Pearl - May 30, 2025


Modern Women Have No Idea How Much Better Men Make Their Lives ｜ Pearl Daily


Episode Stats

Length

40 minutes

Words per Minute

184.14906

Word Count

7,412

Sentence Count

153

Misogynist Sentences

71

Hate Speech Sentences

47


Summary

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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 This red pill thing.
00:00:01.080 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
00:00:04.640 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
00:00:08.720 Marriage is a bond and it's a sacred bond.
00:00:11.360 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
00:00:14.380 Now many of the red pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
00:00:19.240 It's Hannah Pearl Davis or just pearly things.
00:00:22.960 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
00:00:26.440 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
00:00:29.440 Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
00:00:34.660 Gee, what could go wrong there?
00:00:36.740 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.
00:00:40.400 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
00:00:43.280 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
00:00:45.880 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
00:00:50.920 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
00:00:54.140 You need no evidence.
00:00:55.240 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for.
00:00:58.840 and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
00:01:02.300 I interviewed them on the other side.
00:01:04.880 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
00:01:07.160 How much did you spend trying to get him back?
00:01:09.280 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.
00:01:11.660 Before you know it, you're homeless. You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
00:01:14.980 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
00:01:17.400 Wives are taught to leave their husbands, and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
00:01:21.680 Family is a foundation of society.
00:01:23.400 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
00:01:26.380 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.
00:01:30.920 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.
00:01:32.860 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
00:01:34.680 We tell them to put off family and a marriage.
00:01:36.420 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.
00:01:39.200 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
00:01:43.620 Oh, freeze your eggs, have an abortion.
00:01:45.440 What? You're evil.
00:01:46.660 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
00:01:50.480 Right.
00:01:50.660 Like, if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally,
00:01:55.100 the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway it's self-sabotage that's the thing
00:01:58.780 like women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy this is not about
00:02:03.040 happiness the most important thing is the children and the problem is we have a modern society where
00:02:08.700 it's me me me my feelings leave when i feel like it instead of doing what's best for the kids
00:02:13.800 this myth that we live in an age of male privilege where's my male privilege they think well men have
00:02:19.420 all the rights they have all the power privilege patriarchal system that we have why doesn't our
00:02:24.320 society care about men's rights.
00:02:26.200 I have no friends.
00:02:27.480 No wife and no social life.
00:02:29.460 Men are alone in this situation.
00:02:31.360 Men are homeless.
00:02:32.320 Men are thinking about eating guns.
00:02:34.080 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide
00:02:36.680 and they didn't do anything wrong.
00:02:38.520 How are you equal if the men
00:02:40.740 are the ones that have to fight and die
00:02:42.640 to defend the country?
00:02:43.960 The men are the ones that build and maintain
00:02:46.300 all the infrastructure.
00:02:47.820 Women are helplessly dependent upon men.
00:02:50.460 The so-called deaths of despair from
00:02:52.320 suicide, overdose or alcohol.
00:02:54.320 Three times higher among men than among women.
00:02:57.540 Culture is telling men, you are no good.
00:02:59.380 You've got to get your act together.
00:03:00.600 I think men have failed themselves.
00:03:02.220 What kind of a man are you?
00:03:03.460 What kind of a woman are you going to attract?
00:03:05.420 If men are in trouble, so are women.
00:03:08.080 Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
00:03:11.760 Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to get...
00:03:14.000 500K.
00:03:14.680 500K.
00:03:15.100 300K.
00:03:15.620 300K.
00:03:16.080 200K.
00:03:16.500 Am I crazy?
00:03:17.220 Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
00:03:19.280 If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.
00:03:22.920 So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
00:03:27.000 Women.
00:03:28.480 I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
00:03:30.620 I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
00:03:32.880 I'm over it.
00:03:34.060 When is it going to be my turn?
00:03:35.340 Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?
00:03:37.120 I can't keep having these same conversations.
00:03:39.860 The only simp here is you, Pearl.
