00:09:57.220But the reality is being a nice guy typically always puts you on your back foot.
00:10:02.700And I think in today's day and age where women have an enormous amount of leverage in a dating marketplace,
00:10:06.920guys need to kind of go in there with their eyes wide open so they don't put themselves in a bad situation.
00:10:11.360So generalizations are typically how the world works.
00:10:13.880Of course, there's always going to be anomalies.
00:10:15.220There's always going to be exceptions to the rule.
00:10:17.400But I think in general, men need to operate from a position where they're mitigating risk and not investing too much up front.
00:10:23.500Because we have way more on the line than women do when we get in relationships.
00:10:28.180Yeah, because women can literally ruin your life.
00:10:30.860they destroy men they do it all the time shannon sharp cooked he's done cooked doesn't even matter
00:10:37.660if he's guilty or innocent one accusation cooked done so you say like sex do you think that's the
00:10:45.240the end goal of a relationship like where do you view that well it's the main agency that women
00:10:50.360have what if you don't give them that agency though if you have like different priorities
00:10:55.580generally like the man or the woman the man okay what do you mean by that if you can kind of like
00:11:02.300if you don't go into a relationship just expecting to get that out of it then there's really no
00:11:06.900leverage there if that's not something you really want out of that person well a lot of the time
00:11:10.200that's cope right so like guys will sit there and they'll be taking a girl on her seventh
00:11:13.720seventh day they've been talking for like three four five months six months and they'll sit there
00:11:17.380and cope like oh no like we're i'm just building something up but the reality is she's fucking
00:11:21.380some other guy yeah what's the longest you guys are gonna wait for a girl that you perceive to be
00:11:26.900good to be a good girl what what's your max in 2025 here is here's what i've seen
00:11:38.740i think guys will give you a month maybe six weeks if you can really pull that purity card
00:11:44.900tell marriage only a simp she's blown somebody sorry guys i went to catholic school i saw the
00:11:54.300girls doing this workaround you know what i mean like they always get you but
00:11:59.520the women they just have to have a very gentle voice and you guys fall for it a lot
00:12:05.280you said yeah troy says a couple weeks mr nice guy says one hour get out of here what are you chad
00:12:14.200you are gonna you'll wait longer than an owl come on right um and the reality is that men need to
00:12:23.780understand that women right they sell purity they sell sugar and spice and everything nice
00:12:30.420but what will happen is they'll open themselves up sexually to the men that they respect and
00:12:33.960aroused by and then make the nice guy wait right and they're able to kind of double dip doing that
00:12:38.160so i think with guys they got to basically push for sex fairly quickly in a relationship
00:12:44.180to ensure that they're not getting used i think that is their main i mean just let's be honest
00:12:52.740here like that is their main commodity their main agency like if women didn't have vaginas we
00:12:57.340wouldn't care no one would talk to them i wouldn't say that because that's like that's like half the
00:13:00.540population you just like dehumanize and half the population with that statement i mean well it's
00:13:05.600the reality we're put on earth to procreate correct so men our job is to provide resources
00:13:10.420their job is to extract resources and it's been this way at the beginning of
00:13:14.860time the only reason we're able to have this whole you know moral situation is
00:13:19.740because of modernity and the access to technology and how we progressed but the
00:13:23.560reality is you know in times of when times are not peaceful we get closer and
00:13:28.780closer to our traditional gender roles right there is no feminism when the
00:13:32.220lights are off there is no feminism with war there is no feminism when it comes
00:13:35.900to preserving society and moving on forward so you know the reality is is that that's why the
00:13:41.820genders deal with each other men provide resources women provide access to sex
00:13:52.460that's the face and then make when they know something is true but they can't say it they
00:13:56.700get this half smile it's like silence what it's like when i had a conversation with someone the
00:14:05.020other day i was like women spend more and i even said i said look if you made the money i made
00:14:13.180at one point wouldn't you have done something better with it he's like yeah because he was
00:14:18.380like well some women are smart and i'm like even smart women make dumb decisions
00:14:22.380i i know another person i'm trying to be more broad guys so this i've had to do in my show
00:14:28.860um i had another person i know and she was very intelligent she was an engineering major
00:14:35.020She completed the I think she became like a mechanical engineer went to grad school. She still got like $150,000 worth of student debt and then bought a house
00:14:45.960We make dumb decisions all the time all the time just says what it is
00:16:18.900Also, I don't think lesbians or lesbianism is real.
