Pearl - November 06, 2026


“MY WIFE OBEYS ME!”- Married Man Gets a SAVAGE Reality Check

Double Standards Male Feminist Makes EXCUSES for Cornell Accuser Friendship Expert Gets GHOSTED by Her Friend of 20 YEARS @JustPearlyThings

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00:00:00.000 what would i say traditional yeah just i would say it was a traditional woman would be a woman
00:00:05.520 born in a time that requires her to be traditional and a traditional marriage was in a marriage that
00:00:11.920 was during a time that required people to be traditional but other people probably disagree
00:00:17.040 with that um you could also go with um the natural order of the world which means god men women 0.83
00:00:22.240 children which is impossible with women having leverage but like what year do you feel like was 0.96
00:00:28.080 that cut off here when it stopped i don't know i wasn't alive i just know it's never been
00:00:34.880 we can we can go on semantics right we could argue is it the 60s when no fault divorce happened
00:00:39.920 was it the first sexual revolution in the 20s was it in the 1800s when like because the i believe
00:00:45.680 the tender years doctrine started like early 1800s something like that like there's different points
00:00:51.200 in history because it wasn't like it changed all at once right there was little laws that switched
00:00:56.160 over time and now it's just like a humiliation ritual for men uh but i don't know because i
00:01:02.000 wasn't alive and this is all based on you know what we think but i wasn't alive all i can say
00:01:06.480 is today in my lifetime it's never been traditional well yeah i feel like it's still possible as long
00:01:11.920 as you put god at the head like you were saying the man underneath the woman and the children
00:01:17.200 i feel like why do you feel like people cannot do that today um i think men could so you just
00:01:22.640 you just feel like the women they have no there's just too much power and opportunity
00:01:27.180 you know women are like our biological strategy is to be with the highest status men on the planet 1.00
00:01:34.000 like we want to reproduce with the most attractive men and there's just too much power for women to 0.99
00:01:39.960 either be around those men work with those men and have sex with those men there's too much power 1.00
00:01:44.460 over a long enough time period most women fall if they're attractive enough right but you don't 1.00
00:01:48.980 feel like it's been like that all throughout the past women still had that chance to do that if 1.00
00:01:54.520 they felt like yes but it wasn't as much in the open number one um so i'm sure paternity fraud 0.93
00:02:00.320 has always existed right but it was like before you were just competing with the guys in your town
00:02:05.740 now you're competing like you know the prettiest girl from your high school can literally date
00:02:11.180 you know the top athletes or uh musicians on the planet so you feel like when social media took
00:02:17.780 over that made it more accessible for the women that made it real cooked like if it was cooked
00:02:22.220 before that made it super cooked right yeah and i'm sure you saw it like um i don't know if you
00:02:27.040 remember when social media came into play but i mean you didn't see your sisters or women you're
00:02:33.000 in school with like their demeanor changed they start getting bigger egos they're like glued to
00:02:37.440 their like the whole world changed after that happened but i feel like yeah even with all that
00:02:42.260 they a woman could still choose to have a traditional marriage if she felt yeah she can
00:02:48.580 but you know what whenever i see women that did choose it's like it's women that benefited from
00:02:55.380 feminism and had no other choice you know what i'm saying like it's never the young hot women
00:03:01.140 that chose to do that it's like women that are really fat so do you have a lot of choice if 1.00
00:03:05.940 you're like super like in the dating market um the other thing too is it's women that a lot of times 1.00
00:03:11.780 they made really bad choices in the in the past and now magically they want to be married and
00:03:17.300 usually the women that do it the other way around they do get married young it's like they just 0.98
00:03:21.860 start being super insufferable after like they get married and then they start thirst trapping 0.98
00:03:26.320 on instagram after and i'm like what are we doing what are we doing but do you feel like any of like
00:03:32.480 this red pill stuff could also consider like feminism for men in a certain kind of way no
00:03:38.540 because they'd have to have power what power do men have in this society well usually they have 1.00
00:03:43.660 like financial power most uh no traditional relationships most jobs are being given to women
00:03:49.500 under 30 in major cities women are out earning men all the new jobs have been given to women 0.99
00:03:54.060 but let's say like it's a stay-at-home mom she wouldn't have uh financial power yeah she would 1.00
00:03:58.460 because she could rob her husband but if he's the one working how would she rob him by putting him 1.00
00:04:03.420 on copious amounts of alimony child support and stealing his house and his kids but yeah let's 1.00
00:04:07.660 say they stay together though um well she always can so she has the leverage if anything the 1.00
00:04:13.200 stay-at-home moms have the most leverage in society why do you feel that because they can 1.00
00:04:18.440 steal money from their husband the most money because the way the law works is it's based on 1.00
00:04:23.520 how much time you spend with the kids so if she's a stay-at-home mom she can go to the judge and say 0.79
00:04:27.500 hey i spent the most time with the kids it's in the best interest of the child for them to stay
00:04:32.200 with me even if the dad was a better parent and sometimes they are right he's punished for doing
00:04:38.500 the right thing so yeah the like the red pill one it's not equivalent to feminine they'd have to
00:04:45.240 have power they don't have power but i'm saying like if they stay together every all the accounts 0.99
00:04:49.700 is in his name he controls all the money how does she have any financial power because she can still
00:04:56.460 put him on alimony and child support let's say they don't they don't they stay together they 1.00
00:05:00.760 never get divorced there there's still a threat of that so and the other thing too is that women 0.95
00:05:06.920 are more unreasonable so he would have to have enforcement in order to be in a traditional 0.83