00:03:41.180 You simp for men.
00:03:41.600 No, I think you simp for women.
00:03:43.200 She's a provocateur.
00:03:44.180 She says stupid stuff.
00:03:45.340 But Pearl is right about this.
00:03:46.600 It's already happening.
00:03:47.760 It's just not out in the open yet.
00:03:49.180 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending
00:03:51.840 because men don't want a wife and women can't find a husband the future if everybody follows
00:03:57.040 your path is there is no future we go into population decline and our economy goes into
00:04:01.940 decline civilization will crumble the american story does not end well this is an existential
00:04:08.300 crisis failing young men what's going on people welcome to another episode of pearl daily here
00:04:18.760 on the audacity network i am your host pearl and the conclusions i have come to on this channel are
00:04:23.820 from my experience of interviewing a thousand women i went from very blue-pilled pretty idealist
00:04:29.180 almost trad con to pretty much black-pilled after interviewing a thousand women and what actually
00:04:36.540 amazed me was how many women the level of just subtle misandry women are allowed to say and
00:04:44.860 the men around them don't check them at all and if anything we're rewarded for bad behavior so
00:04:50.940 I wanted to put this documentary together talking about my findings when it comes to the family
00:04:55.640 court system but YouTube throttled my channel and demonetized me the past year and a half I was
00:05:02.000 literally doing this show for free unemployed for a year and a half unfortunately because of one
00:05:09.480 angry woman she decided to flag all of the videos on my channel she got me demonetized and i spent a
00:05:16.140 year and a half trying to build this thing back up so if you can there's two ways you can support me
00:05:21.320 in case i get kicked off of youtube again first obviously you can't super chat while we are on
00:05:26.200 youtube the second is we have a go fund me for this documentary the link to that is the second
00:05:31.680 one in the description and the first one is a members only community where i bring on the smart
00:05:36.880 intelligent famous and non-famous men that I know and it's a one-time lifetime subscription at some
00:05:41.740 point we are going to raise it but this is what it is right now and it's basically you buying into
00:05:45.100 the fact that this is going to be a career for me and that you will get I will bring people into
00:05:51.840 the school community the paywall um to give presentations on different topics um I do have
00:05:57.920 a very vast network and I am open to suggestions so if you know the people in the community have
00:06:02.480 somebody that we want that they want to sign up the cool thing is if you did support me in the
00:06:07.520 past year and a half i did include your subscription um if you joined before i think it was like the
00:06:15.500 15th of last month um i did include your subscription so you should look for an email
00:06:22.320 from us because then you're automatically added into the school community um but yeah i think
00:06:27.600 that's it. So, so today we're going to talk about this Drew Afawalo lady. And, um, this is a crazy
00:06:35.220 woman and unfortunately crazy women are allowed to have platform. Now I know what you're thinking,
00:06:41.100 Pearl, but you shut up. Okay. So, um, so I, I do, I, I do try to start my show by saying no
00:06:51.880 simping in the chat. I am taken. So please, uh, you know, if you're here to, if you're here for
00:06:57.380 anything but information i'm here to deliver the news um other thing we are 40 subscribers away
00:07:04.000 from 2 million so it'd be kind of cool to hit it this stream um there's 300 of you in here so
00:07:10.160 okay so drew afo afuolo is basically a woman um that is making money off of her look now
00:07:22.420 it used to be the case that only hot women could make money off of their looks and life
00:07:27.140 was really better that way um the media used to cater to men and that's why you when you would
00:07:32.280 see women on tv you would see megan fox margot robbie and because movies used to be made to
00:07:38.080 appeal to men but the problem is when movies are made to appeal to women the women get uglier
00:07:42.660 so when you ever see a um a movie and the bombshell is like 32 um with small boobs and you just think
00:07:52.900 why why is this a thing like why is she not hot or she's supposed to be the love interest it's
00:08:00.960 probably for women um and so what we've seen is the rise of influencers that are but ugly right
00:08:07.300 and so the way they do this is you have midwomen or below midwomen um that either do misandrous
00:08:15.280 content girly content um sex content an example is call her daddy right she's a six getting better
00:08:22.180 outcomes that she could then she should um and essentially what society's trying to do is to
00:08:27.160 convince men to lower their standards and it's totally working because every single one of you
00:08:31.280 are accepting things today that a hundred years ago um your grandfathers would not accept so this
00:08:37.720 is working like we can't i can't even act like this is a bad strategy because it's working and
00:08:45.940 this is a 300 pound woman who has started a podcast and, um, it's all about hating men.
