Pearl - Modern Women Love Gaslighting

00:00:00.800 What is up, guys? Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily. God willing, I can maybe do

00:00:07.760 a show today if the internet lets me, but you know, God only knows recently with this

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00:00:17.460 Help a girl out, you know. Okay, so today I want to talk about gaslighting and how women 1.00

00:00:27.960 use this to drive you crazy. They will use this to drive you insane. But before I get too deep 0.96

00:00:35.860 into the topic, please, please, please, please hit the like button and let me know in the chat

00:00:43.680 that you can hear me. Nothing is worse than, you know, spitting, you know, spitting bars

00:00:50.500 and then people can't hear me. Now, John in the chat says it's a silly term. And I know people

00:00:59.400 use it, but it's really silly. But I think that we really have to look at the terms that women 1.00

00:01:05.920 use, the terms that women have made up and use in order to describe men. And I think we really

00:01:15.580 got to start looking at this and you realize that women are always projecting. Women are always 1.00

00:01:21.740 telling on themselves. I mean, let's be honest. Pretty much every time a woman has 1.00

00:01:30.860 a woman has described a man as a narcissist, for example, almost always the woman is actually

00:01:43.000 the narcissist. Now, if I look at the definition of, say, narcissism, it says, in a person who

00:01:49.900 has excessive interest in or admiration of themselves. Does that sound like most men?

00:01:56.600 Do most men, are they really, you know, looking for a lot of credit?

00:02:02.460 But are they really looking for a lot of, you know, so I'm going to start by talking about

00:02:18.160 the definition of gaslighting. The definition of gaslighting is a form of psychological

00:02:27.440 manipulation where someone distorts reality to make a person question their own memory,

00:02:33.200 perception, or sanity to gain power and control.

00:02:35.720 The term originates from the 1938 British play and the 1944 film Gaslight, where a

00:02:42.680 husband subtly manipulates his wife's environment to make her doubt her sanity.

00:02:49.720 Examples include denying events.

00:02:53.140 So like, you were flirting with the guy at the bar.

00:02:56.260 No, I wasn't.

00:02:57.440 no, I wasn't. You're just seeing things. You're dressing like a whore. No, no, that's not real. 1.00

00:03:07.860 The accusing others of being overly emotional and making the victim believe that their memory

00:03:17.140 is flawed. That's, if anyone's dealt with a gaslighter, that's their number one tool. 1.00

00:03:23.360 So what it is, it's psychological manipulation.

00:03:26.340 The core of gaslighting is a deliberate attempt to erode a person's sense of reality.

00:03:31.640 Control and power.

00:03:32.600 The abuser's goal is to gain or maintain control over the victim in a distortion of truth.

00:03:37.420 The manipulator creates a false narrative, denies events, and makes the victim doubt their own experience and sanity.

00:03:46.520 The origin of the term.

00:03:48.200 The term comes from the play and the film gaslight and the story.

00:03:52.120 The husband dims the lamps in the home, but denies changing it.

00:03:54.940 And when the wife points it out, he makes her think she is hallucinating.

00:03:59.240 So the common tactics, and it's interesting.

00:04:02.220 So I was looking at this and it really just reminded me of women. 0.56

00:04:05.780 It really just reminded me of the things that women do. 1.00

00:04:10.680 Denial.

00:04:11.520 The abuser outright denies something the victim knows to be true.

00:04:18.200 I mean, who hasn't dealt with this in their life?

00:04:22.800 Who hasn't, right?

00:04:30.620 Countering, the abuser questions their victim's memory of events.

00:04:35.220 Trivializing, the abuser dismisses the victim's feelings or concerns.

00:04:40.960 Withholding, the abuser pretends not to understand or listen.

00:04:45.060 discrediting the abuser convinces others that the victim is unstable or crazy.

00:04:55.140 So let's look at ideally men describing what gaslighting is because they'll give us a more

00:05:00.260 honest definition. This one. Okay.

00:05:14.500 oftentimes people use it in gaslighting is a term you might hear a lot but oftentimes people use it

00:05:23.720 incorrectly or don't know what it actually means in this video I'll tell you what gaslighting is

00:05:29.400 how you can spot it and what you can do if you're a victim of it

00:05:44.500 Gaslighting is a form of manipulation, where over a long period of time, often months or

00:05:53.140 years, a gaslighter slowly leads their victim to believe that they can't trust themselves.

00:05:58.900 Incapable or crazy.

00:06:09.640 With enough repetition, these messages actually start to stick.

00:06:13.420 the victim begins to doubt themselves.

00:06:15.680 They feel reliant on the gaslighter

00:06:17.500 who has painted themselves as the victim's savior,

00:06:20.380 the smart, capable, and sane one.

