Pearl - June 30, 2025


Modern Women Crazy For Each Other's Men


Episode Stats

Length

13 minutes

Words per Minute

177.94781

Word Count

2,473

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

25

Hate Speech Sentences

13


Summary

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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 oh my gosh so she stole the boyfriend first then her sister got petty she said it's fine
00:00:05.200 dang women in the modern day hate men so much that they will let women with nefarious intentions
00:00:10.560 close to them and won't realize it until it's too late i'm bringing this up because i was scrolling
00:00:15.040 through social media the other day and i started to see stories about women who had their husbands
00:00:19.600 stolen from them by other women these are married women who had decent men but ended up losing their
00:00:25.120 husband to someone else and most of the time that someone was somebody that the wife knew the first
00:00:30.800 thing i would ask in the situation would be what wasn't the wife doing why was her husband so
00:00:36.000 unsatisfied that he left for another woman we all know that over a quarter of marriages are sexless
00:00:41.200 and in almost all marriages the wife nags the husband constantly there is a lesson in stories
00:00:46.880 like this ladies you have to satisfy your man and keep your eyes on him at all times single women
00:00:51.440 will come for your husband because he married you men that are fours and fives receives a point
00:00:56.480 maybe two to single women because they are married that's what we're going to talk about today the
00:01:01.440 women who had their husbands stolen by another woman get ready with us while i tell a story about when
00:01:09.760 one of my best friends tried to steal my husband so the other night i had my friends over um mary was
00:01:16.320 there and we were all just like playing games sitting on the couch you know and then one of my friends
00:01:22.560 um we'll call her jennifer she just she was just a little bit off the entire time yeah she wasn't
00:01:30.160 really talking to us and she was like sitting with the boys when all the girls were hanging out which we
00:01:35.680 thought was really weird yeah and then a couple things happened that night that just rubbed me the wrong
00:01:41.840 way but the first thing that happened was we were all sitting on the couch and my husband's sitting
00:01:46.800 like towards the arm of the couch and jennifer just like just like starts complaining about her spa
00:01:55.120 and basically demanded to be sitting next to my husband and all of us girls were like sitting on
00:02:00.560 the other side of the living room so it made no sense for her to be like demanding to sit over there
00:02:04.400 because we were all talking over here while the boys were like hanging out a funny thing about my friend
00:02:08.320 jennifer though is that we used to be a lot closer back in the day but recently i don't know she she
00:02:14.320 doesn't live as close as she used to and so we just haven't been seeing each other much so it was just
00:02:19.040 weird so here's where it gets really crazy because they didn't see this happening when it happened she
00:02:24.880 like went up to go to the bathroom but i saw jennifer go sit over next to her husband and then start
00:02:31.360 whispering something in his ear like while everybody was hanging out and my husband doesn't entertain this
00:02:36.800 stuff so like mary can she knows yeah he was not but she was she was definitely very close to him
00:02:44.160 and so mary pulls me aside and she tells me all this stuff that happens after i get out of the bathroom
00:02:49.120 and basically we both walk out together only to find that jennifer is like doing that stupid pygmy
00:02:55.680 thing where she's like oh my god so fast forward to later in the night everybody's like kind of drunk
00:03:04.560 and we're jennifer's you're wrong yeah she was really really drunk and we're all like okay bathroom
00:03:10.800 break all the girls go to the bathroom and she starts crying crying and so obviously since i'm not
00:03:17.840 trying to like read into anything's anything too quickly i go and i ask her jennifer like what's wrong
00:03:23.520 and she doesn't tell me anything but then oh but then then jennifer texts me while we're all in the
00:03:30.880 room hanging out together and she says i can't do this anymore and i text her back and i'm like what
00:03:36.160 do you mean you can't do this anymore like we're all just hanging out and she was like i can't stand
00:03:40.320 being in a room with say and her husband because i'm in love with him okay but then this this part
