Pearl - September 20, 2025
Modern Women Use Female Manipulation Tactics to Destroy Society (Call-in Show) | Pearl Daily
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Summary
In this episode of Pearl Daly, I talk about Taylor Swift's new album, her new song, and how I m ready for my Taylor Swift era. I also talk about my piano lessons and why I don t have one.
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But my world's been so much better with you in it
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Oh, we won't be their heroes, we're the star of our own show
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In the dark, in the dark, in the dark, oh, in the dark
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The whole world's been tellin' us that we ain't it
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In the dark, in the dark, in the dark, in the dark, we're falling in love, in the dark, we're watching the world fall apart.
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We won't be their heroes, but we're the star of our own show
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Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daly, everybody.
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So I'm ready for my Taylor Swift era, and you're all just going to have to deal with it.
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I was thinking, if you guys, for fun, to start the show,
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if you give me a word in the chat, I will make a song out of it.
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Now, I can't promise this will be a good song. This could be a very bad song.
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this could be what you call trash I can't promise I really can't promise that but but
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give me I'm not doing hibiscus okay give me a normal word
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I don't know what hibiscus means is that like a fruit
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Ooh, we're snitching on that page called what, wait, wait, we're snitching on that page called
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Cause we are kinda cruel, we're acting like a bull
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But these are the women in this generation
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She belongs to the streets and she can't help it
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So if I was going to do a simp song, it'd be like
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this have you heard the song that's like this is my fight song I would do this is my simp song
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and then I would rewrite it that way that's kind of how I would do it
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all right I'm done I'm done for today but I am in my Taylor Swift era and you guys are just
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gonna have to deal with it you really are I mean I really wanted this to be like a conservative
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tonight show. Now that Jimmy, Jimmy Fallon just got taken down, but the problem is a band like
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costs money. And I was demonetized for a year and a half. So I don't really have, I don't really
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like, I mean, I, I do. Okay. I have one guy in here, but if we start getting a whole crew,
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that's what I don't have that kind of money. So I've actually, I've taken piano lessons for like
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a year if you'll notice I've been people said I kind of disappeared and I did disappear to take
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piano and guitar lessons because I had this idea in my head of a one-man band oh let's start a band
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oh okay sure you internet stranger the week after another youtuber got assassinated come on in
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come on you're right this way yeah yeah i'm gonna be inside for a little bit
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i'm gonna the piano is very minimal but i will get better i figure if every time i mess up
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doing this you guys roast me i'll just be more motivated i'll be like i'll come back stronger
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every day and then my freestyle is going to be amazing but really if i was to do a simp song
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would be like. So what are all the ways guys simp? Put it in the chat. This is how I would
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do it. It would be, do I want more of a sad tone? What key do I want to do? I can't play
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sometimes. Stop simping. I beg, wait, stop simping. I beg of you, please stop sending
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money to these OnlyFans whores. Sophia Reign has 10 sports cars and I can't believe the
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But someone's gotta fund it, someone's gotta pay, stop sending money to Sophia Reign today.
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Please, I beg of you, give it all you can, put down the phone and get off Instagram.
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Stop simping, I beg of you, I promise to God she's not gonna fuck you, stop simping, put the phone down, go outside, and get out of this town, yeah that's what I would do.
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So anyways guys, welcome to the show. I hope you enjoy my Taylor Swift era. I don't really care if you don't, I'm going to do it anyway. So, you know, this is just where we're at.
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All right, so today, let me go in, and if you guys leave in the comments,
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if you leave in the comments songs you want me to rewrite or freestyles, we can,
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that was off the dome so if you didn't like it that was off the dome and i want to see you do
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better before you but oh man is it something's playing something's playing on here i don't know
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what but when you unmuted it um you know what is it i don't see a chat of mine going but
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it sounds let me just exit out of this and see it you guys are gonna have to bear with me for
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like a week there's gonna be issues all right could you unmute it again I want to see if it
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still goes I want to see if it's the internet oh it's unmuted now okay well so today I was
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thinking about the phrase women run the world you know they say girls run the world and that was
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like a popular i'm i'm into music right and that was a beyonce song and it's pretty catchy i'm not
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gonna lie i'm not you know i'm not gonna be like these conservatives on these shows that hear these
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songs right they hear these obviously popular songs and just say that's garbage look it it is
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garbage but it's a bop okay i'm not gonna i'm not gonna pretend like because then there's gonna be
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a snapchat of me or something when i was 20 being like girls we wrote you know and i just can't have
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that i i'm not the biggest beyonce it would probably be lizzo or something because she does
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she does have pretty good music i gotta be honest here um i mean bops when in terms of like oh my
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gosh they call prostitutes bops now i totally forgot they call they call only fans girls it's
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the bop you guys took that away from me i can't even call a song now this is for hookers i i hate
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you people i hate i you guys are are dead to me in a way um okay so today we're talking about
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the different tactics of female manipulation okay so I was thinking about the song girls run the
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world and I was thinking about how in a way girls do run the world okay it's it's echoing again is
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it from this side I just don't know what it is I hear myself like it's echoing somewhere it stopped
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but whenever you press something or you didn't press anything okay well randomly it's coming
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back in well so i was thinking about the saw the song girls run the world and i was thinking about
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in a way girls do run the world now i know what you're thinking pearl you have made an entire
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career there it is again i hear it again that's back
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Okay, well, I don't know, but it's something's echoing.
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you got to come here and figure it out because I don't know what it is I think
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I think it's this computer now what all right guys if you want to donate to our
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divorce documentary the links in the description please have a brief
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commercial break it for that while we figure out these technical difficulties
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it's clip going viral online of a dozen women being asked the following question
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do we need men most answered very quickly no because men are useless this
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headline from the hill it caught my eye most young men are single most young
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women are not young men have fallen faster than any demographic in america over the last 40 years
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it's a different world now like we don't need men the way that they used to the future is female
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men and women are drifting further apart and society is crumbling because of it
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a fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage you've kind of got the trad
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con versus red pill thing this men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way
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You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
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It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
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Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
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One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
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She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
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Because if me and you were in a business contract,
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you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
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gee what could go wrong there 74 or something of divorces are initiated by women men have
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everything to lose primarily their own children men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws
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i had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity not courts of law because in
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family court you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse you need no evidence when you
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guys say get married young a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for and you're
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You're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
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I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
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You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
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We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
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and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
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Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
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a lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness endless happiness
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feminism's biggest failures is it lies to women we tell women to date as many guys as possible
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we tell them to put off family into marriage you are allowed to leave your perfect husband you are
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allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend oh freeze your eggs have an abortion
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what you're evil i don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into
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preparing to fail right like if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be
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pessimistic naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway it's self-sabotage
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that's the thing like women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy
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this is not about happiness the most important thing is the children and the problem is we have
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a modern society where it's me me me my feelings leave when i feel like it instead of doing what's
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best for the kids this myth that we live in an age of male privilege where's my male privilege they
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think well men have all the rights they have all the power privilege patriarchal system that we
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have why doesn't our society care about men's rights i have no friends no wife and no social
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life men are alone in this situation men are homeless men are thinking about eating guns
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i've seen so many men on on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong how are you equal
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if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country the men are the ones
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that build and maintain all the infrastructure women are helplessly dependent upon men the so
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called deaths of despair from suicide overdose to alcohol three times higher among men than among
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women culture is telling men you are no good you got to get your act together i think men have
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failed themselves what kind of a man are you what kind of a woman are you going to attract if men
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are in trouble so are women everybody knows this is a huge problem but nobody wants to admit it
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every single woman at the table said they wanted a man 500k 500k 300k 200k am i crazy everything
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is really set up against you to fail as a man if men make less than women women don't want to marry
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them so you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men women i don't want to be
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an independent woman anymore i don't want to be a strong independent woman i'm over it when is it
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going to be my turn where are we meeting the men that don't stop i can't keep having these same
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you, Pearl. You simp for men. No, I think you simp
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for women. She's a provocateur. She says stupid
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It's already happening. It's just not out in the
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going to be our fairytale ending because men don't
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want a wife and women can't find a husband.
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end well this is an existential crisis failing young men
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so back into the topic if you do want to want to donate to the divorce documentary we actually
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got a big donation well we got promised the big donation i have learned in this industry that you
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can't until I have the money until I have the actual cash I don't actually know but it's looking
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like in the next month month and a half we could actually start going towards this again this
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divorce documentary for those of you that don't know I wanted to make a divorce documentary and
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making progress on this documentary, my life did fall apart.
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The one problem is when you insult women in this society,
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I think that's why I identify with a lot of you guys
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they did to me because I started talking like this.