00:06:23.120 For a victim, this experience is disorienting.

00:06:26.320 They're filled with self-doubt

00:06:28.140 and they often feel anxious, depressed, numb, or confused.

00:06:31.740 They don't know what to believe.

00:06:33.480 Sometimes they start to doubt their own senses

00:06:35.840 and their own memories of experiences.

00:06:38.240 For a gaslighter, it's about controlling the situation.

00:06:41.880 Gaslighters are often normal people with poor self-esteem, 1.00

00:06:45.440 not some sort of evil mastermind.

00:06:47.760 So what does gaslighting actually look like in practice?

00:06:51.700 Let me start by describing a scenario

00:06:53.680 and then sharing a couple has a disagreement

00:06:59.280 about who should clean the kitchen after a meal.

00:07:03.900 Shouting, hurling insults,

00:07:06.320 and everything just grows out of control.

00:07:09.100 A few days later, they have cooled down.

00:07:11.440 decide to talk about what happened. Here are the tactics the gaslighter might use. Denial. 0.98

00:07:18.320 The gaslighter straight up denies the argument ever happened. Or they take a lighter approach

00:07:24.080 and they say it didn't happen how the victim remembers it. They'd say, what argument? That was

00:07:30.320 a normal conversation. Minimization. The gaslighter might claim shouting and insults are normal in

00:07:37.600 relationships and it's the victim's fault for being so upset they'd say yeah we argued but

00:07:44.240 it wasn't a big deal you shouldn't be so upset projection the gaslighter turns accusations back

00:07:51.200 around against the victim they'd say you might have been upset in arguing but i was perfectly calm

00:07:58.320 you need to learn to control your anger put downs the gaslighter insults the victim to flip blame 0.81

00:08:05.360 back around. They might say, wow, you really are bent out of shape about that little argument.

00:08:11.060 You're way too dramatic. Threatening. The gaslighter threatens something bad happening

00:08:16.700 if the victim doesn't go along with their way of thinking. They'd say, if you keep being so

00:08:21.660 dramatic, I'm going to leave, then you can always clean the kitchen. Remember, gaslighting is not

00:08:28.140 a one-time thing. These tactics are used day after day over the course of months or years.

00:08:34.120 after being told hundreds of times that they're too dramatic victims might slowly start to believe

00:08:40.320 it one quick note so far i've been talking about romantic relationships but gaslighting can happen 0.92

00:08:46.800 in any okay so you guys are starting to get the idea now what i want to do is showing how the e

00:08:52.780 girls are gaslighting us to pretend that they don't want to be naked 1.00

00:08:59.040 and they will gaslight us to eternity so the newest e-girl is this girl named

00:09:08.200 ella molding now she's cute she's like early 0.93

00:09:14.160 i'm guessing like 25 maybe let me check let me see if it's online

00:09:23.280 age. Okay. She's 22. I was close. Okay. So 22 year old little e-girl, right? We love the e-girls 0.98

00:09:34.300 here. But as you guys know, e-girls have a tendency, what they do is they monetize their 0.95

00:09:40.060 beauty and they want to signal purity and also look as hot as possible. Okay. Now what I'm not

00:09:51.560 going to do. I want to give some preface. I played volleyball my whole life. I am really

00:09:57.400 not offended by people that are not overly modest. I don't really care. However, I do

00:10:05.480 think it's ironic that these girls have Jesus necklaces on with their boobs out a lot of 1.00

00:10:12.800 the time. Now, I don't know, maybe if I had big knockers, I too would have, you know, 0.86

00:10:18.500 the tits just soaring out. Kind of do this tops a little lower cut than normal, but 1.00

00:10:25.680 it's not a moral thing. I am not sitting here saying, Ooh, immoral, but we have to look at

00:10:36.360 this as being a little bit, sorry, let me go full screen. A little bit ironic, just a little bit

00:10:43.520 ironic, you know, when they got the Jesus cross on. Um, okay. So this all started. 0.96

00:10:56.420 Ah, Emily, did you delete it? Let me see if I can get Emily on the line.

00:11:03.780 Emily.

00:11:04.340 hold on

00:11:13.780 where is it

00:11:20.800 Emily saves

00:11:23.740 okay whatever

00:11:26.480 now

00:11:27.320 now essentially

00:11:32.040 this e-girl right 0.97

00:11:33.380 I'll tell you what the post said.

00:11:34.940 I'm so pissed.

00:11:36.820 Emily, why did you delete this?

00:11:38.580 Say it with your chest.

00:11:40.920 So Emily had a low-cut top on.

