Pearl - Modern Women Can't Stand Being Dumped

00:00:00.000 You know, I do think for women, a rite of passage is one crash out. 1.00

00:00:04.240 What up, guys?

00:00:05.080 Welcome to my reaction series.

00:00:07.080 So for all of millennia, women have been the ones that are dumping men. 0.91

00:00:11.660 But recently, men have been getting tired of women's BS. 0.78

00:00:16.760 And here is a compilation of women that got dumped by their boyfriends.

00:00:22.120 My ex-boyfriend broke up with me a month ago to work on himself. 1.00

00:00:29.400 and i just found out that he's already dating someone new translation you're an evil bitch 1.00

00:00:35.180 and i don't want to be with you anymore sorry ladies i feel like a lot of women have experienced 0.99

00:00:40.740 this heartbreak and i've had the same thing happen to them so instead of being silent about

00:00:45.000 my experience i want to share it in case it could help one of you when we broke yeah men um they

00:00:50.260 don't want you to crash out so they might give you a different reason than the one that they

00:00:53.820 actually meant. And that's why we never really get honesty from men like ever. I was very supportive

00:01:00.360 of him and his mental health. And I knew that he was in a very low spot. I was taking care of him

00:01:06.740 most days. I was financially supporting him. It was really hard for me. Oh my gosh, you got dumped

00:01:12.540 by a guy you were taking care of and financially supporting. Shout out feminism. To let go of him 1.00

00:01:19.860 and say you know what i want you to work on yourself even if it's apart from me and when

00:01:24.520 you make a choice like that it is so difficult to find out that there really was just someone

00:01:31.280 else the entire time i just hope that any woman watching this hears me when i say i know it hurts 0.95

00:01:38.000 that he has moved on it is a fucking blessing that they are no longer in your life continue 0.98

00:01:45.660 you believing in love because of the way that you love not because of the fact that they will never 0.96

00:01:50.420 know how all right let's see ladies what to do if a man breaks up to you now we need guides because 1.00

00:01:57.200 we're just so bad we're getting ladies i know you being well but when a man did something to you you

00:02:02.460 don't have to do all those subliminal messages on instagram making videos of you getting all

00:02:09.160 emotional and crying yeah because he does not care he does not care you know i do think for

00:02:13.560 women a rite of passage passage is one crash out um during a breakup but like when we're young

00:02:20.200 you kind of do i mean it's kind of a right you don't know what to do with all that emotion 0.99

00:02:25.240 y'all want to take women's virginities until you see until you take a crazy woman's virginity you 0.98

00:02:29.800 know what i mean that's called a crash out and all that's going to do is get you talked about 0.98

00:02:33.560 in the group chat and that's going to make him feel like he's special even if you're not saying

00:02:38.520 it your whole aura should give off that nigga fumbled me if any man fumbled me it's something 0.87

00:02:45.420 wrong with that nigga not me because you have certain men that get i just wouldn't even think 0.99

00:02:52.760 about it move on off on a woman crying and sad and yeah well because it shows emotional investment

00:03:00.020 so you know if she crashes out that means she pretty much liked you losing herself she done

00:03:06.360 got fat hair all crazy not nails not done he gonna feel like yeah i did that and that's gonna boost

00:03:15.260 him up even more but when you kind of pop out and he he might not have seen you in a few months or 0.92

00:03:22.200 whatever you pop out that's gonna make him be like damn even if he said to his homeboys or even to 0.72

00:03:29.400 himself that's gonna make him feel like damn however he had to give a damn because if you 0.96

00:03:33.600 don't crash out then he's more likely to regret it but he's not gonna regret it if you crash out 0.79

00:03:39.880 he's gonna be like thank god right decision but either way you don't want to look pitiful you want 0.72

00:03:46.000 to look like you bossed the fuck up not sitting here sat under a cover crying yourself to sleep 0.84

00:03:52.720 at night even if you are doing that do not show it i even tell myself that do not show it be in 0.81

00:04:02.740 different as much as you can i actually agree with that for the most part um i don't know about

00:04:08.360 the boss up or whatever most men don't regret their decisions but i what i have seen a man

00:04:13.360 regret it it's because the woman was very calm when you broke he broke up with her all right

00:04:17.720 let's see this woman oh wait relationship anymore then he breaks up with you because he told you he 1.00

00:04:23.020 doesn't want a relationship anymore then you find out that he just got into a relationship with

00:04:27.080 another girl maybe it's even a girl that he told you you'll never have to worry about you call him

00:04:31.440 up you curse him out tell him how much of a piece of he is it's like he's just laughing on the phone

