Pearl - April 10, 2025


Modern Women Party with Their Friends Instead of Finding a Husband 😳


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9 minutes

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1,715

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154

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30

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14

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7 Reasons Why Women Choose Their Friends Over A Man (Part 1 of 7) Why Women Would Rather Hang Out With Their Girls (Part 2 of 7 Reasons Why Girls Move More Towards Their Friends (Part 3) Why They Don t Need A Man

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00:00:00.000 But what I would say to them is, you can't marry your girlfriends.
00:00:03.160 Well, I mean, some might, but you can't have kids with your girlfriends.
00:00:06.680 So I was out in Chicago the other day, and I started a conversation with a couple of
00:00:12.720 young women about the dating scene.
00:00:15.020 During the conversation, the women were talking about how they don't put effort towards dating 0.98
00:00:19.560 men because they would rather hang out with women.
00:00:25.140 I couldn't believe it.
00:00:26.200 These women were dead serious. 1.00
00:00:27.740 I heard them talk about how much easier it is to go to a club or hang out with the girls 1.00
00:00:33.640 or go on a trip with their girlfriends than to put themselves out there in the dating
00:00:37.140 market to find a boyfriend or a husband. 0.98
00:00:39.240 This made me think how this could be.
00:00:41.580 And I thought of a couple of things.
00:00:43.900 We are four generations into women being told that they don't need men.
00:00:47.420 Modern women have forgotten what men bring to the table in relationships, the comfort, 1.00
00:00:52.320 the security, and the presence of a masculine man.
00:00:54.360 And two, like Myron from Fresh and Fit says, men have civilized the world so much that women
00:01:00.360 can live alone or with other women.
00:01:02.640 Packs of women can roam the streets without fear of anything bad happening to them. 1.00
00:01:07.120 And three, women hanging out with their girls is a short-term solution to a long-term problem 1.00
00:01:12.560 that can lead to disaster. 0.63
00:01:14.260 Modern women are giving away their best years to colleges, jobs, and now their girlfriends. 1.00
00:01:18.540 It's only a matter of time where most of these women will want to be with a man. 1.00
00:01:23.100 It's just a matter of when.
00:01:24.820 But by the time they realize that, it'll be too late.
00:01:27.140 At this rate, it's going to be like 62.
00:01:29.160 That's the day.
00:01:29.820 They're ready to settle down.
00:01:31.680 Okay.
00:01:32.180 So you can see on social media, women swearing that they will never leave their friends for
00:01:37.260 a man.
00:01:37.640 Again, that they have time with their girls or they can go on girls' trips.
00:01:45.100 But what I would say to them is you can't marry your girlfriends. 0.78
00:01:48.200 Well, I mean, some might, but you can't have kids with your girlfriends.
00:01:51.940 Your girlfriends won't provide for you and protect you. 1.00
00:01:55.060 And also, like I say on my channel all the time, women can't stand each other. 1.00
00:01:58.560 If you ask most women who has done the worst, most down-low thing to them, it's usually other 0.99
00:02:03.560 women. 0.81
00:02:03.840 And I believe that a woman has more of a chance of getting betrayed by their girlfriends in
00:02:09.360 a 20-year period than by their husbands.
00:02:12.020 Lastly, most women can count on their friends being there for them in their old age. 0.99
00:02:18.380 We have all watched the series Golden Girls.
00:02:21.580 That's a real thing.
00:02:22.760 A bunch of old, lonely women living together. 1.00
00:02:25.640 Is this the type of life that women want to live? 1.00
00:02:30.200 So we're going to start with seven reasons why women choose their friends over a man 0.99
00:02:37.560 or over boyfriends.
00:02:40.560 So, okay, seven reasons why girls choose friends over boyfriends.
