Pearl - Modern Women Don't Know How To Take L's

00:00:00.000 good afternoon good evening ladies and gentlemen welcome to another episode of pearl daily here

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00:00:26.980 10 bucks a month 80 bucks a year and i do read your chats so today we are going to talk about

00:00:32.180 the art of taking an l this really is a lost art but before we do i wanted to start the show

00:00:40.740 with the funniest video i have seen in a while i wanted to there is a show where people basically

00:00:50.340 call in and figure out why their date didn't call them back so you guys ever go on a date

00:00:57.780 and you think that date went amazing you think it's the best date you ever had

00:01:02.020 you think i have locked this in the bag and then you never hear from them again it's 2024

00:01:08.900 if it hasn't happened to you it's abnormal you're the weird one sorry no this woman called into a

00:01:15.860 show to figure out why this guy did not call her back and this so what they do is the two show

00:01:22.020 hosts they get the guy on the phone and the guy does not know that the woman is there so they get

00:01:28.020 the woman to be quiet or vice versa right sometimes it's a man calling about why a woman didn't call

00:01:32.740 him back so i just saw this this um video and i thought it was so funny so the first word is she

00:01:42.820 i um i cut it at the wrong spot when i screen recorded it but let's let's go

00:01:48.500 oh no it's you so he says you psychos okay let me turn the sound up make sure this is oh

00:01:56.180 that was the problem psychos put her on the phone oh my god yes she's been here the whole time

00:02:03.300 chris you do not need to be scared of me there is nothing to be scared of

00:02:07.440 hello chris he's scared what you said was crazy it was crazy okay chris let me be real right now

00:02:17.860 I do not like my roommate.

00:02:19.980 She's messy and crazy.

00:02:22.040 And yeah, I've thought about how I would kill her,

00:02:24.400 but I would never do that.

00:02:25.580 I'm just a really passionate, funny person, okay?

00:02:29.280 No, stop, I'm being serious.

00:02:31.800 Nobody goes into details

00:02:33.640 on how they would kill their roommate.

00:02:35.460 Not in detail, just like, okay,

00:02:37.220 a lot of people watch CSI and shows like that.

00:02:40.580 So like, I am not alone in this.

00:02:42.040 I'm just, like, sometimes they'll be watching the show

00:02:45.220 and like, she'll do something annoying again.

00:02:47.860 And I'll just go in my mind and like think

00:02:51.360 about what I would do, how I would do it.

00:02:54.420 And it makes me feel better.

00:02:55.800 And I would never actually do it.

00:02:59.420 Come on, I love mac and cheese.

00:03:01.180 I'm not a serial killer.

00:03:02.680 That does not mean anything.

00:03:04.480 I mean, I think everybody here, including Chris,

00:03:07.000 has had a lot of bad roommates

00:03:08.620 and nobody has ever fantasized

00:03:10.420 about chopping them into little pieces.

00:03:12.920 I'm terrified right now, if anybody wants to know.

00:03:15.980 yeah thank you for popping up chris i was actually wondering i want to pull in the chat i'm gonna do

00:03:21.980 would you call her how do we do a poll you know how to do a poll in the chat i want to know if

00:03:26.220 you guys would call her back we're gonna keep going all right i want to say did he

00:03:33.500 did he yeah i'm putting it did he dodge a bullet we're gonna watch the rest

00:03:39.820 and when you guys have made a decision i want you guys to answer because the comments on this

00:03:47.100 were funny half the guys thought what's he freaking out about the other half were saying

00:03:51.900 he dodged a bullet so i want you guys i want to know what my audience thinks and i'm gonna ask

00:03:57.580 i'm gonna put i am a woman for the two women that are watching today i appreciate you ladies

00:04:03.260 okay hearing about that okay so rebecca you don't really want to kill your roommate

00:04:08.540 no of course not you can understand like if you were on a date with a guy

00:04:15.920 and he was talking about how he was gonna off his buddy that would be kind of a red flag if he was

00:04:23.180 talking about murdering like his friend in like a funny way i would laugh funny way are you guys

00:04:29.760 are you guys listening to this she's still talking about it i just wanted the date to be about mac

00:04:34.520 and cheese not murder oh my god you just don't get it i was just joking like blowing off steam

00:04:42.680 like being a fun human being what's wrong with you people don't blow off steam by fantasizing

00:04:48.680 about murder i'm sure other people do how about this chris would you like to go on a second date

00:05:00.520 with rebecca we will pay for it you could not pay me enough oh i mean if you think of it this way

00:05:06.680 there's no way she has any outstanding warrants or anything she wouldn't do a radio thing if that

00:05:11.320 was the case i don't want to know anything about her background i don't i'm terrified i'm going

00:05:16.760 to be tied to a future crime she commits you actually honestly 100 believe that i am capable

00:05:24.440 of murdering someone are you serious are you serious come on just be normal you're so cute

00:05:33.000 oh my god that is a plea that so many women have said before chris will you be normal you're so

00:05:38.840 cute will you go out with her again one more time i'm normal and she's not and we're not going out

00:05:44.680 again all right well thank you for telling us about your date i think you're safe now oh he is

00:05:51.720 not safe i'm gonna keep messaging you because you're cute and if you think i'm crazy i'll be

00:05:56.360 crazy whoa you haven't seen anything yet that was just joking rebecca he doesn't want to go out with

00:06:03.960 you though just like cut your losses you can find somebody else who's cute and normal on your level

00:06:09.800 and like mac and cheese i doubt it chris we're going out next friday to the third restaurant

00:06:14.840 okay oh are you guys hearing this yeah i am it sounds like you have a date i'm sorry i think

00:06:21.400 you should show up we'll still pay for it we're gonna pay for it you go there on friday okay and

00:06:28.760 if i don't show up in like an hour just keep waiting because i'll be there

00:06:35.160 you psychos so what do you guys think did he dodge a bullet

00:06:38.760 okay the chat the chat 84 says yes I thought she was kind of funny

00:06:46.100 I thought she was funny sue me but you know what most women barely know how to speak proper

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00:09:21.120 going to talk about the art of taking an L. Now, what is taking an L in life? You know,

00:09:28.480 an example is getting fired from your job. That's an L. Another example is a man simping really hard,

00:09:35.720 paying for a woman for months. You know, there's men that pay women's rent without getting any

00:09:40.580 poonanny. Zero. Nothing. Do you know what that's called? An L. And one of the biggest differences

00:09:49.060 between men and women is women, men are better at taking losses because society tells men where

00:10:01.500 they are, where they stand, and if they are good enough early on in life. Men get audited where

00:10:08.200 women do not. You know, if a woman is average looking, she can get above average results by

00:10:14.960 putting on a pound of makeup getting a good boob job and you know putting on a filter on a dating

00:10:23.120 app boom and you guys know how you are if you're already on the date and she's hot enough even if

00:10:30.720 she catfished you guys a little bit can we just be honest here i'm really tired of the dishonesty

00:10:35.920 if you guys get on a date and even if she doesn't look like her pictures if she's attractive enough

00:10:42.640 you still might do it like let's not i hate it when you guys cap to me i really don't like it

00:10:49.200 so the average modern women will will take l's in the modern women life cycle especially when

00:10:57.200 it comes to dating in the early and mid 20s we all know what the dating apps are telling us women

00:11:02.720 are sharing men there's no special app that's different if a woman is on a dating app or even

00:11:09.120 instagram and really most of history monogamy is a relatively new thing historically so

00:11:18.640 we are sharing men it's it's literally in our dna so women are going to sleep with at least

00:11:25.280 one man in her life that is not interested in anything but sex most women will have a time

00:11:31.520 where they thought things were headed towards something serious ignoring all the red flags

00:11:36.160 along the way just to find out that that guy had no intention of being a relationship or maybe he

00:11:42.000 was initially you know interested in being in a relationship but he changed his mind

00:11:47.760 not only do women not know how to take l's but there's a whole social infrastructure in place

00:11:53.120 to prevent women from doing so how many of you guys have seen an idiot woman in a job that she

00:12:00.320 does not deserve how many guys have seen a man dating a woman that offers nothing and you keep

00:12:09.680 thinking you could dump her now that is a blue-haired feminist she has blue hair

00:12:17.200 you know she she fights with you every single day her personality isn't even good

00:12:23.280 she cheated on you five times brad and you think what the hell is he doing well

00:12:30.320 I mean, again, you know, men have a tendency to accept less than they deserve.

00:12:38.880 I mean, how many of you guys have seen that in a father, an uncle, a friend?

00:12:42.560 That's not uncommon.

00:12:45.080 A man can keep a woman on friends with benefits for years with the woman being a willing participant,

00:12:52.020 but the man is still demonized even if she knew full well what the situation was.

00:12:58.400 many of you guys have seen a sister i don't know maybe some of you had a single mother i don't know

00:13:04.240 a sister a mother a friend who was clearly in a situationship that she wanted to be more and was

00:13:12.320 going nowhere if if a woman wants to be in a relationship and she is a situationship and she

00:13:21.280 she is in a situationship, which is sex without commitment, that is an L. Now, I understand that

00:13:28.340 sometimes it's the man in the situationship. I mean, I hear stories from you guys. You know,

00:13:34.200 I've heard stories from men where they wanted to be in a relationship and the woman told them no.