00:08:54.000 Yeah. 32 and an a cup is hot. I know. Okay. So we're going to watch this. This is drew Afualo
00:09:01.600 on. Can you believe this? She got 30 under 30. And the thing is men care about accomplishments,
00:09:08.160 inventions, and respect where women care about basically getting a participation trophy.
00:09:15.220 and so what's happened is companies have realized they make more money off of women than men because
00:09:20.320 women make 80 percent of consumer buying decisions so they start just giving away um awards to women
00:09:26.680 and then women pay to like be applied to these awards at times women can pay to get these awards
00:09:32.340 where men care about hierarchy and like being important so it's just two different things
00:09:36.700 let's see how many oh oh we're at um 45 more subscribers till 2 million
00:09:45.660 you know you cannot hide your fat body behind all that makeup that you're putting on
00:09:54.100 instead go to the gym
00:09:57.060 it turns out lots of people can relate to uh wanting to just be
00:10:05.920 really mean to misogynistic men and that's essentially what it is i do i seek them out
00:10:12.980 i platform them just to solely humiliate them and then i go about my silly goose tasks for the rest
00:10:20.260 of the day yes queen slay slay slay your enemies raise up your army take your rightful place upon
00:10:35.740 the phone so she got eight million followers off of doing nothing it's amazing and also hilarious
00:10:47.660 it would turn your stomach to see what some of them joke about laugh about find camaraderie in
00:10:54.300 and a lot of times it's violence towards women and others so i feel like it's important that we
00:11:01.820 platform men who feel so boldly that they can say things like that on the internet with their
00:11:08.920 face and clear view their government names attached to it if you're going to post it
00:11:14.740 so am I um so I like to think of myself as a tangible consequence I feel like my content
00:11:21.440 has empowered a lot of people and it's it's given and this is the thing she's a fraud because she
00:11:27.320 hates men and we're gonna we're gonna talk about this but she's in a loving relationship where
00:11:31.600 she's engaged well hating men so this shows two things one that men are complete samson will put
00:11:36.580 up with anything and two um two that she's a fraud right she makes money off of hating men but
00:11:46.580 she says herself that she's engaged to be married what is that life going to look like when she has
00:11:51.780 kids and then the strength and courage to stand up to these men on their own and they have many
00:11:58.120 many times before me but especially after me i feel like i get tagged in thousands of videos
00:12:03.160 a day of people being like i'm i'm channeling drew in this scenario and they're like responding
00:12:08.760 to a mean comment that always warms my heart because i want them to know that they can do
00:12:13.640 this without me like they don't they don't need me to constantly do this in order for it to keep
00:12:18.520 working most people um you know however they identify uh can relate to having a very horrible
00:12:33.640 experience with men um you know as dark and awful as that sounds it ranges from now apparently she
00:12:41.640 she came at me like last year. Cause I was, I think I, I think she did, but I would debate her
00:12:49.120 to be honest. I don't think she could really hang, uh, but she won't do it. Right. But so,
00:12:56.220 okay. But so you get what you get with these women, a lot of these influencer women, and I
00:12:59.600 gotta say, and I know this is hypocritical, but I can be a hypocrite, right? I can, I can. And I
00:13:04.460 will, uh, influencer women are the worst category of women. Cause one, they're very fueled by
00:13:10.160 reputation and they're willing to use their audience to damage yours and go to no ends to do
00:13:17.920 it to spread lies to whatever so these women they get really big egos where they think they did
00:13:26.380 something important right when really all we did was talk on a pod like do you know what i mean like
00:13:32.100 i i feel like i'm humble enough to know that i'm very lucky to do what i do and i do really enjoy
00:13:37.240 I love doing this, but I have to be honest with myself and say the world would move on.
00:13:45.560 You know, I didn't cure cancer.
00:13:46.980 I didn't invent some invention, you know, where she, she doesn't know that.
00:13:54.740 Right.
00:13:54.940 And that's the problem.
00:13:55.880 You get a lot of these.
00:13:56.880 I even saw like Candace Owens giving business advice once.
00:14:00.980 and i'm like we gotta stop convincing influencers that were like business owners
00:14:07.360 because my father my father i've talked about this he's a real business owner like he had a
00:14:13.800 big company he does and the thing is the most intelligent the most intelligent man i've ever
00:14:19.220 i wish i could one day i'll convince him to come on but he's just so awesome he's just like the
00:14:26.100 best person ever someone said oh it's really immature how much you worship but you don't
00:14:31.640 understand i'm like if you're just around him he's just he just knows he's just good at everything
00:14:37.740 anyways but what's funny is like because i saw that right i just know that i'm not shit compared
00:14:46.280 to the men that do things like that it's so much harder i mean what me and myron do completely
