Pearl - Modern Women Give Up on EVERYTHING!

00:00:00.000 doing when she starts emotionally giving up that's the warning sign most people miss

00:00:04.720 because when she loves you she'll communicate she'll explain she'll fight right fight with you

00:00:10.480 not support you overthink she'll fight for the relationship even when she's exhausted but when

00:00:15.840 her messages become shorter when her voice sounds colder when she says it's okay too easily she's

00:00:21.040 probably tired of feeling unheard a woman doesn't need perfect words she just wants to feel understood 0.93

00:00:26.400 without having to beg for emotional effort and the truth is women stay loyal to how you make 0.86

00:00:32.360 them feel yeah not just to your promises your potential or your excuses why we're terrible to 1.00

00:00:37.300 be with because we feel a new thing every hour you know it's so if she's still trying to yeah

00:00:42.280 let's just keep going all right this one when you give up the idea of wanting marriage and love you 0.96

00:00:49.940 start living your fucking best life like yeah so she's saying i start whoring out and living my 0.99

00:00:55.160 best life which means um we love being big fat slut horse honestly i am still dating i'm talking 0.99

00:01:01.840 to men but i don't want to marry them anymore finally i don't have this urge to marry anyone 0.98

00:01:08.720 anymore again that's female laziness and loserdom right so we could keep trying or we could give up 0.99

00:01:14.800 and we always give up that's just how um that's just how we do it you know what i mean or i don't 0.94

00:01:21.260 want to i hope that every lover girl who gets stuck on love gets this realization sooner or

00:01:29.280 later because guess what yes love exists it does but it's not a disney movie it is not and we have

00:01:35.340 to get this out of our heads men do not view love the same way we view love they were not raised the

00:01:41.100 same way we were raised enough some men are very romantic and all that stuff but still 0.76

00:01:47.280 they're still a man and it's not to like talk shit about men they were just raised differently 0.94

00:01:53.020 than us and we were brainwashed don't give up on love just stop looking for love yeah that is 0.96

00:01:58.920 giving up okay let's see now this is i think he's a simp uh just kind of uh backing up women i think

00:02:07.500 this is what it was i made a video like this before and i told you people are going to give

00:02:12.860 up on you and when they do you flip the switch oh no he's talking about women give up on you yeah

00:02:19.360 we do we give up but it's not personal right we we give up on everything it's just incredible

00:02:27.360 i'm going to show you guys examples outside of love after this of just us quitting every i left

00:02:32.760 my marriage at 31 with five y'all every every little thing it's game time see this what i mean

00:02:37.520 women that's what i was saying in the last reaction guys uh get their money up and do all 0.92

00:02:42.720 this stuff when um when a woman leaves them where women whore out so it's game time use it as 0.98

00:02:49.320 motivation bro like all right all right i was i love being counted out so fucking much it's an 0.95

00:02:56.160 addiction because like i said i have an obligation to show you that it's really like that and that i 0.81

00:03:03.120 can really do what the fuck i want to do when i want to do it with whoever i want to do it with 0.73

00:03:09.300 you probably can't but you can cope okay let's keep going um so now i'm just gonna you know 1.00

00:03:15.160 drive the point home that we quit everything these are women quitting everything so she had 0.99

00:03:19.140 a job in sports which is an amazing job a lot of fun and guess what i just quit my full-time job

00:03:23.860 working incredible right in social media for the colorado avalanche i put so much of my job in the

00:03:30.220 behind the scenes of it online. So I felt weird to just not make a video and not say anything and

00:03:33.940 just move on. So I just wanted to talk about it a little bit. Let's get this out of the way. I don't

00:03:37.780 want to discourage anybody from wanting to work in this industry or striving to work in this

00:03:41.540 industry, but there definitely are a few things that I feel like should be talked about. And now

00:03:44.500 she's going to complain, quit, complain, quit, complain, quit, complain, about more in this 1.00

00:03:48.420 industry. So this is just my experience of what ultimately led me to making this decision.

00:03:52.680 Honestly, just want to be open and honest about it. I started working in this industry at 20 years

00:03:57.400 old and at the beginning my only goal in life ever was to get a full-time job in sports. I didn't

00:04:02.720 care about anything else in my life at that time. This was my only goal. I moved away from my college

00:04:07.280 town for my college friends at 20 years old. I sacrificed two years where I could have been

00:04:11.160 in college still kind of like living like a young person so that I could get this opportunity and I

00:04:17.060 would do it all the same way again if I could by the way. At that time I was not only creating

00:04:20.600 content obviously for my job but I was also then coming home and creating more sports content for

00:04:25.980 my own personal social medias. And ultimately, I think this ended up hurting me a little bit

00:04:30.260 because I started to base my worth on how my content was doing, whether that was like inside

00:04:34.820 of work content, or outside of work content. I think at the end of the day, I was just spending

00:04:38.720 so much time focusing on work in the sports industry and getting a full time job that it

00:04:43.640 was all I could think about. Yeah, well, and that's the thing. Most people have to think about

00:04:49.080 their jobs mostly just as what it is, right? Women want the easy job, right of talking for a living 1.00

00:04:55.120 and don't want the hard part of being consumed by the content. 1.00

00:04:59.020 It's just incredible.

00:05:00.000 All of my hard work, I did end up getting a full-time job in sports.

00:05:02.880 So that was amazing.

00:05:03.900 I can only speak from working in social media.

00:05:05.600 That's the only department I've ever worked in in sports.

00:05:07.660 But one thing I didn't quite know is exactly how much you work in sports social media.

00:05:12.260 I think we're one of the only departments who work every single game.

00:05:16.300 Again, complaining about working too much when you have an easy job.