00:16:21.940I think it's just confusion a lot of the times.
00:16:26.860Because the reality is, like, see, because I've interviewed maybe almost 4,000 girls on my show.
00:16:32.360And girls that say that they're lesbian or bisexual, I always like to ask them, well, if you have to pick one gender for the rest of your life, who are you going to pick?
00:16:39.100And nine out of ten times it's the men.
00:16:40.800And the reason why is because men have to provide value in a relationship.
00:29:00.320But you're not going to have the conversation if she doesn't find you attractive up front.
00:29:03.220So, like, whenever women talk about, like, men that they like or whatever or, like, what they're looking for or the personality traits he's supposed to have,
00:29:09.340they're talking from the frame of they assume attraction.
00:29:12.260They assume he's already six feet tall and he's good looking or whatever.
00:35:09.500You know, I like I'm not having kids just as I'm crazy. Yeah. From the from the nuclear family perspective, I say that kind of, you know, as a joke.
00:35:15.740but yeah i mean i think uh the backbone of any thriving society is the nuclear family and if
00:35:21.580people aren't contributing to that um i think it's problematic for society so you know gay men and
00:35:26.620lesbian women the lesbian women totally useless but the here's the thing i'm pretty sure some of
00:35:32.060the best artists in history were gay and like musical composers so hey if a man if a man like
00:35:39.020we all know and not all not all not all there are exceptions but oftentimes men are the ones
00:35:44.540inventing things right so like if a gay guy's invented stuff and like building
00:35:52.940i mean that's still i would still say that's contributing if they're still doing the
00:35:56.220infrastructure jobs i mean most men haven't reproduced in history so
00:36:02.140the gay men are just kind of like filling out most men's
00:36:07.420like what's going on now is really just nature correcting itself uh don't contribute to that
00:36:12.380unfortunately and i don't think gay men should be able to adopt children either i think that's
00:36:15.180crazy i don't think i agree that i agree lesbian women should be able to adopt children either
00:36:19.020i think kids need to be protected at all costs and uh exposing them to sexual degeneracy is a
00:36:24.380problem because that's what homosexuality and lesbianism is i'm a firm believer that you know
00:36:30.860gays and lesbians need to go back in the closet we don't need that stuff outwardly
00:50:14.100Would you say that over time, generally speaking, with how society has come, how culture has come, to where we are at this current point, are you content with how the world is today?
00:50:24.100With society? Are you happy with how society has turned out?
00:50:28.100What exactly, do you have any issues with modern society?
00:50:31.520Well, I mean, look, obviously there's pluses and negatives,
00:57:36.800meditation that it it provides when you say the word obey yeah because here's the thing i find
00:57:41.920interesting that on my end i'm protecting and providing and the one thing i ask in return is
00:57:45.920for her to obey but that's a problem see that's that's that's because here's the thing let's be
00:57:51.120be honest here right so this is what i mean when i say modern feminism poisons women women want a
00:57:57.020guy who's going to be a protector and a provider and a good man but if he asks hey i need you to
00:58:01.560obey me in return she'll say i don't like that word why do i need to obey you well you need to
00:58:05.840obey me because i'm the one that's responsible for you so if i'm responsible for you that means i'm
00:58:10.820supposed to have authority over you as well well if you would like to have a conversation without
00:58:14.920putting words in my mouth where i said that i was i had a problem with the term like obeying people
00:58:20.300I just said that if you want other people to agree with you, maybe find a different term that would, you know, kind of incline people to agree.
00:58:27.160Secondly, well, that's the problem. People are too soft. That's the truth. We need women to obey us.
00:58:30.800Says the guy who's here complaining about women?
00:58:33.920No, I said women need to obey men. I'm saying the problem is that we have this society where people just don't want to be honest and say what it is.
00:58:40.220But I'm being honest and telling you that people don't like the word obey.
01:24:56.440So men, we have to get used to being rejected.