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So anyways, long story short, I was demonetized for a year and a half.
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But now it's looking like we're going to get going on this again.
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So if you think you have a really good divorce story, feel free to email me.
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The closer you are to, actually, I don't want to say the state because, you know, the safety concerns.
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But tell me what state you're in because when I do the cost of what this is going to cost me,
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i do have to factor in the state um and then you know in a summary everyone always messages me i
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have the worst divorce story and then sends me an essay you gotta put it in like five sentences
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you can dm it to me just pearly things official instagram pearly things um on twitter um with a z
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dm it to me on either of those i do check my dms so um and i need i need like like remember i go
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through a lot of these what state you're in in your divorce story also the go fund me link is
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in the description so if if that comes through we'll see we'll see if it die in this industry
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you never know um i don't know if we might be able to get to start soon so anyways um
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so i was thinking about going back into female manipulation i was thinking about how they say
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behind every man is a powerful or a strong woman, right?
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And we kind of have this idea that behind every successful guy,
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I mean, I've heard this a million times when I interviewed women on my show.
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And I think a more accurate way to explain it is I manipulated him into giving me credit.
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i manipulated him into thinking that i did his hard work and this really got me thinking about
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the topic of female manipulation and just the tactics that we have a tendency as women to use
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in order to get what we want remember women as a collective our output is basically nothing
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okay so if economists come in and said what stuff are you building ladies and they said if the
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economist came in and said what are you actually building are you doing an infrastructure job
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like what are you doing for this economy the way there would be women that said hey
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i do something really necessary and they would list marketing they would list human resources
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all of these things that really are not as necessary as we think we do um hypothetically
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i guess use them but we wouldn't have food without truckers moving the food to us right
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or farmers or um you know plumbers electricians uh builders i mean that's like grade a if i had
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a hierarchy of hard jobs I would put them closer to the top surgeons right um but women would list
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our jobs and it would be to my right it would be basically like nothing that important if I'm being
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honest not all not all some women can do it um sort of not really some women can do I feel like
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I have a gut like YouTube has a gun to my head right there where they're like say it say it
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not all, not all, not all, not all, not all, but we have still figured out how to get pretty much
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equal pay. I know we complain about the pay gap, but just think about how men make 80% of the
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world's stuff. 80% of all things being built. Men, men invented 90 plus percent of the world's
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things. It's pretty important. And women still figured out how to get men to give us pretty much
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equal pay. I mean, it's pretty close. Even though we work less hours, even though we don't do dang
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near as much when it comes to building society, we have still figured out how to get close to
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equal pay. So I put out a tweet, right? And I asked on Twitter, I asked on Twitter, what tactics,
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what manipulation tactics have you seen women use? And I asked the men to really contribute
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with their experiences of how women manipulate them. But before I get into that, I do think I
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need to make this a whiteboard video, if I could get that out. Yeah. And then we're, and then I'll
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So we're going to talk about female manipulation tactics
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and how really on some level women do run the world.
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Now, you might think, Pearl, that's ridiculous.
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Well, you would be surprised how powerful women nagging is.
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So first thing that happens is there's a problem.
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So men in general would be happy being in like a hut in the woods.
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I mean, I think women, we make fun of men's apartments, right,
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when there's no furniture, it's just like a PS5.
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So when I see all these, you know, crazy inventions that are being made, I just know that in a way, if it's useless, women's nagging is generally behind it.
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Women kept complaining about chores, right?
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So women, got to get better markers in here.
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Women started nagging, guilting, and just doing, basically manipulating men into solving this problem.
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So first the problem, I don't want to sweep the floors.
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And the men, you know, first they come back and they try to reason with us.
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So they come back and say, look it, this is how you sweep the floors, honey.
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And then the women start saying, no, but we're equal partners.
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and you know men they got they think what do I get out of this constantly and they keep thinking
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well I want to have sex I do want to keep banging this broad I want to keep going with that
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I want to keep you know if they have kids they'll think I want to keep the kids
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and you know the nagging and the guilting it's just never gonna stop it's never gonna end
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like I just cannot reason I cannot negotiate with this terrorist so then they keep going
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So men, you know, they start getting together and saying,
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look it, we all are having these nagging wives
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She wants to work, so I guess we're going to make up a job
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Can someone put like assistants in their companies
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So the men get together and they fix the problem.
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Now, this would, if women were logical creatures like men,
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Maybe the complaining, the nagging, it would end, you would think.
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But then women find a new problem, and the cycle continues.
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And that's why you get, you know, we used to have, I was thinking about this.
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We used to have these, like, revolutionary inventions, you know, that would really change the entire world.
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And I guess maybe you see that sometimes with AI, but I just haven't seen, like, you know, an inventor of our time.
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and I really think it's because the women got in and the cycle just keeps repeating itself
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the women start complaining I'm bored I don't have anything to do
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and then they get into the nagging they say you get to have all this fun you're always out
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and he's like I'm working and she's like no you're always out and about you're doing all this
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all this stuff and he's like honey I'm working well but the girl next door and you just don't
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appreciate me that's that's a good that's one we go to a lot you I I feel neglected you don't
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appreciate me and then the men they just want the noise to stop they just want it to end they just
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they just want it they want it to stop so then they say okay maybe I can we do movies in the park
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can we, I guess we're going to invent a country club, okay, a country, we'll invent an overpriced
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place that we can drain these women's, have these women's husbands pay for where the women can be
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babysat. So they invented a solution, the nagging stops, and then a new problem comes. Now what
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happens is smart men realize this is the cycle right smart men will think okay women will never
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be happy we have invented everything what more do you want ladies but the simps just keep you
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could do this cycle have you ever seen like I've seen five times divorced men
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and I'm like at this point are you gonna give it up love isn't real but they just keep signing up
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right and now the problem is when you live with a woman it's like what are you gonna do
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I almost think there should be like a separate housing for husbands and wives
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I think they should make houses that can literally be split
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I'm really thinking, I'm looking out for the men here.
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I'm trying to get you guys some peace, you know.
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Like imagine if you could just lock your wife out of the house
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and say you're banished to that side of the house.
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I'm coming up with solutions that can bring families back together.
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because the men know when they sign up for marriage,
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Okay, so I asked the people, what manipulation tactics have you seen women use?
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And I think the number one, personally, my number one draft pick is going to be gaslighting.
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I see that as the number one manipulation tactic.
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um this is shaw contributed he he responded to this he said feigned helplessness when someone
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pretends to be incapable of doing something to gain attention sympathy or to avoid responsibility
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women are capable of fixing cars and like driving without our without texting we are capable of
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actually doing more things that i think men i think men are even understand i think a lot of
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times they think we can't do anything and it's really not that it's that we're incredibly lazy
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creatures that have had men worship us from the time you're we're like 12 but have you ever met
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like a really competent woman that can just do like like i grew up with this woman near me
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and look um this woman could fix a car um she was a really good driver she took care of horses by
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herself like she was just but she was trained by her husband right but it's kind of like a boss
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you know when your bosses just let you do whatever you want you don't really grow as a person
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you just kind of get worse and I feel that's what women do I do think there is a cap like some
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things we're just not capable of but I do think we're capable of more than um a lot of men realize
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because we just pretend we can't do anything and why wouldn't we right if I could just say oh I
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don't get it I don't understand and then you'll just the guys will come in and do it why why learn
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when you don't have to learn crying yeah women whenever women cry um it's pretty much just
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to see if you're gonna fold as a man as a man i think there's nothing more important than a man's
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ability to look at a woman crying and just not care yeah i mean it's it's tough because you guys
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have this like protector instinct and the more you can kill it as a guy same with the bonding
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instinct i always see conservatives say this well men aren't men they always say this they say if
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men sleep around they can't bond with their wives i'm like what good is bonding gonna do
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in 2025 that's something that was useful in 1900 but now i mean the men that bond with their wives
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get screwed they either become wife goggles guys you know where the wife's always right
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or they become like these super simps for their wives
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Guilt trips, turning their mistakes into your fault
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Weaponized tears, crying on demand to reset the narrative
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because society never questions a woman's pain
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Intimacy. Using intimacy not as love but as leverage. Victimhood Olympics. Always playing
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the weaker one so accountability never lands on their side. Social shame. Running to friends,
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family, or the internet to control you through the public opinion. Actually, that might be the
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number one tool of women that might be and that's why when I see you know men like destiny
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use that tool I was just reacting to his debate and he you know when men use female tactics
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they do use them better than women do I won't lie to you you ever seen a man gaslight they're like
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expert level gaslighters but whatever men take women's strategies they always do it better than
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us. Future faking, selling you dreams they never intend to deliver just to keep you hooked.