00:13:39.140 I find this really common in the men right below the chads, like they're almost chads. So the ladies

00:13:45.720 are going for the chads but in between they might go for a below chat and the below chat is like

00:13:52.520 dang this woman's hot i'll take it i'll take it off the lots or i want i want this one and she's

00:13:59.800 like no i just want something casual that happens too but you know what are the solutions what who

00:14:09.720 do i see i want to talk about who i see winning in this market because i know we talk about the

00:14:15.080 sex is you know drifting further and further apart but every now and then i like to talk

00:14:19.960 about the ladies that i've seen win i know i like to rag on us and talk about the modern

00:14:25.560 woman life cycle and i do want to give a disclaimer that these sometimes may sound

00:14:30.920 like generalizations um and maybe they are but this is based on my personal experience

00:14:36.680 and what i've seen i interviewed a thousand people in london um and just over the years

00:14:43.400 i've been on a lot of different volleyball teams and a lot of different social groups so

00:14:47.560 you know you guys can take it or leave it but this is just the women that i've seen win at

00:14:52.600 least right now i can't predict what will happen in the future now the common pattern i noticed

00:14:59.640 with these women is they had the ability to put their ego aside ignore what everybody was telling

00:15:07.240 them not take personal anything that wasn't their fault and that was how they won so there was a

00:15:15.060 girl I knew in college and freshman year she started hooking up with this guy on the baseball

00:15:20.280 team now this guy on the baseball team was a bit of a player you know what I mean like he

00:15:25.960 he was one of the better looking ones she hitched she was on that wagon from freshman year and for

00:15:31.940 about five years she was in this situation ship now the men are thinking women will give it up

00:15:38.060 for free for years they don't move on they have so many options look guys I'm just telling you

00:15:44.000 what I've seen and this woman was so attack and to be fair he was probably two points above her

00:15:50.000 and looks like I'd give her like a six he's probably an eight and I thought at the time

00:15:57.320 thought she was stupid i'm being honest okay i'm you know i'm not always right and at this point

00:16:03.000 i thought she was an idiot i thought he was never gonna date her i mean guys from my perspective

00:16:07.800 it had been five years and you know recently i checked up on them she's now pregnant with his kid

00:16:18.040 so what did she do how did she win she won by not listening to the women like me at the time

00:16:24.360 to all of the people telling her he was never going to commit

00:16:28.800 and sticking it out and doing it now to be fair i want to be fair that's not always going to work

00:16:36.680 there are women that do that and they just dump them and marry the next that that happens too

00:16:42.480 but the thing is men have more of a sense of duty so some women that stick it out the men feel

00:16:49.700 loyal to they think you know what this woman has been there i've gone for the women i actually want

00:16:55.780 and they they're not really that loyal to me so good enough you know men when they're ready to

00:17:05.460 settle down have kids do their thing they'll take good enough women unfortunately you know what

00:17:11.220 we do too we do on some level but then we divorce them later men are just kind of better people

00:17:17.780 not all not all not all now i know another woman it was the same thing you know she had a boyfriend

00:17:24.660 this wasn't a situationship but she wanted to be married she met him in college and right after

00:17:30.500 college she wanted to marry him and he said naseki nada no i'm not doing it because i am not ready

00:17:38.820 now she had two options here she could have went and found the next guy but this guy was a bit of

00:17:44.340 a chad you know he was six four he made he went out of college making about 250 300 000 a year

00:17:55.700 i'm not saying she can't replace him but that's tough right you know and i'm not gonna say she

00:18:00.980 didn't have other men that maybe would have been just as good because let's let's be honest here

00:18:06.260 if a woman can attract one guy on that level it's not unheard of for her to be able to attract

00:18:12.740 another. But she said, you know what, I'm going to stick it out. And 10 years later, she got the

00:18:18.480 ring. And the thing is, the women I see winning are women that are willing to take the risk.

00:18:25.360 Now, there's this new wave of female dating advice where the new strategy is to hold out

00:18:30.960 as long as possible on giving men girlfriend treatment. No sex, no cooking, no cleaning

00:18:40.240 until I get what I want. And I don't really see those women winning. And the reason I don't

00:18:47.000 is because they're going into it with so much fear. They go in afraid of the worst that could

00:18:53.920 happen. Now I know, let's go another woman who took an L. There was a woman at my college.

00:19:02.360 She was the biggest 304. My God. She was sleeping with everyone, guys.

00:19:07.240 i'm just being honest here but you know again women have to do different strategies in order

00:19:15.040 to win you know not every woman has this like a woman that's an eight strategy and a woman that's

00:19:20.600 a five strategy it's going to be completely different you know an eight might be able to

00:19:25.700 hold off on sex way longer than a guy's going to wait for a five you know what i mean like it's

00:19:30.480 just not it's not the same but this girl I put her at maybe a seven strong seven right

00:19:37.640 she didn't have to sleep with everyone I'm gonna be honest she really didn't have to do that but

00:19:42.520 she did she wanted to but she realized the position she was in and what she decided to do

00:19:48.900 is she was just gonna learn to be really nice not really play any games with the sex any guy

00:19:56.240 that she was interested in was gonna get it and get really good in bed and eventually there was

00:20:05.160 a taker I mean what do you guys want you want you know and sometimes men not always not always I

00:20:13.520 know I know I know sometimes men will go for the hoe who's nice over the bitchy prude because

00:20:21.480 sometimes you wonder you think why on earth would a guy marry that woman we see it happen with porn

00:20:26.080 stars but the thing with slutty women is sometimes they take the time to understand men where

00:20:36.240 the prudes don't always because they think all they have to do

00:20:40.400 is not have had sex with that many people now granted men's standards are pretty low nowadays

00:20:47.760 a lot of men will take that they will but not the men we're all fighting for on the dating apps not

00:20:55.280 the men that they were fighting for on campus right the men that have choice are going to be

00:21:01.040 selective or at least more selective than the men that don't so i did a couple thoughts i had

00:21:09.280 these women had to figure out how to move on from the l's those guys made them took

00:21:15.520 if those women were constantly bringing up the fact that he took a decade to propose they

00:21:21.600 probably never would have gotten a ring. If the woman was constantly bringing up that she was in

00:21:28.520 a situationship and she did so much for him, blah, blah, blah, she never would have got the ring.

00:21:35.520 The women that win, if they're going to take an L, they move on from it fast. They really do.

00:21:44.860 now I wanted to talk about reasons men will not call you back you know I've been taking polls

00:21:52.820 from women privately I think I need to do like an anonymous poll because this is just from the

00:21:58.020 ladies and I asked them the question how many men did you sleep with to get your boyfriend

00:22:02.940 because let's be honest women think they have a boyfriend a lot of times especially in the cities

00:22:09.600 women could think they're in a full-fledged relationship with a guy and it could just

00:22:13.920 be a situationship with him. So the question is, how many men did you have to sleep with

00:22:19.500 in order to get to commitment? The lowest number I got, three. The highest number I

00:22:25.720 got, 17. And, you know, I put in the reasons that men, you guys can add to this, are not

00:22:35.460 going to call you back. Number one, you're self-centered. You don't talk about anything

00:22:40.620 but yourself. But they want to bang, right? They want the sex. So they got to pretend you're not

00:22:47.560 for the night. Men can do that. You're too annoying, too awkward, too overweight,

00:22:53.700 too much of a slut. Now, these are the things that are completely in your control,

00:23:06.260 right? If you're really annoying, you can kind of work on that. Get a little bit better.

00:23:10.620 you're really overweight you can hit the treadmill if you're too self-centered those are things you

00:23:15.340 can improve and men they figure that out in dating right because they go on some dates and men are

00:23:21.180 just more strategic and analytical than us so they they're trying to actually fix their problems we

00:23:27.260 just want to talk about it and complain so reasons men don't call you back that are out of your

00:23:33.740 control one you're not as tight look i have a guy friend and you know by the way sometimes

00:23:44.060 yeah i'm gonna go i have a guy friend and his type is tall blondes that's just his thing he

00:23:50.860 likes the big boobs but i've seen him date asian women i've seen him date latina women i've seen

00:23:59.420 seen him hook up with them maybe date for a couple months but I know and he knows that when it's time

00:24:06.940 to settle down he is going to do it with a tall blonde because that's his type now do some men

00:24:13.800 compromise and say you know what maybe that's something I can let go sure that totally happens

00:24:21.040 but the men with the most choice, they're going to be picky. Ben Affleck messed around with

00:24:30.740 minority women. He dated J-Lo, but when it came time to settle down, he had kids with Jennifer

00:24:37.980 Gardner. Some men have a specific type or they want their kids to look like them.

00:24:44.400 Some men have a type that they're going to sleep with and not marry.

00:24:48.740 me. There is a certain level of attractiveness for a woman that a man is going to be seen

00:24:56.680 in public with. Guys, fellas, one in the chat, if you've ever been at a club or a bar and

00:25:06.200 you're drinking and you might have slept with or made out with a girl you're not really

00:25:13.940 proud of who's done it let's just be honest here please stop capping who who has hooked up with a

00:25:24.640 whale who's done it someone's doing it they're too these the overweight women are too confident

00:25:32.120 for none of you to have done it yep yep two he's just not ready to settle down you know you could

00:25:43.460 Let me, our biological clock ticks a little faster than the men, a lot faster.

00:25:52.000 Let's say you want four kids, you probably got to start between 425.

00:25:56.300 Let's say you're a woman, you want four children and you met Prince Charming at 22.

00:26:02.220 Well, Prince Charming, sometimes he has career goals he wants to do first and accomplish

00:26:08.460 first.

00:26:10.100 And it doesn't matter how much nagging you do.

00:26:13.460 he is not going to settle down the men we want right I mean

00:26:17.580 men the the more desperate men they're they're gonna they're gonna give up what they want for

00:26:28.460 whatever the mediocre pussy wants right that's that's what they'll do they'll move to it they'll

00:26:34.960 they'll do they will but the men that we compete for the small percentage of men it's not really

00:26:40.740 just an income thing it's more of a mindset they're not going to do it until they want to do it

00:26:47.300 and then you have two options you can risk it right you can spend more youth and hope

00:26:55.860 that he decides to have two children or he decides to have a kid with you

00:27:03.140 before you're 35 or 30.

00:27:05.060 and you know some women pay a price for that they get dumped and then he marries the next woman

00:27:14.040 there's no guarantees there's only different strategies strategy number two

00:27:19.840 dump him and find someone else that's it that's all you got there's no and a lot of times in when

00:27:30.600 I, dating is just different strategies, right? There's just different strategies to get what

00:27:37.500 you want. There's no guarantees. Sometimes you have the best strategy on the planet

00:27:42.080 and you just took an L. I mean, how many men out there were great fathers and did all the

00:27:48.740 things right? They, I mean, so there's one guy that's been on our show. His requirements for

00:27:54.740 wife were two parents in the home under 27 had to have no debt response had to have a real job like

00:28:05.300 responsible um like and um worked with kids he found it and guess what she still ruined

00:28:15.860 his life what else was he supposed to do you know i've had men marry virgin women

00:28:21.940 that were homeschooled and they ruined their life all we have is different strategy it's the same

00:28:27.780 for women you know in all honesty i've seen more women be rewarded for waiting it out there's this

00:28:35.700 you know trend on social media where they say if he doesn't give you exactly what you want

00:28:42.580 immediately like the marriage the ring the children i find that when men give women

00:28:48.340 exactly what they want immediately usually they're just more in it to get what they want the kid but

00:28:57.100 i find that the women that waited out they seem to be more loyal at this point in my life i mean

00:29:02.140 i don't know maybe it'll switch in a decade of what i see this is just what i've seen the people

00:29:06.460 i knew in high school and college so again another reason that he might not call you back that's out

00:29:16.200 your controls you're just not attractive enough for him there are strategies to try to improve

00:29:22.520 this right try losing weight but if you're in shape there's really not much you can do

00:29:28.440 now i'm not gonna simp a lot of the traditional conservatives and virtue signalers online will say

00:29:36.680 plastic surgery does not work men hate plastic surgery

00:29:40.040 that's true when they know about it the problem is I've shown men pictures of faces like with

00:29:54.460 nose jobs for example boob jobs are a little bit more obvious but this stuff the technology is

00:30:02.340 getting better and better and better the men can't always tell they think they're smarter than they

00:30:06.560 are I'm sorry you guys I'm not gonna I'm not gonna virtue signal right now and pretend I haven't seen

00:30:13.180 it work ever but I've seen both I've seen women really mess up their face I really have I've seen

00:30:20.560 women that were pretty go to below average but I've also seen women that were average go up like

00:30:27.380 one or two points there's no guarantees in life so there's only trade-offs one man I know said

00:30:35.480 he would not marry his wife unless she got a boob job because he was a boob guy and he's like look

00:30:39.680 she did it so what i'm gonna tell you guys that i've never seen that help what do you want me to

00:30:48.020 do so the boob jobs can be toxic they totally can but i see men getting height surgery there's a guy

00:30:57.280 that got height surgery who said it was the best investment he ever made how am i gonna be that

00:31:04.440 black and white and say, no, plastic surgery is always a bad idea. Now, it's expensive.

