Pearl - December 14, 2025


Modern Women Cry About No Longer Having The Men They Chased Away


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13 minutes

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2,416

Sentence count

53

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Misogyny

16

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Toxicity

6

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Hate speech

14

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Where are we meeting the men that actually want to date and be in a relationship? In this episode, we talk about the best places to meet men in your 20s and 30s, and how to go about it.

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00:00:00.000 here's here's a process if you want to see if your plan is working um you try something and
00:00:05.520 then see if it worked and if it didn't work try something else what up guys welcome to my reaction
00:00:11.360 series today we are reacting to women wondering where the real men are at see we got this from
00:00:17.840 the last video but you got bird hands here um so for 50 years women have told men to get away from
00:00:25.120 them and men are very you know they're like they're accommodating people they don't want to
00:00:30.480 be anywhere they're not wanted so they're like i'll go away and now they're going away and the 0.50
00:00:34.720 women are like no come back i miss you it's like your ex-wife you know she kicks you out of the 1.00
00:00:38.580 house and then she's like no i want you back quick question where are we meeting the men that
00:00:42.860 actually want to date and be in a relationship yeah in your 20s unfortunately some women can 1.00
00:00:50.120 thirst trap hard enough to their 30s but yeah not you I guess it's not the dating apps it's not
00:00:58.140 it's not the coffee shops I've been trying that I've been trying that for a while now definitely
00:01:02.840 not the bars not at my age because they're all like 21 22 so they definitely don't want to be
00:01:07.320 in a relationship and I definitely do not want to be a cougar nothing wrong with that just not my
00:01:12.840 time well yeah for you okay I'm gonna actually give her pragmatic advice um I would recommend
00:01:18.660 golf courses for you. But the thing is, if you want to meet in person, you have to make it like
00:01:24.380 a hobby. You have to frequent because you have to frequent a place and seek men out and make the 0.99
00:01:31.060 first move. So I would get into the hobby of golf. Jiu-jitsu is another good one. There are certain
00:01:39.480 high-end gyms. If you know Lifetime Fitness, that's a good place. Any gym with a lot of
00:01:47.980 weights any place that's cheap um with like a lot of weights men are gonna want to go to bodybuilding
00:01:55.100 gyms or mostly male if you want to go for higher income then um you want to go to places with money 0.94
00:02:01.100 barriers if you're in a city men are more likely men don't like spending money but they will spend 0.79
00:02:07.100 money if there's like a value prop um and a lot of times getting away from like ghetto people in 1.00
00:02:12.300 the cities kind of is. So that's my vibe. I, again, tend to go about eight to 10 years older
00:02:19.560 than me. I found out even those don't want to date for a relationship. Even they are-
00:02:24.640 Well, you got to find a way to get feedback on what you're doing wrong. So I don't know if it's
00:02:30.200 like hiring a coach to help. It's tough. A lot of, a lot of dating coaches for women just take your 1.00
00:02:35.200 money and run and give you terrible strategies. But here's, here's a process. If you want to see
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00:03:42.280 But you really need to be meticulous about figuring out what works and what doesn't work.
00:03:46.420 If you can get feedback from an ex, maybe tell you what your problem is, that's helpful.
00:03:52.260 Yeah.
00:03:52.680 We're still figuring things out.
00:03:54.920 Yeah, they are.
00:03:56.040 So where are we meeting the ones that want to date and be in a relationship? 1.00
00:04:00.420 Or you just don't like them.
00:04:01.360 i mean i think a lot of women want it to be easy to get commitment and it's just not i mean the
00:04:06.880 price of commitment is higher because sex is easy for the men that we want ship they want to date 0.56
00:04:12.160 to eventually get into a relationship you gotta ask yourself why would he pick you instead of
00:04:16.160 three women you know that are dating to see if we're compatible for a relationship not other 1.00
00:04:22.720 things no no no i need to know because i have yet to find them and i've been looking so maybe i should
00:04:29.440 stop looking. I don't know. But if you know, please let me know. Help your girl out. Where
00:04:35.540 are we meeting the good men? Where are we meeting the men that actually want to be in
00:04:40.180 a real relationship? Let me. Where are the good men? Single 30 plus men. Okay. She's
00:04:51.200 cute she could get a guy um nails single woman I'm getting a little worried not a good voice 1.00
00:04:59.060 she's probably 32 when I scroll on this app that like all of the good single men 30 year olds and
00:05:06.580 up or near that range they are if they're single they're staying inside and doing exactly what I
00:05:12.860 would want to do which is like binge a show and like order and take out like why when I'm scrolling
00:05:16.840 I'm seeing all these like cute men who look like they have their head on their shoulders they
00:05:20.660 probably don't let's just be fucking real but they're all like staying inside like what i'm 0.90
00:05:25.600 trying to do is they they don't they're like are you gonna go home from me with me from the bar no 0.99
00:05:30.680 okay i'll just work on my hobbies who is text a girl gonna give me sex no run and be like hey you 0.78
00:05:36.500 know what instead of me cuddling into bed and binging all of real housewives let's go out 0.93
00:05:43.440 because i'm just hoping that one day like i meet my husband like meet cute randomly like i gotta
00:05:49.060 to go out and do that. Right. I have to like actually put myself out there. I have to actually
00:05:52.520 do my makeup and like put on a cute outfit and do that, you know, crazy concept. But I have a fear
00:05:59.320 that all of the good single 30 year old men are doing the opposite. Hey, I mean, in all honesty,
00:06:08.100 that's why I think online is going to be the best. I mean, all the biggest players I know,