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Selective memory, forgetting the parts that expose them, but remembering every slip you ever made.
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Men get called manipulators for chasing power. Women perfect manipulation by clocking it as
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innocent. I mean, just think about the fact that women convinced men that we were sweet,
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innocent creatures for like a hundred years isn't that crazy isn't that nuts we really
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had men like hook line and sinker believing that until we got caught up you know basically aired
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our dirty laundry on social media now there's no hide in it but women i mean you talk to the boomer
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or the gen x dads husbands a lot of them have no idea what women are capable of i mean talk to them
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They'll keep saying that they're these special women
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You guys got the privilege of never finding out.
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And you have to understand why I'm so black-pilled.
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and then they go and have sex with my recruiters
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all right so some approaches male victims of false accusations doing this instantly validating and
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offering emotional support virtue signaling that they'd never do such a thing then shifting to
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gynocentric narratives that excuse other women and protect their group privileges gaslighting
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is overused in mid okay um there is a white knight um this guy had a pretty cool chart i cannot read
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this but if you guys look at the replies to the tweet this was pretty in-depth don't touch me
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they turn it around and blame you endless complaining about yeah that's another thing
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we have a tendency to get really riled up about something and then our hamster wheel just makes
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it way worse than it is and then you'll you'll go from like oh i don't like this to you're an
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abusive monster and the guy's like whoa whoa whoa call you controlling call you insecure call you
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a narcissist lie right in your face face lie to others about you or said issue attack your
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character claim abuse um triangulation passive aggressive aggression playing the victim lying
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about being pregnant oh that's a good one yeah the women say they're pregnant to get you to bang
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them a few more times and obviously you're not going to pull out because you think she's pregnant
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but they're entirely different when you're not in it true shapeshifters it was the only time in my
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life i realized they're actually genetically evil people and nothing can change that because they
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will act they will even act out of the good qualities of remorse and change but it's always
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an act i had to catch it on security oh my god security cameras to know i literally walked out
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of the room and tears evaporated and the voice returned to normal as she proceeded to call some
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other guy. Once you see it, you realize that the way they breathe is deceptive. You have to go
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through this to know what I'm talking about. It's super creepy and troubling. It has nearly
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destroyed my ability to love and almost turned my heart into a black piece of charcoal. Be careful
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out there. There are some truly bad and evil people, and some are incredibly good at appearing
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good. Blame shifting, guilt tripping. They push hard to move the Overton window towards anything
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which benefits them. Yeah, like it's super normal. I knew that the Overton window on marrying whores
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was shifting. When I was in, I was interviewing somewhere and these were guys with, I would say,
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status money i would say choice these these were guys that had a lot of choice and i asked these
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guys i said how would you feel would you date a girl that did only fans but it was like five years
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ago and i saw them rationalizing it i saw them they said you know what if it was a while ago
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and it was just nudes yeah i would accept it i'm like women have fought really hard now even the
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top guys are accepting it and that's always that's always the cope and i i actually realized that part
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of part of um part of men complaining about you know women being old ran through whatever
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is they know this is what they have to choose from and they always men are so pragmatic they
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like they always think they have a way around it and i really for your sakes you know i've seen men
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on the really bad side of divorce court I've seen men I would say with death in their eyes like it
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was so bad that I really wish there was a way around it but it's luck of the draw I mean when
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you're getting married with women it's like you're picking out of sticks and some people get you know
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I think there's some analogy where there's like one stick that'll blow you up and you'll die and
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then there's like a short stick or there's a game or something like that but I mean that's kind of
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what it is with women is it's a luck of the draw and you might draw well it's a roll of the dice
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uh one one guy dies one guy has a happy marriage there is there is what i would call low risk and
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high risk women low high so there's women that are lower risk where you can lower the risk but
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i always try to reiterate that that's not a guarantee because i want you guys i just want
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you to expect it if it happens so it doesn't ruin your life if it does and you can prepare
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accordingly. There's nothing worse than a guy that it happens to that doesn't expect it.
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There's like, you know, high-risk women. She's got herpes. I'd say that's a high risk.
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She's got, you know, I mean, she's slept with 57 dudes. Probably high risk.
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but you know i've seen low-risk women i've seen low-risk women have um high-risk women
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outcomes and vice versa so again it's like you're you're pulling straws good luck fellas
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um i have seen so many start internet programs claiming to be courageous and trustworthy oh
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wait, is that, what the hell, what's my internet program, all right, blocked, they, um, I've seen
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it a lot, but the tactic I use to clean things out is allowing them to speak, it's really
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incongruent, sudden coldness and aggression to act as a barrier towards you while they project
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their mistakes and defects onto you, so you can't respond or defend yourself, shaming language,
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projection guilt tripping i dated a girl with borderline personality disorder before i understood
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what it was a buddy of mine also dated one they are each special little muffins in their own
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version of crazy mine would guilt trip me over the smallest thing his would scream at him we
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called it f you but please don't leave me disease
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using the line if you love me you should stand by me no matter what i do
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the promise of sex but doesn't go through with it that's another wheel actually i should make
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that the wheel of simping promise you know allude allude that there will be sex at some point maybe
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hint at it flirt with him a little but never put out but promise that it may happen in the future
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to get him to do things right i mean that's that's the wheel of simping
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but you know who cares what i think i think we got to ask the people it's not sharing right
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okay i think we got to ask the people what you guys think you know what have you experienced
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in terms of female manipulation i did get some um
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okay doug mpa are you there hey how's it going good how are you what do you think about
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sorry sorry no i asked you fantastic thanks for asking i asked you a question i didn't even let
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you go sorry go ahead i said what do you think of my sip song that's awesome
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the fact that you can come up with that off the top of your head man you're just getting started
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on it on camera man imagine it in like a month or two it's gonna be insane let's go i'm here for it
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i mean to be fair i have done the freestyling for years i've always hated it when people pretend
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they could just do things overnight that took me like four years so i can do it now but on and off
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is kind of a hobby um well and honestly you you know people sleep on your voice man you have a
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really good voice Pearl and I have gone karaoke before and she tore the house down so don't sleep
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on Pearl's voice she has a really good voice wait when you're here in person do you want to he's you
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have a good voice too do you want a guest for a song uh you can wear you can wear a ski mask like
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that guy i'll think about it or we can we can put the camera like low or something so we can't see
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you i'll think about it okay so what female manipulation have you seen uh well um i am
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going to actually put something in the private chat that i want you to click on okay i was just
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on instagram and i saw because makeup is a good one and i just one second i'm gonna put it in the
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private chat so you can show it uh chat it's in the the private chat so click on that all right
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I've talked about that before, and I can't believe I forgot to add it.
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Like, you know, there's a couple of little hangout ones,
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like how tall women call themselves stallions now,
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when, like, a stallion literally means a male horse.
