Pearl - December 07, 2025Modern Women Confused Over Why Men Refuse To Go Near Them
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Summary
In this episode, we are going to react to some women, as usual, whining about men not approaching them. I mean, this is always how it goes. Women say, get away from me. The men say, "not my way."
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If a girl is looking at you at a bar, go up to her. She wants you.
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If you see a cute girl at a bar, go up to her. You don't even have to buy her a drink.
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We're like begging men to come back to approach.
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Today, we are going to react to some women, as usual, whining, complaining about men not approaching them.
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I mean, this is always how it goes. It always goes.
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Women say, get away from me. The men say, fine. They say not.
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Like, have you ever tried to give your wife her way?
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I wish I didn't have to be like this, but I can't.
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If you go out and men rarely approach you, you're doing it right.
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contrary to what you might think if you go out and you are constantly approached you need to do the
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hokey pokey and turn your ass back around men do not approach what they feel they will be rejected
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by and what they feel they cannot afford that's true um but they might feel they can't afford you
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because you have a bitch face on so your price would be too high um if your price is lower then
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they're like oh i could afford her but women take pride in raising the price with no value and
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getting no buyers like how is that i don't know if we should take pride in that it's not your
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resting face it's the fact that they know they cannot afford you if you're feeling discouraged
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when you go out because men do not approach you i'm here to tell you you're doing all the right
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things the point is not to get approached by every man the point is to get approached by
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the right type of man and if you're sitting there thinking i could really give two flying
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f's what men think then this video obviously isn't for you but let's not shame the women who
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are wondering do men do price you out that's fair why men aren't approaching them whether you want
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to believe it or not a man will look at you and within the first five seconds know if he's going
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to approach you he will do a full up and down seeing am i attracted to this woman and can i
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afford her if the answer to either of those is no he's not going to approach you and if you're
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sitting there thinking i'm always approached oh my god you look cheap she's so bitter oh she's so
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bitter no it's just you know if you have a bitch face on that's a higher price it's more bullshit
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they have to deal with if you have a smile they're more likely to say oh she's interested you know
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you look easy and you look like you're gonna say yes no matter what the hell they do getting
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approached by every man at the bar club or venue is not a good thing one is better than all
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always none in my opinion but if you want it yeah okay this is this is the best women we
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gotta just ignore women like her they're bitter they're not looking for solutions um women that
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constantly harp on purity generally aren't looking for solutions women that constantly say men aren't
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good enough aren't looking for solutions um we're solution-minded here women don't get asked out
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even even when they're pretty and smart and have their whole you're fat i i keep having to go back
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to this i mean because usually she's probably talking about herself um you're single because
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you're fat that's it life together you actually don't have a bad face card but it's because you're
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fat and a lot of people don't know this but it has nothing to do with your value sometimes high
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I value women because that's what I mean I had a friend that was an eight and she got approached
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everywhere I mean I like I'm just being real here I had a friend um I'd put her at an eight and she
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just everywhere she went she got approached do you know how they didn't approach me and I mean I can
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approach sometimes I'm not but I'm just saying like it just wasn't the same it wasn't it just
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is what it is we are get approached the least and let me tell you why first you give off I'm good
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energy you walk like you handle your own life men see that or you're just in your phone all the time
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like men aren't going to compete with your phone and think well she don't need me second men are
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scared of rejection like terrified so if you look too put together they assume you already got
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options even when you don't third you might look unapproachable without meaning to not in a rude
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way just your face your pace your focus men only approach women who look relaxed and open
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fourth a lot of men think you're already taken pretty women hear this all the time
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i thought you had a man so so then they don't they don't even try i you know i think it's just
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like i've heard what the success rate is for puas in terms of like number to lays and etc
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and it's just not high enough for men to really like if i had to approach a hundred men to get
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one date or to get laid once i think i would just be like that's way too much work
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you know what i mean like it's so easy for us we don't get it and fifth you may not be in spaces
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that make conversation easy if your life is work home errands and then work again you won't cross
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paths with men who naturally start talking to you but here's the truth you can be beautiful healed
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kind funny and high value and still not get approached it's not you it's the perception