00:06:12.480 that's where the two biggest, one of the biggest players I know, and not to say that you want to
00:06:19.040 want to date like these guys because they go through a lot of women but um one of them says
00:06:23.980 he gets all of his leads on Instagram the other does in person so I mean I like to say because
00:06:29.660 they're kind of more knowing on what's going on in the market get out there please stop ordering 1.00
00:06:36.660 takeout by your fucking self and wait for me to be there with you to do it okay fuck literally I 1.00
00:06:43.320 don't probably gonna run into a douchebag pray for me i wonder did she find anybody let's check 1.00
00:06:52.500 yeah i said oh i said 32 she's 30 okay um oh is she in arizona that's a tough place because
00:07:07.860 you're competing with the college girls and there's new ones if you're by a like scottsdale
00:07:12.020 yeah um i don't know about you guys but i'm having a great time
00:07:18.680 we're in new orleans
00:07:21.300 i mean that's a good looking guy
00:07:28.960 okay well
00:07:32.600 all right let's let's see this one
00:07:42.660 guys i'm so over being the man in the talking stage dating stage married stage
00:07:50.100 do not make me initiate everything do not make me back for you
00:07:57.460 i am the woman you are the man it is not reversed i'm not here opening the door for you 0.73
00:08:06.340 paying for your bills you know how many times i have been the man i am sick of that i'm sick of it 0.53
00:08:18.740 men are meant to chase men are meant to pursue why why is this day and age everything is like
00:08:25.380 reverse i i know women are see that's that's inverted women are supposed to be obsessed 1.00
00:08:30.660 with a guy and chase him down and fall in love and etc. I mean, it's inverted when the man's
00:08:36.700 obsessed with the woman, you know, it's just not. Being confused at this rate. Are there still men
00:08:42.200 out there who want to be providers and pursuers and leaders and not bums? Like are there, let me 1.00
00:08:53.540 know let me know i'm 27 i'm in colorado i'm a single mom i have one son and he's amazing
00:09:03.460 all the guys were like oh maybe and then she said i have one son they're like next
00:09:08.820 he's seven years old so you also guys take okay be honest incurable std child
00:09:16.260 herpes or kid put it in the chat what would you gun to your head hsv1 or kid and hsv2 or kid
00:09:28.420 is there any other incurable stds i don't want to say aids like nobody's trying to die over this but
00:09:34.100 i have to be able to take what would i i think i'd pick the kid i like kids
00:09:40.420 i mean but i mean it's different i'm a girl i wouldn't be responsible for it
00:09:45.060 the whole package okay if you can't do the stepdad thing if you don't want to
00:09:51.240 have kids I'm not a good fit for you however if you are okay with being a
00:09:58.560 stepdad and a dad for more children and if you want to be a provider and a leader
00:10:04.740 and if you're a man of God and want to travel and change the world together
00:10:13.000 together and whatever that's like all i want i do a lot of different i like how she doesn't say
00:10:20.480 anything she can give it's just what this is i want it's like i don't know like women like this 1.00
00:10:26.440 it's weird because she has a kid so i assume she's had a real relationship but i'm like have you been
00:10:30.960 in one things though so you do have to be okay with all my occupations because i'm never going
00:10:35.160 to stop my dreams ever again for any man i've been married before i'm just not willing to
00:10:41.580 stop what makes me happy because i am a singer songwriter i am a model esthetician and makeup
00:10:47.820 artist yeah see she's trying to posture like men like a man saying this would be cool if he said
00:10:52.260 i'm a model um you're not a makeup artist but like i do this um i sing you know then the women 0.99
00:10:58.440 would be like wow but women try to do that and men just don't content creator entrepreneur i have my
00:11:04.720 own businesses um i have all organic and vegan skincare hair care body care holistic health
00:11:09.980 wellness products that i make soy wax candles i make jewelry i do a lot so whoever
00:11:17.980 is privileged to be my god you you're saying it's pretty your it's privileged to
00:11:25.340 let me get this straight it's the man is privileged to date the single month you just
00:11:30.700 can't make this up man one day just has to be okay with everything that i do
00:11:35.260 you and truly support me from the bottom of their heart and not get jealous or insecure
00:11:40.240 i just need a really good solid rock foundation man someone who's already confident and happy
00:11:45.420 within himself and who can help heal me and not hurt me and yeah i was not expecting this video
00:11:53.920 to be that long but if you feel like you qualify then i am taking applications down below if you
00:12:01.900 qualified dear god oh no that's pretty desperate um whatever you know i i guess try it but if
00:12:11.260 what i would recommend for her not that anyone i mean i'm a failure obviously so i don't know why
00:12:18.140 yeah i mean listen to me don't listen to me but for her i mean she's cute enough 1.00
00:12:24.780 she could still get a guy i think depending on how like what does she look like this literally 1.00
00:12:29.580 looks like a clown um all right let's let's go to her page let's um
00:12:37.260 i have lost over 16 pounds in only three weeks and i'll show you what i've been doing in my daily
00:12:42.460 routine but we're going oh that's her um yeah she needs to be thinner if you need i mean she's cute 1.00
00:12:52.220 i guess um 20 pounds just get back with the kid's father that's what you need to do you need to go
00:13:01.340 back and beg uh colorado so where would you meet men okay what age group would i say to go for
00:13:09.820 obviously you're going to want to go for like a 22 year old kid that just does not know better
00:13:13.740 you're going to want to ruin his life option one you can pull michaela peterson option two you can
00:13:20.540 pole um 30s 40s maybe a guy in his 50s maybe no because they're not gonna want it's a tough
00:13:32.460 predicament single moms are in because 28 to 35 maybe he'll get tired of the streets at like 35 0.94
00:13:40.300 you can go for that age you're cooked you're done anyway i mean at this rate you're done you're
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