Pearl - June 07, 2025
Modern Women’s Addictions Are Worse Than a High Body Count (Call-In Show) | Pearl Daily
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Summary
A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage for men. Hannah Pearl Davis has taken the position that it s bad for men to get married. She is one of the most controversial faces in all of the internet. She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
Transcript
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Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America for the last 40 years.
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It's a different world now. Like, we don't need men the way that they used to.
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Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
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A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
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You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.
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This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
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You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
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It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
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Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
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One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
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She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
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Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
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74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.
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Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
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Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
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I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
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Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
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When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for.
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and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
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I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
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You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
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We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
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and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
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Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
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A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.
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Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.
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We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
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We tell them to put off family into marriage.
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You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
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I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
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Like if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally
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the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway it's self-sabotage that's the thing
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like women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy this is not about
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happiness the most important thing is the children and the problem is we have a modern society where
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it's me me me my feelings leave when i feel like it instead of doing what's best for the kids
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this myth that we live in an age of male privilege where's my male privilege they think well men have
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all the rights they have all the power privilege patriarchal system that we have why doesn't our
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society care about men's rights i have no friends no wife and no social life men are alone in this
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situation men are homeless men are thinking about eating guns i've seen so many men on on the brink
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of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong how are you equal if the men are the ones that have
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to fight and die to defend the country the men are the ones that build and maintain all the
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infrastructure women are helplessly dependent upon men the so-called deaths of despair from
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suicide overdose or alcohol three times higher among men than among women culture is telling
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men you are no good you got to get your act together i think men have failed themselves
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what kind of a man are you what kind of a woman are you going to attract if men are in trouble
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so are women everybody knows this is a huge problem but nobody wants to admit it every
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single woman at the table said they wanted a man 500k 500k 300k 200k am i crazy everything is
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really set up against you to fail as a man. If men make less than women, women don't want to marry
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them. So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men? Women. I don't want to be
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an independent woman anymore. I don't want to be a strong, independent woman. I'm over it. When is
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it going to be my turn? Where are we meeting the men that don't stop? I can't keep having these
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same conversations. The only simp here is you, Pearl. You simp for men. No, I think you simp for
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women. She's a provocateur. She says stupid stuff, but Pearl is right about this. It's already
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happening it's just not out in the open yet now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy
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tale ending because men don't want a wife and women can't find a husband the future if everybody
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follows their path is there is no future going to population decline and our economy goes into
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decline civilization will crumble the american story does not end well this is an existential
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crisis failing young men. What up, guys? Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the
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Audacity Network. I'm your host, Pearl, and I have come to the conclusions that I had from
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interviewing a thousand women and also doing a documentary on divorce. I had a show called
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The Pregame in England where I interviewed men and women about culture, relationships, and that
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sort of thing. It was a debate show. It was a lot of fun. So today I wanted to start, before I get
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into today's topic, which is women's addictions, I think I'm going to start my show with like
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pearl thoughts, right? So like random thoughts I had. Now I was thinking about how men in life
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just learn to take L's and women we don't really have to take L's you know the way that men do
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right and one of the biggest L's men take is really getting married that's an unfavorable
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deal but men are forced to take it for whatever reason that's what men want to do so if they want
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children many men feel like they need to get married in order to have them but overall it's
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just an L deal. And I was thinking about some of the men that I interviewed, right? And they,
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they go to court, they fight for their children, um, all of this stuff. And what I realized is that
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the worst thing a guy can do is not only take an L, but take an L for an overweight fat wife
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that doesn't sleep with them. Can you imagine how big of an L that is? Do you know what I mean?
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Like, okay, let's say, let's take a guy that's kind of taking an L right now.
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Kylie Jenner's new boyfriend, Timothy, whatever.
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Obviously, you know, she's going to rake him through the coals, whatever.
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But it's not really an L because he gets to be more famous,
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which helps him towards his career, number one.
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but a lot of you are getting raked through the coals from a four
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and i just can't think of a bigger l i can i'm sorry that you guys have to go through this
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that weren't on YouTube. Okay. So today we're going to talk about women's addiction. So
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welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily. You know, women, we have become addicts.
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Addicts. We're addicted to everything. Coffee, traveling, social media, tattoos,
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the list. It really goes on and on. And I did a show on addictions that women have that
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really are worse than body count. You know, because I did an episode once where I asked men,
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$50,000 in credit card debt or 50,000 or sorry, 50 bodies. And I don't think men have really
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matured until they realize that the $50,000 in debt is worse. And I'll tell you why I would
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argue that it's worse. I would argue because I don't care if you get a virgin trad wife or a
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whore. They're probably statistically, they're going to do one of three things, leave you sexless,
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cheat on you. Uh, just statistically, right. You're going to be an unhappy marriage,
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sexless marriage. She'll get fat or she'll divorce. Like one of those four things,
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unless you're part of the lucky, like 10%, really one of those is in your future regardless.
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But now you can pay off her debt. So she basically gets to take 50 K from you
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and bounce and gets to bang some new dude you know the body count is also an out like let's not
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let's like obviously she's probably gonna cheat on you if she's had 50 bodies like she can't bond
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with you at that point but you know you'll probably get some good sex enjoy it for the time she's
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probably you know they both bounce anyway you might as well have debt free
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all right and i i think more men are having this sentiment and caring about i think it's kind of an
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adaptation men caring about body count less now they care right men men care on a visceral level
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in their soul but at some point guys have to be pragmatic and they look at the market and say
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they're all whores they're all slut hoes so what am i gonna do i might as well have the hoe without
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these addictions. So this is going to be a continuation of that show. I want to ask the
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question, what addictions do modern women have that are worse than body count? Or you would say,
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do you know what? I'll take 50 bodies over thing X, thing Y, thing Z. Yeah. Like, you know,
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modern women are addicted to bad boys and sex. That's why their body count is so high. But would
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you rather deal with that or a bunch of debt? Because even if, let's say your wife has never
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had a bad boy in her life. Okay. Let's say she married you, you good man. She never had one
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until, wait, wait, wait, wait. We got to add in the magic word right now until she meets Tyrone,
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Chad, Glock, Tavius. And you can't, it's not like you can lock your wife in the basement,
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like the good old days, you know, you got to let her go. I mean, you can't, you can't take
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away your car keys so um what about a woman addicted to social media like what's worse a
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high body count or having to do tiktok trends with your wife having to honey could you take
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a picture of me with the food i that's it for every man to decide right but at some point men
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are adapting. So the first addiction we're going to go through is women that are addicted to getting
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degrees. So as you guys know, one of the greatest things about social media is women are posting
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their L's. Sorry, women are posting their L's in real time. And now all the women are rationalizing
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their poor decisions on TikTok and we're all here for it. So let's watch. If you have degrees,
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sometimes multiple degrees, and you are struggling to get hired. And that's because
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you are being seen as overqualified from an education standpoint, not from a work history
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standpoint. See, when employers hire them, they want the balance. They want you to have the
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practical work experience as well as the degree. And this is why I get so frustrated when I see
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people just going back to school and getting additional degrees. Yeah, she's saying you can't
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just go to school. You got to work. And men understand that, right? But women, not as much.