00:11:45.500 Or sorry, not Emily. 0.56

00:11:47.140 Ella had a low-cut top on with her boobs slightly out. 1.00

00:11:52.220 Now, the picture isn't there anymore.

00:11:56.000 So a full thought.

00:12:01.420 But again, it follows the trend.

00:12:31.420 All right, am I back? Where did I go? Oh, I was cooking. Oh, my gosh.

00:12:48.980 Okay, so essentially, I'll start over because I don't know where I left off.

00:12:58.100 Um, essentially what the e-girls tend to do now, e-girls, um, 1.00

00:13:04.980 can you guys hear me? I'm back. So essentially Ella responded to a tweet from Emily. Now,

00:13:16.100 Emily, I gotta be honest. Emily doesn't signal purity at all. Now, I don't know the ins and

00:13:21.920 of what happened, but I think Emily made out with someone at a turning point event or hooked up. I

00:13:28.640 don't know. I'm not going to, I don't know. I don't know. She did some quote unquote degenerate stuff 0.99

00:13:33.740 at a turning point event. And essentially these turning point events go on for years. A lot of

00:13:41.000 people hook up and party. Um, and they just do a lot of that stuff. And most of these women at some 1.00

00:13:48.200 point um okay emily got afted at a balcony at a tp usa event i heard that was the other one

00:13:58.840 i heard that was um the morgan chick that just got married i don't know i don't know these e

00:14:05.320 girls they throw it back at these parties all of these e girls i've heard isabella

00:14:09.400 de luca did it with some dude told me that he i don't look at it i'm not oh

00:14:13.880 it I'm not I'm looking at look I'm not a saint either I have done nothing gonna I've only been

00:14:23.680 to one turning point event and I went with my dad so nothing really you know what I mean but

00:14:28.860 although it's not like that stops you so I could have but I'm not I'm not here to signal purity

00:14:35.580 right I'm not here to do that what I'm here to point out is how Emily's being honest right she's

00:14:43.240 saying, look, I'm a hoe. And all of these women have something. Who knows what, right? But they 1.00

00:14:49.900 all have something. But what they do is they keep track of information over time. A lot of these

00:14:56.960 happened years ago, just to throw it back in people's faces later. And what's interesting

00:15:02.800 is the way they react to Emily in this, the way they react to me, is how they're going to react

00:15:08.380 to their husbands in private. And I'll give you an example. I talk a lot. I can talk for hours

00:15:22.460 straight. This doesn't go away. If you're dating me, I tell you about a lot of stuff that you

00:15:27.320 don't care about. My guy, sometimes he's like, shut up. He's really not. He doesn't say it like 0.99

00:15:37.660 that, but sometimes he's like, because I'm just high energy. I can be a lot, you know, so the

00:15:46.200 challenge is these girls, it's just really annoying to me because it's just like, okay, you got 0.62

00:15:53.080 nothing. So she tweets, she tweets. I don't remember what I'm really, Emily, me and you have

00:16:04.720 beef right now because you deleted this tweet. Emily tweets a picture of Ella and it has her

00:16:13.080 boobs slightly out. It wasn't too bad, but her boobs were out with a Jesus cross above it. And 0.98

00:16:18.820 she says, you know, it's kind of diabolical that you have your tits out with a Jesus necklace on. 1.00

00:16:24.560 And I think that's a fair criticism, Ella. I don't think that is unfair, that if you're going 0.99

00:16:31.560 to proclaim a religion that at least, at least at the time, like, do you know what I mean? If

00:16:38.640 you want to throw it back in your personal life, I'm not going to go digging to find it. Okay.

00:16:45.380 I'm not going to like, I don't have the time, but at least don't have your boobs even slightly out. 1.00

00:16:54.420 Like, I think it's reasonable, right? I don't think we should be arguing if the e-girls that 1.00

00:17:01.400 are talking and professing Christ's outfits are slutty or not slutty. I don't think this should 0.94

00:17:11.320 even be an argument. The outfit, and you know, should, it's always going to be. The outfit,

00:17:17.820 you know, if you were a real Christian or actually believed the things you said,

00:17:23.700 I couldn't eat, like I just saw Bryson Gray today and his wife. I have never seen that girl and

00:17:30.140 she's always like in these long skirts. There's no question. Is this slutty? Is this not slutty? 1.00

00:17:37.320 And I honestly, I do not lose any sleep at night. I don't lose any sleep at night. 0.94

00:17:45.740 If these girls are whores, I really don't care. Um, it's normal, right? 1.00

00:17:50.940 David um okay you could you could you look I've met very religious woman women and their outfits

00:18:01.780 especially maybe not at home like I know a pretty religious uh like catholic woman near me she might 1.00

00:18:08.600 I won't lie she'll wear spandex at her house or whatever but when she goes out she's close 1.00

00:18:13.520 she's you know um so I just think the fact that we're even having a conversation

00:18:21.680 about is her outfit appropriate kind of screams to the problem and what they do it's so crazy I

00:18:30.940 just couldn't believe how how much gaslighting this girl did it was crazy I tried to do this 1.00

00:18:35.560 Friday but um I got my internet wasn't dealing with me so she says why do you feel the need to

00:18:42.560 attack other women online because I don't bend over backwards for Israel. Now here's, here's 0.80

00:18:47.960 where the gaslighting. So first she does. Why do you feel the need to attack other women online?

