somebody who made a very bad relationship choice,
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when she was younger um she ended up having kids with this guy didn't work out
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and you know it was clearly over and there are times where i would always joke with her that
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90 percent of the time i'd say work it out with the father or your kids but in this case this is
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one of the few cases where i was like yeah i mean you can't because i would say like drugs is
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something that are pretty tough to like if you get involved with a dude that's into drugs that's
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pretty tough i don't know if i don't know if you guys have i've seen addicts over the years and
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that's just not but you know look it's and what i told her was you have the information now you
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can't dwell in the past and i understand that mindset you can't right you can only control
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what you do moving forward um but i i still think there was some humility in saying you regret
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things yeah okay between the ages of 18 and 26 or any of the things that I've done but I do wish
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that I manage my finances way better than this if I snowball all of my loans at the current rates
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that they are without consolidating them I can pay all of this off by 2032 it's really sad because
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I'm excited about starting my first nursing job next month but at the same time I know that all
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of the money I'm making is going to debt it is what it is what's done is done and at the end of
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the day if you are in your early 20s and you're thinking about taking out student loans I urge
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you to reconsider and ask yourself whether or not you really truly need it if I knew then what
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oh okay so everyone's freaking out because Angel Reese is set to make history as the first
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professional athlete to walk in a Victoria's Secret show. Now, look, I played athletics for
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20 years. I played volleyball overseas. I played basketball overseas. I made it to top 20 in the
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country for Division III. I mean, it's D3, so it doesn't count. But I went to the NCAAs two or
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three. I love sports. But we have to stop putting women in positions that we do not belong.
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i don't really mind if women we have our little league that's for fun i don't i think it's good
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exercise at least you're not fat um that's a step up in this country i guess it's better than the
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club i don't know but the thing that you know about female athletes is they're generally not
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the most attractive now they're not ugly but the very beautiful women generally get other
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opportunities where they don't have to do athletics to a high level. I would say I've
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done a lot of different sports. In terms of attractiveness, I would put basketball girls
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at the bottom. That doesn't mean there wasn't exceptions, but I just don't. I think basketball
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women tend to look more butch. Volleyball, track, I would say is a little bit more feminine
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looking women um now angel reese i would put her looks wise she's young for her age i would say
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she's like a five facially body for her age group of five i think she's under 25 most under 25 year
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old women are thinnish um and i would say facially she's like mid right in the middle
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Now, because she's young, I maybe would put her at a 6, 6.5,
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Why is a midwoman walking in a Victoria's Secret show?
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We cannot keep, well, it is getting very difficult for me to watch women
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just constantly being put in positions that we do not belong.
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One of the Victoria's Secret Angels of the past.
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Now, at least facially, I understand there are men that say they don't like this level of skinny.
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And I know people say they're capping, but I think there's some truth to that when you look at the bodies men rank the highest.
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they are a little bit curvier than these women but at least facially most of these women are
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going to be eight pluses yeah look at beautiful these women are beautiful
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yeah because men loved this one oh yeah tyra banks back in the day
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Heidi Klum yeah oh no it wasn't it wasn't this is Heidi Klum there was another woman though
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we just have to stop putting these women in positions they don't belong
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she's cute I don't think she's ugly but she's not beautiful she's not and you know a lot of
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the people when I was talking about this they came at me and they said Pearl but neither are you
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Well, I'm not the one being put in a fashion show I don't belong in.
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But this is frustrating to me because I don't know how it's uplifting to tell a woman that's a six, that she's a nine.
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Because in the dating market, she's not going to get nine outcomes.
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she will get six outcomes in terms of what men are willing to pay for her
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okay so um and i'm i'm the one being nice enough to say it
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oh okay i'm gonna facetime sneko and we're gonna so sneko has been on band on youtube after three
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years and we're a friend we're um a fan of sneko on the show so i'm gonna facetime him and you guys
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can come along hi sneaker we're live now um congratulations on being reinstated on youtube
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hey pearl thank you so much i know that you saw all the ups and downs over the past three years
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i'm glad that you got re-monetized you faced a lot of the same things that i faced the other day
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Actually, just yesterday, Nick was saying how I faced a lot of, you know, I got banned.
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I mean, I got banned, but you got demonetized by platforming and being really early about a lot of things.
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So big respect to you for talking about things that were very taboo at a time when everyone was afraid.
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And now you see Pearl, everybody's talking about it.
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like do you expect to stay on youtube are you going to do things differently this time around
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are you going to be more careful or what what's your plan moving forward
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so my plan pro is to make videos you know i'll keep the streaming stuff and the political stuff
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and anything really taboo off of youtube because i'm not a streamer i'm a i'm a youtuber i make
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videos i like to be creative i like to use the platform to express myself and so the whole red
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pill space that we found ourselves in i stumbled upon that but that's not my bread and butter
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so i i just want to make videos that are really good and i'm glad and i i'm glad that youtube
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gave me a second chance cool um well thanks for calling in we just wanted to say congratulations
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from the audacity network so when you're in dallas let me know and we'll have you back on the show
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next time i'm in texas i would love to show up and uh i'm super happy thank you for for always
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showing support and uh i'll remember this girl yeah congrats see ya
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all right i don't know if you guys could hear that but i you know we had some i i've got
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He said, I said, I got it up, they could hear it or not.
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He said, they're gaslighting you if they say anything other.
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It's tough when you're the production guy because they never will say.
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It's pretty rare for them to be like, wow, the audio was great today.
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They'll just let you know when today was not the day.
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I realized that as I did it, the city I moved to.
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I think a lot of people figured it out, but we might trim that after.
