Pearl - November 13, 2025


Modern Women Are Now Crying About...＂Mother Hunger＂？

Topics
mother hunger mother hunger issues mother hunger mother manipulation tactics
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Length

8 minutes

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176.62

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1,558

Sentence count

136

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Misogyny

30

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Toxicity

9

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13

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In this episode, we are reacting to a book written by a woman who wrote a book about women with mommy issues called Mother Hunger . In this book, the author talks about the problem of mother hunger and how it can affect a woman s ability to eat.

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00:00:00.000 they might not have even been aware of how evil the moms are. A lot of times the dads don't even 1.00
00:00:04.420 know how bad the mothers are until it like comes out later. What up guys? Welcome to my reaction
00:00:10.320 series. So mothers have failed their daughters and a lot of young women are coming to the 1.00
00:00:15.720 realization that really their moms were trash. And today we are going to be reacting to mother 0.98
00:00:23.000 hunger. Now apparently this woman wrote a book about women with mommy issues. Because the title 0.79
00:00:29.160 of your book is mother hunger. And could you define what you mean by that concept? Mother
00:00:35.280 hunger came about from years of sitting with clients. Women were coming to talk to me about 1.00
00:00:42.400 addictive relationships. What do I do? Do I stay? Do I go? So what I was hearing time and time again,
00:00:50.100 when they would hit that critical stage, every time when she's in the pit of despair and loneliness,
00:00:56.680 I heard, I want my mom. And it felt like a biological thing. This was a craving, a yearning that had
00:01:05.300 nothing to do with, did she want her actual mom or a different mom or a mom? She needed, right? She 0.63
00:01:12.240 needed mothering. She needed nurturing. She needed to feel safe and she needed guidance. And so she
00:01:18.360 wanted it from a mother. Yeah. And most women don't have like the luxury of having a mother that 1.00
00:01:26.760 actually like loves them. And that really wants what's best for them. What you have today is moms 1.00
00:01:33.040 that compete with daughters, moms that secretly sabotage their daughters, moms that make their life 1.00
00:01:39.400 decisions poorly and make their daughters pay the price. Like there's so many women that have to pay for 1.00
00:01:44.800 their mother, make sure it be the emotional support of their mother. This is a real problem. And a lot
00:01:52.320 of women hate their fathers because of what their mother said to them. I mean, that happened to me
00:01:56.640 when I was young. You know, you think your dad's one way and then he's like a saint and your mom's the
00:02:02.940 demon. But the hunger felt like a biological craving. It was very clear. These are women that are in 1.00
00:02:11.280 adversity. They have really hit a stumbling block. It just was amazing to me to listen to. I want my mom.
00:02:18.800 How do these mother hunger issues show up in people? Mother hunger is going to look like 1.00
00:02:26.080 depression because there is a lifetime of depressing actual feelings, needs, desires. So they become
00:02:33.920 dormant and we're sitting on stuff and that can look like depression. It always looks like having trouble
00:02:39.200 with food. Eating habits are more complicated. Eating habits, I would say, that are bad are correlated
00:02:45.600 with a not very involved mother. Because if your mom was involved and she was home with the kids,
00:02:49.680 you would learn how to eat. Or if she... Because some stay-at-home moms are just lazy people. 1.00
00:02:54.560 Do you know what I mean? Like they just don't... Like I'm the type of person... I've always had a good
00:03:00.000 work ethic. This is just something I've known about myself. Like since I was a kid, I always got like most
00:03:04.640 improved on teams. And if I was home all day, I'm learning something. I'm doing something.
00:03:11.200 But there's a lot of women, they want to be stay-at-home mothers because they're just lazy 1.00
00:03:14.880 people. Like I had a friend who had a stay-at-home mom and she did all the housework for her mother.
00:03:21.440 Like she would take care of her. I have met so many women that were the oldest of like two or three kids. 1.00
00:03:27.200 And the oldest daughter ended up not wanting or having children because their whole childhood,
00:03:33.760 they had to be a mother to their younger brother. I've seen this in families of three with two 0.97
00:03:39.200 younger brothers. I'd say that's the most common. And that doesn't have to be a full-blown eating
00:03:45.280 disorder that's clinically diagnosed. I think with mother hunger, what I've learned is how a woman 1.00
00:03:51.680 learns to eat tells the story of how love feels. But it's always a problem. It's always an issue.
00:03:58.800 Body image may play into that a lot. Yeah, because from a young age, a lot of moms are giving like, 1.00
