Pearl - ＂Most Women Trust The Wrong People＂ Pearl Reacts To The Controlling Wives Of The Church

00:00:00.000 And finally, Christian women listen to their pastor before they listen to their husband.

00:00:05.880 That doesn't make any sense.

00:00:08.360 How do you trust your husband enough to have a child by him,

00:00:12.100 but yet still go to a pastor for advice before you go to your husband?

00:00:19.440 Okay, an example that I see of the way that Christian, 0.96

00:00:25.480 and this is why I put her in the title, no offense.

00:00:28.540 Now, I'm not personal.

00:00:30.280 You might be awesome otherwise.

00:00:31.720 This is just the clip I saw.

00:00:33.500 This is often how I see Christian women 1.00

00:00:36.620 reacting to information they do not like.

00:00:39.280 Remember, the red pill is just men trading notes. 0.86

00:00:42.880 You guys don't have to watch it.

00:00:44.380 You don't have to listen to it.

00:00:45.540 You don't have to interact with it if you don't want to.

00:00:48.000 Yet, you go on these channels.

00:00:49.920 You go out of your way to see it

00:00:51.460 and then cry about what's being said.

00:00:54.760 It's madness to me.

00:00:56.280 Okay, I'm gonna...

00:00:58.540 hey guys welcome to relatable happy monday hope everyone had a wonderful weekend um so i spent a

00:01:11.220 lot of time over the past couple days thinking about what i really want to discuss today how i

00:01:18.260 want to approach this topic we are going to talk about tim keller the pastor the author who died

00:01:26.460 I'm bad at putting timestamps guys so please excuse me and dress something that's going on

00:01:33.880 online if you're not really online very much particularly if you're not on Twitter you might

00:01:38.160 have no idea about what I'm about to discuss this trend this movement that I'm about to talk about

00:01:44.660 or how any of it has to do with me in this podcast I don't want to make it about me I don't want to

00:01:49.920 make it about me I want to make it about encouraging you encouraging Christians particularly Christian

00:01:55.400 women. I've seen a movement both within the secular and the Christian right. I consider myself

00:02:03.820 on the Christian right. I am a conservative. I'm on the right side of the political cultural

00:02:09.980 spectrum. I am a Christian. I consider myself a conservative Christian because I believe that

00:02:16.940 what is referred to as a conservative view of the Bible is actually just a biblical view of the Bible

00:02:22.640 and faith um but the movement that i'm talking about within a segment of the christian right

00:02:29.840 could maybe be called like the trad movement or in some cases and again you might not right now

00:02:37.220 recognize where this trend is or it's like women we can't get to the point right 1.00

00:02:42.200 but i'm like a minute in i'm sorry where it's going and that's okay and i'll give you some

00:02:49.360 examples i don't want to give too many specific examples because there's so many different

00:02:53.340 caveats that i have to put like this person is kind of part of this movement this is not

00:02:56.960 this is a tweet that kind of represents it yeah and i'll tell you why because again there's the

00:03:01.060 core basic eyes trading notes it's not me all right i'm just a chick talking about this stuff

00:03:06.800 and then people yeah yeah yeah but it doesn't but those of you who are in conservatism certainly

00:03:13.180 conservative media or who just consume it you've probably seen the direction that all of this

00:03:18.620 is going. And particularly if you're not on Twitter, you may not have seen it, but I'm

00:03:25.220 going to try to explain it the best I can. And there are good chances that you at least have a

00:03:30.840 feeling about what I'm talking about. So I'm like two minutes into this. Are we sorry? You'd think

00:03:35.880 that the red pill, I'm sorry, I need to get timestamps. I'm sorry, guys. I'm sorry. I apologize.