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okay so we're happy for sneeko all right now we have a wife material versus street material
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um here we go how much money did a guy make per year 200 000 i guess my boyfriend makes like 30
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000 30 30 000 that should be way more he needs to make enough to spoil you and buy you everything
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you want i don't know if these are fake but i actually wanted to analyze this
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so it doesn't matter what they say see like we keep giving women clout points for like
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saying the right answers she's gonna leave them too you know um and i do think
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do you know what i just have a feeling that this girl has a bigger ego because
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she has a slightly more symmetrical face even though i would say this girl um i would say
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they're not really that different and attractive this you might even say the girl on the left is
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more attractive however i could just tell when a girl has marketed her instagram in a way that
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big names are going to be slot lighting into it it's just a look you can tell um anyways i'll
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continue what kind of car does he drive he doesn't have one yeah i mean this is set up this is kind
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of staged you can tell these girls are not good actresses but we gotta stop we gotta stop applauding
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for the right answer you know what i mean exactly i mean i drive him around that's fine i think
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money does is she dating a black guy should i drive him around it doesn't matter so it does
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matter if you want a successful life women don't fall in love with you they fall in love with the
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lifestyle you can give them they don't love you they love the fact that you can protect them and
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provide for them and take care of them and make them laugh and make their problems go away and
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take them on holidays and buy them handbags that's what they love about you and then they sit and
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think they love you but if you stop doing those things both of you will find out
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very quickly that she never loved you at all how much yeah okay where are we going to next
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oh there's this fat woman running for office in california and her interview is going viral
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we gotta get these women back home we gotta voters we'll need in order to win um who voted
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for trump how would i need them in order to win well unless you think you're gonna get
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60 of the vote you think you'll get 60 for all everybody who did not vote for trump will vote
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for you that's what you're in a general election yes if it is me versus a republican i think that
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i will win the people who did not vote for trump what if it's you versus another democrat i don't
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intend that to be the case. So how do you not intend that to be the case? Do you, are you going
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to ask them not to run? No, no, I'm saying I'm going to build the support. I have the support
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already in terms of name recognition. And so I'm going to do the very best I can to make sure that
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we get through this primary in a really strong position. But let me be clear with you. I
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represented Orange County. I represented a purple area. I have stood on my own two feet and won
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Republican votes before. That's not something every candidate in this race can say. If you're
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from a deep blue area, if you're from L.A. or you're from Oakland, you don't have an
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experience. You just said you don't need those Trump voters. Well, you asked me if I needed
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them to win. You don't think you need them to win. I feel like this is unnecessarily
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argumentative. What is your question? The question is the same thing I ask everybody.
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This is unnecessarily. Only a woman would come into politics and say this is unnecessarily
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argumentative why are you here politics that's what that's what politics is known for arguing
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I mean this is being called the empowering voters to stop Trump's power grab every other
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candidate has answered this question this is not and I said I support it so and the question is
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what do you say to the 40% of voters who voted for Trump oh I'm happy to say that it's the do
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you need them to win part that i don't understand i'm happy to answer the question as you haven't
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written and i'll answer it and we've also asked the other candidates do you think you need any
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of those 40 percent of california voters to win and you're saying no you don't no i'm saying i'm
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going to try to win every vote i can and what i'm saying to you is that well to those voters okay so
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so you i don't want to keep doing this i'm going to call it thank you you're not going to do the
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interview with us nope not like this i'm not not with seven follow-ups to every single question you
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ask every other candidate has a this was like that was not a tough interview I've
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done I've seen in tough interviews that is not a tough interview I don't care I
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don't care I want to have a pleasant positive conversation which you asked me
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about every issue on this list and if every question you're gonna make up a
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follow-up question then we're never gonna get there and we're just gonna
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circle around. I am an investigative reporter. I have never had to do this before. Ever. You've never had to have a conversation with a reporter. Okay but every other candidate has done this. What part of I'm me I'm running for governor because I'm a leader so I am going to make. So you're not going to answer questions from reporters. Okay why don't we go through. I will continue to ask follow up questions because that's my job as a journalist but I will go through and ask these and if you don't want to answer you don't want to answer. So nearly every
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yeah oh my gosh okay oh god help us um oh i thought this was pretty funny
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i played this guy by him and ghosting him and then all my friends
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and ghosted him he really thought he had a chance with us i don't really know what the plan was but
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he won whatever game you're playing he's probably an inspiration in his hometown i played this guy
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she played this guy by ghosting him and then having all her friends ghost him
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this is 2025 okay so thank you guys for tuning in to another episode of pearl daily
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um today we are going to talk about some of the trends that i really have seen in in society
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and I've kind of said this I've stated this over and over again that women are going to trade
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their family's privacy to build their brand now a lot of times when I point this out
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conservative commentators will come at me and they'll say Pearl you just are criticizing women
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whenever I see you know Brett Cooper post her kid and her family on on Instagram they'll say Pearl
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you're just hateful. You're just jealous. Whenever I see Riley Gaines posting her kid's birth or her
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family pictures on the internet, they'll say, Pearl, you're hateful. You're jealous. And when
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I come at this, it's really not meant to be hateful. I'm not even suggesting that in all cases
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it's wrong of mothers to do this. But I have noticed a trend of women using our personal
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lives in order to build our online brand. There was a time where men knew that the private moments
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in their home were just for them. You know, and I think there's something special about the moments
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you have with somebody when nobody's watching. You know, because I think anybody with a mother
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knows how performative mothers tend to be. And you know when you're forced to do something so the
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world would see you, right? Where, you know, you have to go to the events, you have to wear these
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stupid clothes, pose for pictures. I mean, you all know this torturous process that, you know,
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you're posted on the mother's social media. You have to brag about the whole town. Thank you to
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the new member. I set the tone. We really appreciate you. But there's something special
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how often does a mother do something for you
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Or women in general, mother, wife, whatever.
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You know, it's like they have a list ready to go
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It's like every little thing they've done for you ever.
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so but there's something special you know when the mothers when you do have good involved parents
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that do the nice things for you day to day when nobody's watching one thing that I think about
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um in my childhood was my dad he coached my basketball and I think that's why I have this
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like love of sports is because my father he just he was a really involved like he did work a lot
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but he was very involved when it came to the coaching.
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And my dad, it was so funny because he would have been such a good head coach
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because he was so smart, like he's the smartest person I've ever met.
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But he would have to be the assistant because he just did not.
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Oh, another member, Byron, thank you for signing up.
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But he just, he did not have the time to be a head coach, you know,
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he'd always be the assistant coach and it would just he would be on the on the sidelines like
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going crazy because he was smarter than the head coach always what do you just have to watch the
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him make like dumber decisions right but I just remember like some of my favorite childhood
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memories or my dad like banging his clipboard saying like go go go and we're like in fifth
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grade running down with the basketball and the reason I love it so much is because you know I
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this wasn't posted anywhere. This wasn't used. My dad had nothing to gain from coaching my
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basketball. I mean, what does he get out of coaching fifth grade women's basketball? Do
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you know what I mean? It's funny. My dad didn't even play basketball, but he's so smart. He
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figured out the game. It actually was a pretty good coach. And to this day, if you ask my father,
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he um he still um is so proud of these like trophies like it's so it's so funny he'll still
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brag about like these game winning he can tell you the score but there's something about that
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right there's something about those special moments that are just for like you guys where
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you know they got nothing out of it have you ever had somebody do something nice for you
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And later, you find out they got something out of it or they were using it for something.
