Pearl - January 03, 2026


Modern Women Pretend Like They Don't Want a Chad


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Length

7 minutes

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207.99315

Word count

1,537

Sentence count

17

Harmful content

Misogyny

23

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Toxicity

9

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Hate speech

14

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In this episode, we discuss why women like to date ugly men and why they think they would be better off with someone less attractive than what they are in a relationship. Are you ugly? Do you like dating someone who is not as attractive as you think you are?

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00:00:00.000 and a lot of women can't date attractive men because they can't take having the attention 1.00
00:00:04.120 on him and not them. Are you ugly? Well, then I have the show for you. My name is Pearl Davis 0.99
00:00:09.320 and welcome to my reaction series. Today we are reacting to women talking about how they 1.00
00:00:14.740 like to date ugly men. If you think you're chopped, don't worry. Don't worry. These girls 1.00
00:00:22.220 will date you. Women sometimes think that they would be better off by dating someone who is 1.00
00:00:28.880 a lot less attractive than what they are okay so when women say this this means one of two things 0.99
00:00:35.500 one instead of going for alpha fucks they go for beta bucks so they're going for the provider
00:00:40.060 instead of the looks two they have a sorry three one of three things two the guy is funny or
00:00:45.880 charismatic or charming so he's got a good personality or he just knows how to talk to
00:00:50.860 women and or three they've been sleeping with men out of their league and now they deem men 1.00
00:00:56.680 in their league ugly so a lot of times when they i hear women say that their boyfriends are ugly a 1.00
00:01:01.720 lot and then i'll look at them and i'm like i don't think he's ugly if they think that this
00:01:05.800 partner will be more loyal or usually it's that they won't cheat take what i say with a pinch of
00:01:13.800 salt and i am being very general ish but three things are likely to happen if you date a man that
00:01:22.360 is significantly less attractive than you are see if you just give someone the benefit and the one
00:01:31.240 thing is if he actually is less attractive than you you have officially become his league so now
00:01:36.600 he can get women that look like you like this is not my type but my type hasn't been working out 1.00
00:01:41.960 for me so i'm just going to give this this guy a type this guy i go the first thing that will happen
00:01:48.280 he will feel like all his christmases have come at once the second thing that will happen
00:01:54.980 you will elevate his status as a man that's true that's true so his market value to other women
00:02:02.040 skyrockets because you're stunning how's he bagged you he must have something women become 1.00
00:02:09.040 interested the third thing he starts knowing this to see in his attention i think i snucked her so
00:02:18.160 i can probably get these as well she's right actually i think that's one of the few times
00:02:23.360 i've heard a woman say something that's correct men they do think that once they've gotten you 1.00
00:02:28.720 now they can date your friends you know i'm going yeah okay let's see let's see the next one ugly 1.00
00:02:35.440 guys are the best guys to date why are people always so confused when they see a pretty girl
00:02:39.780 with a guy who's not objectively attractive or what society would deem objectively attractive
00:02:44.940 because compared to the pretty boy the ugly duckling actually had to develop a personality
00:02:49.180 he actually had to develop a sense of humor he actually got game he got game the pretty boy
00:02:55.220 gets girls just because he's attractive but does anybody end up with a pretty boy no not necessarily
00:03:01.060 because we are looking for more than just a pretty face we're looking for the personality
00:03:07.220 and actually the ugly duckling i don't know why i'm saying it like that ugly in itself is a term
00:03:12.860 that doesn't really say much because first of all character can make really beautiful
00:03:16.780 the character can make you look so beautiful and second of all beauty is totally up to
00:03:22.320 subjective taste either way but the ugly duckling if we were to call it that actually is wired kind
00:03:31.040 kind of hardwired to please because they okay yeah the she's basically saying you get more
00:03:37.600 simping the uglier you go you get less simping the more attractive you go in general yeah because
00:03:41.880 the more choice the guy has it depends because good there are good looking simps but the more
