Pearl - Modern Women Love Alternative Medicine (Call-in Show)

00:00:00.080 Most young men are single. Most young women are not.

00:00:03.380 Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.

00:00:08.060 It's a different world now. Like, we don't need men the way that they used to.

00:00:11.100 Nobody needs men!

00:00:12.340 The future is female.

00:00:15.400 Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.

00:00:21.940 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of merit.

00:00:25.200 We've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.

00:00:27.740 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.

00:00:31.460 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.

00:00:35.560 Marriage is a bond and it's a sacred bond.

00:00:38.180 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.

00:00:41.200 Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.

00:00:46.100 Hannah Pearl Davis or just pearly things.

00:00:49.820 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.

00:00:53.440 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.

00:00:56.240 Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.

00:01:01.500 Gee, what could go wrong there?

00:01:03.600 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.

00:01:07.240 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.

00:01:10.120 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.

00:01:12.780 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

00:01:17.740 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.

00:01:20.940 You need no evidence.

00:01:22.060 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for.

00:01:25.680 and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.

00:01:29.140 I interviewed them on the other side.

00:01:31.680 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

00:01:33.980 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

00:01:36.120 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:01:38.460 Before you know it, you're homeless.

00:01:39.900 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.

00:01:41.800 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.

00:01:44.240 Wives are taught to leave their husbands

00:01:45.920 and then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:01:48.500 Family is the foundation of society.

00:01:50.220 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.

00:01:53.200 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.

00:01:57.700 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.

00:01:59.680 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.

00:02:01.500 We tell them to put off family and a marriage.

00:02:03.280 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.

00:02:06.020 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.

00:02:10.460 Oh, freeze your ex, have an abortion.

00:02:12.240 What? You're evil.

00:02:13.480 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.

00:02:17.380 Like if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic,

00:02:21.080 naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway it's self-sabotage that's

00:02:25.360 the thing like women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy this is not

00:02:29.520 about happiness the most important thing is the children and the problem is we have a modern

00:02:34.460 society where it's me me me my feelings leave when i feel like it instead of doing what's best

00:02:39.920 for the kids this myth that we live in an age of male privilege where's my male privilege they

00:02:45.440 think well men have all the rights they have all the power privilege patriarchal system that we

00:02:50.120 have. Why doesn't our society care about men's rights? I have no friends. No wife and no social

00:02:55.780 life. Men are alone in this situation. Men are homeless. Men are thinking about eating guns.

00:03:00.920 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong. How are you equal

00:03:06.400 if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country? The men are the ones

00:03:11.660 that build and maintain all the infrastructure. Women are helplessly dependent upon men. The

00:03:17.420 so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose to alcohol, three times higher among men than among

00:03:23.860 women. Culture is telling men you are no good. You got to get your act together. I think men

00:03:27.940 have failed themselves. What kind of a man are you? What kind of a woman are you going to attract?

00:03:32.240 If men are in trouble, so are women. Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants

00:03:37.940 to admit it. Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man. 500k. 500k. 300k. 200k. Am I

00:03:43.560 crazy. Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man. If men make less than women,

00:03:48.200 women don't want to marry them. So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable

00:03:52.660 men? Women. I don't want to be an independent woman anymore. I don't want to be a strong

00:03:58.640 independent woman. I'm over it. When is it going to be my turn? Where are we meeting the men that

00:04:03.340 don't stop? I can't keep having these same conversations. The only simp here is you,

00:04:07.760 Pearl. You simp for men. No, I think you simp for women. She's a provocateur. She says stupid

00:04:11.700 stuff but pearl is right about this it's already happening it's just not out in the open yet now

00:04:16.260 it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want a wife and

00:04:20.340 women can't find a husband the future if everybody follows your path is there is no future we go into

00:04:26.180 population decline and our economy goes into decline civilization will crumble the american

00:04:32.340 This story does not end well. This is an existential crisis failing young men.

00:04:42.960 What is up, guys? Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily. I am your host, Pearl.

00:04:49.640 And today we are going to be talking about modern women are addicted to holistic medicine.

00:04:57.600 But before we get in the topic today, I want to give a shout out to one of the simps on the internet that really keeps me employed.

00:05:10.260 By the way, before I get into it, if you guys do want to donate to the Divorce Documentary, the link is the second link in the description, so feel free.

00:05:18.620 We can't finish it until we get to roughly $100K when we're at $26,000, which is awesome.

00:05:23.680 Thank you guys so much. But we got to get to about 100 K in order to finish the documentary.

00:05:28.400 Okay. So I want to give a shout out to a man on the internet that is keeping me employed.

00:05:40.300 Not everybody is capable of being a super sim. Most men can't do it. They're tired of

00:05:47.400 lying to women 24-7. They're tired of appeasing women. Many men would rather just walk away from

00:05:55.460 women altogether rather than simp. But there's some men that say, no, I must simp. I need to simp.

00:06:07.100 I need to get laid and I will be a super simp in order to get there. So this man

00:06:16.060 this man has dedicated years of his life so i'm gonna give you a little preface

00:06:24.040 i do think that this man has a very intelligent very smart guy but as you guys know you can be

00:06:31.100 very intelligent and smart and be a super simp that doesn't stop you from the simp you can't

00:06:38.260 you could be the president of the united states like obama and super simp right it's not necessarily

00:06:46.040 He's got great political takes at times.

00:06:50.080 But he did get bamboozled.

00:06:52.440 He did.

00:06:53.820 He did.

00:06:55.980 Now, I'm not against men.

00:06:58.400 I'm going to take off my headphones for a second.

00:07:00.060 I'm not against men taking an unfavorable deal, if that's what they want to do.

00:07:07.440 But what the difference is, the super simps, if a non-simp marries a 30-something-year-old

00:07:13.400 woman, he says, bitch, first date you're putting out. And you better earn my commitment. You better

00:07:24.180 like kiss my feet and do whatever I say, or I'm just going to go get a younger, hotter. I know

00:07:29.880 a woman like that. Okay. She was in her mid thirties. And when she met her now husband,

00:07:36.040 i promise you i really do promise you she knew this was her last chance and he knew it too

00:07:45.820 she was still hot right but she wasn't innocent

00:07:49.540 and she did whatever if he said jump she said how high if he said i want to do backdoor she said when

00:08:00.320 the difference is a super simp he finds a used woman and he worships her and

00:08:10.400 what he does many times these men they tend to profit off of women and you see this with

00:08:19.200 conservative men you know it would be a lot more profitable for me if I just came out and I said

00:08:28.220 ladies it's your fault that he dumped you oh sorry sorry not that ladies

00:08:37.180 he just didn't appreciate you don't let a man determine your worth

00:08:43.540 not instead I say lose weight you were probably annoying figure out what it was try to be less

00:08:49.820 next time and maybe you won't get pumped and dumped good luck out there chicas we fought for

00:08:54.140 this. So as you guys know, Charlie Kirk is a super simp. He really is. And Charlie Kirk married

00:09:02.380 a woman at about 31, 32 years old, who is a pageant queen who flew around the world

00:09:09.480 doing pageanty stuff. Now, I don't know if she's pure or innocent. Okay. She very well could have

00:09:16.880 been a virgin when she met Charlie, but I got to do the math here. I got to do the math. And the

00:09:24.360 reason I say this is because I want you guys to do the math too. The average age of first losing

00:09:31.480 your virginity is 16. That's on average. And remember by 25, only like 2% of women are still

00:09:38.480 virgins. Eric says, just ringing. No idea what the stream is about, but here's a super chat.

00:09:42.820 Thank you, Eric. What a nice guy. So sorry, let's say in good faith, she waited till she was 21.

00:09:53.560 And we would agree women are going to pound town freshman year, sophomore year, junior year, senior

00:09:59.620 year, 21 year old virgin. She's probably fat or ugly, or just so socially awkward that cooked,

00:10:06.020 But fine, let's say, let's say that she was a virgin until 21.

00:10:13.580 What were you doing for a decade?

00:10:16.040 That's 10 years.

00:10:17.800 Let's say, okay, let's, let's do the math.

00:10:20.340 Let's say for 10 years, you had two year boyfriends and you had a hundred percent commitment rate.

00:10:27.640 Which let's just be like accurate unless you're like, she was a pageant queen.

00:10:33.880 but remember if a guy can get her as a pageant queen he can get other pageant queens so

00:10:39.300 the women that those like level of attractiveness are dealing like the women those men are dealing

00:10:45.020 with the beauty is common right because anyway so one two three four five six seven eight nine ten

00:10:52.880 so that's five at least at least nobody's pure if you've gotten your back blown out by five people

00:11:00.520 But the thing is, with Charlie and his wife, they got to build the brand.

00:11:06.580 And so they had this woman's leadership summit.

00:11:10.400 Now, I don't know why conservative men are having, why do we want women to lead?

00:11:20.000 Like, what would be the purpose?

00:11:22.400 But essentially, women's leadership summits are just sort of play pretend.

00:11:28.480 And, and I saw this clip and I just got to thank Charlie.

00:11:34.500 Thank you for keeping me employed.

00:11:38.540 That if they, so we're going to watch a clip of Charlie and his wife.

00:11:43.860 Now, remember again, if I, if you're going to sell me that you're, you are holy and pure,

00:11:50.920 I expect, and I'm not saying that women shouldn't use Botox or all that stuff.

00:11:55.920 I'm really not.

00:11:56.740 I'm not against it.

00:11:57.560 I'm not for it.

00:11:58.080 I don't care.

00:11:58.480 but you just have this idea that if there's like a pure conservative godly woman that she's not

00:12:08.300 dressed like an e-thought do you know what I mean like I just don't like the virtue signaling purity

00:12:16.220 like with the fake hair fake lips fake bow tie you know I don't really care but

00:12:25.980 okay anyway so i'm going to react to these clips and we're going to get into the topic today but

00:12:32.180 i just saw these on twitter before the show and it was too good how do you tell young ladies to

00:12:38.580 navigate the pressures of hookup culture on a college campus where they feel pressured that

00:12:43.700 if they don't get into um yeah so now he's saying again remember the conservatives are super simps

00:12:52.340 so Charlie at this age I don't he's most likely had women hunt him down trying to get him to

00:12:59.900 cheat on his wife so I don't understand why I'm just assuming right I mean he's a guy on stage

00:13:06.820 women love men with microphones um so I just can't imagine he hasn't experienced this yet

00:13:14.540 but women are the apex predators you met 18 year old women they're giving it out to everybody they're

00:13:22.140 like you get some coochie, you get some coochie. You know, it's not told women take some L's when

00:13:27.460 they're more stingy with it, but when they get to college campus, they're ready to go. So again,

00:13:33.760 they're framing this as, um, the women are pressured when the women are the ones throwing

00:13:41.280 it, you know, to say sexual situations with a male counterpart, then they will not be able to

00:13:48.280 find a boyfriend or a husband he's not meant to be with you like on he needs to honor your purity

00:13:54.020 what purity what purity are women bring erica you didn't bring fucking purity and this is what

00:14:01.920 i'm so tired of these conservatives making me pretend i have to believe this just because

00:14:11.280 your simp husbands fell for that bs it doesn't mean i will what purity are you selling when

00:14:18.960 i spot botox i spot fake hair i spot a very bad spray tan do you know what i mean

00:14:27.600 you're telling me you weren't thrown about come on your husband

00:14:34.640 all right where did you go to college man where did you go to college erica

00:14:41.280 uh kirk went to college where oh my gosh

00:14:49.320 oh my gosh i just fuck you oh my oh my gosh oh i'm so mad

00:15:01.720 i'm so mad right now you were about to lecture me on purity when you went to

00:15:10.320 arizona state university

00:15:23.520 i am pissed i am pissed shut the up

00:15:30.800 oh my gosh

00:15:34.800 howdy bruh here's another one

00:15:40.320 lays a trail of glory so my mission for all of you after you leave here please go confuse the

00:15:51.800 culture confuse the crap out of it i don't even know if i'm allowed to say that but confuse them

00:15:57.600 go and confuse them do not conform to it let them stare at you let them write the meanest

00:16:04.980 Instagram comments. Let them wonder, let them whisper. And while they're doing all of that,

00:16:11.320 because that's just noise, build your family. Go raise a family. Go build a life of holy defiance.

