Pearl - April 03, 2026


"Motherhood Is About ME" - Tradcon Harpies


Episode Stats

Length

18 minutes

Words per Minute

182.0168

Word Count

3,388

Sentence Count

64

Misogynist Sentences

37

Hate Speech Sentences

26


Summary

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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 even the way they're talking, it's me, me, me. It's, oh, I get to be happy. Isabella Brown and
00:00:05.860 a lot of conservatives do this. They like to sell getting married and having children as the key to
00:00:10.000 happiness. And I would disagree. And I think this actually sets up women for an unhappy life
00:00:19.360 by framing it that way. Unhappy women get married and they're just unhappy women with a kid.
00:00:26.340 okay unhappy women get married and they're just bitchy women with a child you cannot rely on a
00:00:32.680 kid for your happiness and even talking to the housewife today I I said um I read her I read her
00:00:39.420 this um I read her the the saying have more kids than you can afford before you think you're ready
00:00:44.500 and um again you know listening to her talk about it was just so much more realistic
00:00:50.780 than listening to the women talk about it she was like oh well that's gonna be a lot of work
00:00:55.340 who likes having kids and she's like it's fulfilling but like it's a it is a lot yeah
00:01:03.180 unhappy women yeah women that depend on their kids and their husband for happiness they drag
00:01:09.440 down everyone involved and you know I have to ask the question if getting married and having kids
00:01:13.780 was the number one thing you wanted to do why didn't you do it when you were the hottest between
00:01:17.740 18 to 22 and why don't you leave everything and watch the kid and even talking to this housewife
00:01:25.120 you know and i'm i'm gonna actually quote she says um what did she say hold on i wrote it down
00:01:32.400 hold on hold on i gotta find where i wrote it well regardless it's somewhere in here i'm gonna
00:01:38.880 read it later but she was she was talking about how again this is a full-time job and she's like
00:01:46.280 look if you want to do something for yourself you get up early you stay up late but she's talking
00:01:50.540 about how kids when they're young they need quantity more than quality she's like they need
00:01:56.120 lots of time with the mother um and she was even saying how at six to eight months you could
00:02:02.100 already tell what parents are paying attention and watching their kids based on the behavior
00:02:06.100 you know so it it started my because you know i know white women and a lot of white women this
00:02:12.500 is one of the few housewives in my area um when they say stuff like this they mean get a nanny
00:02:18.420 to do it for you so again um then she goes on and again these women what they do is they use their
00:02:25.340 family and their kids to build their brand when they're in politics which is messy and then wonder
00:02:30.320 why people look at them like they don't care about their marriage and their kids um because again the
00:02:35.980 internet's twitter especially is just not a great place whose fault is it that these random ladies
00:02:41.080 are attacking your family and your husband it's yours you you you your fault and you know
00:02:48.100 they pretend it's for the greater good of society. But you know, in my opinion, society's changed
00:02:56.980 the best by raising good kids, right? And you can't raise good kids if you're not paying
00:03:04.880 attention to them. Okay. Your lack of self-awareness is incredible. You are clearly
00:03:09.360 by your actions, putting your kids last and LARPing as someone who puts her kids first.
00:03:14.680 I want the clout off of being a traditional mom without getting off the internet or putting my
00:03:19.040 career to the side and um everybody you know they they come at me for noticing it's like well
00:03:27.240 all right let me continue here's the next one all right so we're gonna watch Isabella's clap back
00:03:32.980 it's urging young Americans to prioritize marriage and family watch if you're not so again she's
00:03:39.680 saying prioritize marriage as family as her actions. A lot of these women are pick and choose
00:03:45.100 Christians, meaning they want to pick and choose when they prioritize their family. So they say,
00:03:50.040 well, I prioritize my family, but I'm not going to, I'm going to still be in politics,
00:03:58.760 travel for work have a social media account but tell you americans to prioritize a family
00:04:11.080 um wait till later to have kids which actually the housewife i interviewed actually did wait
00:04:18.300 till later this is what i mean you never know didn't have married parents waited till later
00:04:23.520 to have kids best housewife i've ever seen the goat the goat sometimes it's like women we're just
00:04:29.180 a roll of the dice she said it comes from god encouraging your children to grow up and have
00:04:34.720 the courage to get married and have kids more kids than they can afford before they think they're
