Pearl - Myron Cooks 304s for 14 Minutes Straight

00:00:00.000 Most men don't want to don't marry middle-aged women with children who are struggling and that's 0.85

00:00:04.600 the realistic scenario. You'd be surprised there's a lot of simps out there.

00:00:09.720 Okay so I'm gonna react to this. I mean that are traditional but you know I'd be very

00:00:17.980 foolish to not admit that from the female perspective it's also tough because 0.56

00:00:22.680 feminism hasn't just hurt women it's also hurt men because a lot of guys don't feel the need 0.99

00:00:26.640 to rise up to their duties and be a protector or provider. A lot of guys nowadays want a 50-50

00:00:32.320 relationship with a woman. So I would say step one is make it. Well yeah because and I don't agree 0.98

00:00:39.060 with Myron on this but I do see the thought process when it comes to 50-50 relationships. So Myron

00:00:47.820 I believe from what I've seen he advocates for men to cover all the bills. Now and I've heard men say 0.88

00:00:56.300 that you don't get a certain level of respect from a woman unless you cover like everything in the 0.86

00:01:01.120 relationship. Now the downside of this is again we had this is Shaw on he explained how the child

00:01:08.220 support system works. Men are on the hook for way more child support if they have a stay-at-home wife 0.93

00:01:12.820 and the other issue is in 2025 women aren't having kids like that. So most men have jobs they don't

00:01:19.420 of businesses like Myron. What is this woman going to be doing all day? 1.00

00:01:26.040 So my opinion is a little more nuanced but I do see where he's coming from. I understand

00:01:32.940 the perspective so I'm not I'm not one way or the other. There's pros and cons of both.

00:01:39.780 The way I think about it is if your wife's cheating on the job right you know at least 0.99

00:01:44.200 she's screwing a guy with a job and like she's probably you know screwing her boss and at least 1.00

00:01:50.980 she um how do I how do I say this at least she like how much time is she gonna have to cheat on 1.00

00:01:59.760 you? She's working 40-50 hours a week. If she's a housewife she has all the time in the world to 1.00

00:02:05.480 just you know screw Tom, Dick and Harry so that's the issue. Sure that you find a guy that like believes

00:02:10.520 in traditional values like if you find some progressive guy that wants to go half and half

00:02:13.640 with you that's going to be a miserable existence um and then also you mentioned that you're

00:02:17.340 Christian uh finding someone that has those values as well is going to be super important

00:02:21.280 um and uh you know I will say luckily there's more young men now that are trying to you know

00:02:28.940 adopt this so you know young men are starting to become more and more conservative I think from

00:02:32.120 the last 10-15 years of you know leftist bullshit that they've been dealing with um but yeah it's 0.90

00:02:37.140 still going to be tough man I mean I would say your church um through social groups your family 0.90

00:02:42.660 might know someone um but yeah I would say just definitely um be cautious and take your time

00:02:48.160 you're what 21? No I'm almost 24. 24? Yeah. Oh okay then a little bit of speed then

00:02:53.000 but you don't want to get the 28-30 and not have a guy. I want to be a young mom for sure. Find a guy

00:02:59.120 now for sure. I guess my question was more so like not dating wise. You know what's interesting

00:03:05.020 so the female strategy is to spend all of our youth on ourselves and none on the husband right 1.00

00:03:13.220 to use our youth for our benefit and the male dating strategy is to get the young hot women to 1.00

00:03:18.660 marry and date young so it's interesting because when men say that they're basically saying to women

00:03:23.700 adopt our mating strategy and you can there's a good case for it right they're much better people

00:03:29.680 so they're a lot nicer with it obviously than we are um but it's like interesting so I'm like yeah

00:03:37.120 she's not gonna do that and also the church good luck you're not gonna you're not no that's not

00:03:44.220 gonna work. I guess like because I know my my end goal is that like I want to be home with the kids I

00:03:50.100 want to be cooking I want to be cleaning I want to be the the homemaker but because I'm not there

00:03:54.400 right now like what what should I be doing right now. Oh okay okay I see what you mean not for finding

00:03:57.980 a guy and rather what should you do now preserve your value so so for for men right I always say

00:04:02.540 men have to build their value women have to preserve their value so when women turn 18 0.99

00:04:06.440 you get all the value in the world because now I'm assuming assuming you're like a virgin or have a

00:04:11.520 low body count or whatever like your job from that point forward is to preserve yourself for the best

00:04:15.300 guy yeah so for women just preserve find the guy get married ASAP men create value women got it 1.00

00:04:22.060 yeah but okay the reason this advice is just not helpful where is she gonna find the guy like

00:04:28.720 that's that's the question what's the best she can do where does she find and when does she sleep with 1.00