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of you men approach women who feel safe and easy to talk to not always the best women so don't
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don't overthink it you're not the problem your energy is just strong the right man won't be
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scared of that some women don't get asked out even even when they're pretty and smart and have their
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whole life together and a lot of people don't know this but it has nothing to do with your value
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sometimes high value women because that's what we are get approached the least and let me tell you
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why first okay cope cope cope talk about the men not approaching women thing if you are a man and
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you are watching this you have to be not afraid to be god this woman's a catfish do you see her
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profile picture bruh i just want to talk about the men so bad i see what you guys are going through
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in these apps approaching women thing if you are a man and you are watching this you have to be
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not afraid to be rejected that's part of the game that's part of being a man you have to be okay
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with being rejected you hear this nagging oh you can't be a beta you can't be a pussy you have to
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go up to women and be fine if she says no that's it and it's for you to tell men what they should
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and shouldn't do i just always feel the same way i always feel the same way i mean it's just a
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nagging our reflection on you she's just not into you if she says no but go up to women if you see
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a cute girl at the gym like you can there's ways you can go to women that aren't creepy like you
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can be like hey do you need a spot like say something about their form or just like say hi
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just say hi it's so easy if a girl is looking at you at a bar go up to her she wants you if you see
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a cute girl at a bar go up to her you don't even have to buy her a drink just say hi compliment
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they're like begging men to come back to approach something about what she's wearing compliment like
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her hair anything it's not that hard okay who needs this okay guys let's see how our first
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dates are another first date tonight you guys were yelling at me so much in the comments of
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my last video i do just want to say like i appreciate your concern your love but like
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your girl is learning and growing with each date like i'm not gonna be completely cured from like
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getting attached to men that i date over like two tiktoks like guys i'm in therapy it's fine
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i appreciate y'all but like god okay guys i'm mid-date had two drinks at the first bar now
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we're going to a second bar i'm having actually the best time like this guy's great like
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i'm laughing it's fun going to another bar now so we'll see how it goes like i'm
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i guess it's going well for her okay let's move on to the next girl um why men are not
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approaching women according to a man i really should be studying for my doctoral degree and
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not talking about this dumb ass stuff but i just have to tell you guys what this man said to me so
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i was talking to this man oh duke are you okay sorry there's duke oh coco anyways i was talking
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to this man about how in general like the men are not approaching women outside anymore and i think
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we can kind of all come to a consensus on that like that just isn't happening i'm 28 i've been
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in and out of the club scene since i was 18 well really like 21 22 whatever and things have changed
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things are not the same and i always equated it to covid right i was like okay well covid just took
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away like the confidence that ability to socialize and strike up a conversation with a stranger
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or dancing with someone that you don't know at the club which also i think is related to like
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phones and wanting to be cool and not wanting to be exposed whatever these are the reasons why i
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think men are no longer approaching women in the clubs i'm talking to this man i'm saying this you
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know what he tells me and now i'm like is this is this true he was like oh no like the reason why
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men don't go up to girls anymore is because of the me too movement the me too the sexual assault
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i literally said i said we're men sexually assaulting women in the club like all the time
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is that how you approach women by sexually assaulting them what are we talking about
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the me too movement yeah now we're scared yeah because i mean no now the the one challenge is
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all women have phones and they'll record you they'll i mean women are vicious women are so
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mean i mean the stuff they said to me is like so rude so rude so yeah i mean they don't want
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want to be put on blast on the are we dating the same guy page or whatever to talk to them because
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i was like just don't be a creep don't be a creep
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what and that that he was being very genuine and like i genuinely think that other men genuinely
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feel this way now like it's so annoying to be straight like oh my god it's so annoying
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the me that i really should be studying for my doctoral degree and so long story short men
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women are not going to get the same attention that we used to get from men pre-covid like during
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covid it was so easy to get male attention wherever 10 years ago now it is just not the same
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partially it's because my age group's kind of aged out a little bit i mean we're like on the
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decline we're not completely out yet boomer women are completely out um but women are going to have
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to work harder to get male attention so anyways all right guys um i love you thanks so much for
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watching i really appreciate it and um if you want go to the audacitynetwork.com and support
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me that'd be awesome thanks for watching i'll see you next time