Pearl - Modern Women Are On Antidepressants

00:00:00.000 With a warning label

00:00:03.200 You should have come

00:00:04.960 With a warning label

00:00:08.840 Alright, now I ain't been addicted like this

00:00:11.080 Since I was alone and broke

00:00:12.320 And had a woman holding me down like she was my only hope

00:00:15.060 Like how we do in difficult times ensue

00:00:17.020 We can only cope

00:00:17.920 To say this was my lifeline

00:00:19.140 I'm tugging on that's a lonely rope

00:00:20.740 Addictive like Klonopin

00:00:22.040 Praying, asking has got a thing

00:00:23.540 When taking L's with women

00:00:24.660 So Rolo tells me that's not a win

00:00:26.340 Now maybe there's a path that we walk in passing

00:00:28.460 Withholding passion

00:00:29.340 Frightened of addiction to one another, withhold attraction

00:00:32.060 You don't let yourself fall, you fight your feelings like southpaw

00:00:34.760 When even the words we share with each other don't ever sound wrong

00:00:37.560 And maybe repeat the cycle, like this ain't my only feature

00:00:40.260 Recovery time in meetings, don't make me the only speaker

00:00:43.020 Put my best foot forward, always gave you my best first

00:00:45.780 You could be the reason I'm forever buried in step work

00:00:48.560 And that's a risk I'm down to take, cause I've taken it many times

00:00:51.480 You could read me this warning label, it's fatal for either side

00:00:54.300 Is that a sucker?

00:00:54.980 It's been three years now and I'm married with a diamond ring

00:00:59.320 You're with some random girl but still in love with me

00:01:05.020 I won't admit it but I see you in my dreams

00:01:10.880 I wonder are you the one who's supposed to be next to me

00:01:16.240 Oh, should I do a Rolo diss track?

00:01:20.980 Oh, you guys don't want me to freestyle

00:01:23.300 let me see should i do it should i should i do it

00:01:52.520 also guys i have a special guest today no oh my gosh why would you run away from me

00:02:03.080 my goodness you want me to freestyle doug mpa can pick in the chat freestyle don't freestyle

00:02:13.480 oh I can't stop it I haven't done it in so long though no no I shouldn't

00:02:23.040 hey what's up I'm the new sensation I'm on YouTube not on a vacation

00:02:33.400 number one YouTuber in the nation I don't believe in parental alienation

00:02:40.280 they want to talk about why

00:02:46.520 okay i'm done i'm done i'm done i'm done

00:02:52.580 okay okay hey everybody thank you so much enough rollo

00:03:10.920 I want to do it so bad.

00:03:15.700 Okay, okay, okay.

00:03:17.980 I get too nervous.

00:03:20.480 Keep going.

00:03:28.200 All right, I'm done.

00:03:30.940 You know, I'm actually decent.

00:03:32.640 I get kind of nervous, though.

00:03:33.940 okay let me let me i'll pipe down i'll pipe down i do well i want to start shows imagine when my

00:03:48.280 my producer is back tomorrow tomorrow this i can dual stream on all platforms tomorrow i'm

00:03:54.960 officially back baby it's not just me and you i'll probably be more on topic tomorrow you know when

00:04:03.340 don't have a producer staring at me i do kind of riff a little more i'm a little more relaxed

00:04:09.980 because i can say embarrassing things and there's nobody to react do you know what i mean

00:04:18.780 the website's not up oh my gosh well yes it is it is i can see it i can see it i can see it

00:04:27.020 um joel says first comment i rule peep over the top you know we can even do a zoom call

00:04:34.940 and freestyle one of these days i know you're being just silly but this is an impressive start

00:04:44.540 um we need a song i should do a full diss track on rollo i kind of want to do it don't tempt me

00:04:53.580 we could

00:04:53.900 he's he's come at me for years and now i'm unleashed i'm unleashed

00:05:01.500 i do think i'm too old for this i won't lie he's really too old for this but i'm like

00:05:07.920 i'm old i i want to do a song instead of hit the quan i want to be like hit the wall

00:05:15.480 hit the wall did it do do do i hit the wall

00:05:20.020 wouldn't that be kind of funny do you guys need the vision

00:05:25.420 pearl featuring doug mpa can you can you freestyle so my dog is in the studio today i brought her up

00:05:34.980 here and i i really wanted to bring her on the show but she's like hiding in the corner

00:05:42.500 i know pearl derangement syndrome can be overcome it can be overcome

00:05:50.120 rollo you know he maybe one day will overcome it you know

00:05:56.680 hold on i gotta so a couple announcements before we start the show the first is another reminder um

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00:07:34.180 come here baby come here i'm wild and this is my last one

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00:09:13.620 that's in the description it's okay if you can't um yeah doug mpa is telling you ellie come here

00:09:21.080 come here can i show you to the people

00:09:23.780 why are you being shy now you are not being shy if you knock over a camera i'm going to be upset

00:09:31.860 i really am we're going to have beef yeah okay well whenever i have to go switch a camera i'll

00:09:38.840 pick her up and show you guys okay so today we're talking about antidepressants so i want to give

00:09:46.740 you guys a tip um that i've heard from puas uh what's up with the mattress actress trying to sue

00:09:53.480 me i haven't heard back since i told her take me to court bitch i gotta stop swearing i meant that

00:10:01.480 i meant to take me to court lady um but do you know what a pua told me that when you're at a

00:10:11.740 girl's house. You want to look in her medicine cabinet. You can find herpes drugs. You can find

00:10:19.300 SSRIs. And this is really important because there's a lot of women that are mentally ill.

00:10:26.340 They're mentally ill. So, you know, when we think about drug abuse in America, most people

00:10:34.180 People picture heroin junkies in Portland, opioid users in the Midwest, and cocaine users

00:10:43.960 in Miami.

00:10:45.400 That's what's pushed in the news and through our phones on social media.

00:10:50.440 But what's not talked about is modern women's depression.

00:10:54.320 One in four women in the United States are on some type of psych med.

00:10:58.600 During the pandemic, the rise of antidepressants prescribed to young women between the ages

00:11:03.920 of 12 and 25 jumped by 130%. So I came up with the modern woman life cycle here on Pearl

00:11:13.160 Daily. And I want to recap the life cycle. And modern women taking psych meds fits in

00:11:21.300 perfectly. So number one, modern women will go to a high priced institution to get a degree

00:11:26.880 nobody cares about and put themselves in a whole bunch of debt that will be a burden

00:11:31.460 to them for the rest of their lives. And all they learn in school is how to be disagreeable

00:11:36.200 and how to use men. Then modern women will get a job that's too stressful and doesn't

00:11:41.040 care about them. In reality, the job is not that hard or stressful, but the women convince

00:11:48.500 themselves that it is. Modern women feel entitled to a certain lifestyle because when they begin

00:11:54.540 their careers and will buy houses and cars they can't afford and spend money on travel

00:11:59.640 while ignoring their student loan debt modern women wake up at the age of 33 to 37 and rush to

00:12:05.880 have kids find a husband or both modern women hit their late 30s and early 40s and try to get

00:12:10.920 pregnant by some loser or through ivf modern women will start on antidepressants and become

00:12:17.960 alcoholics and then modern women do what we do best buy a dog which i already have ellie come

00:12:27.400 come here, come here and die alone. Step five and seven is usually when modern women start taking

00:12:35.820 their psych meds. Although there has been an increase in teenage girls being prescribed

00:12:40.500 psych meds because of social media. Steps five and seven is usually when a woman has entered her

00:12:46.060 mid thirties and has smashed into the wall. They get less attention from men. They realize that

00:12:52.520 their jobs can care less about them and they look back at all the time and money they wasted in

00:12:58.420 school to get their degrees many of them have no relationship skills and no longer want to be alone

00:13:05.540 but have no idea and no longer want to be alone but they have no idea how to go about it their

00:13:11.100 situation is so bleak that they turn to psych meds to numb the pain of what they finally realize

00:13:16.820 is a wasted life now we have some clips that demonstrate this and we're gonna see if this

00:13:25.460 works today i mean it's been hit or miss all right let's see

00:13:31.780 can't win them all okay i gotta go switch the screen i will be back and i will show you guys

00:13:42.280 my dog. I already did buy the dog. Oh wait, hold on. Okay, cool. Ellie, stop it.

00:14:12.280 this is ellie say hi ellie say hi this is my dog ellie

00:14:34.200 i know she used to come on the channel it's okay dog

00:14:41.280 maybe we'll see if she can stay we'll see this might be a mistake if it is i'll let her go

00:14:50.220 say hi

00:14:52.580 okay let's see all right ellie look at these women getting prescribed psych meds now we

00:15:02.840 a gma health alert a headline we first saw in the wall street journal asking why more women in middle

00:15:08.520 age are turning to antidepressants than ever before our abc news chief medical correspondent

00:15:13.640 dr ashton's here going to break it down so this is startling according to the cdc approximately

00:15:18.760 one in five women between the ages of 40 to 59 and one in just four women over 50 are turning

00:15:26.040 to antidepressants that's compared with one in 10 women between 18 and 39 using this kind of

00:15:32.680 medicine why is this happening well the short answer is we know why it's happening

00:15:40.360 women don't know how to handle getting old alone you don't know robin but the first step is making

00:15:46.200 this observation the second step is talking about it which is why i'm so glad we're having this

00:15:51.160 conversation but yes there definitely seems to be some differences in the rates of depression

00:15:56.600 in women versus men and as women age whether that's a hormonal contribution as women get

00:16:03.560 to menopause or just more lived life experiences life stressors we know what kind of life

00:16:09.240 experiences they mean world events things that we've all been through we don't know but those

00:16:15.480 numbers absolutely jaw-dropping when you see how common this is and of course

00:16:20.820 there's concern you don't want to over prescribe right this type of drugs so

00:16:24.960 who are they really intended for well I think that's the key when people hear

00:16:28.300 this they tend to go all to one extreme or another it's not all bad or all good

00:16:32.700 for the right person antidepressants for a certain period of time or even a

00:16:37.680 prolonged period of time can be incredibly beneficial they can help with

00:16:41.700 depressed mood they can help with a loss of interest in daily activities and activities

00:16:46.980 that previously used to give joy or pleasure to someone and they can restore the sleeping

00:16:52.100 eating routines that are so often disrupted in people and women who suffer from depression but

00:16:58.260 they can also have risks so those need to be discussed with the patient before you write

00:17:02.260 that prescription science for depression i think we all need to recognize this robin because which

00:17:07.620 one do you think is on antidepressants not me crazy ladies they are subtle but then when they're

00:17:16.180 happening to you they don't feel so subtle so chronic sadness uh what we call somatic effects

00:17:22.420 of depression which is physical pain headache body aches where you can't find another attributable

00:17:27.860 cause uh change in sleeping and eating habits are big and anxiety coming from depression there is

00:17:33.540 no shame in the game speak up get help thank you for saying that no shame in the game speak up

00:17:39.460 thank you i don't know there is kind of shame in the game i wouldn't go around telling people

00:17:43.540 you're on antidepressants like this lady right here okay wait let me see sound on okay

