Pearl - Modern Women Earning More Than Their Husbands (Call-In Show)

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00:02:29.180 Good evening, ladies and gentlemen. Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on

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00:04:19.080 hello to the people in the chat on the website thank you guys again so much for um supporting

00:04:27.200 me and before we get into the show's topic today I think I know what I'm gonna do for the show

00:04:33.060 tomorrow and I want to give you guys a heads up on this conversation because um I think it's

00:04:40.440 worth a conversation so i'm going to read the website carlos says women stills still yes sims

00:04:48.340 to help them get their work done it's not like they work more they just have more slaves

00:04:53.200 damn carlos pearl reed did you see the baton girl got arrested no i didn't but maybe i should follow

00:05:00.380 back doug mpa maybe we can do um an update on the show tomorrow so doug mpa also make a note of this

00:05:07.440 too so apparently I pissed off um Michael Knowles or not Michael Knowles they're all the same it's

00:05:14.500 like a simp epidemic um Alyssa Walsh and Matt Walsh apparently I pissed off so as you guys know

00:05:22.860 conservatives always sell traditionalism right and yet we constantly see men and women not acting

00:05:31.320 in traditional ways on the right like for example and I know this is hypocritical on my part but a

00:05:37.280 lot of their wives are public facing why are you public facing when your husband's the public figure

00:05:41.920 not you do you know what i mean that would be the ascent the extent of that would be like

00:05:47.160 imagine imagine and this is not saying right or wrong but i'm saying this is definitely not

00:05:53.000 traditional yeah so um my my producer he's here now imagine if he brought in his his his wife or

00:06:01.460 his girlfriend he brings her in and she start he she says let me do the equipment it would be kind

00:06:06.760 of weird, right? You would be like, what are you doing? You know, or imagine if you brought your

00:06:13.120 girl to work and she just, she said, move over. Um, now that's like the equivalent. I'm not saying

00:06:20.240 that's right or wrong, but I'm just saying it's not really traditional. Now, Matt Walsh seems like

00:06:27.520 a very nice guy. This isn't really personal. And I'd like to say Matt Walsh, when you see this,

00:06:32.180 this is not personal even though you've insulted me back for asking a freaking question okay

00:06:37.920 so i saw his wife's twitter and by the way his wife has spurred out at me many times

00:06:45.900 for no reason right um like you know one time i tweeted that they don't understand the reality

00:06:53.620 of divorce because none of them are old enough to have gotten divorced now i know some of you

00:06:59.080 guys beat us to the punch you guys get divorced at 30 25 you guys you guys go for it you shoot for

00:07:05.480 the stars and you say let me get fucked fast right so but that's not really the norm right so a lot

00:07:14.540 of men can live in delusion and it's tougher with gen z us women millennial women have been so

00:07:20.300 terrible that we really ruined gen z men have woken up they've seen their dad get screwed over

00:07:26.220 they've seen their grandpa get screwed over they've seen their great grandpa get screwed over

00:07:31.180 but there's some millennial men i would say and by the way i'm the youngest millennial i'm 28 so

00:07:36.800 this is like around 28 to like 40 ish is um my generation i'm two months away from being gen z

00:07:44.660 i almost made it i almost could be a gen z woman i would sound so much younger thing i could be

00:07:52.280 like yeah i'm gen z i'm so close but it's okay um so i had a tweet and this tweet said that

00:08:01.080 either because i didn't understand why the daily wire pretends that this divorce grape stuff just

00:08:07.500 is not happening i'm like why do they why do they pretend why do they live in this delusion

00:08:12.480 and i thought maybe they just don't know they haven't seen these their friends their family

00:08:18.240 get screwed or maybe they did see it and they believed the woman whatever sob story she told

00:08:22.880 that happens right women are very deceptive and so she spurred doubt on me when I said that

00:08:29.660 now I recently saw her twitter now we can show the screen here and it says Alyssa Walsh wife

00:08:37.180 of Matt Walsh bubbly extrovert sole purpose on twitter is to troll Matt Walsh

00:08:43.460 now i'm gonna have a call-in show about this because i want you guys to tell me maybe i'm

00:08:50.140 wrong i just kind of had the question the primary point of your twitter is to troll your husband

00:08:57.860 now i am a white woman i grew up around white women and i gotta say white people just put up

00:09:05.760 with this not all not all not i can't even talk like this ain't right we have a tendency i'll say

00:09:13.040 we have a tendency to put up with disrespect that I don't find that other races do the same.

00:09:21.280 And oftentimes we put up with like subtle disrespect, let's say. And I just kind of had

00:09:27.760 to ask the question, your primary purpose of your Twitter is not to support your husband,

00:09:34.560 but to troll your husband now people kind of were mad at me like obviously i'm getting ratioed on

00:09:43.900 this stuff but i don't care about the ratio there's too many simps for me to take that seriously like

00:09:50.180 you guys believe women at all costs so okay they said here we got okay pearl we're gonna have to

00:09:58.740 have the birds and the bees talk when a man and a woman love each other very very much have been

00:10:03.600 married forever of a billion kids trolling each other as a form of foreplay one day i'm i may oh

00:10:10.840 oh thank god i might get to experience the tiniest amount of that and i keep asking the question is

00:10:18.260 your job to be a support system or an adversary and the other question i have is if women wouldn't

00:10:28.680 do this to a boss, right? So imagine you have a boss, okay? Would you be able to make a LinkedIn

00:10:38.660 profile that said, my primary purpose of this is to troll my boss? No, because the other employees,

00:10:48.400 they would lose respect, right? The other employees would think it's also okay to do that.

00:10:53.800 So how is this not applicable with children?

00:10:58.300 Now, this sparked Matt Walsh getting very mad at me.

00:11:06.760 This did spark this, okay?

00:11:10.120 He said, Pearl, I understand that you're miserable and lonely.

00:11:17.500 Where is this?

00:11:18.960 I am a happy person.

00:11:20.680 can i well all right i guess i'm miserable and lonely and i have never been in anything

00:11:27.380 approaching a functional or healthy relationship in your life so because i don't think it's normal

00:11:35.440 to publicly troll your husband now i know i know yeah you guys can like joke around in private but

00:11:42.760 you guys tell me in the chat do you want your wife publicly trolling you is that

00:11:47.920 i mean i don't know maybe i could be completely wrong on this i could be completely wrong

00:11:55.540 um he said so he'll try to be patient with me so now we have the typical i know first of all

00:12:06.640 first of all

00:12:09.520 first of all that's not even true okay but it's all right you see husbands and wives who love

00:12:18.080 each other will often do this thing called joke around they may even have this other thing that

00:12:22.880 i know is foreign to you called a sense of humor i hope this clears that up now go spew your bs

00:12:28.520 everywhere and leave my wife out of it okay you brought your wife into this your wife is public

00:12:36.560 facing and you guys parade your relationship around like it's something to aspire to

00:12:41.720 your wife is giving commentary

00:12:45.540 do you know what i mean like okay all right so i mean you kind of brought your wife into it when

00:12:56.160 you put her public facing so i asked the question and they don't have an answer for me for this

00:13:02.620 Isn't a wife supposed to be a helpmate and not an adversary?

00:13:07.740 Now, I want you guys to answer this question tomorrow.

00:13:10.760 Doug MPA, this is what we're going to do.

00:13:12.980 I could be wrong.

00:13:14.700 I'd like to say I could be wrong.

00:13:20.260 We're going to read the chat on the website,

00:13:22.620 and then I'll check to see if we have super chats.

00:13:28.360 Okay.

00:13:28.800 Okay, American women will be married to a high-value man,

00:13:32.560 but will still have to be seen and heard to maintain this illusion

00:13:36.920 like she's stood beside him or contributing somehow.

00:13:41.280 What a joke.

00:13:47.520 Let me look on the other chat real quick.

00:13:51.900 I could be wrong.

00:13:53.240 I reserve the right to say, you know, maybe I just got that wrong,

00:13:57.800 but I think she's just going to keep going until she really embarrasses him bad.

00:14:06.760 I don't see this stopping, I'm going to be honest.

00:14:12.080 Okay, let's see what we got over here.

00:14:15.380 Okay, so we'll get into the topic today,

00:14:18.400 but I wanted to let you guys know what we're talking about tomorrow,

00:14:21.060 and you are totally welcome to call in.

00:14:23.660 so today we're going to talk about high earning women and wage gap relationships so throughout

00:14:33.120 most of history it was accepted that a man would pay all of the bills as he if he was in a serious

00:14:39.480 relationship or married men went out and they brought home that bacon they earned the money

00:14:44.800 the resources and women kept the home it was nice and simple in the last 50 years women have decided

00:14:51.120 that the patriarchy was oppressive

00:14:54.200 and decided to change the social contract.

00:14:58.560 Now there is talk of going 50-50

00:15:00.580 and the dangers of wage gap relationships.

00:15:04.200 Modern leftist feminists are trying to brainwash women

00:15:07.660 into thinking that a man can become abusive

00:15:10.320 if he makes more money than the woman.

00:15:13.420 Men out-earn women and always will in our lifetime.

00:15:16.420 While women may be getting more and more education,

00:15:19.720 They are also getting more debt and still go into industries that don't make a lot of money.

00:15:25.400 As men continue to do the dirty and dangerous jobs that women won't, men will make more money.

00:15:32.100 So to demonize a man because he makes more money is another exercise in how feminism will keep women single.

00:15:41.000 Wage gap relationships is just another word that these women came up with.

00:15:46.080 And that's what we're going to talk about on today's show.

00:15:49.720 okay so i'm gonna play or no first i'm gonna read this article so this is a article by

00:15:59.180 charlie ross are you in an eight not an age gap a wage gap relationship here's how to navigate it

00:16:06.660 pop culture tells us all kind of things about money and relationships with it

00:16:11.220 that it makes the world go round that it's a rich man's world but how does it impact the dynamic of

00:16:17.860 our dating life especially if our partner or love interest earns significantly more than we do

00:16:23.780 welcome to the world of a wage gap relationship the podcast called the cost of love the podcast

00:16:30.980 the cost of loving revealed in a recent survey 48 of women said they wouldn't be comfortable

00:16:36.680 entering into a relationship with someone who earns less than them whereas two-thirds of men

00:16:42.040 reported feeling fine about dating someone with a lower salary. Is this wage gap dynamic a hangover

00:16:49.180 from traditional gender roles? What about the progress that's been made towards equality in

00:16:55.760 recent decades? The overall UK gender pay gap continues to fall down by 0.4% to 11%

00:17:03.760 in the past year. While the last year in the US, the gap hit an all-time low of 15%.

00:17:10.760 women hold almost almost 30 percent of c-suite positions in the u.s up from 17 percent in 2015

00:17:18.380 yet while the wage gap is slowly closing it still very much exists proving the historical

00:17:24.140 foundations of inequality will take a lot longer to escape given how recent the advancement

00:17:30.500 advancements are in women's access to money women couldn't even open a bank account in their own

00:17:36.420 name until 1975 the expectations of traditional gender roles can still be present in heterosexual

00:17:43.600 relationships explained explains uk-based sex and relationship therapist madeline murno munro

00:17:52.280 and regardless of gender earnings can be closely linked to a person's self-worth

00:17:58.160 and a gap between partners can therefore exacerbate feelings of inadequacy making

00:18:04.200 individuals feel they are not enough for a partner according to munro beyond traditional

00:18:09.420 roles it's deeply personal personal and vulnerable tool that can evoke shame and fear of judgment

00:18:16.600 it is linked to security and safety and our relationship with money is shaped by our

00:18:21.840 attachment strategies with subconscious beliefs formed before the age of seven as a result

00:18:28.420 discussions about finances can be inherently triggering and activate nervous systems response

00:18:34.560 that we may not even be aware of these responses might include avoiding conversations about money

00:18:40.400 overspending when feeling anxious about finances or struggling to adhere to a budget since money

00:18:47.100 is rarely discussed openly we may remain unaware that of these patterns until we enter a relationship

00:18:53.420 or encounter specifical financial hardships.

00:18:57.620 So it's not surprising that the wage gap

00:18:59.420 might trigger certain insecurities in a relationship.

00:19:03.840 For Londoner Scarlett 31,

00:19:05.900 her reluctance to date someone

00:19:07.360 who earns significantly less from her

00:19:09.200 doesn't come from a commitment to traditional gender roles,

00:19:12.520 but the expectation to live and share a certain lifestyle.

00:19:16.500 I wouldn't want to date someone

00:19:17.900 who doesn't earn very much, she said.

00:19:20.000 Just because I have a certain standard of living

00:19:22.060 I want to maintain I grew up with no money and wouldn't want that for my future

00:19:26.180 whatever side of a wage gap relationship you might be on and whether or not it bothers you

00:19:33.100 it's important to acknowledge the power dynamics at play and how it could potentially impact your

00:19:39.080 relationship for instance Paula 32 in Vancouver in Vancouver earns double the salary of her

00:19:45.600 partner Jack she works in sales and he is a business analyst he said it doesn't bother him

00:19:51.380 but I think it does a little she said sometimes he feels under pressure to keep up with the things

00:19:56.220 I want to do I've had to adjust my expectations Paula said that their policy is that bills are

00:20:02.180 split 50 50 she admits to paying more including for some expenses that her partner doesn't know

00:20:08.120 about this leads to feelings of tension particularly when it comes to saving savings I sometimes resent

00:20:14.620 him when he spends all of his money without saving any she says the ingrained societal norm of that

00:20:20.240 that a male heterosexual partner should be the breadwinner

00:20:23.640 weighs heavily on Paula at times.

00:20:25.940 I sometimes stress about having a family, she says,

00:20:28.960 admitting that if they do have children,

00:20:31.500 she wouldn't necessarily want him to stay home with them,

00:20:34.340 even though it might make financial sense for him to do so.

00:20:37.800 While wage gap politics can cause issues

00:20:44.380 in heterosexual relationships,

00:20:46.620 Eliza, 33, says she and her wife of 12 years

00:20:49.980 who have out-earned each other at different stages of their careers

00:20:54.980 have always enjoyed the financial equilibrium.

00:20:58.480 I don't think people in the same-sex female couples see money as a sticking point, she says.

00:21:04.360 They contribute varying amounts to a joint bank account

00:21:07.860 based on how much they're earning at the time.

00:21:10.160 I do feel freed of those gendered expectations and feel the opportunity

00:21:14.040 for a lot more equality in same-sex relationships, she adds.

00:21:18.260 Regardless of sexuality or our perception of gender roles,

00:21:21.940 a wage gap can impact any relationship.

00:21:24.460 So how can you navigate it in a healthy way?

00:21:26.920 Here are some tips from an expert.

00:21:30.720 One, share how the wage gap feels.

00:21:33.960 Talk about the wage gap head-on because we avoid it.

00:21:37.460 It leaks out into unconscious behavior

00:21:39.600 or your partner and the relationship.

00:21:42.140 Is there insecurity, guilt, or frustration?

00:21:44.820 Being open and honest can help alleviate what you may be holding or feeling.

00:21:50.080 Discuss your financial values.

00:21:51.960 Take the time to understand each other's financial backgrounds.

00:21:55.200 How did each of you grow up thinking about money?

00:21:57.940 Set expectations.