00:03:40.400 As I called it would just be kind of becoming a conservative. And maybe it was at one point

00:03:45.940 realizing that the mainstream narratives about everything race gender economics is just wrong

00:03:51.940 but it's actually now kind of morphed into a strange collection of perpetually online men

00:04:00.000 who complain about women okay notice how she's already starting the shaming language this is 1.00

00:04:05.160 what i mean when i said when i say that christian women use the same shame insult guilt need to be 1.00

00:04:14.220 right as non-christian women it is the same i'm sorry i grew up around y'all y'all mostly catholics 0.97

00:04:22.380 but christians i have been in the hood in london arguably i don't see a difference

00:04:31.100 i don't see a difference and equate masculinity to physical fitness and ultra self-sufficiency

00:04:37.580 and what i mean by that is like in some of these circles it's looked down upon to be a monogamous

00:04:42.700 in a monogamous relationship or in a marriage at all um in some they emphasize the importance of

00:04:49.500 getting a trad service oriented submissive wife why is that wrong 0.99

00:04:57.580 a trad service or blessing isn't that what you're supposed to want

00:05:04.940 now it's like we're shaming men for wanting what they want and uh these are often represented 0.98

00:05:11.980 damn it blessing get you a combative woman 1.00

00:05:17.980 go get you someone to argue with twitter accounts constantly posting tick tock videos of 1.00

00:05:25.580 girls saying stupid things or stories of girls betraying their boyfriends or girls at the gym 0.98

00:05:30.540 wearing scandalous clothing uh angry that guys are looking at them basically this group both of 0.99

00:05:37.500 those who are like no i'm non-monogamous and i think you know being a strong man is really just

00:05:44.060 kind of sowing my wild oats everywhere and the side that's like oh no we need to get married to

00:05:49.020 like the most submissive trad wife out there both of these groups it seems from kind of what they're 1.00

00:05:55.420 saying they view girls or depict girls women as dumb as promiscuous okay so again if women are 1.00

00:06:02.380 dumb and promiscuous it's the men depicting them as dumb and promiscuous we couldn't possibly 1.00

00:06:10.940 just do that behavior oh it's the men the men the men god you guys are killing me sometimes this 1.00

00:06:18.700 stop s-i-m-p-s-i-m-p-i-n-g stop simping sorry all as radical feminists they believe that feminism is 0.99

00:06:31.020 the cause of all of our problems they're really not that different than incels and voluntary 0.92

00:06:35.180 celibates who think the same thing girls women that's the they're the core of all of our problems 1.00

00:06:41.660 as a country and speaking as someone who knows and has talked about the modern female propensity

00:06:49.580 to be overly self-focused and to be duped by any political narrative that plays upon

00:06:55.740 our feelings to the detriment see again we are just duped you innocent

00:07:08.380 i don't know blessing is it is it unbiblical to say it's a choice is that unbiblical your pastor

00:07:16.380 i don't know they say i'm not i'm not a i'm not a real christian they say i'm not like enough so

00:07:21.980 i don't know you may you're probably enough being a pastor is that unbiblical to say it's a choice

00:07:27.580 no no no am i wrong is this no no you're not wrong no no just the men have choices but women

00:07:35.280 don't we're just duped of our country um the first one was the basis of my first book the

00:07:42.760 trendy narcissism that i talk about a lot the latter the over emphasis on feelings when it

00:07:48.300 comes to political and cultural decisions is the focus of my second book coming out next year. So

00:07:53.540 I'm no coddler of women. I'm no feminist. And yet I see and I'm concerned by the different flavors

00:08:00.560 of woman hatred. I see. See, I'm no feminist, but I'm behaving in the same way that feminists do 0.90

00:08:08.120 because now she's going to the men are misogynists. Now they're just women haters. I'm going to tell

00:08:15.900 men how to talk. Online discourse today. Yes, of course, from the left in the form of elevating men

00:08:26.140 who pretend they're women, excoriating every discontent white woman as a Karen. Yet we know

00:08:32.540 that progressives hate God's design. They hate true femininity and true masculinity. And so I

00:08:38.580 am used to and expect a kind of a form of woman hatred from a lot of people on the left, but 1.00

00:08:44.260 also from the right uh some uh some of whom some people on the right um love to play the women are 0.99

00:08:51.680 dumb and have caused most of the societal problems that we have today i mean 0.99