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And I guess it's not that it makes the thing they did any less nice.
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But, you know, it's kind of like those YouTubers that live stream the nice things they do.
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Now, on one hand, you could say, who are you to say that at all?
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They're doing a nice, you know, they're feeding the homeless.
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but there's still just something a weird taste left in your mouth when something seems performative
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I think that's what you get with a lot of women in general because we are so
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you know we had to rely on having a good reputation in order to survive so it's very
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very difficult for us to let go of the reputation it's very free I didn't really have a choice
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because I got I got thrust into this no I did have a choice I made this choice but
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But, you know, I'll say when you become a public figure, it forces you to not care faster.
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But it's very freeing when you don't, I'll tell you that.
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Now, but there's something about when men, or sorry, there's something about when someone does something nice and they gain something out of it.
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Or, you know, I did this nice thing, now you have to do that nice thing.
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Now, a good person will reciprocate where they can,
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but nobody wants to feel like they have to do something
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So I think that makes the private moments at home even more special.
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But unfortunately, now that all women are being given smartphones,
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are being given. All women are buying and addicted to smartphones. Privacy has now become a thing
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of the past. Not only does everybody have a smartphone and a camera, but we have 4K video
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evidence. And cameras can be recorded where, imagine guys, if you're approached by a woman
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in public, you might think that you're being recorded, right? We can't even like approach
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each other in public anymore without knowing is this a youtube prank is this that um and you know
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someone that does public interviews i'm not here to criticize it but i i can kind of observe where
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this this is going i can see where this is headed and i think what a lot of other commentators miss
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when they're covering this kind of thing is they don't see the forest through the trees
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i know that social media is a pipeline for divorce and only fans divorce only fans prostitution
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that is what social media is because you might as a young woman have a nice cute little vlog channel
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but i mean if i was out here in a bikini stream or something it would get way more views i mean
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we just find out the more naked we get the more view the more views we get so the incentives just
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are not great on social media and we saw that with sophie rain you know when she was young she
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was just a guest on David Dobrik's blogs. Her parents probably thought, oh, okay, she's
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just doing these cute little blogs, whatever. Now she's on OnlyFans. And it's very difficult.
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I see where this is going because it's almost impossible to be intertwined in society without
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your phones. How do you get anywhere? How do you get invited to things? Half of the
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places that people go are through Instagram Reels or through a Facebook group. The only
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sense of community people really have moving forward we don't know our neighbors i growing
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up i i knew like two neighbors of mine too i didn't grow up knowing my neighbors um
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the only community you really have a lot of times is through the phone and people you meet through
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the phone and at times you know my personal experience and some of the best friends i've
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ever made were through phones you know it's not and i think youtubers and content creators feel
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this first because we're obviously more online than other people. But I really see this as the
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future. When I talk to younger women, that's kind of where I see it going. You know, I asked one of
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my youngest sister, do you think you'd get invited to anything if you didn't have Snapchat? Because
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that's how they all talk. They all talk through Snapchat. And she said, no, I wouldn't know
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anything that's going on that's how everybody talks now a lot of the traditional conservatives
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they come back and they say oh just ditch the phones and move on a farm it's like where do you
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live like who wants to do that you know there has to be some people that just moved into the middle
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of the nowhere and now they don't have access to good doctors good jobs and they're like there
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with their cows and they got to just be pissed you know because it's one thing if you have you
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know, because the small towns of America, they're not what they used to be. It's not like you can go
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to a small town, a small town and find community. I mean, there are pockets, but in terms of young
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people, it's not the same. And the people are leaving. I mean, my mom, she was from a town where
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I think less than 30 people were in her high school graduating class. And I stayed there for
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summer, all of the young kids are going. So you stay in that town, who are you going to hang out
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with? It's just going to be you. And I mean, maybe you don't care, but I think that's going to be
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tough for a lot of people. So I see where a lot of this stuff is going. Now, in general, I would
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say something that's important to men that's not important to women is privacy. Women, obviously,
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if you look at social media trends we will trade privacy for attention we will post we will
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post the family photos we will um post the selfies we will put i mean there are women that have died
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or gotten their boyfriends killed they're like you know we love criminals so they'll be like
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dating or married to like a cartel member and the opposite cartel just follows the girl on
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instagram and then kills the kingpin because his his wife was like streaming where they are where
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he was because men see the downside of privacy being leaked right men understand especially when
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it comes to relationships you know there's always the the age-old argument that couples have you
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know why won't you post me you know the girl she's like nagging the guy why won't you post me
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the guy knows when he posts the girl that all of the guys that don't like him are going to try to
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hit on the girl, you know, and then now the girl is going to have to get more input from all these
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people because people always care who women are dating. People don't care who men are dating,
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but they always care who women are dating, especially young women because they draw the
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most attention. I mean, in fact, that's half of this show is who are women dating and it has
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viewers you know so people do care um but men don't like the silly stuff that you know men
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have a level of seriousness that they appreciate um and not to say that men cannot be playful they
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obviously can be but i would say that's more of a female um trait you know you don't see men as
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much torturing their girlfriends with these stupid tiktok like silly trends you know like babe do you
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You wish, you know, babe, do you wish you were athletic?
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So it's very obvious that men are accepting things that they really generally,
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that they're not generally comfortable with, you know, in their nature.
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There are men that do adapt to the market, but it's not their preference.
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Because for men, it's more important how you treat them privately than publicly.
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Now, obviously, no man wants to be embarrassed in public or fight in public.
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But what good is public treatment that's good if the private treatment doesn't match?
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I mean, if she's being nice to you in public but abuses you in private, is that, I mean, that's not really winning, is it?
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you. So I want to show you how these demons are created. And I saw this. I love, I actually love
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all these women sacrificing privacy because it makes these shows way easier because I could
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show you where things are going wrong. Now there's a lot of men, fathers, and brothers that constantly
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are telling their daughters they will bail them out of any bad decision that they make.
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I'm going to give you an example of a way I see this. So a lot of times young women,
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fathers and parents want them to live at home as long as possible now i think in the old days there
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was a reason for this and there was a positivity in this right you know they would arrange the
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marriage or whatever but what i what i see happening when you live at home is you start
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to submit to your parents will and your your brother's will and the people around you's will
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but not the new guy's will you know and so the guy starts having to bargain with the dad and
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the brothers and do what they want instead of what he wants and she goes you know I don't and
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when you have a fallback you know when the family is is the fallback there's not as much of an
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incentive for the kids to move on to the next phase of life you know if you're constantly going
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to the family events and you have all of that comfort what you know if anything it subsidizes
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because they get all the comfort from the family.