00:21:59.580 If the higher earner wants to spend more on dining out, travel, or entertainment

00:22:03.400 while the lower earner feels strained to keep up,

00:22:05.620 it's essential to have an honest and open conversation about expectations.

00:22:10.940 Schedule regular check-ins.

00:22:12.580 i'm sure that's exactly what men want regular check-ins they said do you know what i need i

00:22:18.500 i knew a woman wrote this regularly discuss your contributions to the relationship both financial

00:22:27.060 and non-financial to ensure you feel seen yeah exactly men are just dying to feel seen that's

00:22:32.740 that's what they want okay next we're going to go through some tick some videos cam earns more

00:22:43.540 um about weight from wage gap couples and then we're gonna do a call-in and you guys can give

00:22:49.300 your thoughts and i was caught for my i was caught of us cam earns more um and there is like i was

00:22:59.700 A lot of us, Cam earns more, and there is quite a significant difference between what we earn.

00:23:06.700 Hi, I'm Ayla.

00:23:07.700 Hi, I'm Cameron.

00:23:15.700 I think when you're in a relationship where one person might earn more than the other,

00:23:22.700 I think if you split everything 50-50, you avoid any kind of resentment towards the other person

00:23:28.700 because you've kept your own individuality throughout a process like that

00:23:33.800 and I think that's really important we're going to live together we have to

00:23:37.760 we have to yeah we have to be responsible and split money together we

00:23:42.940 do everything 50 50 we clean the house 50 50 no one really takes the lead I

00:23:47.460 think my parents households my dad's like the guy my mom cooks she clean and

00:23:53.840 She sorts out the house.

00:23:55.860 My dad works, comes home, dinner's there.

00:23:59.060 I think the approach that we have is very different to that.

00:24:02.360 My mom works, my dad works, his mom and dad work too.

00:24:05.320 It's just that they have more traditional mindsets of how they do things.

00:24:08.500 But specifically me, I couldn't do that.

00:24:11.120 I need it to be 50-50 because if it isn't, I'll resent him.

00:24:15.200 I'll be like, well, I cleaned the house.

00:24:16.740 What have you been doing?

00:24:17.620 And I don't want that feeling.

00:24:23.020 Wow.

00:24:23.840 you don't think 50 percent rent he's he's good with it he's like all right you wanted to be 50

00:24:31.320 50 i'll take the extra grand a month but he's probably sitting on the date with her imagine

00:24:36.880 they're like on the date and she's like yeah it's really important that we go 50 50 and he's like

00:24:41.140 is this a trap is this a trap and then she says no no i really want to go 50 50 he's like i'm

00:24:48.980 going to let her pay? I'll let her pay half the date. And he's like, is this a trap? Is she trapping

00:24:56.620 me? Okay. And now he's gotten half the rent. I don't think this is a bad thing. I dug MPA. He's

00:25:07.120 going to call in later and give his take. And then we're going to accept callers. But here's my

00:25:11.720 thought. If women leave anyway, all right, hear me out. Women, like from a man's point of view,

00:25:17.020 it's not like the women stick around you might as well get your bag up kings

00:25:21.840 and then they'll be like well but she'll cheat with her boss she was gonna cheat anyway

00:25:26.720 it's 2025 I mean I've had PIs tell me to just assume women baseline are sleeping with two men

00:25:34.900 at a time it's 22 what do you think she's doing while you work you don't what why do we have the

00:25:42.140 the rich housewife cheating with a pool boy that's a that's a phrase for a reason you might

00:25:48.100 as well keep your money okay women fake it like she's going to pay okay this is a bad thing pearl

00:25:56.880 oh like i can control society

00:26:00.500 i'm trying to be realistic here if the average marriage is eight years

00:26:06.940 and overall your marriage is most likely going to be miserable it's not going to be good

00:26:11.480 um i'm just thinking you might as well keep your money right at least then you can like

00:26:18.400 go fishing or whatever you like to do okay so my boyfriend makes more money than me susan b anthony

00:26:24.940 suck my bit one thing i've learned from dating someone who makes more money than me is you as

00:26:30.080 the receiver of the money have to pretend like you want to help pay for things right just to like

00:26:35.980 keep up morale in the relationship so this is my number one strategy for making my boyfriend think

00:26:40.980 that I want to help pay for things. Whenever we go to a restaurant and the bill comes, I do a very

00:26:45.420 fake and dramatic reach for my purse. I'll say something like, let me get it this time. I bend

00:26:50.220 at the hip, reach down. If he doesn't see me, I go back down more dramatically. Let me get it this

00:26:55.520 time. It's very performative. I have no intention of paying, but when he sees me, he says, oh my

00:27:00.320 God, don't worry about it. I got it. You'll get me next time. Boom. I just saved $43 and he feels

00:27:04.920 good about the relationship. I don't feel bad doing this because guys do the same thing during sex,

00:27:10.620 right after they finish they're like let me uh uh and you're just like oh my god don't worry about

00:27:16.500 it i got it you'll get me next time dang can't we go to the next one

00:27:21.900 women says that paying the that the person makes less is paying more in 50 50. Amy appreciate white

00:27:31.960 people i love this because technically if you're going to be splitting something 50 50 then it

00:27:40.120 is a direct correlation between your ratio of income i just think women fought to be equal

00:27:47.380 here you go women now we're equal now you get to pay your way congratulations

00:27:53.720 you're like i wanted to work well you got to work now if you picked up some 18 year old woman off

00:28:02.300 the boat right okay she just got off the boat from taiwan or like i i don't know maybe she's

00:28:08.540 did a year of college and then dropped out to be your wife and so and also women aren't having kids

00:28:14.500 like that now my mom had six kids right then she they adopted son it's a long story but

00:28:23.360 i mean that's a lot of kids but like the women are having one two kids you're telling me you can't

00:28:31.620 do like a remote sales job you can do that from the house and now you got to cook for three people

00:28:37.760 you can't put it in the air fryer and then i mean most packs come in like you have to feed yourself

00:28:45.320 anyway you can't just yeah i mean it's 2025 why would why the fuck would it not be that's actually

00:28:52.480 50 50. so yeah if one partner is making more money than the other they are going to be pitching in

00:28:58.560 a little bit more money because if you split it down the line you're paying for less and the

00:29:05.500 person who is making less is actually paying more because that's a bigger chunk of what they make

00:29:10.600 not to mention stuff outside of the 50 50 rule like emotional labor i would never go 50 50 in

00:29:19.120 a relationship there's a certain level of respect i command in a relationship and you can't get that

00:29:24.040 at 50 50 doug mpa are men getting respect in relationships why does the red pill exist like

00:29:32.140 you guys are acting like you get if you pay for the traditional wife that she's going to respect

00:29:39.780 you didn't i just show you alissa walsh stays home and you know what she did with her free time

00:29:46.340 she made a twitter account to troll her husband who's working here like okay if i was a guy and

00:29:54.220 i'm not a guy so you guys can tell me this is how my problem solving ability would be i would assume

00:29:59.920 that my woman will leave me I would just I would go in and say okay I expect to get left and I

00:30:07.400 expect to get cheated on when she gets bored and I would say hopefully that'll be it when the kid

00:30:12.200 gets to pre-k and then I could start then you could start searching for model number two

00:30:16.560 right then you could start you realize and then I would just I would just observe when she starts

00:30:22.780 like working out be like okay it's time for me to eat less and hit the gym because I got to go find

00:30:26.760 the next the next chica and i would go in so if we know like why would you not go in

00:30:33.760 what okay so if we assumed that she's going to leave which is a fair assumption right

00:30:40.420 and i know you guys are so nice you guys are nice people you'll like you'll be like oh but she's

00:30:46.360 different yeah was your ex different was your other ex different was the ex before that was

00:30:55.040 your did your high school girlfriends okay so now imagine this so what I would do is I would make

00:31:00.740 the chick work and if anything I would want a woman that made more than me now I would assume

00:31:06.900 she's gonna cheat with the boss right I mean assume wrap it up fellas but

00:31:11.780 that way at least she can't you could maybe put her on alimony okay then the other thing I would

00:31:20.840 assume is that she's going to leave and i would just keep the money i would i would go 50 50

00:31:27.820 save half the money maybe put it into some bitcoin she can't take unless it goes south

00:31:33.840 i think that's what i would do i would take the money saved on ren and i'd put it into bitcoin

00:31:39.740 and when she cheats i would just say sayonara chica and then i would go take a class at a

00:31:45.620 community college and find my next wife that is what i would do keep holding these 304s accountable

00:31:54.460 pearl good luck all right i got a super chat so glad you stuck it out thank you samson i love that

00:32:01.860 you guys can super chat i'm a broke 20 year old man is it over pearl no it's not over your life

00:32:09.040 is going to be so much better when you're 30 fellas in the chat didn't your life get better after 30

00:32:14.280 didn't it look at your life is going to be great it just sucks when you're young

00:32:19.500 when you're 30 you can you can bang all the 20 year old broads and the 30 year old broads

00:32:26.020 and the 40 year old broads that's a huge dating pool like at 30 as a man you can go get the

00:32:31.660 cougars post-divorce they won't even ask you for commitment you'll just be the fun guy then you

00:32:36.760 can go sell a dream to the 30 year olds ready to settle down and be like yeah i'm totally all i

00:32:42.980 want is a family and something long term. Then bang them, never talk to them again. Then you can

00:32:48.800 go to the 20 year old and the 20 year old women, they have so much power, right? So they're probably

00:32:53.940 just going to have sex with you and then leave, which is great for you. Or they might stick around,

00:32:58.960 right? But probably not. I mean, it's kind of like when you get a girl, but when I have a friend,

00:33:04.900 he dates in a big city and he says, I love the women that get there. They just got to the city,

00:33:09.840 but i know i have six months till they leave me for the next guy so you could be strategic here

00:33:16.440 right i and then maybe if you're lucky one will stick around a miracle will happen

00:33:23.240 said pearl is projecting here i'm not projecting i what which part am i projecting about

00:33:32.480 i mean this is the this is what i hear from the fellas okay

00:33:36.980 this is woman's logic I'm just saying that's what I would do that's what if I was a guy I would just

00:33:46.240 I would go in with the assumption that she's gonna leave and I would I would position my life

00:33:51.820 accordingly and I would completely protect myself I would not want to be in the position

00:33:57.480 that a lot of you guys are in so sorry fellas a lot of you guys got yourself I would have looked

00:34:03.520 at the at the market and i would have said yep she's going you are correct walsh is a simp she

00:34:09.380 is disrespectful thank you olive are you a real woman or are you a woman pretending to be i don't

00:34:15.860 really believe women that are watching my channel yeah your your profile picture is too high you're

00:34:22.460 hot you're a guy all right we're gonna finish this tiktok household chores extracurriculars

00:34:29.860 all of the stuff that could actually have a monetary value but typically men do not see it

00:34:36.200 as such it is a woman's job and they don't feel like they also need to chip in so yeah when you

00:34:42.100 hear this run okay i think that's all of them i'm gonna all right doug mpa i'm gonna put this

00:34:50.280 in the chat and so first we're gonna let doug in doug mpa in and then um

00:34:56.340 and then oh we got some subscribers on the website uh we got clue thank you for signing up

00:35:07.760 michael also thank you for signing up

00:35:11.400 and jones thank you uh peter thank you edward thank you thank you guys very much

00:35:20.520 okay now i'm gonna put in the zoom link in the chat

00:35:23.920 oh it's already there thank you okay Doug MPA I want to hear from you I personally and then I

00:35:44.520 want to ask the question from you guys could you date or marry a woman making more money than you

00:35:49.920 or have you, and how did that go for you?

00:35:54.840 So that's what I want to hear from you guys,

00:35:56.840 but I want to hear from Doug MPA first.

00:36:01.560 Is he on or no?

00:36:03.060 Not yet, all right, he's coming.

00:36:07.720 It's just, you know, I don't understand,

00:36:10.220 because you guys, you'll complain and say,

00:36:12.200 the women are whores, the women are whores.

00:36:14.880 Why wouldn't you just assume that?

00:36:19.020 Do you know what I mean?

00:36:19.820 like why would you assume that your girlfriend or wife doesn't have anything in her past

00:36:26.700 like wouldn't you just wouldn't you just wear a condom do you know what i mean

00:36:32.300 and then it's like oh the women are divorcing a okay so wouldn't that make sense to assume

00:36:38.980 that she's gonna leave you wouldn't that be like

00:36:41.460 like isn't that kind of pragmatic here i don't really think the guys are simpy if they go 50

00:36:49.540 50. I think they're kind of smart. I mean, now they're saving on rent. They can get a little

00:36:55.720 nest saved until the woman decides she's bored and wants to go have sex with his best friend

00:37:01.840 or her personal trainer or her boss. One of the three, right? It's either

00:37:10.060 curveball says condom sex sucks. Well, enjoy chlamydia. Enjoy it. Have fun.

00:37:19.540 Enjoy. They said facts. Okay. Enjoy herpes, chlamydia, gonorrhea. Enjoy it. No, no, no, no.

00:37:28.340 And maybe, um, maybe a child, you know?

00:37:39.540 Doug MPA.

00:37:42.180 Until the woman decides.

00:37:43.520 Oh, you got to turn off. Yeah. Okay. There you go. How are you, Doug MPA?

00:37:49.540 or her personal trainer back in business but can you hear me okay yeah you got to turn off the

00:37:56.180 the my show in the background oh yeah sorry about that i made that mistake hold on

00:38:02.420 enjoy it there we go enjoy they said facts okay enjoy herpes i can still hear it i don't enjoy it

00:38:11.220 no no i i have nothing open um okay i think it might be on our end hold on

00:38:19.540 oh is that can you hear me okay i can hear you okay okay now we're good now we're good now we're

00:38:29.000 good um sorry i think it was on our end um so what are your thoughts doug mpa guys someone

00:38:38.140 from the chat i think it was a special tiger he said it's about leverage pearl you don't want a

00:38:45.720 woman to have any kind of leverage over you and here's the thing when men get divorced most of the

00:38:51.240 time the man's net worth rises and the woman's net worth goes down men have to accept early on

00:38:58.540 that dealing with women is going to cost okay so like losing money okay i'm not talking about

00:39:07.540 the average guy the average guy has more to lose but a guy who's successful has a highly valued

00:39:13.860 trade highly valued skill highly value education you men need to be leaders and set the tone

00:39:21.460 right and that usually involves money and resources okay so you and that should go through

00:39:32.100 dating and relationships and marriage and if you have a highly valued skill highly valued trade

00:39:38.660 all that you you can walk away and you're just gonna make more money but the type of respect

00:39:45.380 that a a man that's worth something commands you can't get that 50 50 he just can't do it

00:39:51.780 now now i'm talking about a certain kind of guy who's put in the work and and and

00:39:59.620 who looking for highly value skill highly value trade all that stuff but the average guy maybe not

00:40:04.580 But, you know, I don't but I don't see the high earning men getting respect either.

00:40:09.480 Like, I don't see that. Like, if anything, I swear, I see the low earning guys getting more respect half the time than the high earning ones,

00:40:17.080 because the women's with the high earning guy more likely for resources and the low earning guy.

00:40:22.100 It's for like alpha traits. And it's like if women know the men will walk away, then they respect them.