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assuming that those degrees are going to get them jobs. They don't, folks. The degree gets you to
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the career starting line. You're still going to have to do those entry-level jobs, those internships
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and get that practical experience, which you'll then apply the education to. And then your career
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will really catapult forward. But in the beginning, you actually put yourself at a disadvantage with
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all these extra degrees. So here's what you got to do. You've got to make a bucket list of employers
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you want to work for. You've got to network with people there and you've got to say, I want an
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internship. I want an entry-level job. I'll do whatever it takes because once you get that one
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job, you will be able to quantum leap your career and leverage those degrees, okay? Go get them.
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Yeah, so she's stating the obvious. Next, we have another woman with too many degrees. Okay,
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this is a question I get a lot, so I'm going to address this also. So for background, I have five
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undergraduate degrees, three associates degrees, and two bachelor's degrees that I just graduated
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with and now I'm enrolled in a master's degree all because that I'm going to go to law school
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and be an attorney so people usually are like you needed one bachelor's degree and then to go to law
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school to be an attorney why are you wasting so much time whatever um first of all it wasn't a
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waste of time because I did all my five degrees my five undergraduate degrees in four years and
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I'm just doing one additional year for my master's degree so I'm actually like technically one year
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behind that normal path of bachelor's and then JD um but still I'm only 22 so I feel like I have
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tons of time and it's not that big of a deal um second though I don't feel like it's a waste
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because or like extra because I truly love school and I'm such a nerd that I just want to know as
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much as I can about as much as I can yeah so you'd go on a date with her and think wow what a nice
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girl bunch of debt kind of addicted to like learning new stuff um and all the stuff that
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I'm studying is very relevant to law as a whole but especially the fields of law that I'm most
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interested in working in so i promise it's not a waste or like extra i just want to be the best
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attorney that i can and honestly the best person that i can and no education is a waste so i'm
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gonna keep yep a lot of education is a waste but you know rack up that student debt lady woman
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works in retail and has two bachelor's degrees i work in retail making basically minimum wage and
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i have two bachelor's degrees and everybody's like why in the world do you work retail everybody's
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trying to give me all of this life advice, telling me to go into healthcare, telling me to go into
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tech, yada, yada, yada. And everybody's like, why in the world do you have two degrees and you're
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not using them? What are your degrees? Like, what's the story there? This is the story of my
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two bachelor degrees that I have that I am currently not really using. I graduated high
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school in 2014. And when I was in high school, the high school I went to, like, more than 80%
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of our graduating class went to a four-year university afterwards. So it was very much
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pushed to go to college after you graduated nobody yeah so again rationalizing a bad decision
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poor choice my family had ever gone to college before i was the first one to even graduate high
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school so it was like a big deal for me to go to college and i was super excited i switched my
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major so many times which is a big play in this junior year rolls around i've taken all my gen ed
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classes and it's really time for me to figure out what my major is like actually going to be
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and at that point i had taken a lot of anthropology history and sociology classes because those were
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the classes that i just really enjoyed and had some professors that i really enjoyed so i had
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already had a lot of credits towards those three so i decided to go with sociology as my major
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and of course you did yep sociology so i i want to go to school but i don't want to work and i
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minored in history and anthropology and i mainly decided that just because i wanted to graduate
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on time. Like at this point, if I chose a major that wasn't sociology, I was not going to graduate
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on time and I was going to have to continue going to school for at least another year and take out
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even more loans. And I just wanted to be like done with school at this point. I loved the classes
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that I took and everything that I learned, but I knew the career path wasn't necessarily for me.
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But at this point, I just wanted to graduate. I graduated with a degree in sociology and I
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minored in anthropology and history. I didn't have the opportunity to do an internship or any sort
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of research while I was getting my degree. I had to work a paying job while I was in school and
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there were no like paid opportunities for me. So I wasn't able to get any sort of experience in the
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field. Of course you weren't. Of course. The only experience women have with psychology is being
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crazy. So we are good at deciphering each other's crazy and identifying it because we ourselves are
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crazy anyways at that point I had gotten a better retail job I was making like double minimum wage
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in North Carolina I was doing well like my own apartment I was living with my boyfriend I had
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a decently paying job for North Carolina standards in retail so I was doing like okay so I was like
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let me just take a break like I've been in school for a million years let me just take a break and
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chill for a sec and figure out what I want to do 2020 hits and of course COVID happens everybody
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and the mother decided to go back to school most people went back and did their master's but i
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didn't really want to get my master's in anything like sociology related so as i was looking into
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it i found the program through snhu and you can get your degree online it's fully online
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and they had a graphic design with a web development option which i thought that would
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be really great web development like everybody says to go into tech so i thought that'd be a
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really great idea i was able to transfer a lot of my gen ed credits from my first degree so i was
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going to be able to complete my degree in about a year and a half, but I did. It took me about-
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Can you, like the administrators at these schools,
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they just have to think, how can we make the most BS degree that's the least amount of work
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possible that women will feel important buying? And they just keep doing that.
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About two years instead of a year and a half. So at the very end of 2022 is when I graduated with my
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bachelor's in graphic design and web development from SNHU. I did it fully online. Before I even
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graduated, I started doing some freelance work. So I think in January of 2023 is when I got my
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first like bigger freelance client. And so I was doing well with that. I was just going to do
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freelance. I was applying to like more corporate graphic design jobs, but I really wanted to go
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the freelance route so that's what i did and that's what i've been doing for all of you that
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are curious that is the story of my two degrees see again you go on a date with her oh she's nice
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and cute bunch of debt yep yep all right let's see who's next woman is a quadruple major in college
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hey you guys i wanted to take some time to answer a few of the questions that i got on my last video
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the most asked question and the worst part is women get these degrees and think they're smart
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right because this is what it does it's not necessarily the degree right it's the ego that
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comes with the degree it's like i am smart one in three men are afraid to save a woman in a life
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death situation because the fear they would be accused in essays the fear justified if men
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are fearful of saving a woman how can women claim to be oppressed we can't we can't but we will say
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it anyway because remember our get out of jail free card is victimhood so we love victimhood we
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love it it's like our favorite thing it's our favorite hobby by the way those of you in the
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audacity chat i do see your chat just put pearl read if you have anything you want me to read
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well i mean there's like quite a few but the most asked is which what are the four majors
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My four majors are political science, philosophy, French, and global studies.
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You know, if I, instead of getting a French major, I would move to the country and learn
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Instead of paying all that money for a degree, I would just hire a French tutor.
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Because, okay, how much is a college degree in French?
