Pearl - Modern Women Lack Hobbies; Making Them Boring And Unenjoyable ｜ Pearl Daily

00:00:00.000 good afternoon good evening ladies and gentlemen welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on

00:00:15.380 the audacity network i am your host pearl and do i have a show for you so today we are going to be

00:00:21.480 talking about what hobbies the ladies have but before we start guys if you can go to the audacity 0.97

00:00:28.760 network.com and get a monthly or yearly membership i do read your chats if you are on the website

00:00:34.680 you get unlimited chats for the year and one yearly membership pays for the show

00:00:40.760 so every so often i google my name to see what comes up and as you guys know you know

00:00:48.680 i could get into a little drama sometimes i can be a little divisive

00:00:52.520 so I get articles and hit pieces written about me all the time and normally I don't really

00:00:59.720 read them or go into them but every so often I like to see where my name is in the media

00:01:06.300 and I was thinking about the adage that men like things and women like people because that's

00:01:14.120 something I've heard my whole life that you know men are interested in things and women are

00:01:18.260 interested in people. And the data I have seen proves that to be true. I found this article that

00:01:24.240 talks about female hobbies and I found my name in it. What a coincidence. The writer seems shocked

00:01:31.800 about the general sentiment that of most people, male and female, is that women don't have real

00:01:37.240 hobbies like men do. While her article is satire, I do think it's worth going through. Women do not 1.00

00:01:44.000 have hobbies, not ones worth having anyway. Men have hobbies that benefit themselves and the women 1.00

00:01:50.420 that are with them, going to the gym, working on cars, playing a sport, video games. But what do

00:01:55.180 the ladies do for hobbies? What do we do? Makeup tutorials, social media, binge drinking. We're 1.00

00:02:04.900 ranked the number one binge drinkers. Gossiping with friends. Back in the day, women used to have 1.00

00:02:13.480 real hobbies and hobbies that could benefit the entire family in the community, like sewing,

00:02:17.820 knitting, cooking, baking. The hobbies are now frowned upon by modern women. You know, guys,

00:02:24.840 when is the last time you dated a woman that cooked better than you? Now, let's look at this

00:02:32.780 article. How women are ruining the world one hobby at a time. Today, my doctor diagnosed me 1.00

00:02:42.940 with an acute case of whiplash, which I reasonably presumed was the result of headbanging to Doja

00:02:49.400 Cat's Scarlet album for 666 minutes straight. And while listening to the satanic girly pop

00:02:58.060 certainly doesn't do women any favors, it turns out this wasn't the cause of my suffering.

00:03:03.960 Could it have been due to a recent car accident where I drove into oncoming traffic because my

00:03:09.140 uterus remembered that dogs exist no wasn't that either this about a this bout of whiplash was a

00:03:16.300 direct result of diving headfirst into the discourse surrounding women's hobbies and interests 1.00

00:03:22.780 for years I didn't even believe that women had hobbies like many others my eyes were first open

00:03:30.000 when a clip from good bro bad bro podcast went viral in 2022 I can remember the exact moment

00:03:37.000 I heard him utter the words, how many girls do you know who actually had hobbies? 0.80

00:03:45.140 A horrified gasp escaped my mouth. My crochet hook plummeted to the floor. Dread washed over me.

00:03:52.140 It was true. I'd never had a hobby. However, this sentiment is neither new nor novel.

00:03:58.020 Whistleblowers have been trying to get through to the masses for years, but no one is ready to

00:04:02.500 listen no one was ready to learn that the female race is void of any personal interests at least 1.00

00:04:08.300 of substance someone said what is your hobby divorce okay why do women less hobby oriented 1.00

00:04:21.560 than what men they can't even do their basic grammar my god okay for instance it seems that

00:04:27.740 a lot of women don't have too many hobbies where men are often into cards what cars woodworking

00:04:33.920 sports technology magic tricks art gaming electronics gadgets and other other activities

00:04:40.780 this is something that's been on my mind a lot lately when I think about my male friends and

00:04:47.600 what they do many of them have interests in hobbies for example one is a in a real film buff

00:04:54.540 some dj play guitar play football a lot of my female friends though just seem to enjoy watching 1.00

00:05:00.420 the only way is Essex and x-factor listening to whatever one radios plays and they don't ever

00:05:08.060 seem to think a film is good unless it's got a hot guy in it somewhere this is what I've been saying

00:05:13.980 and it's overly sentimental like the notebook when I think back to most of the girls I've liked

00:05:20.160 they've not, they've not been like this. They're all, they've all genuinely been interesting

00:05:25.820 people, but they're just hard to find. Even at uni, when you expect people to be a little less

00:05:30.720 mainstream as it were. Now we go back to the author. Unlike women, men have real hobbies. 0.99

00:05:38.500 Their superior pastimes include watching movies, buying smartphones and looking at cars. I have

00:05:44.700 never even seen a car. Maybe that's why I keep getting into accidents, but this really can't

00:05:49.560 be true can it because in fact well doc it is well documented that women like to charge their 1.00

00:05:55.480 phone twerk be bisexual eat hot chips and lie so why can't my girl math make sense of this equation 1.00

00:06:02.660 that sounds pretty accurate I'm not gonna lie to you guys okay the truth is women do have hobbies 0.99

00:06:10.300 they're just all bad the miracle of social media age is that we have a slew of brilliant leaders

00:06:15.980 to guide us through this confusing terrain this includes people like andrew tate pearl davis and

00:06:23.020 myron gaines the first person to ever come up with the concept of women-only gems what i've learned

00:06:29.420 from these pioneers of the manosphere is that women have a finite collection of interests and 0.97

00:06:34.300 they're usually a cover for something more sinister that their chosen hobbies are far too

00:06:39.820 delicate to be handled by the meaty hands of a mere girl don't worry i've outlined some

00:06:45.020 distractions to look for, to look out for. If she's passionate, if she says she's passionate

00:06:51.400 about makeup and fashion, what she really means is she's into manipulation and deception. Women 1.00

00:06:57.080 like this are actually energy vampires who thrive off your disappointment when you see their natural

00:07:02.480 body. Turns out her 10-inch eyelashes aren't real and her cleavage doesn't reach her chin without a 1.00

00:07:08.560 bra. She's practically a swamp creature. If your wife is getting into fitness, it's time to lock 1.00