00:17:56.740 it's so hard to know who to trust with this whole ssri thing because like

00:18:01.860 on one hand they've saved millions of lives but on the other this girl i went to high school with

00:18:07.460 who only did butt stuff so she could still be a virgin she thinks we just need to eat clean

00:18:12.900 and get some fresh air so like who's to say it's a toughie

00:18:19.540 who is to say okay we got a stay-at-home mom who's on meds we all love those wine moms

00:18:31.640 there's so many wine mom alcoholics out there what doubles when we go from our 20s and 30s

00:18:40.120 to our 40s and 50s it's our use of ssris 1 in 10 to 1 in 5 what also changes when we go

00:18:47.760 from our 30s to our 40s is our hormone called progesterone and we get ugly

00:18:55.760 i know we talk about the wall a lot now women do drop significantly in attractiveness around 30 as

00:19:03.760 you guys can see i'm aging out dang it but you know the um we do drop right i mean you you guys

00:19:14.640 see it it's like subtle but then you look back at like a picture of me at 18 or whoever and it's

00:19:20.400 like wow you're hot you know can't i was a little fat when i was younger thank god

00:19:27.200 because then i'd be really sad thank god i'm thinner now you know and anyways

00:19:36.320 long story short long story short but 40s is the real wall for women because

00:19:42.640 there are some 30 year old women can we just keep it a buck there's some 30 year old women

00:19:46.480 that look like five years younger that can pass for mid-20s and don't really have a difficult time

00:19:52.960 but there are no 45 40 year old women that pass for mid-20s that just does not happen

00:20:03.520 tell me if ellie's ellie's distracting you guys too much i'll put her down

00:20:07.440 let me read the chat on the website if you guys do want your chat read

00:20:12.160 yeah it's all about the why oh wait hold on i read the wrong chat that's from last show

00:20:18.960 okay oh no the live chat disconnected what oh no oh that was from last show hold on

00:20:29.180 okay i'm gonna play this again it's depression anxiety not being able to sleep at night insomnia

00:20:35.820 um any of these things it probably is just your progesterone turn up the volume i can't turn it

00:20:42.380 up it's just the girl's audio i'm dropping producing less progesterone so right now she's

00:20:47.500 saying it's the progesterone but really it's i mean we all know it's getting ugly i'm gonna be

00:20:54.700 depressed at 50. oh 40s these the occasional hot mom there's no hot mom at 50. i don't want to get

00:21:03.340 older make it stop in your ovaries and it may be as simple as knowing what's going on and

00:21:12.620 supporting your body let me tell you from personal women are binge drinking more than men

00:21:17.020 no no this is my pet i bought her off a craigslist when i was 21 my mom was pissed

00:21:22.960 and she was right you've been a pain in my ass oh do you know what it's like you guys know it's

00:21:27.880 like moving countries with a dog. It's not fun. It is not fun at all.

00:21:33.620 Restorone is actually a supplement that you could feel relief from right away. It's worth

00:21:38.920 getting your levels checked. Okay. Then we get, all right, Ellie, I think we are at the end of

00:21:46.140 the rope. Okay. Hold on. Okay, I'm gonna go turn it up. Guys, say bye to Ellie. I don't

00:22:02.680 know if I'll get her back. Say bye. Oh, good doggy. Good dog. Okay, hold on. I'm gonna

00:22:11.540 turn the audio up on the thing okay I have returned I have returned it's a

00:22:39.920 huge deal for me and i had a lot of resistance to the taking this medication and a big part of it

00:22:44.800 was around not feeling like i was being medicated so that i didn't i wasn't like hurting other

00:22:50.080 people or bad to other people or i wasn't taking it like to shut me up and i'm gonna explain why

00:22:55.920 so part of why i'm taking it is like i am someone my kid is pda autistic i for sure carry a lot

00:23:01.040 of course your kid is pda autistic traits i'm neuro spicy and when i'm upset i yell i'm neuro

00:23:10.640 spicy i yell at my family mostly at my wife in front of my kids hopefully usually not but sometimes

00:23:15.760 i is in front of them and i blame and i'm like loud when i'm upset and i carry so much shame

00:23:22.080 about that translation i have no emotional control sometimes i have envy for other people's mental

00:23:29.040 health disturbances they said ellie is the perfect female quiet and chill she is quiet and chill but

00:23:35.040 she does breathe heavy that are like quiet which is like up but i'm like well at least on top of

00:23:39.040 the disturbance they also aren't like like people can't see it and think they look crazy like i was

00:23:44.800 screaming the other day my neighbor walked by and i was like super like oh my god like hey like

00:23:49.840 sorry like like what does she think i don't know people scream but like there's this way of like my

00:23:54.560 bad stuff even though externalizing is healthier for you you look like it's more it's less socially

00:24:00.240 acceptable and so there was this big i don't even know what she's saying it's just i'm hearing blah

00:24:06.400 blah blah blah so i stop hurting people with my like this fucked up part of me see this is what

00:24:11.520 i think i think women we don't want to do the hard thing

00:24:14.560 okay this is the only show she's coming um we don't want to do the hard thing like

00:24:26.640 controlling your emotions when you're upset is very difficult

00:24:29.820 i mean guys i i'll be the first to admit it there's times that i really regret

00:24:35.240 there's one story maybe if we get enough on the website and i really don't care i'll tell you

00:24:42.820 i'll tell you where i did not handle my emotions the most embarrassing thing i've ever done

00:24:47.620 um but you know where you learn is there's a time when you don't man handle your emotions well and

00:24:56.100 you learn from it you say oh i didn't like that and then you get better and you move on

00:25:00.260 um and you take accountability and you you move on from your actions but she

00:25:05.620 yeah neighbor walked by and i was like super like oh my god like hey like sorry like like

00:25:16.880 what does she think i don't know people scream but like there's this way of like my bad stuff

00:25:22.140 even though externalizing is healthier for you you look like it's more it's less socially acceptable

00:25:26.700 and so there was this big part of me that's like everyone just wants me to take this medicine so i

00:25:30.480 stop hurting people with my like this fucked up part have you guys ever dated a woman where you

00:25:35.200 said you gotta be on antidepressants part of me even though I'm trying to love this part of me

00:25:41.300 as I love my son and the ways in which he can get really like extra like externalized with his

00:25:47.320 hitting destroying whatever like that's helped me love this part of me and then I still have

00:25:51.080 so much shame because I was raised that this was an awful part of me and I'm a bad person in this

00:25:54.800 part of me so part of taking medication I really had to start to feel like I was doing it for my

00:26:00.160 own well-being that my dog my wife wanted me to feel better inside and that's why she had me on

00:26:06.020 this or was suggesting she should try eating less and same for my doctor like i'm not taking it to

00:26:11.600 be quieted down for my hard time i'm taking it for be supported and like feeling okay so that

00:26:18.300 like these hard times that are like she sounds like 17 i don't think we mature past 17.

00:26:25.000 so one year on prozac let's see how she did

00:26:29.420 and also i'm going to do a call-in at the end so i need you guys to tell me if you've dated

00:26:37.540 women on antidepressants i want to hear your stories it has officially been one year on prozac

00:26:44.640 let's talk about it many of you have been here since i first shared me starting my prozac journey

00:26:51.300 you know that it was very anxiety inducing for me which makes sense because I was like getting on

00:26:57.080 Prozac for anxiety and I have done some updates before but now that it's been a full year I feel

00:27:04.200 like I really understand the benefits and things that it has done to better my life and impact my

00:27:11.800 life so I wanted to share some of those things. Something I've learned is that Prozac works best

00:27:18.640 for me in conjunction with therapy if i am only taking the medicine and not in therapy then i

00:27:26.240 still feel like i can't function sometimes and that is also why maybe i showed up my dosage a

00:27:35.120 little bit but now that i'm back in therapy i'm starting therapy and antidepressants what a time

00:27:41.120 with therapy there's any chance that i might need to up that dose ever since that initial gi issues

00:27:48.080 with the first few days of taking it i have not had any issues or side effects since then

00:27:55.120 even when i upped my dosage earlier on when it initially started working part of me was like oh

00:28:02.880 do i even need to keep taking the medicine like i feel good like do i need to keep going and the

00:28:08.640 answer is yes yes even when you start feeling better that doesn't mean you should stop taking

00:28:15.040 the medication last thing i will say is that medication and your mental health are more

00:28:21.760 important than worrying about if your body changes while taking these medications for some people i

00:28:29.920 understand the fear of weight gain with this type of medication she clearly does not

00:28:36.400 not for your weight gain. Look at all the times I've really matured in my life. I had

00:28:48.000 to eat shit. I don't really don't think you mature from drugs. I think you gotta take

00:28:55.240 some L's. In the long run, making your brain happier, your mental health. Jen said my ex

00:29:03.240 girlfriend got on lezzepro completely ruined her life suicidal murder attempts fights with everybody

00:29:08.040 ruined all careers and friendships gang bangs and incurable stds call in tell me that story

00:29:14.720 like your overall well-being happier will be way more worth it than

00:29:21.480 misery loves company so she's telling everyone else to get on

00:29:33.240 you girlies are on antidepressants let me know if you feel the same if i drink like i literally

00:29:42.120 drink that much right i already feel it like my i have to pee like it's burning down there like i

00:29:49.320 drinking on antidepressants wow i i have to pee like it's burning down there like i cannot control

00:29:56.840 myself i can't that's how much i drink oh we gotta we got someone signed up thank you steven

00:30:05.800 thank you so much for signing up and also from last show i forgot to say

00:30:11.960 thank you another yearly membership thank you gary and then we got

00:30:18.600 we got Tom, we got, we got Steam, we got Ryan, we got Azean, we got Randy, we got Bug,

00:30:41.880 and that's it

00:30:44.360 but yeah so she's getting drunk

00:30:47.240 on her antidepressants

00:30:48.660 now we got someone else on Prozac

00:30:53.720 oh we know

00:30:55.260 I did this one already

00:30:56.080 okay what else we got

00:30:58.160 here we go crazy eyed woman

00:31:11.880 If you eat foods that are high in protein, you're not hungry as often.

00:31:24.020 You don't have to go to the cabin every 35 seconds to get a snack.

00:31:29.800 Groundbreaking stuff.

00:31:32.400 Potted cheese?

00:31:33.840 I don't know, I just shove it in my mouth.

00:31:35.360 I'm not hungry anymore.

00:31:39.720 Tuna melt?

00:31:41.880 This will satiate me all night long.

00:31:44.380 Who knew?

00:31:47.900 I'm so lazy,

00:31:50.540 so I want to do the least amount of work

00:31:53.000 for the highest payoff at all times.

00:31:56.020 And it turns out, protein does that for me.

00:32:02.560 Oh my.

00:32:06.040 Getting a balanced meal in.

00:32:08.720 A little sparkling water.

