Pearl - Modern Women Hate That Men Are Starting to Ignore Them

00:00:00.000 What up, guys? Welcome to my reaction series. Today, we are reacting to women wondering why

00:00:05.220 men are ignoring them. Women have told men for decades to leave them alone. Don't catcall them,

00:00:10.760 don't approach them in public, don't stare at them. And that's exactly what men have done.

00:00:14.960 There are young women that have never been approached in public. Now, women are wondering

00:00:19.080 why men don't approach. This is exactly what we wanted, ladies. This is the world we built.

00:00:24.700 Now, let's take a look at some of the women that are wondering why men do not approach in public.

00:00:30.720 I was just watching this woman in San Diego talk about how men in San Diego don't approach women.

00:00:36.160 Now, she's married and I'm in a relationship, but she says all her girlfriends say men never

00:00:40.600 approach them. And I can say that when I was briefly single here in San Diego between my divorce and my

00:00:47.640 new relationship, men didn't approach me either. I mean, I tried online dating and that was so much

00:00:53.600 worse than the first time I tried online dating. I think it's just become so saturated and cynical

00:00:59.820 but it's true. Men don't approach. And I was starting to feel like there's something a little

00:01:06.660 wrong with me, but I have heard this from so many women. And I honestly think in a place like

00:01:11.700 Southern California, so not exclusive to San Diego, men get feminized in just like creeping ways,

00:01:18.500 right? This is such a comfortable, nice place to live. It's also super appearance oriented.

00:01:29.220 It's, you just don't have to be that rugged to live here. You know, you can know how to make money.

00:01:35.800 That's not the same as being like a pursuer or a hunter in that way. And I'm not saying it's wrong

00:01:43.280 or right. It just is what it is. But for sure, people just, men just aren't approaching that much

00:01:47.860 here. And I think also our progressive culture and politics also lends to the fact that men just do

00:01:55.120 it less and less. Because besides just becoming more feminized and therefore just becoming more

00:02:01.060 wired like women, there's also the cultural factor of just for so long, men didn't know if they could

00:02:10.420 even, you know, say hi or look at you, you know, or just breathe in the wrong direction and without

00:02:17.480 getting chastised or worse, cancelled. So I don't have any answers. I just know that it's a thing.

00:02:23.920 All right, let's yeah, she seems a little more sympathetic to it. The last,

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00:03:00.940 save yourself. All right, let's see who's next. I really want to talk about this comment because

00:03:08.460 this is definitely something that has come across my desk a few times in the last few weeks. Yeah,

00:03:12.500 I know they don't want to be on TikTok. It's just there's cameras everywhere. I wish I feel like I

00:03:17.380 was born in the wrong generation because I don't know because I do enjoy this. Like I do enjoy the

00:03:22.680 media like talking to you guys or whatever. But I also everything's filmed now and I don't really

00:03:32.740 like that. Like my personal life, I don't love being filmed in public a ton. Like if it's a street

00:03:39.360 interview, I feel like that's different. Like people go up to you, but you know, especially

00:03:43.080 I think it's very important for women to acknowledge that, you know, when we complain

00:03:48.740 that men don't approach women anymore in public, this is the fear that's going on in their heads

00:03:53.240 is that they are scared of being shamed online. And I've spoken to younger men and especially with

00:04:00.120 younger men, this, this rings true. And it was interesting because I was listening to Theo Vaughn's

00:04:03.780 podcast, the episode that he had Andrew Huberman on. And Andrew Huberman said the same thing. He said

00:04:07.800 that he mentors a lot of young men who have this genuine fear of being shamed online by

00:04:12.860 women, which is why they don't feel the need. Yeah. Cause it's not even just like recording

00:04:16.160 at the time. It's like, they don't want to be on the T app. They don't want to like, they

00:04:19.960 don't want, you know, because women, we never put ourselves in men's shoes. Like when we've,

00:04:25.840 we've all done weird stuff in dating, right? Come on. Let's, unless you've just been a natural

00:04:30.600 from the time you were young, everyone's done weird, abnormal, whatever, but you don't really

00:04:35.580 want to blast it on the internet. Like it's kind of a private thing and it's just embarrassing.