00:03:49.920 really made me the most angry is she's back on the couch she's drunk and she basically just starts
00:03:57.360 trying to sit like as close as she can to my husband and i'm like just like subtly trying to
00:04:04.000 you know sit on my husband's lab trying to you know mark my territory saying hey like back off
00:04:10.000 and then i decided to get up in front of everybody and say hey and show everybody the text and say
00:04:14.960 jennifer's in love with say's husband and everybody was super awkward and nobody really said anything
00:04:20.400 we ended up all leaving and needless to say we don't talk to jennifer anymore and this was a story
00:04:26.480 about mary in my dream the other night did it really damn so now she's mad at her husband for a dream
00:04:38.080 that's crazy all right let's see what we got next my sister stole my husband's now i'm watching their world
00:04:44.160 collapse story time so me and my husband or ex-husband recently got married and by recently i mean the
00:04:50.000 past five months we had been dating for about a year and then we got engaged and we got married
00:04:54.800 within the next year so we had officially been dating for two years when we got married and it
00:04:58.800 only took my sister a whole five months to steal him from me however there is a little bit of a
00:05:02.720 backstory on me and my husband so let me bring you into it so let's call my husband mark and my sister
00:05:08.080 natalie foundation is a very different color okay now once upon a time five years ago they dated it
00:05:16.000 weren't kind of just like you're dating like she lost her v to him it was quite a serious relationship
00:05:20.880 for her however mark didn't really care too much like he obviously liked her and he cared for her
00:05:25.840 but the relationship in itself wasn't like his priority that relationship ended badly so you can kind
00:05:32.000 of imagine the reaction they all had when me and mark started dating that's a little fyi mark is in
00:05:38.560 my year not in my sister's i don't know it was always strange to me that she went for mark because
00:05:43.680 i always had a crush on mark when i was younger so it was a bit of a full circle moment but i guess i
00:05:48.720 did technically steal her boyfriend oh natalie hated that i was dating mark she absolutely despised it and
00:05:55.680 she hated it even more when we got engaged so she stole oh my gosh so she stole the boyfriend first
00:06:03.360 then her sister got petty she said it's fine
00:06:07.920 dang obviously i did speak to natalie about this we did have grown-up conversations and she told me
00:06:12.720 eventually that she forgave me and that she's actually really really happy that me and mark were
00:06:17.040 engaged at the time i thought great no family feud i'm with the man of my dreams what can go wrong
00:06:23.360 but one thing i should mention is that mark had pre-wedding nerves by this he went into an absolute
00:06:28.880 state of distress i wasn't sure if he even wanted to go ahead with the wedding and then
00:06:33.520 we talked through it i thought it was just because he was nervous which is completely fine
00:06:38.320 and normal but that he has literally yesterday just admitted to me that he had these feelings
00:06:42.480 because he never lost feelings for my sister i found out about the affair in quite like a typical
00:06:48.640 way like it was nothing too drastic i just walked in on them both like it was like a
00:06:53.200 normal way to catch a cheetah you can best believe i left the same day the same minute i was out of
00:06:58.320 that house anyway i have obviously filed for divorce and never speaking to my sister ever again i'm so
00:07:03.600 happy about it wow even though she kind of did it first oh it'll get you all right let's see who's next
00:07:12.320 morning guys i just want to say i keep seeing these videos where friends are taking your spouse or
00:07:23.280 marrying your your husband and all your ex-husband and all that stuff i keep sending on tiktok i want
00:07:30.080 y'all to know that my mom taught me and always taught me she said don't have too many people around that
00:07:36.800 good man don't have too many friends come into your house and you invited no ma'am she said don't do it
00:07:49.120 and i live by that to this day i live by that to this day and i think that as my mom is a black mother
00:07:58.720 of course and she just raised me well where you gotta be wise you can trust but sometimes you gotta
00:08:11.120 be cautious and you just gotta protect that home of yours if you in a good home
00:08:20.960 don't have too many friends around your spouse honey it's okay for a birthday it's okay for
00:08:27.360 a party but every day and then your friend should not have your husband phone number at all none of them