00:40:28.400 Like, haven't you ever seen those those guys that get women to pay for them?

00:40:31.960 and somehow like these women are afraid of these guys like they don't want him to leave you know

00:40:37.520 what i mean yeah but that's the thing you can put forth the resources and the money be sensible

00:40:45.440 about it because remember men are better with money and spending than women right and so you

00:40:52.380 set the tone with your resources and your your masculine frame and then if she's not giving you

00:41:01.660 the respect that you command you just leave remember the biggest the two biggest superpowers

00:41:07.840 a man has is to be able to determine who his his girlfriend fiance and wife is if he chooses to be

00:41:14.020 married guys don't get married and walking away all throughout this process whether you're 50 50

00:41:20.640 or not guys walk away what is the average mortgage cost remember i always say set a comfort and

00:41:29.800 convenience level guys and don't go beyond it most of the time if you're getting frustrated with a

00:41:34.620 person or a situation you've gone above and beyond your comfort and convenience level

00:41:39.600 do that with women too if a woman gets too annoying or you're spending too much on her or

00:41:45.540 she's not putting out you leave so that goes along with guys you i i've never done 50 50 and i

00:41:55.840 wouldn't because it gives a woman leverage and she's going to try to use that well and start

00:42:00.120 using terms like we're going to the 50 50 but i'm doing all this emotional labor all all this

00:42:05.520 garbage set the tone early okay wait i don't part with anything to get part with a man shouldn't be

00:42:12.200 dating or or in a relationship um if he doesn't have time and resources set aside anyway i don't

00:42:19.440 know. So I'm looking at these numbers, right? So it says the average mortgage cost is $2,300

00:42:25.240 a month. Now I divide that in two. That's $1,158 a month. So then I times that times

00:42:35.540 12. That's going to be, oh wait, hold on. I got rid of the one. That's going to be $13,000

00:42:47.940 a year. $13,902

00:42:51.700 times the average length of a marriage, which is eight years.

00:42:56.960 Wait, hold on. 13, wait,

00:42:59.800 I gotta do this, okay. 13 grand

00:43:02.840 times eight years.

00:43:07.880 That's a hundred, wait, no, no, sorry, times eight.

00:43:12.300 I'm doing this wrong.

00:43:13.160 it's 111

00:43:18.920 see i'm like do they really do the men really knowing that the women are gonna leave

00:43:24.120 is it really the women are disrespectful anyway like if anything i should expect that to be the

00:43:31.400 baseline she might as well pay like if if i was looking at rich men right or well-off men and

00:43:40.660 seeing that this money helped them i don't see that helping them though if anything i think that

00:43:46.880 rich guys are like wealthy guys are known for being bigger simps because that's what they like

00:43:51.860 lead with in order to get leverage where the low earn like the low earning men tend to use like

00:43:56.860 frame or game here's the thing pearl you're you're talking like you've never had to date women you've

00:44:04.260 never had to be in a relationship with a woman when you're a man you know from young that dealing

00:44:10.400 with women who are worth anything is going to cost you money. Once you've achieved a certain

00:44:18.660 amount, parting with money as a concept isn't really like an L. It's how much you're losing

00:44:27.660 and what's the circumstance. If you're going to find a woman worth it, she's going to cost you

00:44:34.920 money. It's just, it's just, we set expectations. And if she isn't doing what you want or showing

00:44:41.720 you what you want, you leave behind one of the worst things. So I used to mentor young African

00:44:47.660 American and young African immigrant men. Right. And, and I would have to teach them how to take

00:44:54.700 L's. If you take a woman out on a date, pay. And then if it doesn't work out, keep it moving,

00:45:03.880 but don't don't part with anything that you can't part with i hate when a guy takes a woman out

00:45:10.200 on a date pays too much for a dinner doesn't get laid uh and complains about it like that's what

00:45:18.500 dating is unfortunately now once again guys set a limit don't go beyond i don't what you can afford

00:45:26.260 i don't know doug i think that like women fought to be equal we're equal now i don't i don't see

00:45:32.440 i think your your sentiment is from an older generation i don't see the men in my generation

00:45:37.520 signing up for this i i think they're gonna look at that like the younger guys and see it as a bad

00:45:44.880 deal and that it's just not worth like paying for well you know like and i'd say like most of the

00:45:50.560 girls i knew in college that ended up getting married like they went 50 50 like it was that

00:45:56.360 was like the norm god yeah but but like you want to put yourself in a position where you can pay

00:46:02.240 100% of the bills, guys, if you had to, because women reserve the right to change their mind at

00:46:08.420 any given time. And most of the time, this whole 50-50 thing goes out the door when you get married

00:46:14.220 or if the woman has a kid. Because I've had friends my age who have a kid, and then all of a sudden,

00:46:20.620 the wife was this career-oriented boss babe. Then a kid is born, and she wants to stay home or work

00:46:28.640 part-time and she'll resent the husband because he can't afford for her to not work guys put

00:46:34.620 yourself in a position where if you had to you you could pay 100 of the bills if your wife or

00:46:39.640 your girlfriend wants to stay 50 50 that's fine but odds are by the time she hits her 30s she's

00:46:44.960 not going to want to be 50 50 anymore and you're talking pearl i'm gonna have to throw they're

00:46:49.980 throwing him in daycare now the moms aren't even watching them like 65 are enrolled in full-time

00:46:56.860 daycare i mean if this number is right two-thirds of preschool aged um children attend early

00:47:03.580 education programs which i think is daycare i'm looking at this it's like like if the moms aren't

00:47:10.160 okay if the if the modern women are not watching the kids right if they're not having a bunch of

00:47:15.600 kids what are they doing all day like they're having one child doug mpa it's like go get a

00:47:22.640 part-time job or something yeah but we've deified having children women think that having one child

00:47:31.980 oh my god it's like they they women of the past my mom's mom had like 11 kids and outlived all of

00:47:40.000 them or something like that it was crazy now they have one and they think that they're that they're

00:47:45.300 god's gift to the earth i know bro i'm gonna have to concede to you on the activities of young men

00:47:50.820 because i'm not gen z like you but i'm telling you once you hit your 30s and you have means

00:47:55.860 you can date a different way and you get to the point where you know that you're going to make

00:48:00.240 more money you're going to be productive and you want a certain quality of woman it's going to cost

00:48:06.980 you so just get ready for it and also look at it for if you want the kind of respect that

00:48:13.080 uh a man of value i'm not gonna say high value but a man a value you should get it's not 50 50.

00:48:21.000 you should set the tone from the beginning and keep that tone because once again

00:48:26.280 there's gonna be a time where that woman will change her mind and not want to go 50 50 50 uh

00:48:32.440 anymore so you should be ready for it because women reserve the right to change their minds

00:48:36.840 about anything at any time especially paying for the bills you could just say too bad get to work

00:48:42.600 lady or leave you know well i just i tell the guys i would mentor the 50 50 because women have

00:48:53.560 this weird thing where i may be going 50 50 but i'm also doing all this emotional labor so you

00:48:59.540 know you know i have to pay and after this just don't even you don't have to pay everything but

00:49:04.020 pay the big bills at least you know i'm always going to advocate for that put yourself in a

00:49:08.240 position where you can pay 100 of the bills because one day you might have to and if you

00:49:11.900 can't she she's gonna resent you and make your life hell i'd say save your money she's gonna

00:49:17.300 leave anyway i say save your money put it into some bitcoin for when she divorces you

00:49:23.900 and that she can't find um but let's see what the people have to say um do you want to let in the

00:49:31.680 first person oh and um what who all right guys and i we want to use your personal experience so

00:49:44.480 if you don't have experience with dating um high earning women or something that's relevant to the

00:49:51.720 topic please refrain from calling in this is to stay relevant to the topic

00:49:56.340 so gabe unmute

00:50:01.380 yeah go ahead yeah gabe have you dated a high-earning women woman before

00:50:15.120 no but i was um watching the tiktoks that you were watching that one interracial couple where

00:50:24.500 the girl was you know blabbering and blabbering and it triggered ptsd symptoms that i say that

00:50:33.760 i've heard growing up okay what did you hear growing up i'm really trying to stay on topic

00:50:41.340 so is this this is relevant to the topic though it is i think it is okay go ahead that's fine

00:50:48.760 just all the 50 50 garbage i expect like my man to do housework too and all that stuff and like as

00:51:01.380 a guy i think if i was in that position i would be like it would drive me crazy so yeah

00:51:10.680 okay thanks for calling in gabe yeah oh you should look up the whatever podcast um clips of

00:51:20.240 andrew wilson and rachel wilson having to fight off some um feminists that tried to attack him

00:51:26.680 physically yeah i saw that clip you have rachel went in on that girl yeah i saw that

00:51:34.120 yeah thanks for calling in gabe thanks for calling in gabe

00:51:37.360 let's see what we got next i want to read john are you there yeah i'm here

00:51:46.740 oh can you hear me i'm gonna read this super chat really quick and then you can go john

00:51:50.540 um at 42 single only want to date young women but the dating app says

00:51:55.460 suck not drinking either so where can't where can i find me a girl advice please do you know

00:52:02.980 i heard on twitter that i guess the dating apps if you you shouldn't unmatch like girls that

00:52:08.660 stop talking to you because it ranks you higher if you keep them as your matches i mean that's

00:52:15.060 what's like going viral on twitter right now i don't know if that's true um i think on every

00:52:20.340 college campus there are women that are looking for their mrs degrees i don't know i don't date

00:52:25.860 women but you know that's something i've heard from guys is no no no no no because women don't

00:52:31.620 get well maybe some schools but but women used to he used to go to college they want to get married

00:52:39.780 in college but i think the majority of women who get their degree to prove that they don't need a

00:52:45.300 man and really want to go out into this they get their social work degree or their lesbian dance

00:52:52.340 theater degree and think that they're going to go save the world because remember the modern

00:52:56.340 a woman i don't know michael pearl i i know i know but i just asked my gen z like brother and

00:53:01.220 his friend this morning and he told me there were girls on campus that like got yeah but

00:53:05.860 right how many of them are actually gonna get married though in college they showed me them

00:53:11.940 they were showing me them this morning i i don't know i'm just telling you what i've heard from

00:53:16.420 guys like i i'm just this is something i've heard you can take it or leave it okay okay

00:53:22.260 I concede to you as the expert in with the youngins.

00:53:27.960 I mean, this is just they're saying, I don't know, but I don't think it's the I would I would agree with you.

00:53:34.540 It's the exception, not the rule.

00:53:36.800 John, what do you have for me on the topic?

00:53:41.900 Yeah, can you hear me?

00:53:43.020 Yeah, go ahead.

00:53:45.020 Yeah, sorry.

00:53:46.260 Remind me, how am I responding to the topic exactly?

00:53:49.660 yeah so have you ever dated a woman that made more money than you i'm like have you ever done

00:53:54.840 50 50 how did it go gotcha yeah um so i'm married to a woman who makes more money than me and i

00:54:01.820 almost exclusively attract those type of women not sure why that is really what's your what's

00:54:09.940 your job if you don't mind me asking um yeah no i don't mind i'm a account i'm a relationship

00:54:16.360 counselor okay and what industry is your is your significant other in my significant other is in

00:54:26.720 the academic industry but we we met on tinder like years years ago is she is she a phd

00:54:33.660 uh yeah i'm a phd i kind of picked and so have you found it to be a problem in the relationship

00:54:41.580 um do you guys split the bills 50 50 or how do you guys do it um it usually starts out 50 50

00:54:48.480 and then over time they start to see more of my value they start to wonder how they can contribute

00:54:53.780 or they come in that way immediately recognize my value and go how can i can contribute um and then

00:54:59.100 that's usually how these career women do it they try to pay for things because they usually don't

00:55:03.960 come you know like mentally emotionally psychologically prepared so that's that's

00:55:11.780 her compensation so it's a pretty balanced thing if you ask me so she's made more money than you

00:55:19.020 the entire time that you've known her uh yeah pretty pretty much oh well no that's not true

00:55:24.380 actually um no we were um we were 50 we were probably 50 50 when we met and then um i made

00:55:32.160 some some pretty risky business choices and she started uh helping me out and then i've just been

00:55:38.140 taking over her business since then basically she doesn't want to deal with it anymore she'd rather

00:55:42.380 not work obviously wait so wait you're taking how do you take over her business like how does that

00:55:50.620 work and how does she not work um i take on her clients i take on um all the management and

00:55:59.480 I'm taking up all the logistics as well.

00:56:03.320 Has it ever been a problem where she holds it over your head?

00:56:07.680 No.

00:56:09.160 Not even a little bit.

00:56:10.160 I wouldn't pick someone like that.

00:56:11.480 I wouldn't.

00:56:12.320 I wouldn't.

00:56:13.840 I can't imagine, like, dating someone like that and then making it past the vetting process.

00:56:19.780 It's, like, really easy to test for, actually.

00:56:23.260 Did you move into her house?

00:56:26.580 She bought one for me.

00:56:28.700 so i'm saying the ultimate alphas are guys that get women to pay for them

00:56:33.980 yeah i was gonna say yeah i called it right knock it off no i know i've seen it i'm telling you

00:56:42.440 there's a guy that i worked with in london he would go after female lawyers that was his thing

00:56:47.340 like he would go or finance girls and he would just get them all to like pay for him he didn't

00:56:52.280 even have to like work so john everything's competitive so how old are you i'm 33. and

00:57:02.080 so do you guys have children i we're working on it we're trying to bring it so okay

00:57:11.560 i get nothing um okay yeah because that actually like counters the point you had made earlier about

00:57:19.260 like a lot of these women struggle like letting go of that stuff um and you had said something

00:57:24.880 about like the transition of becoming a mom um I guess I'm the exception to the rule I know that's

00:57:30.580 probably what you mean about like proven pearl right I'm being the exception to the rule uh

00:57:35.120 where she realized it before that and realized oh I want to be a mom therefore that's a full-time

00:57:40.720 job therefore that's all the things that I've been looking for to fulfill me in life that's what I

00:57:46.420 want to focus on not providing for a bunch of strangers um i'm just going to give you a warning

00:57:52.680 so i have a friend who's a woman who's very successful and they they live on a farm and her

00:57:57.860 husband's a graphic designer but he takes care of the farm and they're and they're three kids right

00:58:02.200 and she's like way up in public service you know she flies to washington dc and does all these

00:58:07.700 different things whatever but she had to start going to um uh once uh well there's this problem

00:58:15.360 already she's way too valuable so so she had to start going to therapy because she missed all of

00:58:22.480 their children's all three other children's uh important moments when they were young so she

00:58:29.760 missed their first word when they took the first step so he would call her husband would call her

00:58:34.000 and say honey you know little billy took his first step and said his first word and she's been going

00:58:39.040 into therapy for a year or two

00:58:41.060 because she feels so much guilt

00:58:43.160 over missing her child's

00:58:45.240 her children's younger

00:58:47.160 years like women have this weird thing

00:58:49.020 where they're just full of regret am I going to

00:58:51.060 be a good mom and there's

00:58:53.280 not really any way that

00:58:55.100 because women think that

00:58:57.100 they're supposed to be the ones there

00:58:58.980 for those moments and not you you're the

00:59:00.980 man because they held it inside

00:59:03.040 their body for nine months so

00:59:04.960 be careful if you guys

00:59:06.360 have kids that's actually a burgeoning part of therapy are these boss women who feel this kind

00:59:12.360 of regret for missing their their children's younger years yeah i hear you but if you can't

00:59:20.640 be your woman's therapist and that isn't an easy thing for you to do then you shouldn't be with

00:59:24.960 her in the first place you shouldn't be having kids with her in the first place did you say be

00:59:28.360 your woman's therapist yeah absolutely if that's not easy for you to do oh why is she going to

00:59:34.680 someone else why is she paying another man another woman why is she talking to anyone else at all

00:59:38.880 why is she asking for advice from somebody else okay hey

00:59:45.100 you're do you not agree with that doug that like that you're that your wife should be going to you

00:59:54.340 instead of like an actual therapist so well i do but guilt over being a good mom i mean how

01:00:04.180 how are you gonna that's something that she's got because remember mothers deify motherhood

01:00:11.780 so you're trying to be a therapist about her feelings of motherhood it's just gonna i'm not

01:00:16.260 trying yeah i don't doug i don't doug mp i don't think that's what he's saying

01:00:22.980 that's not what i'm saying at all that's not what i said well no but i i can understand if that's

01:00:29.460 not something you can do if that's not something you're good at that's not something you're good

01:00:32.100 No, no, but what I'm saying is, I got nothing to do with me, bro.