00:08:55.500 is that true i mean is it is it is it am i wrong now i'm trying to stay youtube safe i'll just 0.98

00:09:11.460 keep that one to myself i'll keep that one trope they love to play on that trope and there's

00:09:18.000 crossover between this and the that's the red pill and then the trad movement which is also

00:09:24.660 just a weird part of conservatism which claims to be a push for traditional ways of life

00:09:30.220 traditional marriage and of course i am a huge advocate the biggest advocate of traditional

00:09:34.980 marriage and think we should elevate it but this online sect but not not the way that men

00:09:41.240 want to just the way I want to. What I'm talking about that you've probably seen before isn't

00:09:46.140 necessarily talking about biblical marriage or biblical gender roles. There is a strange

00:09:51.880 overemphasis in this community, if you will, movement, trend, whatever. I think it's a grift,

00:09:58.460 but a strange overemphasis on the need to subdue women and on creating this almost like 19th

00:10:05.080 century aesthetic in your home and way of life. There's a lot of criticism from this crowd of

00:10:10.180 women who, a criticism of women who work in any way that is not strictly domestic. And here's

00:10:19.240 what I mean when I say that this group is not necessarily Christian, even though they're quote

00:10:23.420 unquote trad. There was a young woman the other day who tagged me in her Instagram story. She 0.91

00:10:27.800 was very angry about something that I said. I don't even remember what. She's an influencer,

00:10:31.880 I guess. I think I agree with her on this point. Small following. I didn't respond to anything that

00:10:36.880 she said but she claims yeah yeah yeah she's she's with the she's with the the now she's

00:10:44.280 going to talk about the the trads with the bikini pictures on instagram we'll agree there but you

00:10:49.380 guys this is what i'm showing you men are sick of this they're sick of being told how to talk

00:10:54.440 they're they're sick of being told to watch their tone they're they're and the more we do this

00:11:00.360 the more it's just it it's just gonna not work you're gonna keep seeing young men leaving and

00:11:09.620 then crying about that they're leaving and blaming pearl for it like i did this okay

00:11:14.780 so that's the controlling wives archetype that i see in the church 1.00

00:11:20.780 okay so the next one we have the simps the controlling wives and the born again virgins 1.00

00:11:28.520 Now, the born-again virgins are the single mothers, ex-OF chicks, and women that maybe had a history of sex work and single motherhood. 0.91

00:11:42.260 These are women that have some sort of public scarlet letter, per se. 1.00

00:11:49.120 Maybe it's an OF account.

00:11:51.600 Maybe it's a child.

00:11:53.220 I don't know.

00:11:54.380 Okay. But these women tend to come to church to be absolved of all of the consequences of their 1.00

00:12:01.520 decisions. Many of these women mask it under finding God, but generally speaking, it's more 0.96

00:12:08.380 to find a husband and be absolved of any wrongdoings. Many of these women passed over the 1.00

00:12:15.220 men that would have married them in their youth, gave their best years to someone that didn't

00:12:21.740 appreciate them and still expect those men to clean up the mess after and to be fair to them

00:12:27.800 some of you simps do it some of you in church but for every one woman that finds a simp there's five 1.00

00:12:35.740 that don't and you'll see this by looking at all the young women in church that are single 0.99

00:12:41.360 young virgins you guys are so bad that men don't even want virgins anymore because of the headache 1.00

00:12:48.020 you are known to come with virgins even have the reputation of being controlling 0.99

00:12:56.100 of being controlling and even withholding sex after marriage don't shoot the messenger okay 0.88

00:13:03.460 this is just what the men tell me men are biologically wired to want a virgin and the

00:13:08.900 reputation of christian virgin women is so bad that men are avoiding the hassle 0.99

00:13:14.820 don't shoot the messenger this is just what the guys are saying to me this is what the guys are

00:13:22.020 okay so many women come to church wanting to do a rebrand if you will notice the women that do 0.74

00:13:35.160 tend to find a husband in church or a simp generally she is older than him and the younger

00:13:42.960 man just doesn't know any better many of these men are roped into a lifetime decision based on

00:13:53.480 the advice that trads are giving them when oftentimes there are predatory women in church 1.00

00:13:59.300 predatory okay generally these women put on a dress tell everyone how godly they are 1.00

00:14:10.140 but usually the mask comes off eventually, usually to whatever simp they got to marry them.