00:07:14.500 her in the house before she starts heading to the gym because she's only going there to cheat on 1.00

00:07:19.300 you. You know, it's funny. She's, she's making this as satire. This is not unaccurate. Now it's

00:07:28.240 one thing, you know, if your girl, you found her in the gym, right? Like if you found her in the

00:07:33.240 gym and that's been a part of her life. Okay. But if she randomly got really into fitness and

00:07:42.540 nutrition i have bad news for you fellas um it will have nothing to do with her wanting to improve

00:07:50.220 her health train for a marathon or get into lifting and it definitely won't have anything 0.98

00:07:53.980 to do with it with the fact that you compared her butt to a bowl of cottage cheese cheese 1.00

00:07:59.020 see this is the thing the guys that have the balls to do that to tell their wife they're fat 1.00

00:08:03.500 they just get dumped like they don't those guys don't give you a warning right they just 0.98

00:08:13.760 you're just done like they're cheating or they're dumping you like there's no 0.99

00:08:18.200 negotiation let me let me give you a heads up no no they the guys that don't have the balls to do 0.60

00:08:27.300 that I mean they're just gonna put up with it because that's you know it's like I gotta go 0.97

00:08:32.520 another year without sex that's too much not going to do that speaking of the gym be aware

00:08:39.780 that any woman who participates in sports regularly is simply looking for an excuse to wear as little 1.00

00:08:45.760 clothing as possible even if it's literally her job especially if it's her job now I have a

00:08:50.620 personal story about this because I grew up playing volleyball and volleyball they obviously have the

00:08:56.180 spandex right we also have basketball and basketball has like knee length shorts and they

00:09:03.660 kind of dress you like a dude but women would always fight to be more naked like if if the 1.00

00:09:11.000 uniform was spandex there was always one or two girls whose spandex would be up their asshole 1.00

00:09:16.380 guys let's not pretend you don't know this you guys why else were you going to the game no one 0.99

00:09:22.020 cares about women's sports no one no one cares about it right and basketball they'd always hike 1.00

00:09:29.300 their shorts up you know now as a woman that you know grew up playing sports I could tell the

00:09:37.620 difference between a woman who actually likes the hobby and a woman who's just there to be naked but 1.00

00:09:43.620 they're definitely there for me to pretend that doesn't exist come on now for the love of God

00:09:51.780 do not let your woman observe observe the night sky seeing stars is a slippery slope to astrology 1.00

00:09:58.120 and the woo-woo the moment she founds finds out about astrology is the moment that sparkly rocks

00:10:03.980 will begin to plague your home you will step onto them they will give you boo-boos then when you go

00:10:08.580 to play poker with the boys you'll reach a set of cards and accidentally draw a tarot instead

00:10:13.340 it'll be the tower you will let every game you will lose every game that night and your mustache

00:10:18.980 will never be connected to your beard but you're probably wondering what's the hidden agenda behind

00:10:24.320 female dominated hobbies like sewing dancing and yoga honestly you're on your own there

00:10:30.860 I can only reach so far with a sore neck I'll tell you what it is overspending and community

00:10:38.760 you know I know someone that runs a yoga studio and he said they always have to make it less hard

00:10:47.040 because the ladies complain like if you want to get a good workout and you go to a female only 1.00

00:10:52.320 class I have bad news for you you're not going to be burning many calories you're not okay now

00:10:57.960 let's address some of the true crime fascination true crime is an increasingly popular genre

00:11:04.140 with the majority of its audience appearing to be women even the study of forensics has become

00:11:09.560 overrun by them making it one of the only female dominated scientific fields that's because we like 1.00

00:11:15.540 to eat blood. Some theorize that this could be due to women's keen interests in psychology, 0.99

00:11:22.780 puzzle solving, and justice. Others have pointed out that it gives a woman a sense of catharsis, 0.99

00:11:30.280 a way of taking back control over valid fears that women face. Studying cases also means

00:11:37.560 teaching potential victims how they can identify warning signs, take preventative measures,

00:11:43.820 and escape the most drastic circumstances.

00:11:47.380 Similarly, many of these factors are also mentioned

00:11:49.800 when studying male interests of content focused on war and gangs,

00:11:54.760 something that men have historically been the main target of 1.00

00:11:57.940 in terms of conscription.

00:12:01.700 So why do women like these shows? 1.00

00:12:04.040 It's probably the same reason they like dating felons,

00:12:06.720 guys with face tattoos, and emotionally distant bad boys on motorcycles,

00:12:11.300 attraction to violence and dominance simple as that you know i need to stop hearing this stuff

00:12:18.980 that women fear for their safety let me get this straight the women that are going out alone at

00:12:27.020 night that post their location on the internet travel alone abroad are worried about safety

00:12:38.280 okay sure I can totally tell the most important argument but also the most logic one logical one

00:12:48.300 so people wouldn't agree women murder a lot more than I realize some are genuinely interested in 1.00

00:12:56.180 the outcome of a documentary but some have got ideas for how to kill their partner for

00:13:02.440 life insurance money payout. But if we're being honest, our attraction to true crime is probably

00:13:11.260 chalked up to three things. Addiction to drama, sexual masochism, and the female urge to murder 0.97

00:13:18.620 their partners for life insurance. These truly are aspects unique to women. A man would never 0.97

00:13:29.180 murder his spouse, to run away with a lover in a bag full of cash. I swear Chris Watts is the only

00:13:34.820 guy to ever have done that. Don't Google it. Just trust me, bro. But above all else, the worst hobby

00:13:41.400 for a woman to have is gaming. Not many people know this, but the problem in Genesis wasn't that

00:13:47.840 Eve took an apple from the tree of knowledge. It's that she had the audacity to turn the MacBook on,

00:13:54.000 download tetris and crush adam every time he reached a new high score for this women received 1.00

00:14:00.160 the curse of painful childbirth and the duty of homemaking so they would be too busy to even

00:14:06.080 think about the video games men on the other hand would have to compensate for men for adam's

00:14:11.200 embarrassment with manual labor to prove their masculinity and motivate them to get good once

00:14:17.200 they return to the man cave but this vital lesson has been long forgotten and modern gaming has been

00:14:23.360 flooded with women once again back in the day video games were sexy female characters had big 1.00

00:14:29.760 boobs round butts and tiny waist they squeaked squeaked every time they took damage and wore 1.00

00:14:36.960 skin tight body suits and skimpy outfits no complaints there right fellas they're like hell 1.00