00:32:10.000 a pretzel crisp

00:32:12.160 maybe

00:32:16.080 maybe my antidepressants are starting to kick in

00:32:19.320 because

00:32:20.780 I feel alive, I feel electric

00:32:22.580 she feels alive on antidepressants

00:32:31.120 what a time

00:32:40.000 okay wait work day but i also found out i just had a really intense work day but i also found

00:32:48.560 out from my psychiatrist that debakote causes pcos in women so now it's leading me to think

00:32:56.000 how many psychiatric medications are causing adverse effect i heard like 15 percent of women

00:33:04.560 have pcos in the notes and are the women that are on psychiatric medication receiving it because

00:33:12.880 there's actually something wrong with them or is it because they live in an environment where

00:33:16.400 there's emotional abuse and neglect um narcissistic parents etc right is it hormonal and then we think

00:33:23.840 they're crazy and then we're just giving them a psychiatric medication i have so many questions

00:33:28.800 and i have questions for you guys so have you ever dated a woman on ssris and what was your

00:33:36.260 experience and what would happen if she stopped taking them so i'm gonna do the call-in link give

00:33:42.080 me a second um but i'd love to hear your personal stories give me one one second one minute hold on

00:33:51.540 Let me play a video while I attempt.

00:34:21.540 i'll show you one of my clouds love the video okay so uh let's uh let's roll the clip and

00:34:33.000 then pro whenever you want us to stop it or whatever it may be for to give some commentary

00:34:36.240 get opinions just let us know yeah no it's important you should watch yeah all right

00:34:39.980 is someone that does it for attention what up guys welcome to the just early things youtube

00:34:47.960 channel and welcome to my whiteboard videos. Today I am going to go over the hierarchy of

00:34:55.680 boredom. Before I start, don't forget to subscribe to the channel and bring that notification bell

00:35:01.000 that way you're going to be notified of my daily videos. So this last week I decided that I wanted

00:35:07.160 to know more about whores, clothes, nice ladies, oh I forgot to add more, sorry, ladies and wifey

00:35:16.460 material. So this week we did a show where we really wanted to define the terms because a lot

00:35:23.040 of men out there cannot define what's a whore, what's a slut, what's a whole lot of the women.

00:35:27.840 It's like, what is this? And I'd like to tell you guys in 2023, if we go by a historical point of

00:35:33.660 view, 95% of women would be whores. However, we are in 2023. So we got to adapt to the time. So

00:35:40.020 I surveyed some men to see what they thought. The definition that we came up with was a whore

00:35:45.460 is someone that has sex for money or does slutty things for money. A slut is someone who does it

00:35:52.840 for sex. And a hoe is someone that does it for attention. So we went through some scenarios as

00:36:00.520 a class. A whore is an OnlyFans worker, a stripper, a hooker, or an escort. I think it's called escort

00:36:07.840 wrong, but never mind that. A slut is a woman. Real quick, who would raise your hand and say

00:36:14.640 that's them for the horror part okay don't lie i'm honest as fuck here i'm honest okay

00:36:21.920 something online in here man let's continue and feats on her boyfriend one night stand

00:36:28.880 because what's she doing it for next we have a hoe now this is a girl ass picks on the gram

00:36:34.880 okay or 15 plus bodies now okay guys there's been a lot of disputes okay

00:36:44.640 all right doug are you there yeah can you hear me i can hear you how are you

00:36:51.120 i am fantastic it's doug mpa everyone thank you everyone for being in the chat on the website we

00:36:56.480 have 11 people richard anna joel fazelle galaxy all of you guys it's always good to see you and

00:37:06.320 thank you all the regulars in the youtube chat i really appreciate it pearl's chat

00:37:10.080 is truly the best chat on youtube i've been a moderator in the chat for over three years

00:37:15.360 you guys always keep me laughing so thank you everyone for being there in the youtube chat

00:37:19.680 yeah thank you guys so much um doug so what is your thoughts on the topic have you dated a woman

00:37:25.840 with antidepressants uh i dated a woman that should have been on antidepressants okay this

00:37:36.000 woman she had severe anxiety and that led to her asking questions all the time every single day

00:37:46.800 every part huh can we role play it uh okay yeah sure i just want to i want to i want to feel how

00:37:54.560 it went so you're just hanging out and what'd you do oh okay so so so if i'm her i would say

00:38:02.320 so um so what's on your mind nothing

00:38:09.160 really yeah nothing so so but what's on your mind though i want to know i'm not thinking of anything

00:38:19.900 so

00:38:22.240 you don't want me here do you when did i say that

00:38:29.480 do you want me to leave because i think you want me to leave why would i want you to leave

00:38:35.680 because when i asked you it was on your mind you said nothing but i know there's something

00:38:42.420 on your mind but you won't tell me but there's nothing on my mind so so you don't want me here

00:38:48.320 i see what you said so that i i have drugs for you that's how it would go or if we okay i made

00:38:59.480 a plan so why are we going there okay what would you decide that oh let me let me pretend okay

00:39:06.860 we're going to the park today so you want to go to the park yes i do why

00:39:15.500 because i thought it would be fun we could watch you know the sunset and it'd be very romantic

00:39:23.860 but did you really think about what what i wanted to do or is that what you want to do like did you

00:39:33.040 think of that did you really think that that was what we would want to do today i didn't think

00:39:37.780 about you at all i thought about what i wanted to do i wanted to go to the park but why though

00:39:42.100 i guess i'm going myself and that's how it would because she's one of those where so a lot of

00:39:50.860 modern women especially a lot of professional modern women every way a man contributes to

00:39:56.560 their life has to be negotiated and questioned and the the and saint kevin samuels even said

00:40:02.080 a woman will ask you so many questions that it gets to the point where we're at the minimum

00:40:08.540 it's annoying at the maximum it's emasculating and a lot of these women with severe anxiety

00:40:14.220 that's exactly what they do and i i don't think that it's severe anxiety i i just think it's a

00:40:21.740 control thing i think a lot of these guys don't let a woman question you too much and also that's

00:40:29.420 how you can tell if a woman so if a woman says she wants to be married but she questions a man

00:40:35.820 all the time she wants a wife and not a husband was she's i'm imagining someone soft-spoken

00:40:44.620 but annoying am i right or did she yell at you yes so women that ask a lot of questions

00:40:52.140 they don't raise their voice a lot of times at the beginning oh they do later and then and then

00:40:59.260 they ask you questions they start to immaculate you and then you just get annoyed to the point

00:41:04.780 where you have some kind of reaction and when they get a reaction they're like oh my god what's

00:41:09.660 wrong with you so you've been asking me questions for the past 45 minutes so what was it like

00:41:14.380 dumping her can we role play that you know it was actually pretty easy we ended up being long

00:41:21.180 distance and she um she's asked way too many questions i had to fly out there and it was

00:41:31.340 costing me money to fly out there and right before i was about to go out there she's literally

00:41:36.700 questioning you know why we were even talking for the 100th time or she kept bringing up things that

00:41:43.100 i thought were already in the past and i just said i'm not coming out there sorry so she made

00:41:47.180 it real easy but it was just the questions over and over and over again there is no answer good

00:41:53.340 enough and you'd be surprised the type of questions that women can come up with when they have severe

00:41:59.660 anxiety was she always was she always she she said that she took lexapro once and then

00:42:07.660 that showed her out but it was only for like 90 days well how was she during the 90 days did you

00:42:14.540 see her then or no i mean i didn't i didn't talk to her then but she said that it showed her out

00:42:20.540 but she didn't keep taking it you kind of wish she did though i would have liked to have seen that

00:42:27.980 though and and think about is she smoked marijuana sometimes but it didn't chill her out so i'm like

00:42:34.540 what's the point of you smoking if it's not chilling you out like what's the point

00:42:42.300 but yeah constant questions over and over and over again it just gets to the point where it

00:42:46.780 just gets annoying that don't be with a woman who questions you constantly you want a woman

00:42:53.980 who's on your team and the number one way for a woman to show you that she's not on your team is

00:42:58.300 by questioning you all the time got it so you said take the drugs lady so do you think that drugs

00:43:06.940 help them then is that your opinion second is it your opinion that drugs help us more than hurt us

00:43:15.420 no okay so like normally you would say no but just in that case here's the thing um modern women so

00:43:22.860 there's the journey of a man right the journey of a man is you turn 16 you get a job and you

00:43:28.620 work till you're dead guys hopefully along the way you get a highly valued skill highly valued

00:43:34.460 trade highly value education and you you become the best version of yourself to be able to live

00:43:41.100 life on your terms or support a family if you so choose now modern women think that they want that

00:43:46.620 smoke because guys most of us living the journey of a man we don't get any kind of recognition

00:43:52.220 until you're in the ground right so modern women want to come out here and fight uh in the world

00:43:58.620 the men they find out how hard it is that this feminism thing is a one-way trip and usually right

00:44:04.780 around the 35 when they smash into the wall they start taking drugs it's getting the life of a man

00:44:11.340 is harsh and women can't handle it it's getting to 40s for millennial i see women popping out a kid

00:44:16.620 at 40. i'm like jesus christ you guys are going oh oh yeah beaten cheeks two oh the band beaten

00:44:26.380 cheeks one beaten cheeks two uh aj and i are brothers in real life so that's why we sound the

00:44:34.220 same anyway but yeah yeah so i i think that women if if they they think i'm supposed to sum this up

00:44:45.020 we are in the great experiment right where women my age i'm in my mid 40s and younger can truly

00:44:51.400 live life alone now do they really want to the experiment is is they're going to find out but

00:44:59.880 once again this is a one-way trip feminism is a one-way trip you can't go back especially after

00:45:06.620 35 and they they just don't they've never had to cope and deal uh like men have so they get on drugs

00:45:18.860 who's who's on the call is there how many okay so matt are you there unmute yeah i'm right here

00:45:27.260 matt matt how's it going it's been good keeping busy good to see you again

00:45:34.540 nah good to see you too nice to hear it from you what's your thought on the topic

00:45:41.500 um have you dated ever dated a woman who's been on uh ssris uh not ssris but some kind of an

00:45:51.100 antidepressant okay and this was back in 2004 and this is this is a this is a pretty up story

00:45:58.940 so when i was uh in okay i just finished high school you know i'm just walked into the army i

00:46:08.380 am i am just jet set working towards engineering more specifically electrical like i want to do

00:46:15.020 electrical since before i could masturbate okay so like this is like in my blood all right and

00:46:21.580 And what ended up happening was one day I'm sitting in the University of Winnipeg,

00:46:28.280 and there was this girl that took to me.

00:46:32.460 This is back in like 2004, okay?

00:46:36.700 And she was in my physics class.

00:46:39.980 And I don't know how, but we kind of hit it off a little bit.

00:46:44.080 She was really into me.

