Pearl - February 18, 2025


Modern Women Are So DESPERATE That Now They Propose MARRIAGE ｜ Pearl Daily @whatever


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14 minutes

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2,478

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232

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Misogyny

27

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9

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Why women will not get on their knees to propose to a man. Why is it so hard for women to do so? Why does it seem like a masculine thing to do? Why do women not get down on one knee to propose?

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00:00:00.000 Happy Valentine's Day, everybody. There's a lot of lonely ladies this time of the year. 1.00
00:00:06.420 Now, as the cost of relationships has gotten higher and higher and higher, as you guys know,
00:00:12.000 the modern dating life cycle goes something like this. You hook up first three dates,
00:00:17.560 then you date casually for up to two years, then you date seriously for up to three to even a
00:00:24.680 decade these days. Then you drag him down the aisle. You say, please, baby, please, I love you.
00:00:31.360 And then he reluctantly does it and says, okay, she's been here for this long. Fine, I'll do it.
00:00:37.740 But that's been getting more and more difficult nowadays. You know, the men, they've seen their
00:00:42.620 grandpa get wrecked in family court. They've seen their dad get wrecked in family court. And they
00:00:48.260 still thought that we would be different. They thought the ladies, I found this one. She's special. 0.60
00:00:53.680 She's different. She's amazing. She's beautiful. And she wrecked me too. And their kids are done.
00:01:00.120 Their kids and the women that want to be married for the second time, done, cooked, over with. 0.96
00:01:06.740 Yeah. And we say, please marry us. And we're to the point, guys, that women are getting on our knees. 1.00
00:01:15.880 I never thought I would see the day. Women are proposing to men. 1.00
00:01:20.440 Now, you've seen it the last 10, 20, 30, 50 years. Women want to do everything a man can do. And now 1.00
00:01:27.640 we see women. We see women lifting weights. We see women with tattoos like men. We see women that
00:01:35.980 dress like men. We see women in the workforce like men. They get the same pay. We have the same
00:01:42.460 attitudes. Some even think they're as strong as men, which is why you see so many women trying to 1.00
00:01:48.340 fight men. And equal rights, equal lefts, baby. They're getting hit. You see us in more positions
00:01:53.060 of power. And there are still things that some women are not willing to do. And one of those things is 1.00
00:02:00.600 proposing to a man. There are women who are CEOs of major companies, criminal defense attorneys, 1.00
00:02:07.580 law enforcement, women that would be perceived as assertive, strong, and powerful, but will not get 1.00
00:02:14.820 on one knee to propose to a man. And why do women refuse to do this? There's a multitude of factors. 1.00
00:02:23.400 Shame. Modern women know that most men, men and women will question why the woman proposed to a man.
00:02:32.100 Women have constant questions and doubts from their close friends and family about marriage 0.98
00:02:37.040 and how long it will last if the woman proposes. Doubt. The woman may not see the marriage as real if 0.92
00:02:43.720 she proposes. She may wonder why she had to propose instead of her husband. This could
00:02:48.800 lead to her constantly requiring the husband to validate her feelings about his commitment. 0.73
00:02:54.680 Masculine perception. Proposing to a person. Who put is a masculine thing to do? Do you know what?
00:03:01.960 Okay. Let me just, you know, I really do think proposing is for simps. And as most of you know,
00:03:07.280 I've been on the front lines of the simp epidemic for years, but I got to tell you guys about a quiet
00:03:12.680 weapon being ratcheted up against men. It's rarely talked about. It's not just the relentless
00:03:17.000 anti-masculinity propaganda and OnlyFans hoes causing the societal destruction that we see on this 0.99
00:03:22.980 show. Doug, I think Doug put in this, that this is the masculine thing to do. How is bowing to a woman 0.98
00:03:29.780 the masculine thing to do? Really? We're going to, Doug, you need to call back in. No. Do you know
00:03:34.880 what I'm like? You're bowing to a woman and we're saying, you know, I mean, to be honest, his reaction
00:03:42.240 makes this look feminine. I'm going to switch it around. Woman proposing, but it's more because he looks 1.00
00:03:49.080 kind of gay in this to a man. Now, if the guy didn't, yeah, here we go. I don't know. Like, 0.80
00:03:55.020 I think her kneeling to him, I prefer it. I really do. I mean, it's just,
00:04:01.960 it's kind of like, get on your knees, bitch. You've ruined marriage, ladies. You've ruined it. 1.00
00:04:09.480 It's like, it's like the women, we are the ones who've ruined marriage. We've ruined it. 1.00
00:04:15.540 So it's like, doesn't it kind of make sense to get us to beg? We're the ones that put these