00:14:45.280 yeah that's what yes yes they did but since the return of gamer girls fan service has been revoked

00:14:53.680 now female characters look like this if you're wondering how this character's outfit fit doesn't 0.98

00:15:00.720 appeal to the male gaze you're probably just a woman it's okay i'm right there with you but if 1.00

00:15:06.160 you really want to understand the issue you can visit this change.org petition what is it

00:15:12.480 free stellar blade i don't know who that is it's a new game but it has a problem the content has

00:15:20.840 been censored from the original trailer hosted by sony we as gamers want this content back

00:15:26.880 okay i don't really get that but i'll keep going

00:15:31.400 wait so he's telling me they added more clothes and the guys are

00:15:42.260 oh they took her from that to this oh I can see

00:15:46.880 oh there are two different ones okay do you agree

00:16:01.400 they're like bring back the naked anime women okay so um but truth be told I'm definitely part 0.99

00:16:11.680 of the problem despite having no qualms and set with sexy characters although even an even playing

00:16:17.960 field would be net guys we have naked stripper men like shows when I went to Vegas last time 1.00

00:16:25.240 that was the number one thing i saw on posters i bet that's going to be more common i won't lie

00:16:31.940 to you guys i also take no issue with ugly characters like mary jane um the the very

00:16:38.280 sight of these women send some men into an absolute frenzy i guess just having a hard time

00:16:43.860 figuring out what overly sensitive woke behavior and what's justified male range one day i'll

00:16:49.520 evolve to understand you know i actually have strong opinions on this you know men

00:16:53.960 look at they're not that picky they're really not if you guys saw the how low men's attraction

00:17:00.460 floor is like okay when I did my show and we had a thousand women on there would be women on the 1.00

00:17:07.340 podcast that I would deem as fat that I would look at them and I would say that woman is fat not 0.53

00:17:12.500 chubby fat and after the show the guys were talking about how she had big boobs it's like 1.00

00:17:21.460 a woman will have one positive feature one and the men will disregard all the ugly or the fat 0.99

00:17:32.220 they're like you know what that's good enough but where men don't like this what they don't like is 0.94

00:17:38.140 to see like when they go to a titty magazine right they expect there to be perfect boobs it doesn't 1.00

00:17:46.040 mean that their girlfriend has to have perfect boobs but when they have a spider-man movie 1.00

00:17:52.720 and their childhood mary jane was a hot redhead and they go in and see zendaya who again she's 0.98

00:18:03.020 cute most guys would be like for a girlfriend good enough good enough i'll take it but they're like

00:18:09.960 this is tv I'm supposed to see Megan Fox I'm supposed to see whatever the actress's name

00:18:17.860 was Mary that was Mary Jane Pamela Anderson level that's where the disconnect is it's when

00:18:25.620 it's higher than it's supposed to be now the author goes back to say

00:18:33.360 so I have to admit I'm not sure where to place myself I grew up with video games with my parents

00:18:39.880 cousins and friends throughout the entirety of my childhood but my mere existence is suddenly the

00:18:44.840 cause of there being a few less games that double as sperm bank material people want us to prove we

00:18:51.320 have hobbies but the moment a woman coughs in a game chat she's barraged with sexual harassment

00:18:58.360 relentless threats baseless insults which is not much much different than what happens when we

00:19:05.080 enter a gym a comedy club an athletic field or a tech startup and again this is why women have 1.00

00:19:12.520 a tendency to ruin men's spaces men are so much funnier than us and i know this because i'm kind

00:19:19.240 of funny for a woman you guys aren't going to humble me today i'm funny for a woman and the

00:19:23.960 thing is but compared to like a male comedian it's just not close like nikki glazer whatever i don't

00:19:30.600 I don't even know if I'm saying her last name right, blonde, tall woman. 1.00

00:19:33.800 She's funny.

00:19:34.360 She's actually funny.

00:19:38.040 But compared to Dave Chappelle, it's not even close.

00:19:44.880 You know what I mean?

00:19:45.360 It's not.

00:19:47.680 And the reason men are funny is they're just a lot more direct. 0.96

00:19:51.720 And they roast the crap out of each other. 0.91

00:19:53.900 You know, my brother played some shooting game.

00:19:57.160 I don't know.

00:19:57.760 I don't really care what it is.

00:19:58.780 but i would listen to him we shared a vent when i was younger and i would listen to the things

00:20:04.860 his best friends would say to him and i'm talking racial insults sexist insults calling each other 0.95

00:20:13.580 idiot they're not very nice and as women we couldn't take it but the guys it's weird they'll 0.98

00:20:19.660 just insult each other really bad and then be best friends i'm like i okay anyways so she says but we 1.00

00:20:29.660 ask for it because we're existing in men's spaces maybe the real problem is that some men are

00:20:35.260 uncomfortable when girls have hobbies and interests that don't directly serve them 0.99

00:20:39.820 because really what purpose does a man a woman have outside of being barefoot 0.99

00:20:45.100 a barefoot home appliance after all the devil loves idle hands and women who wear shoes 1.00

00:20:53.660 so this is the article that was written it's obviously satire

00:21:00.700 now the writer of this article was again trying to be funny trying that's the that's

00:21:07.260 That's, we just don't, we're just not that funny, you know.

00:21:13.940 But she misses a really great point.

00:21:16.840 Men have hobbies and women can't stand them. 1.00

00:21:20.660 The first thing a woman does in a relationship with a man is expect him to give up what he likes to give her more attention. 1.00

00:21:30.460 Gone are the days of playing video games for an afternoon after a long, hard day of work.

00:21:37.260 You now have to go to her sister's friend's event that you don't care about.