00:05:21.360 Oh, I can't with my gender. 0.99

00:05:23.100 nights weekends holidays travel basically seven days a week there's not really one day where you're

00:05:29.060 not posting at least one thing and you're kind of on this weird on call anyways because anything

00:05:33.640 could happen at any moment a trade a signing a pr nightmare and this whole last season i spent a lot

00:05:39.100 of time reflecting on how that would do you know how many men would kill for that job and never

00:05:42.720 complain never ever ever complain they would be so happy to do a woman's given the job right

00:05:48.300 and then still complains and quits it's just incredible it's making me feel i was bringing

00:05:53.380 my work phone with me everywhere to bars at 9 p.m on a friday just in case i was yeah i found an

00:05:58.900 athlete to bang so i got what i wanted today and i am leaving the corporate world after seven

00:06:04.000 corporate air-conditioned offices right it is all i have ever known and i'm actually kind of scared

00:06:10.380 shitless because i am now starting over from scratch at the age of 30 i actually loved the

00:06:18.480 company that i had worked for and the culture so again this sounds like uh the same thing when they

00:06:24.080 leave you i loved my husband and my kids but like i was i quit right we just like change making

00:06:30.160 comfortable money but ever since turning 30 i have felt a little stuck and a little scared about my

00:06:36.600 future yeah so again not personal we do it to everything here we go here's a woman leaving

00:06:40.760 her marriage and kids and when i initially considered getting divorced i was consumed with

00:06:45.160 the fear of regret what if i have kids right you think you're locked in not quite regret this what

00:06:50.360 if i'm making the wrong decision what i'm guessing super young bride right i cannot survive leaving

00:06:55.000 this marriage by the time i decided to get a divorce and everything was in process i was

00:06:59.640 consumed with the fear of what if i didn't leave what if i stayed what if i was wasting my time

00:07:04.760 how would I survive staying?

00:07:06.860 That switch was everything for me.

00:07:08.780 It gave me the courage, it gave me the grit,

00:07:10.140 it gave me the tenacity to move through my divorce,

00:07:12.380 to start my new life and to proceed with things

00:07:16.120 because it was debilitating to think about not changing.

00:07:20.700 I left my marriage at 31 with five young kids

00:07:23.160 and when I initially-

00:07:24.000 So again, there's another one there. 1.00

00:07:25.160 Let's see, what did this woman quit? 1.00

00:07:27.360 I just left my husband of 23 years. 1.00

00:07:29.600 There you go.

00:07:30.540 And I hid my abuse very- 0.99

00:07:32.640 Now she was abused, see?

00:07:34.180 All right, what did you quit?

00:07:35.640 Vegan for six years, and I was ready. 0.81

00:07:37.960 And we'll torture everyone with their political beliefs.

00:07:40.060 It can't even stick to that. 1.00

00:07:41.320 So now she's like carnivore. 0.99

00:07:42.960 I could die on that hill.

00:07:44.020 The beginning, I felt awesome.

00:07:45.280 Mind you, I was in my early 20s.

00:07:46.600 Our bodies can handle a lot.

00:07:48.220 Four or five years in, I started to feel the effects of not eating meat.

00:07:51.040 As someone heavily into fitness, I found it really hard to hit a high protein target without insane high carbs and gas and relying on processed proteins.

00:08:00.520 Organic tofu every night, protein powder were essential.

00:08:03.420 had blood work done i was borderline anemic started to experience hair loss having troubles

00:08:08.400 with my cycle it's a hard pill to swallow when you believe something is the best and then you

00:08:12.840 can see that it's not and i appreciate that she admitted she was wrong um but how many people did

00:08:18.080 you torture with that belief i saw some of the finding behind the vegan movement and i was like

00:08:22.180 i'm out eating much more nutritionally dense food like beef has been a game changer so again she 0.99

00:08:27.920 quit she was all into veganism now this woman was all into whoring right we quit whore like it's 0.99

00:08:33.380 not just um we quit we we whore for a bit then we quit doing it for a bit then we we start a 0.99

00:08:39.720 trendy diet then we quit that then we you know it's everything i tell people that i went like 0.87

00:08:44.200 almost three years straight without sex they think that i'm like crazy or that i'm lying and it's

00:08:49.060 really not that hard like you're just addicted to sex but i'm not like honestly once you go a while

00:08:55.060 without it it just gets easier to just go without it more time like it never crosses my mind i'm

00:09:00.540 never horny like i'm literally never thinking about sex bro like so it says she stopped

00:09:04.940 participating in casual sex so again she used to do it now she doesn't do it leaving christianity

00:09:10.060 37 years in a religion i am leaving my christian faith behind and deconstructing everything that

00:09:17.900 i've been taught i wanted a place to come to and talk about the religious trauma that i've been

00:09:22.860 through and what it's been like breaking down my own beliefs i was raised christian from everything

00:09:29.580 from bible study youth group conferences revivals mission trips now in my late 30s i'm really

00:09:38.220 starting to break down everything that i've been taught i also spent the last two years working in

00:09:43.220 a church that was very racist and had a lot of discrimination and i just need a place to come 1.00

00:09:49.940 and process chat with other people yeah so then i need a place to spiral bitch complain moan quit 0.95

00:09:56.940 I mean this is just it never ends so I want you guys to know that if your wife left you don't 0.95

00:10:01.780 worry we leave veganism we leave jobs we love we leave careers we've been in we leave we leave

00:10:06.740 Jesus Christ himself we believe in Jesus Christ and then leave him too so don't take it personal

00:10:13.420 fellas

Pearl - October 15, 2026

Modern Women Give Up on EVERYTHING!

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