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how much is a college degree in french on average
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8 000 us dollars a year aren't tutors so like tutors are like 60 bucks an hour
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60 bucks an hour times five days a week times four weeks times 12 14 grand but that would get
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you further paying that in tutors for the end of the year ask question that i get is why or like
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is it worth it what are the benefits from it and I think those are completely valid questions
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because I ask myself the same thing all the time if I'm being honest with you guys the why for me
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was simply because I could and because it wasn't I saw it as an opportunity to do something that
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was available to me and that's I guess like the simple answer my freshman year I knew I didn't
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just want to do one major i wanted to add philosophy to my global studies major my advisor
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recommended that i added also political science since a lot of classes overlapped um and then my
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sophomore year i took french and i fell in love with language learning so i kind of talked to my
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advisor again she said yeah go for it and that's how that kind of worked out is it worth it or
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beneficial no well i wouldn't say it's necessary i don't think that success looks one single way
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even for the same person. So I wouldn't say, yes, everybody has to do it because it's the best thing
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you can do with your time, whatever. I was very lucky to receive financial aid and a lot of
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scholarships to cover all the costs. So I don't have to pay a single penny for any of my tuition
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or school related costs. So I'm very fortunate and privileged to be able to say that. And that
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I really knew the value of an American education from a very young age.
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So for me, being in college to begin with as a first gen was very valuable and an opportunity
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this was, in my way or in my eyes, the best way that I could do that for myself. In terms of
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benefits, every single interview that I've done, it's definitely been a topic of conversation.
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It has really shown that I am very committed to what I do, that I am able to manage my time.
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People say that it shows indecisiveness, but I actually think it shows quite the opposite because
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I was very decisive at the beginning of my college career where I knew close to nothing
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and I was able to carry it out. And I think that is a pretty good thing. Again, I don't want to
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perpetuate this idea of like, you know, stacking on so many things at once and like doing everything
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at once. Like I don't want to be that toxic person. Yeah. Okay. Just take the L. You could
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summarize this whole video and saying I spent too much for a degree I didn't need and I wasted my
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money. So the next addiction we have is modern woman addicted to SSRIs. By the way, guys,
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at the end of the, in like, like five videos, we're going to put a call in line. Now we're
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going to have, um, you can say modern woman's addictions worse than body count, but we're not
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going to bring people up till I get through these videos. So this is a woman on SSRIs. God help us
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Before getting prescribed SSRIs, I used to not sleep at night. I would spend the night
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checking on my kids multiple times to make sure they were breathing, make sure no one had taken
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them from their beds, checking the locks on their windows to make sure no one could come in,
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checking the front door, checking the back door, looking outside to see who was possibly coming in
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to try to unalive us. I would spend all of my- Yeah, so what's worse? A woman with a high body
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count or a woman that constantly thinks, because she's on drugs, that people are trying to kill you.
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I don't know. I might pick the night's doing this and I would barely sleep. But now
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I sleep through the night before SSRIs. I would randomly think about unaliving myself. I would
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think, hmm, what would happen if I just drove off the road right now? That'd be a suicidal woman,
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right that probably worse daniel um said a super chat problem is beta men are too good now ai always
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ends bad wh4ok dune 1984 um i robot sinette hall it will end badly for all eric says another woman
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educated beyond the confines of her intellect be interesting um it sounds like she needs meds if
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she's actually anxious i guess i would have some really dark thoughts but ssris have taken those
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away um so yes please rfk come save me from these horrible drugs
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yeah so lots of drugs drugs okay woman is a coach and addicted to ssris amazing ssris are not always
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the answer as a coach i so often get clients coming to me telling me that their therapist
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wants them to be put on antidepressants and while antidepressants ssris can work for certain people
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and they have worked wonders for certain people they are not for everybody when i was 23 years
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old i got put on a very low dose about five milligrams of lexapro to help me with my
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depression and anxiety and never before in my life before getting put on these antidepressants
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was my mental health as bad as it became while i was on them it got to the point where i was
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so dysregulated i was so heightened your wife could hire her as her coach i was just so in a
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state of fight or flight i could not manage my emotions i could not manage my spiraling thoughts
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i what a cute dog though that is a cute dog could not get out of bed in the day then i actually had
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to be hospitalized in a psych ward that's how bad it got yeah so again high body count or your wife
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is in a psych ward every couple of months and had i actually had somebody who helped me address the
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root cause of the reason that i was feeling the really dark and difficult emotions that i was
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feeling i don't believe that would have happened instead what happened is i got put on something
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that acted as a band-aid as a mask for what was really happening underneath and i think
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people need to be aware that medication is not always the answer it can be i'm not you know
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pushing against all medication i'm not saying that it doesn't work for some people but i am
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saying that it is too often too quickly and too easily prescribed it was for me and i've heard
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countless other stories just like this there are natural ways to heal your body there are natural
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ways to improve your brain function and you need to learn how to deal with difficult emotions
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i so often see clients who come to me they're going through a hard time in life they're going
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through a breakup difficult things are happening and their therapist who they're also working with
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which is amazing tells them to get on antidepressants tells them to get on ssris in reality
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you guys there are tough moments in life and we need to be able to handle them without always
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jumping to a band-aid we need to learn emotion regulation we need to learn to sit in the
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discomfort of difficult emotions because it will keep happening throughout life it's just a reality
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difficult things happen so if you can't handle it it's only going to be harder and harder and harder
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every time you mask it so i'm not completely saying that ssris are a negative thing i am
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just saying they are not for everybody just for certain people's brain chemistries for certain
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people's struggles they are not the answer they were not the answer for me and they actually led
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me translation i'm crazy i'm batshit crazy stay away man to a much darker place than i ever was
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in before so if you're hearing this and you're considering getting on ssris maybe take a step
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back maybe ask yourself if you can work through these things internally if you can dive deep
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and address the root cause without okay we get the idea okay let's see what's next um woman
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all right another woman talking about ssri side effects any of these five side effects
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are bothering you it that is bad chin filler i need to do a show on how to tell if a girl's
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had plastic surgery because i don't think you guys can tell as well as you think
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i need to do a show might be from your ssri antidepressant sexual dysfunction you're never
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in the mood, you have low libido and that's because higher serotonin levels in the brain
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can cause low libido, delay gratification and cause erectile dysfunction. Feet gain, no matter
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how much you eat or how much you exercise, the number just keeps going up on the scale. When you
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use SSRIs, it can actually increase your cravings for carbohydrates and it can decrease your
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metabolic rate, making you gain weight over time. Number three, feeling tired all the time. That's
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because more serotonin in the brain can actually cause sedative-like effects. That's why a lot of
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sleep supplements actually try to include 5-HTP in their formulation. Number four, you're experiencing
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a lot of nausea, bloating, constipation, just a ton of digestive issues. And it can cause emotional
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blunting. So you hear good news, you have no reaction. If you hear bad news, you have no
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reaction. You just don't really have emotions. Some people may never experience these when using