00:04:39.260 ready it is high time to start it is these choices like deleting our dating apps and putting birth
00:04:45.120 control pills and saying i do at the altar that ultimately trickle down into the political policies
00:04:51.000 that we will see save our country well unsurprisingly the co-hosts of the view were
00:04:56.040 quick to lash out at her and her comments watch what is she what the what what um people
00:05:04.400 peak elite ism you can only have baby and it's funny these again these are two high status women
00:05:10.640 you can tell they're high status by the way they're dressed and the job they're doing right
00:05:14.720 media is inherently you know i'm very cool so high status heavy makeup um fake boobs there
00:05:24.380 heavy makeup extensions she's kind of dressing up as the trad wife lark if you're rich um and
00:05:33.000 on the view i guess is about you've been surprised by the reaction to your comments oh my goodness
00:05:37.980 rachel well first i'll just do i want the population to collapse well if that's what it
00:05:42.260 takes to give men back their children. I would say if there was a hundred people on the planet
00:05:47.340 and they all belong to men, it would be heaven on earth. But millions of children that belong to
00:05:53.580 women, like if men, there was a hundred people left, they would figure out how to make it awesome.
00:05:59.460 I just know them. I just know them. Right. But all I'm saying is it's just going to exacerbate
00:06:04.620 the problem having more kids. I'm not saying do or don't, but I'm saying it's not really a end all
00:06:09.700 be all if all of the kids being born belong to women they belong to the devil right so yeah say
00:06:19.540 i never expected that this was going to be my monday that clip that they reacted to was an
00:06:25.060 answer i gave during a panel discussion that was 30 minutes long at cpac last week and it was a
00:06:30.420 very short two seconds of the greater conversation that we were having clearly taken wildly out of
00:06:36.340 context and with the intention to continue pushing the anti-family propaganda on the women of our
00:06:41.860 generation that we saw speak but again this is pro-family propaganda and i'm not anti-family
00:06:47.860 but i like to be accurate i just want to be accurate here you are not in a traditional
00:06:55.140 family when you're a public figure traditional women take a step back behind their husbands
00:07:00.820 they don't draw attention to themselves so you're acting in a modern way while saying i am promoting
00:07:09.140 a traditional family and i don't like being gaslit that's where i get annoyed that's where
00:07:18.180 i get irritated i want to be accurate viewed all over the view yesterday elitism is the perfect
00:07:26.500 word to just you're a part of elitism you get paid a bunch of like they use these buzzwords
00:07:32.640 because they want to sound smart you're part of elitism okay we're all high status people here
00:07:39.260 you do not like i was watching a couple videos of hers and she was like yes i get paid a lot for my
00:07:45.260 speaking events but i worked my ass off and i'm like bitch you're like 27 in media you talked for
00:07:51.020 living for seven years as a blonde woman you didn't work that hard the men had to work harder
00:07:57.220 okay describe just how out of touch these women really are because most of them are married with
00:08:02.820 children and worth millions upon millions of dollars but they have the audacity to scream
00:08:07.800 at you like sunny hostin did yesterday wearing an 800 jacket and lying to you saying that child
00:08:14.940 care costs $400,000 per year. If that were the case, no one would be able to afford children.
00:08:22.320 But what's really alarming to me is that at the end of the segment, Whoopi Goldberg wrapped
00:08:26.480 everything up by saying, Isabel, how dare you tell women to want to have children if you're saying
00:08:31.500 that I'm going to send you back to the past. So it's always about choice for these people
00:08:35.900 until that choice is the beauty and the joy and the purpose of marriage.
00:08:40.600 Yeah, again, when I hear these words, and I hate to be such a downer, oh, the beauty and the joy. And I'm like, look, that's just not accurate. If you are going, like, let's say you wait till marriage as a woman, and you're going from being a modern woman, which we've all been raised to be, unless you're on some homeschool, you know, farm or something.
00:09:02.200 you are going from living life on your terms to living life on his terms the first year if you
00:09:10.040 talk to a lot of married couples is always the hardest submission is like a muscle it's like
00:09:15.680 going from not working out to working out every day like it's like sometimes you just want to
00:09:21.640 tell them a piece of your mind and you you got to be like you got to shut the fuck up you got to
00:09:26.260 shut up you gotta shut up right and i can just tell when women are doing it um because when i
