Pearl - Modern Women Need Booze to Survive Motherhood

00:00:00.000 many moms are also I am the real oh my gosh what up guys welcome to my reaction series today we

00:00:08.080 are reacting to young mothers drink wine to cope with being a mom modern women want to get married 0.99

00:00:13.960 but they don't want to be wives modern women want to have kids but they don't want to be mothers 1.00

00:00:17.860 there's no follow-through and no integrity with modern women so what happens when a young mother 1.00

00:00:22.560 has a kid and she has thought it all the way through she starts to drink drinking to cope

00:00:28.360 with motherhood is tolerated and encouraged now let's take a look at how modern women are being 0.99

00:00:33.360 told to drink to deal with motherhood wine gets better with age I get let's see wine gets better

00:00:41.980 with age I get better with wine guilty you girls know that's true we do the troubling messages

00:00:52.660 often try to be humorous and appear on a number of mama needs someone that's not good guys like what 0.97

00:01:00.420 if it said men need some ass there would be a problem you see what I mean but like this socially acceptable 1.00

00:01:06.920 products from baby clothes with mommy drinks because I cry oh my god oh my gosh wine glasses 0.99

00:01:17.320 with mommy's sippy cup t-shirts reading coffee hold on all right so we got coffee hockey mom

00:01:25.040 wine repeat not good hockey mom wine repeat and even memes like the most expensive part of having kids

00:01:35.800 is all the wine and we have this idea that women are nurturing like do you see it just gets more 1.00

00:01:40.800 ridiculous to me every day you have to drink I think this messaging that is everywhere um it normalizes

00:01:51.560 this behavior of drinking to survive parenthood and it normalizes this idea that like drinking a lot 0.92

00:01:59.300 is no big deal as it turns out the messaging sadly reflects reality Kelly Manley turned to alcohol to fit in

00:02:08.660 with her peers who she observed drinking everywhere at kids birthday parties wait what I thought you

00:02:16.880 guys are doing it at home you're doing the birthday parties occur practices you name it people would show

00:02:22.840 up to the park with little um you know discreet glasses of wine to have it oh my god you know 4 p.m on

00:02:29.800 a play date at the park you know you go to the zoo and for a small upcharge you can buy a flight of

00:02:36.280 beer not just a beer but a flight of beer to enjoy while you're pushing your kid around the zoo and

00:02:42.520 like other events these days it's going digital like the moms who need wine facebook group alcohol

00:02:49.720 has been sold as the ultimate way to decompress to cope and to bond with other women and it's very

00:02:58.000 dangerous the alcohol industry has certainly played a part back in the 90s it ushered in this so like how

00:03:06.020 they blame the alcohol industry for women's choices as most of you know i have been fighting

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00:04:47.600 pearl is the discount code our choices you know called pinking of the market making and advertising

00:04:54.440 booze aimed specifically at women drink these sweetened pre-sweetened gorgeous um attractive pink

00:05:02.360 drinks that will um end you into drinking spirits drinking pretty wine drinking wine with names like

00:05:10.400 okay they didn't put a gun to your head and make you guys drink this you know uh french

00:05:17.480 rabbit and it worked while historically men consumed the most alcohol now we're out drinking men

00:05:24.540 women are now catching up in the last 15 quality ladies in years the greatest increase in consumption 0.99

00:05:32.140 has been among women in their 30s and 40s however because of biological differences women 1.00

00:05:38.160 i think it's because women um are bored and like the party kind of ends in your 30s and 40s so now

00:05:46.560 they gotta they can't go to the events anymore they gotta watch these kids so now they're drinking to

00:05:51.480 cope absorb more alcohol and take longer to metabolize it than men that means the same amount

00:05:58.620 of alcohol typically damages the female body more than the man's i i doubt it i mean they just they 1.00

00:06:05.600 they just probably complain more after drinking the same amount i'm talking out of my butt i don't

00:06:11.620 know alcohol women tend to have higher blood alcohol levels than men and the effects usually 0.95

00:06:18.300 occur more quickly and last longer in women alcohol also makes women more susceptible than men

00:06:25.620 to liver disease heart disease cancer and cognitive decline u.s health officials recommend women should 0.99

00:06:33.360 drink no more than five ounces we can't do less than five ounces a day we got a problem of wine a day

00:06:40.960 canadian health officials go further saying only two five ounce glasses per week yeah i mean for me it's

00:06:49.340 like once a month twice a month i don't need to drink a lot i could go like six months to a year

00:06:55.580 if i really wanted to it wouldn't be hard this is a women's health issue it's in fact a big public health 1.00

00:07:02.680 issue and it's not just physical alcohol affects mental health too which is why kelly gave it up 0.98

00:07:10.620 it just exacerbated my feelings of anxiety and uh depression and i felt like i was betraying myself

00:07:19.620 every time i drank she's not alone more moms are rejecting mommy wine culture and turning to groups 1.00

00:07:27.520 like sober mom squad having a safe space where you can talk to other moms about you know the questions 1.00

00:07:33.360 you're having about alcohol or how difficult it is to navigate women never solve their problems we just 0.99

00:07:39.500 have a tendency to talk about them because we feel guilty we'll like do the bad thing feel guilty and

00:07:44.000 instead of thinking maybe we shouldn't do the bad thing we'll talk about stopping doing the bad thing

00:07:47.820 and then stop doing the bad thing for a little bit talk a lot about it um and then usually go back to

00:07:54.360 it it's in this culture where everyone tells you you need to drink and then blame the culture it's

00:07:59.060 never us it's always the culture parents um and not have to justify that you should just be grateful

00:08:04.820 to have kids many moms are also i am the oh my gosh i cannot believe that is on a t-shirt saying no

00:08:14.900 because they're concerned about the culture's impact on their child's self-esteem most problematic

00:08:21.320 part of it is what is it saying to your kids um again if it's you know tongue-in-cheek jokes like

00:08:29.040 between friends that's one thing but when it you're wearing the t-shirt that said mommy needs wine

00:08:33.560 you know saying that you have to you know i have to drink because you're difficult um i think that

00:08:38.840 you know it's bad when women are calling each other out into something that's even more damaging 1.00

00:08:44.840 so what a pop culture and big all right guys um yeah we are now officially out drinking men um

00:08:55.260 we just have a tendency to do the wrong thing not always but yeah so anyways let me know what you guys

00:09:02.920 think what would you do if your wife or your girlfriend brought home a t-shirt like that

00:09:07.500 or your mom did any of you have moms like this let me know in the comments like the video subscribe

00:09:12.960 and i'll see you next time

Pearl - August 11, 2025

Modern Women Need Booze to Survive Motherhood

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