00:16:21.200 You didn't do, you met Charlie at 32, Erica. And you went to Arizona State University.

00:16:29.200 And if I Google this woman, hold on, let me see what pictures come up.

00:16:34.980 i know there's one of her in like a half naked bikini i've seen it before if they got rid of it

00:16:42.580 these people have money they might have scrubbed it by now but i have a screenshot somewhere erica

00:16:47.380 kirk um what is it pageant but oh yeah see do you guys not think that i can google this stuff

00:16:58.740 Like you're giving me a lecture on purity, truly, really.

00:17:10.240 Come on.

00:17:16.160 Can we just stop with the.

00:17:20.680 Love your husband.

00:17:22.280 Go love your babies.

00:17:23.520 go teach your children how to blaze a trail of glory go lead in truth and go be the light

00:17:31.280 you don't have time for their noise don't seek their applause it's not even worth it

00:17:35.920 not even worth it go fill go fulfill your purpose because you just need jesus that's all you need

00:17:43.420 so while the world is watching heaven's cheering for you cheering you on because just like the

00:17:53.160 women before you, that blueprint, God is within you and you will not fail. Yeah. Okay. Now the

00:18:06.800 Israel stuff. Oh, here's another one where they're selling whenever you feel that now it's again,

00:18:14.540 conservative selling women. They're going to be young forever. Here we go. Oh no. Hold on.

00:18:23.680 You need to go viral for this on Instagram.

00:18:27.100 You're falling behind.

00:18:28.820 Whenever you feel that, I want you to say out loud,

00:18:31.960 I don't care if you're looking at a mirror.

00:18:33.240 I don't care if you're writing it down.

00:18:34.680 I want you to say, I am not behind.

00:18:37.240 I am becoming.

00:18:39.020 Do not feel like you're running out of time.

00:18:41.260 The enemy loves to make you feel like you're running out of time,

00:18:43.740 but you can always have a career.

00:18:46.280 It is not going anywhere.

00:18:48.920 LLCs will always be able to be created,

00:18:51.300 it. But children... You did the same thing. You waited because you wanted to be a model. I don't

00:18:59.400 blame you. You got to fly over the world. You got to go party at ASU. I don't blame you, Chica. But

00:19:05.740 can we just stop pretending this isn't what it is? Family, your husband, marriages, that is

00:19:10.920 not a renewable resource. That is not. Don't delay the eternal for temporary and do not sacrifice

00:19:20.660 the sacred for the secular.

00:19:22.720 It is not worth it.

00:19:25.700 Okay, I'm going to react

00:19:26.960 to these full things this week.

00:19:28.780 They do love this alternative meds,

00:19:31.040 astrology, yoga,

00:19:32.040 after being in Eastern Europe

00:19:33.300 and London for a bit of time.

00:19:35.080 Spiritual is just a bit much for me.

00:19:39.740 Then we got Alex Clark,

00:19:41.720 another e-thought, whatever.

00:19:45.060 Okay, I'm going to react

00:19:47.400 to a lot of these

00:19:48.360 because this is just too much.

00:19:49.620 Thank you, Charlie.

00:19:50.660 for keeping me employed. Thank you. I do appreciate it. Okay. So welcome to another episode today.

00:20:02.660 We're going to get into the actual topic. Modern women are prideful, selfish, so much so that

00:20:13.020 Nobody can tell a woman anything, not their husbands, not their family members, not doctors.

00:20:23.180 And this pride has led many women to honestly believe that they know better than the experts,

00:20:31.320 especially when it comes to medicine and the health care field.

00:20:35.040 Too many women are foregoing the advice of conventional medical practitioners to practice

00:20:41.300 some kind of alternative medicine to the detriment of themselves and their children.

00:20:47.100 Crazy diets, yoga, herbs, teas, acupuncture, and strange spiritual practices are ways that

00:20:55.640 modern women avoid treatment.

00:20:58.000 If you go on social media, there are way too many influencers pushing this garbage to women,

00:21:06.560 especially mothers.

00:21:08.160 nothing gets me more mad than seeing a young woman pass away from something that could have

00:21:14.100 been treated but if they just would have went to a real doctor and got real treatment this is a

00:21:21.300 problem that is only getting worse unfortunately how many women and children are going to have

00:21:27.160 to pass away until something is done about this so Amanda Lewis a tv personality

00:21:37.060 says that cancer has spread after she decided to keep her tumor. The former talk show host

00:21:47.040 has reflected on her decision to go against her doctor's recommendations for a mastectomy

00:21:52.300 after her 2020 breast cancer diagnosis. I thought I had this. Former MTV Ananda Lewis has shared

00:22:02.400 that breast cancer has metastasized and she is now in stage four. Lewis, 51, previously shared

00:22:10.340 that she had been diagnosed with stage three breast cancer in a 2020 Instagram post saying

00:22:17.200 that she'd refused manograms for years due to fear of radiation exposure. But during a round

00:22:24.520 table discussion on cancer with CNN, Stephanie Ellum and CNN's anchor, Sarah Sidner, who was

00:22:33.180 diagnosed with stage three breast cancer early this year. Lewis shared that she went against

00:22:38.380 her doctor's recommendations for a double mastectomy following her diagnosis. My first

00:22:43.640 plan was to get the excessive toxins out of my body. I felt like my body is intelligent and I

00:22:50.520 know that to be true. Our bodies are brilliantly made, Lewis explains. I decided to keep my tumor

00:22:57.600 and try to work it out of my body a different way, she shared. Looking back on that, you know,

00:23:03.580 I go, you know what, maybe I should have. So this is her.

00:23:10.460 Elam explains in a voiceover that Lewis pursued homeopathic remedies as well as medication and

00:23:16.220 radiation and better sleep and diet. While she says Lewis improved for a while, last year,

00:23:21.460 the MTV alum discovered her cancer had spread. My lymph system really flared up, Lewis said.

00:23:28.280 It was the first time I ever had a conversation with death because I felt like this is how it is.

00:23:35.780 I was just like fudge, man. I really thought I had this. I was frustrated. I was a little angry

00:23:40.760 at myself. And I said, man, listen, I know you're coming for me at some point and I don't want it

00:23:44.920 to be now. And if you could just wait, I promise when you do come, I'm going to make it fun for

00:23:48.920 you. I literally had that conversation laying in my bed. I couldn't get out of bed for like eight

00:23:54.380 weeks. Sidner shared that her diagnosis made her seek more joy in life while Lewis reflected on

00:24:00.540 her decision not to pursue the double mastectomy, saying my quality of life is very important to me.

00:24:06.800 I want to want to be here. So I had to do it in a certain way for me. Meanwhile, my 51 year old

00:24:13.560 CNN anchor who underwent a double mastectomy in May said that her cancer diagnosis made her realize

00:24:18.620 I want to be here. I want to thrive in a way I've never thrived before. As Elam shared an Instagram

00:24:24.800 post about their conversion, I'm forever grateful for their willingness to have this conversation,

00:24:30.320 to fully open up for the world. If we could just get one woman to get their mammogram because of

00:24:36.040 this conversation, that's a success. I want everyone to live long, healthy lives. So there it

00:24:43.660 is. She likely could have survived this diagnosis, but instead she chose to do this wacky voodoo

00:24:55.520 stuff. And now she died. Here we got another article talking about her death. Amanda Lewis,

00:25:03.220 former MTV and BET host who publicly shared her breast cancer journey dies. Ananda Lewis,

00:25:10.600 the former MTV and BET host who became a beloved television personality in the 1990s with her

00:25:16.600 warmth and authenticity has died. She was 51. Her sister confirmed Lewis's death in a Facebook post

00:25:23.340 Wednesday. Lewis had been battling breast cancer. She's free and in his heavenly arms, Emery wrote.

00:25:29.460 Lord rest her soul. Lewis, a San Diego, can you guys stop making this full screen and just make

00:25:36.460 it like half, made a name for herself on hosts on BET, a team summit, which tackled issues facing

00:25:46.020 youth and featured community leaders, entertainers, and politicians. She landed big interviews with

00:25:52.300 Kobe Bryant, Tupac Shakur, and Louis Farrakhan, and the first lady, Hillary Clinton, which earned

00:25:59.280 her an NAACP Image Award. After a few seasons, Lewis took her talents over to MTV in 1977.

00:26:08.960 She was a host and VJ on MTV Live Hot Zone and Total Request Live, a daily top 10 video countdown

00:26:17.340 show. Lewis told the Associated Press that she felt some backlash after moving from BET to MTV.

00:26:24.660 I wouldn't say in a strong way because I think most people who are my fan base at Teen Summit understand that growth is necessary, she said.

00:26:32.740 One of the main things we dealt with on a consistent basis was the underlying themes of the show that you've got to get out there and live your life.

00:26:41.120 Okay, so, I mean, this kind of just reiterates the same story.

00:26:44.820 Lewis said doctors recommended a double mastectomy, but she opted for alternative methods.

00:26:49.680 she eventually realized this was the wrong measure, but became an advocate for the up-to-date

00:26:54.300 manogram checkups. Okay. We got another, a woman who wants to stop chemo for her child and give

00:27:06.420 the child alternative treatment. So not only do women push these crazy alternative medicine things

00:27:14.840 on them themselves, right, and put themselves in danger. They also put this on their children.

00:27:23.480 Jax is investigating your rights following a call from a local mother with a dying daughter.

00:27:28.860 I'm Tanika Hughes. I'm John Bachman. She says DCF is threatening to take her daughter away from her

00:27:33.640 because she wants to discontinue chemo and use natural remedies for her child. Action News Jax,

00:27:39.900 Ben Becker is live at DCF. Ben, you're pressing DCF for answers and looking into the rights that

00:27:45.180 parents have. John, that's right. You know, parents often believe they know what's best

00:27:51.440 for their families, and that's been a big crux today in this discussion I've been having with

00:27:55.760 this family and also with DCF, but often DCF has different ideas. Breakfast brings the Cleveland

00:28:03.260 family together. They worry cancer and DCF will tear them apart. When you look at these pictures,

00:28:08.500 what goes through your mind? Sadness. Like, I want to be able to help her. Jessica and Mike

00:28:13.480 Cleveland's four-year-old daughter, Michaela, has stage four cancer. She was diagnosed with

00:28:18.160 Wilms tumor in June of 2018, the most common type of kidney cancer in children. The tumor was removed

00:28:23.840 after a long hospital stay, but the cancer came back in March of 2019. What was it like when you

00:28:29.060 first found out that she had this? I was shocked. I was devastated. I didn't even know what to think

00:28:34.800 or how to feel.