00:18:54.820 Now, Ella, this, this first sentence pissed me off because I thought you're on the internet.

00:19:03.920 So this is what the women do. They go into a space and then they try to police the speech. 1.00

00:19:08.480 you can't make fun of me you can't make fun of me that's mean you're bad you're a bad person 1.00

00:19:15.320 Ella get off the fucking internet then get off get out of here get get get if you can't handle 1.00

00:19:22.040 the heat get out of the kitchen because I don't bend over now she's bringing up Israel so now 1.00

00:19:27.480 moving the goal goal post talking about something else about Israel I'm wearing a normal dress 0.99

00:19:34.120 stop over sexualizing everything are you porn brain it's so gross that's your trad e-girl 0.98

00:19:42.460 that's ella it shouldn't even be close it really shouldn't do you know what i mean like it should 0.99

00:19:48.920 i if you're gonna use god for clout i think that i should get to hold you to a higher standard

00:19:56.800 than the rest of us like if you're gonna put the jesus cross in your bio you're gonna live stream

00:20:03.900 the baptism you know i think there's you know what i mean because there's the people in the

00:20:08.940 congregation and there's the people in the front i i think you got to be at a higher standard you

00:20:14.420 might as well put on a nun outfit you know what i mean like it yeah i mean basically otherwise i

00:20:21.380 just wouldn't i just wouldn't put the jesus cross in the bio like i think that's a fair ask right

00:20:30.280 And so I put this here, female gaslighting in real time. 0.99

00:20:39.640 And then Sarah Stock, who's another, again, this is, these are women with Jesus crosses in their bio, right? 0.99

00:20:50.680 Imagine trying to make a sweet, wholesome girl out to be a whore just to feel better about prostituting yourself for Israel. 0.99

00:21:00.280 that's gaslighting even further emily i kind of respect emily i gotta be honest guys 0.97

00:21:07.400 i don't really agree with the materialism okay i don't agree like the ring thing i didn't agree

00:21:13.720 like i i think that's kind of like and i was trying to tell her you got to stop

00:21:18.760 saying that and like fixing money or whatever that it's just a trashy thing to do um

00:21:24.440 Um, but I got to give her credit.

00:21:28.280 I think she's honest. 0.99

00:21:29.440 Um, she basically says, yep, I am a whore. 1.00

00:21:34.520 I do drugs and I don't give a F. 1.00

00:21:41.100 Um, yeah.

00:21:42.340 And I just, and so I just want you to understand that a lot of these women, the way they react

00:21:50.000 to other women, you will be the other woman someday. 0.97

00:21:54.440 it's gonna be you it's gonna be you next I said even Christian women will defend 1.00

00:22:08.660 being naked at all costs you never see the trad e girls without a pound of 1.00

00:22:13.520 makeup short skirts and dresses and using God for money yet they insult and 0.94

00:22:18.980 gaslight you if you notice

00:22:24.440 Then she doubles down and gaslights even further. 1.00

00:22:32.400 She says, I just can't imagine living with a girl like this. 1.00

00:22:38.900 It's like you're going to go crazy because she's just going to gaslight you to eternity.

00:22:44.020 They wear so much makeup.

00:22:46.080 And look, I am not asking for a lot.

00:22:49.080 I really don't think I am.

00:22:51.200 I'm the trad Jesus female influencers. 0.62

00:22:55.160 No makeup.

00:23:00.900 Modest clothes.

00:23:02.420 If you're going to put the Jesus cross in the Bible, 0.94

00:23:06.540 Jesus cross in the bio,

00:23:09.240 I think I should be able to demand

00:23:12.060 you didn't get banged on the balcony at a TPUSA event.

00:23:17.640 I think I, I think I should be able to demand no makeup, modest clothes. I think that's the

00:23:33.000 bare minimum. And you're not insulting women just because they noticed you're naked or they noticed

00:23:40.340 you're using your brand for clout. They, you know, they become very, very mean. I won't even lie to

00:23:46.180 you. All right, people that over-sexualize everything are sexual things that are not

00:23:50.880 sexual at all. This is such bad gaslighting. You need to avoid this like the plague. Corn has 0.82

00:23:58.320 ruined so many brains, men's and women's. Stop making things sexual or provocative that are not. 1.00

00:24:05.720 It is a sign of someone whose brain has been completely rewired by corn or sex addiction.