01:24:59.860we have to get used to picking ourselves up off the ground failing and trying again so most men
01:25:06.660are gonna find the red pill it's not a matter of if it's a matter of when so you know me you know
01:25:12.580i was married and divorced i told you i'm one of those 90s raised r&b you know you know urkel
01:25:20.980on tv type where i thought that you know being a nice guy and you know being romantic and stuff
01:25:27.060and i got burned you know luckily you know i made it out i don't have any children you know i'm
01:25:31.540rather successful but you know most most of us guys we're gonna get burned somehow it's not a
01:25:37.140matter of if it's a matter of when and it's about how bad right yeah well for me my roommate um and
01:25:44.020my business partner at the time um yeah for him he he's um he was born in an asian country i'm
01:25:52.420i'm not trying to get too specific because it's some personal details but he uh he came to us
01:25:57.940when he was 12 years old and yeah he just really struggled through through life but then made it
01:26:04.180on the other side and made it successful but um he only got successful around like 33 34
01:26:10.740and he was no joke he was like a 31 year old virgin and not because of any religious reasons
01:26:15.860like wanted to get laid and in college could not get laid throughout just was ignored lived
01:26:20.740in detroit michigan as an asian guy right so it was a very like very difficult uh situation for
01:26:26.020him so it and a lot of the same things we all believe oh if you're just nice and treat women
01:26:30.980great and buying flowers like they're just gonna fall in love with you and yeah he he went through
01:26:36.020a really horrific experience and literally took him like get you know all the things and he
01:26:41.060literally had to get jacked make two hundred thousand dollars a month all this crazy stuff
01:26:46.020um to just get just to get some like third-rate pussy right and that was like his big wake-up
01:26:52.580call i was like dude i did all that work just to get like a really like crappy chick and do it
01:26:58.600yeah and that did it so it did actually help me a lot because i was you know i was very uh
01:27:04.180yeah kind of naive and i was such a workaholic i didn't even think about dating in my early 20s
01:27:09.940so to me yeah i just i just wasn't paying attention i was just all i could care about
01:27:14.960was work and he was the one that was telling me like dude if you don't learn this and i give him
01:27:19.260a lot of credit actually because he said if you don't learn this you're going to get screwed
01:27:22.200because you're a guy who makes a lot of money too he's like so you're like you don't you want
01:27:26.320to learn this now like don't think that oh you're just focused on making money i mean ignore this
01:27:32.220he's like if like you'll find a woman and you'll think oh she's really nice to you and she'll
01:27:37.000ruin your life and take half your stuff there you go so he i give him actually a lot of credit but
01:27:43.100yeah it was it was a slow process i'm not gonna lie and like it was a really hard journey because
01:27:47.460he was already in the deep end at that point and so it was like it was very jarring for me when he
01:27:55.300would show me this content like it was so jarring and now it's hilarious because i consider myself
01:28:00.720like way more explicit than he he ever was to me back then but yeah it was it is crazy to think
01:28:07.260back then the things i would think are controversial like i remember thinking it was
01:28:10.320controversial this idea of like oh men providing like it like men really are mainly the providers
01:28:16.940even that i was like no no my mom is a successful you know biologist right like no like my mom was
01:28:23.280the breadwinner my dad stayed at home and see it worked out they never got divorced but of course
01:28:28.380i'm doing the thing that all of us do is we try to cherry pick anecdotal stats instead of looking
01:28:34.340at actual generalized statistics and the statistics are if the woman's the breadwinner and the guy
01:28:39.420isn't the divorce rate's like 95 it's like some insane what happened to your friend did he end up
01:28:45.740ever getting a hotter girl or was he stuck with the three for life no because now he's like 36 37
01:28:52.940um it's funny because we ended up like reconnecting um a few weeks ago and no he is he is juggling
01:28:59.260like nine girls right now rotation of all rotations it's like he's playing russian roulette with the
01:29:06.540checks it's great and john you part of it i've told you before shiv you you may be doing well
01:29:13.660now but just wait till you hit 35 man the whole world opens up when you turn 35 i don't know what
01:29:18.460i don't know why but just boom i'm i'm excited and the biggest lesson i've learned um from the red