00:02:45.720 The tiff between friends and boyfriends is never-ending.
00:02:49.480 Have you guys ever dated a woman and felt like you had to date her whole friend group?
00:02:53.380 Like, it's not just her.
00:02:54.700 It's the friend group you have to appease to.
00:02:56.880 Because every time you guys have a fight, she goes to the friend group, and now you have
00:03:00.820 to rationalize.
00:03:01.900 You have to tell your side to the friend group.
00:03:05.500 The former has been with her through all the rollercoaster rides of life, while the other
00:03:12.040 has bought an all-new meaning to her life.
00:03:18.320 To choose between these two gems has never been easy, but it seems girls value friendship 0.71
00:03:23.400 more than their own real-life relationships.
00:03:26.380 So before you get into a relationship with your dream girl, make sure she doesn't have
00:03:30.720 a best friend.
00:03:31.940 I mean, definitely not the one in...
00:03:34.700 I mean, definitely not the one in Payar Kapunchamana.
00:03:39.660 Have a look at the reasons which convey why girls are inclined to move more towards their 0.99
00:03:46.540 friends.
00:03:47.480 As you never know, these might act as best relationship tips for you.
00:03:52.760 Number one, friendship is forever.
00:03:55.680 Once a girl...
00:03:56.500 That's not true at all.
00:03:58.640 Once a girl has chosen her soul sister, dare you replace her? 1.00
00:04:02.040 They might fight like cats, but in hard times, you would watch them being each other's back.
00:04:06.680 Being each other's back.
00:04:08.880 Oh, just to be clear, a girl never finds a soul brother in her male friend.
00:04:13.980 Fights with best friends are free from any knots, whereas single friends with the boyfriend
00:04:18.980 can ruin the fairy tale dream.
00:04:21.380 Number two, deeply entrenched in each other's lives.
00:04:24.900 Friends have stuck for her for obviously a longer period of time, and anybody would place
00:04:30.800 their old relations above their new one.
00:04:32.880 From her grunge and gross, dressed up, dress up as a team to perfectly dressed adult, they
00:04:40.080 have seen it all.
00:04:40.900 Although there's no denial that boyfriends can do romantic things to melt their woman's
00:04:45.540 heart, but friends steal the show often.
00:04:49.320 Three, the lightness of mind and soul.
00:04:51.940 When compared to long hours spent with their boyfriends, even a few minutes with friends,
00:04:56.480 feel more honest and relaxed.
00:04:58.080 Yeah, because do you know the same way you guys have to lie to us to make us happy?
00:05:01.660 We have to lie to you too.
00:05:03.080 There's this idea that being honest has a good relationship.
00:05:09.420 Okay, let's pretend both sexes were honest. 1.00
00:05:13.140 Okay, let's pretend. 1.00
00:05:15.120 Then the men would say, I want to fuck your friend. 1.00
00:05:17.560 Your friend's hotter than you. 1.00
00:05:18.920 Yeah, I want to bang the friend. 1.00
00:05:22.000 But do you say that? 0.89
00:05:22.780 No.
00:05:23.600 No.
00:05:24.600 Because, or the sister, or the mother, whoever the hell it is.
00:05:27.860 You guys don't say that because you love us.
00:05:29.720 The same way women, we don't say, my ex was better than you. 1.00
00:05:35.100 Or we don't say, you know, we don't, we don't say uncomfortable truths like our body can.
00:05:41.520 There's a reason that we lie.
00:05:43.900 We have to.
00:05:44.680 Do you guys really want to know?
00:05:46.460 Do you, no, you don't.
00:05:47.400 You'd rather we lie.
00:05:48.560 Both sexes, we want to be lied to. 1.00
00:05:51.020 So anyways, yeah, so of course she can be more honest and relaxed with the girlfriend. 0.99
00:05:56.560 She can be herself.
00:05:58.820 Anyway, she's an open book in front of her friends. 1.00
00:06:01.000 Moreover, she can share anything and everything with them.
00:06:03.220 Therefore, being loyal is not a big task for her.
00:06:06.400 Until women use that honesty against, against each other and destroy their reputation and ruin their life. 1.00
00:06:13.220 Ask me how I know.
00:06:16.360 The rescuers.