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That's where you see like that billionaire's daughter
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had a kid with the model that was a criminal, right?
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Before, women had, women want alpha traits
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now I want to show you what you get a lot of times too is the dad telling the
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daughters they can do no wrong and they deserve the world without saying what
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the guy deserves so we're going to show you an example that's my dad who is a
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father of four daughters and I want to ask him what he thinks is princess
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treatment or bare minimum okay and you just say princess treatment or bare
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minimum okay to each question opens all my doors like car doors any any doors princess treatment
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or bare minimum what do you mean okay so like bare minimum is like that's that's a no brain
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princess treatment would be like uh like that's going above and beyond it opening my doors
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bare minimum okay brings flowers without a special occasion princess treatment or bare minimum
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plan states without having me uh handle it so we're already telling the girls
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they deserve flowers for existing you deserve your door opened for exist just existing there's never
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this is what you have to now i don't know i can't say that behind the scenes of how he parents or
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teaches them but remember when you tell women they're awesome for just being alive and existing
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it's no wonder we become such brats you know any of the details princess treatment or bare minimum
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i can't hear that picks me up and drops me off so i don't have to drive
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princess treatment very minimal cleans my car like details it and fills up my gas
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So, you know, even that, why does the guy, if you're too dumb to bring a jacket,
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It's like we're conditioning women to put our needs above men's,
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but we never tell women to put his needs first.
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When in actuality, if you really study what femininity is,
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it's putting his needs above yours that's a more biblical patriarchal view of it if if that's the
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way you view it um so you know that's a bad behavior not bringing a jacket when it's cold
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what is the incentive right the incentive is to keep forgetting the jacket and then make him deal
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with it it just it never ends responds to my text and calls right away bare minimum
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Walks on the street side of the sidewalk to shield me from traffic.
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Because society is just always telling women they deserve more.
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You've got the family saying they deserve more.
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That's why I keep trying to keep you guys' expectations real low.
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If you forget your jacket, you're going to be cold,
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is, um, now women do reviews on the men they're dating. So, you know, you could go on a date
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with a girl and think, wow, that went well. And then here you go. Hey, I just got in the car
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after the date. Um, that went really well, but also we identified some things that might not
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align, unfortunately, but I'm not sure. So very interestingly, I'm going to get to this first
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because i know that people are going to be asking about this um at the end of the date i brought up
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you know our last date the whole you tried to kiss me and i pulled away and i just very clearly said
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consent is super important to me so before anything like that happens i just need to be asked first
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and he was super respectful and was like thank you so much for telling me and don't forget your phone
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And I appreciate how you're able to very effectively and confidently set your boundary.
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But we identified that the social media thing might not be in alignment.
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Me being public with my life, which is a challenge of what I do here and what I love to do and create, isn't isn't really something that everyone is comfortable with.
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so um we both agreed to just think about it because I was like if I'm being honest like
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there are some things that I like to experience first and then share with you guys so I give it
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a little bit of time but there are just some things that you're here please make sure it's
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clear before exiting there are just some things that um I feel comfortable with myself just
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sharing right away and when you add another person into that it can get complicated um but
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don't want to have to send every piece of content to my potential partner to get approval you know
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what i'm saying so um he was super respectful and we both were just like like now this is a med
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let's think about it so i don't know we'll see if he like
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like, hits me up again to go out or what he says.
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But I just saw a video that now she has a boyfriend.
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this is just, these are just the content creators.
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Are we dating the same guy refers to a viral network
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about the men they've dated, to give advice and warnings about deceit, infidelity, or dangerous
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behaviors from other members in their city. These groups are used as a safety resource,
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allowing women to vet potential partners by crowdsourcing their experience and holding
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men accountable, though they also face criticism for potential libel, unverified claims, and a lack
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of how are we dating the same guy's group works.
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they share experiences, and they are vetting and warning.
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So your choices as a guy are, you generally are not going to like the city,
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but all the young, hot women are in the city,
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so you can either go live in the city that you don't really like
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or live where you want but sacrifice some privacy
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Now, most guys, they're going to kind of rationalize it
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The privacy is what's going to have to go, unfortunately.
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It says the purpose and the benefits are for women's safety.
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It's obviously women vet men so well, right?
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There's lack of due process, unverified information,
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holy shit there are approximately 3.5 million members across the 200 are we
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dating the same guy Facebook groups in the United States of January 2024 so the
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actual number of women is higher since membership is the primary way to join
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the total number of women across these groups is not publicly available but the
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total memberships are estimated to be in the millions
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I'm going to say if there's 3.5 publicly available members,
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I'm going to guess and say there's double the amount of anonymous.
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So, but that would be about a quarter of women in Gen Z.
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Now, obviously, I was just thinking of the dating age.
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But that means out of every 10 women that see your profile,
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Now, to be fair, that does span across age groups.
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My gut feeling is the older, uglier women are going to be more likely.
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You know, because the Gen Z women, you know, this is kind of how it goes, right?
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The young women, they turn 18 and they're like, I'm ready to be whores.
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They go and then they, you know, we're going to do what we do,
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which is go for a guy out of our league, get burned.
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Now, a smart Gen Z woman would just go a little bit lower, try again, see what happens.
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You know, if a guy gets burned by an eight, he's like, let me try the sixes.
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If a guy gets burned by a six, he's like, it's time to date the fours.
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So now how does this translate to relationships, this lack of privacy?
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In all aspects, men are going to have to give up privacy in order to be in relationships.
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Now, you might come back at me and say, Pearl, I do have a choice.
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now you please excuse my skepticism but I think you underestimate how crazy we
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are you have the time and the energy to be 100% on all the time where you don't
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leak a password she doesn't figure out the way to get into your social media
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Now, it depends how crazy of a woman you get, right?
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And that's kind of a, you could just roll the dice
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A lot of guys think, oh, if I vet, if I just vet her.
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Yeah, but you could, she could be good for now
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And I've seen women with crystal clean backgrounds
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So once you get into a relationship with women,
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because we're so concerned about our reputation,
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and the stuff we do for you to build our brand.
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You're going to start to see more of these videos
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where they use it for marketing on their social media.