00:24:11.180 If you see a picture of a guy and a girl immediately assume something sexual, you're 1.00

00:24:15.640 gross. If you assume a girl is a whore because she has more intense female features, you're 1.00

00:24:20.760 disgusting. These people are telling on themselves, you should turn to Jesus Christ. Okay, let me get 1.00

00:24:25.800 this straight. I mean, really, this is the post this girl has. Now again, it's not terrible. It's

00:24:35.820 not the worst, but it's like your butt, that's pretty high up. Do you know what I mean? Like 0.98

00:24:44.040 the Jesus, here's, um, tits out Jesus cross. I mean, I don't think it's cause you have feminine 1.00

00:24:58.340 features. It's cause you have heavy makeup and your boobs out, you know, it's like, 0.80

00:25:05.260 and I don't mind. I mean, girl, you look hot, go get your, you don't even go,

00:25:11.720 go for what you want in life. But I mean, who am I to tell her not to do it? If her throwing her

00:25:19.160 tits out will probably get her a way better husband than not. I mean, it will. And then 1.00

00:25:26.320 the problem is part two is these simps come in and they defend women's right to be naked. 0.80

00:25:33.980 They could fight for anything. They could fight. They could fight for, I don't know, world peace.

00:25:41.720 they could fight for, I don't know, ending like world hunger. They could fight, they could fight

00:25:53.160 for anything on the planet. And these simps will fight for women's ability to be naked. 1.00

00:25:59.820 We got this guy here. Anytime there's drama, actually, maybe I'm going to feel like this.

00:26:05.740 anytime there's drama on this app between political women you can bet money emily's 1.00

00:26:12.200 involved i guess when you're expired flat-chested and don't have a man to provide for you your only

00:26:17.480 way to make money is drama far farming or maybe she's a literal little a bitter black-hearted 1.00

00:26:24.140 women i just can't take this simping i mean is this a he looks just like i would think he would

00:26:35.620 look. It just never ends. Does anyone want to be my prom date? Oh my God. It never ends.

00:26:45.880 S-I-M-P-I-N-G-I-N-G. Stop simping. It never ends. And like, I was thinking about it and I 1.00

00:26:54.160 think this is why people go crazy because, yeah, I mean, it just,

00:27:03.120 it never ends um we're gonna watch the original gaslighter we're gonna share this tab

00:27:14.500 it is important to learn to recognize abuse and manipulation now there's actually a type

00:27:22.040 of manipulation called gaslighting and what gaslighting is it comes from a 1944 film

00:27:28.940 called Gaslight starring Ingrid Bergman. And it's about a woman who is manipulated by her husband

00:27:35.800 into believing that she is going crazy. We kind of find that the husband is actually just using

00:27:41.320 the marriage in order to find something. Okay. Manipulating the wife into going crazy. I think 0.96

00:27:48.560 these women are manipulating. Okay. Cause you know what? If someone said, Pearl, this top today, 1.00

00:27:54.220 this is lower cut than I normally do. If you said Pearl, that's a low cut top. I could A.

00:28:02.780 Oh my God, stop porn braining me. Stop porn braining and over sexualizing me. 0.99

00:28:10.580 Or I could say, why do you hate other women? Why are you drama farming? You flat chested, 1.00

00:28:17.020 bitter old hag or i could say oh yeah i could have wore something better it's so easy it's so 1.00

00:28:27.000 eat like and i just don't understand these simps will defend whoring 1.00

00:28:33.780 whoring whoring till the end of time and i just don't understand it i i really don't let me go 0.83

00:28:42.660 back to the movie in a valuable that belongs to her but she believes she's going crazy because

00:28:50.420 he was rifling through the attic at night and what happened in those days is if you turned on

00:28:56.100 a light in one room it would dim all the other lights throughout the house because there was

00:29:00.100 only okay so now this guy's saying don't judge the simps in the house the simp is here don't judge

00:29:07.780 You know, look, I'm not judging. I think, let me put the definition of judging. Let me, let me,

00:29:14.260 we can go through and ask if I'm judging. I don't hate Ella for it. I don't think,

00:29:19.820 I don't think I'm better than her in any way. In fact, maybe she's, you know,

00:29:26.600 maybe she's made better decisions in some areas than I have. I don't know. I don't know her life,

00:29:30.940 right? But I can't, like, it's like if I see a stripper, right? And I say, that's a stripper.