00:04:33.720 him you know what I mean um because if I'm I'm gonna be more realistic here like 24 you can maybe sell

00:04:42.420 purity um I would say go on a dating app download the app go on date sleep with the guys you're

00:04:54.240 attracted to until one commits um that's really the best unless he he might have a better game plan

00:05:00.120 but you know just preserve there's a lot of women sitting in their apartments doing nothing 1.00

00:05:05.220 but they don't get like I just I have the perspective of like time and see the women that 1.00

00:05:13.120 like don't do it proactively kind of end up by themselves perfect got it all right well thanks

00:05:20.040 you're doing a great job so basically do what you're doing preserve your value don't be a thought

00:05:23.240 got it good thank you cool any single christian guys there there you go you got you got someone

00:05:29.720 here oh who knows you might meet somebody here uh who's up next hey what's up man hardy uh thank

00:05:39.960 you brother appreciate that thank you hello hi how are you all right all right i'm here to debate on

00:05:49.000 why women should not be in the kitchen okay so after marriage i have a question went down on 1.00

00:05:59.720 all right are we back up on youtube yeah on my index okay all right uh go ahead so 50 percent of

00:06:09.380 marriages in the united states end up in divorce correct roughly yeah so 82 percent of men in

00:06:15.700 marriages ask for prenups if you search up that statistic it is true what do you expect women 1.00

00:06:21.500 whose only capability is being in the kitchen and cleaning to do after that divorce with the prenup 0.94

00:06:27.060 well okay that's a dumb argument i could think of okay because the thing is people don't know how

00:06:32.620 to cook and clean so if you actually took your job as a stay-at-home wife seriously you could be 0.94

00:06:37.160 hired you could either be hired as like a maid um and some of them are running businesses like for

00:06:42.800 apartment complexes they're not making bad money um yeah and they don't have any assets or money given

00:06:50.000 to them sure good question well um the family laws actually were written with that taken into

00:06:55.300 account this is why men get destroyed and uh in divorces a lot of times nowadays because

00:06:59.360 what's happened is the family court system was created specifically to protect women from that

00:07:05.200 very problem that you mentioned she devotes her life to him devotes her life to the family to the kids

00:07:09.340 etc and they don't want it where he rug pulls her leaves with everything and she's destitute 1.00

00:07:13.920 so that's why alimony child support all these things were put into place to protect women from that 1.00

00:07:19.580 the problem though is that the other thing too myron like people aren't this is why you kind of gotta

00:07:26.320 adapt with the times women aren't having like there's no reason for women to stay home if they have 0.90

00:07:33.800 less than like two children like okay the first five years of the kid's life sure but just my point of view

00:07:43.520 a lot of stay-at-home wives just are women that don't want to work and they want a retirement plan 1.00

00:07:48.980 um i i don't see a lot of women doing super extravagant cooking to the point 1.00

00:07:55.760 like i don't know i like i've cooked for a family of like four or five

00:08:00.760 it doesn't take that much time like i don't know what i guess if you're doing something super

00:08:08.840 complicated but like you can make a nice rice dish chicken steak like a pasta dish it'll take you

00:08:18.100 what like half hour 40 minutes anyways the laws haven't caught up to feminism and progressivism 1.00

00:08:26.640 giving women you know uh equal rights and equal ability to earn so i would say um number one is

00:08:32.800 now i had a thought okay i'm sorry i'm gonna let this play a little longer i do this sometimes i know

00:08:37.100 i had a thought in a way if women if the women work and the man's a stay-at-home dad i was thinking

00:08:46.740 about this aren't the women like more submissive in a way because they're giving the guy their page 1.00

00:08:55.160 if they do they don't usually it's like demasculating women but yeah okay not probable that your husband's

00:09:00.900 gonna leave you it's actually you know there's a whole phrase it's cheaper to keep her it comes from 0.99

00:09:04.560 the concept that um it's cheaper for a guy to simply just stay married versus divorce his wife

00:09:09.480 most women have initiated divorce like 90 percent um so i would say there's safeguards in there to 1.00

00:09:14.880 kind of deal with the problem that you mentioned which i get it is a viable concern but the family

00:09:18.960 court deals with it so you believe that even though men may not leave their women because it's cheaper

00:09:23.960 a woman should stay in her marriage let's say he cheated let's say other issues because there are 1.00

00:09:28.820 other reasons for marriage other than the men specifically leaving the woman yeah um so your

00:09:34.540 question is do they cheat or what do you know i'm saying that for example a woman might have to leave

00:09:40.140 under her own circumstances not because the men believes that the marriage should end shouldn't end

00:09:44.860 because it's cheaper a woman might leave other in any other way yeah so when she's out in the world 0.99