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And some men, there's going to be men that look at this
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I'm not signing up for that and they'll get uglier women not that this woman's super hot but again
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the more attractive the woman the more ability she has to get away with stuff you know things
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we are okay with in our marriage I think they're weird I don't know I do not wear very I don't say
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sexy outfits unless I'm with him so remember that's a nice thing to do she says I don't wear
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sexy outfits unless i'm with you but doesn't it kind of take you know what i mean again we're
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going to this society where we're like i don't wear sexy outfits unless i'm with my mitt it's
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like for clout right it's one thing to just do the nice thing and it's it gives you more of an
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icky feeling when you're you know it's just a different vibe different vibe me we're okay with
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sexy outfits in public. You're okay with sexy outfits. Number two. I do not require my wife
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to cook meals for me. In fact, doesn't usually cook meals for me. Better cook. He is. Number
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three. All right, this is. That's another trend I've seen. Men are better cooks than women now,
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number one. And men are better at cleaning than women, where women are the ones with the
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It seems like there's more women in corporate America.
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There's more women doing podcasting and microphones now.
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but they're taking all of the, like, pristine jobs in society,
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um where men because men are very pragmatic they just think well she's not cooking so i guess i'll
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cook her food sucks i'll cook you know they're not they're not really keeping score here
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the sticky ones i do not mind my single close friends being by themselves with a man i am okay
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with that let's clarify let's clarify because i don't have weird friends these are like my best
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friends my best friend today he likes to build things he likes to build things i like to build
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things they can build things for the family if i'm on somewhere they want to see the kids and
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brian's home i don't mind them coming by to see the kids i'm talking about sleepovers no we're
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not talking about sleepovers no absolutely still have boundaries but there's a lot of trust in
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this relationship yes number four we do not have a man gets the final say type now this might not
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just now you might say pearl but these are influencers that's not normal now i would agree
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that not everybody is going to have a full successful online brand but you're going to see
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it on facebook for the older women snapchat for the younger women twitter maybe for millennials
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whatever social media site people are using it's going to the relationship is going to be used to
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build the brand i kind of see where this is going a relationship we just don't believe in it we're
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partners i believe that brian is head of our household absolutely we don't do dictatorships
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there is a difference you can be biblically now what means more her saying that you're the head
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of the household for social media or her just doing it now she might do it i don't know i can't
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see what she does but the it just the ring kind of goes away when it's for the brand the leader
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of your home without just putting your foot down and everything and just making decisions without
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incorporating the other person what do you guys think is that weird i know y'all disagree with
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one or two of them say what you feel controversial things yeah so there's going to be some men that
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adapt and they're like eff it at least i'll make money off of this i have to do it anyway
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there's going to be some men that opt out and say no thank you and there's going to be some men
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doing something nice for her boyfriend right my boyfriend called me all excited on his way home
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from gaul and this video is kind of it's pretty funny right he got his first he got his first
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eagle of the season i didn't react well enough over the phone so he was sad
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so my sister and I threw him a surprise dance party for him to come home now this guy thinks
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he's getting just a cool dance party he's coming home we're having fun and now it's going to be on
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so again private moments are going to become public I would watch this one and then a lot
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of people will say Pearl you're such a hater right you're just hating they're in a happy
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relationship and I don't mean to be a hater I just got to call it for what it is and it's
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performative it's performative it's used to signal I am a good person this one was really bad
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my husband left his clothes on the floor maybe he was in a hurry to get to work this morning
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to provide for our family oh this one was so bad oh this one was so bad like
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you're gonna like imagine how embarrassing that would be as a woman if you like did something
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messy and then the husband blasted and said you know I clean up for my wife out of love like that
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would be so embarrassing and she doesn't the the wives just don't they don't see how embarrassing
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this is like i think we're just so they say that women are more socially calibrated
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i don't think so i i just don't agree because i don't think a guy would do this i really don't
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don't. Thank goodness I have clothes to clean for a healthy family who wore them. She's
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talking about a shift in mindset. But is it better to put the shift in mindset on social
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media or just do it? It's better to just do it. Let your actions speak.
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I have so much laundry to do thank good so what what she wants is to be worshipped right and
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that's really kind of what this all goes down to when you look at women's social media especially
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the right-wing eager it's just so obvious to me it's just worship me for doing stuff for my family
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i have to pick up the kids mess in the morning i'm like can you imagine how embarrassing that
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would be you made a mess and you the privacy of your own home and now your mom's putting
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so again anything that she does that's nice for you it's just going to be used as marketing
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so here this is she's trying to signal that she's a good cook and a great wife there's her
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sundress you know yeah so i am awesome and you know that a lot of these guys fall for this every
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single time may lord protect your love from feminists and single mothers and alimony
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um i don't mean to i like this guy i don't mean to belittle your efforts you're still
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going to eat from that food you are cooking i think that is i don't think it's doing that
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much for him i like that guy um okay let me see private private moments become public in dating
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so now she's going on a diet with her her guy this is your average looks match couple today
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one of eating healthy we are having burger but it's lettuce wrap
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french fries lettuce wrap chicken nuggets but it's lettuce wrap
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she's just eaten oh this one was so bad look at she uses her disabled boyfriend for marketing
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oh my god did they take off the sound okay he's a 10 but avoid traps of cynicism in social
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media analysis. Sometimes performance is driven to shape culture. However, the tradcon versus 304s
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is irrelevant to me. It's not cynicism. This is an observation. You know, me saying again,
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look at me doing this nice thing for my husband is performative. That's fact. I mean, yeah,
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that's okay. He's a 10, but oh, the sound is gone on this. That's sad. This one was really
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embarrassing she was making jokes about him getting it up like that's how bad it was oh my
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god it was brutal it was an absolute brutality all right slightly unhinged rules i have in my
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marriage no tv in our bedroom the bedroom is for sleep and sex now again who's making these rules
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Josh trusts my intuition with people, friends, business partners, and hiring decisions.
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We've learned the hard way what that ignoring them costs us.
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So imagine, you're like, these are the rules for our relationship.
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we have weekly a weekly relationship meeting we call it the best life where we get out of the
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house for an hour and discuss our marriage planning and how we can support each other
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dates are sacred at least once a week it's just us the date is never canceled unless someone's dying
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and he's got to do this she's like honey here's my tripod can you put me on the counter and just
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This is a pipeline to OnlyFans or someone else in general.
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We pray together every morning and every night and pray over each other.