00:05:11.000 marriage you have to be able to enforce what you're saying but now legally um with the expansion
00:05:17.380 of the definition of abuse they include like yell you can't even yell at your wife that can be
00:05:21.960 considered abuse and you see instances like stephen crowder where he wasn't even yelling at his wife
00:05:26.820 he he said a mean word to his wife and everyone's painting him as an abuser there's no criminal court
00:05:31.860 there's no so is this like just across all states is it certain states that recognize the duluth
00:05:36.980 model i have to remember off the top of my head i know it's the majority of states use the duluth
00:05:42.500 model so um yeah so yeah like i think we differ on some things we agree on some but i feel like
00:05:51.780 men still have certain leverages over women i don't feel like women have all the leverages
00:05:56.020 which one and then you also have the bible that also reinforces that the man is supposed to be 1.00
00:06:00.420 the head these bitches don't care about god man what i'm saying it says in the bible that's the 1.00
00:06:05.740 ultimate i know that's also the problem because men fear god women don't but how do you so then 1.00
00:06:11.720 traditional merit based on our choices but it's some women that don't make those choices not all
00:06:17.680 women are like pretty much all like most women okay look let's let's break it down i can actually
00:06:23.660 if you want me i can pull it up yeah do you have large statistics or anything to back that up 0.95
00:06:27.260 oh man i do um give me one second uh let's see this one you want the stats on women um
00:06:37.980 women are not nurturing risks of reputation marriage today oh quality of women here it is
00:06:45.180 all right 15 of women have four more tattoos 31 have to file for a financial delinquency delinquency 0.98
00:06:51.980 50% of women under 30, only 50% of women under 30 even have a positive view of men.
00:06:59.760 56% of women ages 18 to 29 have at least one tattoo. 14% of women reproductive age 18 to 49
00:07:06.900 report having at least one abortion at some point in their life. 23% of young women use medication
00:07:12.760 for depression, anxiety in the last 12 months. The average student loan debt is $31,000 to $38,000.
00:07:18.680 so that's a really big difference is before men got paid to take care of women so they would come
00:07:22.680 with a dowry now women come with debt so it's like reverse uh 37 to 40 percent of women have
00:07:27.800 some sort of mental illness um 10 to 12 percent have severe mental illness on average women do 0.56
00:07:33.320 eight hours of screen time a day 80 of women gain 20 to 25 pounds within the first five years of
00:07:38.200 marriage a quarter of marriages are sexless according to the data which is either done
00:07:43.720 through online dating profile surveys uh dates per marriage method it's one just up to six percent
00:07:50.360 at most of women that are marriageable so even the women like if you're part of the six percent 1.00
00:07:56.200 that's an insane amount of leverage like think about the offers those women are gonna have way 1.00
00:08:00.280 too many offers and then it inflates the women in themselves i feel that really doesn't have 1.00
00:08:04.840 anything to do with like following god or anything like that though most of those sets like really
00:08:09.560 you're not it's your choice like um being overweight that's gluttony it's not following
00:08:14.040 god it's good but yeah it never said yeah for those things what it never said in the bible that
00:08:19.960 you cannot go through the divorce stats yeah okay out of the numbers okay the numbers we went on
00:08:26.440 okay marriage today let me find so to be fair this was we ran these ourselves with census data but
00:08:34.680 out of 50 marriages uh 50 okay half will stay married half get divorced 15 of those divorces
00:08:41.160 are obscenely malicious on the part of financial ruin towards the husband child alienation
00:08:45.960 alienation financial ruin which is a punitive divorce and 27 and a half is the man pays the
00:08:51.880 woman a lot of money where she can support herself and get moderately frequent contact 0.92
00:08:56.040 with the kids still tough but not malicious so i mean that's like half a women they're choosing to 0.99
00:09:01.640 divorce um out of the 55 that stay married 80 gain 20 to 25 pounds a third of those marriages
00:09:08.680 are sexless um the third a quarter it kind of switches based on the source um let's see
00:09:16.840 not to mention ashleymadison.com which has like a ton of users you know i wouldn't just go through
00:09:21.960 this are we dating the same guy chats that's just call her daddy being the top podcast for women
00:09:26.920 like there's just so it just there's women supporting the cornell seven like see i didn't 0.92
00:09:33.880 even know about that there's the lindsey clancy like it's just never ending but that's the thing
00:09:38.500 when you get married you take certain vows it doesn't say only love your wife while she's thin 0.95
00:09:43.420 she could gain weight it says for better or for worse and it says obey and women don't care about
00:09:48.340 that so but that's not saying some women don't know all women go against that i would say pretty
00:09:56.460 much all do at some point i don't yeah from my experience i don't believe that's really all the
00:10:01.780 women just do exactly what their husbands say well yeah i'm married my wife does exactly what
00:10:06.660 you say there's no buts well it never said like it's a dictatorship like she just has to bow down 0.68
00:10:12.380 to anything i said because i'm following god she has to follow me okay but that's just like a
00:10:18.040 workaround can't really you can't let her manipulate you like that man that's what it says in the
00:10:22.520 bible i know but like why would a woman get to decide when you're following god she doesn't know 1.00
00:10:27.880 best well i never said a woman gets i know but that's like if if that's always used by women to 0.73
00:10:33.600 control their husbands because then they get to decide when he's following god and they just get
00:10:37.140 to they get to use the bible and like beat it over his head so you say only women refer to the bible
00:10:42.420 men don't refer to the bible i wish it was like that no women are the ones that use it all the 0.51
00:10:46.360 time to nag everybody okay yeah i don't feel not sure no all right well any closing thoughts my 0.78
00:10:54.880 friend well i feel like uh traditional marriage definitely is possible in 2026 as long as she 0.73
00:11:01.160 does as long as you do what she said put god first the man then the woman all right cool all right