00:04:20.280 terrible laws in place. Isn't it, I mean, isn't it kind of like crushing our ego a little? Do you
00:04:26.040 want a woman with a big ego? I promise to God, she's got no ego. If she's getting on her knees, 1.00
00:04:31.080 it's gone. I heard a dog. Okay. It's kind of, I don't know what that dog's doing. Okay. But let's,
00:04:37.980 no, we'll bring Doug up at the end. He can, he can respond to this. We will bring him back,
00:04:42.500 but I want to get through this. Doesn't matter if a man or a woman proposes. Over 20 years ago,
00:04:47.400 I covered my face with my hands and told my now husband, I'm moving away for graduation school
00:04:52.740 and I'd love you to go with me, but I want us to be married first. After he agreed, and it seemed
00:04:57.320 like a great idea, we shopped for an engagement ring before he chose one of the two I liked the
00:05:02.800 best. He offered it to me with a knee, from one knee, a couple of months later in a surprise
00:05:07.840 engagement. As a wife, I tell others he proposed, but a social scientist who studies marriages
00:05:13.020 and engagements, I'm not so sure. Young heterosexual adults increasingly prefer egalitarian relationships
00:05:20.920 in which both partners pay, work for pay and contribute equally to childcare and domestic
00:05:25.760 labor, even as they struggle to realize this balance. Equalizing the proposal a single moment
00:05:32.240 in time rather than an ever changing lifetime negotiation of labor should be much easier.
00:05:38.100 Still, the proposal process remains overwhelmingly a male responsibility and privilege. It's like,
00:05:45.800 okay, we're trying to sell that it's a privilege that men get to propose. Like you're so lucky
00:05:51.880 that you get to be enslaved to me for a lifetime. Like isn't the privilege, I'm just, who should
00:05:58.800 be begging who for the marriage? Who puts out more work in the marriage? According to a recent
00:06:04.920 survey of 500 men, 70% said they wouldn't mind if the woman proposed. I call cap on this and I
00:06:10.700 question the type of men that these people surveyed. I don't understand how you guys are. This is
00:06:16.660 masculine. Really? Really? Bowing to a woman is masculine. Okay. All right. Would you mind? Let's 0.94
00:06:23.640 put it in the chat. Would you mind if a woman proposed to you? All right. Seven best girl wedding
00:06:30.040 proposals we're going to watch. All right. Now we can rank if the guys look masculine. Can you play
00:06:36.320 this sound? Like, do you know how much of an ego she has to swallow to get on one knee in front of 1.00
00:06:43.660 all her friends and family? I mean, she has to swallow her. I'm for it. I'm for it. I really am.
00:06:49.900 I would choose you in a hundred lifetimes, in a hundred worlds, in any version of reality.
00:06:58.280 I would find you and I would choose you. Mr. Richie Shisht, will you marry me?
00:07:04.260 I don't know. Like it's, I don't know. I mean, she's in a dress. She doesn't really look that
00:07:08.560 masculine. Okay guys, let me know. Is this a little hot to you? Like if you had a girl,
00:07:14.860 I don't know. Let me know. I mean, she's doing it kind of in a feminine way. You know, you know, 1.00
00:07:20.460 like kneeling is a sign of submission. You know what? I did a dating show once on the show
00:07:25.440 when I was in England and I had a producer named King and he was like, we decided to set him up 0.99
00:07:31.240 for, with some bitches. You know, we were like, it was like the main guy didn't show up. So we're 1.00
00:07:35.840 like, Hey, you guys down for King. And you know, the woman who won the dating show brought him,
00:07:40.040 cause it was like, he had to rate their food and she brought out the food on her knees. And she 0.60
00:07:45.860 said, like, she like was kneeling and giving it to him. They're saying women proposing is a race 0.99
00:07:51.000 to the bottom. I disagree. I think it's better. He said, Fazelle said, I'll open my flyer,
00:07:58.500 my fly too. If she's serious. I mean, in a way that's the ultimate sign of submission. You know
00:08:03.520 what I mean? So you're telling me you'd say no, she's pretty hot. Wouldn't you guys say
00:08:17.360 like seven, six, seven, I'd put her in my, my rating too high. No, six strong six. I thought
00:08:24.560 I would create a game based on one of our favorites monopoly deal. I worked with a couple
00:08:29.120 of illustrators. Okay. Move this. Let's keep going for my bank. This one. Okay. This guy
00:08:36.680 looks a little feminine. The last two, I didn't really think looked like, I didn't think they 0.94
00:08:40.680 looked super feminine. Actually, I don't want to play this game anymore. Can we play this 1.00
00:08:44.840 version instead? I really, I'm going to die on this hill. This is a step up from what we
00:09:02.340 have. This is a step up before we move on to some of the best proposals yet. Don't forget
00:09:08.720 to go watch all my videos on Doug in the chat, which I do read the chats on the website. So
00:09:14.200 if you guys want to put a comment, try to put Pearl read on your chats. You want me to read