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an SSRI antidepressant while other people do. And for the people who do, there are natural ways to
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help mediate these side effects yeah a lot of plastic surgery okay women addicted to wait for
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it spirituality if i told anyone else what i'm about to tell you they would think i was crazy
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that is what almost every awakening soul says to me and then they proceed to tell me about how
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they're getting buzzing in their hands or having ear ringing yeah so imagine honey could you come
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with me i'm having buzzing in my hands i'm having buzz it you know what i mean or they're seeing
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flashes of light in the corners of their eyes or they're even getting like physical touches but
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no one's there or they're seeing spirits who have passed they're seeing faces in the trees
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they know fairies are real now my people awakening souls this is the safe place for that i want to
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hear everything that other people think is crazy that you're worried is too weird to say out loud
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and i want to validate the fuck out of you and i love that i get to be the person that y'all say
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it to that is literally the best part of my job because you know how that goes like tell me more
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and then i give you insights tools and understanding yes she gives you psychedelics
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that's what comes next so that you don't in addition to addictions women are more prone
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to having health issues like PCOS, autoimmune, fibroids, endometriosis. I believe this is due
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to a change in the human diet over the years. Doug, MPA, can you put a show on that? I want
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to look into that. We'll do a show. Don't feel crazy. You get context for like, what is going
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on? How do you develop these? How do you move on? How do you? Because what you're experiencing as
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an awakening soul is not understood by almost anyone, if anyone at all around you. And not
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feeling crazy and understanding your abilities really does come down to having some techniques
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some tools some methods some appropriate funnels and containers that give structure to all that
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wonderful amazing flow that you are now picking up on if you're new to me i am sarah i do awakening
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readings i do psych yeah so what about at dinner she says can i see your hand honey would you take
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that or a high body count she doesn't talk about keep me keep me posted maybe you're saying no i'll
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take the spirituality, but these are our choices. It's 2025. We got to get, we got to get real
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pragmatic here. Careful who I decided to tap into spiritually because you'd be surprised on who's
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protected. I remember one time I was getting my nails done and as I'm getting my nails done,
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I brought up my job. You know what I do? I do this. I'm a medium. I'm a healer. I do readings,
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whatever. And usually this brings up interesting conversation. Dustin says, if a man, if a girl
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has a pet snake and some crystals don't enter the house without garlic whether it's on one end of
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the spectrum or the other it's the interesting conversations tend to happen when i bring up what
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i do and you know the usual initial reaction is people are like oh my god does my energy feel
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good is it scary is it good is it bad what are you feeling what are the vibes like they bombard
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you with all of those questions but it's just because they're excited but she did exactly that
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like what are the vibes like i would love to get like a little mini read from you like i would even
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pay you like i know i'm doing your nails right so i was like you know what i really like the
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conversation here i really like the vibe i feel like she's a vibe so i don't mind tapping in so
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i tapped in a little bit i was like you know there's this there's that little bit and whatever
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and she was like yes girl yes yes yes that was accurate i love that whatever now here's the tea
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as soon as i left um i get a text from her and she's like you would not believe who just called
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me and i'm like who called you and she was like my dad my father literally just called me and said
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the medium that you just spoke to listen to her whatever it is that she has to say just know that
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she's the real deal but listen to what she has to say because she has to help you navigate a
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certain situation so the medium you just spoke to is a real deal the spirits just told me i happened
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to be sitting down and they told me that you were talking to someone as we speak and i my my jaw was
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on the floor because at the time she left out that her dad is very deeply connected spiritually
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and I guess she left it out as like a protection thing I think I would have done that too like I'm
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not gonna tell you how connected I am if you're not the real deal right because like can you
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imagine having to listen to this all the time if I was a guy I would just say give me a whore
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I'll take I mean she's probably both right but like if I had to I would just say give me the
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whore god damn it that shit is about to get clocked so she came back obviously pleasantly
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surprised like yeah well the fact that i didn't even tell him that i was speaking to you because
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i was literally doing your nails when we spoke it's just confirmation for me that you are who
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you say that you are so we definitely need to book a reading and yeah okay okay let me go to
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the next crazy oh i see all the crazy ladies all right let's bring up doug mpa on the line
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apparently doug mpa oh no i have one more sorry one more before doug mpa i thought i clicked them
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this lady journey of spiritual awakening so like you wouldn't think right she looks normal you
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wouldn't think this is a spiritual lady or at least i would and you keep flipping in and out
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of higher consciousness here that there's two main reasons this happens number one is that
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you're basically acclimating your body to holding a higher frequency so like you're not going to be
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able to do it all the time right away it's going to be like periods of it and then you'll kind of
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have to drop it it's like building stamina building muscle to hold that higher frequency
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so it won't be able to be held all the time it might blip in and out for that reason the second
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reason is because sometimes you're human i hope that makes sense when i say that your human needs
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to go gather experiences in order to integrate and process and use to level up so you might find
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that like you have a huge awakening and it brings you to a certain level of awareness and then you
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kind of go back to sleep for like possibly years and you're like why did that happen but think of
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what you experienced during that time think of think of the like uh content that your life gave
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you in that time and what it taught you and how you can use it to level up in consciousness because
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that's kind of what we also do with those sleeping periods is gather things to process essentially to
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work against what's inside of us and accomplish the calibration that we are trying to the whole
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process of awakening is at the beginning basically a huge thing of purging fear so um purging fear
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is like hard work it's big work and it's gonna be a lot so it's kind of kind to give yourself breaks
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and to not worry too much about that because if you purge fear too fast it can sometimes lead to
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things like psychosis and which is just where there's like too many frequencies stirred up in
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the body there's too many fear frequencies stirred up in the body and it's impossible to process them
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all at once so go gentle and easy on yourself and that's the best way to integrate don't worry too
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much if it's not like constantly going up on the roller coaster because those down periods are
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actually when you like each one of those is going to like give you more momentum to go forward
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all right doug mpa i gotta hear about your experience dating these women can we bring
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them up yeah can you hear me yeah i can hear you um apparently he's had his fair share give me
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give me your horror story i'm ready so and then i'm also expecting dustin to call in on this one
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and give us a couple of stories because he lives in portland so i know he's had the same experience
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i had so you know i'm from the western washington area one of the most liberal areas in the country
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and let me tell you guys western washington is full of women that could be attractive but make
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themselves ugly to fight the patriarchy they're against the male gaze and they have all this
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spiritual liberalism craziness and it's funny because they reject christianity which you know
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i'm not religious but they latch on to something crazy like wiccan or or you know or some who knows
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They carry crystals around in their pockets and purses and stuff.
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And one thing you have to do to be able to get laid with these women is just listen, guys.
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Because there are some of these women who are attractive.
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But one of the fastest ways to sleep with them is fake like you're interested in their spiritual woo-woo garbage.