00:21:43.940 Remember women want women to change as things get more, remember women want men to change 1.00

00:21:50.760 as things get more serious in a relationship where men want women to stay the same. 0.82

00:21:58.120 They're like, please have sex with me as much as when we first met, please. 0.90

00:22:04.880 You don't have to do anything. 0.94

00:22:05.880 be be exactly this way please nag at me as little as when we first met i'll one a week it's fine 0.87

00:22:17.640 but please i just don't need the nagging every single day i don't and the women think hmm 0.74

00:22:25.160 okay he's hot but he's broke

00:22:29.560 let me let me fix that let me inspire him let me build a man

00:22:35.880 and then the men secretly hate you that's really how it goes i mean they're like forced to stay

00:22:48.800 because like they're good people and they're like i have a kid and a wife i can't leave

00:22:52.220 but they don't they stop you know enjoying being around you can you um

00:22:59.000 now I want to talk about the life cycle of male hobbies and the way that the life cycle of male

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00:24:47.820 code now i want to talk about the modern life cycle of male hobbies so what tends to happen

00:24:55.420 is men make something really cool they get together and men just naturally are inventors

00:25:01.580 they've invented 90 plus percent of the world's things and when women invent something 1.00

00:25:07.580 it's always something we don't really need like a pair of pants and i'd like to say this isn't

00:25:12.220 all women this isn't all men no generalities here i would never make those um but if we're

00:25:18.460 going to go based on patterns data and trends examples of things that men invented bitcoin

00:25:26.300 hunting men started bodybuilding weightlifting golf sports anime

00:25:33.900 so they'll make something awesome and the women you know they'll come in 1.00

00:25:42.220 they'll come in and say, I want to be a part of the cool thing. And the men, you know, the men

00:25:50.120 like hot women. So if women they could have sex with, say they want to join the game, the cosplay, 0.99

00:26:00.260 I mean, they're not against it, right? But this doesn't come without a price. 0.93

00:26:07.080 so the first thing that'll happen is the ladies will get in get in and they will complain how 1.00

00:26:16.860 there's not enough opportunity for them even though they are more than likely being given

00:26:22.180 special treatment and all the men get together and they think that woman has gotten 10 times

00:26:29.500 the amount of opportunity for five percent of the work and she's complaining about oppression

00:26:36.500 But if I have to argue with her that she's not oppressed, it's going to make my life hell.

00:26:43.980 She's going to go around and destroy my reputation and just ruin my life. 1.00

00:26:56.620 So I'm just going to let her think that.

00:27:00.360 And the women get their coalition together where they cry about the oppression that's not there.

00:27:06.980 and the men are like you know what if they're complaining i just have better to do

00:27:10.500 i don't want to worry about this go ahead complain i might even nod along as you cry 0.89

00:27:16.740 whatever just let me play my video games please put the boobs out okay so you know the women will 1.00

00:27:24.820 say like in gaming they'll say there's some oppression and that's why they can't be as good

00:27:31.460 now the next thing the women do is they need to get attention in that space so they either go in 1.00

00:27:36.260 they're looking for a husband probably not a husband probably probably just a simp you know 1.00

00:27:42.260 what i mean like let's just be honest here the gen z women rank men seventh in terms of priorities 1.00

00:27:50.260 millennials it's like fourth maybe they're there for a hookup i don't know the next thing they do 1.00

00:27:58.500 is they get naked so you know the tits will come out the boobs will come out the ass everything 1.00

00:28:07.940 gets shorter and then you get the naked anime women you know i went to a convention the other 0.99

00:28:19.620 day and there's all these half naked women but then what'll happen is you know the women initiate 1.00

00:28:26.420 the sexuality first right they start by getting naked wearing revealing clothes and we we're not 0.99

00:28:31.940 stupid as ladies you know do you know why american pie was such a popular movie because so many guys 1.00

00:28:42.820 could relate to wanting to have sex with a pie maybe not a pie but like you know it spoke to 1.00

00:28:50.100 the male sex drive which is they got a lot of testosterone it just is what it is so the women 1.00

00:28:56.020 will get naked and they'll say men don't think about sex and the men are like why are you here 1.00

00:29:03.860 the men will say you're naked and the women will say you're a perv and a pedophile i'm gonna 0.99

00:29:12.980 i'm gonna sue you for discrimination that's what we're gonna do now i'd like to say not all women 0.98

00:29:21.860 not all men this isn't every single one you know the other i guess the other caveats i'll put some

00:29:28.100 women get into a hobby because their dad or brothers liked it you know my producer sister 1.00

00:29:35.540 can build anything because he taught her i think someone taught him i don't know who but

00:29:42.260 but you know some some girls grow up like that 1.00

00:29:45.460 it's not the norm it's not it's the exception it's not the rule so there's a caveat right

00:29:53.740 you know occasionally they're truly interested in things but

00:29:59.800 now the thing is women have a tendency to only like to applaud hobbies that benefit them so you 0.93

00:30:10.220 don't really see women completely hating on bitcoin right because bitcoin you can go into

00:30:16.700 the bitcoin niche nab a bitcoin guy you're never working again congratulations ladies i've given

00:30:23.940 you the cheat code now one hobby that does not benefit women is video games what do women get

00:30:32.600 out of their guy playing video games why should he enjoy himself is really the thought process why

00:30:39.360 Why should he enjoy himself when he could be doing something that benefits me?

00:30:44.520 And so you'll see the ladies nag on video games and talk about how bad they are. 1.00

00:30:49.680 And the simp, what the simp men will do is they'll say, you're right, we shouldn't play

00:30:53.140 video games.

00:30:54.640 How many, what's your screen, my answer would be what's your screen time?

00:31:00.560 Because women go on social media, we waste so much time on social media. 1.00

00:31:05.860 So here we go, woman complaining about hobbies. 1.00

00:31:09.360 the name of Vichelle for some comments that we made on last night's show in case you missed it.

00:31:16.320 I feel so appreciative that my boyfriend doesn't play video games. I know when you're saying no no

00:31:22.340 no it's social and no no they're not just nerds it's still a game. If I go around to a guy's house

00:31:28.360 actually I did this a couple of weeks ago and we watched a DVD yeah and he put it in a like a Sony

00:31:34.540 playstation oh did you really match straight away yes like it's hard enough to get text messages

00:31:40.380 back from guys i don't need to now compete with a freaking game okay so off the back of those 0.54

00:31:46.220 so she's admitting it there women do not like anything that does not benefit them 1.00

00:31:51.660 and that takes attention off of them

00:31:56.380 you want to play video games for eight hours instead of talk to me

00:32:00.860 the men are like yes

00:32:05.480 they're like that's exactly what i want

00:32:11.120 okay next oh we have that one i watched with this we watched this

00:32:19.100 okay we're gonna do a full show on this a different day but liz wheeler conservative 0.89

00:32:26.740 commentator and this is the conservative female commentator lifestyle cycle is it always ends 1.00

00:32:32.200 with nagging men to be better even though you're a literal commentator you know what i mean it's