01:00:35.860 No, I'm saying I'm talking about this specific issue that I'm talking about, about motherhood regret.

01:00:42.200 Maybe you didn't hear me.

01:00:44.080 OK, no, I heard you.

01:00:45.920 I've talked to mothers, too.

01:00:48.920 I actually used to run a daycare when I was a child.

01:00:51.880 I know I know all the ins and outs, all of this stuff.

01:00:55.040 If you if you can't be a therapist, if that's a job to you, then that's that's your problem.

01:01:00.480 OK, hers.

01:01:01.200 you have to be able to handle your women

01:01:03.340 no no you don't

01:01:05.480 you handle snakes and tigers you don't handle

01:01:07.720 women bro okay how do they act

01:01:09.860 everything that you have to handle

01:01:11.760 is describe a snake and tiger to me

01:01:14.020 yeah they'll freaking

01:01:15.720 bite you and try to eat you

01:01:17.100 yeah

01:01:17.860 they'll try to bite you and try to eat you bro so

01:01:21.480 if you're handling

01:01:22.820 if you're a woman good luck

01:01:25.200 I'm handling multiple

01:01:27.700 and I have been for decades

01:01:29.160 Yeah, and you're living off your chick, too.

01:01:34.120 I'm living off.

01:01:35.380 Okay.

01:01:36.220 I'm sorry that I upset you.

01:01:37.960 No, no, you didn't upset me.

01:01:41.420 Whatever works for you is fine.

01:01:44.720 I respect you.

01:01:46.320 Whatever works for you works for you.

01:01:47.720 Is that why you're describing something that's already been established?

01:01:51.660 No.

01:01:52.180 Because you're not insulted?

01:01:54.860 No.

01:01:56.180 So you're just stating the obvious?

01:01:57.880 a grown man's just repeating things as i've already been saying look i'm just telling you

01:02:02.860 what i know you can take it or leave it i respect what you're doing over there you you're proving

01:02:08.300 pearl right and that's good whatever works for you i don't need to prove anyone right

01:02:13.680 okay is the way is the way you exercise leverage is it other women is that how you do it i don't

01:02:23.440 need to exercise leverage. I'm just a good person. I do good things. Just like I'm handling your

01:02:28.720 friend right now on the phone. You want to talk about it, Doug? Because this doesn't have to be

01:02:34.120 confrontational. I know you think I'm trying to sunny you right now. No, no, no. This isn't my

01:02:39.120 platform. It's not. If it was, we'd have a whole different conversation. But you do you,

01:02:47.880 handle your woman. You don't need to say that, though. That should go without saying.

01:02:51.320 yeah okay we're grown men okay that's fine okay okay do you okay well thank you for calling in

01:02:57.860 i appreciate it we're gonna move on to the next caller sure um okay we got uh miller are you there

01:03:07.160 yeah i'm here go ahead buddy yeah i'm married uh to a woman but she's she's more like a friend

01:03:15.060 we knew a long time before we married so uh right out the gate i made more than her i was in the

01:03:22.660 military okay so uh and i supported her through college she got her uh earlywood uh education

01:03:33.140 so and now she's making more than me but um yeah i feel like we've grown apart after she

01:03:39.220 started making more than me i don't know what what getting her busy and stuff so um we're not

01:03:44.500 really close like we used to be and before we met she had a before we got married she had a child

01:03:53.940 so yeah we're not really that close and we grew it apart and we just decided to get a divorce

01:03:59.780 and let's call it a day and you noticed a shift when she started to out earn you yeah

01:04:06.180 yeah um have you dated since or did you just get a divorce

01:04:14.980 i talked to other ladies and stuff like that and sleep with other ladies but uh my wife is my wife

01:04:22.900 you know i would never like she comes first like i would never put someone in between me and her

01:04:29.860 but you guys are getting divorced right yeah i'm gonna have like court on the 24th

01:04:36.180 over zoom call she's in florida i mean you wouldn't put anyone between you and her when like it's over

01:04:45.620 yeah like um like like when me and her was close like if even if i go outside and have

01:04:51.700 a relationship like even if she find out i wouldn't make she feel guilty i would like

01:04:57.700 there's no like i messed up and she would forgive me and like but um

01:05:05.940 we kind of drift apart after she she got her job and she she's uh she got her

01:05:13.060 out running me she just kind of drift away she don't talk to me as much as she used to

01:05:21.300 got it um if you had to go back would you switch it at all

01:05:26.500 would you like tell her to not go after like the job or would you maybe try to were you 50 50 from

01:05:32.740 the beginning uh like i was i was more uh she was like she was more independent we were independent

01:05:47.620 so like when we go on dates i think she paid for more she was she was uh more of the

01:05:54.100 she she did more to be honest and what about bells did you split those yes yeah we split those

01:06:03.360 okay so it was kind of like sure she helped i i helped her most of the time when i can

01:06:07.980 she um we we stepped uh we help each other out as much as we can and so she was not she was not

01:06:15.820 birthing to me i i'm really grateful for having her in my life i learned a lot from her but we

01:06:23.180 we kind of drift apart and if i would do it again ah i don't know would you i would have to do like

01:06:32.460 i would i would have to be in a position like being like uh in like my entrepreneur where i

01:06:40.060 um i could scale my own business to uh stay above her but or where i can stay with her

01:06:46.940 like I can work remotely but since I was in the Navy I was stationed like a

01:06:53.900 different state and stuff like that we we weren't together most times when I'm

01:06:58.220 like deployed I I couldn't get in touch with her so we grew apart due to some

01:07:05.480 out got it outside circumstances got it well thanks for sharing Miller you're

01:07:14.300 welcome. I'm going to move to Marte. Carlos Acosta was next. Okay. Hold on. Carlos Acosta,

01:07:27.280 you're next. Go ahead. Hello. We can hear you. Go ahead. Yeah. Oh yeah. So congrats on getting

01:07:37.180 monetized thank you thank you yeah uh so uh i haven't really been in a relationship like

01:07:45.060 some of these adults i've been in more like immature relationships okay but i where it's

01:07:50.500 easier to be the guy that pays because you're paying for like you know nothing basically okay

01:07:55.520 um but i guess what i wanted to ask um since you're so versed in all this like

01:08:01.060 you know relationship chaos uh i want to i guess i want to flesh out in my head

01:08:07.800 like the cycle so it's like women earn more than men and then because of you know or they they seek

01:08:16.640 out uh a career or whatever to climb up this social ladder or whatever right and then they

01:08:25.820 try to find men up there right and then eventually uh they keep climbing and keep climbing until they

01:08:32.300 can't find the men that they want and so uh you know they become these girl bosses right

01:08:40.300 uh uh in order to find the only man that can conquer her right she's gonna try to find who's

01:08:48.660 the the true alpha and then she finds that no man really wants to be around the girl boss

01:08:53.700 so what happens after that like what's the the feedback loop right because um if there wasn't

01:08:59.860 a feedback loop then women i think would just be like wait a minute being a girl boss is bad

01:09:04.600 but obviously they still keep they no they go have sex with the personal trainers

01:09:09.180 they get the kid then they go back to the jack that's what i've seen they go back to the jacked

01:09:14.920 guys so they go they get the kid from the provider guy in their late 20s early 30s divorce him and

01:09:21.640 then go back to the jacked ones interesting but just like recreationally but women want to be

01:09:30.440 side chicks that's why they keep picking it so okay and is there anything so will you say that

01:09:39.560 like where does it start so like a baseline woman right like i'm trying to like model that model it

01:09:45.520 out of my head baseline woman starts out like in college let's say she's or high school that's where

01:09:51.000 women i think or most people try to figure out what they're going to do with their life

01:09:53.720 they try to maybe date some guys and maybe they sort of get a feel for this dynamic between yeah

01:09:59.560 i'm trying to yeah i'm trying to keep it on the topic though and like people's personal experience

01:10:04.140 so um do you have anything that you've seen that you could add to it oh okay no that i like i said

01:10:11.580 uh don't really have like an uh like a marriage experience like these guys i just wanted to get

01:10:16.860 your opinion on that whole like cycle and you answered the question so thank you yeah okay

01:10:23.100 thank you yep have a good one Marte I think was next yeah it's Marte hey how's it going

01:10:33.080 hey what's up Pearl um congratulations on uh being monetized by the way thank you so staying

01:10:40.920 on topic here I just want to address the fact that when we when we have modern dating here and

01:10:46.680 i'm not going to bring up my experience as far as like a relationship but as far as dating because

01:10:51.180 we have to enter into a relationship you have the dynamic of introduction right and when you

01:10:56.280 introduce yourself to somebody on a date we now have identity politics that's playing part in this

01:11:01.640 with feminism you know we all know that is the entailment with that so when you meet a woman and

01:11:07.680 she has all this vast experience and you're talking to her on a date you're realizing that

01:11:12.740 if you don't have a lot of life experience if you're talking to women there's less that you

01:11:17.580 can show her there's also this and also the fact that you are now going to possibly be competing

01:11:23.240 with this woman it's hard not to go ahead and dodge this in this dating era too because now

01:11:28.360 they identify with this career so you you have two options i'm an orthodox christian like my boy

01:11:33.700 um andrew wilson oh nice so you have two options you can um i was also his coach by the way his

01:11:39.280 him and rachel's i did their diet and stuff like that oh cool but um so when it comes to this you

01:11:45.420 have two different dynamics that you can have you got to stay at home um you know mom that goes ahead

01:11:52.800 and helps out the kids and everything else where work is now optional right you're not competing

01:11:57.380 for resources doing all this other stuff you can carry the brunt of the relationship on your

01:12:01.560 shoulders financially which i would advocate for men to do like doug was saying that's a great thing

01:12:06.720 to do with the brunt of the bills. The other problem that you're dealing with, which is like

01:12:10.680 80% of the dating dynamics that I've ran into in modern dating is the identity. You're not meeting

01:12:16.340 the woman, you're meeting her career. And then you're going to find out about this woman later.

01:12:20.880 I recently went on a date and we, you know, we talked about everything. She's a CEO.

01:12:27.680 Everything went fine, right? You know why everything failed? It's because I didn't ask

01:12:32.180 about her career and i didn't care enough about the entailment of her position what she did and

01:12:37.260 all this other stuff normally this would have never been a problem like 20 years ago right now

01:12:42.620 that we run into this it is now like if you don't identify with this whole part of my being which

01:12:49.600 is my identity now not me as a woman it's which is secondary now with modern feminism you're now

01:12:56.300 having to go ahead and meet her her career which is the representation of the entailment of her

01:13:01.500 as a person and then whatever else personality she has so things that flip dynamically backwards

01:13:07.480 if you're making less than her you're competing at such a high rate now because the average man

01:13:13.600 makes what 53k pearl i think it's 53 that's around there 54 right so now the average woman now thinks

01:13:20.500 that's broke so when you meet her uh good luck telling her that you're a journeyman or anything

01:13:25.420 else they automatically perceive that as low even if you're making more so you now have identities

01:13:30.340 to deal with too in this whole fray of the dating whole dynamic and it's it's rough because

01:13:36.360 establishing your position uh you know in the dating dynamic and saying hey you know i'm a good

01:13:42.320 man all this other stuff out the window because if they're meeting you and you're i they're they're

01:13:47.800 now identity is now their career and that's what they are and who they are what do we do we either

01:13:54.680 have to bring up something that's equal or above what they are and that's changed the dating

01:13:59.520 dynamic of everything now i'm going to chime in real fast so the so the biggest problem with

01:14:05.240 what you're talking about if you meet a ceo because the area i'm dating in i always meet

01:14:10.340 these women exactly like you're talking about these these these career women right and right

01:14:14.700 they don't want a husband they want a wife that's the problem all these women they want you to be

01:14:21.500 their wife they want you to support them i would say a girlfriend and a cheerleader that i would

01:14:27.100 else to say that too yeah yeah that's that's the problem and and and if you make less than them

01:14:32.780 that's really the expectation because like you always say pearl men are benevolent with their

01:14:38.040 power men i always say when men win everyone wins and when women win they win for themselves

01:14:46.260 they want a competitive successful man to to put aside his ambitions his desires to help her with

01:14:54.100 her own selfish desires. And that's exacerbated even more if she makes more money than you.