00:09:32.000 talk to because usually before i do these segments i talk to women that i know are living that way
00:09:36.980 and the way they talk about it is just in a way more accurate way because they're living it this
00:09:43.820 screams that someone else is doing the job for me at least half the time and motherhood which of
00:09:49.420 course we should be encouraging people to strive for well you know and poll after poll after poll
00:09:54.140 the happiest people in america are women who are married with children so you have to wonder what
00:09:59.960 that now remember happiness studies happy women are going to be selected for marriage more happy
00:10:07.120 women are going to be selected again unhappy women will not get married and then be happy people
00:10:13.760 you don't have kids though sometimes the hardship is public and the joy is private i'm not saying
00:10:18.520 people don't get joy out of their children but it's more of fulfillment than joy because if we're
00:10:23.740 going to be accurate I just like being accurate it's pretty monotonous you probably got to give
00:10:29.200 up most of the stuff you go out of the house doing right it's going to be boring right you
00:10:35.460 got to give up traveling for work um if like assuming assuming you care about the kids and
00:10:41.720 you're going to watch them you have to obey your husband's and all husband and all things and not
00:10:46.920 talk back you know the way this woman described her job is she was a servant
00:10:51.720 and that's not necessarily easy or fun and anybody that's actually done it right i can just tell i
00:11:05.060 don't know i'm you know i can just tell about there's another thing in these polls women who
00:11:09.780 make professional sacrifices for the sake of their family also report higher levels of happiness this
00:11:16.340 is something that the left doesn't want us to talk about here are some recent articles because
00:11:21.020 they're really pushing this like it's like it's a threat to them or something if women want to get
00:11:26.360 married and have children especially young these are trad con feminists that belief is men must
00:11:31.400 adhere to their traditional roles but women don't have to and shouldn't yeah none of them were
00:11:35.320 virgins i know women here's some of the recent um headlines sooner or later everyone has to decide
00:11:40.940 whether to give up lazy weekends disposable income and overall peace of mind to have a baby instead
00:11:46.340 so this is all about that's an article that came out in the new york times it says from gen z to
00:11:52.020 gen x a pause in the march to the altar or a decision to skip it all together is becoming
00:11:56.740 more and more common by the way i just had a conversation with mike johnson speaker johnson
00:12:01.620 who was just and again you have to think about the egos of these women they've all been married
00:12:05.860 like five minutes and they're already telling you how awesome it is like they're already saying i'm
00:12:10.340 so awesome look at me how awesome i am here he is the product of two teenagers who got pregnant in
00:12:17.300 high school dropped out um and they went on and had three more kids after after mike johnson and
00:12:23.700 seems like they're doing pretty okay more than okay look at him achieving the american dream
00:12:28.260 and he's just one story of millions upon millions look the truth is rachel we're claiming that we
00:12:34.020 live in the most empowered time for women in all of human history and yet the only level of
00:12:38.980 empowerment that they are willing to give you is if you forego committing your life to your best
00:12:43.620 friend and bringing new life into the world through the miracle of pregnancy notice again
00:12:48.420 she says i care about being a mother and yet she's going into politics and putting her kids and her
00:12:57.060 family on the internet these are contrarian these contradict each other remember social media
00:13:05.460 is far more detrimental and harmful to women than porn is to men the equivalent of this
00:13:12.840 of a woman being on social media and bringing her family into it is a man showing his kids porn
00:13:19.800 or putting this kid in the porn maybe you guys could think of a better analogy
00:13:24.260 but these are harmful to people okay and motherhood you're right women ruin their families
00:13:32.060 like any chad elon musk can be in this dms uh that for women under the age of 35 married moms
00:13:38.540 with kids are three times happier according to a recent study from the institute for family
00:13:43.820 and happiness just not a good metric because happy when happy today i mean like a month ago
00:13:51.100 i was really pissed off about something and if i took the survey then it would be like negative a
00:13:55.500 thousand buddies then unmarried childless women and it's hard to imagine today good day and why
00:14:02.080 they're so threatened by the idea of you being happy but when you really start looking down at
00:14:06.440 the political breakdown of all of this as well the entire democrat voter base is completely
