Pearl - July 30, 2025


Most Mothers Lie About their Child’s Father


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Length

9 minutes

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146.43869

Word count

1,396

Sentence count

84

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Misogyny

13

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Toxicity

20

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Hate speech

6

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In this episode, I talk about how I realized that my entire life was a lie and how I discovered it through researching for my divorce documentary. I also talk about the lies I was told as a child growing up.

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00:00:00.720 What up guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel. Thanks for watching. Sorry I didn't do a show tonight.
00:00:07.220 My phone and my computer just like crashed out on me randomly. So I had to go fix that. We'll be back in action tomorrow.
00:00:15.740 I wanted to talk about how I realized that my entire life was pretty much a lie.
00:00:22.360 And I did that through researching for my divorce documentary.
00:00:27.120 So for those of you that don't know, before I got demonetized on YouTube, I had a really big YouTube show.
00:00:33.000 And this YouTube show was a debate show where I was kind of like an infamous woman in a way.
00:00:38.920 I was kind of, I was loved by some, hated by many.
00:00:42.640 And we would just debate about modern dating dynamics.
00:00:47.800 Now the show got a lot bigger and then I got demonetized.
00:00:52.080 Um, but I basically interviewed a thousand women, um, during, while I was doing this show.
00:00:58.120 And while I was doing the show, I did all these interviews for a divorce documentary. 0.71
00:01:02.260 Um, it ended up, it kind of sucks.
00:01:04.720 It ended up getting like pushed back because I ran out of money because it's a long story.
00:01:12.580 That's, that's not important.
00:01:13.460 But when I was interviewing the guys for the divorce documentary, um, essentially I started
00:01:26.320 to realize like the lies of my childhood in a way.
00:01:31.880 So women are a lot better at reputation destruction. 1.00
00:01:37.260 And when I was interviewing these men and they would tell me their side of like a divorce
00:01:44.220 story.
00:01:45.900 And I would say the typical like divorce story that I heard was like guy and girl get together,
00:01:51.940 they get married.
00:01:53.520 Um, after the kid, the sex would stop.
00:01:56.800 Um, sometimes they would cheat.
00:01:58.600 Sometimes they wouldn't.
00:02:00.300 Um, but a lot of times the guy endured like a super sexless marriage.
00:02:05.880 And, um, usually for years, the woman would like ruin the man's reputation. 0.99
00:02:14.940 So for years, women, we get really mad.
00:02:18.160 And then we have these like emotional outbursts.
00:02:20.620 And during these outbursts, we, we tell stories that just are not true or super over-exaggerated.
00:02:27.680 And a lot of times the women would hint that these men were abusive or narcissistic, neglectful,
00:02:35.340 like, you know what I mean?
00:02:36.720 Like whatever, whatever it was.
00:02:38.680 And so by the time the woman filed for a divorce, she'd already had a case built. 0.99
00:02:43.940 And a lot of times it would not only have, um, the things that she said around the town,
00:02:51.900 but also it would have, um, like photos in the house.
00:02:58.720 Like, you know, and a lot of these guys didn't see it coming and they're just like blindsided
00:03:03.200 by this divorce and they get railroaded in court because for years she's, she's been
00:03:08.900 building a case.
00:03:09.740 And I realized that a lot of the stories I heard growing up about people in my hometown or
00:03:19.220 my school just were not true.
00:03:23.560 And it almost had me like have these glasses like gone from what I used to see.
00:03:34.600 Now, an example I thought of, um, was there is this girl from my hometown whose parents
00:03:41.300 got divorced and I'd always heard that the dad was like abusive and an alcoholic and all
00:03:47.620 this stuff, but I'd been around the dad and I'd never seen that myself.
00:03:54.320 Um, he'd always been nice to me, but you know, you'd, you'd always hear that from the mother
00:03:59.000 and these were people I didn't even know.
00:04:02.180 And so, or sorry, I didn't, um, I wasn't related to like, I wasn't even in the house.
00:04:07.740 And this woman would say this to me, they ended up getting divorced. 1.00
00:04:11.280 And obviously as a, as a kid, you're going to believe the mom, you're not going to think
00:04:15.460 an adult's lying to you.
00:04:17.220 Um, and it was around like maybe 16 to like 18 years old, um, where a lot of us as kids