01:15:01.820 A man will be benevolent. Let a woman move into his house and nest in his house and change

01:15:08.080 everything around. Put his stuff in a man cave in his own basement. Women will never extend that

01:15:13.080 privilege to a man that moves into her house. There's a difference in mindset. And so if a

01:15:20.500 woman starts making more money than you, or a lot of women, if they go 50-50, that mindset starts

01:15:25.340 coming out. It's the intangibles I'm talking about. Doug, there's a survey that I recently

01:15:32.700 did on Threads. Threads is a new community where I'm doing a lot of debates, tingling with a lot

01:15:37.640 of feminists on there. It just so happens that feminists happen to be rife in this community,

01:15:41.900 or it's rife with feminists. So I did a survey, and this is, Pearl, this is along with what we're

01:15:48.500 talking about here and i can tie it back in so i did a survey if women had all the power and the

01:15:54.260 power dynamic was different where women made most of the income and had most of the force monopoly

01:15:58.980 of force that we talk about would they literally destroy men right uh even women had voted for

01:16:06.320 as 5 000 people on the survey that i put out women overwhelmingly voted that they would destroy men

01:16:12.160 holy and that they would relegate them to i can send you uh the survey that i did and everything

01:16:17.360 else that they would relegate them to enslavement positions it was like 60 men 60 women uh 40 men

01:16:25.160 in this survey out of 5 000 people so when you take this uh and this is a real poll that i could

01:16:30.940 send you so when you look at this dynamic we can go ahead and mirror this with dating now and show

01:16:36.800 that what would happen if the tales were reversed right so we take these roles we can now see this

01:16:42.100 reflection of modern dating where now we're meeting women who are right up here and the

01:16:46.600 man is down here what's going to happen we're gonna see this play out and so when women are

01:16:52.160 graduating college at 67 percent rate you know look this up too and they're going to be out

01:16:57.600 earning men you're now going to see their dating pool shrink i'm not telling you something you

01:17:01.740 don't already know pearl also doug so along with your point you're completely correct about this

01:17:07.540 we talk about the entailment of disposition if a then it's going to lead to b now you're going to

01:17:13.240 talk about a plummeting birth rate as a result of this because women are only having one baby

01:17:17.740 you're everything's going to be plummeting societal uh yeah but degeneracy is going to go up

01:17:22.560 but see the way i see it is like this is already happening so like you're going on dates to see

01:17:27.840 you're like a nice orthodox man and you're going on date with this crazy ceo these are the choices

01:17:33.540 now so yeah it's like you you're good looking guy you know like this isn't so it's like if i was a

01:17:40.180 guy i would just go with it i'd be like ladies go ahead pay for me it's called the king's

01:17:44.540 i would just ask like what can i get out of this now oh you know you know you're talking about

01:17:52.040 something that's a temporary thing right yeah but there's no longevity it's good but it's gonna be

01:17:56.840 it's gonna be temporary anyways what do you did you think like i get that that leads to i think

01:18:02.820 the world that we're talking about leads to a nihilistic approach and i think uh we need to

01:18:06.840 find a solution that's different than that i mean for me to be honest i have two jobs i work as a

01:18:11.660 licensed myopractic and i also work as a entailment of like following law enforcement so if you look

01:18:17.200 at all this like why do i have two jobs people ask me this it's because i know that women are

01:18:22.020 going to i'm going to run into women that are going to out earn me but what do i do i'm going

01:18:25.800 to provide a buffer is like a secondary job right so as a man knowing this doug i'm coming in with

01:18:31.720 precautionary measures in this dating society right so if i know this men get pissed off at me

01:18:37.260 when i have these debates with men all the time well men shouldn't kill themselves for a job just

01:18:41.460 to go ahead and be the equivalent of what women are now well shit it's tough out there so it's

01:18:47.780 hard finding a solution so pearl it's either like nihilism but it's not nihilism hear me out hear me

01:18:53.240 out hear me out so i mean my friend my friend one of my good friends from childhood she dated a guy

01:18:59.500 for her 20s went 50 50 with him for seven years and they broke up she didn't want to be married

01:19:04.900 she was one of those like she raised her little her mom didn't want to be a mom so she raised her

01:19:09.580 i don't know you ever meet like the oldest girl where they raised the youngest kids and then like

01:19:14.920 it kind of she didn't ever want to be a mom after that because her mom like put it up anyways long

01:19:19.600 story short i don't think it's nihilistic she had a good relationship for seven years she obviously

01:19:24.720 left him as women do and he got he didn't leave that like he could have had an eight-year marriage

01:19:31.100 and then be on child support alimony and have paid half the rent you know i'm like well so he

01:19:38.000 saved money for he saved money for seven years had a got a hot woman in her prime and then

01:19:44.460 moved on now he's dating the next hot woman until one sticks around i think statistically like what

01:19:51.220 are we looking at as far as numbers and i mean we could always talk about possibility and

01:19:55.260 probability um these are things that are always mentioned but it's like what do you we do have a

01:19:59.900 descriptor right of this right we do what you've offered is a descriptor but what do we offer as a

01:20:04.680 prescription for society and i think that's where the nihilism comes in when we don't have a

01:20:09.880 prescription for men out there that are you know they're working these labor jobs and things and

01:20:14.540 they're being outrun by women yeah but you can't but you can't tell like met like men how to live

01:20:19.440 like that would that would make them women do you know what i mean like if you're going to like me

01:20:24.780 or a man on the internet to be told the solutions to your life like it's like the part of being a

01:20:30.060 man is deciding for yourself how to live and like living life you know living life on your terms

01:20:35.260 so like when these internet people are like oh we need a solution for society i'm like

01:20:39.820 is this a society of women or men like this is men right so like they're gonna live up go ahead

01:20:47.100 doug so we're in so i'm i'm in my mid-40s right women in the mid-40s are um and younger are living

01:20:58.440 what i call the great experiment okay they have all they're the most free women ever right and

01:21:06.780 they truly have the ability to live life alone they can be married they can have children they

01:21:12.440 can be whatever right but a lot of so we have the journey of a man the journey of a man my dad told

01:21:19.020 me when i was young you're gonna get a job when you're 16 and you're gonna work until you're dead

01:21:23.060 hopefully along the way you find a highly valued skill highly valued trade highly valued education

01:21:27.920 to be able to put yourself in the best position to live life on your terms or support a family

01:21:31.740 right women want the journey of a man all these modern women or or they think they want it stem

01:21:40.060 fields have a recruitment and retention problem because only 22% of students of STEM are women

01:21:48.620 and 50% by the time they're 43 or have a child quit STEM jobs. CEOs only are CEOs that are women

01:21:59.520 for three to four years. The average man is a CEO for eight to nine years. CEOs quit after two to

01:22:05.620 years or when they're 43 years old these women are going to quit because they know that it's

01:22:10.460 optional success is mandatory for a man and it's optional for women women reserve the right to

01:22:17.320 change their minds and all these women are going to smash into that wall and realize i don't want

01:22:22.240 to do this long term and hopefully these women will teach the upcoming generations don't be like

01:22:29.020 me and live this illusion that i'm going to save the world with my social work degree oh god that's

01:22:34.060 going to happen dog mpa well we hope that would be a positive impelment but that's not that's not

01:22:38.700 going to happen though like i mean look at the gen z only fans rates yeah i know but i don't i think

01:22:44.440 selling hope when there's no indication that's going to happen is mean do you know what i mean

01:22:48.220 we got to be realistic here when we got one out of five women in gen z being on only fans

01:22:54.020 that there's no indication it's going back so if i was a guy and i'm just saying this is from a

01:23:00.580 woman's point of view i would just think about what i could get out of this and i would just

01:23:04.660 expect her to leave like you know if the women are being whores i'd just be like well it's time

01:23:10.360 to enjoy the whores like what else are you going to do i mean from from my point of view as an

01:23:15.160 orthodox christian it's hard to look at things like that because that literally is antithetical

01:23:18.820 to my belief i'm not pushing back against your position and i'm not saying that uh like i would

01:23:23.540 prescribe for men to do something because i would not tell men what men what to do right but one

01:23:28.080 thing i would say is that they're like i know that we're railing to get some kind of solution

01:23:32.520 but hope isn't a plan hope isn't a solution either you know so i think one thing that i

01:23:37.260 would do is like as a as you know be being my a man of faith is we are looking for people that

01:23:42.540 we can be in a relationship with for a long term right marriage right marital agreement so i think

01:23:47.720 that if you could find somebody who has the same faith structure you have and i'm not talking about

01:23:51.780 protestants right those are a whole girl i agree with you 100 when you're talking about i don't

01:23:56.700 see any i'm sorry i've interviewed a lot of victims of divorce rape i've seen the orthodox

01:24:02.120 if anything right i've seen religious women act worse and i think they're saying nine percent

01:24:08.060 divorce rate no they lie to you guys about the stats i mean they they always look at

01:24:13.460 they always try to find a way around it and what they want to do is they want they want their

01:24:18.420 religion to be right and so they're gonna what they do is they keep making the barrier to entry

01:24:23.200 to say you're only a real christian they include in the surveys they'll say only if you pray once

01:24:27.760 a day only if you do this only if you do that and they don't want you to believe what's in front of

01:24:33.200 like your eyes and i'll talk to the people that run like the orthodox matchmaking or the chris like

01:24:39.360 they have the same problems the divorces that i've seen have come from all religions

01:24:44.080 if anything i see the more serious religions when they do it they're the women are more

01:24:49.120 vicious because their reputation it makes perfect sense their reputation is entrenched in like you

01:24:56.820 know the in their religion they're a bad person if they get divorced so clearly they got they got

01:25:01.700 pretty serious i mean as far as like i look at you you can tell me this but i just know you you're

01:25:08.600 gonna have an ego investment in your religion being right right everyone and i've heard this

01:25:12.860 same argument i've heard you have to understand i've heard it from devout muslims and i've seen

01:25:17.440 the muslim women throwing it back in london okay i i've heard this i've heard this from the like

01:25:23.980 michael knowles and then i met one of the worst divorce rape stories i ever heard in my life

01:25:29.380 was from the exact church that michael knowles went to then the orthodox told me they were

01:25:34.440 different and then i had an orthodox priest in my space and he was telling me when he counsels the

01:25:39.540 men that he tells the men to buy their wife clothes to get laid and i'm like that that's

01:25:45.120 coming from a priest and so i just know like i know that group dynamics are going to be the same

01:25:51.500 regardless of what religion like there's gonna it's kind of you get 10 women in each half are

01:25:57.680 probably going to divorce and if there's a lower divorce rate i guarantee they're making their

01:26:03.460 husband's lives miserable i mean because women are women men are men group dynamics like it's

01:26:08.820 just not gonna there's no like everyone wants their religion to be a buffer but it's just not

01:26:14.020 yeah but i'm not gonna also sleep around with a bunch of women that's like totally antithetical

01:26:19.940 to my belief yeah you don't know we're gonna be an impasse with that well i don't i don't care

01:26:24.280 don't do it then i just i like i just the problem is that this is just pragmatic i just see the men

01:26:30.940 that don't do it get screwed like and that's the tough thing is i think men are kind of like at it

01:26:36.480 like an impasse where they have their morals and a lot of not you but i'm saying this is just what

01:26:41.580 I've gathered. They see what works. And when the guys sleeping with all these women get better

01:26:46.020 treatment, they're kind of like, what else am I supposed to do? You know, like we're getting guys

01:26:51.900 that like juggle multiple women are getting paid for now. Like there are men in the cities that

01:26:58.900 get, they figure out how to get women to fall in love with them so hard. They, they cover their

01:27:04.360 whole life. I've talked to these men and these women are loyal. Like they're loyal. I mean,

01:27:10.100 as far as i can tell i don't know but do you know what i mean i'm not saying what to do but

01:27:14.500 no no i hear what you're saying but i'd rather be a monk than than live the life of like men that

01:27:20.940 are running around increasing their std rates and also spending more money than they have to

01:27:25.660 because that's the thing though men turn into pay picks really quick when it comes to like trying

01:27:30.220 to get in draws and panties and things like that and when you also realize that you know these

01:27:34.360 things are fleeting women actually on dates i've i've literally had women tell you tell me things

01:27:39.540 like you know 200 bucks that's nothing you know you it's all i'm asking you for is dinner right

01:27:44.980 that's nothing yet you won't do the same thing and equality's out the window even though you

01:27:49.620 make more than me so which is stupid yeah but if you just do like the players that i've talked to

01:27:54.260 they just do drinks and it's like we're either doing drinks or i'm not coming and we're either

01:27:59.040 having sex in the first like three they give three dates tops or i'm not doing yeah i'm all for coffee

01:28:05.320 we're going to move to the next caller yeah go ahead yeah thanks for calling in calling calling

01:28:14.120 anytime uh brian are you there we're gonna do brian marvin and then sean brian it says connecting

01:28:23.880 to audio connecting to audio are you there unmute brian okay well

01:28:35.320 you there he's unmuted oh okay connect your audio so and we'll get back to you so marvin unmute

01:28:45.160 good evening how you doing doing good buddy i just want to say congratulations to pearl

01:28:51.880 um from getting your network over here um from the tamasization from youtube and um thank you

01:29:00.040 yeah and another thing i love how you challenge mentally michael no and wash they just don't like

01:29:07.320 to listen just like britney renard wasn't listening to you and i interviewed this past year and just

01:29:12.360 kept antagonizing that just makes me sick what they do that because they don't want to hear the truth

01:29:17.080 like myron says they need to you know submit sometimes when they got taste defeat but they

01:29:22.280 don't always know how to do that when it comes to the truth um don't just tell you that you know

01:29:27.880 you're still here and that's all that matters thank you so much i appreciate you yeah and i did

01:29:34.600 join um the 80 membership last week thank you so much you're the best make sure i'm grandfathered

01:29:42.840 in from here on out please gladly appreciate that um i'm gonna start by saying i never really got

01:29:49.160 the chance to describe my occupation and it's a very uh dangerous occupation you know and i'm soon

01:29:55.160 to be to um go back to school to get another license added to the one i got because you need

01:30:01.160 this license to get the other one okay i'm a commercial class a driver hazardous material

01:30:06.900 licensed and federally you know mandated to the federal government you know with the

01:30:12.420 tstsa and everything all that good stuff to all hazardous material on big ricks to all the local

01:30:17.340 customers in california and nevada um i soon to you know move on to the crane operation with the

01:30:24.860 semi-truck sometime this year and find someone that could um take me in under their umbrella

01:30:29.840 so back to this point this kind of jobs these infrastructure jobs um that you've been talking

01:30:37.660 about for for weeks and months now i i haven't seen a single woman do the things that i do i'm

01:30:43.740 i'm sorry you know i'm just being honest um if it wasn't for us they want to have air conditioning

01:30:49.380 they want to have an office they want to be working at the orthodontist um doctors the office

01:30:54.200 jobs and the schools and everything it takes a guy like me to bring everything to their office

01:30:59.400 so they can stay comfortable in their office and do their career their profession you know that's

01:31:03.960 how it works so i put my life on the line for everybody else um um i did have somebody years

01:31:11.560 ago in 2012 my ex that is she's about three hours away from new pearl by the way from iowa

01:31:18.040 in scott's county okay and uh we didn't work out she picked the the guy that she married she was

01:31:25.640 seeing him the whole time prior from 2012 behind my back when i was driving the semi-truck across

01:31:33.480 state to state when i was a over the road driver before i became a local driver the last 15 years

01:31:38.600 so um she was sleeping around with him behind my back and made babies with him and she was trying

01:31:46.280 to manipulate the whole relationship like you know that i was supposed to pitch in for these

01:31:50.920 bills and i was like no we're not together you're with this other guy you you picked him and i was

01:31:54.840 like i don't want to be with somebody that's not been true from the start and you expect to go 50

01:32:00.840 50. we're not going 50 50. i just want to be out i want to be done with you for good and now well

01:32:07.400 we're in 2024 okay now i'm hearing from facebook that she's miserable she's not happy she's probably

01:32:14.360 going to get a divorce now um from the guy and she the same person that she married went to jail

01:32:20.840 over a year ago did she earn did she earn more than you in the relationship no never never

01:32:28.660 she did work at one point but it was just a retail job do you ever wish you did 50 50

01:32:35.520 or are you happy that you did that you took over the bills no i wasn't no i look back i was never

01:32:43.840 happy taking over the bills because when you lie to me the first time that makes me believe you're

01:32:48.720 a liar the rest of the way the rest of the years the rest of the months so why even bother okay so

01:32:53.200 in hindsight if you had to go back you would i mean obviously knowing but knowing what you know

01:32:58.640 now you but assuming like even without sorry do you do you wish if you had to go back you

01:33:05.200 are you happy you split it or no like do you wish you didn't uh sorry sorry i keep saying this wrong

01:33:12.720 oh my god i'm sorry no i'm sorry i'm just okay just slow down i understand i understand yeah

