Pearl - June 28, 2025


Modern Women Don't Want Short Men

Topics
height gap height in relationships
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Pearl Sidney Sweeney Jessica Alba Gen Z
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Length

10 minutes

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182.46

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1,989

Sentence count

192

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26

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Toxicity

6

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Short guys have always had it rough, but now it s getting even tougher. Women in general want men that are 6 feet or taller. Social media is full of women that say they will not date a short guy. Why?

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00:00:00.000 Bumble and most of the major dating apps are desperate for money because people 30 and younger
00:00:06.220 aren't just using dating apps like millennials and Gen X. The most recent tactic to get more
00:00:11.480 cash from their customers is to add a height filter that women can use to narrow the choice 1.00
00:00:16.560 of men that women see in their feeds. Short guys have always had it rough, but now it's about to
00:00:22.580 get even tougher. Women in general want men that are six feet or taller. Social media is full of
00:00:28.520 women that say they will not date a short guy. Let's take a look at what these women are saying 1.00
00:00:34.080 about short men in 2025. Why I don't date short men. What do you mean? I don't know if you're hot
00:00:41.500 enough to be asking for tall men. Look, I'm not if a woman can go get a tall man. I guess it depends 1.00
00:00:50.120 how hot the tall guy is. But I just I don't know if you're hot enough to be making these demands. But
00:00:56.200 to be fair, guys, when these women say this stuff, they don't mean it. They've all banged a short 0.97
00:01:01.760 guy. All of them. All of them. Right place, right time. They have had sex with a short man. So don't
00:01:08.040 don't let this stuff get you down. Women just like say things. You know what I mean? Like you can't 1.00
00:01:13.500 really take it too serious. Videos regarding like why I don't date short men, but I keep getting
00:01:18.020 questions. So I'm just gonna answer. That really means I dated a short guy and he pumped and dumped
00:01:23.000 me. And she felt like she was giving him a chance, but she still got pumped and dumped. So 0.94
00:01:27.100 so one of the biggest questions I've gotten is like, when was the last time I've dated a short
00:01:32.020 guy? And the thing to me is like short to me is if you're my height or shorter than me. Right. So
00:01:38.560 I am six feet tall. Arguably, apparently I might be six one. But when I'm dating. Okay. By the way,
00:01:43.500 I have a lot of experience with tall women because pretty much my whole volleyball career, 1.00
00:01:48.800 obviously tall women. I'm six foot two, six foot. Also, I would say women that are six foot tend to go 1.00
00:01:56.940 two, three, four inches max shorter is like the lowest. Obviously everyone's vying for the tall
00:02:03.880 guys, but not everyone could get them. You know what I mean? So, um, when I have seen like height
00:02:09.820 gap, it's usually like two to four inches. I think a guy, anyone who's six feet or shorter than me
00:02:17.500 is a short guy. Okay. To some other women, they probably are tall, like a five, 10 to somebody who 1.00
00:02:23.340 is five feet. A five, 10 is going to be like really tall for them. Right. For me, that's shorter than
00:02:28.920 me. It's not going to work for me. And there's many reasons why it's never worked for me. One,
00:02:33.420 I've always had to deal with jealousy and it comes out in various ways too. Like I've had an ex who told
00:02:39.380 me he didn't like the fact that when I walked into a room that people would look at me.
00:02:43.920 I will say for my experience dating as a tall, tall woman, usually the guys are the ones that bring it 0.97
00:02:54.800 up, but I think it's cause women treat them shitty. So like I've never brought up height, but I've had 1.00
00:03:00.520 guys bring up height. So as a six feet tall girl as well, I like to wear heels. I don't want to limit
00:03:08.160 myself for wearing heels just because I'm taller. So when I'm wearing heels, I can end up being like
00:03:12.780 six, three, six, four. Okay. I've dated a guy who was six feet tall and he hated the fact that I wore
00:03:19.600 heels. I've never had a guy care. I've never had a guy say no. Personally, I'm just saying my
00:03:25.780 experience. Cause like, I, I would say like my boyfriend now he's six. We're like the same height,
00:03:36.320 but I don't know. He doesn't care. Most guys, like they don't really. Well, he was like, well,
00:03:40.260 I don't like the fact that you tower over me, but he liked heels. He's like, I like women who wear 0.99
00:03:46.320 heels. But I just like, if I was to me, if a guy asks, this is just my opinion. If a guy says he