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can we role play can i pretend yeah yeah okay doug mpa i want to tell you about my um
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my star sign so my star sign says that you and i are just going to get along so well
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so so i usually say i say something like um for conversation's sake i say you know what i don't
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really believe in star signs but it just so happens that everything that my star sign says
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i'm supposed to be i am that would totally work so the girl could say no way yes what's what's your
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star sign so then so i tell her my side sign and then i get out my phone and she gets up her phone
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and i say you you look at my star sign i look at your star sign and let's talk about the pluses
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uh and minuses so then i say oh you're a gemini so what this says is you're this and i say all
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the bad things and i like embellish and try to make her sound like all all those are going to
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be bad reasons and put her on the back foot no but i'm not like that i'll be oh okay but it says here
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that's your you know what we can do it real fast i bring out what let's say she's a gemini what are
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the characteristics of a gemini right so then i would say but you have to have the bad parts bad
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parts right so so it says so you know apparently gemini's are impulsive anxious manipulative
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indecisive inconsistent moody two-faced flighty and sarcastic and i would bring those up first
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and try to maneuver where she has to prove to me how she's not those things yeah i swear i'm not
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i know i'd be a really great like girlfriend you know i'm so awesome i'd be like i don't know
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no really i am and then i'm qualifying to you exactly that's how you got to do it so yeah guys
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if you meet one of these star sign women you have to just sit there and listen but you can use it
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to your advantage have her bring up your star sign and read your characteristics to you and
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Revere's nature, embraces magic, and centers on the duality of the god and goddess.
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They engage in rituals, spell work, and other practices to connect with the divine and cultivate a connection with nature.
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now i can tell you i've gone out on dates with a couple of women that i didn't know were wicked
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until i started talking to them but i could never make it through a full social situation or a so a
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full date with a wicked and if anyone has guys call in because i want to know how you did did
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you ever date a wicked or any any of these women that are in these weird spiritual
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the spirituality culture anything like that because i could never make it through
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a date with a wiccan no way i guess we'll find out is dustin coming
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if he's here i'm gonna bring him up first i know he's had some experiences he lives in portland
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let me bring him up oh yeah here he goes guys make sure to like the stream and subscribe we are
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on our way to three million thank you everyone for finally getting pro to two million we are
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on our way to three let's go dustin man dustin how's it going enlighten us
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you there dustin we can see you we can hear you too yo it's i'm just trying to make sure that our
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timing but um okay yeah everything is so good how are you guys good how is it dating you said um
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women with crystals you got to be careful with them yo yes okay yeah i find that women over here
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they make these things up because they're not sure how to make progress in life so they just
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come up with these like these fake problems like oh like my aura isn't right so then they
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buy these books and then they're like well I'm I'm working on well I dropped out of college
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and I went to beauty school and I got I'm gonna really work on my aura and I got these crystals
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and um and then so they're not really making any progress they're actually making less progress
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but they feel better about themselves because they can talk about it.
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So then they can make progress spiritually, but that is basically nothing.
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So it's a way to like not do work, but look like you're doing work.
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and also sound like an expert on something. Oh yeah.
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Yeah. And it's, uh, because when you, when you talk to a woman,
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they want to they want to sound so smart in conversation and then when they're talking
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about crystals like i don't give a but the girl's gonna be like feel really smart um like i dated
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one girl had a pet snake and these crystals and me a snake and crystals bro that sex better
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fantastic bro uh i didn't go to her house and like i finally get to her house and i go in
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in her room she got this little snake named zara and uh the crazy thing was
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she was like she started like kind of twerking and she was like oh you like this like
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and her holding the snake no she wasn't holding the snake but uh her tampon string fell out of
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her underwear while she was twerking and she looked like a pinata
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yikes so wow so so how do you make it through a date with one of these
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spiritual women can we role play can you show me oh yeah okay yeah so dustin this is going so well
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um i gotta tell you what's your star sign yo i'm a gemini but i will be whatever star sign
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you want if it gets me in your bedroom no no seriously does that work that's just what i say
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that's just it and what's the success rate on that what do they usually say
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they're just like kind of giggle like it's just like okay and then they'll and then they'll be
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like well i don't know if we're if we're relationship compatible then we don't need to be
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oh that's funny um so so what have you ever made it through a full date and made it to
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sex with like a a wiccan or some woman who's literally living one of those extreme outlandish
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spiritual lifestyles because i've never made it dude i just can't well how long were you
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how long were you dating in in portland like could you just not because you couldn't like
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listen to it yeah i just couldn't listen to it man i can't and then like i have a very expressive
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face well pearl knows yeah yeah i told doug mpa to just not say his political opinions and take
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the sex and he's like I can't do it I can't do it when they say some dumb shit on a date I gotta
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tell him I know I gotta tell him and it's always well not it got even worse after my divorce but
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but yeah man I can't do it so so how do you make it through a date with one of these let's say a
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woman is a uh a healer and a medium where she talks to spirits how would you navigate a date
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with a woman who's a medium and says that she talks to spirits uh yeah if a girl is talking
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to some spirits man i don't that would be rough i would love to meet one and i just try it like
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i think my problem in life is i seek these women out because i think it'd be an interesting like
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what if she brought what if she you went to her house and she brought out a ouija board
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She was in government housing and she pulled up
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yeah i didn't partake man i'm not about a ouija board i think i'll die if i do that so i don't
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i don't mess with it the ouija boards are real bad i don't know so i was like like she pulled
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it out and she was like we're gonna talk to the ouija board and see about our relationship
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and i i totally i totally used one when i was a kid i was like 10. how'd it go well you're still
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alive so maybe i should try it that's good i mean do you know what it worked like it worked to me
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then i don't know if someone was pushing it it was like me and two of my friends and we had like a
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pet like ghost named t and yeah it was like for a couple years and then i don't know i don't know
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we that friend group like broke up so to this day i'd like to reach out and just ask was that a real
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thing or who was was someone messing with me i don't know did you start chanting like light light
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as a feather stiff as a board afterwards no no i mean it was just like we'd go to her house and
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they go in the basement and then there then we'd use the Ouija board and then like the the the
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ghost or whatever would come and we'd just ask it a bunch of questions and then yeah that is why
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yeah and then one time the thingy because it's like you put it on this thing like this it went
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like but I don't know someone could have been messing so I was young I was like 10 so very
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impressionable time I mean it's just because I do remember the Ouija board thing like levitating a
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little bit but i don't know if i just imagined that because i was like 10 you know i can't really
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trust my memory at 10 you know but it is tough to think that as a 10 year old that you would be like
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one of you would be pushing it to say something so i kind of yeah but they're women women come
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out of the womb deceptive that's true so i i actually think it's super plausible i mean
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yeah people lied about a bunch of dumb stuff when you're a kid
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and remember women out of a group of women out of a group of women one of them always has to
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get their point across or always has to get their message out and that one's usually pushing the
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ouija board thing i bet yeah i mean that's why i don't i don't know either way like we fell out
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when i was in middle school but i did message her like 10 years later on facebook just like
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one i'm just you know i was just wondering but she didn't respond
