Pearl - April 12, 2025


Muffins Don’t Fix Being a Bad Parent


Episode Stats


Length

1 minute

Words per minute

180.27292

Word count

251

Sentence count

10

Harmful content

Misogyny

2

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Toxicity

3

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Hate speech

1

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Summary

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In this episode, I talk about how important it is to have a good relationship with your kids and why it's so important to have good relationships with them. I also talk about why I don't care as much about them as I do about my own kids, and why I think it would serve them better if I didn't care so much.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 We have a hard time being a nice person, right?
00:00:02.840 We have a hard time, like, just being pleasant.
00:00:06.080 Like, that's very difficult for us. 0.98
00:00:08.640 You know, not being a bitch, not nagging. 1.00
00:00:11.740 So what we like to do is buy things and hope you forget all of the bad things we do. 0.99
00:00:18.440 And men are easily, like, guilt-tripped.
00:00:20.780 And kids can really, I mean, they can be bought, right?
00:00:23.900 I mean, it's like, you buy my sister concert tickets to Adele, she forgets.
00:00:28.820 you know um so yeah and that's easier than again the hard thing which is like character building
00:00:37.080 like men if they don't build their character they get beat up by other men they get taken
00:00:41.880 advantage of by women like the life happens to them but women we can just be like nah that's too 1.00
00:00:46.840 hard I enjoy being involved in my children's activities and in their lives but I also know
00:00:51.420 they don't need me cheering them on at every game creating scrapbooks for every milestone
00:00:56.180 or welcoming them from home from school with fresh baked muffins in order to feel loved and
00:01:02.480 grow secure into well-rounded adults. While they are central to my life, my world does not revolve
00:01:07.940 around them. I'm sure they love hearing this. Can you imagine reading this? Did you see what
00:01:12.180 your mom wrote about you? She said her life does not revolve around you, nor do I believe it would
00:01:21.880 serve them any better if I did.