00:31:16.480 And if you're going to go the plastic surgery route, you're going to want to go

00:31:20.680 for the men that are a little more superficial and in the city. You're not going to want to go

00:31:25.600 for the country. The country guys, they're not going to be with that. They see it as an expense.

00:31:31.040 the city is a bit more superficial so the city the guys there many of them are probe i've heard

00:31:38.480 men say they want their wives to get botox there then these are high earning men that i've heard

00:31:45.320 say this the country the culture is a little different pearl's right it's the deceit

00:31:52.760 look i'm not gonna lie to you guys

00:31:56.780 look at they've done polls on men on which boobs they prefer and they didn't tell them

00:32:05.000 which were natural and which weren't which ones do you think men picked

00:32:08.260 they they've done the youtube videos of men trying to guess what's natural what's not

00:32:16.260 now this makes the guys feel icky they don't like being tricked they don't like being deceived

00:32:20.780 and you know we could talk about the morality of it right we could go into

00:32:26.120 you is this moral is this not moral and you might feel like it's not moral the country people they

00:32:33.600 tend to have more morals the city people have less morals just in general right just in general

00:32:40.360 look I'm not telling you one way or another I'm trying to tell you what I've seen work

00:32:46.100 and what I've seen not work but you got to be really careful with the plastic surgery because

00:32:51.820 you can mess up your face real easy. It just takes one bad surgery.

00:33:02.700 Now, I did some strategies for the ladies to get out of a situationship because I have seen women

00:33:09.180 move out of the fuck zone to the wife zone. Now, I do understand that men put you in categories and

00:33:15.260 most of the time you're stuck, but I want to talk about the women I've seen get out of it.

00:33:21.600 Number one, wait until he's ready.

00:33:24.340 Now, this strategy is going to work better if a woman's in her early 20s, late teens.

00:33:31.640 The reason is she's got more time to bargain with, right?

00:33:35.520 But that's why you get the older women saying their biological clock is ticking

00:33:39.900 because they decided to wait it out and make it the men's problem.

00:33:46.240 You know, men, they want to feel like stuff happens naturally.

00:33:48.940 They don't want to feel like it's forced.

00:33:50.280 and when you come in saying i want to be married at this time have kids within this time

00:33:55.800 again that's just making them pay for your problem

00:34:01.000 to be more attractive you know a guy will screw around with a girl that's like 20 pounds overweight

00:34:08.200 at 2 a.m please stop acting like you guys are above it can you please stop please

00:34:15.000 I am tired of this chat don't say situationship to me look we're in 2024 I'm using the modern terms

00:34:26.140 what do you want so be more attractive get in better shape you can go the plastic surgery

00:34:36.340 route but that's a risk right what I would do is I'd study who has he dated officially before

00:34:43.400 and how much hotter were they than you i'm assuming they're hotter than you because there's

00:34:48.940 just no way that's usually that's if it's an attractions thing that's what i would do

00:34:54.780 you got to find his exes how much more attractive than you are they and can you get close you know

00:35:03.040 because men will go down a point or two but every man has a limit because they know if you're here

00:35:08.200 it's just going to go down you're going to have kids they got to mentally add on the 20 pounds

00:35:12.960 that comes with the kids i mean they're pragmatic right i'm hitting them all pearl of course you are

00:35:21.200 black panther of course obvious i mean come on now the other ways i've seen women be useful

00:35:33.680 pearl it's a unicorn okay okay these are the unicorns i've seen god

00:35:39.280 um obviously there's cooking right but especially in the city in the country men value this more

00:35:49.360 in the city there's guys that just get chipotle and they have like two or three restaurants or

00:35:55.340 food that they go to they don't care about that as much it's just not as important to them

00:36:03.820 in the country, it's more important. You could pack his lunch, counting the calories if you

00:36:12.380 got a gym guy. You pack the lunch, put the protein powder in, whatever. I've seen women

00:36:20.860 help with a guy's business or work. So one woman, he didn't have, many women want to help a guy with

00:36:27.480 his business. But the problem is most men don't have businesses. They have jobs. Most men don't

00:36:32.340 to work about things they're passionate about right so they get to work for things they have

00:36:36.980 to do but she knew her man did not really like his job he just it wasn't so what she decided to do

00:36:45.540 was give him a social media rebrand she got she picked out the outfits that would make him look

00:36:51.460 good she had him take social media new linkedin pictures she made him a resume and she started

00:36:59.300 applying to new places for him that's helpful that's another woman i know and this woman this

00:37:06.980 was her last shot i gotta be honest she was like 37 when she met her husband this was she was

00:37:11.860 divorced this was her last shot yeah this woman knew it's either this either works out or i'm

00:37:18.580 cooked i'm done they said pearl you were ruined by the city do you want me to not have eyes

00:37:24.660 this is the thing country people sometimes can be a little naive

00:37:29.400 the the city is just a little bit more savage but the men because what happens is the women

00:37:35.880 come back from the city and it doesn't even have to be that big of a city

00:37:40.580 but and the men don't know the tricks and then they get they get played

00:37:46.740 look I don't care you guys can take it or leave it okay so this woman figured out how to code

00:37:58.400 and built her husband a website she told me it was the hardest thing she ever did she quit her

00:38:03.460 marketing job she said you know what he's got a business he's it's a side hustle now I'm gonna

00:38:08.220 quit I'm gonna work for him I was thinking in my industry YouTube editing that could help

00:38:14.000 you guys can put stuff in the chat that you think of i'm just these were off the dome right

00:38:24.320 i put massages guys like massages you know now number four is so learning to be useful really

00:38:33.440 is just paying attention to your guy maybe he likes cooking and you can help him be neater

00:38:41.160 it's not doing the things he already likes to do some guys like to cook you learn to clean

00:38:46.680 you know it's figuring out what he doesn't like to do when doing that

00:38:52.140 now the next is being less annoying you know when men come back from a hard day's work they

00:38:59.600 just want peace and quiet they don't want any problems so you know there's listening to

00:39:05.040 understand instead of waiting for your turn to talk talking less apologizing how many of you

00:39:11.120 guys have dated a woman that did not know how to apologize and could never see when she was wrong

00:39:19.360 you know guys we get it's never been easier to date a guy out of our league

00:39:25.120 it really i believe this because the market is so bad right now i mean out of our competition

00:39:33.040 80% of women are overweight you're competing with 20% of women and the hot women tend to go to the

00:39:41.680 cities so there's a lot of bad decisions there that are made so you know learning to apologize

00:39:55.180 and just admitting when you're wrong does a lot.

00:40:00.580 Don't be a big bill.

00:40:02.260 If you have expensive habits, pay for them yourself

00:40:05.980 and expect to pay for them for a lifetime.

00:40:11.220 Or, which goes to my next point, being financially responsible.

00:40:20.480 You know, there's women that do their nails every two weeks.

00:40:23.960 how many could learn to do them themselves expensive haircuts could go maybe go to the

00:40:31.900 gym instead of getting a bbl i don't know pay off your debt no man wants a monthly house payment

00:40:40.300 to start a marriage don't be a bill with a big mouth

00:40:45.220 now the men that actually get laid the men that are part of the sexual marketplace the men that

00:40:52.540 women are competing for. They know that women have to go to places to socialize in order to

00:41:01.360 meet men. Unless you're going to go the complete digital route, which is an option, but let's say

00:41:06.140 you don't. They're not really going to fault you if you go to a bar sometimes, if you have hobbies

00:41:15.600 with other people around. That's not it. But a man wants to be with a woman whose hobbies and

00:41:22.000 activities can be dropped to put him as a priority and they could benefit both parties

00:41:32.720 yes now the next thing that i think women sometimes take ells because we can't figure

00:41:41.120 out what we want now there is a woman i played volleyball with guys i have these stories for

00:41:46.960 days i've been on a different volleyball team pretty much every year it's like 10 new women a

00:41:52.160 year you get pretty close with them in like six months god i have these stories for days

00:41:58.320 she really just liked pookies that was just her thing you know but she was trying to fight it

00:42:04.800 and i understand trying to fight it right i get it told the story before so she dated a guy

00:42:12.560 freshman sophomore year that was a pookie he was totally pookie ray ray he was on the football team

00:42:20.000 junior senior year she starts dating a new guy now this guy looked

00:42:24.400 come i'm not going to go into looks but the one guy was built football player

00:42:31.200 the other guy had a beer belly just not not as attractive i'm just being honest here and she

00:42:38.000 moved on to him and it's not like women go into relationships maliciously but i think a lot of

00:42:44.640 times we can't answer the question of what she wanted now we went to this we had day parties i

00:42:50.080 don't know if you guys had those in college but it's like everyone's drinking outside and i go

00:42:54.480 into the basement of the like to go into the bathroom right and i'm waiting for like hours

00:43:01.600 for like it felt like hours for this bathroom and she was at a party with her current boyfriend

00:43:09.120 hooking up in the bathroom with the guy from freshman year because deep down that was her type

00:43:17.600 her type was a pookie now if you want gavin the starving musician if you want pookie ray ray

00:43:26.240 I would suggest, you know, we got to work with you here, you know, because the men will say,

00:43:32.580 we'll just be attracted to the other thing. Good luck. You guys are way too logical. You guys can

00:43:37.560 do that. Women, not so much. Once a woman has a type, it's tough to switch it. And that's why

00:43:45.920 they end up in sexless marriages is because the woman gives up their type for marriage and then

00:43:51.060 can't figure out why she doesn't want to sleep with her husband. So if I was advising this woman,

00:43:56.180 would say look you got to break up with this guy i'm sorry i mean or you can cheat on him

00:44:02.340 for life because i don't see you stopping now i just i can't if i had to predict the future

00:44:08.980 i just can't see you if you're doing this now i don't see you not doing it later now

00:44:14.580 she's still with this guy this guy does not know what i would say is look you like pookies you

00:44:20.180 like ray rays you like the starving musicians let's go find one that has enough money that

00:44:27.860 is stable there's men you know okay you're never gonna be rich let's give that up let's let's

00:44:35.380 forget that but let's let's go for one option let's why don't you go for a coach if you like

00:44:42.340 the athletes. Let's go for a coach that's employed. Now he's going to cheat, probably.