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maybe she remembered it different and she's like that scarred me i don't know i guess i'll never
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know all right buddy we're gonna move to the next caller always good talking to you buddy
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all these educated women, because what do we always say, Pearl? Modern women are going to
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keep going to these high-priced institutions to get degrees that nobody cares about, to get jobs
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that aren't going to make them any money. And the amount of money, because the East Coast is
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expensive for college anyway. In fact, the cheapest state to go to school in the United States is New
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Mexico. You can get a degree and not pay a lot of money, but women are addicted to
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you know getting a degree from a certain school they don't care how much it costs and all that
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status when when you have a bachelor's degree and a master's degree you know how many how many
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employers actually cared where i went to school none of them anyway michael williams hey how you
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doing how are you michael excellent i'm up there in the mke oh cool milwaukee they they are volleyball
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uh crazy in the middle of october november they're playing outside in the freezing wind i'm going you
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guys are crazy oh yeah they'll do it and yeah oh my god i've done i've done sand leagues outside
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in like october november i've done that before yeah my my girlfriend one of my former girlfriends
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was in the main draw on professional beach volleyball oh wow she was really good then
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yeah she uh she'd play against misty may and she had a jump serve and all that stuff
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very effort oh she played against misty man wow she was really she's big time she's better than
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me yeah she uh i i she i went up to a a uh a volleyball match up in oregon for glass uh grass
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play man these guys were like fucking super people supermen i was like i was completely blown away
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it's intense yeah yeah because i mean they just keep like if i wanted i could play in a pretty
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competitive league but it's so time consuming i mean it's like a part-time for some of the leagues
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it's like a part-time job to be honest it's crazy it's crazy well it's good that you went over to
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europe and uh you know uh you know gave it a shot yeah you see that one um there's a college
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volleyball game last year i think it was the corn huskers women's volleyball team they had the
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highest attendance of a volleyball college volleyball game of all time their full their
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full stadium was full watching their girls volleyball team play it was probably people
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or something like that right yeah yeah the corn huskers it was crazy but i i originally came
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approached you guys because i've been following you pearl for quite some time and um how the men
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are really kind of like getting um they're short into the stick when it comes to dating goals
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and i i i have been working on one of the biggest reason women are so uh feral
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and that is that they're carrying around so much debt and because they're uh they tend to be
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feeling type people they feel that they get really depressed there's not jobs out there for women's
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studies or some of these other majors that they took my sister took uh graduated psychology back
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in 81 1981 1982 and then became a trad and uh then went back to school and got her master's
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in family counseling she still doesn't have a job spent hundreds of thousands of dollars
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she's a year younger than me and i went got an engineering degree there you go in civil engineering
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And I got my professional engineering license, mechanical engineering, electrical engineering, computer science and all that type of stuff.
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So I actually use college for a legit profession as opposed to a hobby like my sister.
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Well, but anyway, I'll tell you some stats real fast.
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So only 22 percent of STEM students are women.
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Right. And not only that, STEM has a female recruitment and a retention problem.
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Because 50% of women in STEM will quit their jobs and go to a different industry or stop working all together if they have a child or when they hit 45.
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78% of the women are going to school for humanities degrees.
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And remember, you're old enough to remember where these degrees, they were MRS degrees.
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you're supposed to get a skill that was able to help your husband that you met at college.
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Now, women, there's so many women with these MRS degrees that companies have to constantly just
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try to make jobs to employ all these MRS degrees. And those are the first ones out the door when
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there's an economic downturn. So that's what it is. Well, here's the thing is that there's so,
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The 10 most popular college degrees, all of them except for biology, have this one missing course requirement, and that is math.
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And as long as women are phobic of math, they're not going to break into any kind of legit, you know, career.
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in fact actually when people decide what their major is they go to their you know into their
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do their search and they go what major can i they never say what major can i take where i don't have
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to do science technology engineering they always say what major can i take where i don't have to
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do any math oh i can be a school teacher and then we push him back in our k6 and wonder why our kids
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are phobic of math it's because when a child is young and they're having problems with math and
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teacher says oh i had problems with math myself that's not what you need a child needs to hear
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they need to hear that you're winning you know that there's success in math and all this other
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stuff so the reason why there's so few females in stem because i actually have been in it
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i graduated from 1980 which would that would put me 45 years in engineering
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that's a little bit that's more than just like you know anecdotal women for the most part
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are lend towards a community they call it nesting you know where they all come to get together and
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they kind of nest and guys are a little less like that in middle school uh the the least
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popular person for boys of all the various different cliques is the nerds okay and if
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you're a girl nerd you're even worse than a boy nerd in amongst the females and those as a result
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it's very unattractive to be a girl nerd in math or you know like any of the things that math you
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know science is trying i can explain why that is you don't know why but it's because men we can
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make up for our our lack of social graces and um and other things we can get money you know we can
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achieve but women pay the price for not being socially aware and being socially awkward and
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it takes a certain kind of temperament to be able to to go into stem even when we were young we knew
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the guys that were going to go into stem we all knew it and the girls kind of act the same way
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But girls are punished by women for not adhering to social rules and not being socially aware.
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And I think women are harsher on socially awkward women than men are on socially awkward men.
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I'll still see, even if a guy is much more socially aware than another guy, they can still bond over something like basketball or fishing, something they have in common.
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but i don't really see that with women with women it's like like a shared goal will bring
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men together but a shared goal won't necessarily bring women together if anything like clicks form
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yeah yeah i agree 100 pro spot on yeah so anyway um uh in 2010 i started the first three university
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uh where i brought in all the open courses from mit stanford uc berkeley harvard
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in a learning management system like blackboard or moodle of the 900 courses to one of the courses
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prepare students for ap's cleps dssts and all the others so currently students can get their
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bachelor's and over 60 majors from state universities region accredited like mit or
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harvard in six months for under eight thousand dollars but the irony is i don't believe in
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online distance remote learning because when people do that they do that their bedroom at
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library coffee shop with a phone you can go out to the volleyball field find your favorite coach
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and work on your drills or go to the art museum study art history art appreciation
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both of those are three unit hour test from the college board's clep program and so literally
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i'm getting another 30 minutes another 30 seconds we got to speed it up because we got a full line
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line of callers the biggest problem that young ladies face is the extreme amount of debt that's
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the main reason why they can't buy homes it's the main reason why they uh don't want to raise
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their children in apartments is because of the debt and what i'm offering is is a pathway where
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i have no benefit to it i'm gonna i'm retired i'm working on this problem is to fix the problem that
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baby boomers started and that is this addiction to college degrees and i'm going to put a couple
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of links in the chat so if anybody has siblings that are in high school or other individuals that
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are considering the trades uh the you know professional certifications other types of
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things you'll find out in the very popular epic times okay which is uh i'll put that in the link
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okay thank you for calling in we really appreciate it yeah thanks for calling in
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yeah uh-huh sure um next we have i can never say this guy's name right let's
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So what's a female's addiction that's worse than body count?