00:14:17.320 Okay, so now this all came full circle. I need to get the clip. This all came full circle

00:14:23.680 during my debate with Michael Knowles. Okay, this all came full circle. And if you guys want to hate

00:14:30.580 me for milking this interview, I'm going to do it. And I'm going to do it more. I'm going to keep

00:14:36.420 doing it so you can be mad let me let me get this time stamp so during the debate with michael knolls

00:14:43.780 um during the debate with michael knolls

00:14:49.380 it was actually quite ironic so we were talking about only only can we say of on youtube is there

00:14:56.500 anything against let's just leave it for now okay let me make sure this is the right part

00:15:02.260 whatever this actually there have been miracles happen but I would have that

00:15:07.660 okay okay there we go I think it's here me so how do we know our purpose men

00:15:16.080 have what

00:15:19.380 have the scriptures we have revelation but we also have our conscience and

00:15:22.860 reading us toward marriage men and you would disagree no you wouldn't well so

00:15:28.260 there you go no no no well sort of sort of I think men 0.99

00:15:32.260 I think that in the current market there are just not enough wives to go 1.00

00:15:37.300 around there there are not enough wives to go women that deserve to be wise in 1.00

00:15:43.360 in my opinion okay you'd agree on that right well I don't like so so I don't

00:15:48.160 know exactly what you mean by that I maybe I would agree but I don't know

00:15:51.040 exactly what you mean by it okay do you think men should have standards yes do

00:15:55.600 you think it's it's okay for them to want a woman that's in shape you think 0.96

00:15:59.740 That's an okay standard.

00:16:00.540 Yeah, that's good.

00:16:01.120 Okay, a girl that's religious.

00:16:03.100 Would you say that's good?

00:16:04.520 But that's not the majority.

00:16:06.860 That's not the majority.

00:16:08.040 So what are men supposed to do in the meantime?

00:16:10.120 They're supposed to convince the women to get in shape and get religious. 1.00

00:16:12.320 Good luck.

00:16:12.960 I've done it for a year.

00:16:14.540 Good luck.

00:16:17.080 Maybe the men would be more persuasive than you would.

00:16:19.640 Good luck.

00:16:20.700 I don't know.

00:16:21.880 Did the OnlyFans models quit that you interviewed?

00:16:25.360 I don't know.

00:16:26.360 I've only interviewed a few on whatever.

00:16:28.020 there's actually there I mean miracles happen but I wouldn't bet out there

00:16:32.960 there are a couple girls there are a couple girls have written into my show

00:16:35.280 not from the whatever podcast but who were watching my show and you know

00:16:38.480 really watching in the member block and everything who were both like online

00:16:43.220 pornographers to some degree and one said she was gonna quit I kind of lost

00:16:48.000 track of her in the show another one quit had a major conversion and you know

00:16:52.680 what a what a wonderful one on Twitter yes yeah her

00:16:57.360 OF link was still up so a lot of times yes it was I checked it yes it was I'm positive she she posted

00:17:07.500 it and showed that it was it was I don't know I don't know she seemed but but in any case are

00:17:13.200 you denying the principle okay so here we go here we go all right so wait actually let me keep going

00:17:21.240 I think I think there is a little more I'm gonna keep going that people can change yeah I mean God

00:17:26.220 can forgive you but men don't have to I wouldn't repentance is good but I

00:17:32.640 wouldn't say that makes her wife worthy if you still used to have an oaf 1.00

00:17:35.700 account you you would agree that men in general should not date women that had

00:17:42.060 only fans accounts it's not ideal okay you can't definitively you can't

00:17:47.520 definitively say that a woman okay I don't think it's disqualifying well I

00:17:51.060 just I think you're gonna have a tough time selling guys on that so he starts

00:17:56.040 men can have standards. Yes, Pearl, men can have standards. Then 0.97

00:18:00.480 we can't disqualify a chick for having OF content on the internet. Guys, ladies, 1.00

00:18:11.520 can we just look at it from the men's point of view? If you had a son, blessing, if you had a

00:18:16.520 son, would you tell him to wife a chick? Being a pastor, no. Blessing is a very forgiving guy.