00:06:17.480 After all the pebbles that life has thrown at her, she's got her friends to bring her back together.
00:06:22.100 Boyfriends might be the ex, but friends are never getting older, so it's the scolding of her parents or a fight with a boyfriend.
00:06:27.960 She finds home in her friend's hug.
00:06:30.180 Five, a bucket full of weirdness, all crazy and quirky things.
00:06:34.620 Find their place at a friend's lap. 0.92
00:06:36.320 She can be drenched in foolishness and still no one would judge her. 0.98
00:06:40.100 I mean, this is, yeah, women can be more annoying with each other. 1.00
00:06:45.300 Where you might tell her to shut the fuck up, right? 1.00
00:06:49.360 Yeah, it's, yeah, it's. 0.98
00:06:51.100 They have their own humorous dancing on the world's weirdest yet funniest songs.
00:06:55.740 Her A-rated talks find a higher level when she is with the gang.
00:06:58.920 Six, no need of space.
00:07:01.360 Most of the fights in a relationship revolve around the space each partner needs.
00:07:05.800 The quarrel over minimal things results in a tensed atmosphere.
00:07:09.800 But with friends, you need no space as you already have the freedom of speech and action.
00:07:14.480 Seven, friends are family.
00:07:16.140 Friends spend long hours in her house doing nothing as if it is their own house and her parents and their parents.
00:07:22.960 Also, with passing days, they become a large part of the family.
00:07:26.260 On the other hand, she needs to think a hundred times about bringing her boyfriends to meet her parents.
00:07:33.260 Yeah, so women are even making articles about choosing their friends over a man. 1.00
00:07:42.860 But don't just believe the articles.
00:07:45.200 Believe women themselves as we make TikTok saying the same exact thing. 0.99
00:07:49.320 Guys, don't ditch your friends for a boyfriend.
00:07:52.160 You only have so much free time.
00:07:55.640 Do you know what I mean?
00:07:56.600 You got to ditch somebody for your boyfriend.
00:07:58.900 So it's either the job.
00:08:03.320 You know we're not going to do that.
00:08:05.800 The friends.
00:08:07.420 And now they're saying don't do that.
00:08:09.160 Don't do that.
00:08:09.780 Especially now that I'm 27 and I'm still seeing a lot of women do that. 1.00
00:08:14.980 I'm like, girl, stand up.
00:08:18.040 Stand up.
00:08:19.180 Look, first off, if your boyfriend is isolating you from your friends, red flag, leave. 0.99
00:08:25.020 Of course it's the fat girl saying this, of course. 0.97
00:08:28.260 I see those. 0.99
00:08:29.040 I see the blubber.
00:08:30.420 I see the catfish.
00:08:31.380 That's disgusting.
00:08:32.080 Um, and you should be able to have girl nights. 0.96
00:08:36.600 That's normal.
00:08:37.380 In fact, that's very healthy.
00:08:39.100 You don't need to do everything with your partner.
00:08:41.080 For God's sake.
00:08:42.440 Also, stop calling him your other half.
00:08:45.340 You.
00:08:45.940 You yourself.
00:08:46.960 You are whole as a person.
00:08:49.220 You are whole as a person.
00:08:50.460 He is not your other half.
00:08:51.800 He is just an addition to your life.
00:08:54.880 I always tell my boyfriend, I want you.
00:08:56.580 I don't need you.
00:08:57.300 I don't need you.
00:09:02.080 Can you imagine her telling you this all the time?
00:09:06.940 It's like we behave badly and then just brag about it.
00:09:09.780 And we think it's like a good thing.
00:09:13.180 You gotta, you gotta think it like that, girls. 0.78
00:09:15.940 Stand up.
00:09:17.120 Cause I see sometimes here some things that concern me and I need y'all to stand up.
00:09:22.440 It's okay to be in love, but stand up.
00:09:25.140 Yeah, of course.
00:09:26.280 Of course.
00:09:26.680 So that's, that's womanese for I don't like my boyfriend that much. 1.00
00:09:30.140 When they say I need, I, you know, it's like when a woman really likes a guy, she begs, 1.00
00:09:35.600 she pleads, she cries, please don't leave me, please, please.
00:09:39.600 You know, you know how it goes.
00:09:41.640 But when she says, I want you, I don't need you.
00:09:44.260 That's, I don't like you.
00:09:45.660 Yeah.