00:44:52.900 They're not faithful, but let's just accept that because you're either going to be the cheater or

00:44:57.300 you're going to be cheated on in this scenario. So I would say let's go to a personal trainer,

00:45:03.700 ask him how many clients he has. He is probably going to bang them, let's just be honest here,

00:45:09.140 but i'm trying to be pragmatic based on what she wants based on her actions not her words her actions

00:45:18.500 music teacher right you can if you like musicians go for the music teacher

00:45:23.060 ask and figure out how many students he has somebody has to own a music studio that makes money

00:45:30.100 an actor right and but an actor that's semi-employed

00:45:34.260 if he makes 45 000 a year 35 000 that's called good enough take it he's going to make that for

00:45:43.100 life don't expect him to get better because i mean this is the industry look at i'm just trying

00:45:49.720 to be pragmatic now some women they want a wife instead of a husband and i don't you know i don't

00:45:56.160 think anyone's right or wrong this is the thing everyone wants to say i did it this way live like

00:46:02.060 me. That's the conservative fantasy is I had 10 children, five children. My wife stayed home,

00:46:11.140 lived like me. But I could point to three people that didn't work out for. You know, that's why

00:46:15.460 it's really important to do what you want. Because if you live life for other people, you know, the

00:46:22.100 woman, she was living life for her family because she was going off of what they wanted instead of

00:46:29.320 what she wanted. And maybe, you know, maybe that's good. I don't know. You could, but I'm trying to

00:46:36.420 be pragmatic to help to, if I was to strategize how to get what you want. Okay. Some women want

00:46:47.560 a wife instead of a husband. They want to pursue the career and they want to give nothing up

00:46:54.760 when they have children they're not going to leave their career behind she wants to have it all

00:47:01.020 and have him deal with all that foolishness you want she wants to travel for work

00:47:05.540 some options here you know you could go the customer service men in retail i bet there

00:47:13.020 is some men working at home depot with some muscles not that good looking men

00:47:18.580 that you could go for if you do it at a sports store you know maybe in an industry that's

00:47:25.700 kind of hot right you know where if they knew a lot about that industry maybe they sell guns

00:47:31.220 male teachers

00:47:34.680 but it's got to be guys that one

00:47:41.020 don't have a ton of options but have some because i don't want you to cheat either

00:47:48.760 they said the amish community kate takes care of your their own go there at your own risk

00:47:55.480 go be amish have fun i don't go ahead everyone talks about looking now you want a super good

00:48:04.100 looking man okay let's strategize models club promoters djs actors it maybe looks personal

00:48:14.820 trainer maybe looks is what you want you have only dated hot broke like what i'm trying to do is i'm

00:48:21.060 trying to go with the ladies that they want stupid things but they're never gonna stop wanting stupid

00:48:27.220 things so let's try to let's try to find a stupid thing that works at least better right let's try

00:48:34.900 to be pragmatic um they fear being dominated and they want to and they start to screw over the only

00:48:44.020 one who would take her out of the hole i know look now maybe the woman says you know what f this i

00:48:49.940 want to marry rich that is my that is what i want to do i am going in and i am going to marry rich

00:49:00.500 okay at least we can figure out that's what you want let's be pragmatic you're gonna need a big

00:49:06.260 set of fake boobs if you don't have any you're gonna need to get to the gym 120.

00:49:11.460 yep get on that treadmill 120 the rich men they're not playing you got to google what are the highest

00:49:21.480 paid professions in your city what city are in your are you in who's making the money

00:49:28.340 the guys are saying 140 is my final okay the thinner the better

00:49:35.700 um c-suite doctor defense attorneys in the right area finance airline pilots uh flight engineers

00:49:45.720 sales all can be pretty high paid you got to research the industry figure out who's making

00:49:51.420 the cash and what types of women are they marrying you know if you go more if you want to marry rich

00:49:59.960 but you have an arm sleeve right that's that's you're like oh shit when I was younger I got a

00:50:06.320 chest tattoo this is an L okay which rich men would accept that now I know I know you guys are

00:50:11.940 saying oh Pearl none of them none of them none of them well a rock star would but that you know

00:50:18.960 that's too that's not gonna work I'd have to think more about which rich ones who would think

00:50:25.260 engineers would be less picky it's like they're not like front facing as much they're kind of

00:50:32.540 yeah you tell me women doctors lawyers bankers

00:50:37.100 she better be over six foot tall to be over 130 tell them

00:50:43.500 now the next question is how do you get access to these guys in the professions now

00:50:49.100 one strategy a lot of women do is to work with them but i you know to the younger ladies watching

00:50:54.380 the two i really wouldn't do that nowadays because the men have seen too many of their other men

00:51:01.020 get me to it at work now there's always going to be the guy that does it but usually he's either

00:51:07.020 a dog like he's never going to settle down he doesn't discriminate he's going to f anything

00:51:12.060 or he's just not that intelligent and you don't want to you don't want to go that route now

00:51:19.180 Now, places you can get access to these guys, country clubs, networking events.

00:51:25.600 There are events for a specific field.

00:51:27.820 So there are like conventions.

00:51:29.820 There's sales conventions.

00:51:32.360 There's doctor's conventions.

00:51:34.160 You got to figure out where they're at.

00:51:36.780 Go stay at the same hotel in those conventions.

00:51:40.400 Boom.

00:51:42.240 Go work at a coffee shop that has these conventions.

00:51:46.160 Get a high net worth hobby.

00:51:47.740 skiing boating golfing fashion suits you can work there get a job working near these I think is a

00:51:56.100 better strategy nowadays than working with them like nurses used to be able to go for doctors

00:52:01.920 and they still do um but again the smarter men are gonna stop doing that oh MMA fighters love

00:52:11.100 tats they you guys are so pragmatic you guys are so I'm trying to be pragmatic here

00:52:17.240 customer service at a country club or tennis facility high-end restaurant coffee club or

00:52:28.120 coffee shop like imagine there's coffee shops in hospitals if your thing's a doctor you go work at

00:52:34.420 a coffee shop for six months if you get some if you get some leads keep working there if you don't

00:52:41.600 move on server you know i want to tell you guys a story so my dad has a friend who has a skybox at

00:52:47.600 a basketball game and my family we all went and at the skybox they have people that bring you food

00:52:55.200 and there is a woman who brought dessert now who isn't happy when they get dessert one in the chat

00:53:01.360 if you're if you are excited when somebody brings warm cookies so this is an angle that this woman

00:53:08.800 could have taken she is the woman bringing in the warm cookies to richmond and she was obese

00:53:20.000 well i'm like i'm thinking that she looked like she was from the city right

00:53:24.080 and i'm thinking you could change the whole trajectory of your family

00:53:30.560 all you would have had to do is be thin and serve these cookies

00:53:36.000 i promise to god you would get a taker if you started if you started flirting with these guys

00:53:45.440 i mean it's just it's just a numbers game if she's serving okay let me get this straight

00:53:51.100 okay let's say there's 50 of these boxes i don't actually know i'm just making up a number

00:53:56.680 but and these guys give it to their rich friends right

00:54:00.280 one of them is going to have a son one of the like somebody is going to go through there

00:54:08.880 and be a taker but she was obese other ideas rich neighborhoods home depot in a rich neighborhood

00:54:19.380 you know there's a lot of especially if you're in the country those guys are going to want to

00:54:24.360 do things themselves. You know, they want to fix things. I'd have to do more research into the time

00:54:31.200 of day. I'm guessing after work, you're going to go to Home Depot, cigar lounge, high-end alcohol.

00:54:38.620 The place is what is the Rolex shops, breweries, sports games or sports bars that play high-end

00:54:46.300 sports, but even normal sports games. I mean, Mark Zuckerberg was talking about MMA fighting

00:54:54.060 the other day. Whatever neighborhood those guys live in, you got to figure it out. That can be

00:55:00.020 Googled. And so the women that I see that win, they go in with a plan. They figure out the net

00:55:11.240 worth of these neighborhoods. They figure out the profession they're going to go after.

00:55:17.220 They know that they're probably not going to get called back by a couple men.

00:55:21.400 that is they're just they're just going to take an L because that's just going to happen

00:55:25.700 and they keep going till they win

00:55:28.060 now to be fair for every one winner there's 10 losers most women

00:55:35.480 are going to die alone and don't have the skills to do this too fat

00:55:40.140 but it's never been easier for women to win it really haven't hasn't my friend was 37 and I'm

00:55:49.900 not saying the story to sell dreams or hope ladies if you're watching it's probably not

00:55:54.460 going to be you I'm just being honest but um just balance of probabilities I doubt you're

00:56:00.180 going to do the work but she married a guy that was a millionaire at 37 and the way she

00:56:08.680 did that was she gave up everything she gave up everything of her old life did whatever

00:56:14.880 he wanted and did it for like seven years until he married her. There was no, this was her last

00:56:23.920 chance. She was not effing this up. Women do not need to go to college. Women need the Bible,

00:56:32.760 a cookbook, Jesus, and a good man. Well, you know, that's an easy thing to say, but that's not really

00:56:38.040 a strategy on how they're going to find the guy. And I'm trying to take morality out of this

00:56:44.380 because it's so easy to go online and say, well, the moral thing is that.

00:56:51.600 It's lazy to me.

00:56:54.220 It is so easy to say women shouldn't divorce their husband.

00:57:00.480 That's easy.

00:57:01.920 And I've said it, right?

00:57:02.940 I have.

00:57:04.300 But I got bored, right?

00:57:05.900 Because the incentives are there.

00:57:09.740 They're going to do it anyway.