00:28:35.540 Mikayla has been through multiple rounds of chemotherapy and radiation,

00:28:38.920 but her mother wants to seek a natural remedy.

00:28:41.140 It's because her prognosis isn't as good this time.

00:28:43.660 When she told doctors no more chemo, she received a visit from a DCF caseworker.

00:28:47.960 She said that she is being advised to tell me that if I don't take my child to chemo,

00:28:54.360 that they're going to take all my children away from me.

00:28:56.740 Not getting the chemo could fall under DCF's definition of neglect.

00:29:00.060 According to DCF, neglect includes when a child is deprived of, among other things,

00:29:03.880 medical treatment. You're the parent of the child, but in today's world, you don't own the child.

00:29:10.000 Dale Carson is Action News Jack's law and safety expert. He says DCF has broad authority. In some

00:29:14.660 cases, it doesn't even need a court order, which puts parents in a difficult spot. It's a hard

00:29:19.120 choice for a parent to make, and I'm not so sure everyone agrees that the Department of Children

00:29:26.240 and Family Services knows best. I went to DCF, and later they sent me a statement that reads,

00:29:31.900 there are multiple factors involved when it comes to making decisions

00:29:35.140 on whether or not to put children into protective custody.

00:29:38.400 As for Cleveland, what's your message to DCF?

00:29:41.220 They need to mind their business unless somebody is actually being harmed

00:29:43.880 because she's not being harmed in any way.

00:29:48.160 All right, John, so I spoke with a little...

00:29:50.260 No, look, I think that's a tricky...

00:29:54.260 When does the government pick if they intervene with a child?

00:29:58.960 I don't know.

00:29:59.400 My point is more, these crazy women push these alternative treatments onto their children.

00:30:06.880 And what tends to happen is the kids are the ones who suffer.

00:30:12.200 All right, here's another.

00:30:16.740 Natural health doctor, basically.

00:30:19.560 Okay, here we go.

00:30:20.560 doctor basically a holistic doctor that offers me an alternative way of supporting whatever

00:30:30.200 medical issues i'm having within my organism so that i can avoid getting sick and going

00:30:34.700 to the doctor and basically what she does is she does a whole body scan it's actually really cool

00:30:40.620 it's kind of wild so are you guys going to want to pay for these full body scans yep

00:30:45.420 that this is how it's done it is so extremely cool she can just tell everything that is wrong

00:30:51.140 with you at any point of your body if you're having any ailment any issue she can offer you

00:30:57.000 an alternative way to heal it through supplements and other methods so i've been doing that and

00:31:06.560 And guys, every single time I leave her office, I have like a whole bag that weighs like five

00:31:17.800 pounds full of stuff.

00:31:21.040 Let me know if you guys want to know everything that I have to take.

00:31:24.980 I will gladly share, but it's just wild.

00:31:28.820 And she gives you a whole schedule of when to take it.

00:31:31.780 and honestly a lot of my issues have gotten so much better but then you know other ones will

00:31:40.240 pop up so i'm constantly having to adjust my supplement intake and what i'm taking but

00:31:47.220 honestly just ordering whatever you want off of amazon because you read that it's good for your

00:31:54.420 health or for a certain condition doesn't necessarily mean that it's going to help you

00:31:58.480 you need like a certain dose of it for whatever is wrong with you or you need a certain brand or

00:32:05.080 a certain kind because they're not all made the same so before you say you know supplements or

00:32:12.640 vitamins don't work maybe you are just taking them incorrectly do you know it's another one

00:32:17.520 i don't really buy this organic bs they just convince us that everything's wrong like you

00:32:23.420 need organic food do I oh the pesticides are gonna kill you are they truly okay woman says

00:32:34.720 that there are natural substitutes for antidepressants this one I kind of agree with I gotta

00:32:42.200 I don't know about the antidepressants. I was personally here are a couple natural alternatives

00:32:58.580 for antidepressants. I was personally on Prozac for a year and I need to disclaim that if you

00:33:03.800 are on antidepressants and that's working for you that's amazing. I'm not talking to you.

00:33:08.820 I'm talking to the people that are on antidepressants and they feel like a zombie and you feel like

00:33:13.320 Your soul has left your body because that was me

00:33:16.920 Okay, omega-3s are amazing and have proven to be equally as effective as antidepressants

00:33:23.200 When I'm saying omega-3s, I'm talking salmon, I'm talking cod liver oil, I'm talking fish oil pills

00:33:28.000 Saffron has proven to be equally as effective as antidepressants

00:33:32.460 Exercise has proven to be equally as effective as antidepressants

00:33:36.540 going on an anti-inflammatory diet and healing your gut microbiome has proven to be

00:33:40.900 equally as effective as antidepressants please take everything i say with a grain of salt talk

00:33:45.440 to a naturopath a holistic healer someone who can work with you on an individual level

00:33:49.120 these holistic healers have to be making so much money i bet they are just raking in the

00:33:56.360 dough just convincing women that there's there's just something wrong with them

00:34:02.220 okay i know it's not 34 years old there's no doubt in my mind that i have it

00:34:12.000 hold on sorry you know doc mpa you said this mouse the same thing happens okay i have adhd i

00:34:21.780 was diagnosed when i was 34 years old there's no doubt in my mind that i have it hey i'm also a mom

00:34:26.500 with adhd late diagnosed too i've been on vyvanse and vyvanse worked the best for me dead

00:34:33.460 there's this when i was in college they just gave vyvanse out to everybody it's a supplement but it

00:34:40.340 worked better for me than literally any other adhd medication i've ever tried and it doesn't

00:34:46.500 make me feel anxious it doesn't make me feel like i'm going to jump out of my skin or more irritable

00:34:51.460 or lose my hair you should really check it out i highly recommend them

00:34:58.260 okay let's see what's next their alternative treatment methods

00:35:10.180 d i was diagnosed when i was 34 years old there's no doubt in my mind that i have it

00:35:13.860 hey i'm also a mom with adh wait i played this one okay let me see

00:35:22.100 Okay, well, I think that one is just the same one linked twice.

00:35:26.520 Okay, guys, so we're going to do a call-in show.

00:35:28.860 We're going to put the link in the chat.

00:35:31.200 Did your mom ever try some other treatment for a condition you had when you were young,

00:35:37.260 when she should have taken you to hospitals?

00:35:40.240 Have you ever dated a woman that was into alternative medicines,

00:35:43.280 and what was the craziest thing you saw her do or take for a treatment?

00:35:46.800 or did you ever have a mother that just always thought she was sick and something was wrong with

00:35:51.940 her um like you saw that one woman a couple of years ago that she um what did she do her mom

00:36:05.580 like put her in a wheelchair and would give her chemo treatments and she wasn't even sick

00:36:10.920 by the way I'm not against alternative treatments or whatever sometimes but it's just when they're

00:36:19.020 doing that instead of getting chemo when I was in college fine ales magic mushrooms and LSD

00:36:26.320 cured just about everything well if you want to try it how did it work for you I'm not here to

00:36:32.960 say one way or the other I'm here to get you guys's opinion so call into the show a couple

00:36:39.180 things if you are going to call in please get to the point so if we have further questions we will

00:36:47.020 ask you but try to keep it under a minute when you do your initial beginning middle and end i may

00:36:53.200 ask you where you're from something like that but then we're going to get into it

00:36:56.720 please don't come on and ask me what the topic is i'm going to get annoyed and just kick you

00:37:02.900 we're really trying to have a good quality call show where we get the information from the people

00:37:08.180 um make sure youtube is not playing in the background and please stick to the topic if

00:37:14.580 you are a fan i really do appreciate you watching and i'm very grateful but um there's a time and a

00:37:21.380 place so if you love watching me forever that's really thank you again but for the show i'm just

00:37:26.980 trying to keep it like on topic so please that's what i'm asking of you guys to do doug mpa are you

00:37:34.700 on the line i am here how's it going good how are you i'm fantastic this is a great topic

00:37:41.660 so did your mom always think she was sick was she into the holistic stuff what was it so so um

00:37:49.660 someone i know went off to college and moved in with this co-worker of theirs and first off this

00:37:57.340 woman believed in that whole thing so much she moved into a room into this person's house right

00:38:05.420 and this woman believed in like feng shui where um you put different place you put things in

00:38:11.980 different places in your house to direct like energy in your house so the person that my friend

00:38:18.380 was renting from hired a feng shui designer like interior designer where they move all your

00:38:25.100 furniture around based upon the energy in your house and this person put a book a bookcase in

00:38:32.380 front but in the pathway in front of the front door it's crazy and so anyway so it started with

00:38:40.460 that then she went to this holistic healer person that said if you they gave this woman some bark

00:38:49.820 from this tree and told her to cut off some of her own hair and grill it in a pan and then eat

00:38:57.340 some of it so it was so she put oil in a pan this bark and then part of her own hair and it was it

00:39:08.380 was trying to eat it and so for weeks her house it smelled like burnt hair you know how bad burnt

00:39:14.700 house burnt hair smells i would love to be a holistic medicine person i could just say anything

00:39:19.820 and get paid that's awesome yeah it you know how big your tick tock following would be oh yeah

00:39:27.580 still have an account fazelle says pearl congrats on 2 million plus subs happy b-day to the president

00:39:33.900 djt no mariachi is above the law deport them all dustin found actually found the cure to depression

00:39:43.820 that the most popular alternative medicine

00:39:48.440 to depression is being a whore.

00:39:52.560 So thank you, Dustin.

00:39:56.460 That's great.

00:39:58.000 Sarah Steps says,

00:39:59.540 my mother has done it all.

00:40:01.320 She's even tried to put nails in my house floors.

00:40:04.320 Sarah in the chat,

00:40:05.000 I didn't think I had any female watchers.

00:40:07.480 Thanks for getting in the chat on the website.