01:29:28.220pill is the two greatest powers a man has is being able to walk away and to determine who your
01:29:39.540girlfriend fiance and wife is don't ever let anything to try to take those two things away
01:29:44.300from you yeah well i think the biggest thing too was um what's really funny now in abundance
01:29:52.440um because when you're at least for me in your early 20s you you get kind of this one-itis right
01:29:58.680you just try to grab on to any girl that you know has any level of interest in you and what's really
01:30:04.140great now is and so you would you know she doesn't text you for two days you get like anxiety like
01:30:08.560oh what am I gonna do and now it's hilarious because it's so weird to be on the other side
01:30:12.600where like I'm the guy who doesn't text them for multiple days and then I have to like make some
01:30:15.600bullshit excuse right like I would be like oh sorry like you know my iCloud account was weird
01:30:21.160sorry like uh yeah i thought i responded back and i guess bad cell signal whoops um and here's the
01:30:30.780thing your your next evolution don't give a story at all don't explain it all why no for sure for
01:30:41.060sure you don't have to so if you if you stop calling a girl and she says why don't you call
01:30:45.820you just move past it say i'm here now just move that was great no it's honestly it's just it's
01:30:53.100just the funniest like in the world of looking back even yeah from 25 year old me to to now
01:30:59.580i almost think we should make a law that like guys should not be allowed to get married until they're
01:31:04.06030 because god i feel it's this is by far the greatest era because i feel like at 30 is like
01:31:09.500when you only start to really know yourself as a guy um that's just me but like i feel
01:31:14.700the guess it's awesome i highly recommend it for those of you who are younger uh
01:31:19.100just wait until your 30th freaking awesome and then for doug's credit wait until you're 35.
01:31:25.260maybe even 40. 45. awesome yeah doug mpa i'm curious do you think there's a cap where you
01:31:32.860think a guy is waiting too long for what like if he wants children because no no okay well so okay
01:31:42.460because my dad he'd always said he was glad he did it and and my my dad like his life just kind
01:31:51.320of worked out so i'm not prescribing this at all but he said he was glad he did it when he did um
01:31:57.320which i believe he was late 20s early 30s maybe and he said it was because he didn't want to be
01:32:02.420an old dad at like the kid's graduation like he didn't want to be super old with kids well that's
01:32:08.280That's what I was going to say, you know, the only decision the man has to make is, do you want to be 65 when your kid's graduating high school?
01:32:18.020But other than that, you know, do you want to be 70 when your kid turns 21?
01:32:21.920That's the only decision the man really has to make.
01:32:24.740Besides, you know, because here's the thing.
01:32:27.520Well, Barron's killing it, you know, Barron seems fine.
01:32:34.980I mean, ironically, girl, your dad is in such great shape.
01:32:37.980i would have never in a million trillion years guessed he was like in his 60s so like he like
01:32:43.860he to me looks like a young dad like he doesn't so it is kind of ironic that he didn't want to be
01:32:48.760a you know an old dad but he seems i know he's a young dad even though he's in the 60s and like i
01:32:55.240i think i think where for me the only thing i would argue is some guys and i love doug's opinion
01:33:01.400on this i feel like some guys though the kids like if they're with the right woman of course
01:33:06.120like having kids puts them into the very serious like they they get a spiritual level of motivation
01:33:12.500and drive and it's things become greater than yourself right and so i do find there is some
01:33:18.200like the responsibility level of really finding your true potential sometimes when when guys have
01:33:23.620kids it goes through the roof and you just have built-in discipline um but i don't know if that's
01:33:29.880just like uh you know limiting but i guess the other argument i just thought of is that if you
01:33:36.400do it at 30 at least if she ruins your life at 40 you can recover at like 50 or 60 that's going to
01:33:43.480be tougher right yeah i think kids that's always just tricky though because like you can also argue
01:33:51.120like if you get married too young it's so easy to have kids and like pick the wrong woman and not
01:33:57.720know what you you know I got yeah there's no right or wrong it's just it's a hard one it's a hard one
01:34:04.100but I definitely think like the people who I don't think in in modern society a guy having kids
01:34:11.020before 30 is the most conducive anymore yeah but I'm also not in the camp of like wait until you're
01:34:18.400you're 50 or something I'm I just think that yeah you gotta you gotta just have life experience