00:18:22.900 blessing preaches here he preaches to all of us would you say that it would be a good choice

00:18:28.920 for him to date a woman with an only fan why is this so hard christians god can forgive you of

00:18:38.160 your sin but you should be doing it for god not to get something out of it and so okay now it was

00:18:44.420 so funny because this all proved my point this all proved my point so i during this clip we were

00:18:52.180 actually talking about two different women. We were communicating, but we both were confused,

00:18:59.400 okay? I was talking about, I'm going to show you this on my screen. All right, so I was talking

00:19:08.420 about, let me make this full screen, this woman right here. This is who I was talking about. 0.56

00:19:15.980 so this girl you know this guy on twitter has done a great job reclaim your throne has done

00:19:22.420 a great job exposing this chick because she said that you know she was leaving and then she that's 1.00

00:19:29.240 who i was talking about now i didn't realize you can take it down i didn't realize that michael

00:19:33.500 was actually talking about let me actually put in her x at this girl and she deleted all of it 0.99

00:19:42.960 because she proved my point when so many times you chicks argue with me and then you prove my point 1.00

00:19:48.400 um did she block me she might have blocked me so oh oh i got well i'll just show that i'll just

00:19:57.120 show the screen i'm blocked dang it oh oh no no i wanted the of chicks to oh i just i wanted i i

00:20:08.960 totally wanted to see what an ex-sex worker has to think. I, oh, why God, why? Why do bad things

00:20:21.980 happen to good people? Okay. They're going to, they're going to kill me for this one. Okay.

00:20:30.820 But I found, um, this chick had a whole essay and I, I, it was a whole essay talking about how I was

00:20:37.920 wrong for quest even questioning her conversion even saying how that doesn't seem sincere

00:20:46.220 the same way i wouldn't do business with a former convict if someone has scammed you know even that

00:20:56.320 wolf of wall street guy i mean he's charismatic there's stuff we can learn from him but do i

00:21:02.160 want to do business am I going to trust him with my family's money no the same way why would you

00:21:12.160 trust an OF chick being the mother of your children and as women why is this so difficult 1.00

00:21:20.700 for us to understand the men have put up with so much they put up with us being overweight 0.84

00:21:25.580 we don't got to be virgins anymore but we can't draw the line at sex work

00:21:32.160 really the men are wrong for saying you know what sex work is the line this

00:21:40.520 woman and this is what happens when do you see who someone truly is when they're 1.00

00:21:45.060 angry what do they do when they are angry this woman took off her mask she's 0.98

00:21:53.440 threatened and I have a screenshot of it I said why don't you come on the stream

00:21:57.540 and talk. She asks to fight me instead. Is that who we want? Like, you know, Mike, I'm just,

00:22:06.660 and I'm not saying this to pick on Michael, right? I'm saying this because young men will watch that

00:22:12.160 stuff and think it's actually a good idea. They won't. That's why the men are leaving.