00:46:45.180 and and i'm just like i got this i got this this feeling in the back of my head you know like the

00:46:52.700 back of your tonsils that you can tell that like something is not quite right and what was it was

00:46:57.980 it her speech patterns was it like she seemed like what what stood out to you that made you think that

00:47:05.900 well first of all i i'm not attracted to girls with long hair okay okay i don't know why but

00:47:13.420 i detest it but you know what i just kind of went first time yeah i've never heard that i know i

00:47:19.740 don't know i like i don't care like i don't care how old you are i don't care what color your hair

00:47:24.780 is it could it could be great okay as long as it's long i can keep i can hold my attraction to you

00:47:31.580 it's just it's just that way with me i don't know why but for some whatever reason i kind of went

00:47:35.980 against that because she had really short hair she was kind of uh into the whole goth thing but she

00:47:41.500 wasn't totally goth you know and she just got a tattoo on her arm the something about portraying

00:47:48.220 to lord of the rings kind of thing which is like okay this is a little weird but okay i'm gonna

00:47:54.460 i'm gonna give her a chance here for a little bit just to kind of see what's going on

00:47:58.540 and i kind of strung her along for a long time i like she was so into me uh like i had i had

00:48:05.660 i had this girl actually doing all my physics homework which was gosh i don't know how but

00:48:13.020 i managed to convince her to do do stuff um like with all my school work and stuff and i just you

00:48:19.180 know just couldn't i don't know why something's going on or whatever it is and she had some family

00:48:27.020 issues or whatever it was and i says just one day one day i'm sitting in class i'm sitting in the

00:48:33.020 back a lot she's sitting at the front and she's upset about something i don't know what it is

00:48:37.980 can't quite figure it out and and she had scratched her wrist in class like she was almost like trying

00:48:45.820 to cut the veins open at her wrist what i'm not kidding i'm not kidding in the class she was she

00:48:53.500 had scars on her arms already yeah and nobody nobody was noticing it but i i guess for some

00:48:59.820 whatever reason like okay when when i was in the forces and i just started basic i was in my base

00:49:04.700 it came back out kind of thing so they teach you attention to detail okay and when you come out of

00:49:10.860 that training i'm telling you it's just like you're hyper vigilant to every every little thing

00:49:18.700 that you about somebody or anything around you you just can't turn that off okay and i noticed

00:49:23.980 i just don't remember and i noticed that there was these scratches on her wrist she was slowly

00:49:29.740 fucking trying to cut herself in the fucking class okay was she a savage in the sack though

00:49:41.580 i honestly honestly when i saw when i saw that that on her wrist i'm like you know what i don't

00:49:50.700 think i should stick my dick in this oh you didn't well well that's a good idea yeah those guys can't

00:49:55.900 resist the temptation so good on you believe me i believe me i i haven't i haven't had the whole

00:50:01.580 in and out in like 20 years okay so i'm like i'm okay i can hold out i know most men can't do what

00:50:07.660 i can do okay but i get it but i know there i there's this like there is like i said something

00:50:13.660 was off and i knew she she was on some kind of antidepressant and this girl was into me and i

00:50:19.740 just like you know what he's just like you can tell and tell if it's like sorry we got to cut

00:50:24.220 the off i don't want to talk to you anymore this is you're just you're like a hazard like i can

00:50:29.420 see myself going 10 years down the line next thing you know like what's that guy so you get a pot of

00:50:33.660 boiling hot water while you're spraying at you in bed kind of thing like i could see that happening

00:50:39.260 in like 20 30 years with this girl you know it's just i can't believe she's trying to cut herself

00:50:48.780 out in the that's crazy that's weird i was in class too and nobody noticed nobody is that

00:50:54.860 noticed is that the only one that you've dated or have you dated anyone else on antidepressants

00:51:00.220 there was uh another girl back when i was like in grade seven that was into me that had father

00:51:06.380 issues and daddy issues and i'm sorry and and she was a couple of other guys around

00:51:12.780 there but she was really into me and she had some kind of using uh was it uh

00:51:21.900 dex not there's something called dexterion or something like that so it's a a brand of medicine

00:51:26.620 that's only sold in canada that was she was on to it and i'm like okay this is finding out that

00:51:33.580 her body count was climbing um you know and i was only for 13 14 15 years old and i'm like

00:51:42.220 shit man we can't i don't know why but i'm done i just like brutal yeah this is particularly pearl

00:51:49.900 like 14 years old i know that's crazy is out like god damn yeah you heard the stat earlier where um

00:52:01.420 during the cough cough you know prescription drugs for women teenagers at 15 to 25 increased by 126

00:52:11.340 no that i didn't know about but during from 2020 to 2023 isn't that insane that is insane yeah it

00:52:19.140 is and you know we we have a couple of other people on the line okay it's actually back so

00:52:26.100 so stay in the chat it will stay in the room because i know it does sound better in here

00:52:31.420 but i'm going to move on to marvin are you there marvin how's it going uh good evening folks how's

00:52:40.660 everything good how are you oh just caught me at the right time heading to my graveyard shift

00:52:48.340 nice have you dated a woman on ssris not necessarily but i did have some past

00:52:57.060 relations in my early 20s with a couple young ladies that were anti-depressant i guess you

00:53:05.540 could call it but i didn't know about this as i progressed with them in the relationship

00:53:12.100 they did not tell me up front and in the long run they all changed for the worst

00:53:19.940 and i just couldn't be um i couldn't tolerate it anymore so to say

00:53:25.700 the whole time or did they ever get off their meds like what caused them to change um i didn't

00:53:33.780 didn't even know they had meds is what i'm saying they're they will always keep everything away from

00:53:37.700 me it's kind of like hiding something so i was always the kind of guy i had to go to do my own

00:53:44.900 investigations like a police officer kind of status or things and then i get my truth so

00:53:50.520 a lot of work but eventually i found out they've been lying the whole time and

00:53:55.940 they love to manipulate things and i just i couldn't take it how did you find out

00:54:01.520 through people through neighbors someone's got a someone's playing by the stream in the background

00:54:10.080 someone's going to wait please mute okay through uh neighbors and other people okay that's all i

00:54:18.880 found out wow and it didn't i didn't like it it just was very toxic for everything and it just

00:54:29.760 it was just not a it was not a path i wanted to continue what was the craziest thing that she did

00:54:38.560 uh basically manipulating things she'll make up stories like oh she's like oh you don't got time

00:54:44.880 for me you work too much oh you're seeing other women but in reality i wasn't seeing all the

00:54:50.080 male was seeing her but i'm more like an old school kind of a guy i don't believe in you

00:54:55.040 know being a player even though many women in the past accused me that i was a player including my

00:54:59.600 past exes and i never was they were the players the whole time they were just they were just very

00:55:04.240 manipulative so they would not be 100 with me but i'll be 100 with them okay yeah that's how that's

00:55:15.200 how i went down so eventually i broke up with my majority of these ones that were on antidepressant

00:55:21.680 because it was hard to deal with i don't know any man even at this age that will want to put up with

00:55:27.280 that there are just be single like like greg adams free agents you know that kind of status

00:55:33.200 yeah that makes sense well thanks for calling in okay yeah one more thing before i go pro it's

00:55:40.800 kind of important um you're saying you're going to be raising the prices um my payroll doesn't

00:55:46.960 kick in till probably sometime friday afternoon after my work and usually i could pay my bills

00:55:54.320 first before i can even afford a membership so if you go up um how can i keep into a very stabilized

00:56:02.160 uh rate grandfather in what i'm going up because after that i won't be able to afford it

00:56:06.880 um so you said you're you get paid friday yeah afternoon for my my work yeah i said i'd move it

00:56:14.080 to sunday i think someone asked and i said i would would that work if i move it to sunday

00:56:19.360 that should work so i got a question i know you said it's ten dollars a month for the

00:56:24.480 for the monthly 10 what if i pay 40 will that work for like in increments for four months or

00:56:30.980 how does that work um the people that join the on the website right now you can you will for life

00:56:39.420 be able to go into the the calendar so i'm just going to keep everyone's email and so that you'll

00:56:47.040 you'll be able to go on the live streams essentially next month so um is it going to be on

00:56:54.080 a ten dollar if i or if i pay a forty dollar for the last four months i mean how's that going to

00:56:58.960 work i mean as far as well it's either well you can just stay on the ten dollar one and then you

00:57:04.720 can you'll be in it okay so like the ten dollar the ten dollar one's fine okay that sounds more

00:57:13.120 better yeah okay i'm gonna see what happens saturday or sunday i should be able to uh sign

00:57:18.080 up for it okay okay cool all's iphone are you there unmute thank you have a good night

00:57:29.200 thanks barbin yep all's iphone are you there unmute

00:57:37.280 is it al's a-l-l al's iphone

00:57:43.440 al's iphone are you there okay norway are you there unmute uh hello do you hear me yeah i can

00:57:51.120 hear you oh wow hi hi norway how are you i'm fine thank you i i was really not prepared for this but

00:57:59.760 um i saw the subject and uh it's something i've been wanting to talk about for a very long time so

00:58:06.560 even though it's 5 40 a.m here in norway i i thought i'd call in sure so uh so basically

00:58:13.120 you want me to just tell my story or yeah um so you've dated a woman on ssris before

00:58:18.720 yeah can you hear me by the way yeah was it yeah was it was it casual dating or was it a serious

00:58:24.720 relationship this is so um well yeah i've met several uh women who were on antidepressants

00:58:34.480 i remember my mom took it for a few months when i was a teenager and i was uh was horrible so i

00:58:40.800 should have known better but this was a girl who i had lived with for like five years six years

00:58:47.120 seven years, we were sure we were going to get married and have children and everything.

00:58:51.360 And I was having a rough time in my life, so I asked her to move out for a bit. And I thought

00:58:57.360 she would like come back and, oh, I miss you. And that didn't work out. She got depressed because

00:59:01.760 this was lockdown. And when she came back, finally, she asked me to check out this medication and

00:59:09.440 just let her know if it changed her personality. And it did. So the first time she took it,

00:59:16.720 she just uh i remember she had this sort of a shock reaction her body she started crying and

00:59:23.360 she she didn't know why i even had to hold her down sometimes because she would be shaking and

00:59:30.160 like it was really bad and it was on 10 milligrams of lexapro which is a really common

00:59:37.120 ssri it's called eschitalopram or cipralex here in norway

00:59:40.560 and her doctor just said well continue taking it you have to take more for longer

00:59:46.220 and then I stopped noticing the effect and I thought it was fine but we were going on vacation

00:59:54.920 and she went down before me and when I came down after her I just you know she just completely

01:00:03.320 snapped there's something like it completely changed her personality she used to be like the

01:00:08.780 kindest, warmest, most caring, considerate person ever.

01:00:14.780 And now I was trying to get in contact with her and she seemed busy.

01:00:18.280 She was at a party or something.

01:00:19.780 And I said, if there's another guy now, I'm just going home.

01:00:22.280 I'm not going to put up with this.

01:00:24.280 And she just completely lost it, sent me some messages.

01:00:28.780 I'm not going to put up with this.

01:00:30.780 And I ended up just walking around,

01:00:32.780 not knowing where we had our hotel room for days, you know.

01:00:38.280 If she was kind and warm, why did she end up on Lexapro?

01:00:44.600 Did she ever tell you?

01:00:46.000 Yeah, like she went to a psychiatrist.

01:00:48.600 She was going out of depression.

01:00:51.960 Was it a man or a woman?

01:00:54.060 The psychiatrist?

01:00:55.580 Yes.