01:34:23.400some battle stars for the guy oh yeah 20s you're gonna be cooked sorry fellas cooked absolutely
01:34:30.760cooked and also you talk about this whole you know a man had kids and then has a greater
01:34:36.520responsibility but the biggest problem because it used to be the man had a greater responsibility
01:34:41.160than himself it used to be his wife and his family but now you have the man who has a greater
01:34:45.560responsibility than himself to his wife and his family but his wife is just thinking about herself
01:34:49.800not the kids not the husband it's all about me me me my my my like johnny gill
01:34:55.940so you'll be thinking about the wife and the family and the kids she'll be thinking about
01:35:01.960herself yeah it's it's it's a hard situation right because like i feel um the guy's responsibilities
01:35:13.060are also legally bound and the girls aren't so yeah you you have a kind of a skewed up
01:35:18.780chessboard um but i guess for someone like me there's a really good prenuptial agreement so
01:35:23.900i'm gonna look into that yeah fun cool well thanks for calling in shiv
01:35:30.380appreciate it as always shout out your channel while you're here
01:35:36.140what i said shout out your channel while you're here yeah it's um youtube.com slash shiv s-h-i-v
01:35:42.300iyer a i y a r i'm gonna put it in the chat right now cool thanks for calling in shiv
01:35:51.340yeah absolutely see ya yeah all right who we got next
01:36:51.420So what are your thoughts on the topic?
01:36:54.700What do you think about what responsibility do Red Pill content creators have in 2025 for men's choices?
01:37:02.740uh i i think it's really it's really just kind of aggressively putting men into the best uh
01:37:14.340the best position to to to deal with the i guess you caught the dating climate right now because
01:37:21.940right now like i mean i don't know times move so fast uh like when i was younger i was just
01:37:28.740just run around like smashing everybody i could and spend all my money and uh like i wish i would
01:37:36.860have had this content back then because i would i would have saved a lot i know i've spent at least
01:37:40.920at least one house uh trying to trying to catch some women you know dang even with the two jobs
01:37:48.360i was working like three i would i would i would get off at midnight and i'd go pick a chick up
01:37:55.560Like, do something quick and then, like, just go home and get, like, four hours of sleep.
01:38:02.040Yeah, his last show, he said he met women by getting jobs, like, part-time jobs.
01:38:09.300What you got to do, dude, go work at a grocery store at, like, midnight because girls think, like, that's a great job, like, stocking a grocery store.
01:38:17.600And sometimes you get a hot one and they quit in, like, two weeks.
01:38:21.460So, you know, it's a really good turnover.
01:38:25.560Um, so, okay. So are they, are red pill content creators giving out advice for men to follow
01:38:32.920or just giving men tools to be able to make better decisions?
01:38:40.160Uh, well, I think that probably number two, because, um, it's tough to follow. Like,
01:38:49.360it's, it's hard. I think it's hard for men to go online and be like, I'm going to get
01:38:53.600something that i'm going to take home later i'm going to follow this all the time uh so i think
01:38:59.020that the stories just give you give us the tools like hey maybe i'll hold off on this one uh
01:39:05.500definitely definitely the tools for success i mean but you know guys are dumb so we're still
01:39:11.820gonna mess up like we can have everything but uh yeah i can't deny a beautiful woman
01:39:17.160what what was your red pill moment did you have one oh yeah oh man
01:39:24.340I was just chained dude okay so I was dating this girl I really liked but then I was at the bar
01:39:36.960and uh and this girl like this girl grabbed I don't know she just she grabbed my ass and said
01:39:45.800she really liked me and she asked me for a ride home and the girl that i was dating was like
01:39:51.000are you coming over tonight i said yeah and but you know if a girl if a girl asked me for a ride
01:39:58.000home i'm not saying no to that so i took her home and she told me i should park and i was like oh
01:40:03.440this is great you know so i did my thing there and then i drove to my girl's house and i didn't
01:40:09.740even get to shower and i did my thing there and they both found out and then no one wanted anything
01:40:16.400to do with me and um like it just kind of ruined a lot like i lost a job i lost i lost a lot of
01:40:25.880things and you lost a job because you smashed it was because it was my boss the girl i was dating
01:40:34.680with my boss and yeah she yeah everyone you know just can't can't sleep with who you work with i
01:40:41.960was like really crazy when i was younger um at least yeah hopefully i can like people like oh