00:57:10.580 you guys might say a women should marry for reasonable things women shouldn't go after the

00:57:19.700 top 10 percent of men they're gonna do it anyway we might as well be pragmatic here

00:57:26.560 if you know the woman likes drug dealers okay you know maybe let's go

00:57:31.560 let's look at that archetype let's go for pharmacists instead

00:57:38.200 or you know maybe a criminal that's less that does petty crime

00:57:47.280 do you know what i mean like trying to take women away from the drug dealers is a waste of your time

00:57:55.160 or okay let's let's try to get you a reformed one that has some steps going towards being reformed

00:58:04.320 you're like pearl tell the women not to date these guys yeah okay

00:58:10.080 um pearl we want to make the first step tell us where to find those good innocent women okay well

00:58:21.660 the amish

00:58:22.640 look at look at guys there are good women but you the the challenges you just are never gonna know

00:58:32.040 it's a roll of the dice I don't know what your woman is going to be like at 42 there have been

00:58:38.900 women that at 22 they got buried and I thought they were good picks for wives 10 years later

00:58:44.960 it was a different story I don't know you know okay the same way we don't know the type of person

00:58:52.460 a man is going to be when he's rich there have been men that virtue signal about never wanting

00:58:58.140 to cheat but the second that he gets um fame and influence power maybe he changes his mind

00:59:09.660 many women when they get leverage in the relationship they change their mind and

00:59:13.900 they're they change their behaviors because the incentives are there

00:59:21.500 they said are you guys seriously going to the amish

00:59:23.980 okay go ahead

00:59:27.340 you know i mean like here let me let me read these chats

00:59:34.600 okay i'm five seven and took a four eight two hundred pound girl from the bar just to get laid

00:59:41.300 so i knew someone thank you for being honest fazel

00:59:46.800 i appreciate the honesty otherwise my type is tall blonde blue-eyed women with naturally big

00:59:53.320 booties no no surgeries at all thank you for being on honest four eight 200 pounds wow that's

01:00:05.640 got dane guys say you're saying you go to the amish but they're smart enough not to marry

01:00:11.320 outside it's almost almost impossible to become amish because it includes the german culture look

01:00:17.480 women leave the amish all the time i've seen their i've seen the like women talking about

01:00:23.720 they they make whole documentaries on women that left the amish it's possible but it's they're

01:00:28.760 gonna you're gonna have the same problem as the passport bros unless you're going all in

01:00:33.640 and joining that community the passport bros how many of them had a perfectly good submissive

01:00:41.160 beautiful wife in asia and they bring them back and then all of the sudden she is modern i look at

01:00:49.000 incentives now we're gonna um you know i want to just say this the women that i've seen win

01:00:58.840 are the ones that learn from their mistakes

01:01:01.240 and they don't take rejection personally the women that i see wallow about next for years they're

01:01:11.700 cooked done the women that i see you know they they they don't get called back they hook up with

01:01:20.560 a guy they think he wants a relationship they have sex take that out and then they pull themselves

01:01:27.000 out of the dating market for like six months cooked done don't see them winning you know it's

01:01:34.800 the women that go in with a plan and are trying to get what they want and let go of the things

01:01:41.060 that don't work out or the mistakes that the men they love make because a lot of these women

01:01:46.140 that took the l's and ended up winning they really had to learn to not hold to not hold

01:01:52.440 over their head, the resentment of not getting what they want. Tough one. Maybe you guys have

01:01:58.040 seen something different though. You know, this is just my perspective. Now we're going to watch

01:02:03.420 some TikToks of women not being able to take L's. If you and your situation ship. Okay, here we go.

01:02:09.300 Are having the, what are we conversation? And he doesn't want a relationship. This is what you're

01:02:15.020 going to say to him. Never believe a guy who says, I didn't mean to misdirect you when they

01:02:19.880 literally treated you exactly like a relationship would that's how do you guys want them to treat

01:02:26.120 you during casual sex and do you want them to be mean to you you know most guys they're not looking

01:02:34.120 the men that just want sex they don't want relationships

01:02:39.880 they don't want to be an to you but how many of them said i don't want to be in a relationship

01:02:46.120 that's an emotionally unavailable man and he knew exactly what he was doing he just wants to get

01:02:51.920 away with it therefore stop beating his ego stop responding stop being cool with him just because

01:02:56.940 you want the attention there's so many other guys out there that you could be giving your time and

01:03:01.380 energy to who would die to date someone like you there's many reasons why a guy will not want to

01:03:06.920 jump into something serious and he's like dragging things along he just likes like the attention or

01:03:12.380 whatever. The nice guy is going to explain himself. The asshole is going to ghost you and just treat

01:03:18.080 you as if like you meant nothing. The nice guy, whether it's genuine or not, he's going to say

01:03:22.620 something like, oh, I think you're such a great girl and stuff like that, blah, blah, blah. You

01:03:26.700 are going to keep it short and sweet. You're not going to be problematic. You're going to ask the

01:03:30.520 right questions without pushing too hard on like why it is that he doesn't want something serious

01:03:35.460 with you. And you can catch if this guy is lying by asking a question like, did you always feel

01:03:39.940 this way like basically since the second he started talking to you was this his point of view

01:03:45.860 you know sometimes in the beginning that's another thing sometimes in the beginning

01:03:52.660 they might have intended to date you and then either they changed their mind they start hooking

01:03:59.220 up with a couple girls and they thought huh nah i don't want this or they saw a red flag

01:04:05.700 said oh she's too crazy nope next all the time or did he change his mind throughout the process

01:04:14.780 i'm not trying to sound disingenuous when i say this but i also don't think you should come off

01:04:20.280 as if you wanted a relationship with him while he's the one telling you he doesn't it's not about

01:04:24.940 what he wants it's about what you both want so i would ask a question trying to figure out where

01:04:29.280 you both stand listen if you're catching feelings i don't suggest you keep hanging out with this guy

01:04:34.380 as if you guys are going to date because this is just going to upset you more they're going to do

01:04:38.560 it anyway on my show i'd ask women the longest situationship they had it's like four years three

01:04:46.200 years it's an average you can also mention that like it's not fair if you guys continue to hang

01:04:51.120 out as if you guys are dating and maybe make it more official that you guys are more like flirty

01:04:56.600 friends and if that's something you cannot handle do not do it i always like to tell my girlfriends

01:05:02.100 like if you're hanging out with a guy and you catch yourself falling for him

01:05:05.460 and if you know he doesn't feel mutual I wouldn't put yourself in a situation

01:05:08.580 because you like him to keep hanging out with him knowing that it's not gonna go

01:05:12.840 anywhere because you're only gonna hurt yourself and if this guy has no desire

01:05:16.140 to tell you where you guys stand and he goes to you and treats you less than

01:05:19.920 well then that should tell you enough and you should just not stoop down to his

01:05:23.880 level and send him paragraphs and stuff you should simply walk away be

01:05:28.200 unbothered and he will come back around and when he does I hope you slow

01:05:32.100 they're not going to come back around oh they might for sex will slam the door in his face

01:05:40.360 you want someone to love you the way that you know how to love somebody else therefore when you find

01:05:44.840 if we did then we would go with the guys that we you know that love us it's not what we do

01:05:51.520 one who's not loving you the way you love you almost try to subconsciously change them and if

01:05:56.820 they're not willing to change then drop them off stop trying literally drop them off they're not

01:06:02.080 your business anymore if it's not i actually agree with that to some level it depends what

01:06:09.840 strategy you want to do strategy one i don't tell you i don't tell you which one to do

01:06:15.680 because you ladies the two that watch me you know the guy better than i do

01:06:23.520 it's either option a stick it out and hopefully eventually he'll change his mind i've seen that

01:06:29.920 work i wouldn't say it's the normal i wouldn't see it's the majority but i have seen it work

01:06:35.440 or b move on if you're gonna go option b yeah you just i would just move on yes it's delivered

01:06:40.720 as a no regardless if it comes out of his mouth or not love you okay let's keep going with these l's

01:06:49.760 situationship breakups are way worse than real breakups because you feel crazy for

01:06:53.840 being sad about it because you didn't even really date situationship alpha guy

01:07:00.400 women don't get sad over breaking up with security guys so that's why she's saying

01:07:06.080 the situation chip is worse in your head you did but oh that doesn't count i guess and also

01:07:10.640 when you go to tell people about it that you're going through a breakup right now and it's a

01:07:13.280 catastrophic event in your life so mind you everyone's first question is always oh my god

01:07:17.520 how long did you two date and you're like okay what kind of that's such a subjective question

01:07:22.480 we went on i don't know two dates one of them was in my mind why does this why is that relevant

01:07:27.760 like what is this the oprah oprah winfrey show like what do you need all the details like something

01:07:31.940 about you is that you're really nosy you're really nosy and then when you're explaining the details

01:07:35.560 back to your friends suddenly it sounds just way worse coming out of your mouth and it felt like

01:07:39.180 living it like you're like okay so let me explain let me explain they said that they hate they like

01:07:44.300 me a lot right but they just hate hanging out with me let me explain that in the context of

01:07:49.580 this specific i think if you were just in on the first date with us the ambiance they said that

01:07:54.800 they like a lot of things about me but they also so they hate 10 to 15 parts of my personality

01:08:01.600 that's you have to meet them okay like you wouldn't you weren't there when we were alone

01:08:05.940 together right you weren't there and then he didn't text me for like a full week here's why

01:08:10.700 okay here's why that is it's different because he is has a job and he doesn't like technology

01:08:15.720 have i i've always said i didn't want anyone that's on their phone all the time have i shown

01:08:19.440 you guys have i showed you guys his instagram he's really hot okay there's another l

01:08:25.720 keep going no like i need to know why you're ignoring me because the thing is

01:08:36.280 you said you were gonna call me when you got home and i know your ass is home because i had

01:08:42.240 your damn location so i'm trying to figure out why you're not picking up the phone for texting

01:08:49.940 you guys yeah i need i need to know and i know you're not asleep okay i know you're not asleep

01:08:59.760 because i know everything so

01:09:03.040 return my damn call and text me

01:09:07.680 There is another one.

01:09:14.500 Women giving advice as to why men ghost after sex.

01:09:18.320 Girls, this is the harsh truth.

01:09:20.260 If you're in the dating scene, you need to watch this video.

01:09:23.200 Unfortunately, we have been lied to, and I don't know what you guys think,

01:09:27.700 but the amount of guys that you sleep with says absolutely nothing about the amount of guys that want you.

