Pearl - November 24, 2025


Modern Women Who LIE About Liking ＂Ugly＂ Men


Episode Stats


Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

208.12846

Word count

1,538

Sentence count

17

Harmful content

Misogyny

24

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Toxicity

9

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Hate speech

13

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Summary

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Why do women like to date ugly men? Why is it that women tend to date men who are less attractive than what society would deem "average"? And why does this make them more attractive to other women?

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 and a lot of women can't date attractive men because they can't take having the attention 1.00
00:00:04.120 on him and not them. Are you ugly? Well, then I have the show for you. My name is Pearl Davis 0.99
00:00:09.320 and welcome to my reaction series. Today we are reacting to women talking about how they 1.00
00:00:14.740 like to date ugly men. If you think you're chopped, don't worry. Don't worry. These girls 1.00
00:00:22.220 will date you. Women sometimes think that they would be better off by dating someone who is 1.00
00:00:28.880 a lot less attractive than what they are okay so when women say this this means one of two things 0.99
00:00:35.500 one instead of going for alpha fucks they go for beta bucks so they're going for the provider
00:00:40.060 instead of the looks two they have a sorry three one of three things two the guy is funny or
00:00:45.880 charismatic or charming so he's got a good personality or he just knows how to talk to
00:00:50.860 women and or three they've been sleeping with men out of their league and now they deem men 1.00
00:00:56.680 in their league ugly so a lot of times when they i hear women say that their boyfriends are ugly a 1.00
00:01:01.720 lot and then i'll look at them and i'm like i don't think he's ugly if they think that this
00:01:05.800 partner will be more loyal or usually it's that they won't cheat take what i say with a pinch of
00:01:13.800 salt and i am being very general ish but three things are likely to happen if you date a man that
00:01:22.360 is significantly less attractive than you are see if you just give someone the benefit and the one
00:01:31.240 thing is if he actually is less attractive than you you have officially become his league so now
00:01:36.600 he can get women that look like you like this is not my type but my type hasn't been working out 1.00
00:01:41.960 for me so i'm just going to give this this guy a type this guy i go the first thing that will happen
00:01:48.280 he will feel like all his christmases have come at once the second thing that will happen
00:01:55.000 you will elevate his status as a man that's true that's true so his market value to other women
00:02:02.040 skyrockets because you're stunning how's he bagged you he must have something women become 1.00
00:02:09.040 interested the third thing he starts knowing this to see in his attention i think i snucked her so
00:02:18.160 i can probably get these as well she's right actually i think that's one of the few times
00:02:23.360 i've heard a woman say something that's correct men they do think that once they've gotten you 1.00
00:02:28.720 now they can date your friends you know i'm going yeah okay let's see let's see the next one ugly 1.00
00:02:35.440 guys are the best guys to date why are people always so confused when they see a pretty girl
00:02:39.780 with a guy who's not objectively attractive or what society would deem objectively attractive
00:02:44.940 because compared to the pretty boy the ugly duckling actually had to develop a personality
00:02:49.180 he actually had to develop a sense of humor he actually got game he got game the pretty boy
00:02:55.220 gets girls just because he's attractive but does anybody end up with a pretty boy no not necessarily
00:03:01.060 because we are looking for more than just a pretty face we're looking for the personality
00:03:07.220 and actually the ugly duckling i don't know why i'm saying it like that ugly in itself is a term
00:03:12.860 that doesn't really say much because first of all character can make really beautiful
00:03:16.780 the character can make you look so beautiful and second of all beauty is totally up to
00:03:22.320 subjective taste either way but the ugly duckling if we were to call it that actually is wired kind
00:03:31.040 kind of hardwired to please because they okay yeah the she's basically saying you get more
00:03:37.600 simping the uglier you go you get less simping the more attractive you go in general yeah because
00:03:41.880 the more choice the guy has it depends because good there are good looking simps but the more