00:29:42.420 And you say, you mean, evil, bitter old hag. I'm like, is that not a stripper? And then you 1.00

00:29:51.760 question your reality. You're like, is something wrong with me? Because I noticed that she's a 1.00

00:29:56.080 stripper. That's what these e-girls do. I think, wow, you're using your marriage, your family, 1.00

00:30:02.340 your kids for clout. I don't think you take it that seriously. You know, you're kind of,

00:30:10.060 you're using your ring to signal status. Are you sure you like the husband? You're kind of

00:30:17.440 coming off like you like, you just like the cloud of the ring. Or I'll see her with her boobs out 1.00

00:30:26.820 and I'll say, you know, are you putting your tits out with a Jesus cross? You know, it's really not 0.99

00:30:38.880 in a hateful way. I, you know, I don't hate any of these people. I don't have any problems with

00:30:44.000 them. But I don't understand why I can't, why am I not allowed to observe that that's what they're

00:30:51.900 doing? Like if I see somebody, like if I see somebody stealing and I say, hey, you're stealing.

00:31:03.900 I'm not that religious. Okay. I'm really not, you know, am I not allowed to observe?

00:31:09.500 Am I not allowed to notice? Why can I not notice?

00:31:21.560 Let's see. It says judging to form an opinion or conclusion about, to give a verdict.

00:31:30.960 Maybe I am judging. I don't know. I mean, I was debating, is forming an opinion or making a

00:31:36.240 negative assessment about a person. I don't have a negative assessment about Ella, but I do think

00:31:42.380 she sticks her tits out for Jesus. You know, I mean, it's not, it's not, it's not to say she's 1.00

00:31:51.160 a bad person, but she's definitely doing that. Definitely. Like, am I not allowed to notice?

00:32:01.060 when when does it become judging and i what i know what i don't understand is

00:32:07.300 where is this energy for women that judge men 1.00

00:32:11.280 let me go back to this other

00:32:16.000 this video certain amount of gas that could light the whole house and so you knew somebody else was

00:32:23.260 in the house in another room turning on the light if you saw the lights flicker and so she

00:32:27.200 she noticed that the lights would flicker every night after her husband had gone away somewhere,

00:32:32.000 supposedly maybe to see friends or whatnot. He was actually going to the attic.

00:32:36.440 But he convinces her that what she's seeing is not true. She's imagining that the gas light

00:32:43.480 is going down, when in reality, she knows. She knows better, but she believes him.

00:32:48.780 So that's what it means to gaslight somebody, to convince them.

00:32:51.460 And that's what they do. The women are trying to convince you they're not whoring. 1.00

00:32:57.200 then you kind of know you're like you're 22 i mean are you a virgin and then she was tweeting

00:33:04.560 she's waiting until marriage but i'm like do you still have your virginity it doesn't really seem

00:33:09.040 like it i mean i don't know girls that dress how you dress don't usually have it i'm just being

00:33:15.040 honest here to deny their own reality so gaslighting from an abuser makes a victim

00:33:21.440 doubt their own instincts and sense of reality

00:33:27.860 Now this other guy, he's like, you're criticizing her.

00:33:31.840 I'm like, I don't think I'm criticizing her because to be honest, I don't think it's a bad move. 0.99

00:33:38.940 I don't think it's a bad move to put her tits out and show off her body. 1.00

00:33:43.080 I think it's a good move for her. 0.99

00:33:45.600 I think strategically she will get more attention and more offers that way.

00:33:51.200 I would almost, I would almost suggest it. 0.99

00:33:54.680 But for you to tell me, for you to say, Pearl, that's not, she is not sticking out her tits for Jesus. 1.00

00:34:05.140 That's where I get annoyed. 0.99

00:34:06.340 Just say what you're doing.

00:34:09.520 Just, just say what you're, it's fine.

00:34:11.640 It's fine.

00:34:12.020 I'm not, I'm not, you know, like, I mean, you'll probably get some offers from like conservative guys that way. 0.95

00:34:24.720 But, you know, I don't even mind you being, I don't really like tits out with the Jesus stuff, 0.98

00:34:30.700 but you can do like tits out for Republican events. 0.99

00:34:33.380 I don't really mind that. 0.98

00:34:35.400 You know, I don't really mind like some hot girls doing some marketing. 1.00

00:34:42.300 And now they have to guard their reputation. 0.94

00:34:46.040 They're bringing more perverts to Christ. 1.00

00:34:48.240 now they you know i kind of like i kind of like when you guys go at me in the chat because

00:34:56.400 it does help me clarify my thoughts more you said female breathes air pearl makes a video judging it 1.00

00:35:02.780 you know i wouldn't really say that's the same i really wouldn't because women breathing isn't 1.00

00:35:12.640 interesting, but I do like to look at behavioral patterns. I think it's interesting, you know?