00:04:04.320 you know, it's crazy because they always say men have high beauty standards, but ask a woman who the 0.99
00:04:09.120 first person to make them feel insecure about their body was. It's usually the mom. Usually the two 0.99
00:04:14.080 and anxiety, anxiety, depression, and food issues. That's really, really interesting,
00:04:17.840 especially the food issues. Food is so loaded. Join the doctor. Yeah, that's, that's actually,
00:04:22.560 um, yeah, that's true. Okay. All right. Let's see. Let's talk about mother hunger.
00:04:25.520 The thing that's hard and makes it mother hunger in general. I think the thing that's hard and makes
00:04:30.960 it hard for people to recognize it in themselves is a lot of times it's not what happened, but it's what
00:04:36.320 didn't happen. So like if you didn't get certain elements of nurturing, you didn't get certain elements
00:04:42.960 of protection. Most women aren't nurturing. It's not, we're not naturally nurturing. 1.00
00:04:48.080 Or guidance. You didn't even know it was missing because it's not something that happened. It's
00:04:53.520 like the lack of something, um, that I think can make it really hard to identify. And a lot of times
00:04:59.680 women are, the mothers are like in the kid's ear saying how awesome that they are all the time, 1.00
00:05:06.320 that a lot of times their actions are not awesome. But you know, when someone's like,
00:05:11.200 it's like propaganda is in your ear 24 seven saying one thing. Um, you don't always notice
00:05:17.120 how bad the person is and like on webbing, all of the lies they say over the years is like,
00:05:23.600 that takes years to undo. Oh, I love this new phrase. This woman, she's coining new phrase 0.86
00:05:32.880 called mother hunger. And what mother hunger is, is when daughters apparently don't receive enough 1.00
00:05:41.600 nurturing and protection from their mothers. So they go. Yeah. And that's kind of how most of us
00:05:46.640 were raised with weak fathers that did not protect us, or they might not have even been aware of how
00:05:52.400 evil moms are. A lot of times the dads don't even know how bad the mothers are until, um, it like comes
00:05:58.720 out later, you know, speaking it in their grownup relationships and it causes them issues. Isn't
00:06:06.400 that just beautiful? Now we're getting blamed for causing our daughter's bad relationship choices. 0.62
00:06:17.360 Not that it's just being too young and just starting out in relationships and not knowing what to look for.
00:06:24.160 No, mothers are give terrible relationship advice. Awful. Because most of them made poor 1.00
00:06:30.240 reproductive choices with the dad. Um, I mean, I'm not going to put my mom on blast, but it's like, 0.83
00:06:38.000 it's almost like they want you to fail. It's, it's almost like they give you advice. So you fail.
00:06:44.480 That's the crazy thing because they're unhappy in their relationship. So,
00:06:48.560 you know, too immature to really figure out what a good guy actually looks like, or maybe the father
00:06:59.040 not being in the home, like so many fathers aren't in the home to get.
00:07:02.480 And a lot of times it's because you drove them out of the home, either for your, from your bad
00:07:07.200 behavior, your poor reproductive choices. Um, or you were just such a that he left. I mean, that's,
00:07:14.000 that's what they don't talk about. Deadbeat dads mothers that are just so bitchy that they just 1.00
00:07:18.400 drive the man away guidance or even a role model, or maybe the breakdown of society or maybe what 0.62
00:07:24.400 they're taught in schools. No, it's us. It's always us. Right. When does that end? Like, yeah.
00:07:31.040 So this is an old hag that probably raised a daughter that hates her and that she's saying, oh, 1.00
00:07:36.320 I did nothing wrong. It's like the lack of introspection with these broads. 1.00
00:07:40.160 When is it that, you know, our kids start taking responsibility for their own life choices,
00:07:46.720 right? And we stop getting blamed for not holding their hand all the way to the grave. Because God
00:07:52.560 knows, you know, if we don't start teaching our kids how to accept responsibility and accountability
00:07:58.960 for their own life choices and stop. I do agree that after 18, it's your own problem and it's your
00:08:04.080 own fault. But a lot of women, a lot of mothers do not set their daughters up for success. 1.00
00:08:09.040 Taking up words that give them an excuse. God knows none of them will ever have a relationship
00:08:15.280 because, because they can't wipe their own ass without us. 1.00
00:08:20.000 Yeah. And that's an over aggrandizing the stuff that they've done. Um, the mothers, 0.99
00:08:25.600 mothers don't have a tendency to do nice things to like be nice people. They just do it to hold it 1.00
00:08:30.320 over your head later. Anyways, guys, let me know what you think in the comments, make sure you like the
00:08:34.560 video and please subscribe to the channel. Let me know. How was your mom? Was she good? Was she bad?
00:08:38.960 Put it in the comments. Um, have you ever noticed any other mother manipulation tactics? Like the 0.99
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