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They're both bad, but their separate type is brisk.
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The way I would go about it is rating them on a scale of 1 to 10.
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So on the spending side, I would think of it as, as a guy, the risk is that your partner has out-controlled spending habits.
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Where, like, let's say you bring in, just make up a number, as an example, $200,000.
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And you can pay for your reasonable expenses, have some moderate amount of funds, but also save for your retirement or your kids' college fund.
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But your wife or your partner says, no, you should spend all of it on me because we should have lived experiences.
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And if you don't do this, she's going to hold a grudge and she'll eventually divorce you and you lose out even more that way.
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Um, so you want to, so the way I would go about it is like, what's the probability of this happening? Um, and I try to like rate down a scale from one to 10 based on how severe her behavior is. And on body gal, like similarly, I would try to think about in terms of, uh, how likely she is to cheat or engage in other like questionable behavior from what she's showing and try to break down a scale one to 10.
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okay so what what's worse than body count um i think
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i want to say like just behavior where uh she's spending far and large beyond her means
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and she's not willing to listen to reason and she's also requesting like um
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most of your household income be funded towards like these type of endeavors
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okay so insane spending habits that you have to pay for
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yeah essentially okay um you know how they start that whole thing right because here's the thing
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i always say the modern women playbook they want to find a competitive successful ambitious man
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marry him and then get him to set his own dreams aside to help her achieve her own selfish desires
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and one of the ways they do that is you're married right the husband's money is the house money and
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then for her to to be an equal partner the man has to let her keep all of her money so the man
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is paying for everything while she works and spends all of her own money on herself most of
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guys i know that have gotten divorced that are successful that's one of the reasons why and
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that's how their marriage was for most of it yeah that checks out um something else i a trend i've
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noticed that i don't really have a explanation for i'm hoping probably you could have some um
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interesting insights is a lot of women that are not uh i want to say like extremely attractive
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They're above average, but they're not meaningfully above average.
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But they are still able to get guys to take them out constantly on vacations and spend
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And it's happening so frequently that I don't have an explanation for this.
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Like, this is not a thing that should be logically happening.
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Women are getting fatter, so the price of beauty goes up.
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So even if they're not that attractive, if they're just not fat or even chubby and young, they still hit the top, like, 20%.
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But why are there so many guys who are willing to spend on this?
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They're sexless, lonely, or they just have the money.
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Like, if you're 60 and you've got a bunch of money,
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it's almost easier to just pay them to put out.
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I'm talking about, like, guys in their 30s who are, like, they're lawyers,
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so they're most successful, but they're spending, like,
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all their income on some girl with essentially no realistic prospects and our average look and
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it's happening like way too common for this to be logical i would just say it's a lack of options so
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that for whatever men don't usually do things unless they believe it's the easiest way for
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them to get whatever they want so i just say they're probably unattractive to women
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so that's the only way they feel like they can get it from a woman that they deem to be like
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above their minimum attractive floor so we got to move on to the next caller though but thank you
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for calling in calling anytime okay yeah thanks for having me all right guys
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addictions women have that are worse than a high body count
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now i don't please don't come on here and say there's nothing worse than a high body count
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because that's not the question do you know what i mean like that's i understand that could be your
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opinion but that's not the question today you know so who's up next doug mpa oh stoian stoian okay
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mk yeah that's me guys hi how are you where are you calling out of
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hawaii oh cool yeah so i have like a crazy story okay like you guys mentioned the whole
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witchcraft thing and all of that stuff so my my ex-wife was like a jamaican lightworker one of
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these ones and um dude the whole thing is a giant fucking scam like big scam it it's it's really
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like a big giant um confirmation bias exercise like 24 7 you know so yeah i don't recommend it
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um but i do think that um a lot of what's going on nowadays is just people are just fucking
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selfish at the end of the day i think it is orchestrated somehow through social engineering
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in order to create the division between men and women and then like replace women with like ai
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we're going to get the artificial womb soon so we're going to be able to produce children that
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way because you know we're going to have to solve the problem of not reproducing enough so in order
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to save humanity the governments are going to come in create a nice artificial womb they're
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to create the children i want to stick to i want to stick to the addictions that are worse than body
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count um topic i think it's like social media i think social media is probably going to be
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a huge one as far as addictions um because a lot of that's going to just be like constant
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mental programming by the algorithm or whatever you want to call it it's gonna
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paint the picture like it's going to create a filter in between reality and they're not going
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to be able to see the real world they're going to see what's like on social media what's being
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echoed in their echo chamber so i do think that that's probably one of the most dangerous addictions
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when it comes to to women because it's very easy to get someone to feel something
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and change their mind by getting them to feel bad for a specific group of people
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or, you know, basically emotional manipulation.
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People don't go to McDonald's because they make the best burgers
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I would add to the social media thing where the validation that women in the past
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would get from their husbands and friends and family in person,
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they get online well i agree with that but like i don't know if you guys have heard of the research
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when it comes to addiction like everybody's heard of that rat study where they put like a mouse in
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a cage and they give it two options between water and like cocaine water right and it's constantly
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drinking the cocaine water until it kills itself right um but the same scientist that actually did
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that research, it was like, okay, but this mouse is all by itself. And so what they did was they
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created a little park for it. Yeah. I got into some mouse friends, created a whole community
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around it. And then like none of the mouses drank the cocaine water. So what they're thinking
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addiction is, is a lack of connection. It's basically what people are doing to cope with
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the loneliness. And so I really think that's what's going on. So all of these addictions
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to social media and validation is because they don't actually have any type of community like
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the the modern family has has been eroded you know like you have a whole bunch of single moms
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that either have one or like 10 babies there's like hardly ever in between and so you don't
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have that community uh around you to create that social connection and to have like you know your
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uncle be like hey you're moving funny or you're talking back and like your uncle slaps you or
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your neighbor slaps you and keeps you alive.