00:35:22.700 So, you know, this is kind of where we're at is even in my chat, right? These, I think these guys

00:35:29.820 are from Twitter or something coming at me. Just think about the fact that these are grown men.

00:35:36.680 They are grown men, and they thought, what should I do with my time?

00:35:40.980 Defend e-girls being naked. 1.00

00:35:43.480 I think it's in men's DNA. 0.96

00:35:45.680 They can't help it.

00:35:47.260 They just love defending women's honor. 1.00

00:35:52.700 They love it.

00:35:53.820 They can't stop it.

00:36:04.280 Judging or evaluating.

00:36:06.020 Yeah, you know what?

00:36:07.260 Maybe evaluating would be a better term.

00:36:11.180 How can I, how am I allowed to communicate this without women getting angry? 0.99

00:36:16.760 Like, I just cannot, I can't figure out a way to explain this without the women getting so angry where I'm like, hey, you're half naked. 1.00

00:36:27.880 I just thought like if they were half naked or partially naked or whatever, you know, they would want the attention for being half naked.

00:36:38.900 Do you know what I mean?

00:36:40.100 Like like another one.

00:36:41.600 I think she blocked me.

00:36:43.260 She's so soft.

00:36:45.180 Isabella.

00:36:47.960 DeLuca.

00:36:48.560 Um, I mean, she's another one who, who's always posting thirst traps and I kind of respected her

00:37:02.340 just going in. Like now she's just, now she's just being naked. Right. Hold on. Let me,

00:37:08.200 you know this is another trad e-girl right before remember she caused world war three 1.00

00:37:26.920 this is a crazy woman she scares me and i'll tell you why she scares me women have no idea how many 1.00

00:37:33.620 people are afraid of them. So this woman, a while back, I'm trying to find it, she made a video 0.51

00:37:40.860 baking a cake. And in the cake, her boobs were just very obviously out. Like just, you know what 0.91

00:37:51.040 I mean? Very obviously. She was wearing like too tight of a shirt. And, you know,

00:37:58.540 let me find this

00:38:03.300 I can't remember what set her off 0.92

00:38:10.220 did she delete the cake tits video

00:38:12.320 let me find it 0.88

00:38:13.220 if this got deleted I'm going to be pissed

00:38:14.880 I can't find it

00:38:27.480 Well, this woman doxed Rolo's daughter. 0.87

00:38:31.260 That's how evil of a woman she is. 1.00

00:38:33.500 She went out and found Rolo's daughter's Instagram when Rolo noticed that she was half naked. 0.91

00:38:42.000 And Rolo doesn't even like me, okay?

00:38:43.920 He hates me.

00:38:44.780 For whatever reason, I just, I do it for him.

00:38:48.040 Um, and I'll even say that doxing a guy's daughter is messed up.

00:39:06.540 It's pretty, yeah, he is really weird. I won't lie. But, you know, I got to respect him. He's,

00:39:14.140 And this is, this is how it starts. The women start, they start kind of being naked and then 1.00

00:39:20.380 they just full out, go naked. I turned Rolo down. Okay. Do you know what Rolo did? He always says,

00:39:30.280 Rolo's like the biggest gaslighter. I literally went, I wanted to interview him so bad. I was

00:39:37.360 so excited when I first got into the space to like interview him and stuff. And literally I

00:39:45.260 moved my travel plans, right. To go and see this guy and interview him in Vegas. He cancels the

00:39:51.460 week of and says, he's like, Oh, I got COVID. But I saw him, I saw him on another podcast within two

00:39:59.440 weeks. So I'm like, I don't think he had COVID. And then he'll, he'll be like, Oh, you were lying

00:40:04.880 about me, Pearl. And I'm like, what? Anyways, a few years ago, I wanted to do a panel,

00:40:12.840 a panel show with Nick, or sorry, it was with Rolo. And Rolo, basically, it was about his tweet

00:40:22.240 that he had. I can't even remember. It was so long ago. God, it was so long ago. I'm getting like,

00:40:29.720 but a long story short, I wanted to do a stream with Rolo. And I asked Rolo if I could bring

00:40:34.860 people on to the like other YouTubers on. I thought this meant I could bring anybody on

00:40:41.940 anybody. And what I did was I just DM to people that were talking about the conversation on

00:40:47.960 Twitter. And I'm like, here's the link. Here's the link. Come on. And we ended up doing this

00:40:52.580 whole panel and we're going back and forth. And maybe I wasn't moderating the best, but he,

00:40:57.580 he thought I was, I was trying to ambush him. I'm like, Rolo, you're my favorite at the time.