01:00:56.520 Yeah, he's a man.

01:00:57.840 Oh.

01:00:58.820 Yeah.

01:00:59.160 That's surprising.

01:00:59.700 But he was like a young hotshot and he was famous for writing research reports.

01:01:06.900 some of them get big pharma influence yeah some of them get paid for prescriptions so they just

01:01:16.860 like the guy at our school would just hand out adderall like it was candy

01:01:20.900 i mean i know it's an antidepressant but i can't imagine that's great for you

01:01:25.880 yeah but can i just i'm sorry for going on for so long because it's a long story

01:01:30.720 it's okay go ahead like yeah so eventually i went home i was furious turned out she'd given my room

01:01:37.360 to some other guy she met on the beach give me like four more minutes because we have we have

01:01:41.680 we have other people calling in but go ahead okay i'm sorry sorry sorry um anyway i was furious but

01:01:47.600 i realized something was wrong and like four weeks later i knew she had no place to stay i had to go

01:01:52.880 down there and find her and she was manic like it was a trigon mania and it does that so i had to

01:01:58.000 research it and there are many research reports saying that the like SSRIs can trigger mania even

01:02:03.760 if you're not bipolar they can trigger mania and so ever since that i've been trying to get her off

01:02:09.280 the antidepressants but it's been like hell and she's tried to quit them many many times it

01:02:14.080 completely changes her personality like anger like temper tantrums where she really tries to kill you

01:02:22.160 and cannot calm down and it's like it has this horrible effect but it's so hard to quit

01:02:27.520 So she's tried to quit it many times, but she just gives up. And it's like, I want to warn

01:02:33.280 everybody because I've seen like, I've seen girls on drugs and all that stuff, but I would,

01:02:39.200 I'm much more afraid of just SSRIs than like speed or like these other recreational drugs.

01:02:48.080 Cause it changed her personality completely. Wow.

01:02:51.040 Yeah. It's like, it becomes a different person, like much more selfish. Like I can see how it

01:02:56.560 makes you go out more and be more active but it it does that by just turning off your um

01:03:04.240 like regulatory apparatus you don't down regulate when you should and it's uh it's really scary it's

01:03:11.680 just really scary can i ask one last question how are you sure how did you try to navigate the

01:03:16.800 conversation with your mother about her ssris was she a complete denial would she get angry about

01:03:23.600 the conversation how did that yeah well well that's that's kind of interesting because uh

01:03:28.000 obviously at the time my parents were going through a divorce that's why she got on them

01:03:32.080 and so it was like turbulent we didn't really focus that much on the medication but i told her

01:03:37.120 she changed and she got off it but now in retrospect like 20 years later she's really

01:03:42.400 sorry for that period but it took that long for her to realize that she was acting like she was just

01:03:48.400 not taking care of us the way she should um but it took like 20 years to realize that

01:03:55.440 so did she apologize and get off the ssris or what yeah sure yeah she's really sorry about

01:04:02.400 it now she wants to like warn people about the drug but it takes so long because it changes

01:04:06.480 your personality so it's gonna feel like things make sense that you really shouldn't be doing

01:04:12.160 and it takes a long time for your brain to just adjust and realize what you've done i think

01:04:19.840 yeah um thank you justin for signing up i just want to put that but um wow that's crazy how long

01:04:31.040 how did she ever how long till she went off it 20 years she's no my mom or my my ex-girlfriend

01:04:38.720 the ex-girlfriend she's still on it so she's she's warning she's warning people about the drug but

01:04:44.880 she's still on it no my mother is warning people about the drug oh your mother my ex-girlfriend

01:04:50.800 she's she's complete like she she she's now more attracted to like the drug uh yeah okay

01:04:57.360 drug scene wait wait so so your mom is warning people from the drug uh away from the drug but

01:05:03.920 you had a girlfriend who was on it how'd that work you know i i was so stupid i trusted the

01:05:10.640 doctor and i shouldn't have trusted the doctor the doctor just said she has to take more she

01:05:14.400 has to take it for longer but it turned her into like it's completely crazy she's like in a state

01:05:20.400 of like permanent almost psychosis it's it's horrible so we wrote to the to the doctors and

01:05:26.960 everything but you know there are so many doctors especially here in norway because feminism is

01:05:31.600 really big in norway so it's all about like you have to be a strong independent woman you shouldn't

01:05:36.960 rely on anyone if you're independent that's good and so on so when she just destroys all her

01:05:42.320 friendships and relationships um nobody nobody really corrects that the way they should you

01:05:49.520 know it's like oh so you you got up today at least you got out you did something you went traveling

01:05:55.040 that's good so it's very very difficult and especially when the person doesn't want to

01:05:59.440 quit it's like with drugs you know if someone is on drugs and they don't want to quit it's it's

01:06:04.560 how can you help them it's uh oh god you can't how so so one of the things with alcoholics

01:06:11.120 is that alcohol is socially accepted you know you can just go for a drink and stuff is it is it to

01:06:16.880 the point in norway where like ssris are just socially accepted because socially accepted drugs

01:06:22.880 are really hard it makes it even worse for people to quit yeah you think you know the the thing

01:06:28.320 about norway and i think scandinavia in general is people people trust the government and they trust

01:06:34.400 authority because we're used to having it good we're used to the welfare state and all that

01:06:37.840 stuff right so whenever you say this drug that your doctor gave you might be bad well people

01:06:43.920 will look at you funny like it's conspiracy theory and you're crazy and so it's really

01:06:49.600 really hard to to get through with a message like that

01:06:55.280 okay but really i think ssris on the rise but it's not something that most people are aware of

01:07:01.840 it's just when you and i've been i've gone home with girls also and i see like this same drug in

01:07:08.160 their bathroom you gotta do what you gotta do you know always check that medicine cabinet guys

01:07:15.920 you know honestly ladies check the medicine cabinet too there could be herpes meds in there

01:07:22.080 you don't know i know i mean ladies you gotta you gotta you gotta i had a a guy actually i'll tell

01:07:29.600 the story a different day there there is people send me in their submissions about their life

01:07:34.320 and some of these men are reckless i'll just say that the women are too but oh my god check the

01:07:40.560 medicine cabinets um i think we got to go to the next caller but thanks for calling in yeah sure

01:07:47.600 thanks okay uh gabe i'm you hi hey gabe what's going on doing good how are you guys i'm good

01:08:01.360 um tell me have you dated a woman on ssris or what or do you know someone that's on them

01:08:08.160 so this might sound a little odd because i keep thinking back to some of my um

01:08:17.440 sorry my brain is haywire today so i apologize if i'm super slow i think back to you got five

01:08:28.280 minutes go for it okay okay okay so i think um speed up the brain a little bit go ahead okay

01:08:34.220 okay yeah so i've been thinking about back in high school where there was one particular chick that

01:08:44.860 was a uh blocker because she didn't like that i liked her friend basically

01:08:53.340 come to find out later on that she eventually like

01:08:56.780 ended it all as we'll put it that way and i've long suspected whether or not she was on

01:09:06.460 any sort of like drugs of any kind like what i've been hearing in this type of situation but i

01:09:15.820 really am very suspicious of whether or not all of these factors play a role

01:09:22.700 in what i'm currently seeing as a college student when i'm meeting like any girls at school that

01:09:31.720 basically might fit into these stereotypes especially if they openly will have like

01:09:42.500 telltale like red flag warning signs like on their laptops or backpacks that basically

01:09:52.980 say that they are like a feminist or modern woman so it's really really tough out there

01:10:02.300 got it makes sense yeah it's really tough um okay um where did okay tomo unmute

01:10:17.180 tomo

01:10:20.480 tomo unmute okay he's not gonna okay so warren

01:10:31.280 hello can you hear me yeah we can hear you okay great i just i didn't think you'd get to me that

01:10:38.600 quick i just clicked on it and i didn't have anything set up here uh well i don't uh if you

01:10:44.620 guys don't mind just tell me if you don't want to be off topic but there's something just happened

01:10:47.760 here you guys might find interesting i found it interesting just about the uh the general state

01:10:52.660 of uh emails in general these days so well just real quick do you have anything to say

01:10:59.140 about the topic at all before you move to a different uh i haven't dated anybody on ssris

01:11:05.040 uh i've worked with a gang of women that i would swear on them what in what industry

01:11:12.740 um hospitality okay since i'm a shift by trade okay that'll do it and then and then what is your

01:11:20.160 why do you think that by the time women are in their 40s almost over one in four women end up

01:11:28.220 unnecessarily why you think that is just real quick uh well i mean i mean isn't that what

01:11:35.340 the whole nanosphere is about you know that i think you said earlier didn't you that we're in

01:11:41.200 the great experiment you know where these women we've never seen it before you've never seen this

01:11:45.380 amount of single women at that age you know that are completely delusional i'm 55 years old i don't

01:11:51.720 even try to date anymore it's a train wreck i could sit here and fill you guys about 15 streams

01:11:56.900 with stories so you know um they're just completely out of touch with reality you know that they they

01:12:03.540 look at the social media and they're completely convinced that they're gonna get divorced at 45 50

01:12:08.820 get back out there in the market and they're gonna have you know a fairytale deal and then when it

01:12:13.380 doesn't come they're just they go out of their minds good luck okay okay now you got four minutes

01:12:21.060 what topic did you want to cover well uh so on monday here and uh i'm going to try to keep it

01:12:26.900 like as anonymous as possible because you'll understand it's kind of sensitive uh my neighbor

01:12:33.700 um my neighbor up above me i live on an acreage here everybody's got a few acres or whatnot

01:12:39.220 so we're not all side by side my neighbor up above me calls me and says hey what's going on

01:12:43.380 at the other neighbor's place there's a couple of cop cars down there i hadn't even looked outside

01:12:47.060 all day so i look out there's a couple cars so i walk down and uh the ambulance was there too

01:12:53.700 and uh i'm not i'm not latino but i lived in latin america for many years i speak very fluent

01:12:58.420 spanish and they're mexican and i know them well i actually sold them their house that they live in

01:13:03.620 and uh uh mom was out on the porch there they can't talk to her so i walk up to translate and

01:13:10.420 her daughter had just shot herself in the head she's 13 years old

01:13:12.820 and uh come to find out that um of course they look into it everything and what happened

01:13:19.900 you know that they treated like a crime scene first just to make sure it was a suicide

01:13:23.820 and it turns out that she had a a breakup with her boyfriend um her best friend supposedly

01:13:31.160 started dating him right away she had words with her best friend the best friend said why don't

01:13:34.620 you go just kill yourself then so she came home from school that day and did it oh my goodness

01:13:39.780 and come to find out that there's been now this is this is a rural county there's only like not

01:13:43.860 even 60 000 people in this county and it's in a very conservative area you know we're not talking

01:13:49.540 uh you know a liberal area where you think you know that this is the bible belt you know where

01:13:54.260 things are totally out of sorts these are small towns you know in the south and it turns out that

01:13:58.980 in the last i think three months there's been two other girls that have also killed themselves

01:14:03.620 basically due to bullying and uh i'm just like you know wow man i mean this stuff is it's off