00:40:09.520 Guys, if you want unlimited supers

00:40:12.000 and access to all my old content,

00:40:13.820 please go to the website um i we did a lot and we're also on both app stores so you can do that

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00:40:24.780 dot com um you do have to apply for that though because we are going to do events

00:40:30.140 and i have to we it's an interview process um so if i meet you guys at some point

00:40:37.020 it's like normal you know what i mean i mean the internet's a strange place so um

00:40:41.340 um yeah do you have any stories about anyone that you know that was eating some weird stuff

00:40:47.820 or taking some weird medication not not eating some weird stuff but there's someone i know that

00:40:52.860 always thought she was sick always always always like it was one week she's gluten-free

00:41:02.540 the next week she's got it and it would just always be

00:41:06.460 really her problem was a poor diet and things that would be like symptoms of a poor diet

00:41:15.360 the like she would find these like obscure diseases or whatever um to say that was the

00:41:24.660 real problem does that make sense doug mpa so um for example she may have said oh i can't sleep

00:41:31.480 and i just don't get good sleep well she didn't get good sleep because she ate terrible you know

00:41:37.560 what i so you snore and so then it would be like this disease or that oh my gosh it never ended

00:41:46.280 one of uh one of my friends his um his nephew was like mr duncan pierre like hey guess he's

00:41:56.280 he's he's he's gen alpha you know he's like i think he's 18 19. he's like what do you think

00:42:03.700 of sun gazing oh is that the balls with the like sun no it's where sun gazing is a meditative

00:42:12.220 practice that involves looking at the sun during off-peak times so you just if you meditate while

00:42:19.300 you're staring into the sun sun gazing is a method of meditation that attempts to harness

00:42:25.460 the healing power of the sun this is a guy i was like don't ever i should be the first

00:42:36.340 and last person you ever have this conversation with don't sun gazing are you serious oh my gosh

00:42:47.140 all right let's uh you ready for some guests yeah bring them on

00:42:55.460 and make sure you hit that like button subscribe if you haven't already thank you for getting us

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00:43:08.920 donnie are you there uh hey uh doug it's me yeah i'm surprised i i didn't think i'd be the first

00:43:15.460 one on uh hey pearl hey doug hey how's it going where are you calling out of uh jersey uh i'll

00:43:22.340 to the point uh the topic was this whole holistic medicine craze stuff uh i i guess it all falls

00:43:29.700 under the whole appeal to nature fallacy where natural means good man-made must be evil and

00:43:37.940 oppressive and capitalistic and i mean it's majority of women in this craze but not just

00:43:44.180 women like i guess the worst example would be steve jobs like his his inspiration for apple

00:43:50.420 fonts and art and stuff came from that hippie dippy go to india alternative movement yeah that

00:44:00.680 was great for marketing and computer designs and art but when it came to him getting cancer

00:44:06.140 if you got the money get the chemo and save your life don't listen to me

00:44:11.180 did you know that i didn't know that i didn't know that killed him i had no idea yeah yes he

00:44:18.160 a job yeah he died in 2011 2012 he had cancer but the problem was instead of just going to

00:44:26.400 a regular western doctor paying the money which he clearly had he listened to his holistic hippie

00:44:33.680 friends who were on the no juice cleanse and other stuff like yeah like turn snubbing western

00:44:43.920 white man's what medicine is what killed steve jobs if if he had just got the the chemo

00:44:51.360 he would probably be alive today uh drinking cokes with uh warren buffett no way i did not know that

00:45:00.480 before he started working for well before he started apple he worked at atari for like five

00:45:05.680 years right and um uh and he never showered so he he smelled terrible and then for a couple of years

00:45:16.720 he was on a fruit a fruit only diet where all he was fruit i mean he was part of that baby boomer

00:45:24.560 60s 70s hippie-ish counterculture and yeah that that that works for marketing crap and

00:45:31.360 most of the organic stuff is just pure marketing it's it's largely not science-based a lot of it

00:45:36.880 is just marketing appealing to frustration appeal to nature fallacy where we think

00:45:43.200 something organic means good but do you know that's not true i used to just um i don't know

00:45:50.800 this kind of this kind of gross but i used to just um chop up salmon and like eat it like raw

00:45:57.680 like like sushi or whatever and i did this for years and people told me i would get parasites

00:46:02.800 or i stopped doing it because so many people told me that i was gonna get sick or whatever but i

00:46:08.160 was literally fine i did this for like two years i would just eat raw salmon was it was it the good

00:46:13.200 salmon or the gas station salmon i mean it was good it was like good salmon yes like like it

00:46:18.640 was from it was from like jewel or like a grocery store but it wasn't like sushi grade and i i don't

00:46:26.000 i was fine okay i'll wrap it up because there's other people probably on the line but i just got

00:46:31.520 through watching king of the hill and okay i saw the one when dale gribble was selling bee stings

00:46:37.520 you know he had bees that almost killed him but he was at this booth at some organic farmers

00:46:42.560 marketing some dumb liberal trendy white woman i guess they exist in texas too they're like

00:46:49.840 how many bees can i how many bee stings can i get for 150 he's like uh the going rate is 12. it's

00:46:56.800 like that's such a good deal but i i mean men men are into this stuff too but it seems like so many

00:47:03.280 women just love that stuff because they want to feel earthy or they just hate modern academic

00:47:10.000 capitalist society but i i want to split because there's other people in the chat thanks for having

00:47:15.040 me again bye thanks for calling in always good to have you man see donnie's he sets the gold standard

00:47:22.880 comes in here drop some truth bombs deuces out like yeah that was great he um

00:47:32.400 okay yeah keep going cool all right we're gonna bring up

00:47:36.160 uh aj are you next wait aj are you there hey what's up guys can you hear me yeah i can hear

00:47:47.040 you how are you hey really really fast i know a guy whose brother's wife went to instead of

00:47:56.320 medical school went to it she's an nd she's she's a naturopathic doctor and not a medical doctor

00:48:02.000 so she spent all this time they put off having kids and everything got like 230 000 in student

00:48:08.840 loan debt right and then once they started having kids wanted to stay home so he had to

00:48:14.480 work all these extra hours as a lawyer to pay off the debt buy a house and then she figured out

00:48:19.880 that she didn't want to do naturopathic medicine so now she's a nurse

00:48:23.920 are they still in a whole bunch of debt or no um they like just managed to pay it off and their

00:48:37.340 kids are like almost like all grown but yeah so she was so she spent like all these years doing

00:48:44.100 the naturopathic thing i went to some private school i'm like yeah almost quarter million

00:48:50.080 dollars in debt and then stop working and then now she's a nurse wait she got four million dollars

00:48:57.280 in debt no no a quarter million so sort of like 250 000 oh my gosh why don't you just why didn't

00:49:06.400 you just take the money from these fat women that go to these places so because i guarantee that 90

00:49:13.600 of the time it's not that it come on it's their diet like 90 of the time it's it's you eat too

00:49:21.560 much sugar you drink too much wine stop doing that you'll feel better and walk more yeah but

00:49:28.900 there's there's all this trendy stuff on on tiktok now also and witchcraft now um that witchcraft is

00:49:38.400 the fastest growing religion with young women now.

00:49:41.600 So it's a combination of like all these all these all these witches on TikTok

00:49:45.480 and all the and I don't know if you guys want to look into this,

00:49:49.240 but all these chicks that claim they have to have the cure

00:49:53.440 for the hurt dirt, you know? Oh, I've seen that.

00:49:56.080 Oh, yeah, yeah, that's right.

00:49:57.520 Alternative alternative cures to STDs is a big one, too.

00:50:01.920 Oh, no. Oh, no.

00:50:05.720 i just want to tell tell a story have a good one guys okay bye

00:50:09.980 it's a it's a minefield out there well they'll make it more complicated than it is most health

00:50:20.120 is just common sense like eat less sugar eat less carbs eat more fruits and vegetables and meat

00:50:26.060 and you'll probably feel better like you know if i've ever had a health issue

00:50:31.380 and i've never had anything crazy but it's always the consequences of my own actions

00:50:36.660 do you know what i mean like every person i know with like a liver problem drinks too much

00:50:41.740 you know it's like i don't know i think there's some people do get it like by surprise and they're

00:50:47.560 super healthy but a lot of the time when people have issues it's like choice like things you would

00:50:53.100 kind of expect you know yeah i um i'm right there with you with the whole organic food thing so

00:51:00.200 there's a heavyweight boxer named shannon briggs he he was heavyweight champion and uh he he's

00:51:07.060 the let's go champ guy let's go champ anyway so he was on joe rogan he has a wife and like

00:51:13.840 and three kids and he said that his wife only shops at whole foods right now for a wife and

00:51:21.320 three kids and him try and guess how much she she spends a year at whole foods try and guess oh

00:51:27.660 um a wife and how you said three kids yep two grand a month two five she spends 68 to 70

00:51:39.600 thousand dollars a year what is that a month holy shit on groceries yeah he said on joe rogan as you

00:51:45.940 have got to be kidding me yep he's like all we do is shopping at whole foods i won't allow he won't

00:51:51.620 allow any other kind of food in his house that's almost six grand a month on food yeah

00:51:57.380 oh my gosh do you know what i i'm gonna tell you guys i'm gonna start opening up a little more

00:52:05.580 some of this people might found this weird but i've never washed like fruit i'd always just eat

00:52:10.960 it because i'm like back in the day people would just eat like apples off of trees and stuff and

00:52:16.760 they're fine i don't think the pesticides are that like i don't know i don't really care like

00:52:23.100 think about all the stuff because people don't understand all the stuff that you put in your

00:52:27.480 mouth as a kid come on now like people are washing chicken like that was when maggie came or maybe

00:52:33.960 it was someone came and did like a cooking show with me when i was in london and i just i was

00:52:39.140 like why are we washing chicken like i don't i i don't think it makes that much of a difference

00:52:45.460 but maybe it does and i'm just like i'm just well i mean i don't know you're gonna cook it

00:52:50.480 you're gonna kill everything on the chicken by cooking it right that's what i think i'm like

00:52:57.840 i just and even with the washing fruit i'm like you're telling me putting

00:53:01.440 a little bit of water for like five seconds over the fruit is gonna like kill the germs

00:53:09.440 yeah i mean maybe it does but i've i've never done it and i've always been fine and everyone

00:53:16.320 everyone's always said oh you're gonna they said i was gonna die from the sushi i was fine they

00:53:21.840 said i was gonna die from the chicken and the fruit now i could be wrong maybe i'll eat my

00:53:28.000 words in 10 years and these pesticides will kill me i don't know um but yeah let's bring oh

00:53:38.720 yes hit that like button and subscribe please and thank you for all the super chats so far

00:53:43.440 And thank you for everyone on the website, too.

00:53:45.820 Always good to see you there.

00:53:48.240 We're bringing up Eric Wade.

00:53:50.020 I don't know if he's everything.

00:53:51.460 She doesn't know how the chickens are processed.

00:53:53.480 I just don't care.

00:53:55.180 Do you know what I mean?

00:53:55.800 I know.

00:53:56.460 I don't.

00:53:57.380 When Pearl's hungry, she's hungry, dang it.

00:53:59.180 She has to eat.

00:54:00.760 It hasn't killed me yet, David.

00:54:02.840 And this is what they're going to show me.

00:54:05.680 And the vegans do this, too.

00:54:07.000 They'll show me some video.

00:54:08.540 I don't care.

00:54:10.340 I don't.

00:54:12.160 Okay.

00:54:12.640 Yeah. He dropped out. So we're going to bring David. Are you there?

00:54:17.140 Yo, what's going on? Hey, David, how are you?

00:54:21.300 Hey, good as always, y'all. So what's your thoughts on the topic?

00:54:25.640 Do you know anyone that was into the alternative medicine or always thought they were sick?

00:54:31.180 Or did your mom stop you from going to the hospital to do some alternative medicine?

00:54:35.940 Would she take you to the hospital? No.