00:09:51.500 she cannot get a job because she had not got a college education and her only experience was

00:09:56.620 working in a kitchen that is just not true okay you could get a job in a new kitchen you could be a

00:10:03.260 private chef like where is the problem solving skills because that is what some men like you

00:10:10.780 believe she should be doing yeah i mean well the thing is is that if she leaves that's her personal

00:10:15.340 decisions that she's got to deal with the consequences of that right like if she's going to go ahead and

00:10:19.380 break up her family and leave her husband um there's going to be negative consequences to that

00:10:24.000 right like you know i didn't see any complaints for the 10 years where she was with him and she

00:10:27.420 didn't have to work and she was able to kind of plus you got 10 years of raising kids doing daycare 0.98

00:10:32.420 my sister works at a daycare chill and you know live a certain lifestyle um but then she wants to leave 1.00

00:10:41.720 and be able to say okay well i don't want to deal with negative consequences of breaking up my family

00:10:45.300 and i think that's kind of the bad part is women prioritize their happiness in a relationship over 1.00

00:10:51.780 their duty and uh they'll leave because they're not happy do you believe happiness is considered

00:10:57.020 should be considered whether it's in domestic abuse situations let's say your husband abuses his wife

00:11:04.160 do you believe the woman should stay there in that relationship which could cause trauma to the child

00:11:08.500 because of the family's happiness now obviously you're being specific with domestic violence

00:11:14.220 though that does occur it's not the majority of reasons right um it just comes down to women just 1.00

00:11:19.200 not being well here's the thing let's be very let's have a very honest conversation here a lot 0.98

00:11:24.620 of these phrases are bullshit oh verbal abuse oh emotional abuse it can literally be him saying yo 0.97

00:11:30.560 you need to do xyz or him him critiquing her and she'll say that's verbal abuse the problem is that 0.99

00:11:35.360 we've basically conflated valid criticism or anything that needs to be said in relationship to keep it

00:11:40.340 going as abuse and we tend to defer to what women say and believe them on at face value for everything

00:11:45.900 that they say so what's ended up happening is women don't really take accountability in relationships 1.00

00:11:49.880 anymore and everything is verbal abuse or i'm being uh assaulted or um excuse me or verbal assault i've 0.99

00:11:56.560 heard like stupid shit like this he might say hey you know what i need you to do xyz should look at 0.99

00:12:01.240 that as this is abusive so not only has it been where we've created like this weird environment where 1.00

00:12:06.600 women want to go ahead and destroy relationships we've also created stupid vernacular to um kind 1.00

00:12:12.580 of try to criminalize or um pejoratively label constructive criticisms or healthy conversations 1.00

00:12:18.180 within relationships because in other words the man is always wrong the woman is always right 0.97

00:12:23.340 so i feel like you're kind of deflecting my point i'm talking about in a scenario that there is domestic

00:12:28.340 abuse and it is in fact if she's being assaulted she should leave yes but that is not the majority

00:12:33.020 okay but let's say there is a woman who in this scenario is yeah you do believe that she should 0.99

00:12:37.300 stay in the kitchen this woman well if he's beating her ass then no obviously yeah she goes into the real 1.00

00:12:42.280 world with a child because obviously no woman is going to leave her child with an abuser with no 1.00

00:12:46.980 experience no job no degree no woman is this is why myron lost his hair and to get a transplant to 0.97

00:12:54.300 survive in that world because we live in an economy where things are extremely expensive

00:12:57.660 where you do need a degree to survive unless you're going to marry again well and most men

00:13:03.600 don't want to don't marry middle-aged women with children who are struggling and that's the realistic 0.99

00:13:08.980 you'd be surprised there's a lot of simps out there

00:13:10.860 that's what i say too because i used to say i swear to god i used to say no guy will ever take her

00:13:22.020 and that life just kind of i was like oh yes they will you would be surprised um you'd be surprised

00:13:30.220 there's a lot of steps out there that would that would do that again um i see the scenario the 0.99

00:13:37.720 specific scenario you're mentioning yes if a guy is beating his wife's ass yeah she should leave 1.00

00:13:42.020 but that isn't the majority of the situations a lot of times it's the woman feels like i could do better 0.99

00:13:46.900 i'm bored or you know i just don't feel the spark anymore we grew apart all these bullshit phrases 0.80

00:13:51.220 that women use to justify breaking up with a guy because they're not happy anymore and they leave 0.97

00:13:55.380 so um it's not the dv like you're claiming that that could be a part of it but that's a minority

00:14:00.580 also men are more commonly in marriages to commit infertility than women so to commit what infer

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Myron Cooks 304s for 14 Minutes Straight

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