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And so people's bad behavior is just like okayed by,
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by the masses because people want to be selfish because they're all at the
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um david what's going on david yo what is up y'all can hear me i can hear you so what addictions
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um are worse than body count for women okay hold on i had some notes here okay so um let's see here
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so for me like the only thing really i could think of that's worse than body count is probably
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drugs or like violence that's a good one because those things can actually hurt people
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that's um a high high body count isn't really gonna i mean it is gonna hurt you at the end of
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the day but i just think that those if you're gonna make me make a decision then those two
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things are probably worse drugs are violent yeah actually there's a guy on twitter who says
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that if an attractive woman can avoid an unwanted pregnancy or a drug problem she'll always land on
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her feet so that's what that's a good answer though yeah yeah i had a question though like
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so do you guys really think that there's a difference between like bad habits and a high
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body count because from what i've seen it's like those things are synonymous like the high body
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count is a result of the bad habits um yeah i would say yeah but but there's always things
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there's always there's always women that others there's always women that defy the odds though
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and don't have bad habits but still figure out how to bang chad tyro yeah i agree and and i have an
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example of this in my own life and like i don't even like i kind of feel bad like maybe she will
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watch this but honestly i don't care because like my sister is you know it is what it is but like
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she had like the upbringing of like you know the trad upbringing you know what i mean and she
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rejected all of it like all of that went out the window she got all these tattoos
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she became a stripper she had kids with multiple dudes and she's like with this simp guy now who's
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like taking care of her basically and she had to fail like she like that's the thing is like
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what i try to tell guys is like stop taking these women so seriously like her her freaking spiritual
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like hobbies and all these things that she talks about like none of that is like
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real bro like y'all can't take that shit seriously like and in fact the more you take that shit
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seriously the less she's attracted to you yeah that's true that's really true like you can't
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take what they say seriously you have to just like like internalize it and be like okay she's
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saying this these are her words but like don't take it seriously like you know i don't know how
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to i could ask this question without it sounding weird but like on an objective scale i'm not
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how can i ask like has your sister gotten attractive female results in her life
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dude when i was in high school bro there was not a single day where some dude wasn't coming up to
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me saying bro your sister's so hot okay that's why she's lived the life that she's lived she
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she's probably on a scale of one to ten at least a seven or like an eight and the sad part about
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it is is you've seen where your sister could have won she could have won if she just made a couple
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of different decisions man and that's so sad man it's so sad it's heartbreaking and like i like
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dude i struggle with it even now because like my parents like i've had my troubles and stuff in
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life and like they think i'm such a piece of shit and they like take care of her like i don't even
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really talk to my parents or like see them anymore like they've like pretty much disconnected from me
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just because i've had a few things in my life go on but nothing nearly as crazy like i haven't
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knocked anyone up or done no crazy you know well and that's the biggest difference between
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your how your parents are treating you and your sister is just a reflection of society in general
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if you're an attractive woman you always get help from from friends family the government everybody
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and then what's funny though not to dry dude what's funny though is that she actually got
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say oh well okay i say saved but there was actually a time when she like filed for bankruptcy
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and like she was down bad for real and like my parents obviously came in and saved her
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and like when i mentioned it they like shy away and they're like no we she she did it herself
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blah blah blah i'm like like she figured it out yeah yeah it's like bro i'm i'm a grown-ass man
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like i'm not you can't and they'll never the other thing is too they never learn unless you let them
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fail and then exactly the families will never let them fail like ever like your dad your dad
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will take care of her for your dad i bet your dad's like a good guy right yeah i love my dad
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he's awesome yeah me and him argue quite a bit but i love him still at the end of the day because
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of like and i actually have a story if y'all don't mind um about like about how like men's attention
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like as a man your attention and your words especially are so much more powerful than you can
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imagine i'll tell you a story so one time when i was growing up like my parents they fought
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constantly like it was literally an everyday thing and there was one time specifically and i remember
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this where my mom had just like had enough you know what i mean i didn't know what the argument
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was about i still don't know i don't care but she ends up taking us me and me and my sister she took
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us to a hotel and the whole time i'm sitting there like damn it's really over you know what i mean
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like it's really over this time and um all my dad did was just not give a fuck and guess what
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happened guess what happened she came back they've been married ever since so like bro y'all y'all
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have to realize your attention and your words are so powerful yeah yeah i kind of have a similar
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story being ignored go ahead doug mpa oh good no go ahead bro no i was just gonna say we hate being
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ignored that drives us nuts but go ahead i have a friend um whose wife is in politics
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and that's all i'm gonna say and uh uh he's very highly qualified he has a lot of greed he he has
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multiple um graduate degrees including a law degree and he he was a savage back then i'm
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talking he just knock him down but then he met this girl and he kind of straightened up right
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and she got into politics because her family is like a heavy-hitting family where they live
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and but he he literally built her into the person she is now and for a couple of years
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she was talking to him crazy like literally talking to him crazy because one of the worst
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parts about these successful women is that they will they will disrespect you to the point where
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they could talk to you like they can kick your ass you know what i'm saying so he just he just
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unplugged and literally stopped giving again like literally and she could only take that for about
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two three months and then she started to straighten up he's like look if you keep talking this way
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he he had all of the supportive stuff he would do with his knowledge and his skills that he pulled
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that back you know and he was literally about to walk out the door and move that's the only thing
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men can do we forget that's your only that's your only power literally that's all you have you can
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either remove your time your attention and your money that's all you can do you can't do anything
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else yep your two biggest superpowers and the reason why you know the superpowers is because
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society keeps trying to take them away from you as a man your two biggest superpowers are being
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able to walk away and determine who your girlfriend fiance and wife is they keep trying
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to take those two abilities away from you but don't let them guys and they guilt men into doing
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it like if it's like the family dynamic is always if generally if the kids don't do what the mom
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wants like the dad comes for the kids you know like so if it's usually the boys that start to
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walk away before the girls do yeah and i had a i had a comment on something the last caller had
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said he said uh he was like oh everyone is so selfish and i'm like dude no um men are not
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selfish men are not selfish enough like men need to become way more selfish because what's happening
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is like so okay according to him everyone is selfish so if everyone is selfish then who's
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going to step up and be the bigger person when shit hits the fan because it always does it
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inevitably will and who steps up the man yeah so no not everyone is selfish like women are too
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selfish men aren't selfish enough you know that um under 30 they interviewed men and women and
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they found that 52 percent of men still say that they they value relationships and marriage and
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would like one or both in the near future. And only 24% of women under 30 said that.
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Yeah, man. I mean, I could just go on. It's like, like most women these days,
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they just self-sabotage. And it's like, we, as men, we have to let them fail. That's the
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only thing we can do. There's actually a really good meme about this. Um, there's a meme that's
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going around on Twitter. It's this robot. He's like a, like a female robot. I don't know if
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it's a female robot i forget what it looks like but it's like a dude smiling and laughing and
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he's walking with this robot and then there's a girl like hand handling like that's what we need
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guys like if we don't do that we're fucked if y'all keep something we're out of there
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agree yeah i agree well thanks for calling and calling anytime okay
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on women's addictions dug mpa um i would say nothing is more important to women than their
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their own selfish desires and the desires are usually involved with what they're addicted to
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guys if you find a woman who's addicted to spending money uh you know drugs partying or
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something she will always put that ahead of you always so you got to find a woman who has
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some kind of of discipline and boundaries that's it um i think things that were are worse than um
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body count the number one is gaslighting because they'll drive you crazy
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can you imagine living with a woman that just gaslights you you probably have
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yeah gaslighting um the fake nice i would the nice nasty we call it yeah nice yeah just be
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i'd rather you just be a bitch just say it with your chest and women addicted to religion
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i just i would rather not but i'm travelicious oh what women that travel issues women that are
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addicted to traveling it's the worst well guys but let me know what you think in the comments
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