00:54:38.760 so i actually have a kind of a heavy story that uh it's like kind of the opposite of what you just

00:54:43.480 said doug but like when i was really little um my mom i think i was probably like six maybe um my

00:54:51.720 mom she like thought i was uh she thought i was like really sick or something and they she took

00:54:58.200 me to the hospital and like normally i would just go to like the doctor and like get a checkup or

00:55:03.560 whatever but this time we went to like a hospital hospital and i was like really really young so i

00:55:08.280 I didn't know what was really going on. And to this day, like, I wish, I wish, I wish my dad

00:55:13.860 had taken me because what happened was I went to the hospital and like, they were trying to take

00:55:19.980 my blood and I never had got that done before. I was still like, I was really, really young.

00:55:24.380 And I remember this, like, this is like a core memory because I remember it so vividly.

00:55:29.240 They took me, they strapped me down into this hospital bed, like literally strapped me down.

00:55:34.340 Cause I was like, you know, like I didn't know what was going on. And they were like, oh,

00:55:37.860 we're gonna take his blood we think he's gonna freak out or whatever and blah blah blah they

00:55:42.560 strapped me down and they started doing all this stuff and i pass out like i just completely passed

00:55:46.440 out and what i all i remember was like my mom was like laughing like she wasn't like trying to like

00:55:53.000 help me through it or like anything she was just laughing and like that that memory stuck in my

00:55:59.280 mind so hard and i think to this day that's why i have this like i have this like vasovagal

00:56:04.380 uh syndrome where like anytime i go to the doctor and get blood drawn or like get a shot or something

00:56:11.120 i immediately pass out like it's completely involuntary like i have no control over it

00:56:16.000 and i've looked into like uh hypnotism and stuff like that but nothing works like even to this day

00:56:21.720 like i'm i'm like terrified of that shit and i think it's because my mom like see like imprinted

00:56:27.240 this memory into me and like made it to where i'm incapable of dealing with these types of things

00:56:32.600 you know what i mean like if it had been my dad there he would have been like you know toughen

00:56:37.260 up blah blah blah you know told me to do the right thing but instead my mom's just there laughing

00:56:41.200 so i think that's probably a negative thing i um my it's not really an alternative medicine story but

00:56:47.820 um i i don't like stuff touching my feet and like i always wear socks except for when i'm

00:56:55.400 i'm you know at the beach or in the shower and like i i always wondered why we grew up poor

00:57:03.460 while my parents were going to school and my uh aj who is on here that that's my twin brother

00:57:10.700 in real life and so we grew up poor and we used to we lived in this really poor neighborhood while

00:57:17.320 my parents were going to school and um we used to run around barefoot a lot and i remember i

00:57:24.760 stepped on a glass bottle and broke a bunch of glass into my foot right and so we didn't have

00:57:34.200 the money to go to the hospital so my mom took a sewing needle and like a sharp you know a sharp

00:57:41.880 edge and dug the glass yeah hell no and i had a bunch of good because i broke the glass and then

00:57:52.920 i jumped up and then like i step you know how you do the you you jump up and down with your feet

00:57:58.920 anyway so i stepped on the glass multiple times and she had to dig that glass out of my foot

00:58:05.960 and i think that's why i always have socks on my feet and i don't like anything touching my feet

00:58:13.080 to this yeah man it's it's those core memories like when you're young like those memories get

00:58:17.560 imprinted on you and like they actually do like people can i see people in the chat saying oh

00:58:21.880 you're being dramatic it's like no dude this is real like you can look this stuff up man this is

00:58:26.120 like scientific like like i wish that it wasn't this way i wish we could you know get rid of our

00:58:32.440 childhood memories that you know and they usually involve women that's what i've noticed is like

00:58:36.520 any type of like traumatic experience typically involves women or your mother um instead of your

00:58:42.520 father your father actually uh yeah sorry i didn't mean to laugh but it's like it's so true

00:58:48.360 but it's just so traumatic the fair mom says my dad was an alcoholic and got drunk one night and

00:58:55.600 made me pull one of his teeth out i was like 10 years old oh my god yeah unless your dad's like

00:59:02.820 doing like you know like illegal stuff you know and like actually harming you it's typically going

00:59:08.340 to come from your mother because what happens is like a lot of the simp fathers they just let the

00:59:12.860 mothers do whatever they want and the mothers are just gonna you know run free with whatever

00:59:17.460 dumbass idea they have and like in my case my dad was like barely around because he was working all

00:59:23.960 the time and shit so like you know my mom she whenever it came to me and my sister like it was

00:59:29.620 like 99 just us hanging out with mom and like i just i look back on it and i'm like this was so

00:59:35.800 bad for us i always say um the mothers inflict so much more damage on their sons but especially

00:59:46.000 their daughters. Because if you ask any girl who was the first person to tell them that they were

00:59:51.700 too tall, too short, too thin, too fat, their hair is too stringy or nappy, you know, their boobs are

00:59:59.400 too big, their boobs are too small, they're dressed like a whore. Who's the first person that anyone

01:00:05.620 hears call another woman a bitch or a whore? It's your mom. Yeah, Jesse Lee Peterson talks about

01:00:15.300 this a lot he says that you're as a man you're supposed to turn away from your or forgive your

01:00:19.820 mother and uh turn to your father like return to the father and forgive your mother because

01:00:24.740 your mother is putting the traumas into you your father is the one that you know is going to fix

01:00:30.420 them yeah i agree but yeah i just wanted to say that you guys have a good one i was gonna talk

01:00:37.200 Hey, David. How's it going, buddy?

01:00:38.140 Thanks for calling in.

01:00:43.680 I like when David calls in.

01:00:45.120 He always has good stories.

01:00:46.180 Yeah, he's a good caller.

01:00:48.300 Okay, next up we have...

01:00:50.980 We had a good run of, like, good callers recently.

01:00:54.800 Next up we have Will is coming in.

01:00:59.140 Will, you're on mute. Are you there?

01:01:03.120 Will, you're on mute.

01:01:05.640 he's probably listening to the youtube chat it's a couple seconds behind will

01:01:10.960 hey you can hear me yeah hey yeah you're right i was listening to the stream sorry about that

01:01:16.300 how are you i'm good long time first time and all that yeah so um what's your thoughts on the topic

01:01:25.980 you got a story for us yeah yeah uh about a girl i was trying to date in 2023 so two years ago now

01:01:32.820 um i'm a white dude i'm from ohio but i'm pretty big into asian chicks and so i was looking around

01:01:38.600 online and started trying to do the passport bro thing uh eventually started talking to this girl

01:01:45.640 from singapore well she was living in singapore she's actually from south of china and as you know

01:01:51.920 china's all about tcm traditional chinese medicine which is exactly what you're describing it's all

01:01:56.620 holistic stuff it's you know no pills it's all teas and uh acupuncture therapy oils hot rocks

01:02:06.320 you know whatever that all all sorts of different things um and so she was a really unique medical

01:02:14.680 case because she had the worst eczema of anybody i've ever met and she was real self-conscious

01:02:19.720 about it didn't bother me too much but it made her skin um i don't know like i've got family

01:02:28.760 members with eczema and their skin just looks discolored her skin was like flaking off constantly

01:02:33.480 to the point where i'm convinced her body was like regenerating skin at an abnormally high rate she

01:02:38.920 would eat a ton of food every time we went out it was the strangest thing i've ever seen

01:02:43.080 and she wasn't like super overweight or anything like that so um i'm convinced that was because

01:02:50.100 of the eczema her body was like trying to regenerate cells quicker or something like

01:02:53.660 that i'm not a doctor i'm an engineer i don't know anything about medicine but um i say all

01:02:58.920 that to say that she worked for a medical company she was a graphic designer she would design the

01:03:04.100 labels on their packaging but her boss who was a big believer in uh tcm but also western medicine

01:03:12.800 he was kind of split between the two he had recommended for her eczema to take uh should

01:03:18.000 i looked it up earlier i'm gonna have to double check now it has a funny acronym but it's like a

01:03:24.560 steroid you take for uh eczema and i can't remember what it's called now she wouldn't take it or she

01:03:31.440 did take it yeah sorry say that again she wouldn't take it or she was taking it um she the boss

01:03:38.800 recommended that she take it and she agreed to do so and the problem was that when you take the

01:03:43.760 steroids if you have extremely severe eczema to begin with it'll make it worse because it's a

01:03:50.160 steroid which kind of makes sense i don't know why it's sold as a cure but in any case if you

01:03:57.680 get a flare-up you get like crazy bad depression your life is over it's it's like genuinely the

01:04:03.120 worst thing that could possibly happen to you if you have the super bad eczema to begin with

01:04:07.040 so she tried it all of that happened she had a massive flare-up she was like down and out for

01:04:12.640 months and months she like couldn't even function and i guess because the culture over there is so

01:04:19.440 different she was too polite to be like mad at the dude and actually come back at him and say hey you

01:04:24.720 ruined my life or whatever but um anyway moved on stopped taking the steroid obviously recovered

01:04:30.800 eventually and then so that's like half of my holistic medicine story the other half is i did

01:04:37.520 eventually go to singapore to meet her we hung out for like two and a half weeks we were in singapore

01:04:41.920 for a week we traveled to thailand for a week which i was very thankful that we were spending

01:04:46.880 some time in a place where food was cheap because like i said she ate a ton but anyway um at one

01:04:52.560 point she had me try uh essence of chicken which for some reason i thought was going to taste like

01:04:59.360 chicken noodle soup and it absolutely was not that at all it is it is like a it's a little

01:05:07.680 it's a little box it comes in a box it's a cube shape it's maybe like two inches square and then

01:05:13.440 inside the cube is like a glass jar with like a plastic screw cap and it is the most bitter most

01:05:22.800 foul thing i've ever tasted in my life i'm convinced that they take like in a chicken

01:05:29.120 factory once they're done with the chickens they take the bones and mash them up and turn them into

01:05:32.800 this stuff it's the only it's the only way i can imagine they would end up with that taste

01:05:39.120 and she was adamant that this was like the healthiest thing you could possibly drink

01:05:46.800 yeah i used to run um before the the cough cough i used to run half marathons all the time

01:05:53.120 and uh there was a while in like the late 2010s where running companies were trying to push

01:05:59.520 beet juice oh hell no so so imagine it looked like a monster can you know like a cannon monster and

01:06:08.480 and it was 75 percent beet juice like 25 grape juice because that was the only way to make it

01:06:14.640 half palatable so you know i just got done with the 5k and there at the finish line oh yeah try

01:06:20.400 this try this can of stuff and you i just popped it open and i should have known the smell because

01:06:25.520 beats have that particular smell i took a swing of that almost choked yeah yeah sounds pretty

01:06:32.640 similar to my experience yeah the only the only funny extra to that story was she was making fun

01:06:39.120 of me at the time i guess you know westerners aren't used to it but she was telling me there

01:06:42.800 was a sweet version and a particularly nasty regular version of this essence of chicken stuff

01:06:48.560 and i should have started with the sweeter stuff because that's what they quote unquote give to

01:06:52.480 kids to get them trained on this stuff when they're young so that by the time they're adults