00:03:54.080 doesn't like wearing heels, why are we going to make it an argument? You know, just wear heels when
00:03:58.320 you're not with them. It's like, okay. Is it really the end of the world? If just on a date night,
00:04:04.400 you wear, just buy a pair of cute flats. Who cares? Like, why do we make this a problem when
00:04:09.700 it doesn't have to be a problem? I don't like the fact that you're taller than me. Cause now I feel
00:04:14.260 smaller than you. Every time that I've tried to date someone that was shorter than me, they all claim
00:04:20.640 they love taller women. They're like, Oh, I love legs. I'll climb that tree. They always say the same 1.00
00:04:26.680 thing. And they always end up down the road, not liking the fact that I'm taller every time without
00:04:33.180 fail. That's my standard. I don't know how many other tall girls feel the same way. Are you okay
00:04:38.240 with dating someone shorter? I know some of them are like, okay with dating someone shorter. I love
00:04:42.520 that for you. If you found somebody that works for you, that is shorter than you. I love that for you.
00:04:46.920 For me personally, if you are not taller than me, I can't do it. Like here's the challenge and I'm
00:04:52.760 her, I'm her exact height. So I can, I could speak to this. The short women want the tall men. 1.00
00:04:58.080 So she's a mid, right? She's not ugly. She's cute. Most guys would, but she's not stunning either. 0.98
00:05:04.280 And if she's going for six, four guys with a strong base card, she's competing with sevens,
00:05:11.560 eights, nines that are five, five, five, you know, and it really just depends. Some girls with her looks 1.00
00:05:21.500 level can pull it off, but they have to have good girl game. Right. And I don't really get that vibe 0.86
00:05:30.160 from her. So let me see. I love when people ask me why I don't really want to date short guys.
00:05:36.960 Yeah. You see, it's so funny because the women that are hot enough to demand these things are 1.00
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00:05:58.800 it is. Cause I'm four 11. Bitch. I'm already short. I'm not trying to have these gopher ass kids. Okay. 1.00
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00:07:51.100 All right. Let's see who's next. I just saw a video of a girl saying, 0.97
00:07:55.320 I'm going to need the short girls. Do you see this? These are all mids asking for this. 1.00
00:08:00.820 I just, I need, like if I saw Sydney Sweeney say something like that, I would say, okay, 0.99
00:08:08.020 you got big boobs. You can probably demand that, but these are just normal looking women. 1.00
00:08:12.960 I don't think so. I'm five foot. And the thing is, is about, we cannot date short kings because
00:08:30.940 our legacy, if we decide to have children, will be short. We need to offset the chemical reaction
00:08:39.560 and we need to date tall men. She'll still date a short guy. She will. The thing is,
00:08:46.120 women can't really tell height too closely if they're not the same height. I do think women 1.00
00:08:54.340 in sports are a little bit different because we're kind of trained. Like I can pick out people's height
00:08:59.460 pretty easily, men or women, because you're kind of trained to do that. But like a five,
00:09:05.220 five woman, she's not going to know the difference. So that our people that we have can be in the
00:09:13.400 middle or tall, unless they have the short gene that I give them. I'm sorry. But yeah, to this
00:09:21.080 girl that said that like, girl, no, like we can't, we just, yeah, they, they will. Uh, let's see if
00:09:28.380 there's, there's one more we got. Pettiest reason I left the relationship. I could not stop thinking
00:09:34.160 about how short our kids were going to be because he was like five nine and a half. Okay. That's not
00:09:41.540 that tall. Sorry. That's not that short. I thought she was going to say five, six.
00:09:47.300 Yeah. That's too short. Like I need a guy who's really. Girl, you're being greedy here.
00:09:52.980 I know. I'm really short. We would have short kids. You and me. But it don't matter. If you
00:09:59.020 love the guy, like it shouldn't matter. No, it does matter. You're screwed. I can't have short
00:10:06.460 kids. You got to protect the genes. Okay. Isn't she short? Do you know what's funny? My brothers
00:10:15.460 would go for tall women because they wanted tall kids. You know, I'm not going to knock her for it, 1.00
00:10:22.080 but again, it's just, I expect the women demanding this stuff to be a little bit hotter, 1.00
00:10:27.160 like hot enough. You know, if you're beautiful and you say, I want tall kids. If you look like
00:10:32.820 Jessica Alba, I would say that makes sense. I would go get them, but you know, anyways, guys,
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00:10:48.480 hindered you in dating? If not, let me know too, in the comments, like the video, subscribe,
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