00:04:40.640 Or the urge or the desire to approach women in public anymore. And honestly, like if I thought

00:04:46.900 that I would be publicly shamed online, if I approached a man, I probably wouldn't do it

00:04:50.500 either. So obviously there are nuances to the situation, like people who inappropriately

00:04:55.340 approach women or do it in a derogatory way or do it in a disrespectful way. Of course, we're not

00:05:00.160 really speaking about that. We're talking about just men not wanting to talk to women in public

00:05:04.120 because they're scared they're going to get trashed online. And as women, I think we really

00:05:07.600 need to acknowledge our behavior in this cycle. You know, if we continue to, you know, berate men

00:05:13.220 online and talk about how, you know, a guy approached you and he was ugly and you're going to make fun

00:05:18.640 of him and do all this stuff on the internet. Don't complain when men have this genuine fear of

00:05:23.760 approaching women in public anymore. So thank you for leaving this comment. I think it is really

00:05:27.640 important to talk about that because it's really, truly come across my desk multiple times in the last

00:05:32.560 few weeks. And it's something that I've actually wanted to talk about. And the more that I speak

00:05:37.340 to men and the more that, you know, I, I listened to men who mentor young men, especially this is what

00:05:43.480 the genuine fear is. Yeah. And cause they've grown up with women that probably did that from a young

00:05:48.700 age. If you guys are Gen Z watching the channel, what did you ever have an experience where someone in

00:05:55.280 your class was blasted online at like middle school or high school?

00:06:01.060 So why do men no longer come up to women? I asked this in a TikTok last week and it got so many

00:06:08.560 comments, especially for men. And I just want to preface this with, this was no shade to men. This

00:06:13.900 post was no shade to men and neither is this one. I was just genuinely curious and asking. I love men.

00:06:19.940 I think they're awesome. And I think that they're a little confused right now, but most of their

00:06:24.900 responses said something like we were told not to go up to you guys. And we were told, yeah, the men

00:06:29.980 are like, you guys are gaslighting us. You guys said, stop. So we stopped. We, you didn't like the cat

00:06:35.900 call and we stopped. And now you miss it. The audacity, the audacity that you want to be left alone

00:06:43.820 and you just want your own space and you don't want us approaching you, which for some women that can

00:06:48.760 absolutely be true, but I love meeting people in person. And I just think that it takes a confident

00:06:55.460 person to go up to someone when you see them in person. And I think it's a really cool way to meet

00:07:00.960 people rather than meeting people online. And we're also seeing things like they were called creeps and

00:07:05.840 weirdos and they don't want to be called that. It's not a pleasant experience, but I will say that

00:07:11.680 it has to do with how you approach a woman.

00:07:15.140 Yeah. She doesn't know anything. It has to do with how hot you are. Sorry, fellas.

00:07:21.020 Like for example, myself and my friends have had men come up to us with a really,

00:07:25.660 really intense energy, like a very in your face energy. And they're really nervous and they're

00:07:30.720 kind of scattered and they're very pushy or, or weird. And their energy is just off. And one of

00:07:37.060 the most attractive things to a woman is emotional intelligence. And, and that shows within like the

00:07:45.520 first few seconds of meeting someone when they introduce themselves to you. So if you're going

00:07:50.560 to go up to women, just like take a calm, deep breath. If you see a woman working on her laptop

00:07:56.160 or something at a cafe, you can go up to her and be like, Hey, my name is so-and-so. Um, I thought

00:08:02.540 you were really beautiful and you seem interesting. I would love to get to know you more if you're

00:08:07.540 interested. And then slipping her your number on a napkin or something, you know, like just coming up to

00:08:12.580 women with a calm energy and not giving off this like needy energy or this like pushy energy. I think

00:08:18.780 that is what women don't like. I think it's really sweet and cute to be approached in person. And I know

00:08:26.680 that there's a lot of women like me, there's probably some women out there who don't want to be

00:08:29.800 approached and that's fine. I think it's your tone too. Like, it's like, if they come up with a soft tone,

00:08:34.740 we register that as like, you're a bit, you know, like, you know, um, it's hard. We don't have to do it. So

00:08:42.060 I have no idea what it is in a man's shoes, but I watch a lot of the PUA, like TikToks of them

00:08:47.160 approaching women. It seems like it's a lot of tone and it's hard to tell who's who, but I think you can

00:08:51.860 tell when you go up to a girl kind of right away, if she'd be interested or not based on her body

00:08:56.860 language and just be calm. Yeah. Um, you guys don't want to hear women's thoughts and approaching. You're

00:09:04.160 like, you don't know shit. Okay. Let me know what you think in the comments. Have you ever approached in

00:09:10.220 person? Um, if so, how did that go for you? Let me know in the comments. Make sure you like the video,

00:09:15.520 subscribe. I'll see you next time.

Pearl - July 27, 2025

Modern Women Hate That Men Are Starting to Ignore Them

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