01:40:49.080your daughter's gonna date guys like you i tell them no i'm not i don't know she's not because
01:40:53.800i'm gonna teach her not to be an idiot wait so wait hold on hold on so how was that a red pill
01:40:59.880moment because you lost your job i just i just lost like because the woman i was dating she
01:41:04.920should have protected my employment oh okay
01:41:12.760and i just and i just knew then there was no there was no honor among thieves
01:41:21.480yeah but like i mean like so let me get this when my ex took my kid i already knew she was
01:41:28.360i already knew she was dastardly and i was like women are evil at that back then i knew i was
01:41:33.240like women are up to no good all the time okay so you're let me get this straight your red pill
01:41:38.120moment was because you cheated on the were you like it was your girlfriend yeah so you were
01:41:44.680dating your boss and you had sex with a girl right before her you didn't even shout did anyone catch
01:41:51.800anything no okay so that's okay um and so you expected her to not fire you after yeah i didn't
01:42:01.260think she'd fire me but then it was like her and then there was like a clique of women when i would
01:42:06.640get into work and they just everyone just stopped talking to me and i just i felt so ashamed of
01:42:12.640my actions and you should have just like i went home and i like wrote about it i was like i was
01:42:18.060such a little bitch you know i tried to hit on girl number three i've been so funny imagine if
01:42:25.700you just you just tried to run through the entire click dude there's no such thing as bad publicity
01:42:32.020you know that's fine oh that's so funny okay um doug mpa do you have any other questions for him
01:42:40.520no man that's always good to talk to you man yeah thanks for having me have a good one guys
01:54:28.320And so what responsibility do Red Pill content creators have in 2025 for men's decisions?
01:54:36.340Yeah. You know, since I have that background in the military, you know, I've kind of always like everybody's accountable for their own decisions if they're grown adults, even kids to a point. So it's like, I don't blame content creators. I see something like I've worked many government organizations. So let's say an example, right? Pearl, you or CJ or somebody else, right? Y'all create content.
01:54:59.220and someone else will find your content right and they'll be like oh man i like what pearl talks or
01:55:04.300fresher fit and then they'll evolve right where they move on right from consuming their content
01:55:10.620maybe changing their life right maybe they get their economics maybe they get their health in
01:55:15.240shape maybe they get the bible like that one guy right he got the bible now right and instead of
01:55:21.240just realizing that that person was a drill instructor meaning a part of their growth and
01:55:26.280development they'll come back and be like oh man drill instructor you still talking the same stuff
01:55:32.060and you're wrong you know now that i got the bible and i found my girl you were detrimental to my
01:55:38.220life and it's like they don't see that that person was instrumental in their life right they affected
01:55:43.820them in positive ways and they just moved on and i think most people who are finding themselves in
01:55:49.980the red spill or red pill space those content creators that's what they do they're drill
01:55:54.620instructors, right? So they continue to train people and new recruits come into learning the
01:55:59.640red pill. And so though they might be stagnant and repeat the same things, other people just find
01:56:07.240the red pill space, right? So they need to be indoctrinated and learn about things. So I think
01:56:12.840everybody has their own space and I don't really go back and forth with, oh man, they told me
01:56:18.620something and my life's destroyed because of them no they're just a tool do you know who i think did
01:56:24.860that really hard um hafiz he got like one he got like one hot chick and then crashed out on the
01:56:32.540red pill crashed out besides getting body slammed by cga and everything like he had one he got
01:56:42.200pedigree like straight on television so it was pretty bad adam set him up man but yes you're
01:56:49.320right that that was a perfect i think if he's had such a big ego he would have did it anyway
01:56:54.920and if he knew it was coming he crashed out on the space that crashed out on me he crashed out
01:56:59.880on me the next day yeah like i would try to i didn't oh my gosh that was such a weird experience
01:57:07.560because he just ran my show where like i i felt like i was being gaslit because he would go on
01:57:13.640like a really long monologue and i'd try to say something and be like stop interrupting me and i'm
01:57:17.740like wait what yeah and i'm like am i interrupting i don't know no the way i think i'm like maybe i
01:57:25.520was maybe i talked too much and then i watched it back and i said like 10 words the whole time