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The three-night rule, we don't spend more than three nights apart.
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If something interferes with that, we figure it out, or heavily weigh if it's worth it.
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Um, okay, next we got, okay, as soon as I can, your problems will, your relationship
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Now, again, this might not be as public as Instagram, but, you know, it could translate
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You know, this could translate to group me or whatever the hell, uh, iMessage group chat.
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A trad wife with an Instagram or ten bodies?
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and now she's making this teehee, this joke for social media.
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hey babe I'm super busy right now but I'm gonna give you a call as soon as I can I hope you have
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a great day love you six seconds that's how easy it is and you guys can tell me if I'm wrong maybe
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you don't see a problem with the sacrificing your privacy you know maybe you want all the
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nice things that she, he, he, that you do, you don't mind having it broadcasted. 10 bodies,
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no Instagram. Men are like, I'll pray for 10 bodies nowadays. They're like, that's not bad.
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Okay. Um, here's another one. Never having to wonder if he has eyes for someone else.
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now imagine now she's using that on her instagram how embarrassing
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you know what i mean because they're simping men like don't do in public but privately you know
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i mean ladies we we know how they talk you know um but then it gets on instagram you know
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i like this you should wear this on a date okay you want to go on a date sure he'll take me on
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i'll take you on a date you're the prettiest thing you've ever seen thank you you're good at what you
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do so what does this use i can i'm so good looking that i can get him to talk to me like this
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So now again, she's using her husband to build her reputation instead of just being a, do
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It's like, ah, which one, ah, which do I choose?
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she's telling her husband that she's pregnant
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And now his cute, that cute, authentic, private moment is now being used to build her brand.
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That cute, private moment where you're just authentically happy and together.
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And if they're not the right size, you can exchange them too.
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so i always look like the asshole when i'm like performative performative you know i look like the
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k-swiss yeah you need socks to wear with those okay am i getting gold or something
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That's now for all of these strangers to see on the internet.
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You see, this is men are sacrificing privacy in order to be in relationship.
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So that translates in dating, and then it translates into marriage where the kids and the husband are used to signal status.
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There's the things they can get their husbands to do for them.
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them doing something for their husbands as a way to signal status look at my kids
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you know because that's a lot of times people use children as a way to be good people
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but i always think well if all your kids died would that make you less of a person
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like the person you are i don't think is really dependent and i really don't like it when
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conservatives do this they say get married to have a kid they even shame young men for not having
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children. And I think, well, I don't think the type of person you are is dependent upon if you
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have children. The other day I saw Benny Johnson do this and I thought, Benny, everybody knows you're
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gay. I mean, it's just so obvious. Like anybody that's, so I don't know how you of all people
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can be lecture at like, come on. I mean, there's been rumors. I mean, I don't know. I don't know
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for sure, but you seem very gay. So I just don't think you could really lecture young men about
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getting married instead of using their instagrams to enhance their real life women are using their
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real life and relationships as a prop to enhance their instagram that's a great analysis that i
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couldn't have said it better myself that was great on his cell phone yeah i don't have to
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literally everyone in this house would know where he is so the first the first girl said track your
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husband's location. And now again, this woman is signaling, hey, my husband would never
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cheat on me. He would never cheat. Everybody would know where he is. And now she's going
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to embarrass him. Look. Hey, Haley, I got a question for you. If you can't find dad,
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where is he? Now, this is a cute young girl. We know the weirdos that are on the internet.
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i don't want to look i don't want to look but if there's bookmarks i might throw up
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you you got there's freak shows on the internet but they don't care i don't care
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playing zelda hey sophie i have a question for you what if you can't find dad where is he
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oh look there's my husband what are you doing husband
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What if you went around and asked all the kids, what is mom doing?
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But women, we have no problem embarrassing our husbands on social media.
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Point of view, your daughter's waiting for daddy to come home.
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to show him her hair and dress so again kids look how awesome my life is you know it's the same thing
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again you're putting a cute little girl on social media
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now i'm not saying it's always going to go bad but i just can't i don't know
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And I always have to look like the asshole.
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I gotta be like, look, is this a good idea?
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Is this worth your kid's face being on the internet?
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and the dad's probably thinking what a cute moment what a cute awesome private
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moment oh I totally wanted all of Instagram to know about it that's
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oh wow you look so beautiful wow all right let's see what else okay now this translates
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um to using the husband and the kids for clout there's so many examples of these
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it just never ends like if you go on instagram and go through reels like a few of these
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it it's so common little crazy you're so lucky you get to stay home with your baby
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so all the all the kids here look at now again this translates to look at all i can get my
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husband to do and pay for your right and if you ask me to oh you're thirst trapping with the kids
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come on as a guy she can't be this hot and wear this little clothing and you not think anything
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Now, this is showing another problem, so the mother is teaching the sons to be simps.
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This happens whether or not it's two-parent or one-parent household.
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Filling up the gas tank for your wife or a woman.