01:33:18.720 you understand yeah yeah sorry yeah but let me explain let me explain before we get into conclusions

01:33:23.520 um uh what i don't want to be um you know i'm going crazy on conclusions but um i'm the kind

01:33:30.480 of person i don't believe in um the 50 50 unless 100 front from the get-go which she did not do

01:33:40.400 by the way so that tells me no why even do it you know um that just that's like being blindfolded

01:33:47.160 you go into something and you don't even know what's going on yeah why do it so you're actually

01:33:55.740 uh in a disadvantage at that point you know financially also too so that's not good for

01:34:00.600 anyone um so back to the point though um i'm glad i didn't do that because i probably i probably like

01:34:09.940 lot of guys financially um not well in so many levels i i'm not doing terribly wrong now but um

01:34:18.660 i i feel like i could do better but that set me back a little bit because of what she's done in

01:34:24.020 the past so i did not broke up with her and i took an eight-year hiatus break and i met somebody else

01:34:31.300 in my area in california in the san francisco bay area that's where i stay at and she too

01:34:39.540 became you know like her you know she she believes that marriage is a business and as

01:34:45.540 soon as i heard those words from her i said oh no if i marry this woman she's not going to care

01:34:50.180 about me as a man she cares about the resources so i said no i can't be with this and then i found

01:34:55.220 out she she she was like the rest of her group of the feminists i don't do well with them so the next

01:35:00.660 girl did the same thing did something similar yeah and she this both of them are in her 40s now okay

01:35:07.220 so in the future are you going to go 50 50 or are you still going to cover the bills

01:35:12.580 i want 50 50 preferably but um yeah you're done you're done with this shit

01:35:19.600 yeah you got that right i feel like i'm not paying for shit anymore

01:35:24.360 but but more than today's world today's western world modern world it doesn't work just like

01:35:30.700 myron freshness says it doesn't work the man's got to be the leader the man's got to make you

01:35:35.940 know all the rational decisions for the better the household especially if you got to be a protector

01:35:39.800 you know a lot of us never had the chance to go to the military or went to the um you know state

01:35:45.320 law enforcement um you know higher patrol academies or possibly the gun race to get training you know

01:35:51.900 a lot of them never did that i did that with my brothers you know a couple other i actually went

01:35:56.600 to the police academy about seven years ago and i had my little share of you know tastes of what

01:36:01.300 it's like in there with the the the training on this intensify with you know defending your the

01:36:06.800 loved ones you care about so a lot of them didn't ever get that chance to understand what it takes

01:36:11.540 to protect your community your loved ones and so on it's a big responsibility it's not that simple

01:36:19.080 and most people don't believe in any of that in the household oh it's too crazy for the kids

01:36:24.920 around you know so i was like no okay i've been alone ever since because of all this so um i don't

01:36:31.820 like too many people being materialistic and most of these women i was with just just rent the

01:36:38.020 resources materialistic and it just it just didn't work out you know so that's why i'm i'm gonna be

01:36:44.420 free agent thank you thanks to you thanks to you and thanks to coach greg adams in las vegas

01:36:52.600 nice nice cga is great thanks for calling in i appreciate it um yes i'm gonna i'm gonna read

01:37:02.100 the super chats real quick it says you're monetized i just want to go through them really

01:37:06.680 quick um tell this dude to listen to ryan stone dude lives in anxiety read ian ironwood

01:37:13.560 praxeology of a dominant male men are raised as defective women clue studio 50 super chat pearl

01:37:20.780 is back thank you guys um you youtube monetization yup yup i'm back baby all right let me check

01:37:31.160 the thing on the website um let's see uh let me see what else we have trad cons are worse than

01:37:43.060 feminists you see feminists coming with purple hair and pure oh that's you doug

01:37:46.340 yeah um it's it seems like working hard at a career is going to help me find a good relationship

01:37:53.360 at one point is it better to skip school hit the gym and being bag a boss girl for money

01:37:58.480 hey this is what a lot of the gen z guys are doing they're like we can't keep up with these women

01:38:04.080 um disregard the previous caller he wasn't defensive or insecure he came across as an

01:38:09.540 alpha male who stood his ground and didn't see validation from anyone some people are just

01:38:14.980 different um women used to go to college to get some bo sorry doug mpa i keep wanting to read

01:38:23.820 your stuff but i'm like you're on the call um the bill burr bid on marriage if you're skydiving and

01:38:29.240 you know that two-thirds of parachutes won't open i'm not doing it smart um i don't see any reading

01:38:36.300 ones next up sean you're next and then joey you're after that so sean unmute

01:38:43.580 yeah can you hear me yeah i can hear you sean how's it going

01:38:48.220 pearl back pearl back let's get it man let's run up this money i wonder what the what's the next

01:38:55.940 video pearl like now you monetize what they're gonna say now i don't know i'm gonna but i'm

01:39:00.220 gonna do it over i'm gonna do a lot of reactions this week i'm gonna be like it'll be like pearl

01:39:04.440 reacts to modern women we're gonna film like 10. talk it's gonna be like talking to youtube like

01:39:12.280 how how oh a nice hat what did you let's go so sean you've dated everywhere right you've lived

01:39:21.160 all over i know you've called in before so what are your thoughts on the high earning women um

01:39:26.320 like have you ever dated a woman that made more money than you or would you date or marry a woman

01:39:31.400 that made more money than you long term i i yeah so great question and shout outs to you doug and

01:39:37.400 shout outs to marvin too for subscribing and putting money up on the show that's important

01:39:41.100 and support the channel. So shout out to you, Marvin, and your service. But when it comes to

01:39:46.440 marry or date, I've been dating women before in my past that had more net worth than me. They

01:39:52.800 didn't make more, but they came from rich families. So that's why I said they had a higher net worth

01:39:56.980 than I did. Yeah. So I did date those women. And as far as if I got married, which I would not,

01:40:03.600 but if I did, right, it would be more in a way I would marry a woman that's up. Marriage is pretty

01:40:08.860 serious. So if you ask Genghis Khan or Julius Caesar who they married, it would be a woman that

01:40:14.120 was at their station or equivalent. You get what I'm saying? Because they had to secure grain

01:40:18.200 supplies, had to squash political fights. So they just never married a side piece. Now they had

01:40:25.580 concubines for side pieces that they liked, but they never married those girls. So if I did,

01:40:31.180 it would be some way to protect myself. But at the end of the day, guys, Kanye could be broken

01:40:36.840 than Kim. Kim still got more money out of him. What is her name? Tiana Taylor. She just got

01:40:42.680 divorced, right? She still got more money out of him, even though she said in the claim that she

01:40:47.640 was richer than him. So at the end of the day, there's no protection. I just wouldn't get married.

01:40:54.220 But I have done it before. I have had those relationships and it takes a different type of

01:40:59.000 man to be in those type of relationships. Like that Chad, that Giga Chad that called, you know,

01:41:04.160 that dude was like i'm the therapist to my shorty she coming to me so you have to be a very uh

01:41:09.740 dominant man you have to be very articulate you have to be very in touch with your emotional side

01:41:16.020 to be able to you know handle all that type of stuff that that type of woman would bring to you

01:41:20.300 so as you saw that guy even said i do it i don't got no problem with it and he probably doesn't

01:41:25.880 i wouldn't question him i think he doesn't have no problem with it so have you ever dated um when

01:41:31.680 women had higher net worths did they ever use it like against you or as a way as a way to control

01:41:37.360 you was that ever a problem yeah no so they would probably use it in a way to bribe me so they'll be

01:41:45.360 like i remember i used to ever you know my japanese girl she used to be like i'm at coach do you want

01:41:50.320 a coach bag do you want this and with that because she was trying to buy favor trying to change maybe

01:41:55.600 our opinion or something where i was going to move where i was going to make my next career move you

01:42:00.320 you get me? But at the end of the day, never in a negative way, because they knew it wouldn't work.

01:42:06.540 You know, there's a thing called S-tests, right? Women test you. And so they wouldn't be with you

01:42:11.800 if they couldn't control you. And if they know they can't control you, then they'll just know

01:42:15.280 what it is. So I never got a situation where they attempted to control me, you know, a little

01:42:20.600 test here and there, but I just wouldn't fall for it. You know, at the end of the day, that's

01:42:24.520 your choice. But when you get married, you have no out peril, right? You can't walk away. That's

01:42:29.480 best leverage as a man is just to be able to walk away moment you get married then a simp judge

01:42:35.560 going to come through with the simp lawyers and everybody else so it's going to be toy soldiers

01:42:41.080 against you and you're going to be sitting up there thinking about law and justice and order

01:42:45.640 and there's a bunch of simps around you like you should you should have stayed with her we believe

01:42:50.360 everything we believe all women and so then when you get crucified you're going to sit there looking

01:42:55.400 crazy. So I think in my situations, negative. They didn't. But I was a Marine, you know what

01:43:01.980 I'm saying? Combat decorated. They kind of knew like, oh, you know, what am I finna tell him?

01:43:07.000 You know, like he'd been to war and combat. So I think just being a well-rounded man and not

01:43:12.340 having weaknesses really helped. Because that's just like troops. When you lead troops, right?

01:43:16.580 If they find that you have a weakness, regardless if you're a general or if you're in charge,

01:43:20.780 because they're going to try to exploit that weakness.

01:43:23.140 And so you just have to be – what do they say?

01:43:26.200 Protect yourself at all times.

01:43:27.700 Did you see the tweet at the beginning, the Matt Walsh thing at the beginning?

01:43:33.080 Oh, okay.

01:43:33.720 What did he say?

01:43:34.320 You should call in.

01:43:35.160 No, no, no.

01:43:36.360 Yo, Carl, you was hitting that dude in the head.

01:43:38.200 I'm just calling tomorrow, okay, because we're going to do a show.

01:43:41.560 He got mad at me on Twitter, and I was kind of curious your thoughts.

01:43:45.560 But call in tomorrow if you have time.

01:43:47.780 Okay, back.

01:43:48.380 Because we're going to do a show tomorrow.

01:43:49.420 you was in that that religious dude in the head look shout outs to god but dudes coming with the

01:43:55.840 religion man it's like come on man y'all should be out here doing the worst hey what did eve do

01:44:01.180 in the garden we already know what it is man come on get out of here yeah did you know what i've just

01:44:06.320 had so many of the religious guys and i don't i don't want to make it a religious argument like

01:44:11.600 i'm arguing for one or the other but they all are convinced that their religion protects their women

01:44:17.820 from doing these things and i'm like like i had a girl do you know what's crazy i can't say who but

01:44:25.720 there's a girl on the show and she's talking about how devout of a muslim she was one of the really

01:44:30.660 like one of the famous guys that came on the show took her home after she threw her back that same

01:44:36.320 night where she was talking about her religion and i'm like bro i lived in the middle east i know

01:44:43.980 what it is i'm like but again man i'm not against god but the guys the bible will not save you

01:44:50.600 against these what they want to do what people want to do about it is feminist women what do

01:44:57.180 they say nature always makes its most dangerous things bright colors and different shapes for

01:45:01.360 you to be able to detect it so feminists have piercings tattoos purple hair so you can see

01:45:06.840 them coming but these tradcon 304s man you you can't see them coming man you really can't and

01:45:13.040 Then it's a two-pronged attack.

01:45:16.240 You have the TragCon women who are trying to manipulate men

01:45:20.180 and be undercover feminists,

01:45:21.620 and then you have the TragCon men telling you to fall for the trap.

01:45:26.420 Yeah, and I think, Pearl, you might have said it before,

01:45:29.360 but they become the police of the Bible.

01:45:31.660 So they'll come at you with what you want to hear

01:45:34.080 because you're all about the Bible,

01:45:35.580 but then they start guarding what Jesus says.

01:45:38.500 Like, you get what I'm saying?

01:45:39.780 So they'll be like, well, you're not a real Christian man,

01:45:42.580 And then just like they tell you, you're not a real man if you don't do X, Y, and Z.

01:45:46.540 And the Bible is one of the most red pill books ever.

01:45:48.820 No, but they forget those verses, Doug and PA.

01:45:51.880 Yeah, yeah, no, they wipe those away.

01:45:53.340 No bad verses, only the good ones.

01:45:55.140 You talk about patriarchy and all that stuff, but the Bible is it, you know?

01:46:00.200 Yeah, it was the ultimate RP, right?

01:46:02.940 So shout outs to Pearl, man.

01:46:04.840 Pearl's back.

01:46:05.880 Pearl's back, y'all haters.

01:46:07.380 And then shout outs to CGA, Free Agent Lifestyle.

01:46:10.300 That is the after pill.

01:46:11.600 so much respects to you and what you're doing Pearl keep rocking and rolling because you're

01:46:16.260 winning shout out to YouTube thank you YouTube yeah thank you YouTube and make sure you call

01:46:21.040 call in tomorrow okay because I think I'm kind of curious what you'd say go on my Twitter

01:46:25.780 right now and look up look up Matt Walsh in my back and forth they're gonna do a show on it

01:46:31.080 tomorrow and everyone make sure to follow Pearl on Twitter because because Pearl

01:46:35.800 gets the party started on twitter man yeah i know i just i just saw he responded to me

01:46:43.740 and i'm trying to debate how i want to what i want to say back

01:46:47.300 okay thanks monetization

01:46:52.020 with a deuces sign up

01:46:56.060 okay joy mcmullen are you ready

01:47:01.860 you're on mute buddy unmute

01:47:05.660 yeah i'm ready can you hear me yeah joey how's it going what's up pearl congratulations on the

01:47:14.740 monetization i've been watching you for quite some time excited to uh uh tell you a story about

01:47:20.940 what it's like to date a higher earner be married to one and then of course divorce her and be

01:47:26.820 married to a stay-at-home wife perfect oh let's go yeah it's an interesting story when i was 19

01:47:34.360 uh i had just finished serving three years in prison got out and found myself a sugar mama

01:47:40.720 are you canadian yes i bet women love criminals go ahead i'm sorry did you like did you like have

01:47:48.660 a plethora when you're on dates like saying oh i just got out of prison they're like tell me more

01:47:53.780 and the panties just melt off yeah was that like not as much anymore not as much anymore because

01:48:00.880 you know, going from the bottom 1% to the top 1% of earners, you don't really talk about you've

01:48:05.800 been to prison, uh, you know, 20, 25 years ago. It's not as cool, uh, as it once was, uh, being

01:48:11.800 a grown men with teenage children that are in university. No, you don't, don't, if they find

01:48:17.020 out that's how they'll get all the women, you know, that's not good. Yeah. Yeah. Well, my son

01:48:21.560 likes to talk about it. That he's a badass and blah, blah, blah. I was like, yeah, maybe 20 years

01:48:25.860 ago son maybe 20 years ago uh yeah so i got out found myself a a higher earning woman everything

01:48:33.940 was great so long as she was in control of the money um and uh you know kind of overseen everything

01:48:39.800 i was a stay at home uh boyfriend i guess she didn't say i needed to work she's like oh go to

01:48:47.320 work when you want get a job if you want i got it we'll hold it down and blah blah i was like yeah

01:48:51.040 this is cool how much how much older how much older was she one year older oh okay so you're

01:48:57.300 the same what did she do she worked at the hospital like a nurse or something yeah like