00:32:37.260 like if you're gonna say the men aren't doing enough and they're not manly enough i expect you

00:32:43.100 to have gotten married at 22 and be a trad way do you know what i mean like if you're gonna and i

00:32:50.480 have you guys as stats ladies that's the expectation I have all right five-year-old 1.00

00:32:56.260 commentator known for her outspoken views recently took to Twitter with a bold claim

00:33:01.120 she said that playing video games is a major red flag for women and even went so far as to call it

00:33:07.760 a deal breaker Liz wasn't talking about classic arcade games like Pac-Man Pyatt says I'm so happy

00:33:15.860 my ex-wife left me you know what i need this as a i need to do this as a show too you know when

00:33:22.660 guys are done with the relationship but they know if they dump the girl there's going to be a full 0.76

00:33:27.700 flown blow up have you ever have you guys ever tried to get a woman to dump you

00:33:33.940 if you have put your strategy of what you did in the comments because i'm going to do a whole

00:33:39.060 show on that when women when men want a woman to dump him i mean terrence gave a great strategy 0.98

00:33:47.060 you gotta cry in front of her over something stupid she's like is it a hard day at work no 1.00

00:33:56.820 did someone die no i just saw a puppy video today 1.00

00:34:01.540 oh too funny man or tetris no she meant the more immersive and time-consuming games that millions

00:34:13.120 of men enjoy to back up her point and by the way it's the simps that back up these ladies 0.91

00:34:20.280 so when the women go together and say men should not play video games i just want you to know if

00:34:27.240 guys get manipulated by that your simp and you got some work to do i don't know what you got to do

00:34:32.040 with your life to wonder why you would ever go wrong you know to change your behavior based on

00:34:40.680 a nag like that's the you have to understand every time women nag they're saying give me control of 1.00

00:34:45.640 what you do and the low iq the low woman iq men they'll sign up they'll say oh yeah this will 0.83

00:34:54.200 this will make her happy but the high woman iq men know that as soon as they give her control 1.00

00:35:00.920 she becomes a terrorist have you you know most men when they get divorced they don't see it coming

00:35:07.980 they think she's happy you know they're like we haven't fought but the high iq men with women

00:35:15.800 they're like oh no you gotta you gotta start a fight or like get some drama make her think

00:35:22.080 you're cheating even if you're not make her you know some guys will say i'm mad at you in the 0.97

00:35:28.460 morning not text her all day so she'll freak out and then say oh never mind i forgot

00:35:37.500 the strategies i've heard from guys to keep us entertained are so funny oh my god they're so

00:35:48.000 funny. And I'm not saying this is right. You know what I mean? I'm not saying this is good. This is

00:35:53.880 where, oh my gosh. So this is how the conversation goes between the traditional conservatives and

00:36:01.760 the red pill. The red pill says, hey, if your wife thinks you're cheating, she's going to treat you 1.00

00:36:09.260 better. Do with this information what you want. If your wife, if you flirt with other women in 0.95

00:36:17.440 front of your wife your wife is going to be a better wife if you make it her sure that you're 0.99

00:36:25.900 not cheating she's going to treat you bad and the morality police comes in and says that's wrong 1.00

00:36:34.660 you shouldn't do that and the the guys in the red pill are like hey I got my wife to not leave me

00:36:43.120 over by doing this i'm not saying you should do it i'm saying this worked for me then the morality

00:36:49.840 people come in and just say ah you can't upset women that's so wrong i don't know which i don't

00:37:01.040 know which one of you in the chat i know so there's there's 900 people in here

00:37:05.120 somebody has simped in your lifetime some woman has got you on this 1.00

00:37:08.880 and you know i don't know who it was but so like someone did and ladies the two women in the chat 1.00

00:37:19.380 let's not pretend we haven't done it this isn't like a conscious thing for us right it's not like

00:37:23.800 we're diabolically planning to do these things but women have a nature right we we just have 1.00

00:37:33.480 kind of a hardwiring that is how we are, where we just like drama.

00:37:40.800 It's why I like cultural commentary over political commentary, and most female commentators 1.00

00:37:45.820 are the same.

00:37:47.260 It's way more entertaining to us, where the men are like, what specific laws are being

00:37:52.820 passed?

00:37:53.820 I mean, Candace Owens is out here trying to figure out some French man's wife is a dude. 1.00

00:38:03.460 i find it very entertaining but i know if i brought that to my dad he would say who cares

00:38:09.460 i don't care what executive orders did trump sign

00:38:16.980 we're different right the sexes are different 1.00

00:38:22.740 and what the red pill does and if you guys want if you guys there's really good resources um

00:38:29.540 for men that can help you navigate these problems and give you a guy not me right i don't i don't

00:38:34.900 date women i can't help you with that i'm here to put on an entertaining show but the morality people

00:38:44.580 who are very obviously simps normally like they're just normally simps like that's just

00:38:49.140 the default for them the morality police so you know they'll come in and lecture the red pill guys 1.00

00:38:56.660 so to speak and say you're immoral you're immoral and they're like look your wife has 0.97

00:39:03.940 every single sign of divorcing you in five years and we all know what's going to happen like

00:39:09.700 crowder crowder morality policed everyone and then his wife falsely accused him and we all

00:39:17.860 saw it coming for years years i you know i can talk to a guy i can have about two conversations

00:39:25.060 with a guy and figure out if he's going to get a divorce in the next decade i can pretty because

00:39:31.860 it's really more in the man's mentality and granted because divorce is more of the default

00:39:38.580 but it's really obvious when a man's wife runs the show like if a guy says i can't move because 1.00

00:39:46.340 of my wife who runs the show him or her if he says and to be fair men are given no authority 0.99

00:39:54.500 in this society this isn't an easy thing to do but it all comes down to does the guy have the balls

00:40:01.460 to walk away and the thing is the problem the morality police tells them generally will tell 0.96

00:40:09.620 them that you are immoral and you're going to hell if you walk away even if your wife doesn't sleep 0.95

00:40:14.420 with you even if your wife cheated you know i went on michael knowles and he said no divorce for 0.98

00:40:20.260 a man that was a victim of paternity fraud paternity fraud your wife not only cheated 0.64

00:40:27.940 but got pregnant by another dude this guy is supposed to represent traditional catholics

00:40:33.700 that's his position now i'm not saying that's you know the position of what the catholic church