01:14:10.420 the charts you know it is completely out of control you know and i don't think there's going

01:14:15.060 to be there's probably going to be a bunch of feel good meetings and you know get the kids

01:14:18.660 counselors and this and that but is there going to be any real remedy like you know get these kids

01:14:24.100 off the phones man i mean yeah what are they supposed to do because the thing is if they don't

01:14:30.980 like i don't think the gen z can really have a normal social life if they don't have their

01:14:35.460 phones like they wouldn't get invited to anything like they they all talk they all talk they all

01:14:40.820 talk through snapchat like that i i asked my youngest sister she's a decade younger than me

01:14:46.660 if like someone could be normal in high school and not have a phone and she just said no there's no

01:14:53.140 way so i don't even so i don't even know what the solution is you know i don't know what the

01:15:00.340 solution is either but we're not going for a the road in front does not look rosy i'll tell you

01:15:05.380 that yeah this is good this is this is going to come to a head hey girl would it would it be

01:15:12.020 unacceptable if i shouted out my bitch shoot channel your what my bitch shoot channel i i

01:15:17.780 most of the stuff i post is kind of a little too politically incorrect for youtube but would you

01:15:21.940 you're at or I'm not sure you can if it's quick sure yeah I've made a no yeah just a quick shout

01:15:28.280 it's the same name as as I use on my YouTube channel a servant all one word in Babylon I make

01:15:34.500 I've made quite a few anti-feminist videos on there you guys might find uh informative cool

01:15:41.500 okay okay thanks for having me on guys I love you Pearl yeah thanks for calling in yeah I've

01:15:47.600 been following you since the beginning keep knocking it out of the park get the heaters

01:15:50.240 for doing it right thanks i back you up every time i've gone back for you so many times in the

01:15:54.520 manosphere you have no idea you owe me something oh yeah okay i'll keep that in mind thank you so

01:16:00.980 much you bet y'all take care bye bye al's iphone i see your hand up are you ready yes sir my

01:16:09.880 apologies about before oh it's okay what's up bro what's up i appreciate y'all work that y'all do

01:16:16.120 Yeah. Thanks for calling in. What's your thoughts on the topic? Have you dated a woman on antidepressants

01:16:22.180 before? I think a lot of, yeah, I have. Yes. To answer your question. Yes, I have. I think a lot

01:16:27.980 of guys have and haven't noticed it. So were the women that you dated, was it serious or just

01:16:36.380 casual? There was two, there was one that was serious and I'm pretty sure the other two was

01:16:43.560 casual. And what were they like? Were they on the antidepressants for the whole relationship or did

01:16:50.160 they get on during it? One was undeniable. It was, she basically, well, let me put it like this,

01:16:58.540 layman's terms, I take psychedelics. So I'm very privy to, I guess you could say,

01:17:04.360 neurotropics already. So I meet a young lady on one of these dating sites and she wants to take

01:17:12.960 some psychedelic still and and that's how eventually it came out that she was on

01:17:20.240 per se what do you call it uh uh prozac prozac was it and what was the name that you called the

01:17:29.920 the the ssrs um was it go was it prozac doug prozac i don't know lexapro that was another one

01:17:38.960 ssr ssrs oh yeah that too okay okay but a lot of times i think a lot of guys don't

01:17:49.300 like what i said before like i didn't know until she told me on the psychotropics

01:17:54.720 and they and ladies will live their day-to-day not telling anybody get into

01:18:00.740 relationships and uh situationships with a lot of different people and don't express

01:18:06.840 like they're going through something they have other things underlying issues that and i think

01:18:11.740 a lot of guys miss that when dating uh these ladies and just be just gotta be frivolous just

01:18:17.520 gotta be understanding that everybody goes through things but a lot of times people are scared to tell

01:18:21.840 you what they're going through so to speak and what were they like on the drugs what was they

01:18:28.620 life yeah one of the ladies was very uh she will i guess when you take one is it's in replace of a

01:18:39.420 it takes something away from your neural synasters i guess you would say and you have to replace it

01:18:44.620 with something so she was on like four different type of prescriptions at the time so you you

01:18:50.860 really don't get the whole person but they'll replace like certain aspects in life like certain

01:18:56.380 conversations like the gentleman was talking about before like well the conversation wouldn't go so

01:19:00.700 like when y'all try to role play and how it was like kind of like it was staggered so to speak

01:19:07.340 so a lot of times when they they'll know they'll have like social cues and they'll know they start

01:19:12.300 staggering and they'll go on like god conflicts they'll start talking about the bible or or

01:19:18.860 yeah or is it deflection it could be a lot of life so you you said that you're into psychotropics

01:19:24.060 and stuff do you do you see a woman on ssris as a red flag or do you just see as something that

01:19:30.540 that you have to navigate you it's uh like i i'm i'm like i said i'm a different case

01:19:37.740 i'm sorry about the study but it's definitely a different case when i have a starter too so don't

01:19:41.660 worry about it because i don't think you have a set i think it's i don't have a stutter either

01:19:46.060 it's just being on knowing that no no i do for sure you could be great when you do it actually

01:19:52.540 great with it uh but the the concept what was the question again my fault my apologies oh so you

01:19:58.620 know i know you're into psychotropics and other type other things but do you if you see a woman

01:20:03.580 who's attractive and you know you're talking to her and stuff and she says i'm on ssris do you

01:20:09.020 see that as a red flag or or do you just see it as something to navigate everybody well for me

01:20:17.420 personally if if if a young lady is not even having the same diet or working out that's something that

01:20:23.740 is like a no-go for me you think i'm saying so i've been plant-based for seven years

01:20:29.820 and if you already know sometimes it's just the food like you said for her before

01:20:34.220 she probably just needs to stop eating like it was like some harsh thing to say

01:20:38.620 but like sometimes it's like a harsh thing you would to tell people but i have learned

01:20:44.220 like it's better to tell people the truth than to kind of like like spoon feed them and lie to them

01:20:49.020 or whatever it's like like get it out the way and a lot of times that's what a lot of fellas are

01:20:52.700 missing and pearl i know you have like the years that you've been doing this i know respects to

01:20:57.900 you guys p you too pa for three for three years that you've been in is this is a difficult topic

01:21:04.540 to stay into and help people because a lot of times people don't want to look into self and be

01:21:10.620 like well i have a problem too like a lot you already know like a pearl and some of these guys

01:21:15.580 have they're socially awkward so a lot of hard times with ladies and then when it comes to social

01:21:22.700 often is for fellas actually trying to help like me i don't try to help i help gentlemen i'd be

01:21:27.980 like yo go get that girl go get it she's she's not anything indifferent from you and get back on my

01:21:34.060 My father, my father, I thought I'd go on a tangent.

01:21:36.660 No, it's not hard for me to navigate

01:21:39.180 because I can talk to these ladies through their issues.

01:21:43.240 But a lot of gentlemen that don't know

01:21:44.640 how to verbally express themselves,

01:21:46.260 but like, yo, listen, listen, young lady.

01:21:49.800 Like, listen, like you have, not me.

01:21:54.080 I know what's going on and they just don't want to tell you.

01:21:56.780 And that's something, yeah, you already know.

01:21:59.620 That's something that a lot of guys just gotta understand.

01:22:02.400 They don't notice. Yeah, you got to stay on purpose. You got to stay on purpose. If you stay on on game

01:22:08.360 You'll just things and they'll get behind your game. But a lot of times. No, it's not for me

01:22:13.220 It's not hard, but I get it though. I get where I feel I feel the difficulty in the dating situations

01:22:21.080 Okay, okay

01:22:23.080 Thank you for sharing. We appreciate it. Yeah, thanks for sharing

01:22:28.240 You guys have a great one

01:22:30.240 keep up bro thank you no problem ellie's ellie's doug ellie's sleeping on the chair it's so cute

01:22:38.560 divinity unmute

01:22:42.680 hello everybody how's it going good to hear from you again how are you

01:22:49.420 i'm doing well oh god bless everybody listening how's it going divinity

01:22:56.580 yeah i'm doing well how are you doing girl i'm good what's your thoughts on the topic

01:23:05.860 have you ever been an ssris or someone you know um i'm not going to answer that question

01:23:14.740 because that's a personal question um but on the topic um i just want people to know that

01:23:22.820 witches are real and they do this to each other um on purpose to hurt young women just like how

01:23:31.860 the guy talked about women you know pitting each other against each other um you know if one guy

01:23:39.140 likes a girl another girl is gonna come in and say oh you can't like her you know and uh i even

01:23:46.900 experienced that when i was young so i think that's pretty interesting but i more had a question for

01:23:53.620 you um what is your thoughts on international woman's day coming up on saturday i don't really

01:24:02.740 care about it i mean i i think it's kind of stupid so okay yeah i don't really have a strong opinion

01:24:14.580 okay so you don't like feminists but do you like yourself as a woman

01:24:22.380 you're just here to argue okay can you next or okay thank you um i don't i mean you're not

01:24:32.700 on top you're not you're not you're not on topic so come on go to the next one okay

01:24:37.020 yeah get rid of it okay whoa who's talking right now

01:24:41.340 is that is that is that kate thompson is that you that was pretty rude

01:24:48.420 yeah it's me yeah okay i'm gonna kick her hold on keep it keep it classy but you're next okay but

01:24:57.460 pearl's gonna get rid of divinity here because that's just gonna go off the rails

01:25:02.220 If she's been watching Pearl for any length of time,

01:25:06.640 she already knows the answer to that question.

01:25:11.980 And Pearl's not in the mood to go back and forth with some

01:25:15.020 demons tonight.

01:25:19.340 Okay, so Kate Thompson, are you ready?

01:25:22.800 Have you ever dated a woman on SSRIs?

01:25:25.620 Or what do you think about women on SSRIs?