01:49:02.680 in nursing she was cheating right we'll get to that okay sorry keep going keep going she was

01:49:11.440 incredibly she was incredibly faithful as far as i know okay okay yeah exactly okay no i just

01:49:19.220 the nurses i hear about it's it's she's gotten projectively worse and now that she's into her

01:49:26.440 40s and i'm in my 40s mind you this was you know 23 years ago i'm 42 um and i've only had two two

01:49:34.960 girlfriends and two wives in that period of time i i don't date uh and when i do i'm shopping for

01:49:40.880 a wife i've always wanted a wife i've always wanted kids so i'll preface with that um ended

01:49:46.040 up getting her pregnant the nurse and um I started you know taking myself more seriously as a man

01:49:53.320 wanted to get a job go to the gym do things like that long before you had to do that on the internet

01:49:58.200 like it's really hard pushed on men to get into shape and do that sort of thing um and I wanted

01:50:04.260 to do it simply because you know obviously got to take care of the kids but she also began looking

01:50:09.320 down on me and making fun of me to her friends and uh I'd see the way she was talking to other

01:50:15.620 dudes where i knew they made a hell of a lot more money than me um eventually i hit it big

01:50:20.680 on youtube like you pearl um i don't i don't get to talk about cool stuff every day but i talk

01:50:26.480 about fish tanks and fortunately i made millions of dollars doing it uh i'm also known as the king

01:50:32.200 of diy oh nice here um anyways i'm gonna look it up you're gonna like it and put it in the chat

01:50:39.540 because no don't don't link it to the chat i don't need you guys coming in here and be like

01:50:44.160 hey how's that nurse okay okay okay that's fine yeah so uh you can look it up but okay um

01:50:52.320 so i uh we end up having children and you know i'm i'm literally with her for the kids because

01:50:59.980 to be honest with you when you're dating a woman that's uh even a year older than you that makes

01:51:05.200 more money odds are it's a trade-off for their looks she wasn't much of a looker um and people

01:51:13.220 were always surprised that i was with her and it used to hurt my feelings i was like dude this is

01:51:16.940 my wife and um but i realized i wasn't really attracted you know never kissed on the mouth

01:51:22.260 stuff like that and over time i started making way more than her and uh she wanted to start

01:51:28.700 splitting bills 50 50 and that was the turning point um where she just got worse and worse and

01:51:36.160 worse with time now that her control with the money was gone and she couldn't control me it's

01:51:40.940 not like i was running rampant or running the streets it was like well now he can leave me

01:51:45.500 and there's nothing and i bet you were getting interest from hotter women and that had to drive

01:51:50.400 her nuts right the anxiety i don't know if i'd call it interest but it was absolutely ridiculous

01:51:55.960 because i was traveling the world and girls wanted to talk to me that the type that you see like in

01:52:01.020 music videos type stuff and i had never experienced that in my life because i'm from a little town

01:52:05.740 in uh nova scotia called churro yeah so it's the first time i had ever experienced anything like

01:52:11.520 that she's gonna go and i never dipped into any of it i stayed faithful but uh the one thing that

01:52:17.100 i noticed was that even though these girls obviously wanted to uh wanted me for maybe

01:52:24.940 attention validation fame uh money that sort of thing they were just so nice and kind and feminine

01:52:31.840 and ladylike and pretty she wasn't right oh it was the worst have you ever walked over a bridge

01:52:38.420 and you know that animal that lives under it that you've got to answer riddles yeah she looked like

01:52:43.340 that bridge troll i have so i have i used to have a friend as a girl and uh we met at my first job

01:52:53.720 in public service and she she got married to this guy and he he her now ex-husband was one of the

01:53:00.800 smartest men have ever met. But he was kind of shipless. He couldn't really stick down to get

01:53:05.660 a college degree. And she had a government job. So she held them down their first couple of years

01:53:10.200 of their marriage. But along the way, he actualized. He got all these IT certifications.

01:53:16.120 And then he started getting his name around and doing these IT contracts for major

01:53:20.500 corporations. And he was the same as you, where when they first met and got married,

01:53:24.140 he would he could barely keep a job but he used his smart intelligence and actualized right so

01:53:31.180 i'm talking he's making five six seven hundred thousand dollars a year but she never saw him

01:53:37.500 as the new version of himself she only saw him as the old version and treated him as such

01:53:43.820 and he literally said that he gets respect from his colleagues all these people in his field but

01:53:50.460 his wife didn't see him the way that everybody else in the world saw him yeah was that your

01:53:56.700 was that your your experience that would that was like the part of it that i can share with

01:54:01.740 the internet as opposed to you know some of the more um uh things that in the divorce agreement

01:54:09.420 i've signed that i i wouldn't uh share on the internet which was you know more physical uh

01:54:14.940 related and um it got pretty bad eventually where she just turned into this rotten person

01:54:20.540 and i filed for divorce um i realized that she was uh talking to guys behind my back

01:54:27.180 lord knows what else um speaking to lawyers on her own like kind of trying to set me up

01:54:32.060 luckily i was able to get better lawyers and fight for myself as a male which a lot of men can't

01:54:37.260 um and i got the kids i got the house um and things were great uh i met a girl a few months

01:54:46.300 later uh much younger a 15 year age gap uh which sounds horrible but um no we say good we say good

01:54:55.480 no we say that's a good thing yeah we say good for you yeah so i was 15 you could have went for

01:55:02.220 oh no you can't go for no no that's i was 35 she was 20 i was her first um and uh she wanted

01:55:11.900 everything and everything the same as me and it was the first time where i was like man this is

01:55:15.900 uh somebody i've ever met that was like truly kind and nice and like uh i had opportunities

01:55:22.520 to kind of like explore and go go travel the world and uh test out all different types of uh

01:55:28.500 car uh cars girls but um i decided uh after a couple years of dating with her we ended up getting

01:55:35.840 married uh last year about one year ago um april may no 10 months ago she's gonna kill me if you're

01:55:44.380 not knowing the date where i got married but um but the difference between that and now she's a

01:55:50.300 stay-at-home wife is uh everything not everything i say goes because she has her opinions and stuff

01:55:56.680 But it's like, I, she values my opinion as number one.

01:56:02.080 If I want to vote, she's voting for whoever I vote.

01:56:04.480 If I want to, like, no matter what I want to do, she wants to do it.

01:56:07.160 So she's on your team because that's the thing.

01:56:10.060 Like one of the most powerful things a woman can do is be on a man's team.

01:56:14.200 And we know when a woman's on our team, we know it.

01:56:17.360 We can feel it.

01:56:18.400 There's just like a feeling that goes along with having a woman on your team.

01:56:22.660 And that's one of the biggest things that modern women don't do.

01:56:25.000 It's like, especially out here dating, like I always meet these women where they have to negotiate and question everything a man does.

01:56:33.100 And it just gets to the point where it's just disrespectful.

01:56:35.620 I'm going to ask you a question.

01:56:36.880 Was the, you said that she controlled the finances.

01:56:41.060 Did you get to the point where you're like, I'm tired of you controlling the finances?

01:56:45.040 Did you have to have like a confrontation about the finances?

01:56:48.440 Was that the straw that broke the camel's back?

01:56:51.180 I wouldn't say that.

01:56:51.900 It's more like the bills paid.

01:56:53.540 So I would work and like she would have all the money, all the money go into one account type of thing.

01:56:59.080 And all I cared about is like is money or are bills paid?

01:57:02.380 And maybe on Friday, can we get a pizza?

01:57:04.240 Like I don't come from money and I didn't have a lot of money even during that relationship.

01:57:08.520 So I never had a huge value on money as opposed to just make sure the bills are paid.

01:57:13.660 Don't call in sick. Do as much overtime as you can, etc.

01:57:17.260 so um i never got frustrated with uh the money aspect just the way she would look at me when

01:57:24.540 people were around and treat me and talk about me or talk uh down to me and or even just make

01:57:30.140 fun of me and even when i started making like substantial amount of money she would make fun

01:57:36.160 and her friends would call her out and be like he makes tons of money he's relatively good looking

01:57:42.460 he's sweet to you she's they're like why because girls like to show off for other girls and I and

01:57:48.300 it always confused me and um and I talked to her when they'd leave I was like why do you do that

01:57:54.040 like you realize that if I leave you the grass isn't greener on the other side she'd been single

01:58:00.360 for seven years now um and doing really bad got a DUI in order to start her car she got to blow

01:58:06.540 into this thing like and you're dating a hot a hot young woman good for you girl if you've seen her

01:58:12.960 she's smoking hot yeah yeah a lot of these women you actualize and she refused to see it or she

01:58:22.860 saw and she didn't like it and had an active campaign to tear you down and that's exactly

01:58:27.760 what happened i love it when guys two years i was warning her like if you don't change if this

01:58:31.740 doesn't stop if you don't make an active uh attempt at changing the way you act and how you

01:58:36.880 react like i'm going to file for divorce she's like no you're not i'll take the kids and i'll

01:58:41.540 take the house and i'll take this and i'll take that and i was like well you know uh my children

01:58:47.220 love me so you can't take them um i was like if you want the house that's cool because i bought

01:58:51.860 this when i was broke imagine the house i can get now i still live in my little broke house

01:58:56.620 i love it start life over in a in a in a studio apartment sleep on a bean bag

01:59:04.360 no no i i kept the house and okay and uh i love it when guys go go they say i'll do better and

01:59:11.600 then they do it and that's what happens most of the time parolee i told you this whole thing where

01:59:16.460 oh you know you you lose so much but most guys end up winning man you most guys they get more

01:59:22.460 productive when they get out of a bad relationship it's like the the they had hands around their

01:59:27.640 neck and the hands aren't choking them anymore they just get to work after we stay men are

01:59:33.140 immature for a tremendous amount of time and i i think that we start our heads you know get

01:59:39.300 screwed on a little bit more straighter in our mid-30s to later 30s um i think that men start

01:59:45.580 to look most men who take care of themselves start to even look better get more attractive

01:59:50.520 more handsome, that sort of thing. And then, of course, they reach more of their financial strides

01:59:55.760 into their 40s. So I had options in terms of what I could do next for a wife. And I could have dated

02:00:05.520 my age. But what comes with that is I have to date their past. I've got to date their children.

02:00:13.940 um i got to date all their experiences i wanted nothing to do with that i wanted uh to start with

02:00:21.040 a clean slate and i was lucky enough to find somebody by chance just at the gym guys if you

02:00:27.420 want to meet like a girl of your dreams go to the gym they're there that's where they go um i'm gonna

02:00:32.300 ask you a question so how so you you're the sole provider of your family right yes how how does that

02:00:38.400 make you feel providing for your family? Can you articulate the satisfaction that you have

02:00:47.520 of providing financially, mentally, spiritually for your family? Because I think that most men

02:00:53.600 want to provide. We have this innate feeling inside of us that we want to provide. Now,

02:00:58.640 whether you do the work to be able to do that is your choice, but we all have the innate need to

02:01:04.320 provide and you're actually doing it so can you can you describe how that feels do you feel better

02:01:09.360 doing it like how do you how do you how would you describe it i feel i feel it's the same it feels

02:01:15.120 the same as like i gotta go take a shower like you just these are things that i have to do um

02:01:20.000 i don't feel like it's rewarding i don't want to pat on the back um this is just what a man's

02:01:26.000 supposed to do is take care of his family is he supposed to be the sole provider i mean everybody

02:01:30.720 has different preferences some people have a wife and a husband or a couple um earning money

02:01:37.200 together which you know what in my opinion however much money you can bring into your household bring

02:01:42.560 as much as possible and um but what i do find is uh for myself when it comes to being a sole provider

02:01:52.160 uh i when my my children are now 20 and 17 soon to be 18 these these guys these these guys are

02:02:02.540 gonna leave me they're gonna go live their own lives um and forget that i raised them and

02:02:07.600 everything i did for them and i'm gonna be stuck here and i have to make sure that the person that

02:02:13.220 i'm stuck with and or chose to be with is the right person that i can be with alone because

02:02:19.240 once you remove the dynamic of children life is going to change just as much as when you put them

02:02:23.800 into your life because when you have kids everybody says oh everything changes imagine doing that for

02:02:28.200 20 years and then you take them out you're going to be left with that person and you're going to

02:02:31.880 be sitting in a room staring at each other thinking i don't really like you so i'm lucky

02:02:36.360 that i made these decisions to file for divorce uh around seven years ago maybe a little bit more

02:02:43.560 Um, and, uh, found the right woman for me moving forward.

02:02:48.500 Cause I don't want to run the streets.

02:02:50.440 Uh, I don't want to have girls, a bunch of different girls in my bed all the time.

02:02:55.260 Um, typical, I'm typical though, though.

02:02:56.880 I'd love to, but I just like, when it comes down to it, I just don't think I could do

02:03:00.820 it.

02:03:01.280 I did that in my younger years and I had my fill fellas.

02:03:04.600 It's not like I've only been with two, two women, but, um, had my fill.

02:03:08.280 um and uh i'm much happier waking up and knowing that because i'm in a age gap relationship um when

02:03:16.500 i'm 80 and you know i i need help changing the diaper that i've got a you know a hot little

02:03:21.960 nurse that's gonna be able to do it well thanks for thanks for sharing joey what a what a nice

02:03:28.980 story i love it when guys i love it when guys come and they say i'm gonna do better and they

02:03:34.600 do it it's just awesome and and and believe me she's watching your every your ex is watching

02:03:41.520 your every single move and she knows she messed up bro and i guarantee you all the people that

02:03:46.580 were trying to tell you about her behavior and asking why you put up with it they're

02:03:50.940 they're telling her she messed up every single day of her life i'm telling you i don't do it

02:03:56.200 for revenge i wish her the best uh you know um hopefully she doesn't get any rain on her under

02:04:02.840 that bridge but um and uh her uh riddles aren't that difficult for those that want to cross it

02:04:10.040 nice nice well thank you so much for calling in joey i'll check out anytime i'll just subscribe

02:04:18.220 to your channel so i expect great yeah i did too i don't have i don't have any fish but maybe i'll

02:04:23.680 get one hey you love fish and fish tanks could go in the background here you know

02:04:29.640 last and not least if you want one back there let me know i'll fly down oh yeah maybe

02:04:36.580 i could be your first fly in only if only only if my producer takes care of it

02:04:42.760 and i don't have to do any of the work

02:04:46.020 bye thanks for having me okay how many more callers do you want to do parole um

02:04:52.440 i'll do these last two and then we'll okay close out we'll do matt are you there

02:04:59.560 unmute thanks for waiting we really appreciate it go ahead no worries okay so to let you to let

02:05:09.580 the pearl know i've got pretty much three stories maybe four i don't know okay three one yes yes i

02:05:16.760 had a woman go 50 50 with me actually in fact this first date she offered okay which is really which

02:05:23.700 is really rare and i have dated a bunch of women at least two women that were that made a lot more

02:05:31.740 money than me when i was still in college doing my associate degree these two i had one girl that

02:05:36.420 was working on her master's in psychology that was well what was hooked up with me for a little

02:05:42.480 while and i've had a i had a chemical engineer and uh working towards her sorry uh chemical

02:05:49.940 engineering student working on her phd also kind of going she was six years older than me

02:05:56.500 and so they had their so they had some serious serious education while i was still and the