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every man if you're in a relationship that's like bare bare bare minimum okay would princess
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treatment be we both got home and you have to take my car back out to fill it with gas
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so that i could go to work the next day okay opening my car door every time i'm getting into
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it or you're coming home with a sweet treat even though i did not ask for one
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documentary fun thank you guys thank you i really appreciate it we're
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we're we're trying to um save as much money as possible so the link to the documentary is in
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the description if you guys want to go to the gofundme or super chat so really appreciate it
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refilling the water cup after you've already gotten in bed for the night and your wife's like
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i would like some water all right taking her on a really fancy yeah so now a woman can't even fill
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up her own water do you see this programming we do to these these young men from such a young age
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i'm thinking are you not i'm not i'm not against you know i understand there's politeness you get
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up but it's the bare minimum she can't get up really truly year or for your anniversary or
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um coffee in bed every morning do that every day but
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i mean she's teaching these guys to get circles run around them yeah like these gen z women
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they're gonna okay all right paying for her to get her hair done like highlights cut color like a spa
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day okay now the next thing when the relationship goes south fights are also going to be used
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against you so remember this is something you got to be careful of because every girl has a phone
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you should i would also um say to use the same tactic but if you ever crash out on a girl
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doesn't matter what she did first if she pulls out a phone yeah look at all the money if you
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want to decide what happens in this house then pay for something oh right you don't have a fucking
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guess what she's using um in court right and he looks crazy in this
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so yeah if you have a fight with her and you crash out that happens sometimes in private
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don't expect privacy yeah she's there's probably albums in her phone and the daughters get in on
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remember the sisterhood transcends with just adult women even the kids will go
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in on it and team up with the mom I guess the dad was flirting with someone
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or the daughter says she he was flirting who knows if he was she's recording it
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to get evidence to make the dad look bad you know what
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and i recorded it and i'm gonna show mom i don't care and i the the camera heard he's a baby
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who are you fucking calling me on the street is that what you do no is that what you do
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is that what you do now who knows the context right i mean now i'm not trying to defend the
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guy but regardless this is a private family moment a private family fight it's now on social media
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and it will always be look it will always be used to make the women look good and the men look bad
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marriage for the stay-at-home mom to have to ask for money like it's like
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like anytime she needs anything at all she has to ask for money is that normal fuck balls
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unfortunately man for so many amazing women out there it is they are being abused just like you
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are and yes there's a million guys and women just like this ready to tell your wife she's right if
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she cries on the internet hear me you're being fucking abused it's called financial abuse that's
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the legal term the everyday fucking term is this motherfucker is a narcissist piece of dog shit
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see what he's trying to do ma'am is he needs to keep you under his thumb he has to have fucking
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control and the easiest way to control somebody is fucking financially it's the first form of
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separation in an abusive relationship what they do is they get you to rely on them the completely
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financially and then you have no motherfucking where to go you have nowhere to go no way to get
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out of that relationship the house i'm pro 50 50 i think women should pay their way i really i really
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do because you know if we keep edifying laws or we keep pushing laws with things like financial
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abuse in it ethic go 50 50 then let's see let's see how it goes let's see this is his the car's
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in his name he's made all the money you don't have any bank accounts and you feel fucking stuck
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it's the way abusers keep control of their abuse and so many women abuse the women stay
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in a motherfucking relationship he's gay oh he thinks he's gay but pieces of shit like this
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because of just that yeah um we got this next one
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watch my husband choose women online over his wife and unborn twin now we don't know if she
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cheated first right maybe she started cheating he found out he wants to keep the family together
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he starts cheating back is he the macho man of simping there's a million simps just like him
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um but women if you do anything wrong women will keep an album and hold it against you
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so you might as well keep an album back i'd recommend i know that's tiring but if you wish
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to engage in relationships i really would try to i mean this is what women do and we'll have
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we'll have this all ready to go so whenever we break up it can be your fault that's gonna get
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me a glass of water like i'm sorry exactly maybe you don't need water
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what it's hard for me to get up out of bed it's loaded you're fat what i have two kids inside of
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me downstairs go get it yourself what when you're worried about my tinder whenever you're pregnant
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it's our family it's your family not mine it's fitting that you're on tinder a lot of fire where
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you're going the fact that you used our wedding photo of course i used our wedding photo your
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girls on tinder don't want to see a man in a suit you have the mind of a person who writes his phone
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number on the stall in the men's bathroom and then waits for women to my guess is she knew what
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it was he'd probably my guess this is what i'm taking from this she probably knew he was a cheater
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he's like this is come on you know and so you might say well that's wrong well yeah but we
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again you don't know the full context of the situation and there's been so many times where
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clip will come out when you hear the full context it's just not what you think call it because i'm
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having the kids that you wanted to have you're having those kids that you wanted to have it's
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not my fault you got pregnant with twins oh how about you could say your act that's true women
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are 100 responsible for who is born so yeah if you get pregnant that is your own fault because
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we have the right to get an abortion now you might say but pearl that's wrong it's wrong to get an
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abortion i think it's wrong but women don't so i mean it's just it's like always convenient that
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women don't believe in abortion they they say we're too we think abortion's wrong but we don't
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think the sex outside of marriage is right do you know what i mean it's like if you're that
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religious that you don't believe in abortion it's like it's kind of like pick and choose where it
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benefits you if you catch my drift but yeah so this guy's just gonna he's not gonna ask any
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questions he's just gonna take the girl's side and this looks pretty bad right but we don't know
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the full context score so fast because it's just one number told me you wanted a kid i told you
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i wasn't ready okay you said you wanted two and look you got two but all at once so it's not my
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i need this thing to slap harder you know just yeah so let's see what else
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um all right this is what i had to go through for five years let's see let's see this abuse
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another haircut and you expect me to tell you yo you look so good i swear if you put that on my
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card i didn't put it on your card it's my money you didn't put it on your card yeah like i'll
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believe that i did let's just assume that's true you can check who are you trying to impress with
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all these haircuts huh every few weeks you're getting a new hairstyle a new look who are you
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trying to she was cheating i bet she was cheating and he knew it impress i just want to we're
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together it doesn't make any sense and i'm the one telling you i don't like the way it looks
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you should be dressing and looking the way i want you to look not the way you feel like looking not
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the way people give you compliments over me you're in a relationship with me
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all the comments this is horrible that's domestic violence
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i'm going to jail for this one oh my god if a man ever tested me like this i would be on the news
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um i really oh this was a skit but this does happen though this does happen
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i don't care what your friends say the these type of videos women record this type of stuff
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all the time i'll be on alert everyone's got a smartphone i don't care what the guy at the
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coffee shop says me i'm sorry you're sorry no you're gonna be sorry come here you're gonna
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what would have been better is like um the skit would have been better if it was more plastic
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surgery because i don't think i'd care about hair but i could see that real fight being like
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plastic surgery it's okay now every woman can be famous now a lot of times men will come and say
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My solution to this is getting a woman that's not famous.
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Well, guess what she could become famous off of doing?
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I can't remember what percent of Gen Z women create content on TikTok.
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What percent of Gen Z women create content on TikTok?
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Seventy-five percent of Gen Z women use Tick-Tock.
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Oh, actually I didn't realize most of the Tick-Tock users are 25 to 34 years old.
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Um, oh, wait here. This is going to get worse. It's not going to get better. So I would just
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prepare. Now, the question is, why do men accept this? So Britfolt's law, according to Robert
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Britfolt, states that in the animal species, the female determines the conditions of the family
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unit with association between the sex is only occurring when the female benefits from the
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Britt Foltz's law emphasizes this law applies to non,
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and contrasts animal behavior with human families,
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noting that the patriarchal human family is a juridic
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institution, not to animal groups governed by the female
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is the general consensus i've gotten but what from what i've seen it that appears to be true
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that when there is no benefit to women for an association with someone the relationship will
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cease to exist it's why you see men in these male female friendships where he gets no benefit
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but the women get a ton of benefit female control the female is the primary driver of social
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structure and association within the animal family benefit driven association male participation is
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contingent on the female deriving benefit from that association the application to animals brit
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fault applied the law to various animals including tigers lions monkeys and birds
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distinction from human families the law highlights a fundamental difference between animal groups and
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human families which britfall argued shaped by culture and judicial factors rather than solely
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by instinct so there's some people that say this does not apply to humans i think it does that's
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just been my my personal belief okay so we're gonna end the stream with a
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whiteboard video is that alright um so I'm gonna show you why men put up with
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Oh, yeah, here. Oh, there, I see. Oh, I see. Okay. All right, let me...