01:25:28.100 uh yes i have dated a woman on um ssris but i'd actually like to talk about my sister who was on

01:25:36.980 them for almost 15 years oh wow she's been for a couple years but long story short when she did

01:25:45.860 because i come from a family of of drug users and you know we all used to use drugs at one point in

01:25:52.640 time especially my sister but when my sister tried to come off the SSRIs it took her a few

01:25:59.680 times to come off them but she actually um the partner she was with she actually um

01:26:06.320 pretty much i could just say attempted murder and um spent quite a few years in custody because of

01:26:13.120 it you know so i think SSRIs are a complete detriment to women's mental health i think

01:26:20.160 it just makes them a lot worse um i'm gonna ask you the same question that i asked one of the

01:26:25.760 other guys um how socially is how socially acceptable is ssri where you're from and does

01:26:32.880 that make it harder for people that want to get off them to get off of it like your sister for

01:26:39.840 example yeah nah very very socially acceptable it's like the doctors just throw them at people

01:26:46.240 you know it's like the it's like the number one solution and even all the women that i know that

01:26:52.160 take them they actually encourage all their friends to take them as well wow you know so

01:26:58.720 they think it's like yeah it's completely insane bro have you ever taken have you ever been on

01:27:06.000 ssris or do you find it mostly women because i've never met i never met a guy who's taken prozac

01:27:13.200 relaxer for all not my life no mate no i've never taken any medication the only medication i've

01:27:20.080 taken is antibiotics when i'm super sick and that's about it bro okay so is your sister still

01:27:28.140 on the ssris or did she get off of them uh she's been off them for a few years since she come out

01:27:35.820 of custody but she's definitely a lot better but i can definitely see how the ssris how had have

01:27:43.440 still in some way affected her mental health because she was on him for such a long period

01:27:48.460 of time what was the biggest difference between her before she started and then when she got off

01:27:53.880 what's the biggest long long lasting effect uh she's definitely a lot more patient now

01:28:01.980 like um like mentally so she doesn't fly off the handle like she used to but she used to fly off

01:28:08.160 the handle like a snap of a finger mate you know and yeah they just they just used to make her very

01:28:15.180 violent you know so okay so um did your sister try to get women away from um SSRIs or does she

01:28:30.280 keep to herself uh well she definitely doesn't uh recommend them she doesn't really have a

01:28:37.640 a big group of like a big social circle you know but um but yes now she definitely now she

01:28:45.960 like she definitely thinks it was the wrong thing to do to start them in the first place you know

01:28:50.040 but it took her you know this long to actually come through and admit it so so is she sober or

01:28:58.040 Or did she replace the SSRIs with something else, alcohol, marijuana, anything like that?

01:29:05.720 She's sober now.

01:29:07.000 Yeah, I think she still drinks a bit, but that's about it.

01:29:10.200 But compared to what she used to do, because when she was on these SSRIs, you know,

01:29:16.000 they were using a lot of different illicit drugs, too, you know?

01:29:20.960 Okay.

01:29:21.140 but i still think the ssris were were probably like the most damaging to her mental health

01:29:29.440 and but that's just me and when she started it was it you say difficult where she went to a doctor

01:29:36.200 and the doctor's like here take this yeah pretty much like the first time she's seen the doctor

01:29:42.220 or the second time she was on um yeah a strong dose of i think it was prozac or maybe metazapine

01:29:51.020 or something like that yay it was probably prozac as prozac is the most common one is there you're

01:29:58.220 in australia right yes buddy is there because here you know we always talk about how there's

01:30:06.220 kind of agenda to over prescribe for money have they found that in australia where these doctors

01:30:13.340 are incentivized to over prescribe medications or no uh yeah definitely it's just certain

01:30:20.940 uh medications say like antidepressants and antipsychotics but i think um in america they've

01:30:28.640 got the the tendency to prescribe opioids like which you can't really get down here like the

01:30:34.200 oxycontin and stuff like that oh i didn't know that you know okay yeah it's very hard to get

01:30:39.080 them here man you know okay okay but ssris yeah they just throw them at people they think it's

01:30:46.160 solution you know in australia wow wow okay but that man you know okay well well thank you for

01:30:56.000 for calling in we really appreciate you calling anytime i'm going to move on to the next caller

01:31:02.240 stay at pearl see you doug bye thanks for calling in doug doug how many more people have we not gone

01:31:10.400 one two three okay let's do the last three okay dc are you there on mute

01:31:23.440 yeah uh hi you got five minutes bro go for it what do you think about the topics

01:31:30.640 yeah so uh i actually started uh hanging out with a colleague of mine

01:31:35.760 um and um it's a bit funny because i met sean bumble and i couldn't recognize her at all

01:31:42.160 because she photoshopped the picture so hard it's like you can tell it's the same person

01:31:49.040 and then oh i i'm not in america i'm in hong kong by the way okay so uh we had a lunch um in the

01:31:57.200 office and then you see he was saying some i think pretty wild things uh he was saying um i uh

01:32:08.240 i'm only friends with people that are still looking so i want like um we're sort of like

01:32:14.160 friends now so that's sort of me that you're below and i'm like i don't think it's a very nice thing

01:32:22.000 to say especially like honestly and then um she was saying um she's gonna go on a road trip with

01:32:29.680 her sister in uh in america and then there's gonna be a lot of expenses and was saying uh would you

01:32:35.600 like to sponsor me it's like whoa uh yeah so i was like no i'm i'm not dating this and she's not

01:32:45.280 practicing in the flesh either uh but then somehow um like hong kong went through some changes people

01:32:53.680 uh in the office um there's like a lot of chat to chat with people that you don't even know

01:32:59.520 usually work for so i become friends with a lot of the people on my floor and um so there's also

01:33:07.520 like a group hangout situation and then eventually i should hang out with her a lot more then i

01:33:13.280 realized uh two things um he was once uh diagnosed as clinically depressed and was on medication

01:33:21.680 when she was doing a university in australia and then um she she had a very troublesome

01:33:32.800 uh relationship with her mother so apparently her mother was clinically diagnosed with something

01:33:38.000 um he told me in chinese so it was like mania um and then one of her interactions with the mother

01:33:46.240 was that her mother would slap her so hard she would get no sleep because she wasn't

01:33:51.600 concentrating on studying uh yeah so that's a very weird uh mother-daughter dynamic and then

01:34:00.320 And that also sort of overstills to her.

01:34:04.100 So when she was diagnosed as depressed,

01:34:09.100 I think she was on medication,

01:34:11.100 but then she stopped it.

01:34:14.500 Fast forward for like 10-ish years,

01:34:17.020 like when you're in uni,

01:34:20.120 you're usually 20-something years old.

01:34:22.460 And when I met her,

01:34:23.740 she was like 30, 34-ish.

01:34:27.240 She was telling me that he would sometimes, wouldn't sleep at night, he would sit up and just, verbatim in her word, tears would just roll down on her face and she would just start trying to know a family person.

01:34:45.880 So, reiterate, how is this girl a part of your life again?

01:34:51.660 She's a colleague of mine.

01:34:53.940 We're working at Google.

01:34:55.100 um they're uh we're all uh vendors and then okay uh we would sort of hang out and chit chat on the

01:35:01.580 same floor that's that's more than chit chatting man that's kind of a lot for a co-worker man yeah

01:35:08.140 yeah yeah yeah yeah um eventually i i really uh get to know her and start hanging out with her

01:35:13.420 um i was i was a very liberal-ish person so i believe in very wild things uh looking back

01:35:22.220 that's pretty stupid so every friday i would go to her place and then just like have dinner

01:35:27.940 and watch a movie with her which is practically a date there was no physical touch of any kind

01:35:33.040 why did she do that oh she's actually really fun to hang out with okay i'm gonna leave it alone

01:35:41.700 stupid uh yeah so um sorry uh just to uh before ending this it's just that i wonder what's the

01:35:56.260 help for her like she's definitely not in a good place in her mind uh i don't think medication

01:36:04.420 works out 100 of the time i think she definitely needs some help so what do you guys think

01:36:09.060 bro go ahead she seems like a lost cause just like listening yeah uh she told me she went on

01:36:20.820 a couple of bumble days and the guys here uh in her opinion are very disappointing but then the

01:36:27.140 thing is she's uh 34 um and she's only dated one guy before and that was it like in well yeah but

01:36:37.140 she's probably hooking up with guys yeah yeah why is any of this your problem because i always say

01:36:46.100 look man every so often you got to make a t-chart like you did in in grade school you know like

01:36:53.220 one line down one line across and on one side on on the left side put your problem and on the right

01:36:59.860 side put not your problem and all the issues in your life make sure you you're sure what's on

01:37:05.620 either side of that list this is on the not your problem list right yeah you could be giving this

01:37:12.020 girl girlfriend energy that that's taking away from you finding someone uh finding someone

01:37:20.500 this is not your problem man it's not yeah it wasn't my problem uh it's just that we hang out

01:37:26.260 and then we talk about personal uh issues and then sometimes uh some of her friends would come along

01:37:31.940 and then they would talk about their issues as well oh uh speaking of her friends are they all

01:37:39.140 uh mostly mostly she has another group of friends where there are men no there was one guy yeah

01:37:48.820 there was one guy in that separate group of friends yeah uh so apparently she does this thing

01:37:56.820 if she gets upset with you he would like cut you off block you and everything

01:38:02.420 um and then eventually she will let you back in again uh i've done this with her a couple of

01:38:07.700 times wait uh she's done that to you or you've done it to her no she's done that to me i i've

01:38:13.700 never done anything like that to anybody come on man are you serious pearl okay go ahead no

01:38:21.700 No, no, please enlighten me.

01:38:23.420 I really would like different angles.

01:38:26.680 This just seems like a lot of energy you're putting into a woman you get nothing out of.

01:38:32.540 Like, what are you getting out of this relationship?

01:38:37.180 I think that's probably the question that she's asking herself.

01:38:40.360 And that's why we sort of like stop hanging out.

01:38:42.500 She cuts on that with me again.

01:38:44.440 You should be asking yourself that question.

01:38:46.680 When's the, like, do you have a girlfriend?

01:38:49.160 like what like when's the last time when's the last time you went on a date

01:38:52.720 uh maybe a yearish ago yeah i mean that's the problem because like you wouldn't do this if

01:39:02.340 there was other women right but if you're putting your energy into that you're not going to find

01:39:07.860 someone if you want to anyways yeah if you're gonna watch movies at a girl's house

01:39:14.460 and nothing happens and it's happened multiple times you you got to reevaluate something man

01:39:21.760 seriously yes i was not spending my time widely here that's quite true and it sounds to me like

01:39:31.160 you haven't really so does this woman still talk to you or no no but it sounds like you

01:39:37.700 you're still hung up on it are you still hung up on it or are you past it

01:39:41.400 uh sometimes yeah sometimes uh i would think oh yeah uh you have a joke in your mind and you think

01:39:49.560 like that would be the person that you want to sell it to do you guys still work together no no

01:39:55.400 no like

01:40:02.040 go on man no you this is not your problem man it's not yeah it's not your problem and you need to

01:40:09.880 you to move forward from this cleave from this and just move forward like i don't know

01:40:16.120 i don't know why you think that it's it's okay to because women take emotionally physically

01:40:25.960 mentally monetarily and you just let this woman take from you emotionally for how long i mean

01:40:33.060 she's going to cut you off or you come on man i you you got it just do me a favor when you get

01:40:42.020 off the phone make that t-chart your problem not your problem and i want you to go through all of

01:40:48.700 the issues in your life and make sure that all the issues of your life are on either side of that

01:40:53.540 because society and women try to make things as a man they're trying to make things your problem

01:40:58.960 that aren't your problem and also don't talk to female co-workers bro don't do it you can get

01:41:07.940 caught up it's not your problem not your problem listen to doug he knows what he's talking about

01:41:14.820 um i just started a new job and then this girl that sits next to me uh we start chit-chatting

01:41:22.660 a little bit all of a sudden she's telling me on friday night she's gonna reunite with her lost

01:41:27.900 mother that she hasn't seen for 20 years yeah she's gonna do the same thing to you man you're

01:41:36.140 gonna be here emotional tampon i know just don't talk to just just until you can figure out a way

01:41:44.540 to separate but because you give off this like empathetic vibe and the biggest problem is is