00:04:35.700 he doesn't even care how hurt you are so you call his new they don't care just like we don't care 0.85

00:04:40.560 when you're done with someone you're done girlfriend and you tell her what he did to you

00:04:44.480 you're hoping that she's gonna have your back instead she goes and calls her boyfriend and 0.97

00:04:48.580 she says hey your ex-girlfriend keeps calling me just tells her that you're crazy to ignore you

00:04:53.440 so instead of believing you she believes him just when you were hoping to be heard you get denied

00:04:58.020 again now you're really broken then you get to a point where you realize there's nothing more i can

00:05:02.420 do you cry to your friends and you hurt you're hurting they're in this beautiful relationship

00:05:06.820 a year goes by they're still together they look happy on social media but every day that they're

00:05:11.460 fighting that girl's crying in the back of her head thinking about what you said at this point

00:05:15.780 now he's her problem eventually they break up the breakup that you were hoping for months ago

00:05:20.900 this finally happened but now you don't care yeah that alphas right that's how women behave with 1.00

00:05:26.660 alphas beta if women don't care after a breakup she never really liked you he never gives you

00:05:30.980 the satisfaction to tell you that you were right she doesn't need to because you know she knew

00:05:34.820 and he calls you randomly a year later and apologizes now you're laughing on the phone

00:05:39.860 just like he was because what goes around comes around all right next we're here

00:05:49.220 i'm gonna start talking because if i don't start talking i'm gonna go crazy because i'm alone in

00:05:52.820 in this house you know what you girl like six but today my boyfriend broke up with me broke up with 0.77

00:05:59.340 me and you know what i did i just looked at him i said okay that's your decision i respect that

00:06:07.660 that's the best thing you could do and she did it i think she's capping what i did i got up

00:06:14.940 went to walmart bought a suitcase came back packed my things looked at him i said i'm gonna go buy a

00:06:21.040 car look on this man's face he was shocked he didn't expect this i'm like i'm gonna go buy a

00:06:27.800 car three hours later i come back he wasn't there packed all my things up into this car

00:06:33.840 and he got back as soon as i was done packing he walked to that house i know he saw the car i saw

00:06:40.800 him from when we saw that car the look on his face the look on his face honestly i was surprised he

00:06:48.360 you looked upset. And I looked at him, I said, I'm done packing. And he goes,

00:06:57.040 okay. And I said, okay, bye. And I walked out. And I walked out. And it was the first time in

00:07:05.740 my life that I never got to say my last words. Because usually they're really petty and spiteful

00:07:13.100 and that's why but i guys i didn't really like him what did steve harvey say never let a man

00:07:23.780 tell you he don't want you twice or something like that

00:07:26.240 like really like you're sitting there looking me in the eye in the place that we lived together

00:07:35.860 on the couch we picked out and the blankets we picked out and the wall color that we picked out

00:07:41.500 and you're telling me you think we should separate like oh okay like I don't have anything to say I

00:07:49.300 respect you tell me the truth you know but all I can say is okay and leave you know I'm not gonna

00:07:55.260 sit there and beg someone to choose me women are learning the things that men had to learn you know 1.00

00:07:59.880 because men you know when we were younger I think people crash out more and you kind of get more in

00:08:05.600 control your emotions the older you get but um yeah you know i used to be that way not anymore

00:08:12.780 i know my worth like he's been banged out yeah the emotion's gone you know pros and cons pros

00:08:19.480 and cons there's some men that actually like high body count women you wouldn't think so 0.86

00:08:22.960 but it's because there's like dead in their eyes and they don't crash out women with a lot of 0.81

00:08:26.660 emotions still they crash out women have been banged out a couple times can't be bothered and 1.00

00:08:33.700 my guy friend was like wow like you walked out on him like you didn't even fight fight for what

00:08:39.900 like what i'm gonna lose any more dignity i'm gonna fight for someone to you know

00:08:45.500 want to be with me want to live up to my standards you don't live up to my standards that's fine

00:08:50.760 that's okay go find someone with lower standards there's plenty of girls out there who will be 1.00

00:08:56.820 with you just for your money and have no standards translation um yeah she's probably just nagging him

00:09:04.020 to do a bunch of stuff he found annoying so he dumped her like i have standards like okay

00:09:11.220 so all right so now women are actually getting dumped let me know in the comments what is the 0.78

00:09:17.700 craziest way woman's broken up with you has she ever crashed out how did that go for her 0.98

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Pearl - January 03, 2026

Modern Women Can't Stand Being Dumped

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