01:06:56.480 they're used to it and i can't even imagine i was i had a sweet tooth as a kid it's not as bad now

01:07:01.440 but i can't imagine trying to choke that stuff down as a kid that would have killed me but anyway

01:07:07.680 i've been looking to see what essence of chicken is and like

01:07:11.840 like okay how to make essence of chicken place the skinless chicken legs around the rice bowl

01:07:21.320 wrap the bowl with food grade plastic film to prevent the steam steam for 60 minutes remove

01:07:27.620 the wrap then boil and serve up the i don't think that's what you're talking about that sounds like

01:07:34.540 a whole meal yeah the stuff i was i had wasn't uh rice or any food or anything like that oh it says

01:07:39.360 essence of chicken powder maybe is created by drying out chicken broth or essence followed

01:07:44.840 by grinding it into powdery form is that it maybe that sounds a lot more palatable than what i had

01:07:51.120 but maybe if it's like all of it sounds awful yeah yeah i mean if it's super concentrated you

01:07:57.560 might end up with that stuff yeah i don't know that's that's a good good question cool yeah

01:08:02.460 anyway i gotta go guys sorry i'm making dinner but thanks for having me on thanks for calling

01:08:06.300 in calling anytime okay okay okay eric dropped out before but he's here now i told him he'd be next

01:08:18.060 thanks for all sharing all your stories in the chat guys this is great yeah some of these are

01:08:23.020 pretty funny if you see any that are funny feel free to read them dug mpa eric how you doing

01:08:28.860 hey eric eric

01:08:32.640 he's probably listening to the youtube oh we can hear you

01:08:38.560 he's probably listening to the youtube stream i'll bet yeah how many what is it what just

01:08:48.200 happened to the guy who was on the on the zoom call who was talking about chicken and stuff

01:08:54.400 oh he left yeah he said that he oh okay i must be a few seconds behind you guys

01:09:00.900 yes uh i thought i was still in the queue sorry you're okay um so what's your story for us

01:09:07.480 make sure you turn off the youtube chat in the background i can hear an echo

01:09:12.000 so just make sure it's make sure it's paused i'm sorry yeah i okay let me let me pause that

01:09:18.580 i i muted it but i guess that doesn't work huh i don't know i can't see your set but i i don't

01:09:25.440 hear not go now so i think you fixed it okay cool um yeah i live in uh i live in sedona

01:09:33.660 in arizona which uh i mean this place everybody is so wealthy that they just thrive on luxury

01:09:44.240 beliefs right so there's very little religion going on here uh most of them are all looking

01:09:51.380 for like these you know metaphysical alternatives and uh i mean you can you cannot swing a corn dog

01:10:01.960 without hitting a crystal store in this town you know like i first moved here in 1982 and then uh

01:10:11.860 You know, I joined the Coast Guard shortly after that and went all over the world.

01:10:18.540 Meantime, my entire family moved here.

01:10:21.380 So when I retired from the Coast Guard, I was like, God, I guess I got to go back to Sedona and, you know, spend, you know, whatever their twilight years are, you know, with my parents and stuff.

01:10:32.340 And, you know, but the thing is, my impression of the whole metaphysical, you know, holistic thing is that there's a whole lot of people trying to figure out how to make money by preying on those who don't want to.

01:10:58.300 like steve jobs who uh who who don't want to do you know like the standard medical thing

01:11:06.260 right so they come up i swear every week there's a whole new trend you know it's like uh

01:11:14.300 it's like it used to be like uh noni juice from the south pacific and then it was you know well

01:11:23.920 You gotta find a wild gopher

01:11:28.420 Shave his balls and suck on him

01:11:31.240 And you'll be fine

01:11:32.660 Listen to this

01:11:34.960 I remember this was in the late 2000s

01:11:39.380 There was a coffee company

01:11:41.920 That would go to this island

01:11:44.120 Where bats would eat the coffee beans

01:11:48.340 And then poop them out

01:11:49.700 So they would go through bat poop

01:11:53.760 and get the coffee beans

01:11:56.120 and they'd sell these

01:11:57.480 coffee beans for this god-awful

01:12:00.020 amount and certain coffee

01:12:01.900 places would have that coffee and charge like

01:12:03.600 $10-$15 a cup

01:12:05.200 for this coffee that they had to dig out of bat poop

01:12:07.900 that's how much money people have

01:12:09.720 I remember that

01:12:11.360 well I suppose that probably dropped

01:12:13.880 out of popularity after COVID

01:12:15.740 got blamed on bat

01:12:16.860 it was like

01:12:20.640 oh I used to drink bat

01:12:22.740 you know batshit coffee and then uh you know when when fauci told us that uh covid came from

01:12:29.860 freaking bats i gave it up you know but the thing is the you know i mean these are people who believe

01:12:37.460 that there are like universal portals in some of the rocks around sedona where you can connect with

01:12:44.340 the essence of the creator you know and uh you know it's like uh some of them will like climb

01:12:55.380 to the top of castle rock and meditate hoping to attract ufos and our space brothers i mean

01:13:02.340 and these are all of this all of the holistic medicine the whole connecting with the space

01:13:08.900 brothers that's all based on luxury beliefs these are people who have no real problems

01:13:16.340 do you think that it's kind of survival of the fittest in a way

01:13:20.360 yeah it's it's kind of like the delusion of the freaking dumbest

01:13:26.040 you know it's like it's like all right you know here i mean here's what i do the only reason i

01:13:33.200 live here is because my family wound up moving here and they're all older than me and I was like

01:13:39.520 I'm gonna have some hang time after they're gone so despite where I would prefer to live

01:13:46.480 I'm gonna come here and I'm gonna make the most of the years that they have left my older sisters

01:13:52.300 and my mom and dad and dad's gone mom's not in the greatest shape my sisters actually aren't in

01:14:00.080 greatest shape either quite frankly um but uh so my time here is probably limited i don't know

01:14:08.000 where i'm gonna go next but the point being that you know these uh most of the people uh

01:14:17.200 who are able to live here in sedona they don't have to worry about i mean they don't even bother

01:14:23.920 to track their budget because the money comes and it goes and they're you know they never lack any

01:14:29.760 of it they have so much they have so much money they can just like waste time with this bs basically

01:14:35.460 also only 40 of women budget anyway well yeah well it's difficult you know i mean i'm one of

01:14:45.860 those guys you know if i go down to the dollar store and you know drop five bucks on laundry

01:14:53.240 detergent, it winds up in my daily log. I mean, well, it's a monthly log really, but, you know,

01:15:00.620 I'm super OCD. I've always tested it out under the Myers-Briggs, which I, you know, I don't know

01:15:09.000 if it's completely accurate, but I've always been an INTJ Sigma male ever since I can remember,

01:15:16.360 ever since I've taken the Myers-Briggs survey.

01:15:19.960 And I never wind up red in the bank, and I never fuck up my bills

01:15:26.400 because I track that shit daily, every day.

01:15:31.200 And like I said, if I even spend five bucks on laundry detergent at the dollar store,

01:15:37.480 it goes in the lock.

01:15:38.420 I know exactly how much money I have on a day-to-day basis.

01:15:42.260 My sister, on the other hand, my oldest sister, she's one of these people who, you know, I busted her out on my method for budget keeping.

01:15:54.720 And she's like, oh, I don't bring enough money in to bother tracking it.

01:15:58.260 Just screw it.

01:15:59.600 You know, and I'm like, well, then you're, you know, no wonder you wind up in the red every three days, you know.

01:16:05.440 Yeah, I'm really frugal, except for I have my couple things that I don't keep track of.

01:16:11.440 i.e. coffee money i'm one of those people pearl and i have had many conversations about

01:16:16.880 that that buying coffee every single day yeah right you know the thing is you know it's like

01:16:26.640 i think the most important thing i do and i know we're way off topic here

01:16:30.880 but the most important thing i do is i'll you know i'll look at my bank and i'll look at my log

01:16:37.440 i'll figure out what hasn't come in yet bill wise and then uh you know i uh

01:16:46.580 i subtract every bill that i you know have set up electronically that's about to come in over

01:16:54.280 the next couple of weeks and that will tell me exactly how much money i have i call it burn rate

01:17:02.780 per day so you know like uh it may say i can burn 110 per day until next payday so i'll probably

01:17:12.200 only spend like at the most 20 to 40 bucks a day except when pearl's on or christine grace smith

01:17:19.880 is on or or alexander grace and i have to cough up some fucking super chats

01:17:25.420 i keep doing that you know that you know that pearl pearl put christine grace smith on right

01:17:32.360 yeah oh i yeah i saw that one and uh yeah i love christine's channel grows because her channel is

01:17:39.820 awesome yeah she's great she's great i'm really happy she's been doing well so well she's like

01:17:46.400 you pearl she's one of those rare voices of reason on youtube yeah yeah so uh hey everybody

01:17:53.900 go to christine graysmith's channel and subscribe like do all the youtube jazz

01:17:59.020 thanks for thanks for calling in all right yeah anytime all right doug and pearl um yeah sedona's

01:18:08.600 uh got its head totally up its ass i fucking hate this now yeah i recommend charlotte north

01:18:15.000 carolina man really never been you gotta go it's great oh i know yeah charlotte it's great i'll

01:18:22.200 probably wind up in south dakota actually but i'm gonna clear off of here and let someone else come

01:18:27.300 pod all right eric always get talking to calling anytime buddy all right cool all right we'll let

01:18:36.180 in guys hit that like button subscribe thanks for being here we appreciate it

01:18:44.100 next up we're letting scott in let's make sure to have the youtube off

01:18:50.260 and because there's like a five seven second delay so scott are you there

01:18:57.300 Scott Scott hey how's it going you there

01:19:08.340 hey I'm doing great how you guys doing good see you buddy you got a story for us today

01:19:15.540 holistic medicine or maybe your mom neglected go ahead I'm super old so I don't know if you guys

01:19:25.140 remember doug you might be old enough to remember this i don't know how old you but

01:19:28.740 where every girls could share alternative holistic medicine ideas with each other on tiktok and

01:19:38.560 whatnot every every girl that i knew was really into um what was it cocaine

01:19:47.000 what they use to try to make themselves better oh that was the holistic medicine

01:19:59.880 that is not what i was thinking he was gonna say

01:20:09.560 where i'm from you know you know i'm from i'm from washington state so you know

01:20:14.040 it was meth meth was what all the girls used to to treat all their ailments oh yeah yeah they

01:20:20.040 still have that yeah yeah yeah oh my gosh how did that work for us i was very close for several

01:20:29.000 years with a woman who was vegan because she had been convinced that that was you know the

01:20:37.720 best possible way for her to be like a healthy person to stay out of the hospital and all that

01:20:42.760 kind of thing and she tried to get me to be vegan we'd spend way too much money at like trader joe's

01:20:49.400 and whole foods and all that business she's into all the disgusting like imitation meat

01:20:55.160 burgers and stuff like that so mom's story short we break up i i didn't really keep in touch with

01:21:03.480 her but we would cross paths every so often back in san diego because we had similar groups of

01:21:11.880 friends and whatnot and about a year and a half after we broke up i ran into her at the gym and

01:21:17.440 she's telling me this story about how she was uh just getting really sick and everything so she