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um you know we all know about abuse you know how they've oh they've they redefined it's like
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it's they say magic and sorcery isn't real yeah it is when it comes to words and meeting women
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it's modern day sorcery it's shape-shifting and sorcery um there's so many words that used to
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mean one thing but now it meets another um traditionally masculine words are have been
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turn into words of female empowerment it's it's crazy um and then what's another thing so i
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would say changing words around makeup um um uh what's another example um well we know all the
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basics the shame insults guilt and the need to be right that pretty much covers everything
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i mean it covers a lot um all right let's let's play the video you sent
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can we put i can see it yeah it's up is it shared okay
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let me turn the music off can't they can see it okay doug yeah yeah i think okay okay
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yeah yeah i turned off i turned off the music guys because
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it says take your swimming on the first date i want to do my makeup like this that looks awesome
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sorry you could just get like two points i'm just kidding do you know what i don't wear a lot of
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makeup and i hate the feeling of it anyways like i don't i don't know how they feel comfortable
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than have a woman having to put a bunch of
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Like, I don't know. Couldn't you just do light makeup
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look at that holy crap yeah that's a form of manipulation but guys let me know um i want you
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guys to call in this is the zoom link in the chat yeah it is so the zoom link is in the chat it'd be
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great if you guys could join and um you can come on and let me know what manipulation tactics you've
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seen maybe if you have an example in a relationship you've been in where you noticed um the manipulation
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tactic maybe you overcame it right um tell us how you dealt with it we could trade notes here
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um hey pro i think that we should work on because i think that gaslighting is too vague of a term
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i think that women gaslight so much that we really need to work on terms for different
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levels of gaslighting so like you know regular gaslighting is like oh you know um i went out
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with my girls and you know i wanted um i was messing around with a guy but you know
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nothing happened so that's a degree but then there's the the guy gets a dna test and finds
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out the baby's not his and then she's trying to tell him that it is his baby and he's crazy
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that what do you call that kind of gas the hierarchy of gaslighting yes we need to have
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sure about that level one i mean we could spitball here level one level two level three
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so what would level one gaslighting be level one guess i would be we never hooked up but they did
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oral or you know um uh level one gas hiding would be i hate him i want to him yeah exactly i was
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just about to say something like that or you know um you know i slept with him but i had been drinking
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you know i can't have sex with you because i have a headache i'm tired um you know you
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if you just do chores around the house you get more sex that's like level two gaslighting
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oh well don't you think that'd be level one so our producer said
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we're just friends you think that would be level one or two i think that's level one
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yeah we are just friends equals we are either fucking or going to fuck
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what about um or we are going to fuck the second the relationship ends
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oh how about um um what's up oh um gaslighting um
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level one is when a woman has i'm not into hookups on her online dating profile when all she does
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is ban guys that she meets right away off of tinder i do not want to hook up i am going to
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have sex with you immediately yes immediately wait wait if you wait wait actually i do not
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want to hook up means i am not going to have sex with you wait wait i am going to make you wait if
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you are a beta because those women it's like i'm going to make you wait if you're a beta
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yeah i mean okay and then we'll what else would be level three gas fighting besides
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DNA testing eternity fraud um what about um oh the the female okay when a woman how about this
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a woman trying to get her kids trying to get custody of her kids in divorce court
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my personal trainer yep you got it yeah so we'll have to do a show about the different because once
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again the term gaslighting women do it so much nowadays that we have to piece that that term
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apart it's just way too nebulous and way too vague now number three i was great i regret i regretted
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this guy i banged yeah that's level three all right we got tax man on the line
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let's see what tax man what female manipulation have you noticed and or experienced
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welcome to the show hey what's up all right so um i would say any woman with bpd
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and any woman would be like they will sit there and like because i've asked psychologists about
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this they will not take women that have bpd as clients because they know that they actively try
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to lie and spin things around to fit their own narrative no matter what it is like i dated a
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girl that had it one time for like two months and i didn't know what it was right and she said it
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And then I went to a psychologist and I asked her about it and she was like, oh yeah, she's
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And so like, she tried to say that I was a narcissist and I'm like, I cleaned your apartment
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I don't think a narcissist would do any of those things.
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So yeah, like they're just like not all there mentally too, I think.
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i think they have like deep-seated trauma and you know father issues and that's why they're just
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they're so manipulative it's it's like you're living in a it's ah what did my friend say he's
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like it's like you're living in the twilight you're like living in a paradox like anything
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they say is backwards can you tell me like what can i have a specific example like maybe two or
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three examples of what it's like dating someone with vpd like what they'll do specifically i've
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heard about this archetype a lot but i i don't get specifics often my god it's like all right
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so for example i remember one morning we were we were injured we were in new jersey so i wake up
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i go do what i have to do for work in the morning go to the gym and come back maybe i was going only
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like an hour right i come back i get her breakfast give it to her and i'm like i know she doesn't
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like getting up early right so i come back in the room quiet and i leave everything right there
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five minutes later she's like yelling where the hell were you i'm like why are you even up this
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early like you never wake up this oh like as soon as i left she woke up and then like started like
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going into this whole thing well what if he leaves what if he's not coming back what if he's lying to
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me because usually girls with bpd it's like guys abandon them because they see how crazy they are
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off the bat and they're just they're out they're like they'll hit and they'll be out like not gonna
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lie like i used to hear that about girls that had it a lot because usually once you find one girl
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that has it you find a lot of girls that have it so like you see them all like conversing and
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socializing together and you're like oh yeah this is like this is like an article what do they do
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they are they yelling and screaming usually or how is it oh yeah oh yeah like okay my my friend
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dated one too right and he actually went through a whole legal case with it he the girl okay so she
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hit him remember one time me and my boy went to the strip club and she tracked
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his phone to the strip club now mind you I'm with my girl my girl didn't care
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that we went right so we're all three of us are sitting there she comes up
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there freaking out the bouncer has to call him out there and be like yo get
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your girl under control she's like swinging her knife at me I'm like what
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the heck my bad yeah so she's like swinging the knife at him I go out there
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I'm like you you cannot get back in the car with it because we have to drive
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back to i think we were in dayton ohio so we had to drive back to cincinnati so i was like dude you
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cannot get back in the car with it bro i think i've seen the car swerve almost off the road
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four times we get back he tells me she almost like cut him up like once and then they ended
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up going to court and she said you know he hit her one time and i'm like dude you you were not
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the guy to ever hit a woman no like and i had to go testify i had to do all this stuff and he ended
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up being fine but the dude ended up going to jail for like two three months because he was picked up
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and he didn't even know about the charges and i was just like this is crazy so yeah they'll do
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some crazy stuff to you are they charismatic like can they have a normal social life outside of the
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relationship oh yeah so what was crazy about it is that because we me and my boy we were doing real
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estate at that time he was in my company he's not anymore he like moved on to other things but he
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was sitting there and he started dating her because at first she worked in the probate office
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for the county clerk so like he was like oh she has a good job she's like smart she's like you
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know she's got a good head on her shoulders and i'm gonna be honest the first like three times i
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met her he was fine he didn't yeah they they can put on an act for you like anybody and he even
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said it because he'd be like you know one minute she's good and one minute it's hell and i'd be
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like i don't know when it changes i'm like dude i don't know either because i've seen it are they
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always screaming or is it yes and no or is it like other types of crash outs it's like it's like
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really highly intensive like emotional crash outs no like they'll like just go manic that's what it
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is they'll go manic imagine like imagine you're sitting next to someone and something just makes
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them feel uncomfortable now they're agitated with you and anything you do or don't do for them
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they're going to find a reason to be happy and how often does it happen almost on the daily oh
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really like and is it but they seem sometimes guys say they fall in love with this archetype
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pretty often so like are they very loving also is it like hot and cold or they can mimic emotions
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well you want me to be real you want me to be real yeah that's fine that's fine oh the pussy
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is fucking fire like i'm saying that because i've had it you know like i'm not gonna lie anybody in
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the chat that has some dpd pussy know that shit fire like just i can't they be doing crazy shit
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me personally i think it's because of their emotional trauma towards their father they're
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trying to make a man feel comfortable but at the same time they're also trying to make him feel the
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pain of what they want to make their father feel that that's what i think it is because i'm like
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bro there's no way you could be so hot and cold so sexually charged so on and off there's no way
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someone's built to just be like that you had to run through some trauma or be mentally ill like
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and they're good at it they're they're so good at playing the game they'll have you convinced that
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their crash outs are either your fault or they're just going through something and they're going to
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figure it out and fix it and they never fix it yeah um doug mpa you got any other questions for
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him i do not i do not great great calling i you're on this he's an a-level guest okay you see he had
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his mic figured out camera on so we appreciate you calling in okay no problem thanks for having
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me thanks for always having me have a good one buddy i love it when they just get on their
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cameras figured out okay i gotta make a pause sorry i saw this and i was like i gotta make a
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pause so there are times where um there is men in my life that make suggestions or have predictions
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and um at the time i disagree but time goes by and those people tend to be right and right now
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So a few months ago, Doug, MP, actually, I'm going to, can I say this advice?
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I want to, can I, hold on, I'm going to ask you if it's okay if I say this.