00:03:45.880 choice the man has um you know the less uh simping you're gonna get never got the compliments right
00:03:52.080 away you know the pretty boy shows up to a party and everybody's swooning over him he got five
00:03:56.280 girls standing around him everybody's like oh you got a great smile you got great eyes you got great
00:04:00.120 hair everybody's always saying oh you're such a pretty guy you're such a good looking guy and
00:04:03.780 and a lot of women can't date attractive men because they can't take having the attention 1.00
00:04:07.980 on him and not them you're so handsome the ugly duckling he needs to fight for it he needs to
00:04:12.220 fight to get those compliments he needs to fight to get those girls and when he gets one he's going
00:04:17.100 to treat her well he's going to treat her well and he's going to make sure that she stays and
00:04:22.320 he is going to give you his heart so all right let's see yeah so she you're more likely to get
00:04:28.200 a relationship from an ugly guy you're more likely to get a relationship from an ugly guy is what 1.00
00:04:33.040 she's saying and yeah that's true that's true it's a strategy um girls hate ugly guys you know how 1.00
00:04:38.140 people always say like why do you call girls hate ugly guys my theory is they also always over you
00:04:43.720 know because all these women i would say were mids um they always over guess how attractive the woman 1.00
00:04:49.240 is a lot of people seek out the thing that they are insecure about within themselves in a significant
00:04:54.740 another so like if you're feeling insecure about your finances you're going to seek out someone
00:04:58.660 who's financially stable and not without exception but i do see a lot of this and my theory is women 1.00
00:05:03.860 who are very attractive are confident in their looks so they're not looking to validate their
00:05:07.940 own looks by having a super attractive partner they're prioritizing other qualities so if they
00:05:12.500 do date someone who's like less traditionally attractive they don't really care and that's fine
00:05:16.900 because again they're confident in their looks they're not looking to validate that via their
00:05:20.580 partner and what their partner looks like let me know what you think of this one because i feel 0.90
00:05:23.700 like i'm on to something she think what does this lady think tits out nice i really don't care what 1.00
00:05:29.460 guys look i really don't care what guys look like like i've dated guys that girls would be like oh
00:05:33.940 my god he's a hard two but it's women are also really critical again women don't find most men 0.95
00:05:39.140 attractive really not about looks it's more of like a vibe like i need to see you you're saying
00:05:45.060 charisma oh and fix a truck she's about to say well that's that's gonna go back to beta bucks 0.99
00:05:50.500 because alpha fox don't have to do anything for you beta bucks do the truck or i need to see you
00:05:55.060 manhandle a horse or fight a kangaroo i need to see full-blown testosterone in motion i need to
00:06:01.840 know that you could save me from a bear obviously like where are the bears they're nowhere to be
00:06:06.260 found but it's nice knowing that you could protect me so honestly if you're a guy that like makes
00:06:12.220 content like fix a truck show us how to change a tire build a birdhouse that's the vibes we're
00:06:18.080 meeting stop messaging women being like I could give you the time of your life no you know we'll 0.98
00:06:22.400 give us a time of our life come mow our lawn come pull the weeds and now she wants a slave she's 1.00
00:06:26.820 like I want an ugly slave come wash our car come do something useful and like grunt while you're 1.00
00:06:32.260 doing it you know I'm saying it's not like you have to send people money I mean I'm literally 0.96
00:06:35.820 I've never had one guy ever send me money I don't know how these girls are getting men to send them 1.00
00:06:39.280 money please let me know how you're doing it I've never had that but yeah just like be helpful be
00:06:44.000 kind. Be like, hi, can I go grocery shopping? Whenever women say what men should do, it's always 1.00
00:06:48.940 what women should do. Like women being helpful and kind gets us relationships where men being 0.91
00:06:53.280 helpful and kind doesn't. For you, actually that's the gayest thing ever. Anyways, anyways guys, 1.00
00:06:58.900 um, in general, I would say most of the time when women say they're dating ugly men, if you ask them
00:07:03.100 for pictures, they're not that ugly. And if you really rate the women objectively, uh, the women 0.86
00:07:07.640 aren't as like a lot of times their looks match. So anyways, uh, please make sure you like the
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