01:21:23.500 went to the hospital and they did a full like blood test panel type of thing on her and and

01:21:30.660 the doctors convinced her that she was all fucked up because she was vegan and she didn't have any

01:21:35.540 iron blood uh it was brutal i could never be vegan because of bacon and then you're gonna laugh but

01:21:46.620 the burger king whopper like every other fast food burger i can leave behind but every so often

01:21:56.060 i go to burger king and i don't get anything i don't get the french fries or anything i just get

01:22:00.300 a burger a whopper with cheese and bacon no onions cut in half and just have to eat it

01:22:06.700 every once in a while dude that's disgusting dude hey you know what hey hey you know what

01:22:13.980 i eat 7-eleven food i eat those oh my god i eat those monterey jack chicken taquitos on the roller

01:22:22.540 i eat that i eat tuna fish sandwiches from 7-eleven so see you got it you gotta know who you

01:22:30.860 gotta know who you're talking to over here you are a real man bro i'm not hating on you at all

01:22:40.380 i don't need anything like that i'm like i make all my own food i bring lunches to work like i

01:22:47.020 bring a george foreman grill to work at my job and plug it into the welding machine that i use

01:22:52.620 all day on my lunch breaks and cook steaks and shit like that like i'm i have enough experience

01:22:59.260 knowing people in food service jobs where like i i don't ever let anybody else make my food

01:23:09.680 back in the day when i was young i used to work three jobs and one of them was i was an opener

01:23:13.840 at starbucks at the orange county airport and i shouldn't admit this on video but i've been

01:23:21.120 prosecuted for worse crimes than this but dude we used to spit in so many people's drinks

01:23:30.840 just be careful just be careful out there is all i'm saying you know what i mean

01:23:35.260 ew come on man hey i'm not i didn't make this up it's not like i was like now

01:23:43.100 spitting in people's i just started working there and it was the senior like barista dudes that were

01:23:49.660 cool that were like look man when this particular person comes in that's an to

01:23:54.460 everybody all the time we're gonna all spit in their drink and it was like a game

01:23:59.500 or we can see how many of us could spit and scream pissed off ladies coffee

01:24:06.860 bro it was worse than that i used to give people decaf people would come in and order like a five

01:24:11.340 shot whatever special ass drink and i would give them decaf son oh my gosh you you were a menace

01:24:20.860 absolute menace a menace to society man i was an when i was young i don't do

01:24:26.940 that kind of thing anymore of course that would be that would be wrong now that i'm addicted to

01:24:31.180 coffee just like y'all but yeah are those um have you seen those videos where since you work in

01:24:38.780 construction where the white guys show their lunches and it's like a ham sandwich with some

01:24:45.020 chips and then like the mexican guys show their their lunches and their wives cook them up all

01:24:49.980 this good stuff like handmade is that real i haven't seen that that's 100 true man

01:24:55.900 100 i haven't seen that going around because i'm not super deep into social media and whatnot but

01:25:01.620 like that's 100 that's why i'm like an honorary mexican i'm so down with the mexicans dude

01:25:06.960 the the mexican lunch ladies you guys already know how i feel about that i love those women

01:25:12.400 they're my favorite i'm in atlanta right now we don't have any mexican lunch ladies that are

01:25:18.840 allowed to come on our job site because we're doing government work so i'm just bringing my

01:25:23.560 you're not gonna see any of them for a while not not with ice ice baby doing doing what they're

01:25:31.720 doing no more tamale ladies anytime soon dude don't get me wrong i want them all deported but

01:25:40.700 like i love them at the same time you know what i mean it's not not because i hate them it's just

01:25:44.960 because i want my taxes to go down not up i mean good luck with that you know how it is

01:25:51.940 so no more tamale ladies you know selling tamales for cheap out of the trunk of their cars none of

01:25:58.660 that man not for the next three years i hope so i hope some of them stick around i hope someone

01:26:05.780 can dodge ice and show up and hook me okay i got one crazy crazy story for y'all and then i'm going

01:26:15.220 out to dinner so check this out the nobody's gonna beat this this is the craziest you've ever

01:26:21.060 you've ever heard in your life my last man i shouldn't even really now come on the last the

01:26:28.320 last woman that i was with we're having a baby and she got convinced by some podcasters on youtube

01:26:38.500 that the best possible most healthy thing that she could do to replenish her own uh like status of

01:26:49.780 being a whole healthy

01:26:51.580 woman after she gives birth to a

01:26:54.000 child is to save

01:26:56.280 the placenta

01:26:57.140 I've heard of this

01:26:58.800 you know what I'm saying

01:27:00.780 and make tea out of it or eat it

01:27:02.940 she was going to make placenta

01:27:05.820 smoothies bro

01:27:06.840 this shit's real

01:27:09.020 this shit's real there's podcasters out there

01:27:12.060 that are into like

01:27:13.640 astrology

01:27:14.300 and then they convince

01:27:17.820 them not to

01:27:18.480 it and then they convince him not to take drugs when they give birth i don't care i'm getting

01:27:23.280 drugged up dude i told you guys before but we had this baby in our own i delivered the baby

01:27:30.320 oh wow yeah we had the baby at home she just like invited her home girls over that are like these

01:27:36.000 like farmer type ladies there was no actual like professional doctors or midwives or anything it

01:27:44.000 was just like me and this circle of like super hardcore granola eating kind of witchy

01:27:52.880 chicks it was i mean thank god nothing crazy happened and everything worked out

01:27:59.600 did you have a catcher's mitt on where you caught that bad boy sliding

01:28:05.840 the whole nine i caught the baby we did the skin to skin little family thing and everything

01:28:14.000 and then this bounced on me dog how the does that add up no adds up perfectly she's a woman

01:28:23.200 i mean what did you yeah modern women what did you expect i i think the actually right

01:28:27.600 the flaw in your the flaw in your thinking was making it to that age and expecting something

01:28:33.040 else like like why would you expect the wife to stay in your whole life yeah i mean that that was

01:28:39.920 just silly you might as well just plan for the divorce before the marriage you know

01:28:44.880 i know right i was i was too worried about placenta milkshakes and shit i was like really

01:28:52.020 trying to quarterback the situation and make sure that didn't actually happen so at least that's a

01:28:56.760 point in my category you know what i mean yeah because i did put the kibosh on that we didn't

01:29:02.820 actually have any placenta smoothies going on but bro it was would you have had to drink it

01:29:08.860 if she made it not me she was gonna drink it okay i was just gonna lose all respect i'm like

01:29:16.740 and if you could see what these dudes look like that are these podcasters that are telling women

01:29:26.160 to do this they look crazy man they're not even like a normal looking dude they're like dudes

01:29:32.740 like super crystals yeah and t-shirts and shit and they ain't got no real job they just have

01:29:40.160 a podcast and they're you know yeah i'm like you're gonna listen to these cats but you're

01:29:45.060 not gonna listen to me they're the freaking balding man bun and the freaking dirty white

01:29:50.800 t-shirt on and and you know i was talking about crystals and chakras and yeah man it's terrible

01:29:56.960 they have some kind of

01:29:59.520 some kind of tea business

01:30:05.600 or some kind of like coffee shop

01:30:07.540 or something on the side

01:30:09.580 yeah I know exactly what you're talking about

01:30:11.520 yeah you're right there man

01:30:13.720 anyway that's all I got for you

01:30:15.680 watch out for placenta smoothies

01:30:17.700 out there

01:30:18.040 and be nice to people at Starbucks

01:30:21.660 so they don't spit in you

01:30:22.700 yeah gross

01:30:23.780 bro

01:30:25.640 I mean that shit goes without saying

01:30:27.900 make sure you're not getting spiked decaf

01:30:30.160 with all kinds of loogies

01:30:31.600 locked in it

01:30:32.260 make sure

01:30:34.760 to tip the people that make

01:30:37.860 your food and fucking be nice

01:30:40.000 out there

01:30:40.640 I hear ya

01:30:42.720 alright I gotta go I'll catch y'all later

01:30:45.020 thanks for calling

01:30:45.880 the chat is so funny tonight

01:30:49.660 ew

01:30:50.060 always a good caller that guy

01:30:53.580 alright and then last but not least we have

01:30:55.400 rj thanks for being here this evening we really appreciate it we know it's saturdays we always

01:31:01.640 appreciate you listening in um normal show times are monday through friday at 7 p.m central time

01:31:09.240 so make sure to catch pearl on at those times rj how you doing hey i'm doing well how are you where

01:31:16.040 are you calling out of i'm calling out of el salvador oh yeah oh yeah okay yes yes sorry

01:31:25.160 i'm um as soon as i heard your voice i remembered but so what's your um story that you have for us

01:31:35.240 today yeah so i'm actually gonna come in here and i'm i want to simple a little bit actually

01:31:41.240 uh because i'm calling in defense of women okay and not full defense i'm i'm like yeah there's

01:31:48.520 there's some crazy stuff out there but to give my background here so i have two kids that are

01:31:54.520 severely autistic um my oldest son he actually today is his 10th birthday and to get you an idea

01:32:02.760 of what i mean by severely autistic he doesn't really communicate um he has a couple sentences

01:32:10.040 that he just uses out of context so he'll say words but the words have little meaning um he

01:32:15.480 He needs constant help with eating and even going

01:32:19.440 to the bathroom.

01:32:21.240 And his brother is very much of the same.

01:32:26.400 And this is something, obviously, we've

01:32:27.800 been dealing with for quite some time.

01:32:31.540 And one of the challenges that we have run into

01:32:34.760 is we have taken them to doctors.

01:32:37.200 We have done everything that we were told we're supposed to.

01:32:40.920 We did what we were supposed to do

01:32:44.720 based off of what the doctors told us to do.

01:32:46.860 And every single medical intervention

01:32:48.820 that we have received has backfired on us.

01:32:53.780 So some good examples is my wife,

01:32:56.840 she would be taking, I believe it was Tylenol,

01:32:59.960 while she was pregnant.

01:33:01.540 She was told this is perfectly safe.

01:33:03.080 This is a safe one for women.

01:33:05.220 And then it's been more recently, it's been said,

01:33:07.640 oh no, actually, Tylenol may result

01:33:09.780 in autistic symptoms in your children.

01:33:11.500 Um, we would take them to therapy, um, and they would use this feeding therapy and the,

01:33:20.980 what we would do, what they would do for feeding therapy is they would basically put a piece of

01:33:24.840 celery on a plate and I'd say, or, and tell, tell my son, all right, I want you to pick up the piece

01:33:31.080 of celery and just kiss it. And he would, and he'd go and grab it and bring it up to his mouth and

01:33:35.040 like, maybe just barely kiss it. And if you just brought it up closely, didn't even kiss it,

01:33:39.220 they would give him skittles and so he would come out of therapy just wired on on like just just

01:33:46.800 completely wired from all these skittles they're giving him but he's not actually eating any celery

01:33:50.980 he's not eating any food and we actually never like it was it was a big problem because you know

01:33:57.720 he got really good about eating skittles and i mean i think most people can agree skittles is

01:34:02.700 really not the best thing for i think he's like five years old at that point um so they're not

01:34:07.560 a great thing to be giving a five-year-old, especially one who is malnourished and is

01:34:12.680 anemic and has all these other gut issues on top of things. But to put this in a, and I'm sorry,

01:34:21.840 if I'm rambling, if you want to interject at any point, please do. Okay, I'm listening.