00:14:52.480 different even take Myron I mean Myron invested in property Myron has all he found a way to stay
00:14:59.940 employ people through demonetization I didn't even figure out how to do that you know and men are just
00:15:06.860 so awesome like they just especially when you get like problem solving solution oriented Matt
00:15:13.020 they're just they operate on like a different playing field different level right they're just
00:15:18.800 very pragmatic um okay so let me go I hate puberty I love makeup I loved being a girly girl that kind
00:15:25.800 of stuff but I never thought to myself I'm gonna do this because men like it I would always do it
00:15:28.980 because I liked it but I never took superficial compliments oh my gosh sorry I forgot I have um
00:15:32.960 internet brain I can listen to everything in 2x sorry it's like you're so beautiful or you're so
00:15:38.300 hot I never took those to heart as much as I took things like you're so smart you're so funny you're
00:15:44.140 so funny yeah the things about me that I've always loved the most have never had anything to do with
00:15:47.700 my looks which is why i think when i was in the throes of my pick me phase if men would irritate
00:15:55.060 me that shit would wiggle inside me i'd be like hold on like i it was almost like it would be
00:16:00.100 like the mask like he'd be like and then he'd be evil and he'd be like and then he'd be normal
00:16:04.960 that's how it felt for me because i feel like the pick me would flare up sometimes and then if a man
00:16:10.240 got a little too comfy it would go away immediately and i'd be like you can go fuck yourself yeah so
00:16:14.760 i've always been really mean to men just because they irritate me which i tell people i'm like i
00:16:19.160 mean obviously you ever hung out with one they're awful well so let's talk about you being engaged
00:16:23.800 to a man like and i'm just curious about your dating life before that how long have you been
00:16:29.960 with your now fiance okay i'm gonna i'm gonna predict her dating life before that she took an
00:16:34.920 l with a guy this year will be eight years oh a long time okay so like early she's again this is
00:16:42.680 fraud this is fraud she pretends to hate men while she's engaged she keeps women single while she
00:16:51.000 does what's best for her right 20s yeah yeah early mid 20s so how did he get in there i met him in
00:16:58.280 high school okay yeah my prime pick me face yeah okay that's how that's how we met you've like
00:17:03.080 evolved together i just want to like yeah yeah totally when we were in high school uh we were
00:17:06.920 friends in high school it's a real enemies to lovers arc i like to jokingly describe no but we
00:17:12.200 we were really cool. We were close friends in high school. Went to different colleges,
00:17:16.200 dated other people. Did you date in high school? In high school? No. Oh, you just were friends.
00:17:19.680 Yeah, no. He asked me to prom his senior year and I said no. He's 6'4 and you said no? He wasn't
00:17:25.000 6'4 at the time. And also, I'm just kidding. He was 6'2 at the time. Oh my God. Yeah, I said no.
00:17:29.980 I feel like I didn't care that much about height in high school. I feel like I didn't become like
00:17:33.100 a heightist. Because you're five feet tall. Yeah, no shit. I care a lot today. I was. I was well
00:17:37.220 aware of height because I've been tall my whole life. I grew up so insecure about it. Right. I
00:17:40.880 didn't realize men being tall and that being hot to me until oh yeah yeah well in high school my
00:17:45.820 my fiance is a very good looking man and he was that good looking in high school so he got tall
00:17:50.520 and handsome and popular in high school but yeah no yeah but that's different colleges yeah that
00:17:54.140 just had no effect on me and and high school and honestly i think that's why he liked me
00:17:58.220 because my sister's a lesbian and i hate men so in high school we were the only two people that
00:18:03.260 weren't swayed by him at all he didn't move me at all yeah and i think he liked that about me i
00:18:07.980 think he liked that my his looks didn't affect me in any way didn't make me treat him any differently
00:18:11.800 and he was annoying in high school so there's that which he would agree with and then we went
00:18:17.540 to different colleges dated other people and then we she took canal reconnected when i graduated and
00:18:22.800 moved back home and he was like asking me to hang out and i was like for what because i was i tell
00:18:28.800 this women love this they love to phrase it and it's never how it actually happened they always
00:18:33.540 love to phrase it like the guy was chasing them and they had no interest that's like every feminist
00:18:38.300 fairy right the woman just it never usually goes like that story a few times but i but the guy if
00:18:45.480 even if he experienced a different he'll be afraid of her right she's got a huge audience that you
00:18:50.960 know jokingly well i tell the story jokingly but it was it is not a joke i was really mad at him
00:18:57.020 for something i can't remember but so i wasn't talking to him for like two years and then he
00:19:00.540 kept hitting me up constantly constantly constantly and then I finally caved and I was like sure we