00:03:45.880 choice the man has um you know the less uh simping you're gonna get never got the compliments right
00:03:52.080 away you know the pretty boy shows up to a party and everybody's swooning over him he got five
00:03:56.280 girls standing around him everybody's like oh you got a great smile you got great eyes you got great
00:04:00.120 hair everybody's always saying oh you're such a pretty guy you're such a good looking guy and
00:04:03.780 and a lot of women can't date attractive men because they can't take having the attention 1.00
00:04:07.980 on him and not them you're so handsome the ugly duckling he needs to fight for it he needs to
00:04:12.220 fight to get those compliments he needs to fight to get those girls and when he gets one he's going
00:04:17.080 to treat her well he's going to treat her well and he's going to make sure that she stays and
00:04:22.320 he is going to give you his heart so all right let's see yeah so she you're more likely to get
00:04:28.200 a relationship from an ugly guy you're more likely to get a relationship from an ugly guy is what 1.00
00:04:33.040 she's saying and yeah that's true that's true it's a strategy um girls hate ugly guys you know how 1.00
00:04:38.140 people always say like why do you talk girls hate ugly guys my theory is they also always over you
00:04:43.720 know because all these women i would say were mids um they always over guess how attractive the woman 1.00
00:04:49.240 is a lot of people seek out the thing that they are insecure about within themselves in a significant
00:04:54.740 another so like if you're feeling insecure about your finances you're going to seek out someone
00:04:58.660 who's financially stable and not without exception but i do see a lot of this and my theory is women 1.00
00:05:03.860 who are very attractive are confident in their looks so they're not looking to validate their
00:05:07.940 own looks by having a super attractive partner they're prioritizing other qualities so if they
00:05:12.500 do date someone who's like less traditionally attractive they don't really care and that's fine
00:05:16.900 because again they're confident in their looks they're not looking to validate that via their
00:05:20.580 partner and what their partner looks like let me know what you think of this one because i feel 0.90
00:05:23.700 like i'm on to something she think what does this lady think tits out nice i really don't care what 1.00
00:05:29.460 guys look i really don't care what guys look like like i've dated guys that girls would be like oh
00:05:33.940 my god he's a hard two but it's women are also really critical again women don't find most men 0.95
00:05:39.140 attractive really not about looks it's more of like a vibe like i need to see you she's saying
00:05:45.060 charisma oh and fix a truck she's about to say well that's that's gonna go back to beta bucks 0.99
00:05:50.500 because alpha fox don't have to do anything for you beta bucks do the truck or i need to see you
00:05:55.220 manhandle a horse or fight a kangaroo i need to see full-blown testosterone in motion i need to
00:06:01.700 know that you could save me from a bear obviously like where are the bears they're nowhere to be
00:06:06.180 found but it's nice knowing that you could protect me so honestly if you're a guy that like makes
00:06:12.180 content like fix a truck show us how to change a tire build a birdhouse that's the vibes we're
00:06:18.020 needing stop messaging women being like i could give you the time of your life no you know we'll 0.87
00:06:22.260 give us a time of our life come mow our lawn come pull the weeds and now she wants a slave she's 1.00
00:06:26.660 like i want an ugly slave come wash our car come do something useful and like grunt while you're 1.00
00:06:32.180 doing it you know what i'm saying it's not like you have to send people money i mean i'm literally 0.95
00:06:35.780 i've never had one guy ever send me money i don't know how these girls are getting men to send them 1.00
00:06:39.220 money please let me know how you're doing it i've never had that but yeah just like be helpful be
00:06:44.020 kind. Be like, hi, can I go grocery shopping? Whenever women say what men should do, it's always 1.00
00:06:48.940 what women should do. Like women being helpful and kind gets us relationships where men being 0.91
00:06:53.280 helpful and kind doesn't. For you, actually that's the gayest thing ever. Anyways, anyways guys, 1.00
00:06:58.900 um, in general, I would say most of the time when women say they're dating ugly men, if you ask them
00:07:03.100 for pictures, they're not that ugly. And if you really rate the women objectively, uh, the women 0.86
00:07:07.640 aren't as like a lot of times their looks match. So anyways, uh, please make sure you like the
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