01:34:25.880 So, but to put it in a broader scope, the issue here is that there is a significant lack of trust

01:34:37.120 across the board from medical, from people with their medical professionals. And a lot of it

01:34:43.680 is justified. Another good example I have is we wanted to get some genetic testing done because

01:34:49.100 we want to see if there was this genetic mutation that may result in some autistic symptoms. And

01:34:56.020 there's a misdiagnosis of one of our sons. And we asked the doctor, hey, can we do genetic testing?

01:35:02.760 He said, absolutely no problem. We can do that. And I said, okay, well, are you going to test

01:35:06.020 for this particular genetic marker.

01:35:07.980 And he said, yes, we will test for that.

01:35:10.160 But we're not going to tell you what

01:35:11.800 the results of that test are.

01:35:13.520 Because there's people online who

01:35:16.300 sell these pills for like $50 a month,

01:35:20.780 saying that if you take these pills

01:35:22.200 with this genetic marker, it's going

01:35:24.440 to cure your son of autism.

01:35:26.360 And we don't want you to go and waste your money

01:35:28.740 on stuff like that if it does come out positive.

01:35:32.180 Now, I understand their position on this.

01:35:34.040 But if I was spending $50 a month on pills that were placebo, and the result was my son

01:35:43.200 stopped having autistic symptoms, he became a normal child, was having fun, did all these

01:35:50.600 things that normal kids do, I would not care if I was spending $50 a month.

01:35:55.320 I wouldn't care why it was working.

01:35:57.820 I would just say, here, take my money because whatever's happening, I don't want to jinx it.

01:36:04.320 I don't want it to break.

01:36:05.980 And the fact that they're saying, no, we're not going to give you this information because we are trying to help you make financial decisions that's not there to make financial decisions to make is a big problem.

01:36:16.040 And again, to expand it, I'm not going to go too dense because it's a massive rabbit hole, but a lot of this comes down to just the way that the insurance companies and the way the medical system is set up in the United States.

01:36:29.360 Because, I mean, I've been living outside the United States for over three years.

01:36:32.520 I lived in Europe.

01:36:33.760 Things are very different in the way people approach medicine in Europe.

01:36:37.380 And I think this is the big root.

01:36:42.540 Obviously, it's really bad when you have situations where kids die from these decisions.

01:36:46.720 But I think the problem is that the medical industry needs to do a better job of building trust and not just telling people, basically gaslighting people about things.

01:36:56.940 And just when they make a mistake saying, oops, my bad.

01:36:59.620 I'm sorry.

01:37:00.020 Your life sucks now.

01:37:01.480 Right.

01:37:02.340 No, that makes sense.

01:37:03.740 I could see why you'd have that perspective.

01:37:05.820 Doug, MP, you got anything to add on it?

01:37:08.780 Yeah, I guess.

01:37:11.580 I just, you know, I would trust modern medicine more than any kind of holistic medicine.

01:37:18.160 If I had to, look, I'm all about, you only have limited time and resources.

01:37:24.480 So I would rather trust in modern medicine than holistic, but people should make a choice

01:37:30.140 as long as it's an informed choice.

01:37:33.780 Understand what I'm saying?

01:37:35.000 But make the best choice for you.

01:37:36.960 So I don't tell people what to do when it comes to this, but, you know, you, you know, just I don't like when people just rule out modern medicine.

01:37:51.180 I guess this do is best for you. That's all I want to say.

01:37:55.600 Well, sure. But and again, I'm not even saying that modern medicine is bad.

01:38:00.660 You know, I've had some very serious injuries. I had a skiing accident, tore my ACL.

01:38:06.380 they put my put it back together you know broke my ankle in the same leg they put it back together

01:38:11.820 like i've had a lot of positive things with modern medicine i think there's some certain

01:38:16.300 categories um like for example the therapy that i was going to it was paid by by the state at the

01:38:21.620 point um where again because my wife wasn't able to work and all these challenges i was on medicaid

01:38:27.580 at that time and medicaid was covering the cost of this therapy it was the only way we'd ever be

01:38:32.500 able to afford the therapy in the first place because the therapy I it was it was going to

01:38:39.040 cost like about $120,000 a year I think is what it was um again we're doing an hour for two kids

01:38:45.260 um every single every single uh business day so I think it's like a $60,000 for for each kid or

01:38:52.820 something like that it's been a while since I remember the numbers but again they it's they're

01:38:59.160 covering the medic medicaid was covering this and if they actually were able to solve the problem

01:39:05.780 and and fix the issues with my my son then or either of them you know they're losing a significant

01:39:12.860 source of income that's guaranteed because the state's right yeah and and this is and this is

01:39:18.760 where it again like for for fixing things like like broken bones and you know i um that's like

01:39:26.140 i get it that there's important places for modern medicine there's just a lot of other places where

01:39:32.860 it doesn't work as well and even when you go and bring up hey you know things like hey have we

01:39:37.740 can we look consider this other option um and the response is always well there's not enough

01:39:43.980 data or research to be able to uh to to for me to be able to give you an opinion on that

01:39:49.180 like the doctors are so locked in because of what they're allowed to actually say like the amount

01:39:54.940 of times i've heard oh there's just not enough research on that there's not enough research on

01:39:58.460 that on on any kind of question i have to be able to actually solve problems is so i there's so many

01:40:04.140 times that they say that and it just becomes a case where you like as a parent and you see your

01:40:10.860 kid in this state um of of just their their suffering um this is not known but uh there's

01:40:18.220 been a lot of people don't notice about autism uh tip the average life expectancy for for autistic

01:40:23.740 people is usually in their 30s so really it's not low i did not know that wow again

01:40:30.860 one of the things i will say is more recently like the we start having this autism spectrum

01:40:36.460 and so they yeah i don't even think of like like what i thought of as autism like 15 years ago

01:40:43.180 it's not what i think of as autism today like when i hear autistic i i hear socially awkward

01:40:50.380 now where like 15 years ago it was like a lot of like they couldn't functions it wasn't like

01:40:56.040 like today i even think of people that just can't make eye contact or just a little awkward rather

01:41:02.260 than um like the people i would think of like 15 years ago would be like they could barely talk you

01:41:09.540 know yeah and that's exactly i'm talking about the autism of 15 years ago i i oftentimes i try

01:41:16.720 describe it to people i say oh no it's not the new modern you know yeah cool autism that people have

01:41:21.600 it's the old school you know debilitating autism right um that we used to have but it yeah and so

01:41:27.520 this is a very serious problem like this is not something that that's that's cute like some people

01:41:32.720 make it out to be right and so when i'm trying to go and say hey can we try these other things can

01:41:37.440 we look for other things and i'm also told that no we can't the best thing we can do is to just

01:41:44.400 have your kids pretend to be normal that is the best case scenario and and i'm saying well can

01:41:50.160 we look at doing this everything that might help can we like you know there's some gut issues

01:41:54.240 because of this thing can can we look into this and i say well there's not enough research on

01:41:58.880 that so i can't recommend anything about going down that path like you just feel like so stuck

01:42:03.680 and looking for for someone to help to give you some hope um and yes it does have a downside and

01:42:09.680 And this is where I think women will tend to go to more of the woo-woo stuff, you know, like, okay, let's put in some crystals and stuff.

01:42:17.400 Whereas when you have a man, they give a bit more grounding, like, okay, does this actually make sense?

01:42:22.940 Is this actually a logical thing to consider and what are the risk factors and everything?

01:42:29.300 So, again, like I said, I'm not going to go and just, you know, say everything that all the woo-woo stuff is all good.

01:42:35.340 but i think that there this is the bigger issue here is a way that the medical system is in the

01:42:40.640 united states and the way that they're feeling people yeah cool i agree well thanks for calling

01:42:46.520 in and giving your perspective doug mpa you got anything else no always good hearing for you

01:42:51.620 yeah call in anytime okay yeah it's the right day that is everybody cool

01:42:59.660 well i was expecting more um my mother always thought she was sick stories i was expecting

01:43:07.340 a little more of those because well i guess we can do a show on that munch house and by proxy

01:43:12.060 where women have have made their kids sick to get attention and then there's um munch houses is is

01:43:19.520 where you you act sick all the time so we might be able to do it you have these influencers who

01:43:24.900 fake like a cancer diagnosis to get money or something like that yeah it's all over the place

01:43:29.260 From what I've seen, it's not necessarily they're faking it, but it's like mothers with high anxiety levels and they don't know how to manage it.

01:43:37.240 So they're just always scared.

01:43:38.360 They're sick, like always.

01:43:40.240 And they're just whenever they hear like any symptom that matches their symptoms that that's the that's what I've seen, you know.

01:43:47.800 But OK, well, thanks for calling in today.

01:43:51.140 Doug MP, any final thoughts on the show?

01:43:53.900 Yeah, I mean, guys.

01:43:57.340 Seek modern medical treatment.

01:44:00.620 I mean, it's medical practice, but we want you all here as long as possible.

01:44:04.740 You know what I'm saying?

01:44:06.060 This whole thing, well, oh, like Ananda Lewis, I'm going to keep my tumor.

01:44:10.300 And then all of a sudden she's like, man, I really should have got

01:44:13.980 a double mastectomy two years ago.

01:44:15.940 Yeah, well, now it's too late. Yeah, I mean, I think I want to be alive.

01:44:20.340 i i don't want to die anytime soon so so do whatever you can to keep me alive dang it yeah

01:44:25.940 i don't know i think alternative stuff maybe early on you can try that but if i'm if i have

01:44:33.940 cancer i'm getting chemo if i give birth i'm getting drugs yeah i shout out to all the natural

01:44:40.580 moms out there i'm not joining you yeah yeah i had a friend who they had two sons yeah and um

01:44:49.860 the first birth was natural and then the second birth she had drugs and he's like oh man dude like

01:44:59.220 oh she had um you know the it was so much better the second time man because she was she was a

01:45:06.020 maniac the first time yeah give me the drugs knock me out i don't want to feel a thing okay well what

01:45:15.700 What was that you said the other day?

01:45:17.180 Who said that?

01:45:18.460 If birth was so painful, why do women keep doing it multiple times?

01:45:25.960 That's it.

01:45:26.600 That's all I got.

01:45:27.520 All right, guys.

01:45:28.300 My final thoughts are that I'm not against holistic prevention.

01:45:34.180 I actually think that's the best way to put it.

01:45:36.720 I'm not against reasonable holistic prevention, such as eating clean, eating healthy, working out.

01:45:44.700 i think that's fine um but generally if it's more complicated than that like we're worried about the

01:45:50.380 plast the microplastics the water look i know people that are in great shape and they drink

01:45:57.240 microplastics and they're fine so um i'm not against reasonable prevention but i think if i

01:46:04.040 get cancer i am getting the chemo uh give me the drugs give me whatever you got well all right guys

01:46:10.000 thanks for watching um if you got any topic suggestions put it in the comments please like

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