01:57:32.160like now wait hold on i'm not the crazy one here yeah yeah right yeah yeah now he's gone
01:57:38.700now he's off the internet i don't know where he went right after he crashed out the roommate's
01:57:46.680channel just ceased to exist pretty much unless yeah i think he went somewhere i think he came
01:57:51.840back recently i don't know it might have been like i don't know i think he has been going live
01:57:57.100and covering different things but he's spitting all over the camera when he's talking so it's
01:58:02.000kind of hard to watch suck a tash yeah man shout out to him though man but i get it i get it he had
01:58:08.720his own little groove and then of course as i say i think everybody's useful um to an extent and
01:58:14.740everybody has a different walk of life like the guy who was blaming mine and saying like jesus
01:58:19.060christ was his way you know of course you know everybody from the bible has stories before they
01:58:24.040got to god and so again your path makes you it molds you and i don't tend to look back at cga
01:58:31.140and be like because i ain't listening to him every day he's garbage no i've evolved he was
01:58:36.420a part of my development and i think it was my choice at the end of the day so i would never
01:58:40.660place blame on a content creator i think that's childish you are a grown functional adult it is
01:58:47.780your choice no i was like what are you that makes sense yeah i'm like that's what women do
01:58:52.740that we just exactly are we supposed to be in this space
01:58:55.220but i think what happens when you lead this can happen too i'll talk about this too like i've led
01:59:02.740a lot from the military and private sector but it's like people have choices and as often as
01:59:09.820leaders you forget about followership like mean you know like some people you got to put them in
01:59:15.040the brig pearl you can't lead them so now it doesn't matter how good of a general or a captain
01:59:20.500I am, right? They're a serial killer, right? So they need to go to prison. You can't lead somebody
01:59:26.380out of that sometimes. And so people make their own choices and their own decisions in life.
01:59:31.340And followers have their own responsibility. So I would never like, I think, you know,
01:59:36.200you could lead and be like, I'm going to save everybody. You know, they got to decide to want
01:59:41.240to save themselves. Yeah, I know. And that's like, I think that's a really big part of maturing
01:59:45.720is when I think when you're younger, you may blame somebody else or like having the wrong
01:59:50.760information or your parents or whatever the hell it is. But I think part of maturing is realizing
01:59:57.100that even when you did something with the wrong information, you still wanted to do it.
02:00:02.700Like there's no, it was your parent, you know, because there's people with terrible parents
02:00:07.980that one, one brother turns out to be a serial killer, like you said, and one turns out to be
02:00:13.840a really successful adult right and so at some point it's just what you wanted to do and same
02:00:19.520thing with the horrors right like everyone's saying they don't want to be horrors but you know
02:00:24.500these guys want to absolve them like that guy probably that was carrying the bible they know
02:00:28.560not what they do eve knew what she did and so did adam and i think that story was all about
02:00:34.520self-agency yeah eve blamed the snake and adam blamed eve they both passed the buck but god
02:00:41.880gave them free will so the end in the end of the story was to teach you everybody has their free
02:00:47.640choice it's up to you well and don't blame the snake or eve and i think too like i think sometimes
02:00:54.200those guys get really empathetic to women that like they like we sleep out of our league right
02:00:58.600and then we get our feelings hurt but men get their feelings hurt all the time so you're supposed
02:01:02.840to like take that l eat it and then find your find your league right that happens yeah yeah i mean men
02:01:10.280go for a girl out of their league they get rejected and then they eat it and then they
02:01:14.680figured out what their like their league is but these guys they believe the women you know and
02:01:20.140they like women have these sob stories and i can tell a guy's blue pill if he believes them
02:01:25.560because like if a woman picks an abusive guy that's what she wanted at the time
02:01:31.860it doesn't mean she'll want it forever but like at the time or like a player guy it's like that's
02:01:37.440what she wanted because there's a plethora of guys that are not like that that you can pick from
02:01:44.640am pearl there's a book there's books that have been written by words of women
02:01:49.520that is called why women have seg yeah they wrote it so you know some guys we like to believe no man