00:14:11.360 contingent upon unmarried childless women who clearly are not happy and are looking to fulfill
00:14:17.120 their life through government control rather than the stability of their family i don't know what
00:14:21.300 young woman needs to hear this today. Besides our own fulfillment of having children, I mean,
00:14:24.760 it's the most wonderful thing that ever happened to me. But putting that aside, there's a really
00:14:28.920 practical side about it. You get old. But again, notice it's like this, even the way they're
00:14:34.120 talking, it's me, me, me. It's, oh, I get to be happy. I want to, it's not making my children
00:14:40.120 happy, right? Or raising good kids. It's what do they do for me? And I'm telling you these tells
00:14:47.720 guys I'm almost undefeated with these tells there's certain tells where I can just um I I can
00:14:55.200 see if a woman is living a traditional lifestyle now I'm not saying that it's wrong what they're
00:15:02.260 doing but what is annoying to me is I don't like being lied to are we are we comprehending are we
00:15:12.900 are we together with this are we you know i just i like to be as accurate as possible um you you
00:15:20.180 need kids uh to help take care of you i mean again what can i get out of the kids now you want the
00:15:26.420 kids to take care of you now the kids you're going to be the kids is problem someday why don't you
00:15:31.620 save for retirement you know i remember talking to my girls i have six girls and i said to them
00:15:38.260 I'm, I have six girls.
00:15:39.800 I've worked really hard for you.
00:15:40.820 Don't put me in a nursing home.
00:15:42.160 And my daughter said, don't worry, mom.
00:15:43.940 We got you, you know, which was kind of funny.
00:15:46.500 But there is a practical side of that as well, right?
00:15:49.300 I mean, we all do get older and it's great to grow older
00:15:53.380 with kids and get that kind of help from.
00:15:56.140 So again, now they want entertainment for when they're old.
00:15:59.020 It's not what can I do for the kids?
00:16:00.980 It's what can the kids do for me?
00:16:02.620 Family versus strangers in a nursing home.
00:16:04.580 It's beautiful and it certainly matters more than
00:16:06.680 your bank account.
00:16:07.480 But even if you look at your bank account, one recent study from last year found that your wealth actually goes up by 23%.
00:16:14.220 And again, this is so women marry rich men.
00:16:17.520 That's why your wealth goes up, because the husband's trying to keep up with the wife's spending habits.
00:16:23.820 You don't make money because you like I just sometimes I don't know if these people just don't think critically.
00:16:29.900 why if you're a frugal person you're not like or if you're a hard-working person you're not
00:16:36.180 magically gonna be like a different person just because you got married if you have children over
00:16:42.260 the course of your lifetime so even from a financial practicality perspective this makes
00:16:46.180 sense but ultimately look i don't know what young woman needs to hear this today i hope you're not
00:16:50.060 listening to the likes of these absolutely miserable elitists who want you to stay miserable
00:16:55.340 on The View. It takes courage to commit your life to another person. No, it doesn't. It doesn't take
00:17:00.900 any courage. You got to do it first. It doesn't take any courage to get married because you can
00:17:07.700 divorce him later. That's still on the table. Anybody can say anything. I can say that I'm
00:17:13.080 going to be there for life, but that doesn't mean I'll do it, right? You could feel like you're
00:17:19.020 going to do it, but you haven't actually done it yet. Come back at the 10-year anniversary.
00:17:24.200 certainly in our culture today and even that's a little soon it takes courage to bring new life
00:17:28.880 into the world be courageous dare to fall in love to get married to have kids that's not again none
00:17:35.320 of these things are difficult or hard to do your legacy you'll leave behind is infinitely more
00:17:40.520 important in that area of your life than any paycheck you will ever collect from your employer
00:17:44.960 oh i love that message isn't okay all right we're gonna continue so i disagree with the sentiment
00:17:51.880 have more kids than you can afford before you're ready. I think that this is said by people with
00:17:58.260 the money to have help and people do it for them. There's a few reasons I disagree with this
00:18:05.760 sentiment. Women tend to destroy anything and everything we get our hands on. And that includes
00:18:12.140 men. And many men will not reach their full potential because they're going to be dragged
00:18:16.620 down by their wives women destroy men and unless he's a very strong man which young men typically
00:18:23.180 are not and have not learned those skills he will be destroyed and held back by a woman
00:18:28.380 at this point i am convinced that if young men didn't get married
00:18:32.840 that cancer would be cured and there would be world peace