00:08:41.120 they can have your mother phone number and your daddy phone number but they should not have your
00:08:46.480 husband phone number that's how black that's how that's how black people are raised i mean i just keep
00:08:56.720 saying it and i i have not saying it won't happen but i'm just saying like it's sad protect your home
00:09:06.160 pray over your husband pray over your husband pray over your friends cooked yeah you're cooked
00:09:15.840 all right let's see who's next like treating me badly or anything but i can tell a kind of this my best
00:09:22.160 friend who was my maid of honor at my wedding stole my husband a little bit women are evil man like
00:09:29.600 female friendships do you know what the other day every because sometimes i'll go out places and
00:09:37.440 people think i'm a little odd because if i go somewhere a lot of times i just go by myself kind of
00:09:42.400 like a kind of weird you know and um like women will be like well like don't you have a lot of female
00:09:51.520 friends and some like i do but there's just such a low roi on female friendship in my head because i think
00:10:04.800 to myself they're the ones that are gonna like tell your business to everybody so if you have like if you
00:10:11.600 tell them a secret they'll tell everybody um they'll just nag you and then eventually they'll crash
00:10:19.600 out on you or steal your husband apparently i know i am a little bit of a loner i'm a people person but i
00:10:28.800 you know i i know i just i can't have a lot of female friends i just can't um and so i would speak to
00:10:39.600 him about it and i'll say you know i can tell like something is wrong like there's something it's not
00:10:44.240 okay something isn't right like what's going on have i done something wrong you know all of this stuff
00:10:49.600 and he'll just kind of brush it off and be like oh you know nothing nothing nothing nothing
00:10:53.600 christmas of 2017 so december going into 2018 we were just in the car we went shopping we're in the car
00:10:59.840 i just turned to him and i said hey you know we're about to go into a new year like whatever it is you
00:11:05.200 know let's just put it behind us like you know just talk to me let's just start afresh you know
00:11:09.040 that sort of thing um and then that's when he said to me toson i don't want to be married to you
00:11:14.560 anymore so i was blindsided i had no clue so it was very confusing for me anyway to cut the long story
00:11:20.560 short and to avoid the confusion it was only later i actually found out that the main reason he actually
00:11:26.800 wanted a divorce is because he was having an affair with my best friend i can't think of anything worse
00:11:35.600 other than a sister and he did move on with my best friend um so it wasn't just somebody that i just
00:11:43.280 met like this was she was my maid of honor at the wedding um you know the heartbreak and the loss was not
00:11:50.800 just from the perspective of the marriage i was also grieving the loss of a friend so it was kind
00:11:56.880 of happening at the same time but it was a combination of different things i believe that
00:12:01.280 contributed to my healing yeah now again all these stories are going to be the female friendly version
00:12:08.080 of the story but all right oh i knew this oh i knew this story oh yeah shania twain took the l so i said
00:12:18.560 marianne don't you think that my husband is acting strange and she got very defensive and said how
00:12:27.520 could you think such a thing that i would ever lie to about anything the whole innocent friend
00:12:33.520 even with a tear in her eye she's a great actress
00:12:38.640 you imagine she probably is more pleasant to be around that'll do it over time because shania looks
00:12:45.440 way better than her she deserves an academy award how could it be so stupid i really didn't see that
00:12:53.040 coming i really want to die when this happened the fact that my friend oh my gosh knew that she was
00:13:01.360 going to hurt my family but did it anyway i have a hard time with that i women don't care they don't
00:13:07.360 they're gonna do what's in their best and begged her find love somewhere else from someone else it just
00:13:13.520 isn't right she never expected that in 10 million years what did her best friend's husband have to
00:13:20.960 do with it she was really really outbroken was any of this revenge i don't want to go into details of
00:13:27.040 that because i don't think it's uh it's oh yeah i forgot and then shania twain started dating her best
00:13:34.080 friend's husband they basically swap my own phone yeah um this tells me that shania was probably awful
00:13:43.840 to be with and her friend was friendly and did anal