00:19:05.180 can go to lunch and then jokes on me I'm in love now so there you go I mean it's the best dating
00:19:09.580 advice you can throw all dating advice out the window and just do nothing just avoid them for
00:19:14.180 two years I mean I could literally leave all other dating advice on the floor oh yeah I'm a real
00:19:21.260 boomerang kind of girl like my fiance was in the dms for two years yeah literally and then one day
00:19:25.420 was like i guess i'm horny yeah that's how you get married no it really did he have to kind of
00:19:29.720 wear you down a little bit or yeah after a while yeah yeah okay so that's how you can tell they're
00:19:34.120 with a simp right because women when they see a guy um as when they really want to be with a guy
00:19:42.480 they see it like if i don't do this someone else will it's an opportunity right that they'll jump
00:19:48.840 on and i was completely ignoring him and so and and we've talked about it now and obviously we
00:19:54.020 laugh about it now but i've asked him like what made you keep coming back because like because he
00:19:58.460 did was not starving for puss like he could he could get anybody he's very good looking very
00:20:02.020 charming very smart very capable so we're 30 subscribers away from 2 million i saw somebody
00:20:07.200 unsubscribe i was like you guys are an asshole i love you guys i'm sorry i'm kidding i'm kidding
00:20:13.300 i'm kidding um but yeah we're 30 away if you guys feel like it feel free like and he's a very good
00:20:18.900 person like he's always been a really really good person very sweet person he's just annoyingly
00:20:23.100 handsome like who fucking well you both are you're a very hot couple to period thank you
00:20:26.880 but yeah she knows it's one-sided i think even at the time like i asked him that like what made
00:20:33.200 you keep coming back and he was like i honestly don't know like and he told me too like something
00:20:37.820 told me that i would regret it for the rest of my life if i didn't like patch things up with you
00:20:41.740 he's spitting game yep telling her what she wants to hear and like see you and he's like and now i
00:20:48.180 know i was right and i was like all right not too much relax okay i was right one time in eight
00:20:53.400 years okay sure whatever we got a lot of questions about him though like oh yeah i mean we said like
00:20:58.780 what do you guys want to know about them people want to know like how do you live at this
00:21:02.580 intersection of i hate men i see all this terrible behavior online but i'm with a man i'm marrying a
00:21:08.100 man and by the way ashley and i make fun of men too but we have like great fathers and brothers
00:21:11.860 friends most do most women who do and so this is it's what happens is these women they never
00:21:19.420 get to experience the consequences of the real world um until they're older and uglier right
00:21:25.640 because it's actually the women that hate men tend to have really great men around them
00:21:30.720 bailing them out of their bad decisions that's usually how it goes hey men have great fathers
00:21:37.740 exactly the bar is high to be around us yeah so we do think there's like great men obviously you
00:21:43.580 found one sort of ashley but like how do you live at that sort of like intersection of the two
00:21:48.300 i mean i think it's a lot simpler than people think i think people over complicated it's just
00:21:52.300 you know i'm not talking about you but it doesn't it doesn't change the inherent fact that men are
00:21:57.100 evil that is true like man man as a whole is evil like just as women have aborted an eighth of the
00:22:03.180 world population and she's saying that men are evil one out of eight people dead because of women
00:22:11.340 you're like lucky to be born nowadays because the most unsafe place you can be in your entire life
00:22:16.700 is your mother's womb that's the most unsafe place women man as an entity a general idea
00:22:23.900 men have inflicted violence and oppression on the world in ways that are irreparable female queens
00:22:29.980 we're more likely to wage war the only difference is when women had power women were very evil with
00:22:37.960 it but the difference is that women weren't smart enough to get power that was the challenge like
00:22:42.620 it's okay if we say that out loud it's okay if we say that men are inherently evil it's like it's
00:22:48.200 not all men but for some reason always a man every time something terrible happens always a man like
00:22:53.020 99 of the time so i feel like it's a lot simpler we just don't count female evil that's how this
00:22:58.960 narrative gets around is we don't something's in my eye we like don't count it when it's a
00:23:06.000 woman doing something bad it like almost it doesn't count then people may think it's i don't
00:23:12.460 hate my man i hate most men and for me i think given what men have done to me personally to
00:23:21.040 people i love and what have what have they done tell me what what have they done in the world as
00:23:27.200 whole if they all start guilty and have to work their way to innocent it's not really a big deal
00:23:32.200 to me i feel very like convicted in that it's very like if you're not awful prove it yeah quit
00:23:37.420 talking about it and fucking do it because the men who complain that they really hate hearing like
00:23:42.140 oh what about oh man oh man oh man a lot of this not a lot of action well i feel the same way i