00:40:39.700 would be i'm saying that's the comment right but that's not abnormal from the morality police right

00:40:48.420 right is and so but the women they know that right they know he can't leave no matter how bad i am

00:40:55.520 and so they'll do this sorry i'm getting on a tangent let me go back into the hobbies i

00:41:02.400 apologize i am sorry go to the audacity network.com spend 80 bucks a show and i'll stay more on topic

00:41:09.520 sorry and and you guys can see all my old episodes so if you guys remember cheska for

00:41:17.000 og fans you can go see cheska screaming on the audacity network video games has the least

00:41:22.680 attractive hobby for men according to women but here's the kicker the data wasn't based on any

00:41:28.920 actual study it was just her opinion and oh boy did the internet have something to say about it

00:41:37.080 the backlash and by the way look when a woman likes you 1.00

00:41:45.560 she'll play the video games with you that this is the thing this is the discord right right 0.89

00:41:52.840 the women that don't actually like their husbands are revealing themselves because you know guys 1.00

00:42:00.600 I went to an anime convention I don't like anime no offense no offense to the anime watchers

00:42:07.780 my boyfriend got he got me to go to an anime convention

00:42:11.460 and I had so much fun it was amazing and here here's the thing when women actually 1.00

00:42:19.300 like a guy they do the hobbies they don't like I've seen women in camo hunting do you think 1.00

00:42:24.800 that woman wants to hunt you know i explained this to my dad once i really did because we went on this

00:42:33.700 family vacation and i was trying to explain to him that i just don't really like dirt biking and

00:42:37.740 we've done four-wheeling and dirt biking my whole life on these family vacations okay and i know

00:42:43.200 that sounds so spoiled you're thinking what a brat you're such a brat nobody gets to go dirt 1.00

00:42:48.600 biking and four-wheeling that sounds amazing look i'm sorry i just don't like it that much 0.97

00:42:55.080 like i'm a woman and one of the days okay one of the days i ditched i'm sorry i'm still a woman you

00:43:03.480 know i talk about these trends i don't say i'm above any of them okay i ditched going four-wheeling

00:43:09.160 like in utah to go get wine with my brother's wife there was a wine bar nearby and i just

00:43:21.720 i just you know i was like if i have to pick one it had moscato you know it had the little glasses

00:43:28.920 it was just really and my dad just couldn't he's like why would i brought you all the way to utah

00:43:35.880 and you decided to go drink wine you could have drunk wine in Chicago

00:43:46.820 and I had to explain to him I'm like dad it's been all these years and you've taken me on all

00:43:54.260 these trips and you're the best person ever and my dad really is he's the best person ever

00:43:59.120 I will never say a bad word about my father ever because I couldn't I literally couldn't

00:44:03.340 And I'm like, dad, dad, I do these hobbies because I love you.

00:44:12.860 I don't like them.

00:44:16.540 I don't like four wheeling.

00:44:20.260 And I've done it for a decade every year time we go.

00:44:25.380 I want to go drink wine.

00:44:28.980 And I know that's how you guys feel when the women drag you to all these events. 0.70

00:44:32.640 you don't want to go to and one day you look back and it's been a decade and you're like I love the

00:44:39.820 woman but god I hate going to these and I don't I don't hate four-wheeling right I don't hate it I

00:44:46.080 just I'm just not that outdoorsy okay you know some people are born

00:44:56.740 pearl in her silver spoon to love i knew you guys were gonna do that but you know i can either tell

00:45:04.580 you stories about my life or lie about it you know do you know what i mean it's just i'm gonna be

00:45:10.240 honest you know and this this is the thing about women when we actually like the guy because you 1.00

00:45:19.200 guys are entertaining you're way more entertaining in general than women you know there's the 1.00

00:45:24.280 occasional woman that's entertaining like roseanne barr nikki what the hell was her name nikki glazer 1.00

00:45:30.680 whatever whatever her name is but that's just not you guys are our entertainment and i don't just

00:45:38.580 mean in like a romantic way like when a woman loves her brother she'll she'll go do what he's

00:45:46.440 doing or her dad or whoever it is the women that don't actually like the men around them 0.61

00:45:54.180 nag on them about their hobbies but the women that actually like the men think they're cool 0.89

00:46:00.620 now they're saying pearl lied to her dad for a decade okay you know what it's not it's not that

00:46:10.720 i hate four-wheeling it's just once a year is enough for me and we don't even go that often

00:46:17.000 anymore it's just if i had to pick me and my brother's fiance we got the wine you know it's

00:46:23.420 lot of fun this was swift and loud many men fired back with one saying we'd rather play video games

00:46:31.220 than deal with modern women another added but men don't really care about your list lol 0.55

00:46:37.660 others pointed out that men shouldn't have to define their hobbies based on what women find 0.99

00:46:43.160 attractive one person that's an alpha male he said i don't give a fuck i hope you hate my hobbies 0.98

00:46:52.220 bitch give me my anime even compared it to women's obsessions with things like taylor swift and 1.00

00:46:59.300 astrology which men might not find appealing but generally accept liz wasn't done though 0.94

00:47:05.780 in a follow-up live stream she doubled down on her original statement she claimed that her tweet

00:47:12.840 resonated with women because it's true and again but it goes back to this is the concept women 0.99

00:47:19.060 don't like their husbands and it's so obvious happy wife happy life why why is it happy wife 0.96

00:47:29.340 because the woman's never happy why did they why did they divorce their husbands in mass 1.00

00:47:35.200 women just don't like men that much in general i hate to be the bearer of bad news but if we did

00:47:45.600 we wouldn't be 170 pounds sorry while she admitted she faced a lot of backlash she stood by her 0.60

00:47:54.720 observation according to her women just don't find gaming attractive in men liz argued that

00:48:02.060 video games shouldn't define a man's identity and that if someone felt personally said pearl

00:48:06.960 you've broken your father's heart i did a little bit i won't even lie to you guys i did

00:48:12.660 i just you know i just had to have an understanding going into adulthood

00:48:22.220 it was because they were overly invested in their gaming life she reiterated that it wasn't a

00:48:28.700 personal insult just an objective observation though of course it was really just her subjective

00:48:35.180 opinion this raises a question is there any truth to her claim or is this just another polarizing