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yeah yeah okay okay so he advised to stay away from conspiracy j stuff you know and because
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really it's just the upside and my lack of expertise in that topic it's just not something
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i know a ton about and we spoke about um candace's owens show at the time and we were talking about
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how um you predicted her downfall you did you said she's gonna like something's gonna go wrong
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where she's gonna be wrong about something and have you seen that the girl she said was a man
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is willing to produce pictures in court uh you're talking about um bridget macron yeah
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yeah and this is gonna cost them big time it's gonna cost her oh my god and the worst thing is
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what was the upside of proving that that woman was a man like that's just the
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even if she or he i don't know but even if she even if this was trans or whatever
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i just what would that i don't care you know what i mean like i just don't
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I don't care yeah um you have to get into it's about you Candace still hasn't
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she hasn't transitioned to the point where she she's looking at it long term because that's one
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of the best parts about your transition probably is you're you've chosen this as a career you're
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you're doing the long game and um but candace she hasn't maybe it's because her husband's worth
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180 million dollars but she hasn't switched to that mindset yet and she picks these battles
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where the the risk is greater than the reward it's like you're gonna mess around with the
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president of brands his wife are you serious why well for me it's just the ego like i don't
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um the problem is when people with big egos especially women get told they're awesome for
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a decade you know then we hit our late 20s maybe early to mid 30s whenever it happens and we're
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told you're wrong or no for the first time it just equates to a crash out yeah because it's
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just never happened i mean you see it all the time like the women just freaking the f out and
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the first time they're told no in an assertive voice i mean that's why that's why like she kind
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of crashed out on nick afwood he was on her show and he was like why are you questioning me about
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being married and then like you got married you know she like you're a woman and it just like it
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looked like it didn't compute like she'd never been told that yeah i'm like you just haven't
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been humbled yet and now um but now it just got worse actually and that's what made me stop them
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i i have to see if this is this is true this is alleged alleged alleged uh this is according to
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y'all yakko boy they're producing so now candace i think i think and i can't i cannot keep up with
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all her conspiracies i can't there's too many the the the he she and then there's the you know the
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jay stuff and then now then she was crashing out and saying nick was a fed and that and now you
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know then she's i think she's trying to tie kirk's death to israel i i don't know there's too many
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i'm sure i'm butchering them whatever but now i guess they're saying that charlie kirk
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i i don't know i guess we will see she has been operating like she has nothing to lose for
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for way too long i mean ever since she left the she's with the daily wire like ever since
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it's like she took a hit backwards in her career by leaving the daily wire and she's been doing
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her best to try to sprint and surpass where she was when she should just did a slow build back up
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but now she's being more audacious and more bolsterous and just making all these crazy claims
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and that can either go really good or really bad and if she loses this defamation lawsuit against
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the macrons her the whole everything she has is done they're gonna take everything from her watch
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Well, that's why, in a way, I think it's kind of selfish for women to get into politics
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because politics is such a dirty, messy business.
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I mean, I know I touch on it a little bit, but like the deep political, I had opportunities
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to do it, but I just think with a family, it's kind of not pragmatic.
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like if you really want to go political because i mean politicians are dirty they're they're
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willing to go to the ends of the earth to destroy you and they'll take your family down with you
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so i don't want to say it's selfish in all cases because you know i don't think it always is and
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you know but it's it's a risk you have to weigh and i just uh you know i'm gonna i'm gonna stick
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in my culture relationship space yeah that's right i'm gonna stay here go ahead yeah good plan
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but good plan yeah but it's because it's just not and the thing is the problem is candy she's not as
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good as the guys around her she's just not like she's too um she doesn't pay enough attention to
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the details so but because she's a woman she gets more attention but and that's okay you know that
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happens but it's better when it comes with like humility and i just don't get that sense from her
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i just get the doubling down i never get the sense that i could be wrong i just i don't get it but
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maybe maybe it's there and i just don't see it yeah i i've always wondered the whole red pill
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influencer to like right wing punditry talking about the jays stuff where'd that pipeline come
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from i don't understand it well it's because things go in cycles it's like two years of
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relationships then two years of politics so that's that's why it's because the news set like
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if i covered i would have made more money if i covered trump's election more closely
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do you know what i'm saying like i i'm sure because they always like to do this i'm sure
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there is a streamer here i mentioned something but it was not a super in-depth following of the
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campaign but if i just swapped during the election oh my gosh it's cash cow but you lose credibility
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over time because if you're not good enough to be an expert in those things and i just if i was
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candace i would go down on how often she does shows in order to in because she's got a bunch
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of kids right i do this job i do think you can do it and be a mom but i just wouldn't do it five
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days a week i do like two and make it really accurate if i was her um but the problem is
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it's a money machine and now she's got to pay for this lawsuit so don't look at this says and we'll
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go back to the topic guys just give me give me it give me i had to give him doug mpa his flowers
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because he not publicly he predicted this like six months ago i said i i said i don't think
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anything will happen and he said oh no she's gonna crash and burn and yeah i have to you know
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you're right you're right doug mpa i was wrong you were right is that the yeah record it that's
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the only time a woman will say it and guys guys in the chat this isn't even about is macron's
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wife what is she or what isn't she it's the battle itself are you willing to lose everything you
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possibly have for that you know i see you guys going back and forth in the chat oh well she is
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and she isn't and blah blah blah yeah but you know not all youtubers have a husband that's worth
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180 million dollars you know what i'm saying so it's like when you're when if when losing your
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media empire means that you're out on the street you don't want to fight those kind of battles
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you just don't and you know example like like fresh and fit um fresh is a clown yes he is but
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like the only thing i've agreed with him on is i wouldn't have taken it down the path
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about talking about the jays and all the stuff that myron did because they've lost
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tens of millions of dollars being demonetized off of youtube and you know i like myron my
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is fantastic but like it's just it's just at what cost i'm glad everything worked out for him i'm
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not saying that myron shouldn't have done it but the opportunity cost is real yeah well and it's
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another thing the only i guess devil's advocate is that i think myron's actually pretty good at
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covering that stuff because my thing is if you're going to do it then you have to be really good
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and accurate at doing it i do think myron's pretty good at it so you could make the case fresh but uh
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but i but i would say he has a better case than candace because i just don't think she's
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she's just not going to have the time unless these nannies are raising the kids which yeah
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would it really surprise me i i was a nanny i could kind of spot a nanny mom
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i could spot it because i you know i had a bunch of nannies all right let me let me let's i want
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to show you this clip really quick i want to see it so it says candace owens just announced she is
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not attending charlie kirk's memorial on sunday due to it being organized by the feds she did
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reveal she plans to go visit kanye west during that time what okay let's see i don't we'll see
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if this is said there is no way we are going to this event now there's a zero percent chance first
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and foremost why are you saying but anybody can go to it you just buy a ticket to the event
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and you're all working to try to get me to confirm that i'm going and you're doing this as if you're
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trying to like push my buttons and be like we got to make her get into her ego so she like shows up
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and like post it on social media nope actually you know while i'm attacking the feds maybe not
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going to a public event uh which the feds are organizing is probably a very good idea i'm good
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you know what I'm gonna do I'm gonna listen to power on my headphones and go see yay how's that
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for a memorial for Charlie Kirk that feels like the right thing for me to do right now
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she's gone yeah she's gone you hate to see it I really liked her work on BLM back in the day I
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really did like her debates on that but I just I don't know as a fan as a former fan the last like
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few years. It all started with the Crowder thing for me. I need a very humble, that's
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what I've been asking for. I need a humble apology that's very public. I need the title
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and the thumbnail to match. I need the title to say I was wrong and I am sorry. I need
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a private apology first to Steven Crowder, then a public apology, denouncing everything
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when you called him an abusive monster, because that was your title then.
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That's what I need from you. And then maybe you could win me back over, Candace,
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is what I need from you. But actually, you're losing me with all the
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we're gonna i'm sorry guys we're gonna go back to the topic female manipulation even though that
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kind of is in a way i feel like i don't know say you won't go to the funeral because of the feds
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just just say you don't want to see all the people you have beef with i mean come on that's the real
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reason you don't want to go that's like me you know here's the thing if i talk shit i'm gonna
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I'm going to still show up, but look it, I will.
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If you want to address the shit talking, we can do it.
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Okay, so Nate, we're going to have Nate come on.
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What female manipulation tactics have you seen in your relationships or marriages?