00:04:30.340 like realized the mothers all were over-exaggerating or whatever, but maybe not over-exaggerating.
00:04:38.520 We kind of realized the mothers were a little off or the stories weren't completely true.
00:04:42.080 But when I, I did these divorce documentaries, I realized that pretty much all of the stories
00:04:48.840 that women tell are like lies, like a hundred percent. 1.00
00:04:53.740 One girl had a dad that was deployed and you know, she would say how, you know, he cheated
00:05:01.020 and da, da, da, da.
00:05:02.440 And then I realized that she was super overweight and she wasn't when they got married and she 1.00
00:05:07.880 had also cheated, but left that part out.
00:05:12.080 Um, there was another woman who had like a quiet dad and the, the rumor around the town
00:05:29.900 was he had this temper behind closed doors, but just over the test of time, you realize
00:05:35.180 these guys are fine and the mothers are crazy. 1.00
00:05:37.920 Oh my gosh.
00:05:38.400 I remember the first couple that divorced.
00:05:40.420 Oh my gosh.
00:05:41.820 But we knew that mom was crazy, but you know, nobody questions women when they scream abuse, 1.00
00:05:47.060 especially then. 1.00
00:05:49.120 And I just started to realize one by one that these aunts are crazy. 1.00
00:05:55.440 These mothers are crazy and they're all just lying. 1.00
00:05:57.500 And it gets even worse for me now because there'll be women I know personally, and I really love 0.99
00:06:03.940 them as people, but they tell me a story about somebody, um, some guy being abusive and you
00:06:16.160 just have to sit there and listen.
00:06:17.820 Or what are you going to argue with them about the story they're telling you?
00:06:23.200 I don't know.
00:06:23.780 It just becomes a very uncomfortable situation because you know, the truth, you know, they're
00:06:29.000 over-exaggerating, but you have to sit there and listen to it.
00:06:32.280 Um, and I realized, I think men in general have a much more, like they're much better able
00:06:40.720 to tell when something is true versus false.
00:06:43.400 Um, and you can see that in their buying decisions.
00:06:46.380 Like women, you know, they'll sell us something that says we're going to look 10 years younger 1.00
00:06:49.980 and we just buy it.
00:06:50.900 Right.
00:06:52.140 Um, you know, they, they sell us, you know, some product that's going to fix our problems
00:06:58.780 and we just buy it.
00:06:59.980 Like I remember as a kid, my mother would love going to these like motivational speakers 0.99
00:07:05.300 and my dad, he would just say like, that's BS, that's bullshit, whatever. 0.96
00:07:11.320 Like, or he, he just said he always like, he didn't like them for whatever reason. 0.99
00:07:17.240 And I remember, oh my gosh, there was that guy, the Jason guy, the secret or something.
00:07:25.100 Oh my gosh, my mom loved him. 0.84
00:07:27.440 And yeah, he was a complete fraud. 0.90
00:07:32.420 Anyways, long story short.
00:07:34.940 Um, I think men have to go through life like this.
00:07:42.040 Where they, um, they have to go through life just listening to all of this stuff that's
00:07:49.780 just not true and have to nod their heads.
00:07:52.840 Whether it's in school when they push down like the white guilt stuff, you know, the, 0.99
00:07:58.660 you're evil for being a white man. 1.00
00:08:02.240 Um, or it's at work where the stupid HR ladies, you know, breathing down their neck. 1.00
00:08:08.780 And when you look at all the places that men are leaving, like schools, corporate America, 0.99
00:08:15.880 um, homeownership in a way, maybe that doesn't apply, but it's all places actually kind of
00:08:23.900 because if they get the house, it's usually with the wife, but it's all places that the 0.99
00:08:28.680 men have to listen to bullshit. 0.99
00:08:32.120 And it's like men would almost rather just not listen to the bullshit and just have quiet. 1.00
00:08:39.180 Anyways, that's my two cents is going down this, this rabbit hole made me realize that 0.99
00:08:45.220 pretty much every mother was lying about their husband.
00:08:50.360 Um, on top of that, pretty much every opportunity I've been given in life was because I was a
00:08:55.980 woman.
00:08:56.940 Um,
00:08:57.820 my entire athletic sports career, it's pretty much a lie because it shouldn't, that shouldn't
00:09:08.600 exist in the first place, even though it was fun, which by the way, I did a debate today
00:09:14.640 on that and it's pretty funny.
00:09:16.000 You guys should tune in.
00:09:16.920 I'll link it, but yeah.
00:09:20.660 Um, anyways, thanks for watching.
00:09:22.980 I'll be back to regular programming tomorrow.
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00:09:29.460 I love you guys and I'll see you next time.
00:09:31.620 Bye-bye.