00:09:19.900 because you know, you guys go back and forth with each other. So I need it to be clear.
00:09:25.140 Doug says men hold the key to marriage and you want the woman to propose. Yeah. She's asking for 1.00
00:09:32.220 the key. She's like, please give me the key. And then he says yes or no. Like you want the man
00:09:38.960 to beg the woman for marriage and get on his knees and beg. This is why we, we have a culture
00:09:44.980 of simps. I mean, you used to kneel to Kings. Now we kneel to women. How to save money and not get 0.91
00:09:51.780 ripped off. Pearl, you're kidding me. This is my take. I don't really like public proposals. It's kind
00:09:57.780 of like a spectacle, but I mean, okay, put it this way. The relationships you've been in, has it been
00:10:03.500 better when the woman's been begging you to be in a relationship and you're like, keep it casual. 0.81
00:10:08.220 And she's like, please date me. Please, please, please. And you're like, fine, bitch. Fine. I'll 1.00
00:10:12.900 do it. Or has it been better when you've been begging her to be in a relationship and you're
00:10:17.280 like, please, please, please date me. That's what I see here. Buying diamonds. Okay. I'm not buying any
00:10:22.720 of these rings. Okay. Let me keep going. They want me to make a new pull. Pull. You know how
00:10:32.240 indecisive I am and have trouble in picking my favorite anything, but without a doubt, you are
00:10:40.140 my favorite everything. And I can't be sure of anything more than you. You are the source of my
00:10:48.080 joy. The center of my. How many of you have gotten that from your wives? Who's written
00:10:54.620 you a love note like that? And you guys are telling me that these are simps because their
00:10:59.120 wife proposed. How many of, how many of your wives have done that much for you? You would 0.99
00:11:04.300 and the whole of my heart. She said, you're the whole of my heart. Now, to be fair, this is
00:11:09.960 kind of performative. We don't know the intentions when social media is involved. You will not convince
00:11:15.640 me that they're simps. You just will not. And all I wanted to. Now, if the men reacted
00:11:21.220 and were like, oh my God, like women, then it's like, okay, but they're, the guys are kind
00:11:26.060 of like, okay, let's do it. You know, use that. You can turn back. All I want to tell
00:11:32.140 you is that when you marry. Daniel, only real men kneel. I don't know. None of these women 0.99
00:11:37.620 are in pants. They're all in pretty dresses. You know, only girlfriends give notes and letters. 1.00
00:11:42.740 I would say that a private proposal was intimate, but the other ones are emasculating. I think
00:11:47.500 yeah, cause of the public. Yeah. I mean, that's fair, but if this wasn't so performative and
00:11:52.520 okay, imagine this, let's, let's, let's, let's redo this a little bit. Now, obviously when
00:11:57.600 women are posting stuff on social media, we don't know their intentions, but if you come 1.00
00:12:01.940 home and your wife is on her knees and saying, look, you are the love of my life. I am so sure
00:12:08.240 I want to be with you forever and gives you this long speech where she's really putting 0.99
00:12:12.120 her heart out there and a blow job. You're going to, you're going to, you're going to 0.99
00:12:16.040 tell me what you guys, that you guys begging and saying, please marry me is better. You're 0.96
00:12:21.260 not going to convince me. The whole male privilege thing, not just the proposal prerogative privilege
00:12:26.980 in large is straight up gaslighting. If the woman is serious, her family should provide 0.96
00:12:32.560 a large dowry. Yeah. Why not push? Women who beg for love often don't cheat. In my experience, 0.97
00:12:58.560 it doesn't mean they didn't hoe at some point, but they don't cheat. 0.98
00:13:02.360 No way.
00:13:06.360 Did you just not? What? Will you marry me?
00:13:10.760 If you take the yes one.
00:13:13.280 Oh my God.
00:13:15.960 These guys don't look simpy to me. They, I, maybe one, the guy like crossing his legs on
00:13:22.940 the couch, but you're not.
00:13:24.180 I'm getting married.
00:13:25.560 I told Evan, I kind of joked about it, that whenever he would propose to me, shortly after
00:13:32.320 I would propose to him. And I think he liked the idea. It was more like joking, but also
00:13:37.480 kind of serious. So I thought today I could incorporate that in.
00:13:41.800 Okay. You're telling me this guy's the same. I mean, all these women are attracted. Like
00:13:46.220 you guys, there's this idea. These are just going to be ugly feminist. Are there any of 1.00
00:13:51.660 these women that you wouldn't? I mean, all of them I think are woods. Pearl, if she proposed, 1.00
00:13:55.940 I would say, let's go out and celebrate and close the door behind her, smile and say, where
00:14:00.780 the hell is a button for a new woman? 1.00
00:14:03.580 I think, I think you're brainwashed. I think all these people have convinced you guys that, 0.99
00:14:09.420 you know, you should kneel to women and they've convinced you that, that it makes sense. 0.99
00:14:14.580 Thank you.