01:09:34.540 if you haven't realized it already guys will basically have sex with it

01:09:39.020 i want to tell you why she thinks this is true i want to tell you i'm going to play devil's

01:09:45.020 advocate here women know more about the women you're dating than you do we we see a different

01:09:54.740 side right women will tell the crazy stories you know how you guys you see the crazy how much your

01:10:02.300 guys like cheat behind the scenes like the men will show each other the girls they're dating

01:10:06.940 you'll see the extreme lengths that men go through to cheat women see

01:10:14.300 the women that you guys pick what they were doing before

01:10:23.500 and some women are very good con artists that is all i will say

01:10:28.300 with anything their standards when it comes to having sex with someone are so low the way men

01:10:34.700 and women view sex is so different majority of men do not view sex as having anything to do with love

01:10:42.140 and a lot of that has to do with the fact that they have been watching corn since they were

01:10:46.140 an adolescent where see that's always what women do they say they shame the male sex drive

01:10:51.820 so they'll always put it on corn when it's some part of male sexuality that they don't like so

01:10:58.940 sex is different for men and for women obviously whereas as women we view sex very differently and

01:11:05.740 we create a bond when we have sex with someone women release oxytocin when we have sex that is

01:11:11.580 a hormone that bonds us to another person and men release vasopressin when they fall in love

01:11:17.020 with someone and vasopressin is not released when they have sex it's actually released when they have

01:11:22.300 to work towards having sex with a girl so you have to stop thinking that having sex with a guy is

01:11:27.820 going to be the key to his heart and this is most likely the reason why you constantly get ghosted

01:11:33.340 after you sleep with a guy and it doesn't feel good because as women you most likely have bonded

01:11:39.740 with this guy after sleeping with him and now you feel heartbroken because you don't understand the

01:11:44.220 the way men and women fall in love and the last decade or so I feel like as women we have been

01:11:50.500 very much lied to because we're constantly being told to liberate ourselves and to be more

01:11:56.520 promiscuous and I feel like we're just sold that lie that promiscuity is the answer for us and

01:12:03.200 that's what's going to make us more attractive and more desirable when in reality it couldn't

01:12:07.740 be further from the truth keep going common sense after how to about how to take an l but women will

01:12:15.820 not listen whenever a guy tells you that he's not ready for commitment or he's not ready for a

01:12:20.200 relationship this is what he really means the reason why a lot of women struggle with this

01:12:24.720 and how to respond to whenever a guy says this is because take the l sorry eat it

01:12:32.560 men have you ever paid have you ever paid a lot of money

01:12:37.120 for a woman and not gotten sex have you ever

01:12:42.240 you know how much did your last girlfriend or situationship or girl you went on a date cost

01:12:49.900 you and what did you get out of it men get negative rois all the time but they kind of

01:12:57.060 figure out the solutions they'll say okay i'm gonna stop doing that women we have whole courses

01:13:04.080 on how to take an l because it ignites that fixer mentality but whenever a guy's literally telling

01:13:10.620 you why he doesn't want to be with you this is not an invitation to try harder because what he

01:13:15.920 really means is that he's not ready to commit to you this is also why i talk about nervous system

01:13:21.060 regulation getting to the root cause of why you even desire a partner and truly working on your

01:13:26.600 self-love and healing so that you can attract somebody from a place of fulfillment rather

01:13:31.460 than a place of lack and truly getting into your divine feminine energy so that you can

01:13:36.320 receive the love that you so deeply crave because it's always to do less

01:13:42.600 get more receive more because you already give it to yourself

01:13:48.520 so next time a guy says this to you respond with okay wish you well

01:13:56.600 it's like basic and what do you guys do when women dump you okay see ya all

01:14:04.040 right women trying to give other women a strategy to commit here's instead of

01:14:09.800 taking an L now I know you're probably asking yourself am I the problem now you

01:14:14.840 might be you fully might be but here's how we change that if he's acting like

01:14:19.820 he's just seeing where it goes great then you're gonna look for your phone and

01:14:23.420 you who else you can be texting if that's how he's treating it so are you take a bit longer to answer

01:14:28.460 his texts you have other people now you are entertaining other people and not just him because

01:14:33.660 if he's not treating you as he should be to commit with you then why would you hit him with the

01:14:38.940 classic and the thing is women will entertain this for years waste years of their life

01:14:45.180 and some pull it off there's no look at there's no guaranteed outcomes just strategies

01:14:54.220 you're not looking for anything serious we even have a hunch that he's not looking for anything

01:14:58.920 serious then girl you say it first let those words come out of your mouth before they come

01:15:04.500 out of his okay and once you say that you're not looking for anything serious then he'll say great

01:15:10.460 okay he will be looking for that he will be concerned as to why you don't want anything

01:15:18.600 from him he will then chase you start posting your life give him a bit of fomo show him what

01:15:24.120 he's missing go for brunch with the girls do something fun do something mysterious do something

01:15:28.860 that he wanted to do and last but not least do not devalue yourself do not stoop to his level

01:15:33.640 do not be the person that he just wants to have around or whatever do not be that girl okay you

01:15:38.460 are the brides and we're not devaluing ourselves yeah we really just cannot take l's so i'm gonna

01:15:49.580 do a call-in show today and i really want to hear from the ladies i've been having a tough time

01:15:55.660 getting female callers so i want to hear about your l's what else did you take

01:16:05.420 and how did you learn from them men you can call in but only if you have a story about a woman you

01:16:16.220 know how she took an al and either learned from it or didn't learn from it we're gonna put the

01:16:23.180 link in the chat but before then I did have a submission so you got the link in the chat yeah

01:16:29.660 okay um and you emailed it yeah we're gonna react to a something that Dane um on the website see on

01:16:37.340 the website guys you can put things that you want me to react to and I will do them so it's Eddie

01:16:44.420 Murphy's raw here we go I was in the club man I stopped I've never seen this before so we'll see

01:16:53.960 I was in the club, man.

01:16:57.500 I stopped, I ain't dancing low because I just had a fight recently and I said I ain't dancing.

01:17:02.060 I went to clubs, you get into a lot, people get drunk, go to clubs and stuff, I had a

01:17:05.460 fight with an Italian dude.

01:17:06.840 Right after around time, Rocky came out.

01:17:09.660 Italian, white people, period.

01:17:11.340 Y'all go crazy after y'all see a Rocky movie because y'all believe that shit.

01:17:16.080 Because the movies are so emotional and so real, you sit there and go like, hey, this

01:17:20.180 is real.

01:17:20.940 Yo, and Stallone have y'all white people pump,

01:17:23.600 especially Italians.

01:17:24.520 They have the Italians see Rocky.

01:17:25.920 They come out the movie theater, they be like,

01:17:27.620 Italians are funny people because they act like niggas.

01:17:29.580 It's real funny.

01:17:30.860 They do.

01:17:31.860 They hold their dick more than us.

01:17:33.080 They'll be standing around with me.

01:17:33.920 Get the fuck out of here.

01:17:41.820 It's right here, all right?

01:17:44.020 What?

01:17:44.860 Hey, fuck you, all right?

01:17:46.860 Everything is a question, too.

01:17:48.240 Hey, what am I, an asshole?

01:17:50.400 I'm like, fucking Jay, get the fuck out of here.

01:17:52.880 He's right here, all right?

01:18:04.440 After they see Rocky, they come out the theater charged.

01:18:07.340 They'll be like, all right, Rocco!

01:18:10.100 All right, slide!

01:18:16.320 All right!

01:18:18.340 All right, Rocco!

01:18:20.400 Rock up!

01:18:22.400 Girl, people standing on line and shit.

01:18:24.400 Hey, Paisan, you going into She Rocky right now?

01:18:26.400 Yeah.

01:18:27.400 Great fucking move.

01:18:33.400 Straight.

01:18:36.400 You don't like this one.

01:18:37.400 He comes out, she fly, comes out, he brave, she's big fucking nigga's face.

01:18:40.400 She busts it fucking wide open.

01:18:42.400 Fucking moon and y'all laying on the floor fucked up.

01:18:47.400 It's fucking great.

01:18:48.400 okay i don't really get it sorry guys okay um let me is anyone on the line or let me

01:19:01.780 get on there hold on take the it's off right okay i'm gonna go in the email

01:19:06.820 also guys hit the like button and if you want if you want go to the website 10 bucks a month

01:19:14.660 80 bucks a year um we have all of my old content on the website so if you like to see me dunk on

01:19:21.380 304s it's on my website i had to delete it off of youtube they couldn't handle me on here

01:19:27.940 and then let me stop the video

01:19:32.100 okay i think i'm in there

01:19:36.260 okay

01:19:39.780 yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah sorry

01:19:44.660 muted it um so I want to know from the ladies I want to know from the ladies

01:19:52.160 what is an L you took and how did you learn from it

01:19:58.600 it seems like every woman that I've talked to

01:20:04.820 claims they've taken no L's in life

01:20:09.760 unless you married your high school or college sweetheart i do not believe you

01:20:16.160 it's bullshit complete bs do not believe it okay i'm gonna read the website so we got

01:20:25.240 pearl in ancient egypt one emperor banned the manufacture of women's shoes so he couldn't

01:20:33.560 leave the house oh ancient egypt one ember banned the manufacture of women's shoes so

01:20:41.640 they couldn't leave the house look you know there's a lot of guys that'll say the muslims

01:20:47.880 are right you know we should women shouldn't drive put them in the house you know my dad

01:20:56.040 he's just a wise guy and the older i get the more i see he's just right about everything

01:21:00.360 she's kind of annoying my dad is not very controlling but he ran a software company

01:21:08.520 and his philosophy was the more you try to control people the more you they resent you for it

01:21:17.240 and you got to just let people be who they are and act accordingly

01:21:21.240 and that's the way i view it if the ladies want to go be super whores

01:21:28.740 i do not care go do it it is no longer our problem good luck the only thing is now they

01:21:39.480 don't deal with the consequences as long as they deal with the consequences not my problem

01:21:44.160 uh pearl oh now you're getting on me about my unread emails all right

01:21:49.360 all right um bennett says a girl i hooked up with twice reported me on bumble when i ghosted her and

01:21:55.360 i was banned i found this out because she was talking about me on are we dating the same guy

01:21:59.340 i ghosted her two years ago and she brought this up on that page last month

01:22:03.660 um okay oh we got someone named erica on the line i need camera on

01:22:13.780 so I can see you're a person if you want to be off camera we can't arrange that

01:22:22.640 but we can take your um just so it's audio on the screen so if you'd want that you can you guys can

01:22:29.420 tell me right away but I need to make sure you're a person I don't want any weird stuff

01:22:35.340 that's happened to me before. I'm scarred for life. Let's see. Erica, I don't see your face.

01:22:58.060 Okay, well, until that happens, let me see.

01:23:05.340 Erica she said okay one minute she's coming on guys you know but back to the burka thing

01:23:13.980 like once you know men are so solution oriented so their solution is we gotta chain women

01:23:23.220 into the house so they won't cheat in my experience that guy took his girlfriend to a party he

01:23:32.060 was at and she figured out a way to cheat when women want to cheat they will cheat there is

01:23:42.220 nothing you can do it's the same thing with a guy have you guys ever seen a man that wants to cheat

01:23:47.180 and the lengths he will go to okay she doesn't want to be on screen you have that um

01:23:55.900 um you have it so she won't be on screen okay I need to see you're a person so you can put

01:24:03.100 your screen on but we're not gonna see it other than um on us we can do that right where I can

01:24:09.280 see the screen but then okay yeah so if you go screen on I won't be able to see you

01:24:14.260 or like the audience won't be able to see you

01:24:25.900 A girl hooked up with you and reported you on Bumble.

01:24:30.900 Yeah, that's the thing.

01:24:31.900 There's nothing like a woman scorned.

01:24:34.900 There are times when every single person alive has been a bad person.

01:24:40.900 There's a lot of virtue signaling.

01:24:42.900 It drives me nuts.

01:24:44.900 But who out there has never been a bad person ever?

01:24:50.900 You are the villain in somebody's story.