00:23:48.420 think when people talk about i mean why do they have to prove themselves to a fat chick i mean
00:23:52.760 if you're gonna say that at least be hot you know what i mean it's like you have one job as a
00:23:56.860 podcaster one job not be fat by the way guys we're 25 subscribers away from 2 million if you
00:24:05.380 want to subscribe feel free you know you don't have to but that button's right there hit the
00:24:10.000 like if you can't do that feel free about white women who voted a certain way or have certain
00:24:15.720 beliefs and it's like i want to be the best white woman i could be but when you talk about those
00:24:22.980 white women yeah that's not it is not me it's me yeah me yep it's me okay those beliefs so i'm not
00:24:34.740 offended by exactly like a good man is not offended by the i hate men rhetoric that doesn't apply to
00:24:40.040 me it's a very hit dogs holler kind of thing for me if it doesn't apply let it fly that's how i
00:24:45.880 feel when people talk about like and what's something i sit at i'm a stranger men men invent
00:24:53.440 80 of the world's stuff they run like 90 of the economy women have no idea how much easier men
00:25:04.660 make their lives but the thing is the problem is there's so much incentive because women make 80
00:25:09.720 percent of consumer buying decisions um for men to sell to women that they're going to keep solving
00:25:15.960 our problems for us i don't really see a revenge fantasy coming um i mean eventually we get too old
00:25:22.360 and ugly but they're going to keep inventing technology to put that off as long as possible
00:25:28.040 they're going to keep inventing technology for women to have kids in their 40s and a lot won't
00:25:32.000 but enough will it'll sell hope that's what i see as the future sorry straight woman right i'm a
00:25:36.680 straight cis woman when they talk about straight cis women when when trans people talk about them
00:25:40.400 how they can be very harmful towards trans women it doesn't hit me because i know i'm not one of
00:25:45.480 those so when you're talking really loud and you're getting very upset at what i said what
00:25:50.440 yeah so basically you can let yourself go and get a cute guy yeah she did and that's why i get more
00:25:55.380 blackpilled every year seriously every year i get more and more blackpilled i say that upset you
00:26:01.580 and why that's a question you should be unpacking in therapy that's not oh my gosh we're 21
00:26:06.500 away guys we're so close i've been stuck at 1.9 million for a year and a half because they really
00:26:14.060 tried to ruin my life you know one of these days i might just do a show on all of the ways women
00:26:19.260 have tried to ruin my life and how they actually made me more sexist not all at all but they
00:26:24.220 actually over time made me more sexist a question you should be writing hate my comments like and
00:26:32.360 also the men who argue with me about that or even women it's very rare that it's women but
00:26:37.440 anyone who argues with 21 away me about that that's so harmful to say i hate all men that's
00:26:42.940 so harmful to say every time they say that to me if i really were to dig in that person sucks ass
00:26:48.560 every single time a hundred percent of the time all the time that person's awful that person is
00:26:53.800 awful a hundred percent of the time all the time so like does she think she's great like this is
00:27:00.300 the audacity of women what do you call what do you call it at that point a pattern i think some
00:27:04.940 of it is internalized oh my gosh you're almost 15 away i'll do a happy dance if we hit two million
00:27:13.340 listen i think that like there's a great internalized racism all the things yeah all those
00:27:17.580 things and you are definitely one of the more outspoken people that i've like come across in
00:27:22.300 terms of your book you call people out by name you do it on instagram at tick tock and i mean
00:27:27.340 you really stand up for like women's bodies and lgbtq rights and i think a lot of people want to
00:27:32.380 feel more empowered to do that i mean people say i remember this girl came up to me one night i was
00:27:37.100 at ashley's comedy show and she was like i could never do what you girls do but like thank you for
00:27:41.020 doing it like i it was somebody who had a podcast and she was like how do you feel brave enough to
00:27:45.500 talk about politics and things like that and i'm like but that's what we've dedicated our lives to
00:27:49.420 so i guess i'm curious for you like how do you feel that bravery seems like you've always been
00:27:53.580 been this yeah yeah i mean yes that's kind of how i feel i just i've just been like this yeah
00:27:57.420 but like for people that aren't like i think there's people that are like i want to feel
00:28:00.460 like i can say something and be outspoken so like you were born a certain way like how can
00:28:04.960 other people like feel like that i get that oh my gosh 10 well 11 more i'm rounding 11 more
00:28:10.160 subscribers question a lot too like how do i don't make it even better because this crazy
00:28:14.120 bitch should help me get there thanks drew stand up for myself how do i handle hate or
00:28:19.960 criticism or whatever i can't stand when influencers talk about handling hate and the