00:41:03.780 I'm like, you're my favorite YouTuber. Why would I want to do that?

00:41:12.220 No, I'm telling you, he was right with the tweet.

00:41:15.580 He said the fastest way to become a high-value man is get a vasectomy, do this, do that.

00:41:22.040 His whole point was it's the fastest way, not the best, not the whatever.

00:41:26.160 it doesn't it doesn't matter here's here's my point

00:41:34.360 I tried to offer him my friendship he crashed out after he he said I was so evil or whatever

00:41:47.580 and he's done so many streams on me and it's just gotten crazy it's been like years and he keeps

00:41:55.520 saying, I'm going to do something. And I'm like, Rolo, what am I going to do?

00:42:02.660 I mean, what, what have I done? That's, I raised like, and I, I didn't do this.

00:42:11.500 You know, I'm just, I raised like, I don't know, 10, 20 K for his friend that was dying of cancer.

00:42:17.240 you know i'm like and then he'll say he'll still be like oh she's so evil this that i'm like

00:42:28.360 rollo i was like there at the end i didn't see you but i mean maybe he was i don't want him to

00:42:35.920 make a three-hour stream saying like i don't know he's i i do feel bad for him because

00:42:44.620 he's such a great YouTuber and his book is so good it's so I still have his book and I don't

00:42:52.800 think people really give him like the respect he deserves because he's just kind of a weird guy

00:42:57.720 you know um like he's kind of like he's just a weird

00:43:03.240 like he still goes around everyone telling them not to work with me and they still

00:43:11.760 work with me. Do you know what I mean? It's just like,

00:43:16.920 I don't know. I'm a lover, not a fighter. Rolo, if you want to make up,

00:43:25.640 the offer is still on the table, but you know, you got to stop. I think at some point you really

00:43:33.700 got to get over this. I really would recommend it because it's a little bit weird.

00:43:41.760 It's a little bit weird, but I think he got a crush on me at this point.

00:43:50.280 You know, and you know what's crazy?

00:43:52.740 There's so many times where I've actually tried to look out for him.

00:43:58.080 Because even through it all, he's still one of my favorite YouTubers.

00:44:03.740 Even, even through it all, he really is one of my favorite YouTubers.

00:44:07.880 um like when the whole um venti like they gave him the fake abortion stuff or whatever like they

00:44:20.780 set him up I remember I told Glenn I thought that was a setup and there's no way that somebody sent

00:44:29.720 abortion documents and I don't know all the drama I don't know the ins and outs I didn't even watch

00:44:36.100 the full video of them setting him up. But long story short, I did say, please, I would not

00:44:46.080 post that you have that abortion thing. And then he did. Then he did.

00:44:53.820 Oh, is he going to do a three hour stream? He probably will.

00:45:00.920 Whatever.

00:45:06.100 Um, I really got through the e-girl stuff. I think that's all I really wanted to say. 1.00

00:45:14.620 For now, unless you guys, if you guys have a suggestion of something you want me to react

00:45:20.060 to, he went on on Chris Williamson and Andrew Huberman. Well, I do feel for Rolo because it

00:45:27.980 is so much harder to make money off of men than women. I do feel for him and it would be so much

00:45:34.520 easier to lie. So he's got to deal, you know, for 20 years, he's got to deal with all these people

00:45:41.440 that are just lying and lying on him mercilessly and attacking him. Yeah. Regular chatters you can

00:45:52.940 suggest. And, you know, they call the red pill crazy or they like, you know, they, they say all

00:45:58.820 this terrible stuff about it when they don't even know what it is. And they're just trying to

00:46:03.640 distance themself because, because they don't like men having power because they make money off 1.00

00:46:11.160 of women.

00:46:22.060 I understand.

00:46:33.640 Oh, we're back.

00:46:44.000 I was like, let me get the Wi-Fi on.

00:46:54.880 What am I thinking of doing today?

00:46:56.880 This is kind of an impromptu stream.

00:46:58.760 can you guys go to my boyfriend's stream could you do that

00:47:07.880 I think I'm going to end the stream but he's streaming now

00:47:12.400 and I just think it'd be kind of fun I'm going to show you

00:47:16.120 it's right here it's nuclear caudillo it says stay healthy dating women go give them a super 0.97

00:47:39.860 chat or something. Anyways, guys, like the video, subscribe. I just wanted to do that real quick.

00:47:50.260 This is just an impromptu stream. Like the video, subscribe, and I'll see you next time.

Pearl - August 25, 2025

Modern Women Love Gaslighting

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