01:24:55.900 someone's and in my experience right when a woman when someone does a woman

01:25:07.720 wrong it's like she'll hold on to it for years instead of just letting it go

01:25:11.620 moving on we got Erica on in the chat hello Erica no no one can see you just

01:25:22.060 me so how are you okay i'm good how are you good where are you calling out of uh california nice

01:25:29.580 so what was an l you took and how did you learn from it um so i my l that i took

01:25:40.300 was when i was younger i am now 20 i'm going on 26. okay and when i was younger i started to go

01:25:48.540 to the gym I started to kind of like what you talk about I started to like wear makeup and I

01:25:55.560 started I guess I was beginning to go on to this phase where I thought I could get someone like

01:26:01.140 better than me or like I thought at my level so I was like dating a lot I was on tinder and I was

01:26:09.660 meeting a lot of guys and I was going on a lot of dates and um there was a time where I dated a cop

01:26:18.640 and we uh we started talking but I noticed that he only wanted to hang out with me at nights

01:26:26.140 like we would go on like these dates well it wasn't even like a date because it was just like

01:26:31.760 we would get food and he would want to go back to his apartment um so it wasn't even like he

01:26:37.960 I noticed, like, and this is, like, I noticed this after, like, we stopped talking, that he just didn't want to be seen with me, I guess, in public.

01:26:47.140 And he would tell me that he cared about me and that he wanted to date me, but he just, our dates were only, you know, like that.

01:26:54.720 That'll do it. The I care about you. They do that.

01:26:56.700 yeah yeah and and i and i didn't realize this until later uh unfortunately but i i took an l

01:27:04.860 and i realized that now and i realized how stupid i was and um you know obviously we didn't work out

01:27:13.000 and we stopped talking and he never really cared to like come after me or anything like that you

01:27:17.240 know like he didn't hit me up months later like i miss you or anything like that because he got

01:27:22.120 what he wanted and like that was it so um that was like my l so how long did it last

01:27:27.960 probably like six months that's not too bad i've heard way worse i've heard years

01:27:33.820 oh man i can't yeah well yeah no it was only six months six months how often was he seeing you

01:27:41.780 um maybe a lot of weekends okay so like once a week and what did you learn from it how did you

01:27:49.580 bounce back i see i see a kid so it seems like he moved on yeah no now i'm like i have married and

01:27:57.100 i have a um you know we i've moved on obviously but um i realized that well one it didn't work

01:28:05.000 out that i i don't know i thought i had it all or like i was able to get all these men

01:28:10.880 and it made me realize like okay well obviously i'm not how do i say it like i'm not respecting

01:28:17.660 myself and they see that and they know that and so it made me realize like okay well i need to

01:28:28.220 how do i explain it i don't know just made me realize it's not something to brag about you know

01:28:33.260 yeah like that i get these men or because i didn't in my head i'm like oh i'm dating a

01:28:37.980 cob like i'm dating someone of high value or whatever but you know it wasn't serious and

01:28:42.940 he didn't take me serious so are you happily married now uh yes yeah so where did you meet

01:28:49.980 your husband we were um we actually dated i'm sorry we knew each other from school but we never

01:28:56.600 dated and then we ended up reconnecting through um social media okay cool and did you do something

01:29:03.920 differently with that relationship to get a better outcome so like did you were you presenting

01:29:09.780 yourself one way before and then maybe you stopped or like what changed um yeah I think so I start I

01:29:17.800 was very intentional about it I was very much like I want to I want to settle down and I want to find

01:29:23.360 someone because I went through this like I said like this little whole phase I guess I would call

01:29:27.420 it um where like I thought I could date and I could just have a like have a good time and mess

01:29:34.420 around and not have any consequences and not worry about anything but looking back now like i regret

01:29:40.240 a lot of that a lot of that time that time frame where i was dating a lot i regret it and if i

01:29:46.720 could go back and like get married earlier i would have you know well you're 26 you have a kid so

01:29:54.020 it's not yeah it's not like you waited till 36 so i know right i know but no definitely i mean you do

01:30:00.940 i definitely learned a lot and i regret it like i said and i you know now i have a daughter and

01:30:06.060 now i realize and like no i need a teacher differently and i don't want her to go down

01:30:10.720 that same like mentality or like route that her mom did you know yeah well thank you so much erica

01:30:16.860 yeah of course thank you i love what you you know what you do and what you say and i think that

01:30:21.980 there's a lot of truth in what you say and um i know sometimes people take it the wrong way or

01:30:27.120 they get offended by it but like i can tell you like a lot of the things that you say they don't

01:30:31.640 trigger me but it makes me realize like oh she's talking about me you know yeah and it's just the

01:30:36.260 truth and if if it wasn't the truth then you wouldn't have so many women upset yeah so thank

01:30:42.760 you thank you erica i appreciate you calling feel free to call back anytime okay thank you girl bye

01:30:49.520 let's see don't i always ask me if i want to report them after

01:30:56.920 room oh I put him in the rating room okay we have bond gone okay I need guys we don't

01:31:08.020 start with the cameras on if you want to be off camera total hello hello

01:31:20.920 yeah there you go how you doing you have got to get a new mic

01:31:37.460 i said it's always um i think it's the fan in the background or something

01:31:45.920 i've just got the fountain fixed so that doesn't make very much noise at the minute like but

01:31:54.120 anyway so what's an l that you saw someone take can i tell you if it's uh an l that i caused

01:32:03.020 uh sure yeah go ahead it was it was me who caused the l um it was when i was at school

01:32:12.500 like this girl on Valentine's Day came to me and said that her friend that she

01:32:18.440 fancied me and gave me a card and I couldn't go out with that I just didn't

01:32:26.940 fancy it at all so I told that because I did I really fancied a friend so I told

01:32:34.960 her I fancied her friend and she actually told her friend and I ended up

01:32:41.040 going out with a friend.

01:32:41.940 It's just one of those sort of rare instances

01:32:44.800 where a woman actually did take an L

01:32:48.040 really well for a friend.

01:32:50.220 She ate it, huh?

01:32:52.280 She what?

01:32:53.120 She ate the L, huh?

01:32:55.820 She did.

01:32:56.660 She actually took it and, like,

01:32:58.620 sort of let a friend in, you know, which is...

01:33:02.300 All right, that's cool.

01:33:03.700 I don't think it's cool.

01:33:04.700 It's great, but it's cool that it happened, you know?

01:33:07.960 Well, cool.

01:33:08.800 Thanks for telling me you're out today.

01:33:11.940 Yeah.

01:33:13.280 Thanks for calling in.

01:33:19.000 Yeah.

01:33:21.080 I had that audio.

01:33:23.340 I got a.

01:33:24.840 Don't know if you guys could hear that.

01:33:26.700 I know the noise.

01:33:28.240 He said he asked his a girl out or a girl liked him, but he really liked her friend.

01:33:35.920 and the friend told the other friend and he went out with the friend

01:33:39.840 that L was the noise I know I know I know I know

01:33:45.740 let's see what we got

01:33:50.260 Pearl

01:33:52.400 Dane I'll react to it next show I just I don't want to get off track today

01:33:59.700 so while i'm waiting i'll wait for my next women ladies it's okay you know what i'm like

01:34:09.920 we take so many l's in life men men in the chat have you ever taken an l and can you guys let's

01:34:19.780 not let's not the women are going to be honest on my show they're going to be honest with me

01:34:26.320 okay they're really they're going to be honest and in exchange for the honesty i need you guys to

01:34:33.160 not roast their existence i am not going to get honesty from women or more honesty let's say i

01:34:41.740 mean they're women so it's like we don't even mean to lie sometimes if we lie if you guys are

01:34:48.440 in the comments roasting the living crap out of them

01:34:52.200 i understand if they're being combative and rude

01:34:58.000 fine go at it if they're being disrespectful don't care

01:35:03.660 but can we just like negotiate here chat

01:35:08.980 i need the honesty from the ladies or at least the stories and i'm just not gonna get them

01:35:18.440 they're saying funny okay you know ladies you can you can say your l's it's okay

01:35:27.320 you can be off camera it's all right because you know i've taken an l in my life every woman has

01:35:35.260 every man has

01:35:36.280 the people that win keep going despite the l's that's why i get mad

01:35:45.540 riley reed wanted to get married we all could learn something from riley reed i know you're

01:35:54.660 thinking i could learn nothing from a corn star well riley reed did corn made her money

01:36:02.060 and said i want to get married after she initiated she messaged this guy

01:36:07.740 and said that guy i want to date him he's hot i'm not going to sell purity to him because

01:36:15.420 uh that i obviously have corn so the way i'm gonna win is i'm gonna give him my hot friends

01:36:22.060 he can have sex with me and my hot friends that's a pragmatic woman

01:36:30.300 now i'm not saying it's gonna work out but the people that win in life

01:36:34.860 they keep figuring they keep going after what they want

01:36:37.900 want and you know i you know i'm gonna be women that go after what they want and take

01:36:47.980 l's are far better than the ladies that don't even try it is far better to go after what

01:36:57.660 you want and maybe not get it but know you tried then live then live life behind a screen

01:37:05.740 watching life go by really

01:37:14.940 i'm right i know i'm right you know two l's okay there's a girl in college that taught me this we

01:37:19.500 kept losing we're on a losing streak two l's make a w serious you know

01:37:28.300 And I learned this from my dad. My dad would always say, focus on the solution, don't focus

01:37:37.880 on the problem. Riley Reid, we can learn something from. She didn't sit feeling sorry for herself

01:37:43.940 and say, you know what, I'm a corn star, nobody's going to marry me. She said, let's go find

01:37:48.440 a guy that's going to marry me. There's a million men out there. Somebody's going to

01:37:52.560 do it somebody that's what she said she said somebody's gonna do it now i'm not looking i'm

01:38:04.920 not suggesting that i am certainly not encouraging that but you know what we can even learn something

01:38:13.400 from these women that are having sex with a thousand men in a day now look i am not please

01:38:19.580 do not clip this the wrong way and say that I'm recommending this we are gonna

01:38:24.480 fight if somebody does that I'm literally going to fight you but Bonnie

01:38:30.620 Blue said I want to have sex with a thou or no no what's the first one Bonnie

01:38:34.980 Blue and God what was her name Lily Phillips said I want to have sex with a

01:38:42.620 hundred men in a day she went out she got the guys together she went and did

01:38:46.520 it bonnie blue said no i will be the biggest 304 got a thousand men together did it in 12 hours

01:38:56.280 now lily phillips is coming back and she's trying to do anal for 12 hours lord help her

01:39:04.360 lord help her now obviously that's disgusting like i'm not i'm not trying to

01:39:11.480 what i am saying is those women figured out what they wanted to do and they went out and did it

01:39:18.080 how many people have the balls to go do what they want regardless of what people say

01:39:24.780 they do not care now look am i recommending that no is that disgusting yes

01:39:31.320 am I telling you to do it hell no but you at least could say they went after what they wanted

01:39:42.260 now are there talented people are there men that are just naturals with the ladies that

01:39:48.300 rarely ever took L's because they're so charming and good looking yes are there women

01:39:54.280 that were really pragmatic with who they dated they dated within their league

01:40:00.840 they um met someone in high school met someone in college they waited till they were married

01:40:08.800 and did things the right way or the i don't want to say right way because i've seen too

01:40:13.880 many of those go like go out and blame i've seen both i've seen god knows anymore but

01:40:19.860 yes but this is life and there's no guarantees you know you could find yourself a widow

01:40:30.760 at 45 back in the day you know odds are my grandma was with my grandpa for like years i mean

01:40:38.600 but he died i think in his 50s or something so i mean she dated she was back in the dating pool

01:40:46.120 even though she married young right she married was with the same guy for like 30 years had

01:40:52.920 nine kids but he died first now she's back i remember she had a boyfriend once i don't know

01:40:58.360 I don't know.