00:28:26.040 criticism you know i to be fair okay it is tough like it's different the first time it happened
00:28:34.240 i didn't really and i think one of these days because i'm a lot more grounded now my
00:28:38.900 my boyfriend grounds me i won't lie to you guys but at the time i didn't really know how to handle
00:28:48.260 like there's three hour videos on me on the internet guys and it's not like I committed a
00:28:53.540 crime you know I just said my opinion and they might not like it but and but for me to act like
00:29:04.240 any sort of victim when I get to talk for a living is just so insufferable as a human I mean you guys
00:29:10.600 do the real jobs out there you guys are the ones paving the build paving the roads building the
00:29:15.820 building i mean there's men that probably watch my channel that have 10 12 hour like construction
00:29:21.680 jobs outside and for me to say oh i can't handle comments that's why i think blue collar
00:29:28.680 they tend to be the most grounded but i'll continue the way that i do i liked oh my gosh
00:29:37.800 eight more eight more to tell people all the time i know that i am the exception to the rule because
00:29:43.620 like for a while i lived at a very like no fear like i had no fear as a child and a teen and
00:29:49.880 that's not a good thing it is okay to have a healthy dose of fear especially to protect protect
00:29:54.700 yourself so i know not everyone is like me what i encourage people who are not like me if they're
00:30:00.280 trying to learn how to become more confident in their decisions and how they speak up for
00:30:05.100 themselves whatever it may be i always encourage them to start small a lot of times when people
00:30:09.280 are are very passive five more five more and they let things happen a lot things like if they get
00:30:16.580 your coffee order wrong if they say your name wrong you're just like ah it's all right that's
00:30:21.120 where it starts it starts at little things like that if you start standing up for yourself and
00:30:25.000 advocating for yourself in little ways like that you start to build your own confidence because
00:30:29.340 you're like i mattered do you know what women and i'm gonna for the two women that watch me
00:30:35.440 i'm going to tell you the things that could actually build your confidence up
00:30:39.980 and actually not this bullshit that they tell you on the internet
00:30:43.300 um when you have a problem something you're insecure about and you can do two things one
00:30:53.540 accept that you're a flawed person and um that this is just like you know it's
00:31:02.880 It's, for example, it used to really bother me.
00:31:10.760 I was, I was messy, right?
00:31:13.020 It's just something I struggle with.
00:31:15.520 But when I just started saying, you know what?
00:31:17.680 I am messy and no one could really call it me that.
00:31:21.280 And then I started learning skills to help me in life.
00:31:24.820 that even if somebody like nags at me or whatever it's like the feeling you get when you're improving
00:31:33.480 on something that you're insecure about nobody can take that away from you and it gives you a
00:31:40.120 different type of confidence um it's the same thing with um for me eating habits like going to
00:31:50.260 the gym losing weight you might be not be as thin as you want to be but when you know you're actually
00:31:56.380 taking steps to fix something you're insecure about for me personally um and then at some
00:32:02.480 point overcome it for me that that's how i have always felt that's how i've always improved my
00:32:10.580 confidence not just this like majestical bs that they want to sell what i want matters the things
00:32:19.060 I like matter like my feelings matter all of those things yeah men don't want confident women well
00:32:24.240 that's true but I don't think men you know you might say that right and I think it's because
00:32:32.940 in our society when we see confidence we see these women that are like boisterous and very
00:32:39.380 masculine they got to be the center of attention like men don't like that type of confidence but
00:32:44.320 you don't want a woman that's so insecure that's always asking you if you're cheating
00:32:48.860 for example right that's a turn off you don't want a woman that's so insecure that you have to
00:32:54.700 be your only source of like everything you know in reality I mean I'm not going to tell you what
00:33:01.400 you want I've just what I've gotten feedback from that do you know what I mean so it's not really
00:33:08.920 about um an external confidence but internal because we're just naturally insecure and the
00:33:17.660 less insecure you are you know you don't want to be like your girlfriend's nagging you about how
00:33:22.580 she looks and saying I feel so fat like that's just annoying right what are we at are we at two
00:33:29.500 yet no I thought I saw some oh my gosh we are at two yay okay we're gonna do a we're gonna do a
00:33:37.420 happy dance okay hold on I gotta pull up the song you guys already know what song now you're a single
00:33:47.100 Mom song you already know what I'm you already know what I'm bringing up
00:34:17.100 Now you're a single mom.
00:34:19.360 Now you're a single mom.
00:34:21.540 Show the baby up.
00:34:22.800 Okay.
00:34:23.620 Now, somebody wants to.
00:34:26.940 Show the baby up.
00:34:28.280 So, all right.
00:34:31.100 So, now everybody wants to ask me, and I will answer this question.