02:01:57.040you know in order for a girl to be with you she got to be emotionally attached it's like now the
02:02:02.480book even said with women saying it from 60 to 40 to 20 they're like look i wanted to taste some
02:02:09.600chocolate so i tried it i don't want to be in a relationship i don't want to get married to that
02:02:13.120guy i wanted to try some chocolate yeah like but guys don't believe that they're like oh no she a
02:02:18.240victim to feminism in society it's like nah they've been thotting and bopping all the way back and
02:02:24.880every time and every time a girl oh my gosh every time a guy says my girl is different she's so
02:02:30.560oh she different yeah yeah yeah and then she so conveniently moved from out of town did you know
02:02:36.240her in high school and again i'm like can you can you verify can you verify that she was doing none
02:02:42.240of these things yeah what that mouth did i think that's what she said well into catholic school i
02:02:47.780saw the workarounds like exactly bro i saw the i've only i've only been with two men well you
02:02:57.040blue 10 so like what's the difference right exactly you might as well you might as well
02:03:03.260have just caught a body at that point like what's the i just say humanize humanize people
02:03:11.740humanize your girl she can do that she is not different she is human not alien and so net net
02:03:19.020just humanize her i think the guy the last guy was super stoic the one who said i didn't get
02:03:25.280emotional i didn't get mad and start raging and start like you know what i'm saying calling up
02:03:30.480the cops and my friends he said he said oh okay and he collected more intel he collected more intel
02:03:37.280and then he checkmated so that's what you do now somebody probably wasn't that's rude that's mean
02:03:43.920that's manipulative that's why you're losing the war but for him he was able to maintain
02:03:49.040his emotionals that's eq emotional intelligence and then later on use the information and its
02:03:54.880benefit that saved his children so shout out to that guy yeah you know what that reminds me of
02:04:00.480we're doing a show we're probably um maybe tomorrow actually called poker face and it's
02:04:07.000talking about exactly that like the question is going to be what is like the craziest thing a
02:04:12.940girl has said to you where you've had to keep on a poker face because like women we don't really
02:04:17.580we've never had to learn one but men from a young age they hear something messed up and they freak
02:04:22.740out and it doesn't go well and so they have to learn like to not let it show when we say something
02:04:29.220messed up oh you your body count is 35 oh that's awesome you know or whatever oh okay wow very
02:04:37.540interesting yeah there it is how did you come along that or the you know you know um dating's
02:04:44.340so terrible around here men are just so terrible aren't they yeah okay yeah huh yeah and you know
02:04:52.340all these men are terrible and my ex-boyfriend was terrible okay oh wow okay what kind of oh
02:04:59.780interesting like that all of us are just talking about she's like what are your political beliefs
02:05:08.420you know i really believe men and women are i believe in equality
02:05:15.780just be listening bro and then just make the decision on the back end you don't even have
02:05:20.260to confront the opponent like let me read you off these myron points and cga and pearl talking
02:05:25.540points nah just let it be let that person back out into the wild man if that's not really you know
02:05:32.180if that really doesn't go with your vibe i'll be like okay cool you ain't for me i wouldn't even
02:05:36.580tap it neither guys stay away from it because that's gonna put you in a situation so i think
02:05:42.340there's no responsibility guys control your own destiny and then everybody like pearl they're
02:05:48.100tools but don't blame them you are grown you're oh no wait hold on pearl you're a colonizer so
02:05:52.580we got to blame you right oh my god not again yo your contract was lit it i'm trying to get
02:06:00.580signed underneath that i get to keep my rights and everything oh hell all right come on man
02:06:06.100yo do you know it's crazy i was losing so much money on these channels i know you was i know i
02:06:12.660I had to cut him because, like, oh, my God.
02:06:16.720Then I'm, like, I'm losing money and I'm a colonizer.
02:28:32.020And so what responsibility do you think that content creators have for men's actions in 2025?
02:28:39.600Honestly, I don't know that I get a lot of hate for this one.
02:28:42.560I don't think that any, if you're going to come online and you're going to spout whatever speech you want, speech is free.
02:28:48.240I don't, I don't think you've necessarily, unless you, unless you've signed a non-disclosure account, I don't think you really have any accountability, any responsibilities for anything.