00:48:42.320 hot take interestingly okay now

00:48:50.480 so back to what happens with men's hobbies i want to do a recap

00:48:58.560 men make something awesome like bitcoin gaming the gym hunting golf

00:49:03.200 they complain the women join the male dominated hobby or industry the women complain there's not

00:49:10.720 enough opportunity for them and said hobby or industry they get naked have or have a lot of 0.83

00:49:16.160 sex with the men in the industry file a lawsuit and then nag their husband or boyfriend about 1.00

00:49:23.600 the hobby if they don't follow option one and the only hobbies that women like are the ones that 1.00

00:49:31.200 benefit them now what happens with women hobbies so women have a tendency to complain about how 1.00

00:49:38.400 hard their hobbies are like cooking cleaning makeup sewing child rearing and then eventually

00:49:45.440 there's a lot of money that comes into a male a female hobby because women make up 80 of consumer 1.00

00:49:51.440 buying decisions so you know women like going to restaurants so the so that becomes a big industry

00:49:59.760 makeup tutorials become a big industry so money then goes into the female hobby

00:50:06.000 and a man comes in and dominates the top youtubers are gay men that are the top makeup youtubers are 0.71

00:50:15.180 gay men the top Michelin chefs are men a study conducted in 2022 found that of 2,286 Michelin

00:50:23.780 starred restaurants spanning 16 countries just six percent are women of our women

00:50:30.080 um are owned by women men raise better children with single father homes having the same outcomes

00:50:39.480 as two parents and um the hobby then moves so then women have a tendency to not be able to compete 1.00

00:50:48.020 in the real world where it's based on competence so what happens is the hobby moves to social media

00:50:53.000 where women can put in be where women can be 10 as talented and get a thousand percent of the views 0.99

00:50:58.960 because women have their looks and the woman either has a male audience who wants to sleep 1.00

00:51:05.240 with her or a female audience who wants to see an average woman get above average results 1.00

00:51:10.600 a example of this is music music used to be male dominated and um now

00:51:19.860 and so back when it was more male dominated we have michael jackson here this might copyright

00:51:28.960 So I'm going to I'm going to start and stop it a couple of times.

00:51:41.960 So we got, you know, Michael Jackson, he's dancing.

00:51:46.960 Oh, they say mute it. OK.

00:51:48.960 OK, we got, you know, he's dancing.

00:51:51.960 He's a performer, right? I mean, look at this.

00:51:57.440 amazing singer then versus Taylor Swift now she's not bad but

00:52:11.760 even here the men are doing most of the work she's barely dancing 0.98

00:52:18.720 look at this the men are all dancing and she's standing there 0.97

00:52:22.320 i could do the same thing with bruno mars

00:52:27.060 so now we're going to take some videos of the ladies talking about how they have no hobbies 1.00

00:52:34.580 and they admit this themselves and so i feel like i have this super irrational fear that actually

00:52:41.620 makes no sense the complete fear of somebody asking you what your hobbies are i'm terrified

00:52:47.160 of people asking me things about myself i literally can't handle playing get to know you

00:52:51.740 games because it's like, I have to say stuff about myself that other people are supposed to find

00:52:56.240 interesting, but nothing about me is interesting enough for me to tell other people. Also, another

00:53:00.420 problem is as soon as somebody asks you what your hobbies are, you're expected to say stereotypical

00:53:05.140 things that normal people do, like organized groups, clubs, or sports. I literally do none of

00:53:10.640 those things. What am I supposed to say? I feel like every time somebody asks me what my hobbies

00:53:14.840 are, I literally forget everything I've ever done in my entire life. It's like as soon as somebody

00:53:19.540 asks me what i do in my free time i realize that i do nothing in my free time and i'm basically a

00:53:26.180 completely worthless human being hi my name's susan what's yours oh i'm andrea it's nice to

00:53:31.800 meet you you too what are your hobbies i play volleyball tennis i'm president of my student

00:53:36.320 government and i take violin lessons nice hi my name's susan what's yours oh i'm andrea it's nice

00:53:42.240 to meet you you too what are your hobbies i'm gonna be honest with you i basically just watch

00:53:48.480 the office until 3am, I eat because I'm bored, and then I binge play Super Mario 64 over and over

00:53:56.160 again. Oh, that's cool. So basically the reason why I hate people asking me my hobbies is because

00:54:03.140 I finally have to come to terms with the fact that I've really accomplished not that much in

00:54:07.880 my life. Also, there's one thing that trumps all the bad hobbies. That is the fear of accidentally

00:54:13.800 saying a demonstrative hobby. You probably have no idea what a

00:54:17.220 demonstrative hobby is because I basically just coined that term by myself

00:54:20.940 five minutes ago. Essentially what a demonstrative hobby is is something that

00:54:24.540 you tell somebody that you're good at and then they ask you to demonstrate it

00:54:28.740 for them. This is particularly a struggle for me because most of my hobbies that

00:54:32.700 aren't like Netflix and stuff just so happen to be demonstrative hobbies. These

00:54:36.900 could include things like singing, playing an instrument that's readily

00:54:40.080 available to you at the time or having a youtube channel people always want you to sing for them

00:54:44.960 or play them a song or show them your youtube channel and the videos that you've made and this

00:54:50.320 may seem completely normal of course if you tell people that you have an interest in something

00:54:54.560 they assume that you're readily available to show it to them and share your passion with them

00:54:59.360 basically but if you're anything like me even if i'm really proud of a youtube video it's kind of

00:55:03.760 difficult for me to show it to somebody because okay girl number one no hobbies

00:55:11.360 next girl says she has no hobbies is anyone else embarrassed to admit that they don't have hobbies

00:55:16.480 because i don't really have hobbies and for some reason i feel really embarrassed to say that

00:55:20.960 like it makes me really boring or like like very one-dimensional i do have things i do on the daily

00:55:27.200 like pilates or hanging out with my dog um that bring me joy or not even something as extremist

00:55:32.240 joy just bring me like peace and balance that i love to do i don't know for some reason calling

00:55:36.400 working out a hobby just doesn't seem to kind of fit in the mold of like maybe what a hobby is

00:55:41.760 or maybe i just like completely don't have the right definition of hobby in my mind

00:55:45.760 but whenever i like meet new friends and they're like oh what are your hobbies like i really don't

00:55:49.360 know what to say um sometimes i'll say wine because that is something i truly enjoy and

00:55:53.840 then i'm actively learning about i do like wine i do i don't have it often because it makes you