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All right, guys, so, all right, today we're going to talk about why men accept terrible
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Now, you might think, I would never accept that, and that is a common trope that I've
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heard men in my experience interviewing a thousand people.
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Many men would say, I will not accept a woman with X, Y, and Z, and I would think they meant
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it. But much like women, when they say they won't, that they're different than other girls,
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they don't always, you know, what they say doesn't match what they do, my observation was that a lot
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of times the guys that said, I will not accept that, did in fact accept that. So what happens is
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uggos. Okay, so we're going to start with the men. So women only think like 20% of men are hot.
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So let's put two chads here. Now, hot is a little bit more fluid for women. So like comedians,
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for example, may be ugly, but they're funny. So then we start to see them as hot.
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you know guys with microphones they could like say anything and we're like ooh microphone now
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they're hot so this is um contextual a little bit a guy we might not find attractive then he goes
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behind a bar then all of a sudden we want to bang him I don't I don't make the rules I just tell you
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what they are now these are the mid men these are guys that are normal looking normal with like
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charming women you know they're just I would say like average men
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so let's say there's four of these um actually I think more accurate we're going to make three
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average men and then you got the rest of them these are the guys that are left out we're going
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to be frowning. Aw. Aw. You know, I'm too ugly to get in the game. Sad. It's a sad case.
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We're going to have the women too. Aw. All these sad, aw. All right. So
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now for women, we're going to divide it here. So we're going to make a nice chart.
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Now we're going to have the hot women, and I'm actually going to have a third category, but you'll see.
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These are like the hot, let's say, like 20-year-old women.
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So maybe, like, hot people I'm putting is 8 pluses.
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So there could be a hot woman, but she's got, like, 100K of debt.
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So, you know, her initial looks, we're not going to take away from her.
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She is really hot, but she's got $100,000 in debt, you know.
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And then we got the mids, and it's the same kind of thing, right?
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Because men are, it's a lot more unanimous, like the looks.
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Like a guy could be mid in one context, but really attractive in another.
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And then the mids, but, you know, okay, whatever.
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And then I'm just going to put the belugas.
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We're just going to, yeah, these are the fat women, obviously.
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There's more women than men on the planet,
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So the men, they kind of are looking at the menu.
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And the problem is the women keep ruining themselves.
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And they think, this guy thinks, ooh, I'll take the mid.
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But then, you know, she ruins herself a little bit.
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You know, she has a kid, she gains 20 pounds,
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And men realize that in order to get the mids
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without a butt or a hot chick there is just a cost they have to put up with and the hot men
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might not put up with it right they'll bang this girl and she tries to broadcast their relationship
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and he's like let me let me go bang so the women we bang this guy he you know like I've I know a
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guy who goes through a hundred women a year a hundred so he banged all of them right he's
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bang in, bang in, bang in, bang in, bang in, bang, you know, runs through the women.
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And so you might think, well, who's going to do that? Who's going to put up with it? Well,
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it's called the lonely men here. Because Tom here, he might say, I am not putting up with
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an OnlyFans just so I can be with a hot chick. But Henry says, hey, I'll do it. Henry says,
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shut up, Tom. Um, and then we got Dick over here and Dick says, okay, I just want this mid right
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here. And she doesn't have any debt. Um, she's not fat. I'll take her. I'll take her. Um, that one,
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I want that one. And she's like, well, could we just do a little bit of a tick tock? And at first
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he says, no. And she says, please. And then he bangs her a few times and he's like, and then all
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of a sudden he's on a tiktok relationship right um so what happens is the more men are iced out
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like the less men that are in the hot category which is becoming less and less every year
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the worse women get which women are getting fatter and fatter every year so there's less
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mids to pay the more rare beauty becomes the more men are willing to accept in order to get beauty
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now you might say but pearl what about character well you can get some character from the fat
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women so um not to say and you know what the women that do have character the line for them
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is out the door you know because even the hot man at some point will say okay I just want a cute
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girl with some character I'll take her and Tom is like no no that's my girlfriend I met her in high
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school and then you know we got Tyrone or we got Brad over here that says no I want that one I'm
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going to take your girl and and brad and tom over here saying no no don't take my girlfriend don't
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i have her i got her first and brad's like you know i can just take your girl and then she'll
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she'll gaslight right she'll say i would never leave as she's actively leaving so again then
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this guy still he runs through all these women um and then the men are just forced to accept it
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that's why um the average age of marriage keeps going up because men will accept it that's why
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IVF is being created because men will accept it now it might not be you I hope it's not but
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somebody will somebody will and the quality of um the people accepting it keeps getting higher and
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higher um because the government needs men to accept it and society needs men to accept it to
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keep the economy going, because who's going to pay for all these broads? We can't pay for ourselves.
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one girl gets too damaged, and then, you know, it just keeps getting
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more rare. You know, one beautiful girl gets too damaged
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Because women will always go for Chad when given the chance.
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if they think they have a good chance of locking him down,
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now there's like two girls to choose from.
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I guess I will accept whatever in order to get children.
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like when women have the balls to do IVF by themselves if women are losers and we cannot get
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a man we'll go buy one men won't do it for whatever reason they won't get a surrogate
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even though we have made their lives living hell on earth we have made their like if they choose
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to reproduce with an American woman or any woman so yeah that's why men keep accepting this stuff
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So, now we're going to go to the accumulation of this.
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Okay, so the final accumulation of how this has ended
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Now, I don't know what women sound like when they give birth.
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that just walk away and say this isn't worth it
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They're going to wait and call it risks and the rewards.
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What is the craziest thing you have seen a man accept?
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Thank you guys for watching on a Thursday night.
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Tomorrow we're going to be releasing an essay video, so there's no show.
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I filmed something Wednesday pre-recorded with another conservative e-girl so that'll come out
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Saturday and I think you guys will really like it please like the video subscribe and I'll see you