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hey what's going on uh can you hear me i just want to make sure my mic i can hear you perfect
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awesome i uh i i first saw you actually i'm like one of the few people who didn't know pearl
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um but i saw you on fatty's panel um so excited to be on fatty's pan who's fatty
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you did you did like i think you were on the treadmill but uh you were
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sorry i forgot i did that yeah i was on the treadmill yeah it was a small thing but andrew
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wilson and uh sarah tomato was it was okay okay yeah yeah thanks okay thanks for coming i just
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forgot i did that panel so okay so thanks for coming on um so what female manipulation tactics
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have you observed uh feel free to give examples yeah so i mean i think the main thing is like
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uh and this might be a little controversial but like the self-gaslighting right so like i i think
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it is it's perfectly fine for people to sort of you know if you want if people want to describe
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like trad life world or whatever like that's perfectly cool it's also perfectly cool to talk
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about like living in a normal society um you know having a normal job and and sort of what comes
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from that um and i i think like 2025 has been a freaking train wreck like it's been bad you know
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like uh you know and you know you were ragging on candace owens no offense to her but like it's a
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perfect example that like i mean she can't find the thread right now and it's like well why is
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that it's because you haven't told the truth and um you haven't told the truth in the last like
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three years and that's totally manipulation right it's manipulation to say that like well oh you
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know uh the world's just like this because i say it is you know can i have examples of like specific
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examples of what you mean i don't actually watch your show too closely it sounds like i might i
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might agree but you know go ahead yeah i mean i think the fact that uh you know um you know
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obviously respect to Charlie Kirk and his family and respect to Candace I know she was friends with
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them but the fact that you know uh two or three days after you know she's talking about oh well
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the camera was moving and you know she's bringing up these conspiracy theories and stuff like that
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uh you know and so to me it's like okay you know from the top of Lunatic Mountain you're coming
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down Candace Owens and telling me that you know you know I don't even I don't listen to an FBI
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director i already don't like right i don't listen listen to cash patel i listen to candace owens on
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this it's that's crazy to me yeah yeah that's true what about in like your personal relationships
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have you are there any other manipulation tactics you've noticed uh no no um you know
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i i think without being scared to go past the fence line um from my perspective um you know
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know from my perspective i've been lucky that i have i think like a strong like sort of like you
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know like good feminine people in my life and stuff like that um and so you know um you know
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the the sort of you know i wish i had a better answer but i like you know i wasn't expecting
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to answer that question oh that's okay um well thanks for calling in doug mpa you got any other
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questions for him that was great that's a great answer that um is that a purple heart behind you
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oh that's great uh that that's granddad yeah that's awesome man that's amazing yeah
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yeah good on you for respecting him that's great
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just wanted to say absolutely yeah good having that up there thank you
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thanks for calling yeah we'll see you yeah calling anytime great caller yeah see you pearl
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i love it when they just they say their point you guys are getting better i'm proud of you
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we've come a long way from a few months ago all right we got i follow his twitter the french
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oh gee welcome to the show you're on mute oh gee unmute unmute
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hey thanks bro how are you good how are you thanks for calling in
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well thanks for having me thanks for having me all right so give it to me what
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female i know i know you're out in the field i see your bumble on twitter no give it to me
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what oh turn off um make sure you turn off the youtube in the background oh okay yeah yeah
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oh shit okay you got it yeah i got it got it got it so tell me what what female manipulation
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relation tactics have you seen i could make a i could make a fucking dictionary with this
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we're ready oh yeah trust me that's why i said this to you i was like he's gonna be great go
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ahead yeah well just just for context i just spoken up it's like what i don't like it's like
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four or five p.m in the um in the uk so bear with me i'm just getting my idea right there but just
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straight first gaslighting all right because women love to deflect accountability and use
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offensive tactics rather than defensive tactics to make the guy feel bad about themselves right
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say um say she's being disrespectful to you she'll say oh well why are you such why are you so
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sensitive why are you being pussy what hello it's like you know just crazy stuff right um another
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one bread crumbing women want to always have control of the dynamic right they never want to
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say first that they were interested in the guy so what they'll do is they'll just use stories
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stories to get the guys or just they'll send you snaps very little effort to get the guy to actually
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start the conversation first but they don't want to express their interest right just as you know
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they just want to put something out there and they want and they will just and also part of bread
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crumbing is um when it's about giving as little as possible affection just to create a validation
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that is enough for the guy to be uh to be into but as soon as they feel that they get the validation
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the guy then they pull back so that the guy gets stuck in a in a rut where they always constantly
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chasing the girl but every time that he basically pulls back because he's not getting enough
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she'll breadcrumb him a bit further just to keep the just to keep the control
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what else the love bombing and then the pullback
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so the love bombing and the pullback what happens is that the girl wants to get a guy
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a guy wants to get a guy's attention so she'll throw different threads of interest towards the
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guy and they see what type of compliments he really vibes with he does she does that for a
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little bit again again definitely attached and then what what she does is she starts she slowly
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starts to criticize him but it starts with very like offhand comments not really that and then
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afterwards she starts to really bring him down just in order for her to basically have complete
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control of him well those are just three of them can we role play that one so pretend i'm you you
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be the girl in this okay okay can you give me just one second i'm just gonna grab myself some water
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i'm just a bear do you do you need like a couple minutes i can put you in the waiting room and
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bring you back um yeah two minutes that's fine two minutes okay i'll go to i'll take another caller
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and then i'll go back to you while i let you wake up all right all right all right those were good
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though don't get up here those are pretty i see his tweets all the time those are pretty funny
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right don't get me yeah yeah he was spot on he was spot on i want to ask him before he gets off
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the phone about the different levels of gaslighting oh yeah that was his first um that was his first
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uh thing so um i'm gonna run the level one level two level three and see if he has any other ideas
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for level one level two level two eventually when he gets done with this yeah well we'll bring up
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sweet auntie while he wakes up and then um and then we'll see what he has to say we'll go back
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sweet auntie welcome to the show uh so what female gas i know you've said she knows women
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are crazy so not all not all not all do you see women have a gun to my head like basically
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on this show um but she i i know she's been on before so
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what get what manipulation from women have you seen go ahead
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oh auntie you're on mute unmute auntie gotta unmute there we go the controls disappeared
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for a second can you hear me all right I can hear you okay so um lots of tactics I've got
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99 problems and which is where every single one um but work workplace manipulation is probably
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the one that's done a lot of damage to me. And I've had them hive mind and ostracize me in
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workplaces and even getting to the point of manipulating my management teams against me.
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I, the final straw that ruined my ambitions in having an actual career were a female I worked
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with, we were lateral and our boss, she had been feeding lies to him about things that I did. And
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he actually used like things that were legitimate. And that's the thing that women will do is they'll
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find truthful things and then they'll twist those things. And that's why their lies are so hard to
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grasp. And she would do that. And she got me, um, just start getting written up and talked to and
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yelled at by my boss and I just I finally gave up you sound like a man
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yeah like that's what men say you know you sound like a guy like is my voice really low
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no no no I know I know I know you're being figurative no no I wasn't I wasn't yeah I
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wasn't talking about the boy but no because you know what I relate though because that's
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how i feel with women you guys win you win you win i give up you get i went to blue collar work
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to literally just get away from it all i couldn't do it anymore do you know what's crazy women said
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if women ran the world there would be no wars i'm like women would torture you for fun we do it with
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our words all the time it's just torture for fun correct and could you imagine if they had military
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oh my gosh and women run for office i'm like let me just kms you know or even worse can you imagine
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if women had the physical strength of men oh my gosh you'd all be in cages oh my gosh that would
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be terrible yep because everything that that women are everything okay everything that women
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are stronger than no i'm sorry whatever is weaker than women women abuse pets kids elderly elderly
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100 oh yeah it's awful it's awful i couldn't even imagine if they had the strength forced for
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backing that up everything that they project that they're afraid of men doing
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it's because if they were men they would probably be doing that oh that's good do you know what
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reputation destruction i think is the worst that's like the i think that's the worst one
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i would rather a woman just punches me in the face and then i'm done with it
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then nitpick every little thing that i do for years i've mind the rest of the hive to join
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and that yes oh my god do you know what so when i was in school there's volleyball teams right
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and i was never cool enough you know there's always like the cool women and you know or
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like the popular i was never popular but sometimes i would get into the popular group for like a
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little bit a little bit but you always get kicked out like i'd say something too blunt one girl
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gets mad and then i'm kicked out of the group chat and i'm like but it's like one will get mad
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at you and recruit all of them and you're like damn it i guess i'm gone yep i just it's what
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It's just, I'm just going to leave this because you can't win no matter how hard you fight against it.
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And I hope that guy's woke up because it's got a lot of questions for the scale.
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that in but we're ready for you all right fine it's like it's it's it's pretty simple it's just
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to put things into perspective and don't get too much into your ego because the best way to
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manipulate someone whether it's women or guys is your ego all right actually um like i made like
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an article it's a paid article in my sub stack was like all the list well not like all the list
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but just the process and that i've got just in front of me just to uh just for to refresh my
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memory type of stuff so yeah in terms of how to get how to um to not get caught up in it
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don't take what she says at face value all right don't take what she says at face value if she
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says stuff that nobody else has said about you most likely is bullshit why because you're not
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that special but she will want to make you feel special what's an example of something that a
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woman said to you that you just know it's bullshit actually something really recent that just happened
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i don't know i was like it sounds too good to be true here but like i just but actually just
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be aware of this right a girl that over text a girl that over text i mean by that like she's
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like already so much into you like oh my god you're so uh like to me also i have like uh and
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that's something that maybe is going to surprise a lot of guys i make sure to hear exactly what
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word she says right so for example i make a distinction between hot and handsome right
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and every time i've had a girl call me handsome every time i had some bullshit every time it was
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fake every time it was it's kind of like and guys it was just like they love to be heard called
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handsome and everything no you're you're just you're just a good guy to take advantage of
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because it's like you're you gotta be in it's very important to distinguish when a girl calls
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you hot it's like sexually desirable handsome you're quite the good guy actually the first
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person that pinpointed that to me was actually cga right coach gray adams and i was like
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and then i started looking and i was like holy shit that's actually so on point
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say so for example one girl called me how i remember every time was no problem going into
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sex but every time handsome it was always bullshit after bullshit right they were weaponizing sex
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they wanted to see if they could get me to jump through their hoops kind of like it's it's for
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example a way to to to groom you into doing what they want you to do right but because i didn't
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really take care into consideration and some i've had i wanted to make them work more for it
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in the sense that oh you is that all is that is that the best you've got tell me more you know
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tell me more okay you're gone no i was just i was just gonna ask what else so okay fine so if she
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says handsome you got some yeah you're just kind of like the put like she sees you as a potential
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cleanup guy all right like like it's the stuff that they say to guys in their 30s that they would
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not have in their 20s right so that basically it's like the second the second in line anyway
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But let's say for example, what does she do first? She'll figure out your vulnerability, right?