00:56:01.040 kind of fat but even saying like wine as a hobby like it doesn't sound like building models or like

00:56:06.960 cycling or like hiking every day or something like that but also like i'm just a normal adult

00:56:11.760 who works who needs down time and who just needs to chill and sometimes chilling just looks like

00:56:16.560 going on tick tock and being entertained but at the same time like women's hobby is social media 1.00

00:56:22.240 and it's 10 times more destructive than men's hobbies women get on social media and leave their

00:56:28.800 family and cheat on their husband. Men play video games. I don't really think it causes

00:56:38.860 school shootings or anything like that. I really haven't seen a correlation. I don't

00:56:43.880 think that's common. But it's not uncommon for women to leave their husbands off of social 0.99

00:56:51.980 media. I did a space the other day and there's a guy who said he lost his Mormon wife. He

00:56:57.960 had a mormon virgin she left him she got on facebook that'll do it spend our free time with

00:57:05.980 like the active pursuit of something sometimes the next one another girl with no hobbies does

00:57:14.680 anyone else just like not have any hobbies i don't know maybe it started with covid and just over the

00:57:20.500 last three years like things being crazy but if you ask me like what are your hobbies what do you

00:57:25.560 like to do i don't think i have an answer to you other than go on my phone watch tv and like work

00:57:32.660 i don't even really know where i would start with finding a hobby um do you guys have any

00:57:37.640 suggestions of like things that i can try that are maybe kind of low commitment or like not really

00:57:42.800 expensive because i am totally at a loss if you have any suggestions of hobbies that i should try

00:57:48.180 out please please please let me know that her hobby is seeking validation attention and avoiding

00:57:54.780 responsibility maybe the amish have a point about technology okay then go join it 0.97

00:58:04.940 go join no no no no go join it really truly seriously go join the amish this is the tick 1.00

00:58:15.340 how many girls do you know that sparked the debate don't actually have how many girls do you know 0.99

00:58:20.700 actually have hobbies um honestly okay hear me out he's kind of right like i don't really have

00:58:30.140 hobbies like i i breathe and um i um i go like and i click my nail okay the guys have left

00:58:39.660 what is he talking about first of all this very app we're on wouldn't exist without women's hobbies 0.98

00:58:47.900 witch talk messy talk knitting talk um okay so again the hobby is is tick tock lgbt top

00:58:57.420 every type of tick tock dancing tick tock would not exist without women's hobbies facebook you 0.87

00:59:04.460 are so not like becoming a ballerina or professional dancer tick tock dances again

00:59:10.860 not right or wrong but let's let's just kind of call it what it is bernie know what goes down

00:59:14.540 their instagram has a whole section of modeling because women's hobbies yeah because they know 1.00

00:59:19.820 because the ladies couldn't do real modeling so then they did instagram modeling are looking good 1.00

00:59:24.780 in photos what is he what what are men's she just proved his point she just literally besides

00:59:32.540 getting on a mic and ridiculing women as a way to like make you feel better about yourself are you

00:59:37.340 jealous so women's hobbies are that is a hobby that is a true hobby that's funny so 1.00

00:59:48.380 not only do women not have hobbies in general but they will shame a man for having his hobbies 1.00

00:59:54.540 how many stories do we hear of women that want their man to stop watching football 1.00

00:59:58.300 stop playing video games to stop watching anime and they even use psy language to shame a man

01:00:03.580 into giving up what he loves ladies if you're with a guy and he'd rather watch football or

01:00:09.100 play video games than talk to you that's a you problem and you gotta ask yourself why are you so

01:00:17.740 boring you can't do anything to get your i mean if you can't if you get i'm just thinking if

01:00:27.900 you gotta if you can't get naked and get his attention i'm just saying women have that card 1.00

01:00:34.640 and men don't have that card the same way women do and he's still okay anyways we're gonna keep

01:00:42.580 going so women gives good advice about husband's hobby has this hobby or this one thing that he 1.00

01:00:52.860 makes sure that he does all the time. If he's a golfer, maybe he goes golfing every weekend in

01:00:58.660 the summer and you'd rather be going to the beach and it's super annoying. Or if he's a gamer like

01:01:04.320 my husband, you know, he gets home from work every night and he just plops himself down and doesn't

01:01:10.300 worry about anything else and just wants to be there. Or if he's a gym guy, he makes sure that

01:01:18.100 he gets to the gym every single day for his hour whatever time it is and and if you're anything

01:01:24.500 like me you can get frustrated and be like how can he just drop everything and not worry about

01:01:31.440 the million things that have to get done and yeah women are jealous of men's ability to be content 1.00

01:01:37.920 men will be living on a mat with a mattress on the floor in an empty apartment and think it's

01:01:45.220 pretty great and women will look at the same apartment and say how is he happy with this

01:01:54.980 do his thing how can he do that and it can feel so guys hit the like button a like is free we

01:02:01.620 should have a thousand likes in here fair especially if you feel like you're not able

01:02:06.420 to do that for yourself but here's the thing my love you have the responsibility to do that for

01:02:14.340 yourself as well. So instead of getting frustrated at your husband and resentful, take his self-care

01:02:22.740 as a reminder or a cue for you to turn around and say, oh, maybe I'm frustrated because I'm

01:02:31.480 supposed to be doing that for myself as well and I'm not doing it. Make the time, make the space,

01:02:38.060 make it a priority to do the things you love and truly take good care of yourself

01:02:45.940 take good care of your joy that is your responsibility yeah many times women have 1.00

01:02:53.740 a tendency to blame men for their lack of happiness your happiness is your own responsibility and if

01:03:00.000 you don't have hobbies it's pretty easy to pick one up on youtube you can learn to cook you can

01:03:04.060 learn to sew you can learn to knit we are in the information age where age where you can literally

01:03:08.860 learn anything on the internet doug mpa our moderator says leave find a hobby and leave

01:03:17.900 your husband's alone um doug also says zendaya was a hotter mary jane than kristin dunst i don't

01:03:27.840 think i saw that version but anyways guys let me know what you think in the comments if you can go

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01:03:50.700 youtube rep is watching this then i don't know what i am talking about thanks so much for watching

01:03:55.840 guys please like the video on your way out and subscribe and I will see you guys tomorrow bye

Pearl - January 24, 2025

Modern Women Lack Hobbies; Making Them Boring And Unenjoyable ｜ Pearl Daily

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