Pearl - June 18, 2025Modern Women Whine About Guys Not Approaching Them
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Summary
For over 40 years, women have told men to leave them alone. Don t approach me, you creep. And it turns out, if you keep telling men to stay away from you, they will. Modern women are going on TikTok to complain about men not approaching them.
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What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. Today we're talking about men not approaching
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women anymore. For over 40 years, women have told men to leave them alone. Don't approach me,
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you creep, they would all say. And it turns out if you keep telling men to stay away from you,
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they will. Modern women are going on TikTok to whine about men not approaching them.
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Back in the day, it was simple. A guy saw a pretty woman, walked up to her and said hi.
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Of course, women called that predatory and patriarchy and now everything's messed up.
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Let's take a look at some of the women that are complaining about men not approaching them.
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So anytime. All right. So what are we going to rate her? I would say six, five, six, five, six.
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I'm talking to like a new guy. I would say for the past, maybe like five, six years,
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majority of the time they always ask me why I'm single. They can't believe I'm single. They think
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men are out here approaching you left, right, and center. Let me tell you, like I told them,
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men do not approach me. Okay. It's very rare that a man out in public, out in the world will see me.
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I don't care how good I look that day. I don't care how good I smell. I don't care about none of
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that. They're not walking up to me. And that's because my demeanor says I'm good. I don't come
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off as friendly. I don't come off as approachable. I don't come off inviting. And that's very
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intentional because you're not going to come over here and waste my time. You're not going to come
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over here and play with me. That'd be like, I'm not the one. What the, so she complains about men
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not approaching her. That says I'm not the one. And I make, I do this intentionally. I scare off men
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women. Be known before you even open your mouth, before you even fix your legs to come walk over
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into my space and start exchanging words with me. And I like that. And I'm going to keep it that way.
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I'm somebody who doesn't get approached in public by men, right?
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the long hair. And for the longest time, I wondered why is that?
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Bruh. Like, just gorgeous and beautiful and all those good things.
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How do you, what do you even say to somebody like me when you see me in public?
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Men probably see me in public and think their schizophrenia is acting up,
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And before you comment and say anything like, no, it's because you're so big and tall and
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you don't have any fucking hair and you're kind of masculine looking.
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I'm dead set on being fucking perfect and unapproachable and unattainable.
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Yeah, I mean, approaching, men approach at like bars and that sort of setting.
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But in my lifetime, it's never really been normal for men to approach you in public.
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How should guys approach you in the gym or if at all?
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They don't approach me, they just stare at me because I think I look intimidating.
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Yeah, I mean, men aren't super into neck tattoos.
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Social media, follow you, slide in the DMs, but they don't actually say anything.
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Talking about, I saw you in the gym, but I was kind of a little scared to approach you
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Do you understand how you're kind of intimidating though?
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Yeah, but I think like even at this point without no context, I think it's the vibe that
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I'm giving off maybe, maybe a little like tomboyish style and they, I think I do look
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Guys, do not approach you at the bar, not because you're not pretty, but it's because
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If you want to increase your approach rate, just put out the boobs.
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I've been going to the bars every weekend with my friends, maybe for the past couple months
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And my friend and I were talking at the bar the other weekend and we were talking about
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how we've never been approached by a single guy before, like maybe ever, which is just
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Like I can't even, I can name a couple occurrences where they have, but it was like people from
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Europe and they're like a different breed of people.
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Okay, so I feel like the culture in America is way different.
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Guys do not want to approach you, not because of how pretty you are or how you look, but
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And then us women over here who are single are thinking like, we look amazing.
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Even if we're not into them, why don't they just come up just to like make us feel good
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How do I make women feel good about themselves?
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Because we don't, they don't have big enough egos.
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And if you know, women aren't putting out at the bars, they're just going to stop going.
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They're like, am I going to get sex out of this?
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Now I want you to think of the perspective of a guy.
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I will never know what's in a man's head, but I have a good, pretty good idea from like
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They don't all have that courage or charisma or just bravery to go up to you.
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And on top of just being intimidated by going up to a stranger in general, you're probably
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surrounded by a big group of friends and even worse if you're surrounded by your guy
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friends, because they're going to assume that you're dating one of them.
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And no one wants to go up to a girl who's surrounded by a bunch of guys.
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So now you're probably thinking, okay, we have this information, but what do we do with
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First off, I don't really think bars are the best place to really find a relationship.
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It's great to meet people, have fun, really get to know other people.
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But if you're putting all your eggs in one basket and really putting so much pressure
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on finding a guy that will take you seriously, that's going to be very hard.
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The other thing is that we always make fun of dating apps a lot, but I think the percentage
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is something like 60% of people now meet their significant other on the internet because
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people don't go up to other people anymore because they know they can meet you on a dating
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This past Saturday, I literally went up to a group of guys and was like, do you want to
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I wasn't attracted to any of them, but I'm so happy I did it because I made a new group
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And initially I thought that they weren't that fun.
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Like they just seemed like they were like moping around, they odd RBFs, like whatever.
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And I went up to them and they ended up being the funniest group of guys ever.
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And I'm sure a lot of guys think of you that way too.
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And they're like, dang, these girls hung out with us all night and we didn't even smash.
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Have like an RBF or just, you don't seem approachable, but little do they know how you really are.
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So the takeaway from this video is that guys not coming up to you out in public says nothing
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You can literally be like Gigi Hadid and a guy's still not going to come up to you.
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So guys are intimidated and it takes so much courage to go up to a girl.
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And a lot of guys are cheap and just don't want to buy you a drink.
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And they're scared of getting used for a drink, which kind of sucks, but I understand.
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So do not weigh your worth and whether or not people come up to you.
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There are women that are super hot that do get approached all the time.
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I was friends with the nine when I was younger and it was actually crazy going out with her
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because she just got so much male attention everywhere.
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Like she would get a, like, yeah, it was crazy.
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Anyways, guys, let me know what you think in the comments on why aren't men approaching.
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