01:40:59.360 But you guys see what I remember because I was in high school and we went to a karaoke

01:41:03.800 bar and I went with all of her friends, right, and it was my grandma and they were like 50

01:41:10.080 plus year old women.

01:41:11.800 A lot of them were widowed and they're back in the dating pool.

01:41:17.320 They sounded like schoolgirls talking about the men they were like interested in.

01:41:21.180 And I remember being 16 and thinking that the 50 plus year old women sounded like me

01:41:25.320 and my friends.

01:41:28.360 and I thought there's no guarantees in life right but men understand that they know if they work hard

01:41:37.120 it might not be be success they know that if they um if they go for the girl of their dreams she

01:41:46.320 might reject them. But the thing is, people that get Ws usually take a couple Ls. It just

01:42:00.240 is what it is. Even, I'll give you another example, a more classy one. I'll stay away

01:42:07.820 from the 304s today. A more classy example. Who's the woman, oh my gosh, the princess

01:42:14.020 that people like in england kate princess kate i think her name is yeah i'm bad with names but

01:42:22.460 you know did you know she got dumped in her early 20s by the prince she met him in college i like

01:42:29.360 looked into their love story once she met him in college and they broke up for like five years and

01:42:34.180 during this five years he partied he was banging all the hoes i mean let's be honest i was i lived

01:42:41.160 in England he's got side chicks but she won because she waited for him now that's going to

01:42:48.940 be a strategy that's not going to work out for most women I promise to God it probably will not

01:42:53.860 work out but she when he came back to her she didn't say oh you know you didn't want me then

01:43:02.600 you can't have me now no she didn't say you know what you're an you did all this stuff no she said

01:43:11.160 Welcome back, honey.

01:43:13.660 And now she's royalty.

01:43:18.000 But then there's the other woman.

01:43:20.680 There's the princess everyone hates.

01:43:26.080 Got the mixed girl.

01:43:29.860 Yeah, the American.

01:43:30.660 What's her name?

01:43:32.300 That woman went through three husbands to get what she wanted.

01:43:36.680 We can learn something from women.

01:43:38.460 i know you guys are thinking like how many of you really went after what you wanted in women

01:43:45.020 and said okay let's be pragmatic if all the hot women are in the city i'm gonna live in the city

01:43:50.480 i'm gonna live a mile from a bar like how many of you guys have thought all this through i'm

01:43:55.060 gonna live a mile from a bar so it's easier to pick them up problem solved eventually one will

01:43:59.720 stick around that's one strategy i'm not saying it's the best one don't take my advice go to a

01:44:04.600 guy but I'm just how many men have thought this out the ladies they will they will plan this

01:44:12.880 I think she went through two husbands Meghan Markle and she said I want to be British royalty

01:44:19.400 so I'm going to get my friend to set us up she pretended she didn't know who he was blah blah

01:44:25.960 bullshit she knew exactly who he was guarantee the women will study what the men like go after it

01:44:34.600 She said, I want to live in California.

01:44:36.580 I'm going to manipulate my husband to bring him back to California.

01:44:40.060 Make him leave his family.

01:44:41.560 That's a terrible thing to do.

01:44:44.440 I know you're saying, nope, nope, nope.

01:44:46.160 She belongs to the streets.

01:44:49.380 Yes, she totally does.

01:44:53.260 But I want to analyze how she got what she wanted.

01:44:57.460 She wanted to be royalty.

01:44:59.060 So she said, let me go to the naive one of the two, study him, be perfect until the wedding and do a switcheroo.

01:45:12.600 Call in, ladies, call in.

01:45:14.640 What else did you take?

01:45:15.820 What did you learn?

01:45:18.040 Men, I mean, I'm trying to, when I want to communicate, I'm trying to stay away from morality.

01:45:26.740 Everyone's got their personal opinions on morality.

01:45:30.460 And everyone's got this idea that there's like right and wrong and everyone thinks that they're right and everyone else is wrong.

01:45:36.960 And I got this a lot.

01:45:39.820 I had this presupposition was challenged.

01:45:43.280 And it was when I met so many people that did things, so many men that did things the right way that got the worst outcome ever.

01:45:52.160 that it made me re-question everything I knew so what I did was I decided let me focus on what

01:46:01.940 works not what's right not what's wrong what works here

01:46:08.360 they say the younger the better you know I was talking to my music teacher today

01:46:15.500 and I was telling him because he he wants to date older women I know you guys are saying

01:46:22.040 ah why would you do look look i'm not here to tell you guys what you like or what you shouldn't like

01:46:29.340 who the hell am i to tell you guys what you should date fuck that you know i'm all these

01:46:35.660 these talking heads i'm saying decide for yourself so he wants older women but he kept

01:46:40.960 matching with young women like 20 22 i know you guys are thinking wow what a problem to have look

01:46:47.660 so i asked him what his profile was and it was music it was a musician right so it was like

01:46:56.200 protesting music and i said look if you want older women you got to put he used to work in finance

01:47:02.200 so i'm like you gotta you gotta put your finance stuff out there to scream security because the

01:47:07.780 older women are going to be more gold digging they're looking for a bailout plan don't tell

01:47:13.520 them you don't want that right but if you want the older women you got to take off the fun guy stuff

01:47:20.960 that's for the younger women and he was saying when he was younger he dated the women when he

01:47:26.640 was in finance he dated older women and i said yep that's how it goes of course it's the music dude

01:47:36.240 musician bro yeah yep so what that's called pragmatism that's not saying you're wrong

01:47:44.880 for wanting 30 year olds he said he didn't want anyone under 30. am i gonna go in and say you are

01:47:51.760 not allowed no you're allowed to date what you want who am i make sure you you know and then i

01:48:03.840 would meet i was in um a very muslim area where i lived and it just it made me question my world

01:48:11.680 view now i'm not gonna pro-muslim or any of that but one guy that like lived in my building

01:48:21.760 i mean his wife like literally worshipped him and he had two wives so i'm like this christian guy

01:48:31.760 and by the way there's some christian guys that get it all i'm not i'm not here to tell you i just

01:48:36.560 i've just seen that archetype too many times so like i don't know what to tell you but

01:48:43.680 but you know then i had a trainer in london who had a he he would he had a perfect wife of like 25

01:48:50.640 years and then she went after the kids were old to become a lawyer there's nothing wrong with that

01:48:56.640 and he was monogamous he was just with her she falsely accused him

01:49:05.600 yeah after 25 years and he would tell me how great his wife was 25 years she falsely accused him and

01:49:12.720 then she he got lucky actually she went back to the police and said she was lying and she like

01:49:17.680 wanted to work it out but it's you know uh it's a roll of the dice yeah i don't i can't tell you

01:49:24.080 you guys what you're gonna get these are both yeah women only chase chads they don't chase

01:49:37.360 rich guys money and our personality money and personality don't matter to that to them that

01:49:44.120 much anymore well yeah i mean what do you guys think feminism is feminism is for women to have

01:49:51.540 sex with the hawkeyes that is what it is women did not want to be they wanted to be liberated

01:49:59.860 from their husbands that they did not like and if you really read the writings that is what they say

01:50:06.020 that is why they want reproductive control so they can not reproduce with a guy they don't like

01:50:12.660 that is why women went to college so they can get a better guy than is it then is in their hometown

01:50:21.540 it used to be just marry someone in your home time no more

01:50:25.340 why do you think women wanted no fault divorce why did so many women take it you get to see

01:50:34.780 who we really are when we get the freedom to do anything and women communicated

01:50:39.640 I would rather go to get a bunch of debt go to Mexico to get a BBL than be with an average guy

01:50:50.140 Now, a lot of people say the pendulum's swinging back.

01:50:53.140 Women are going to realize they were wrong.

01:50:55.540 When have you ever seen a woman realize she was wrong?

01:50:59.120 And this is what I got.

01:51:00.160 I would interview women in their, like, 50s and 60s.

01:51:04.380 And their life could be in complete shambles, and they would still double down in their decision.

01:51:09.520 It was, like, amazing, actually.

01:51:13.200 I mean, maybe you guys have a different experience, but I have an aunt that for years claimed she was abused, right?

01:51:20.140 And when I found out, like she kind of exacerbated the story, like it wasn't really what she

01:51:25.840 said.

01:51:28.260 Double down, I was like, I don't know, that doesn't really sound like abuse.

01:51:35.760 I'm not going to convince you, OK, good luck.

01:51:41.580 call in tell me your l's tell me

01:51:50.380 no government can deal with your marriage problems yeah and this is the thing

01:51:54.540 and this is why i hate that they demonize like red pill and the stupid moralists come in and

01:52:00.060 they say red pill is evil because you know in red pill it's it's based on like in the original

01:52:06.060 forums it's based on what you want so if you want to maintain a harem it gives you the tools to do

01:52:11.980 that if you want to stay married to one woman it gives you the tools to do that it doesn't

01:52:17.740 so many of the commentators want to tell the men what they should want

01:52:24.380 you know the the anti-race mixers will say ah race mixing bad bad bad who are you to tell someone

01:52:32.060 else what they should want same thing with you know they say men only date this or that you know

01:52:39.500 let's say you want to date a single mother you know i had a guy there's a guy now personally

01:52:43.820 he looked for a single mother because he had two kids and he wanted another woman with kids

01:52:50.380 that would raise his two kids so she could stay home and he could provide

01:52:54.860 and that was what they did and they were married for 25 years

01:52:57.820 anyways i think i'm gonna end it with that because i don't see any other callers

01:53:14.260 but you know what thank you guys so much this was a great show um shout out to erica for coming in

01:53:22.100 and Erica was she was very attractive she's a good looking girl so even attractive women

01:53:27.920 take else a lot of guys think attractive women take none they do anyways guys make sure you

01:53:34.420 like the video on your way out subscribe to the channel I love you guys you're the best

01:53:41.760 and I will see you guys tomorrow bye

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Pearl - January 18, 2025

Modern Women Don't Know How To Take L's ｜ Pearl Daily

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