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She'll throw different threads. She'll be like, she wants to see what draws the core of your identity.
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You know, like what do you believe about yourself that is so key that she's going to double down on, right?
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And generally they'll see that from the way that you're engaged with whatever she throws at you.
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And then say, for example, you love being complimented on your looks, you love being complimented on your intelligence, you love being complimented on, I don't know, some part of your personality.
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And they'll double down, they'll triple down, right?
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so that gives her a feeling of importance right but also what they'll do is they will want to
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look for easy targets all right so because they're more manipulable right and they're also
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very easy um they generally lack attention from other women so it wouldn't be like so they when
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they feel that for example you're very dependent upon her attention that's a subtle sign that you're
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not used to attention from women so that means that she can have easier she has less competition
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with the other woman so therefore she knows that you're you're a better prey um then what she's
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going to do is she's going to find the insecurities that you have from the vulnerability that she
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managed to get out of you because say for example someone understands you very well
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then you're more you're more happy to open up to them then if you then that person that you
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open up to you'll put them at a higher position than the other ones so right now she the the fact
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that you expose yourself emotionally put her at a big advantage at a big power has big power play
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right and then she'll she'll she'll see that she has a big part uh in maneuvering maneuvering your
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self-esteem right and how did she do that was through the love bombing oh because she figured
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out that she can ruin make or ruin your day exactly she has that amount of power over you
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that's halfway there that's halfway there oh no she's not done okay she's not done she's not done
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all right she's gonna do something that very few girls ever did for you
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so that basically is gonna really make you feel even deeper that she's special she's like my god
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not only basically she listened to me she she made me expose myself she's not she's not really
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like dig deep into me i mean she has not really made anything bad but then she'll look at something
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that you know will mean so much to you and then and then she'll go cold hot and cold then she'll
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go hot and cold then you start creating you start becoming anxious and everything and then she start
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to guilt trip you over the smallest of matters and then she'll she'll she'll say no it's fine
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then it's going to be like constant loop of hot and cold hot and cold to the point that it's only
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cold and babies and she'll get completely cold from the moment that she feels that you have no
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control whatsoever of yourself and she has full control of you so that's the finish like that's
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from the love bombing to the withdrawal how long does this process take like how long from start to
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finish generally about on average i would say like finger in the wind estimation about three months
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and do most guys clock on or are they just cooked thing is most guys have barely any attention from
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women so therefore when someone normally is not basically completely solipsistic
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she's autistic but she's way more manipulative and uh scheming than you know most girls so therefore
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they they think that they've got the one and they'd be like oh yeah that's amazing that's
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great etc etc but really um even for guys that even have success it's easy you can easily fall
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into it because say for example you're looking for someone serious you're like holy that's
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your life material well that's when you get that's when you get the hell with the jesus
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cross and the flower dress he actually has a really good ai guys um he he it's actually so
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it's actually so good i've used it before um you sent me like a free thing and it was like
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it it helps you like overcome the women's test is that the best way to describe it i'm like
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but it's really good actually go ahead well you know you go you got to learn you to know me right
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it was because of my bumble chats right yeah yeah like obviously i was trolling a woman on bumble but
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afterwards i was like well actually i can actually use my uh i can i'm i'm really lazy so when i i
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created with the help of my co-founder an ai that was look at all my good bumble chats not like the
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shit bumble chat that was just doing for fun and throwing woman um and i was like my god i can
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can actually save myself texting woman by just using that retrieval system but then it also put
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like all the knowledge that i have on every other aspects you know when it comes to relationship
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you find yourself in a in a in a crazy situation or even just in a normal situation as part of your
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relationship and then tell you the wrong filter truth that none of the mainstream solution is
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going to going to tell you right but a lot of time they all he also stops guys from simping
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because a lot of time guys sent by text and they don't even know it and he will call you out for
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it so yeah so do you have it run your bumble now your ai sorry oh yeah yeah i mean i mean
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they're talking to you and it just talks to an ai i mean i you know i just added it's really good
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it's on whatsapp right it's on it's on whatsapp telegram yeah so it just like plugs it in for
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you so if you guys want it could you put your twitter it's french og right yeah yeah french
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g3 at frenchwg3 and it's there's a direct link for a free trial you get like 23 message and
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then you can make you know your opinion for yourself based on your situation yeah it's
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actually really good guys it's maybe i'll show you guys one day but i was actually really impressed
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by the ai um so what what manipulation tactics would you say is like oh doug mpa do you want
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to tell him the three levels of gaslighting and see what he thinks
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Yeah, so gaslighting is such a vacuous and nebulous term now,
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and women gaslight so much that we have to find a way to put levels to gaslighting
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So we're tentatively going with level one gaslighting, level two gaslighting,
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started with level three like level three is the top level where you get your kid's dna test that
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you find out it's not yours but she's still trying to tell you it's your kid and trying to shame you
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into like not believing what science says so that's that's level three that's the worst then
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like level one is like um what was an example of level one again probably oh here let me pull it
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up we were going through it level one um is we never hooked up but they didn't technically
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have sex but she did some sort of oral um i hate him but i really want to him go ahead
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yeah or or um you know a woman will will will sleep with a guy and blame him on the alcohol
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oh yeah you know i drank i i slept with him but you know i drank a little much that night to
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remove yourself from from accountability level two would be the the kind of gaslighting that
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women do like in divorce court or like when they leave a relationship because on our channel we
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have what's called the female friendly version of the story which is where they make themselves
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sound like the hero and the victim at the same time in the story you know what i'm talking about
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so that's like level two gaslighting so level three would be trying to gaslight a dna test
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level two would be lies and like divorce court trying to make themselves look better when they
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were the demons in a relationship and like level one is like basic kind of relationship gaslighting
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so what would what do you think of that model there and what what would you put for level one
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level two level three gaslighting i'm taking notes i'm ready all right okay so like i mean
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some level of gaslight is kind of like a bit harmless like let's say call call call it level
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one where it's kind of it's almost like she's unconscious but just because she just want to
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deflect accountability she just finds a way to put it back on you so fair enough so that is kind
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of like over as you said over a little relationship uh it could be my body counts three you know like
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level one yeah i mean body count yeah we could put that put that in but it's kind of like stuff
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that is not really i would say harmful as long as it's not um as you call it um repetitive and
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over matters that really matter you know such as for example dna uh dna test for fathers so yeah
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definitely makes sense right then there can be the gas lighting uh to make ourselves look good
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as you said which is um you know just uh or make herself a victim meaning by that she
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it's less so much about uh putting the blame on you rather than putting the blame away from her
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to some third you know to some let's say or circumstantial stuff because ask yourself always
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this whenever a girl finds herself in a shitty situation where she willing fully and with agency
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exposing herself to because originally what she wants is to get herself to do that thing and then
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she'll just find an excuse as to why she was out of control right uh so yeah but i would say that
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yeah it's it's worse than the level one makes sense and then the third one is is full bad faith
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uh gaslighting which means that it is purposely misleading you into thinking uh a certain thing
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so that you know you get to make the wrong decision right yeah and you already see it
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very early on and like let's say even in dating like you know the amount of girls that basically
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portray like you know like an image of themselves you know that they're they're done like they're
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kind of like they're another type of girl right i can see i can sense and i can even qualify very
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quickly to know it's all bullshit but they're all misleading you in order to get you to make
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wrong decision or get the wrong idea like so many guys for example they'd be like you know like
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looking at girls that you know will hold out on the first date and everything especially past 30
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right and and and really they ran through as and they don't have no
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but because they just think that oh a girl that's people on the first date is a
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whole it's like you know what there's as equal as chance that she's one even if she doesn't
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so it's like so i keep telling pearly that we need to redefine you you can't just say that a
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woman is a whore because she slept with you on the first date because you want to be the guy
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she sleeps with on the first date well she's giving you leverage off it's like some men just
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want to self-destruct in a way they're like please don't give me leverage she's like here's
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she's like here's the leverage they're like no i can't have it let me give the state more leverage
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you know but it's it's actually quite funny because i was chatting to a girl recently right