00:34:36.940 Because, you know, people will say, how do you have 2 million subscribers and only this many live viewers?
00:34:42.200 You have to understand, live viewers, subscribers are like a different metric.
00:34:47.100 a lot of people they always accuse me of buying them i've never bought a subscriber even though
00:34:52.460 rollo slanders me with this i should i should sue for defamation i won't i won't before he
00:34:58.940 spurgs out on twitter again or something but it's because you get subscribers from shorts
00:35:05.320 and that'll up the shorts number but it doesn't necessarily translate to live viewers and i do
00:35:11.900 get a lot of subs from shorts um if you guys clip me dancing and make fun of me we're gonna have
00:35:20.620 beef okay we're gonna there's gonna be a beef but woohoo two million subscribers everybody
00:35:28.700 youtube unthrottled me all right we're gonna watch this for like five more minutes and then
00:35:34.860 i do gotta get going matter when you start walking in the belief that they matter even the most
00:35:40.700 minuscule things like they said your name wrong they called you the wrong name they didn't say
00:35:45.580 excuse me they got your order wrong like when you start like standing up for yourself that way i
00:35:49.980 think naturally over time it starts to snowball into bigger decisions like bigger ways that you
00:35:54.460 can send it for yourself if you can just rip the band you want more dancing i'll dance some more
00:36:01.420 i'll dance some more hell
00:36:03.820 no normally my lives are later um i told a friend of mine uh he my guitar teacher he puts on plays
00:36:16.880 and i've been saying i'm gonna put it i'm gonna go to one so hold up
00:36:33.820 good men but you bitches stay pregnant
00:36:39.680 what a great song what an amazing song oh actually i want to do another one
00:36:49.960 thought mommies in the club savo another one i think it was this one
00:36:58.120 i was at the club the other night i started lighting children at the club
00:37:03.000 you know I'm chillin' with this girl and she's dancin'
00:37:04.840 And it's about 2 in the morning, written up
00:37:06.800 And realize
00:37:07.400 she's like two kids at home
00:37:09.440 and I don't mind the two kids at home
00:37:11.160 That's all good
00:37:11.840 I'm like, what the fuck is you doing in the club?
00:37:13.960 At 2 in the agre Orone on a wednesday
00:37:17.320 What the fuck?
00:37:18.280 I only don't get the babysitter, call a babysitter
00:37:21.280 Hot line
00:37:23.160 Tabitha
00:37:23.760 Alright, we're gonna get the babysitter, call a babysitter
00:37:25.920 She's gonna get the babysitter
00:37:26.800 Happy
00:37:27.160 I only ever
00:37:28.280 I only don't get the babysitter, call a babysitter
00:37:29.960 She's gonna need the babysitter
00:37:31.320 My me's in the club
00:37:32.320 I'm sorry.
00:37:39.680 All right, I'm done.
00:37:40.620 I'm done.
00:37:42.000 I'm done.
00:37:43.500 Thank you guys for 2 million subscribers.
00:37:46.680 Okay, tomorrow, have you guys heard enough of this fat chick?
00:37:51.480 I think we've heard enough.
00:37:53.740 Tomorrow I'm going to do another stream.
00:37:55.860 It's going to be a normal time, 7 to 9 central.
00:37:59.660 So that's usually when I do it unless, I mean, guys, seven to nine,
00:38:04.740 sometimes I'll have family commitments or stuff, you know.
00:38:09.480 So on those days, I go a little earlier.
00:38:16.580 Clip me.
00:38:17.360 If you clip my dancing, we're going to have beef, okay?
00:38:20.160 We will beef so hard that you don't even know what to do with me.
00:38:27.320 Okay.
00:38:27.640 so i do have to go but thank you so much for two million subscribers it's been really frustrating
00:38:35.380 the last year and a half um i basically worked for free for a year and a half and i don't i don't
00:38:41.920 know if you guys have ever been i'm sure some of you have you guys have way harder lives than me but
00:38:45.540 been unemployed and so it was just a very frustrating situation because i just felt like
00:38:52.360 i was working so hard and um i just was being like i felt like i was being punished for it um
00:39:00.040 and it feels good to be back and actually have some progress because i've just been stuck for a
00:39:09.180 while um and you know i had to move i had to do all this stuff so thanks so much we also got our
00:39:17.000 first um school group member that joined after so thanks so much for joining um by the way people
00:39:23.820 that join the school group i want to give you guys a time frame i filmed a bunch of modules
00:39:28.860 there's like two more i'm waiting for the editor to get back to us um and we're moving i don't want
00:39:35.680 to say the city yet but we are moving in the next probably month or two i don't have an exact date
00:39:42.380 but i have an idea um so when we do that um once we're there we'll have the new production team
00:39:51.240 there and just a lot of things in place to really roll out content probably um july august we can
00:39:58.940 expect a bunch of stuff i'm hoping early next year i can do an event so anyways thank you so much
00:40:04.120 guys please like the video on your way out and subscribe to the channel thank you for two million
00:40:08.440 subscribers um if you want to join the um school group the link is the first link in
00:40:13.720 the description i'll see you guys next