00:22:18.020 But the way that they react to me is how they're going to react to you. I am just a stranger on

00:22:24.820 the internet giving her opinions i am just a random chick okay so what i tend to see happen

00:22:33.800 in church is we have the controlling wives we have the 1.00

00:22:40.660 born again virgins and we have the simps and blessing's the only one left right blessing

00:22:50.580 yeah

00:22:52.680 Leslie you don't simp right there's no simping

00:22:55.960 there nah

00:22:57.080 none right

00:22:59.740 no simping

00:23:00.580 no S-I-M-P-I-N-G 1.00

00:23:05.640 no simping

00:23:07.340 coming up

00:23:08.520 yeah we should drop that track

00:23:10.720 yeah

00:23:11.220 okay so the funny thing is

00:23:15.220 Christian men do a great

00:23:17.600 job of showing men why they 0.98

00:23:19.520 should not marry at all because nothing is good enough for them 1.00

00:23:24.640 where women can do the bare minimum and be rewarded 1.00

00:23:30.640 so my question is am i wrong are christian women wife material and is 0.68

00:23:38.000 this a good deal for men um i'd like to talk to the women first 1.00

00:23:44.960 i'd like to talk to the women first i'm going to put the link in the chat 1.00

00:23:49.520 give me one second don't

00:23:54.800 all right this is so if you think the topic's relevant you know did you which email the pearly

00:24:02.960 things one yeah you emailed it to me yeah oh i see it i see it i see it

00:24:11.680 oh wait and i actually have one more i saw a tweet that i thought

00:24:14.640 summarized this really well. I thought summarized this really well. The conversation, mind you,

00:24:22.320 what I say does nothing. I am not arrogant enough to think that my words have such an impact on

00:24:29.700 society, it's going to change it. Do you think I can change these government incentives, abortion? 0.96

00:24:37.280 Because if that were true, Ben Shapiro, one of the most skilled debaters I have ever seen,

00:24:43.320 would have stopped this terrible culture i am no ben shapiro i am no candace owens i am i am 0.77

00:24:52.180 nowhere near as skilled as those people and they weren't successful in conserving anything

00:24:58.100 so why on earth would i think i could do it that's just that's just yeah good luck

00:25:04.980 So, what I say does nothing, but what I am pointing out is that by saying men are wrong

00:25:13.600 if they're lied to about paternity, they still need to father the kids and they're wrong 0.58

00:25:17.920 to divorce their wife, that is not a good sell on marriage.

00:25:25.260 By saying you should, by not definitively saying not to date OF workers.

00:25:34.980 Single mothers and women with crazy pasts, that is going to turn men away. 1.00

00:25:46.080 By telling men to wait for women that are not worthy, that's going to turn men away. 1.00

00:25:55.780 By saying, hey, guys, no mandatory DNA test.

00:25:59.880 You're wrong to get a prenup. 0.99

00:26:01.200 That is the greatest marketing plan you could ever do

00:26:04.760 to discourage men from getting married and going to church.

00:26:08.220 And it's interesting because what I say,

00:26:10.300 which is change the laws, make them more fair for men

00:26:12.680 as a starting point,

00:26:15.220 that would actually be more likely to encourage men to get married. 1.00

00:26:19.800 Where what you guys are pushing actually will turn them away

00:26:23.960 because men naturally weigh the costs and the benefits.

00:26:27.760 They naturally do that.

00:26:29.340 i mean i could blessing if i started saying marry these of chicks marry these of chicks 1.00

00:26:37.280 would you do it because i said it hell no i mean i i can't you cannot control men

00:26:44.500 maybe maybe some young ones some of you christian women figured out how 1.00

00:26:48.480 um okay but so i'm gonna do it in the youtube chat women get first priority 1.00

00:26:55.560 i've been going for two hours oh no an hour and a half we're gonna put it in the x chart as well

00:27:00.380 we got 4 600 people wow yeah okay i don't know how to do it uh i'm gonna put it there okay i

00:27:07.420 can't even put it in my own oh shit i'm logged into christine's account 0.76

00:27:10.480 figured out 0.83

00:27:13.500 all right zoom link i'm gonna pin it

00:27:25.560 the juice is just not worth the squeeze now again i'm putting my own so my question is and i want

00:27:37.020 you guys to answer this question are christian women wife material

00:27:41.120 are christian women wife material am i just am i just all wrong am i just making this up

00:27:52.320 I could be wrong.

Pearl - March 20, 2024

＂Most Women Trust The Wrong People＂ Pearl Reacts To The Controlling Wives Of The Church

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