02:06:01.460 engineer one when i was fresh out of high school going into university when i dealt and dealt with

02:06:07.380 the phd higher earner one i don't know what it is but uh they were into me so and was it ever a

02:06:16.740 problem for you like did um did they ever like hold it over your head or get mad about it

02:06:22.460 you know what education wise i that's kind of the other way around i don't really like it when a

02:06:30.840 woman has more education than me okay i don't know why i did it just i just something odd about it

02:06:36.920 like i feel like like i'm not i'm not the guy that's wearing the pants when i'm the guy with

02:06:42.240 with less education i really do even if it's psychology does that even count

02:06:47.120 uh well like i don't know what are you getting educated in being crazy like

02:06:55.680 i don't know it's just like i have to say i had some pretty interesting um debates about things

02:07:03.640 like i was trying to tell her like there's there's things in the background he just couldn't make her

02:07:07.380 see it okay and so they had some really interesting conversations but i don't know it felt weird

02:07:14.420 those are your preferences i'm the same i i generally avoid because i've had experiences

02:07:19.140 with dating women that make more money than me in the past so i just don't do it i don't and

02:07:25.380 that's a preference of mine only because i've said it in the chat i've said it to pearl multiple

02:07:29.940 times women that that one earn more and two if you couple that will with have more education it's the

02:07:37.060 the one-two punch will talk to you like they can beat you in a fight they will get so disrespectful

02:07:43.160 remember men are benevolent we'll be better educated make more money but we won't talk to

02:07:48.060 women the way that women who are better better educated and talk uh make more money to talk to

02:07:53.260 their man but literally forget that you are physically stronger than her and she would talk

02:07:57.400 to you with her chest puffed out so i just i just avoid it you know what it is i think it's got to

02:08:03.660 be like a a like gym rat guy who just like is like an absolute savage I think those are the

02:08:13.420 only guys that can pull it off because like I don't know those are just like the only guys I've

02:08:19.160 seen that can like pull that off or they just have to be like almost like so Machiavellian

02:08:24.840 like almost to the point of criminals you know what I mean that I like long term long term

02:08:33.280 anyways no offense to you matt okay well dear just just to let you know like okay just you know

02:08:38.820 what got me going with the uh well not all women some women like the brains hey you got to find

02:08:43.880 those are the ones that are harder to get yeah so what got me hooked up with the 20 with the 26

02:08:49.180 year old like i was 18 and i was hoping up with a 26 year old and with the chemical engineering

02:08:53.300 phd right okay what got me in her pants this is not i'm not fucking kidding so she showed me

02:09:00.760 her phd thesis and she did on a hydrogen fuel cell reaction uh reactor to be able to take hydrogen

02:09:09.180 and some mixture of methane and come out with huge amounts of energy but they had a big problem

02:09:15.640 of too much heat creating friction in the cells and then i came across a type of studies and

02:09:21.620 through mit when i was still here in winnipeg at the u of w and i and i was able to take her math

02:09:28.740 without even having all the education yet i was in all the software i was able to compound

02:09:33.160 a type of formula a type of thesis and give it there and able to increase her reactor to 63

02:09:40.940 percent efficient and she was just blown away from that she showed that to all her other colleagues

02:09:46.140 that she was working with they couldn't figure it out why a high school student could do that

02:09:50.020 and next thing you know you know she's showing me her tits

02:09:53.260 you were like this is the best payoff on physics ever i know well you know the crazy thing is when

02:10:04.480 you're dealing with the more educated women that are like in these engineering and science

02:10:08.300 backgrounds and stuff one of the things that got me to leg up like when i was in the forces and

02:10:12.900 stuff i've learned how to have access to certain technologies that have not reached the academic

02:10:18.200 world yet that we're just fresh out of requiring a security clearance to access this stuff like

02:10:24.420 you had to know your stuff search through patents and things and i had the ability to just hand out

02:10:30.060 technology to a lot of my professors at different universities i was going to like hotcakes

02:10:34.760 and next thing you know you just watch their eyeballs sink to the back of their skull i'm

02:10:38.620 like sorry all your work and life's work has already been done before you just kind of

02:10:41.820 missed the boat on it and next thing you know you have next you know you have some of these

02:10:46.440 women profs that just want to uh you know pull my beard a little bit on my lap and where the hell

02:10:52.320 is this going you know and that's worth more than the money because you know that they're going to

02:10:57.160 get fame okay so the the secret to higher educated women is giving them the technology that gives

02:11:08.080 them a one-up that they're that much closer to getting that nobel peace prize and then when one

02:11:14.000 guy shows up in his off in their office you know close the door shitting gold bricks and next you

02:11:19.300 know reconstructing everything that they've ever done with giving them a huge advantage in

02:11:24.120 technology all of a sudden they're that is worth way more than finances and how long were you with

02:11:30.760 them was it like a one-time thing or were you like with him for a while you know to be on the only

02:11:35.900 relationships last for me about a couple months and then they're then they just get tired of me

02:11:39.880 move on so they probably i wouldn't be surprised if i was a massage agent in any way

02:11:47.640 i wouldn't i wouldn't be surprised because i've gone to solving some trouble for uh handing out

02:11:53.560 stuff that i shouldn't be handing out a couple of times oh god and uh yeah so like i said i'd be

02:12:00.200 really really careful about that but you know some of these women they're honey pots i'm telling you

02:12:04.920 and then there's a couple of times there too where I ended up hooking up with a university

02:12:12.800 professor at one of the universities here in Winnipeg I won't talk it this was years ago but

02:12:17.520 one day coming out of a physics class I had this woman come in and all these other girls are

02:12:22.220 rushing into this class to get the seats and everyone I'm just kind of like this is kind of

02:12:26.400 weird there's no men in this classroom it's all women and I'm like and so I'm sitting there

02:12:32.500 trying to write down the last bit of physics notes and they were doing like really high level

02:12:36.440 computational physics and stuff for electrodynamics and i thought she was another physics prof and

02:12:42.220 it's like what is this class oh it's oh and she was embarrassed it's like it's a woman's studies

02:12:47.360 class hey and it's like what yeah it's about embracing the divine feminine and i'm just

02:12:53.060 sitting there like she looks embarrassed telling me this hey and i just laugh hey divine feminine

02:12:59.400 and like what the fuck do you use this shit for all these other women eh and it's just like and

02:13:04.800 she's just like excuse me you are so rude and I'm like Stella shut the fuck up and make me a

02:13:08.900 sandwich like why the hell are you here in this classroom I was just like what are you gonna do

02:13:13.000 I was just like what are you gonna do about it kick me out of university okay well I'll give you

02:13:17.580 my number I'll give you my phone you can call somebody who cares so this woman getting pissed

02:13:21.200 off at me eh it's just like you know what maybe I'll talk to you in my office about manners I'm

02:13:25.700 like okay so i show her up to her office about a couple hours later when her class is over and

02:13:29.680 there's no students there and next thing you know i just like oh and i sit down in her class i put

02:13:33.580 my feet up on her desk and i'm like okay lady tell me all about embracing your divine feminine

02:13:39.380 and next thing you know it's just like excuse me it's just like you've got the and i just told her

02:13:44.240 you got like the really nicest tits i have ever fucking seen and actually you know i don't know

02:13:49.960 the long story story i'm plucking her on her desk like there is

02:13:53.080 the guys in the chat are gonna get ideas they're gonna go to class and be like you're a great

02:14:02.360 so here's what it is a lot of these professional women yeah they they're on this strong independent

02:14:11.760 i don't need a man stuff but they get lonely and they get a little bit of attention from a guy

02:14:18.840 that's somewhat attractive and they fall apart there's that moment of weakness all these women

02:14:23.480 who say that they don't need a man because one of my friends she she's been well we're not friends

02:14:28.840 anymore but she's a professional woman and she's professionally single and she's like she's she's

02:14:34.200 on these dating apps and this guy that was a male traveling nurse reached out to her

02:14:39.160 on on some on some app and said hey you know i'm in they put nurses up in hotels that travel he's

02:14:45.960 like i'm at my hotel come to this hotel we can meet in the bar i'll buy you dinner and then you

02:14:50.600 can just come up to my hotel room and spend the night and she's like i can't believe i can't

02:14:55.480 believe he would say that to me does he know i'm a professional woman i wouldn't do that

02:14:59.400 i said he says that because it works she showed me a picture of this guy he's he's a decent looking

02:15:06.040 guy all you women you're gonna stay home another friday night and watch scandal for

02:15:11.480 for the 15th time or friends know every so often some of your friends are going to answer that

02:15:18.380 guy's call they're going to go to that hotel eat dinner at the bar in his hotel and go up to his

02:15:24.140 room with him you really think so i was like yeah he wouldn't have said that to you if it doesn't

02:15:27.760 work all these professional women have this myth that they don't need the touch of a man they don't

02:15:32.240 need sex any of that but then a guy like you comes along and is banging her on her desk in her

02:15:36.560 classroom yeah you know what the cool thing is i like the grit the best props are the ones when

02:15:42.000 you have the really long hair because i'm like really i told you before i'm like into long hair

02:15:45.220 i don't mind the nose ring because the nose ring has something fun with it and i don't like

02:15:49.420 the nose ring is great because you try it when you're trying to you're fucking them from behind

02:15:54.400 you're trying to reach up and trying to rip it off their face okay and yeah it's like and then

02:15:59.420 and then you got the long hairs the handlebars right the longer the hair the more torque you

02:16:03.620 got in your breaker bar right so that's that's how i look at it as well well we're gonna get to uh

02:16:10.660 we're gonna get to miller because he's the last person we met today thank you thanks for calling

02:16:14.580 in matt always good to see you man great story all right miller are you there yeah i'm here

02:16:23.780 yeah i did talk before but yeah oh yeah i was married oh yeah he was yeah yeah yeah

02:16:29.620 we're going to wrap it up

02:16:31.640 I just didn't recognize

02:16:33.540 your camera was off

02:16:35.620 okay so we're just going to wrap it up

02:16:37.480 congrats on your demonetization

02:16:40.920 thank you very much

02:16:43.080 thank you

02:16:44.760 Doug at PA

02:16:47.460 I want to show you this

02:16:48.480 this is so funny

02:16:49.520 I can share my screen with him right

02:16:52.760 yeah

02:16:54.440 okay so

02:16:57.040 um during this call i um matt responded to my response right matt walsh and i said

02:17:08.640 he said pearl i understand you're miserable and lonely and have never been

02:17:13.280 in anything approaching a functional a healthy relationship in your life so i'll try to be

02:17:18.220 patient with you blah blah blah and so then i said isn't a wife supposed to be a helpmate and

02:17:22.940 not an adversary.

02:17:24.660 Oh, let's go.

02:17:26.080 And he said,

02:17:26.940 Pearl, I understand that you're miserable and lonely

02:17:28.940 and have never been in anything approaching

02:17:30.740 a functioning or healthy relationship in your life.

02:17:33.680 So I'll try to be patient with you.

02:17:35.220 You see husbands and wives who love each other

02:17:37.100 do this thing called joke around.

02:17:38.880 They may even have this other thing

02:17:41.900 that I know is foreign to you called a sense of humor.

02:17:44.440 I hope this clears it up.

02:17:45.540 Now go spew your bullshit somewhere else

02:17:49.840 and leave my wife out of it.

02:17:51.700 and I said oh wait wait sorry I didn't read the next one um wait go go back hold on oh anyway so

02:17:59.900 he quote tweets that and he said it's called a joke pearl the mother of my six children is very

02:18:05.360 much my helpmate in a million ways you couldn't possibly understand that I won't waste my time

02:18:09.860 explaining to you you can take as many pot shots at me as you want I don't care leave my wife out

02:18:15.460 of it I promise this is not a road you want to go down and so I responded I said guess who's

02:18:19.740 gonna be on my thumbnail tomorrow oh yes subscribe to pearl on x

02:18:26.880 you're not gonna tell me you're his wife tweeted at me first like a year ago i'm like you're not

02:18:37.020 gonna have a public facing twitter profile and then say you're above scrutiny bitch yeah

02:18:43.620 she's a public figure and she's out and then what got your attention initially was just the whole

02:18:51.540 you know i existed to troll his account like what what about optics understand i'm saying like what

02:18:57.180 does that mean i mean it could be a joke but some people could take it not as a joke well we'll see

02:19:03.520 where this whole thing ends up i'm like these people think they're like god's gift to the earth

02:19:09.700 because they got married and had a family you guys did it in your 30s like the rest of us like

02:19:15.120 get the fuck out of here you didn't do it traditionally like i don't i don't need the

02:19:19.340 virtue moralist today the all right is it is it wise to look at anyways oh and then brett cooper

02:19:29.180 came in totally understandable to be honest because to be fair i was calling brett she's mad

02:19:36.080 i could i don't know if she actually is but i've done shows on her so it's fair enough um but she

02:19:42.100 said alissa walsh is the kind of wife and mother who women should be looking up to point blank she's

02:19:47.920 fiercely devoted and she and mad have built an incredible life together she's hilarious a loyal

02:19:52.240 friend if you know her you are better for it and i said is it wise to look up to a random woman on

02:19:56.980 the internet who made it her life's mission to troll her husband god am i i'm just asking the

02:20:04.060 questions i'm just asking maybe maybe we should be okay i'm gonna screenshot this and say call

02:20:13.300 in show tomorrow if they don't come then you guys are you guys are i'm trying not to say the p word

02:20:23.480 anymore but i can't think of another word you guys are scaredy cats i guess yeah

02:20:30.900 i'm gonna take a picture of alissa wicca

02:20:37.380 and call and show tomorrow

02:20:42.540 anyways anyways guys they look yeah i am choosing violence okay so anyways guys call in tomorrow

02:20:56.880 and we're gonna do a show

02:21:00.240 Doug MPA any final

02:21:02.040 thoughts

02:21:02.640 um yeah

02:21:05.420 I've

02:21:07.360 if you're a man worth something

02:21:09.500 stay away from

02:21:11.600 here's the thing

02:21:12.460 you could find a woman who

02:21:15.640 cheats you with respect that makes more money than you

02:21:17.860 but the percentage is slim than none

02:21:19.860 that's all I'm saying

02:21:21.440 women are not benevolent like men

02:21:23.780 they will use any power

02:21:25.980 they can against you because once again women want men who are ambitious and motivated to set

02:21:31.740 their what they want aside to help them achieve their own selfish desires so stay away from women

02:21:39.360 who make more money than you because you i think it's not a matter of if the disrespect comes a

02:21:45.620 matter of when i think that some you know as as john proved when he called maybe it works for

02:21:51.260 for some people but i think it's a small amount of people so why take the risk okay thanks doug mpa

02:21:59.900 all right guys i'm excited for this show tomorrow so make sure you all call in like the video on

02:22:04.700 your way out and subscribe to the channel ring that notification bell and i will see you guys

02:22:09.180 oh wait um was there any super chats i need to read before we end i don't see any uh thank you

02:22:15.740 to robert i see yours i think that's all i see okay guys see you tomorrow thank you so much

02:22:23.280 and i'll see you later bye

02:22:45.740 Thank you.

02:23:15.740 You

Pearl - March 21, 2025

Modern Women Earning More Than Their Husbands (Call-In Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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