01:41:52.700 women will talk to you so the women have negative energy and they'll spew it all over you to make

01:41:58.780 themselves feel better and they they don't want to solve any of their life problems that's really good

01:42:04.300 so you need to figure out what is it about you it gives off this empathetic vibe because as

01:42:10.380 long as you give that off you they're going to take from you emotionally and you're never going

01:42:14.540 to get laid um don't talk to women at work all right um i i don't want to get laid i i want to

01:42:25.740 figure out so like uh what's the how do you say like pick a brain like figure out what's going on

01:42:32.300 why they're crazy man they're really crazy so this uh uh the other chick at work um she was

01:42:41.740 all the out of you asking me are you good at communication because i have a couple of my

01:42:47.100 fiance we're arguing every night and i couldn't figure out how to drag his ass to therapy

01:42:55.580 dude like american women are like doing their thing but that thing is spilling over to hong

01:43:01.740 kong as well wow well you have anything else for for dc no bro thank you i think thank you

01:43:11.340 for letting me talk thank you thanks for calling like on the point yeah it's all advice yeah

01:43:19.580 all right um uh john are you there there's two more right yeah okay then jose is last

01:43:31.100 yeah i'm here can you hear me

01:43:32.220 mm-hmm hi john how are you hi hello so have you dated someone on ssris

01:43:44.380 i actually haven't i've dated people i've dated a lot of depressed women that i

01:43:49.420 i in retrospect i wish had been on ssris um okay i think there was a some mention earlier about

01:43:56.620 mental health and for nearly all of my relationships i've ended up being the therapist anyway being the

01:44:05.260 antidepressant so what specifically were they doing that made you is it just because they

01:44:13.260 were talking about their problems all the time did they get aggressive like what specifically happened

01:44:20.060 um i think all of the above i think any sort of negative feelings anxieties

01:44:26.620 peril, any sort of stress was sort of all vented in my direction. And the more I was able to tackle

01:44:37.200 these problems and give solutions, especially if I'm just talking to the girl and we're not dating

01:44:43.240 or anything, I usually would get with women by sleeping with them first and then just sort of

01:44:48.820 see how they act afterwards. And then the ones that stick around usually stick around because

01:44:53.620 I'm good at taking care of them mentally and emotionally, and obviously that isn't sustainable.

01:45:02.500 So you start sleeping with a girl, because I always say a man won't audit a woman for

01:45:08.580 a relationship until sex happens. Women don't understand that. So you sleep with a woman,

01:45:14.020 and then all of a sudden they see that you're the empathetic therapist type,

01:45:18.180 and they start laying laying all their issues on you yeah exactly and how long does that how long

01:45:26.900 do you okay uh how many months do you give a girl being a therapist until you're like i gotta stop

01:45:34.820 this or she's too crazy like how how many months does it normally last it's a good question it

01:45:40.500 depends on the woman so obviously women are going to reveal they're crazy at different levels it

01:45:45.140 depends on how far i get with them so i usually scale it to like how receptive they are in terms

01:45:52.980 of their actual behavior changing versus like them lying and saying that they're they're changing

01:45:58.340 and they're lying in the first place and saying that they're this or they're that but i can tell

01:46:03.540 what's going on with them okay would you recommend that as a strategy to the average guy or you just

01:46:11.620 have the skills to be to be able to navigate that um absolutely not i would not recommend that to

01:46:17.300 the average guy all right i would i wouldn't recommend that to any guy if you're not in the

01:46:21.620 top one percent i'm just going to go ahead and say that as is if you don't have a high body count if

01:46:27.060 you aren't naturally gifted at these things i wouldn't recommend it this is more so an example

01:46:32.900 of i'm gifted at this so this is what i work on so try to find what you're gifted at and just

01:46:38.500 present women with that and make sure it's something that she's interested in and she'll

01:46:44.020 stick around as as long as she possibly can she'll stick around for years good game john

01:46:51.940 thank you okay it's a good game

01:46:58.020 okay okay we have one more call so john thank you for calling in thanks as always thanks for calling

01:47:04.740 john and jose you are last so unmute unmute jose you're still muted

01:47:21.540 you gotta hit that unmute button

01:47:26.100 you're still muted can't hear you and you've been waiting for a long time patiently

01:47:34.740 jose you're still on mute i'm gonna give you 30 more seconds because it is late

01:47:44.380 and uh yeah that the that guy dc and okay i'm here there you are okay okay all right

01:47:52.380 blessings you got six minutes bro go for it because it is late okay well uh it's an honor

01:48:01.200 Thank you. Hi, Pearl. Hi. Hello. Um, so yeah, um, I've, I've dated, um, probably about five

01:48:14.520 girls on SSRIs. Um, that's a lot, but, uh, um, you know, I'm, I'm over 40. So, you know,

01:48:24.600 um it's you know throughout the years but i i called it just to see if i could you know

01:48:32.460 inform viewers like because uh i've been on ssris for the last two years

01:48:37.880 um and i've been sober off of street drugs for four years um and um pretty much um you know um

01:48:51.420 And I just want to, you know, tell people that, you know, SSRIs are, you don't know, you know, like unless you you've tried them, you know, because sometimes they're hit or miss, you know, you know, so unless unless you know, unless you try them and you work with the doctor to because, you know, I have PTSD or I had PTSD.

01:49:21.420 um uh from from a hate crime um in 2007 so from from then until like four years or until like

01:49:34.160 four years ago um i was self-medicating and doing street drugs so um you know i i never got to the

01:49:41.580 point to where i uh i was able to um you know talk to a doctor and uh so i had to be sober in order

01:49:50.720 to have a clear mind to make a decision like talking to a, to a, um, you know, a psychologist.

01:49:59.680 Um, so yeah, I mean, um, um, they've helped me, uh, and, uh, they do, they do work. They did work

01:50:09.200 for me. Um, so why are you able to handle SSRIs, but the women that you've dated haven't?

01:50:17.840 I think because, you know, men and women are built differently and it's easy to get unhinged when you're on SSRIs, especially if you're like an emotional type person.

01:50:41.180 You know

01:50:43.020 Women

01:50:46.860 Women can do fine

01:50:50.160 Just as long as they have

01:50:51.360 Just as long as they have the

01:50:53.440 You know the right mate

01:50:54.520 You know what I mean

01:50:55.820 To deal with it because

01:50:59.140 It is

01:51:00.540 I wouldn't say it's a red flag

01:51:04.140 Because

01:51:04.620 When you

01:51:06.740 When someone is on SSRIs

01:51:09.620 um, they're doing it with, with the advice of a, of, of a doctor. Right. So, you know,

01:51:19.320 um, they're being treated, you know, I'm being treated and, uh, so far so good.

01:51:28.860 And I'm enjoying, I'm enjoying being sober. So, so, so are you one of those people where

01:51:33.780 you would say that uh to be in a relationship with a woman part of his job is to help manage

01:51:40.340 a woman's emotions or what no i i guess

01:51:45.240 as far as the the word the the the meaning of being you know managing like like when you're

01:51:55.840 he said that a woman's better able to handle things when she finds a good mate so do you

01:52:01.440 that it's the main responsibility to help a woman manage her emotions so she's not on ssris

01:52:09.120 yeah um i think women help men uh um help men with certain things and men help women with certain

01:52:20.560 things it's it's a it's you know it's uh you know women help men uh you know uh women help men

01:52:32.880 you know be uh grounded more like more uh um more like um compassionate

01:52:44.000 sometimes you know and men help women um with the logical side of life

01:52:50.560 You know?

01:52:51.560 Okay.

01:52:52.560 I mean, what do you think about that, Pearl?

01:52:57.600 I don't think women help men with anything.

01:53:00.320 Sorry.

01:53:01.320 I mean, that's just my opinion.

01:53:03.320 I don't really think, I mean, like, I don't really, I don't, I think the meanest people

01:53:09.320 I've ever met were women.

01:53:10.680 I don't think they're very compassionate.

01:53:13.940 And I think that, like, if you want to get anything done in life, man, you can't spend

01:53:19.620 your time trying to emotionally maintain you your woman yeah how are you supposed to fight the world

01:53:26.180 and achieve yeah yeah if you have to babysit your woman are you serious yeah well no no i mean uh

01:53:33.180 i'm not i'm not saying you know babysit a woman or like um manage them to the point to where you're

01:53:40.460 like uh their guardian you know are you trying to say like are you trying to say like counsel almost

01:53:45.840 like um like advise maybe yeah yeah you know like let let let let each other see the other

01:53:55.440 side of the coin you you kind of just kind of you know the yin and yang type thing yeah

01:54:00.900 yeah i mean it's not i'm not saying like you know stay in a toxic relationship i'm sorry i

01:54:08.820 use that word um you know staying in like a you know in a relationship that that is is uh not good

01:54:16.620 for either of you you know you got to be kind of logical about that you know and uh sometimes you

01:54:22.740 got to tell you know women have to tell men certain things and men have to tell women certain

01:54:28.040 things you know in a relationship you got to hold each other accountable basically okay okay yeah

01:54:34.880 Well, it's getting kind of late, so we're going to wrap it up.

01:54:40.560 But thank you, Jose, for calling in.

01:54:43.060 Yeah. All right.

01:54:44.000 Everyone on the call.

01:54:45.580 Go ahead.

01:54:46.100 I said, Pearl, God bless you.

01:54:48.920 Thank you so much for calling in.

01:54:51.800 Okay.

01:54:52.380 And so, Grady, we're going to have to get to you next time because it is a little late this time.

01:54:59.080 So we're going to end the call-in section.

01:55:02.200 Pearl, go ahead.

01:55:03.620 Yeah.

01:55:03.900 um do you have anything else to add on the topic doug mpa um yeah that one guy in hong kong he's

01:55:10.880 he's got some soul surgeons to do none of that was his problem and then you don't want to main

01:55:17.220 it's not your duty to maintain your girl's emotions so that's giving her an excuse to act

01:55:23.640 crazy yeah but yeah uh uh ssris i'm a hard no if i see a woman on lexa pro or anything like that

01:55:32.300 i'm not doing it no yeah well i mean that i mean that that's good to to have that that um standard

01:55:39.580 or like you have you have that uh um you know if you put a red flag on it you know it'll save you

01:55:45.500 a lot of trouble um uh for with certain situations you know yeah okay but yeah we're gonna wrap it up

01:55:53.420 so go ahead yeah um i have one person in the chat women on ssris are not attractive to me they are

01:56:01.180 too vulnerable yeah but yeah we're trying to wrap it up so we're gonna end the calls but thank you

01:56:07.980 very much for calling in okay yes thank you thank you bye bye um yeah i mean i don't really know

01:56:18.620 anyone on ssris uh actually no i do i know one woman but i haven't been around her the last

01:56:25.100 couple of years since she's been on them so i actually don't know so i don't i don't have

01:56:29.500 personal experience but it was interesting to hear the different perspectives from the callers

01:56:33.660 i've just never liked drugs so it's never been my thing um thanks guys for bearing with me and

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Pearl - March 07, 2025

Modern Women Are On Antidepressants ｜ Pearl Daily

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