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um who had like a few dealings and everything and she was telling me about a girl that like
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that found herself a husband and she was serial dating and and what she was doing like two or
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three dates in a day right like crazy like coffee here coffee there and then like dinner date or
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like whatever and she went from sleeping with like guys on the first day to five six seven day
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after five six seven dates but what was a funny bit was a couple of times she found herself with
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a guy that she made him wait for like the six or seven days but he was so shit not afterwards
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well she basically she didn't want to see him but it was so obvious that it was about the sex
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and and the girl i was seeing was just saying to her like so imagine you basically wasted
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fucking six days to know that she was in bed like you both wasted your time and she was nowhere near
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a good girl that girl that was basically making six or seven days wait so really you want i'll
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give you some men are like begging to be fooled yeah do you know what i mean like some men it's
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like they want to take an l on some sub psychological level i can't describe it but
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it's like every time a guy tells me his wife is different i'm like okay
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i'm like no no no no i'm like let's explore this when did you meet her oh so you didn't
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know her in high school you didn't know her in college oh she just moved and i'm like come on
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guys like come on sorry go ahead no no but i've got i've got like i've got a good insight for
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for for guys in order to know how experienced she is okay go ahead so normally like when you
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bring a girl back right like whatever time you know you'll you'll deal with a lot of no we can't
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do this tonight oh you know like do all the all the bullshit like you know like pretending that
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you know like are we gonna do this type of stuff so all that false plausible deniability or even
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something called last minute resistance kind of like she just say no just so that it doesn't
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appear it's too easy type of stuff when she says no look at how confident she says no is she awkward
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or she does that with like a strong confidence because the girl that do that with a lot of
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confidence they've been there way many times for her not to feel awkward about shutting down the
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guy when they're let's say in the right vicinity to operate the girl that is a bit awkward and
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everything has not found herself in that situation that much and that's something that i've noticed
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and i was discussing that with other guys and it's like it's so fucking like such a great indicator
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her but also if you want to look at as well like you if you want to kind of like get an idea of
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how high her body count is whatever look at how long she's been single look at how high is a sex
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drive and uh look at how long uh um you know like um what do you call it how high is a sex drive
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how long she's been single and always ask different questions about you know like just you
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leave the information you say for example you talk about your what you've done show that to her that
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You're not that you really don't care. You really don't care. Right.
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Like about your, you know, about body count and you're not judgmental.
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And then she'll tell you about different stories and then you start, you know,
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you can get a good ballpark idea of where it's at.
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How many bodies do you calculate for every year she's single?
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Oh my God. I mean, I did, I did econometrics at school.
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I never thought I would actually use that. Um, but anyway, uh,
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If she's been single on average, I'd say one every two months
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for, say, a period of singledom, let's say two years.
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That's not the first time I've heard that, one every two months.
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You see, I didn't even know that most of the PUAs said that goes to show, right?
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and um the more i mean the thing is it's like it's not as good an indicator but the more introverted
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she is the more um the less likely she's going to have one right but dating apps makes it easier
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for introverted people but still however i'll tell you something and that's something the the
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best the best girl game she has like how good of a game she has the higher likelihood she has a high
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body count yeah yeah the more charming she is but to be honest I'll tell you it's like a lot of time
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girls don't have a high body count because they don't like sex that much so it's like you go to
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you go to a girl but you're like yeah great she has no body count then you end up in a dead bedroom
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because you decide to go for a girl that doesn't like sex do you know what I know a guy in in London
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there was a guy who waited till he was married and that's what he found out his wife just had
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a very low sex drive and so then he married her and then she like did not want to have sex with
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him like she did it like once and then she just wouldn't want to do it again
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so yeah it's kind of like a roll of the dice but that that was a good one the awkward with the no
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that's yeah yeah and by the way i just want to say to doug i think that's actually really good
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like those uh three level of gaslight kind of like good faith bad faith and kind of like
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deflecting accountability um yeah i like i like the way you put it the level three is
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because there's some level of lying we just kind of do subconsciously but level three is
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you are lying you're purposely doing it and you are like you're making the wrong decision
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the thing about female manipulation is guys that people manipulate and think that
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they're um they're satisfying that women's need to manipulate but that never goes away like ever
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the thing is a lot of time women just want control yep i agree yeah um crazy do you think
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that have you ever been in a relationship where a woman did not use any of the manipulation tactics
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i mean to be honest it's like to me i the thing is my view on manipulation is not black and white
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okay it's because it's natural for each and every one of us to manipulate but sometimes with a good
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intention sometimes with bad intention sometimes we just um we're just not even aware as you were
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same right so for me the way i look at girl whenever i deal with a girl all i look at is
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is she of good faith is she of bad faith because people will draw and think that actions will tell
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everything but if you don't know where the action is coming from you don't know if whether she's
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stupid or whether she is really mean yeah so so so it's about like i don't look at oh my god she's
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manipulating it's like i think that manipulation is part of you know it's part of human interactions
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so i so it's like if you think that you know you want a girl that never manipulates you well
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you're never going to find one you're never going to find one even seduction is manipulation
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that's what i always try to reiterate is women are women i don't care if you're in africa asia
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london i mean you're in london you see the international range of the women that come here
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or come there i'm not there anymore um but the um
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it's just there's no way around it women are women even in different time periods there was
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like books written about women's manipulation in 1900 you know but even even even guys manipulate
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but they don't even know like for example when a guy is doing nice things to a girl
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that's his way of trying to manipulate her to do
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the guy doesn't get any sex and then he's trying to basically
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well Doug and Pia you got any other questions for him
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topics that look like this so we need to call in
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I'm telling you guys, you really should check out that AI.
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So technically, so look, you can get straight to the website.
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is ask dash shad dot ai can you put it in the private chat and then yeah okay give me a sec
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i'll put it in the youtube chat yeah okay perfect i'm telling you this ai is so funny like that
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i i just remember i was asking it questions and it was like don't send that
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i was so funny like i i wish i could because this was like a month or so ago but
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i just remember i was asking it questions and i was like cracking up
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yeah i mean sometimes you even call like i had a client he called him like a fucking
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i thought i mean he paid you for your ai to call him a weak ass
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all right so hold on i see that there's this channel call me a fucking boomer but like give
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me a sec uh there's this chat message to everyone no no so how do i get um
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uh you know what where can i send it hold on i see pearl davis meeting
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okay fine okay let's see yeah if you can i'm a little chat thing yeah yeah
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all right doug mp would you mind putting it in like the description or comment section one or
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the other yeah i'll do it so but yeah guys follow him on twitter he's got some good tweets
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i'm being shadow banned so my my post don't get my people your twitter in the private chat too
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oh here i i i got it yeah i got it for you yeah okay i got it oh thank you thank you pearl yeah
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thanks for coming on come on anytime all right perfect well look uh and whenever there's a
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subject let me know i'll just pop in and uh happy to meet you doug and really nice uh gaslight
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breakdown all right we'll see ya yeah good talking to you buddy what a great guest yeah
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no i'm telling you there's some of the best uh people on twitter um because i really enjoy the
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the different puas like i love see i love the stories i just am very entertained by them so
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sometimes i'll call him to call it go ahead so he's french but he lives in in in the uk yeah
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okay so i'm putting in the chat and then i'll after this show i'll put it in the description too
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you well this was a fun show did you have fun i had fun today yeah you know and uh i'm interested
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to see where this music thing goes because you're doing really good at the beginning it was really
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good especially for off the top of the dome good job yeah i well i kind of want to start the show
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where they give me they get maybe one day we'll all write a hit song together you know where they
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give me like um words and i can just write it because i i really enjoy doing that it's fun
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um okay guys make sure you like the video thanks doug mpa you got any final thoughts um guys you
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in my opinion the best way to avoid female gaslighting manipulation is just um
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But when you're dealing with women and manipulation
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keep all your stuff to yourself until proven otherwise.
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so that's how i get around female manipulation just say no nope and then if they're crazy
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they'll crash out like the video guys subscribe uh thanks for watching and i'll see you